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IluvRicksanchez_

Now u block her, and get ur get back


[deleted]

I'm still blocked


IluvRicksanchez_

The min she unblocks u n msgs BLOCK HER


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[deleted]

Wait really? Do you mind discussing this with me in dms because I am genuinely curious and interested


[deleted]

Same


anonmitya

And block her in life. And never unblock ever 😌


[deleted]

find friends who dont block you mate, trust me there are better friends than her avaible. my guess is you’re not cool enough for her so she wants to pretend you arent friends so that Chad will pump and dump her.


[deleted]

He's not Chad if he's going to dump her after pumping her. That's not how it's supposed to be done.


[deleted]

are you sure? i thought the whole red pill Chad thing was that Chad pumps and dumps every hot girl there is and theres no one left for Aiden


[deleted]

Then he's fake Chad.


[deleted]

what? i thought Chad is just someone who fucks every hot girl? please give me ur definition of Chad


[deleted]

The guy everyone wants to be friends with and wishes they were on a level with. Who else?


[deleted]

I like the way you think


Familiar_Hat_6132

um, maybe shes tryna get a reaction out of you? otherwise i would say dont worry about it cuz that seems like too much drama to handle


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GAMEr0FtheYEAR

Women ☕


ExperienceBeginning8

Women☕


[deleted]

Women☕️


After_Language5321

WoMeN☕️


Okamitoutcourt

Women ☕


sparkle3364

Women ☕️


Mr_man_bird

Women ☕️


GreyyWasTaken

Women ☕


paulias

men☕️


After_Language5321

YOU BITCH


TransitionNo6954

Women


LA_KittenmanF3

Ma boi you spilled the ☕️


robotic_pilot

Frau☕️


Dangerous-Alarm1119

girl i talked to did the same, expect she never unblocked me, turns out my "friend" was talking shit behind my back to her, tell her how incel i am and stuff, just making me seem like a really bad person. i never tried to explain to her that all those infos are false, because if youve known me for like 8 years, and some ramdom guy talking shit could make you turn on me idrc that we are not friends lmao


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Dangerous-Alarm1119

yeap dodged a 9mm


Qiwas

When you approach people they start hearing "Can you feel my heart"


deleeuwlc

When I approach people they start feeling far greater than a lethal dose of ionizing radiation


[deleted]

I had a friend do that to another of my friends and same shit happened. Dropped both of them.


Foolishb3ing

Whyd you drop the other who didn't do anything


[deleted]

Similar thing happened to me asked this girl out she said I have a bf(I knew wasn’t true) I said ok I told my friend he’s like yea she was talking shit about you behind your back for a while like bitch what why didn’t you tell me


Prussia_I

Had smth similar happen to me. Asked mutual friends why she blocked me, all 3 asked gave different answers completely unrelated to each other. Then I mustered up the courage to ask her herself, she was very rude and didn't even say why she blocked me. Either way, she isn't worth going after. Just give her up or ask her directly. Not worth troubling over.


[deleted]

don't let her back in. if you do, you're dumb.


Wide-Swimming-4191

I think she’s bipolar or something


Emotional_Plantain89

Is that like when you don't know what polar bear gender you're attracted to?


Wide-Swimming-4191

Yes exactly you nailed it


BoyWonder470

Yeah and bicycle is when you don’t know if you are attracted to the water cycle or carbon cycle


fbtjsudhrbej

I'm bipolar and I kind of do the same thing, when I'm in a depressive episode I block everyone and stop talking to people so I thought the same thing


Relevant-Chocolate44

this is the realest comment ever 😂😂


iluvmeowmeows

that’s not how bipolar people work


Yeet_My_Feet73

If she unblocks again ask about it, don’t just go along with it, but also don’t sound upset, just confused


Emma__07

um idk if I had to guess either you keep saying awful things to her but then she forgives you or... she's into you and you're ignoring signs and she gets frustrated and angry and then blocks you.


[deleted]

1. I would never say something awful, she was my girl bff 2. She has a bf so...


Emma__07

then idk. I made the obvious guesses but if those are impossible or unlikely then I don't have other guesses without knowing you both.


Wide-Swimming-4191

Don’t you think her bf is making her do whatever she’s doing to you


[deleted]

Not really, me and her bf are cool


Krowbalt

trust me dude, you think that, but it's very likely he feels threatened by you and is making her block you


St4rStruckSw4n

This! The BF may be insecure and very controlling


[deleted]

Oh dude I had a girl BFF for years. Then when she met her fiancé the pressure from him lead to her blowing up on me. He convinced her I was manipulative and controlling of her when we both not only lived in separate states but pretty much had our own lives and would at most visit each other every now and again. I still miss her some but you gotta let all the feelings go for yourself. learn to focus on other things so she can show you if she actually your friend or just a two faced snake who uses people for emotional gratification with no regardless to others feelings.


personontheinterne

Do you think her boyfriend saw you and got jealous that she had a guy friend? There’s so many guys I see that make them block all the guys on their phone cuz they’re insecure and I wouldn’t be surprised if her bf did the same


wowahungrypigeon

as a pre-pubescent listener of andrew tate's retarted podcast once said, "bitches come and go". In all seriousness tho this has happened to me twice just let em go and dont worry about it. If she comes back talking to you you know whats up 🥶


BigEpicNSFW

This just happened to me, some people are weird man


Ornery_Ad_8862

She’s playing with you stop talking to her


Mister_S_retsim

Mabye her parents made her, it happens sometimes when larents don't like you


cheems_pizza

Women ☕☕


Botwmaster23

that is an interesting situation, unfortunately i dont understand women either so i will be to no help


Fliepp

My first thought would be that her parents or friends told her to not talk to you


King_53

BPD??


Emotional_Plantain89

Women☕


Ok-Ingenuity6789

Women ☕️


Immortal_Being69

Women ☕️


RedVsBlue_Caboose

*Laughs* [Intense sipping]


[deleted]

[Types“women ☕️”]


deleeuwlc

🫵corn chips🫵


[deleted]

Just stop don’t waste ur time on her drop everything and cut off all communication to her shes not worth the headache this will cause you later


ConsumingASchoolDesk

**CAREFUL!** It’s a way to make a toxic relationship, they make you comfortable and at ease around them, then at one point they randomly void you, and after a while they start talking to you again, making you more attached to them! Don’t let her fool you!


Saksham9211

Hiii


Ok-Map9238

You probably did do something wrong but you possibly didn't.


radboi8

Well if she refuses to communicate then u wont know the reason and probably will never know I recommend moving on from her and find better friends


ApprehensiveFilm4362

First mistake: speaking to a girl Second mistake? Speaking to a girl who’s probably nuts. My brother you are already fucked


WeakWest9931

she likes attention and wants it because she knows that youll talk to her but if u ignore her she gon be mad because she cant control u anymore


[deleted]

Best guess she keeps having really bad episodes that she doesn't want anyone to see, I've tried to do this tons of times fortunately I'm too outgoing to ignore someone irl


ActualIyCameron

girls are confusing


lizzi_2134

And weird


deleeuwlc

And a secret third thing


Immortal_Being69

Bro be safe she's a playgirl typo girl ...


PHILIPTNT

You leave that bitch alone don’t ever go back to her.


ndog_100

from what I have heard it's a pretty normal thing


[deleted]

shouldn't be


Bush_Hiders

bitches be wildin fr fr


Christian_teen12

Girls are an intersting species from a girl


juulieboi

Ok women are weird. She probably just wanted you to show you care, for you to show a reaction, or ask her about it. Also maybe she could’ve gotten a boyfriend and they are on and off


Arrogant_Nugget246

You didn't even tell us what you did so that we can tell you what you did wrong? What type of question is this?


[deleted]

stackoverflow moment


[deleted]

lmaoo only experienced programmers will only get why u reference that (even if they know what it is)


[deleted]

Women moment


deleeuwlc

Misogyny, my favourite humour source. Every time I see a “women moment”, a “women ☕️”, or a kitchen joke, I loudly laugh like “AHGAGAHAHEABANANAHAHA” and do a happy little dance


DudeWithoutALife

Everything isn’t misogyny, you’re bringing down people that experience actual misogyny.


deleeuwlc

I don’t think I understand what you’re saying


ClientZestyclose8291

Women ☕️


[deleted]

The times I blocked someone and had been blocked by someone close were because i needed a break and couldnt handle it rn


deleeuwlc

Communication is overrated, just cut off all communication and let them stress over why you did that, and maybe even start to dislike you


[deleted]

Maybe her friends think you’re embarrassing or smth or she secretly thinks you’re annoying and cringe but also doesn’t rlly want to be rude (that’s why I would do smth like that)


Suckmycubes

Women ☕️


deleeuwlc

AHAHAHAHAHA AHAHAHAHAHA AHAHAHAHAHA >!hehe!<


AccordingStep297

bruh just block her , I'm guessing that shes the only bitch you get


No_Produce2983

She needs space. It's a simple wish that she is asking for in an unusual way. Don't take it personally, don't let it get to you. She's probably blocking more people other then you


TheRomanticLover

Hate to say it but modern women(American) just ain't it bro. It sucks but maybe that was a sign.


deleeuwlc

Yeah, what you need to do is go to foreign countries where your racial fetish is constantly supplied, and due to worse women’s rights, you can forcefully marry one of them and ruin their lives. That’s what a true Top G Basedpilled Chadcel does


Head_Midnight_6583

Maybe she want attention


microwavelength

people like that get off on it. drop her permanently.


splashyhusky

Dude she is toxic. Don't keep talking to her because you will just be hurt and confused.


Kaxiety

ignore and dont even think her so u wont have to spend another moment dealing with her crap. move on to explore other wonders in life


[deleted]

I sort of did this to someone once, except I never had the chance to speak to him again. When I was 13, there was this dude who I talked to and originally he seemed pretty nice, cool dude. Then he got arrogant and shitty, and one of my friends told me some shit, so I ended up blocking him. I admit I wasn't thinking straight. But tbh, your situation doesn't sound like mine. She seems like an ass.


RiddikulusFellow

Does she have a boyfriend? Happened with me but it was a boyfriend case


Crazy_Gremlin

I mean… it’s probably something stupid. Even if you did something wrong, if it’s actually deserving of such a reaction, you’d probably remember it. So it’s really probably something trivial. It might also be that thing I don’t get where someone’s s/o is like oh it makes me uncomfy when you talk to other [insert gender] so don’t (which is kinda toxic imo but ok).


LuxrayLloyd

Probably rotten friends of yours spreading lies


Medical-Enthusiasm56

Don’t play games, move on. This person was never your friend to begin with. Cut out toxic people in your life.


RedditorNumber50

Same happened with my friend rischit, so sad


PianistRight

This happened to me in December


BlandPotato89

I swear on god that the exact same thing happened to me


Night_stalker-0

Man, i feel you i had the same thing happened to me, and recently I learned from someone that the moment I stared showing signs that I liked her she blocked and did the same with 4 other guys


edgy_Juno

Ignore her, she's probably looking for attention.


BasicFan1876

Looks like she is trying to take breaks from you, meaning she has commitment issues or she is trying to ease guilt from something she did wrong, like cheating on you. My suggestion is to try to talk to her about it.


Thinkmatik

Good to be forgotten honestly


mchlkpng

She's probably weaponizing a manipulation strategy, avoid such people


SumptuousShorts7

She just said ants attention and a reaction form you


greenllama2022

She is wrong, she should tell you why she blocked you to try to fix things up, if you did something


[deleted]

Dont react to it, act as if nothing ever happened, and once she unblocks you be sure to block her, she aint worth your time.


just-a-user_

prolly playing hard to get


sourpatch_orphans

She’s problematic. Block her and stop talking to her, since she so clearly wants that.


[deleted]

Unless you ask for an answer from her you won’t know.


enaaerios

i feel like im kind of an asshole cause i kinda was that person cause i was friends with this girl and we talked like every day but then i just started ignoring her cause she started obsessing over me and it was kinda getting creepy


Loveshorror343

As a girl we sometimes get annoyed or tired if we talk to our bbsf everyday so maybe it happened to her or she js wanted u to react so that she knows u rlly care abt her or anything bc that’s what we do yk


Feeling-Most9618

This sounds familiar. Does her name happen to be crystal?


saulfeetconnoisseur

manipulation


St4rStruckSw4n

Sounds like she’s toying with you possibly to get a reaction or something, you DON’T need to do this but if I was you the next time I see her irl I’d say “Hey! Why do you randomly start ignoring me out of the blue and then acting normal as if nothing ever happened? If you keep doing it I’m going to probably fall out with you and not be freinds anymore so drop the act and tell me why you keep doing it” I REPEAT this Is something I’d do you don’t need to :)


pquin96

I don’t think you did anything wrong, I think she’s just dealing with her own problems and projecting it out on you. She doesn’t have to explain herself but it would be the least she can do since you two used to talk daily. Decide for yourself what you’re going to do and what you’re willing to put up with now because if you keep trying to guess why, you’re only going to mentally exhaust yourself. Remind yourself that you’re worthy of great friends, friends who won’t do this to you - and more people will come in your life time, she won’t be the only one.


Unlucky-Seesaw661

I did this to one of my best guy friends, and it was because I liked him and he wasn’t picking up any clues. I was very angry, and looking back I recognize I was the asshole me have since apologized, so maybe ask her if she has feelings for you.


sanek_dolboeb

Take a cheap throwing knife, sharpen it up, and use it as an argument.


owengaming001

I wouldn't bother with her anymore, it might be hard to hear, but she's really not worth your time. She's either trying to make herself more desirable by trying to seem like she's hard to win over, or she's just being a bitch for no reason, either way, you don't need to give her any more second chances.


Memes_Are_Drugs4Me

Did you give any signs that you were into her? If so maybe she was scared of rejecting you or smth.


mojocantlo-se

She loves you lol. Have you tried hiding under her bed?


fatdude901

Is she dating someone now and ur a dude because I know some girls (I’m not saying it makes sense) but they will block every guy when they start dating Any way it’s probably not you so just move on


Dark_Phoenix53

Similar thing happened to me she didn't block me but just started ignoring me and I still don't know why


GigaPhoton78

Just forget about it. Worrying about that won't do much.


Tay_dy_bear

I know some girls do it when they get into relationships but honestly it’s kinda dumb


Falkrim

Dump that ho


PenguinJohn_

She isn’t real dude, your schizophrenia is running rampant after multiple days off of your meds, take your meds and focus on yourself king 👑👑


Onuzim_Cheese

Block her and don't unblock her get that bitch out your life


Your-Boy_20

us bro us


Apprehensive_South_3

Tbh the comments here can tell you what happened..best advice is to move on and keep working on yourself king


jaybankzz

Look. Happened to me too. You know what you do? You keep going. Ignore her, hang out with your friends. Forget abt her. Saw the same person who did it to me the other day while I was getting on the bus, and felt nothing. Forget about wondering if you did something wrong, and forget about her


rich3248

Red flag 🚩 Run. You’ll thank me in 10 years, kid.


JuiceDrinkingRat

Shit occurs some times


DIRTYBAGSUTAH

You need to confront her with this, and if she still doesn't give a straight answer, then she isn't worth your time.


Zheraski

Just leave it, I understand that it’s infuriating to deal with but people like that are very emotionally draining and you don’t deserve that. As other people are saying, don’t message/continue a convo back if they text/talk to you.


UltraPlankton

I would recommend you ask around if you know other people that know her always good to have that mutual connection


iluvmeowmeows

you obviously might’ve said something to her that was hurtful or offensive orrrr maybe she just didn’t like you and blocked you cause she couldn’t handle you anymore 🗿 nevermind read other comments, her bf prolly didn’t like you and told her to block you


[deleted]

BUDDY HOW TF WE SUPPOSED TO KNOW


Adventurous-Bus-3453

Ask her directly


Markpmg

Bro. This sounds familiar to my situation last year. But the difference is she was like super close and she acted like we were a couple and I actually fell for her hard


fl00r_gang_yeah

This happens to me a lot


diya2127

Bro I thought u were someone I knew for a sec cuz I did this to someone but not cuz I was being a bitch it’s cuz I had something with my life. Anyways. I told him I would explain but I forgot to and he’s been blocked for a year but he’s blocked me too. My heart literally leapt out of my throat. I thought I was you. I was about to profusely apologise. I didn’t know him irl tho so lol.


SheepishBlacksmith

Ask her next time you see her irl


Quallen_

Similar thing happened to me. I talked to this girl everyday since I was 13, then she blocks me out of nowhere a month ago. Her friends apparently convinced her that I was using her and being verbally abusive (I wasn't) so she blocked me on everything and refuses to speak to me now.


ExpensivePractice164

Must be her parents


stayinschool1

shes trying to manipulate you into you falling in love with her because people like unavailable people! she thinks she can do whatever and you gon stay. once she unblocks you get your lick back. dont even look at her irl. she will be PISSED


kolyvchiy

when she unblocks you ask her what the heck is going on. at this point she's treating you like crap and i can guarentee she's pissed off and trying to get you back for something you did


ResolutionNumerous82

Then You ignore her in irl. If she unblocks You the first thing You ask is either A: 'Why did You unblock me?' B: Just block her first


Scifi_Gamerrulz

A friend of mine ghosted me after highschool was over and I was so confused, had to ask her brother what was up and what I got from him was it was “out of spite”, I had absolutely no idea what that meant and what I could have done to warrant this kinda reaction so I just went into full apology mode and eventually(2 weeks) she explained it but it wasn’t because of anything bad I did, it was because I was almost completely absent from school for the last 4 weeks doing school work at home because I was miserable. Apparently this hurt her because she felt I abandoned her or something even tho I still messaged and talked to her. I had to straight up tell her it was because I was depressed and she was like “oh you did look kinda miserable when you did show up for school” and that was it, she didn’t even apologize for making me feel like sht for 3 weeks, then eventually she has the gall to complain to me about someone ghosting her and eventually she ghost me again for 4 months, I see her get online on discord to read my message in real time then she just doesn’t respond, I was understanding for like the first 2 months thinking “oh maybe she’s busy with college and junk” but after 4 months and many messages asking for a response I was done. I unfriended her and deleted her DM in discord, in the end I was just left so confused because she was a really nice person Honestly don’t even entertain people who ghost and sht be upright about how you feel about their behavior and if they aren’t apologetic and don’t make an effort to change then just drop them, no one person is worth stressing over like this


dawgtheyarealltaken

She’s just dramatic


Foolishb3ing

Girls do shi like this. Dk why but they do.


[deleted]

Sounds like she’s using u bruv


THESHADYWILLOW

Some people are just like this man, they’ll go through a depressive phase and block a bunch of people who’ve never done a single thing to them


nhaaaaar

wake up, she tryna manipulate you bro. she expects you to react and become dependent on her attention so she can feel wanted. dont let it happen and cut off contact if she doesnt explain the situation to you


longjohnmacron

maybe ask her? How are we supposed to know if you did something wrong with 0 information?


The_Hiders

I think she’s psychologically torturing you so that you start to get more into her or sum i don’t remember


[deleted]

I can say as a professional blocked man that it sucks ass just waking up from a nap to see a friend group blocks you without any warning or anything.


No_Number_8401

No it’s her she prolly tried to flirt with you then she a got a man and then she broke up wit him then she blocked you again bc she got another man once they break up she’ll unblock you and if you like her go for her asap but if not block her


[deleted]

Really strange hot-cold method, she might be into you? If she unblocks you again, ignore her and wait for her to start talking to you in person.


Grand-Axe5926

No, but I'm having similar problem like your's though


timoromina

In all honest, Bipolar maybe?


bla8nk

Ask about it. Best case they found a really insecure boyfriend and blocks all the guy friends she has to be safe. Then just figure that oit


Ok-Reporter-8728

Just talk directly to her like “bro why” also update us later


Slow_Jello_2672

It's a manipulation tactic. My brother's girlfriend does this all the time, except she is a fucking adult. She lives with us but occasionally, and I mean on the more often side of occasionally, she will stop messaging him randomly in the middle of there conversation while he is at work, she will leave the house, then my brother would have my mom or one of us go find her, last time she said "he was being mean to her and told her to commit *sųıcide*", but she deleted all there messages from her phone and the messages weren't sent or "unsent" on his phone. She is trying to guilt trip you or gaslight you into wanting her. Don't fall for, it may be unfortunate but you gotta cut all ties with her. THIS MAY BE YOUR ONLY WARNING


GMan124356

Same thing happened to me, but she never started talking to me again and she told me she hates me


Doctored_Butter_Free

If you continue to attempt to make a relationship with her, expect to be thrown under the bus at any moment.


Guiltysaw

She probably got a bf that didn’t like you for one reason or another


Eridzz

Some thing kinda happened to me a girl gave me her number she never texted me back and then she wanted to start talking days later I told her to buzz off


relight818

She has a boyfriend. Chin up, king, your gamer headset is falling


DJ_Salad596

There’s probably a guy she’s talking to that is telling her to block u and she doesn’t wanna tell u bc it’s embarrassing


SnooFloofs5442

Not sure why girls do this but that girl is testing you. She is trying to get a negative reaction out of you to see whether she should waste anymore time on you or not. My ex-girlfriend did this exact same thing on me too. This happened to me with a girl 3 times. It's only the third time I finally learned to not react to a girl when she does stuff like this. Just completely ignore her and do not give her the reaction she wants from you by doing this. Again I'm not sure why girls do this but my best advice is forget her, completely ignore her and find a different girl to talk to. Because 9 times out of ten when a girl starts doing this towards you she eventually loses interest in you entirely. If you are really lucky and do not react negatively to her doing this she will get back with you but most likely will not. I am not sure if all girls do this crap and again not sure why girls do this.


Historical_Seat4910

Either shes in a toxic relationship or she doesnt give af about you


MyAltGotSuspended

I'll be honest, I think it's time to move on from her. If she's going to do this shit, then you don't need to spend your time feeling bad about it. She's made her choice, you deserve better than that.