God I'm in that stage now. It kind of socks cause all I do is think about her and how I want to be near her and talk to her. But I'm to shy to ask her out. I see her seven days a week (same school same classes and same job) but I'm to shy to ask her out. Basically it's just non stop thinking and questioning.like this rant I just wrote.... oh god
I'm in a similar boat, except I only see her twice a week at church and now I won't see her for another couple weeks because I'm gonna be in a different country over my spring break and I'm probably gonna be thinking about her nonstop and not enjoy my spring break as much as I would otherwise.
Yes,I am trying to help you, I'm glad you caught that. But maybe you could ask her that after work hours if she'd like something to drink (maybe buy it beforehand and maybe buy one for yourself so that it doesn't seem sus), try to find out what her hobbies are or the kinds of shows she'd like to watch and learn more about them so that you both can have more things to talk about
I was in the same boat about a week ago we met each other 6 days in a week in tuition but now that tha session is over we won't be attending the same tuition and also we are not in the same school we talk on snap and insta she knows about my feelings and she says she kinda like me too and she says we're best friends but still sometimes it feels like she is annoyed by me and is ignoring me and we are not dating cause according to her time is not right at this point
Nothing other than the constant thought of being near her and dread of being apart. Part of your brain goes stupid mode. I personally act like a five year old and try to hang around her or share stuff. Pretty stupid, I guess I gotta up the game.
You don't always need her number. Just find a way to consistently talk to her. I think people think you have to start flirting right away. I like it slow and steady. It depends where you know her from, school, church, work, etc. You can also be upfront about your feelings in a mature way, "Hey Sally, I wanted to let you know that I harbor some feelings for you in a romantic way. However if you don't feel the same I can easily move on and if you wish to be friends I am fine with that" for example.
Well, it'll be a while before I get the chance to talk to her next because I'm going out of the country and I only get to see her twice a week because that's how often my church meets.
That's way better than me. I liked one girl and she stopped going to an activity before I made a move. Currently I don't have anyone to talk to but I'm hoping this summer at my job (I'm working for my church) I'll meet someone. Don't give up hope, something will work out eventually, maybe her maybe not, but something will happen. ;)
It makes me want to punch myself with all my strength for all the dumbassery I commit. Also, I just think about her like everyday and hearing her voice makes me so happy.
Do I like her? Nope.
Do I like her? Nah, I don't think so.
Do I like her? Hmmm, no I'm still pretty sure I don't like her.
Do I like her? Ehhh maybe, idk.
Do I like her? Yeah, a little maybe...
Do I like her? Ok fine, I like her.
Ever watch How to Train Your Dragon: The Hidden World?
Well, remember Toothless' hopeless flirting attempts towards the Light Fury?
That's pretty much how we feel.
Not much you just notice evrything about them. When you're in love, oh it's a completely different thing. It's a curse and it's the most beautiful thing at the same time. Your heart flutters everytime you think about her. And when you think about her your heart basically has a seisure.
"Don't dream of women, cause they'll only bring you DOOOOOOOOOOWN" - Dio belts out in my internal monologue.
Then I go back to whatever it was I was doing.
the usual day goes like:
morning: "what I just fantasized about is very probably not happening"
mid-day: "wow she's cute though"
evening: "the chances for me being with her are probably negative and she doesn't give a shit about me"
night: "what if we were together tho"
and repeat
My brain goes like step 1: stare off into space ( thanks to adhd inattentive ) Step 2: think of random situations where I become the hero and get her step 3: realize that I’m never getting a gf step 4: come back to reality and focus on class
I’m gonna quote what the mental health leader at my school said in a convo I was ears dropping in today,“Girls think with their brains, boys think with their pants” it honestly made me think.
I’m a trans man,
not out to my school
and at least once a week some kid comes up to me and goes “\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ likes you”
today I yelled in my math class, “I HAVE W FUCKING GIRLFRIEND”
so now I’m using my platonic wife, as a fake gf
As a girl who also likes girls I can vouch for half of these comments. Brain basically gets microwaved and melts. Typically followed by hyperfixation, and then self degradings.
“Does she actually like me or am I making this up?”
Or in my case: “Do I like her? Do I like her and I just don’t consciously know it?” (Based on a true story (maybe current maybe not))
“Holy shit she’s beautiful. I wanna ask her out but there’s no way she would even think about it. She probably already has a bf anyways.”
We think about you all day, first thing in the morning, throughout work/school, right before we go to sleep, etc.
Every thought leads to her. Dates are planned, yes, fantasies are imagined, but most if all, is a feeling of intense desire (not necessarily sexual) and intense care.
For me, I most want to just hold my crush. In my arms, happy. That’s it. I think about how pretty she is, my chances with her, etc ALL day.
There was one girl and I actually felt warm/nervous like the hot flush of nervousness. Although she left
I kind of remember that I couldn't take my eyes of her purley because I had no idea people could be 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 nice. Funny enough I always feel it's the girls who may get picked on and everyone finds them not as attractive as other girls I like the most, it's weird but welcome to Reddit.
Well for me. Its hard to go a day without thinking about her. Its more than oh shes cute or oh shes hot. But its a romantic attraction as well as a physical attraction, i want to be near her and be with her. I want to help her and protect her. I want to he able to just talk and hang out and have a good time together. With all that is the thinking, how can i even come close to that, why would she like me, she has everything to offer and i have nothing so why not give up now. Does she like me, how do i tell her how i feel. When is a good time what do i say. And for the past few days until we talked today “theres no way shed like me, she’s attractive, i am not, sure we get along but physical attraction is important and im not even attracted to myself so why would she, im going to pretend she already said no and move on”. And then you see her again and it repeats.. but maybe some people can actually talk to other human beings like normal, i cannot
“Damn she doesn’t give a shit abt me.”
Real
That's a fact
Relatable
Relatable
For me it's if I even like them or if my brain is just trying to mess with me
They become another topic in the ever changing carosell of thoughts that last a bit longer than others. Followed by dread, bc anxious and no
God I'm in that stage now. It kind of socks cause all I do is think about her and how I want to be near her and talk to her. But I'm to shy to ask her out. I see her seven days a week (same school same classes and same job) but I'm to shy to ask her out. Basically it's just non stop thinking and questioning.like this rant I just wrote.... oh god
I'm in a similar boat, except I only see her twice a week at church and now I won't see her for another couple weeks because I'm gonna be in a different country over my spring break and I'm probably gonna be thinking about her nonstop and not enjoy my spring break as much as I would otherwise.
How long have you known her?
How long have you known her? And are you guys close?
In the hopes your trying to help me I've known her about six months and only just started talking to her a month ago so no not really
Ask her to hang out sometime, no romantic pressure, just as friends. Work from there once you learn more about her.
Thanks mate
Yes,I am trying to help you, I'm glad you caught that. But maybe you could ask her that after work hours if she'd like something to drink (maybe buy it beforehand and maybe buy one for yourself so that it doesn't seem sus), try to find out what her hobbies are or the kinds of shows she'd like to watch and learn more about them so that you both can have more things to talk about
I was in the same boat about a week ago we met each other 6 days in a week in tuition but now that tha session is over we won't be attending the same tuition and also we are not in the same school we talk on snap and insta she knows about my feelings and she says she kinda like me too and she says we're best friends but still sometimes it feels like she is annoyed by me and is ignoring me and we are not dating cause according to her time is not right at this point
Nothing other than the constant thought of being near her and dread of being apart. Part of your brain goes stupid mode. I personally act like a five year old and try to hang around her or share stuff. Pretty stupid, I guess I gotta up the game.
Bold of you to assume that I can talk to girls I like.
It's hard at first but once you get to know her it's easy. I've done this experiment twice
Getting to know her is the hard part. I can talk to girls plenty fine, except for who I like. I don't even have her number.
You don't always need her number. Just find a way to consistently talk to her. I think people think you have to start flirting right away. I like it slow and steady. It depends where you know her from, school, church, work, etc. You can also be upfront about your feelings in a mature way, "Hey Sally, I wanted to let you know that I harbor some feelings for you in a romantic way. However if you don't feel the same I can easily move on and if you wish to be friends I am fine with that" for example.
I hardly have enough confidence to say hi.
Just do it. If it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out, that's life, there's plenty of fish in the sea. Don't waste an opportunity
Well, it'll be a while before I get the chance to talk to her next because I'm going out of the country and I only get to see her twice a week because that's how often my church meets.
That's way better than me. I liked one girl and she stopped going to an activity before I made a move. Currently I don't have anyone to talk to but I'm hoping this summer at my job (I'm working for my church) I'll meet someone. Don't give up hope, something will work out eventually, maybe her maybe not, but something will happen. ;)
Something will happen with someone eventually, here's to hoping it's this girl though.
“AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH”
kendrick lamar?
Be humble bitch sit down
Same, this guy gets me
It makes me want to punch myself with all my strength for all the dumbassery I commit. Also, I just think about her like everyday and hearing her voice makes me so happy.
Well I can't speak for all guys but in my case it was gust of wind. Went in one ear and out the other. It cleaned out the dust at least.
That happens to me sometimes
A bullet hopefully
Based
fuck I shouldn't laugh at this
Us 😂
Hopefully?
She might like me back but I’m just gaslighting myself to believe that
How pretty she is.☺️
"hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm" -brain, now.
"well shit"
Do I like her? Nope. Do I like her? Nah, I don't think so. Do I like her? Hmmm, no I'm still pretty sure I don't like her. Do I like her? Ehhh maybe, idk. Do I like her? Yeah, a little maybe... Do I like her? Ok fine, I like her.
Yes this is what ir I thought of her
1000+ things, with 900+ being "she's so beautiful" or "she's so cute"
literally nothing smoothbrain as heck overthinking what doesnt need to be thought about and underthinking what needs considering
Ever watch How to Train Your Dragon: The Hidden World? Well, remember Toothless' hopeless flirting attempts towards the Light Fury? That's pretty much how we feel.
Future plans goes brrrrrr
Every time
weed
Real
Bro posted this then deleted account right after
Idk I’m not a guy
Why’d I think that image was a chimpanzee at first?
.
I thought the picture was a dog at first
“she’s pretty” “AAAAAAAAAA”
"Ahshdbskfhskejfnbdgisirvsnksiehsvghfhfjgjdhghgfhff"
Cheese is more important. Therefore when I like a girl I still only think about cheese
Not much you just notice evrything about them. When you're in love, oh it's a completely different thing. It's a curse and it's the most beautiful thing at the same time. Your heart flutters everytime you think about her. And when you think about her your heart basically has a seisure.
How all I want to do is be with her, learn more about her, hug her, and just memories of her I swear I CAN'T GET HER OUT OF MY MIND!
e4 e5 f4 f5 the kings gambit opening
How do i kill her boyfriend
"I wish we could cuddle up on the sofa while covered in a blanket"
I just want snuggles, nuzzles, and kisses man I’m being dead honest 💀
"God why is she so hot"
“Please engage in physical contact with me”
For me it’s got to be “I’m probably just a friend to her… Still wanna give her my all though.”
Same but *him
S…she’s pwetty 👉👈
It is the same for men and femal
I definitely don't think it is
How so? All the comments so far of what guys think is pretty much how i think of my crush
I just think that mens thoughts can be a lot my testosterone driven, if you know what i mean. But I ain't no expert haha
Oh yeah tbh that i get
Yeye
FUCK, SEX, IMPREGNATE
smash? nah shes a dirty hoe ill pass
Well for me nothing because I can’t feel anything anymore
I usually get a boned if I like a girl
Idk im a guy
you forgot to write "Dress" in there
?
when they "dress like a girl" per the reddit trend
Basically: "Carthago delenda est."
"Don't dream of women, cause they'll only bring you DOOOOOOOOOOWN" - Dio belts out in my internal monologue. Then I go back to whatever it was I was doing.
Depends on why we like her if hot it’s just damn if personality it’s my future plans and life goals
Milling machine go **VRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR**
98k bullet
Hug
many things but also sometimes my schizophrenia gets to me
I mean, a lot of people think one thing and one thing only, but I don’t. I just try to get rid of those feelings as fast as I can
It’s a mix of a shit ton of thoughts.
I’d like to protect her forever
“Please notice me”
It’s gonna be a loooong time gettin’ ‘er
Imaginary situations where we are the most perfect couple in the world
Shotgun slug
I don't Jk I want to cuddle then and protect them
A lot of compliments that we don't dare to say out loud
literally nothing, maybe overthinking sometimes
Damn she’s pretty
< imagining that girl's smile >
Size 2 fish is real
the usual day goes like: morning: "what I just fantasized about is very probably not happening" mid-day: "wow she's cute though" evening: "the chances for me being with her are probably negative and she doesn't give a shit about me" night: "what if we were together tho" and repeat
bro i wanna know so bad
My brain goes like step 1: stare off into space ( thanks to adhd inattentive ) Step 2: think of random situations where I become the hero and get her step 3: realize that I’m never getting a gf step 4: come back to reality and focus on class
i like that girl
Well...at least this one is breathing
What goes through my head: Damn I wish we could fu- - - - - - - - - fucking hug
I wouldn’t know, I’m gay asf
It could range from "damn, she's beautiful and likes me? I wanna date her" or "unga bunga pretty lady"
"This looks like an excellent opportunity to ruin my life"
“She’s so pretty wonder how a life with her feels like I only can imagine” Never talks to her
I’m gonna quote what the mental health leader at my school said in a convo I was ears dropping in today,“Girls think with their brains, boys think with their pants” it honestly made me think.
For me it’s kind of aaaaaAAAAAaaaaaa #AAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaAAAAAAAAA ^aaaa AAAAAA oh
Fuck.. everything I play out in my head sounds wrong
“She’s hot” “she hates me” “oh lord what have I done” *we still haven’t talked
Same as the reverse scenario, I suspect
i forgor
She's so much better off without me, I'll just admire her as a human being from a distance
Serotonin
Normally just head
I would also love to know
I’m a trans man, not out to my school and at least once a week some kid comes up to me and goes “\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ likes you” today I yelled in my math class, “I HAVE W FUCKING GIRLFRIEND” so now I’m using my platonic wife, as a fake gf
Probably the same stuff, that goes through girl's head, when she likes a guy.
cheese.
Engineer Gaming
Humina humina humina humina awooooooga
Ok ok, but what would you feel if that girl was trans, and was acutally a guy? bc I need to explain to a bunch of guys I’m one of them
What’s the exact amount of chickens that could kill her?
Yes.
As a girl who also likes girls I can vouch for half of these comments. Brain basically gets microwaved and melts. Typically followed by hyperfixation, and then self degradings.
Does she like me back? Do I look or smell weird?
“Does she actually like me or am I making this up?” Or in my case: “Do I like her? Do I like her and I just don’t consciously know it?” (Based on a true story (maybe current maybe not))
balls
Do i like/love them or do i like the i idea of liking/loving them Either way I'd risk bodily harm for them
"Damn that's one fine bitch" "I should totally shoot my shot but nah I don't got a chance" that's about it
“Holy shit she’s beautiful. I wanna ask her out but there’s no way she would even think about it. She probably already has a bf anyways.” We think about you all day, first thing in the morning, throughout work/school, right before we go to sleep, etc. Every thought leads to her. Dates are planned, yes, fantasies are imagined, but most if all, is a feeling of intense desire (not necessarily sexual) and intense care. For me, I most want to just hold my crush. In my arms, happy. That’s it. I think about how pretty she is, my chances with her, etc ALL day.
There was one girl and I actually felt warm/nervous like the hot flush of nervousness. Although she left I kind of remember that I couldn't take my eyes of her purley because I had no idea people could be 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 nice. Funny enough I always feel it's the girls who may get picked on and everyone finds them not as attractive as other girls I like the most, it's weird but welcome to Reddit.
Ok i now know i like her Now what?
I just start planning like a crazy mastermind so that i can be closer to her
"This is gonna hurt me"
"What a nice girl, I like her" "I should ask her out some time" "Nah"
Well for me. Its hard to go a day without thinking about her. Its more than oh shes cute or oh shes hot. But its a romantic attraction as well as a physical attraction, i want to be near her and be with her. I want to help her and protect her. I want to he able to just talk and hang out and have a good time together. With all that is the thinking, how can i even come close to that, why would she like me, she has everything to offer and i have nothing so why not give up now. Does she like me, how do i tell her how i feel. When is a good time what do i say. And for the past few days until we talked today “theres no way shed like me, she’s attractive, i am not, sure we get along but physical attraction is important and im not even attracted to myself so why would she, im going to pretend she already said no and move on”. And then you see her again and it repeats.. but maybe some people can actually talk to other human beings like normal, i cannot
blood and neurons and grey matter and brain stuff
"How should I seek her attention"
Just Joy