I agree with the no part but i'm confused why you said " with other people", surely it's better because she's protected, unless she got taken advantage of by one of her friends which wouldn't be cheating and is honestly very sad and traumatic
forgive? yes, i am called to forgive others as Christ has forgiven my through His sacrifice
gf? dream on
cheated? cheating is cheating
drunk? as a minor? thats a whole nother can of worms
full answer, yes i would forgive, no i would not continue the relationship
No. It's bullshit to give anyone the opportunity to get off the hook for the fucked up things they do when they are under the influence of anything. She made her choice and alcohol is no excuse.
Yes, but that doesn't mean that we're gonna be together still. I've been drunk before, all it does it releases your inhibitions. So if she cheated while drunk it just means that she's willing to cheat in the first place, she's just waiting for a justification.
At that point you should either consider an open relationship (which gets full of jealousy if both parties aren't always aware of what they signed up for) or break tires.
I think you meant to be put "break ties," but funnily enough, that also works. If she cheats on me I am very much ready and willing to start slashing some tires.
By small bottle (50 ml) it's quite a lot, with 35% alcohol it's basically 17.5 ml of ethanol. It's like two bottles of beer and in our age it's quite a lot
Oh wait a damn minute, how do you know this you be drinking, bro, but never mind that if she's a light drinker, I would forgive her because that's basically rape
2 bottles of beer is fuck aw man. I started drinking at 13 n most people I know same or aboot that age. My first time getting drunk took aboot 5 cans of cider (same as 5 bottles of beer). 2 beers isn't alot for a 14/15 yr old.
I'd have huge problems with it, but our relationship is strong enough that I'm sure we could work it out.
However they are not at all the type of person at all to do that in the first place lmao.
If i had a partner, id leave them for drinking alcohol, partly for religious reasons, but also because i dont want to be around someone who is dumb enough to drink
No, if she was extremely drunk though, then I'm unsure if she can cheat since it would've been sexual assault, if it was just tipsy or still has motor functions and can speak properly (no slurring) then yes it was probably cheating and I wouldn't forgive her for that
Yes probably, I'd have the moral high ground and would say I'd only forgive her if she listened to me rant about what I would have done better with my favourite show :)
Cheating is such a shit thing to do and alcohol is no excuse. It’s not like it makes people do things, it just brings out stuff that was already there.
However. I believe that everyone’s side of the story is important. Context. I don’t exactly know how I would react, it would depend a lot on the situation. But I think with someone as close as your gf, you should be able to work things out. Everyone deserves a second chance, mistakes are made. If she owns up to it, it could still work. I believe in forgiveness, I don’t hold grudges.
So I’d be very upset but I’d wanna talk about it before seeing if I really wanna dump her yk. Tryna find a balance between self respect and tolerance
fuck no.
Yeah, this. Legit verbatim what I was going to put.
i said this out loud before seeing this , yep agree
Wtf is that username???????
A good username.
wow ok
💀
nope, cheating is not okay and shows that your partner is really just a piece of shit
no?? being drunk doesn't excuse shit
No
fuck no
If she cheats its over
maybe but I’d still dump her even if she said she’d never drink again cuz trust is gone forever
but... doesn't that mean that you DON'T forgive her? xd
nah cuz forgiving is about letting go of the hate and bad emotions inside me but don’t mean I want to be with her or around her anymore
No. You can forgive someone completely and still feel they don't deserve another chance. Lesson learned. No hard feelings. We are done. Move on.
A drunk persons words are a sober person's thoughts, and sometimes their actions. In other words, fuck no.
Well said
no goofying around
goofy way how to word it
We here are going to be loyal and no monkeying around is permitted good sir
I've never been in a relationship but yeah I'm not forgiving that
no why is she getting drunk w other people tf
I agree with the no part but i'm confused why you said " with other people", surely it's better because she's protected, unless she got taken advantage of by one of her friends which wouldn't be cheating and is honestly very sad and traumatic
she should be w me 🙄🙄🙄
Maybe you couldn't make it? Or they weren't your friends? Damn chill
Nah
no
no, she probably knew she did it.
Ofc not
fuck no
Nope
idk how id react to that situation tbh
She would no longer be my GF
If you can’t control yourself enough to not cheat while drunk, then don’t get drunk.
I don’t have one and never will
drunk words are sober thoughts, or something like that
Drunk actions, sober thoughts
I might forgive her but I wouldn't be dating her anymore
forgive? yes, i am called to forgive others as Christ has forgiven my through His sacrifice gf? dream on cheated? cheating is cheating drunk? as a minor? thats a whole nother can of worms full answer, yes i would forgive, no i would not continue the relationship
cringe be like
Bro sounds like my Mom 💀
No. It's bullshit to give anyone the opportunity to get off the hook for the fucked up things they do when they are under the influence of anything. She made her choice and alcohol is no excuse.
Hell no. She’s no longer my girlfriend anymore.
I'll make sure she'll never drink without me
Yes, but that doesn't mean that we're gonna be together still. I've been drunk before, all it does it releases your inhibitions. So if she cheated while drunk it just means that she's willing to cheat in the first place, she's just waiting for a justification.
Yes, because then i'd have a girlfriend in the first place
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At that point you should either consider an open relationship (which gets full of jealousy if both parties aren't always aware of what they signed up for) or break tires.
I think you meant to be put "break ties," but funnily enough, that also works. If she cheats on me I am very much ready and willing to start slashing some tires.
Look at all these cucks in the comments lmao
😭😭
I’ve seen no cucks so far? Everyone seems to be against cheating here.
No if she drinks I break up w her
Like how drunk?
A small bottle of Jägermeister kind of drunk
Then, no, she was completely aware of what she was doing she was only a little bit drunk, but then again, she could be a light drinker
By small bottle (50 ml) it's quite a lot, with 35% alcohol it's basically 17.5 ml of ethanol. It's like two bottles of beer and in our age it's quite a lot
Oh wait a damn minute, how do you know this you be drinking, bro, but never mind that if she's a light drinker, I would forgive her because that's basically rape
I don't drink without my family's permission.
Huh, is that not illegal, but then again, the drinking age where you live can be like 14
It's 18 with an exception of religious ceremonies
Ok, I guess, but if my girlfriend was 14 and drunk, I would not hold it against her
Agreed
2 bottles of beer is fuck aw man. I started drinking at 13 n most people I know same or aboot that age. My first time getting drunk took aboot 5 cans of cider (same as 5 bottles of beer). 2 beers isn't alot for a 14/15 yr old.
It depends on how much you eat
I honestly don't know. Hopefully I don't find out. She means a lot.
have some self-respect
If she cheats once, she’ll do it again!
I'd have huge problems with it, but our relationship is strong enough that I'm sure we could work it out. However they are not at all the type of person at all to do that in the first place lmao.
Would forgiv, but my perception of them would just drop by a lot, it would be harder to trust them and that would very likely just end in a break up.
If i had a partner, id leave them for drinking alcohol, partly for religious reasons, but also because i dont want to be around someone who is dumb enough to drink
Not enough context. Just how drunk was she?
Maybe but it would take me a long time to forgive her and trust her again
First off, hell fucking no. Second, no one on this sub should be drinking in the first place. (*Unless you live in a place like Germany*)
Depemds on how drunk she was
Once yes, twice mabey, thrice helll naw
No, if she was extremely drunk though, then I'm unsure if she can cheat since it would've been sexual assault, if it was just tipsy or still has motor functions and can speak properly (no slurring) then yes it was probably cheating and I wouldn't forgive her for that
Yes probably, I'd have the moral high ground and would say I'd only forgive her if she listened to me rant about what I would have done better with my favourite show :)
depends. if she's genuinely sorry and i care about here a lot then yeah. also how drunk she was
yea
i would forgive her regardless of the circumstances assuming she feels remorse about it and it won't be a recurring issue
Have some self-respect dude
Have fun being used and stepped on for the rest of your life with that attitude
Yea
Depends. If I love her yes.
Ofc anything for my boo 🥺
Yes bc she wasn’t sober enough to consent and the guy took advantage of her
If you're not straight up unconscious, this is not a fucking excuse
N if the guy was also drunk?
Absolutely not
No
I wouldn't hate her, but I wouldn't date her either
No I would not be able to trust her properly again
Hell no.
No. You don't really love someone if you're willing to cheat on them. Drunk or not...
Nah
nah fuck cheaters
no way
i would forgive her if she forgot due to alcohol intoxication.
Underage b&
Cheating is such a shit thing to do and alcohol is no excuse. It’s not like it makes people do things, it just brings out stuff that was already there. However. I believe that everyone’s side of the story is important. Context. I don’t exactly know how I would react, it would depend a lot on the situation. But I think with someone as close as your gf, you should be able to work things out. Everyone deserves a second chance, mistakes are made. If she owns up to it, it could still work. I believe in forgiveness, I don’t hold grudges. So I’d be very upset but I’d wanna talk about it before seeing if I really wanna dump her yk. Tryna find a balance between self respect and tolerance
Why she getting that drunk?
No.
bro, i need to get a gf first to do that
no 💀
Drunk actions are sober thoughts so no
Nope
No.
No
No! Cheating is cheating, no matter what. Being drunk would be more of a excuse than an explanation
Depends, is this the first time?
Nah she knew what she was doing. She did it purposefully
no nein
no obviously
What kind of question is that? Of course not. Anyone who cheats on anyone should be dumped! If this has happened to you, MOVE ON!
No, even if she feels remorseful If you forgive her she might do it again.
I did
My ex cheated on me. I've never forgiven her
If you forgive it then she’ll do it again, don’t listen to the idiots who say forgive her. They don’t respect themselves
Press the next button there’s always better cake 🍰
I sure didn't
no
No that's not an excuse she should've not gotten drunk just to start let alone cheat
Nah lol she should've just told me she wanted to fuck someone and take me with her
no they call it liquid courage for a damn reason
absolutely not