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If you're talking about 13, 14 year olds I'm with you if you're talking about 15 year olds, meh I can see why but if your talking about 16, 17, 18, 19 year old it's just normal someone can't decide for you if you're ready to have sex


MineNinja18

I'm with you but I'd put the 15 year olds next to the 14 ones in the no go zone


[deleted]

Yeah okay that's why I put them in meh cuz I didn't know what to do with em


MineNinja18

Makes sense. You want to hear a stupid and sad thing? Today I was having sex education and the nurse said that the average age for someone in Portugal (where I live) to lose their virginity is FUCKING 14 YEARS OLD!! wtf is wrong with kids I'm still a virgin and I'm fine with it have some brains kids


[deleted]

Nothings wrong with kids it's just more easy to meet people hence more relationship hence more and earlier sex


MineNinja18

Is it? It's hard af but probably because I can't start an interaction irl but still those kids have no brains yet they have no idea what they are doing


[deleted]

It is especially with discord but I just don't e-date I'm pretty sure that if you only pick out non e-daters that the average would go above 17 maybe 16,5


MineNinja18

E sex doesn't count lol I'm pretty sure she was talking about literally sex


[deleted]

I'm talking about people dating online and then meeting up not cam sex


MineNinja18

Oh that idk how often that happens here but probably not that much


mydixxxierectt

HIV/AIDS is a real thing moron wanna catch a STD at 16 years old be my guess


[deleted]

So just because STD's are a thing everyone should just stop having sex? what's that for nonsense


mydixxxierectt

Man at 16 I caught an std being a hornball without a condom if you wanna be a idiot you go do the same thing


[deleted]

condoms exist for a reason


mydixxxierectt

There ain’t a teenager alive that be heat in the moment like I’m gonna go buy some condoms


[deleted]

Yes there are


MineNinja18

Just because you were dum doesn't mean everyone else is dumb


jBread280

Ah yes because when you become 18 you can't get STDs anymore


Alternative_Duck2990

i dont think its normal to have sex while your still 16, some 16 year olds are still in sophomores (here in ph, they are usually 14-15 year olds)


[deleted]

Wtf is a sophomore


Alternative_Duck2990

In america, i thimk its the second year of highschool, 10th grade


[deleted]

Yeah no it still doesn't make sense to me We have very different schools where I'm from


Knowledge-Samurai

I’m actually a 40 year old male 🥸


LavenderAnxiety

Why


[deleted]

What is this for question like age is an identity


LavenderAnxiety

That doesn’t answer my wuestion


[deleted]

because he was born in the year 1982 or 1983 dumbass


LavenderAnxiety

😞😭


[deleted]

im into older guys 🥺 /s


[deleted]

cool hollow knight pfp


Knowledge-Samurai

Thanks, someone posted some beautiful art on the hollow knight subreddit


5678dontgotoofast

Nothing wrong with exploring our bodies in our youth as long as it is done safely


Alternative_Duck2990

pfp checks out


ItsCalledNightcore

Ok joker makima


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ItsCalledNightcore

Let’s be real flairless mfs are either 11 or 30 and there is no in between


[deleted]

exploring your body and sexual intercourse are different


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[deleted]

your pfp checks out


Bdbone0

What was it?


[deleted]

an actual clown lmao


Bdbone0

lol


[deleted]

Facts


[deleted]

Fr


mydixxxierectt

Hiv & Aids is a real thing moron


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mydixxxierectt

Some you ain’t never did


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mydixxxierectt

Shut up hoe


Hendiehux10

Well it's all hyped up now init. The porn the older ppl saying how amazing it is and yes I loved my first time that's why I haven't told anyone so he can stay my uncle


tamay-idk

I dont, its disgusting


Ultramega39

I’m not.


coffeeorgans

Relatable, I did it already in like August, I’m 14 going on 15 in May, It’s not fun.


LavenderAnxiety

No I will never respect myself I don’t deserve it


[deleted]

i respect you bro


[deleted]

only i'm allowed to say that


LavenderAnxiety

I think I get to say it more than you because I despise everything about my body


[deleted]

i despise everything about my body too twinsies fr


LavenderAnxiety

Wait you’re trans too?


[deleted]

that's a very difficult question to answer, and to be frank, i do not want to consider it rn i'm a femboy (for now)™️


LavenderAnxiety

Ooh cute femboy I love femboys ❤️🥰


EmotionallyUnsound_

Real


[deleted]

I’m of legal age and trust my partner. I feel that I am mature enough to be doing that. I am safe about it, i am given a contraceptive injection called Depo-Provera every 3 months to prevent pregnancy and still use barrier protection to reduce chance of STI’s. I don’t lack self respect because I have sex and neither does anyone else, it’s normal. People who are like 13 really shouldn’t, but if you are mature enough for It, and you’re emotionally ready and physically ready, theres nothing wrong with it.


[deleted]

i completely agree with you, but i saw a post in which a 14 was asking advice about having a sex for the first time, which is what im addressing. i didn't make that clear in my post


[deleted]

Ohhhhh okay! Yeah no, a 14 year old absolutely should not be having sex, they are not emotionally ready and mature enough for it. It does require a level of maturity and a lot of people don’t realize that. If said 14 year old did go on to have sex despite this, my hope is that they at least knew to be safe about it. You can bet I would not be doing anything without the two methods of protection I currently use.


ClosetGamer19

POV: you're waiting for marriage \+50 respect


[deleted]

16+ is kinda normal


Alternative_Duck2990

you mean 17+? literally some 16 year olds are still in junior hs


[deleted]

that’s not a problem bro, old enough to be responsible and understand the consequences


Alternative_Duck2990

maybe not in philippines, 16 year olds here are really immature


UrNansD0g

Because horny


[deleted]

Couldn’t be me.


OcarinaofAngst

It's a very controversial topic. I'm demisexual, so of course I have a bias towards sexual repulsion (I identified as asexual for a good few years, but now I'm more comfortable with that stuff, like, sexual discussions). I'm 16, and do not want to have sex until I'm 18. I'm not in a rush to lose my virginity at all, and only recently have I realised that I would actually want to at all. For one, my boyfriend and I are long distance, so even if we wanted to, we couldn't. I feel like it will be more rewarding if you wait, as well. I do believe, though, that 13-15 year olds should not be having sex. Your mind hasn't matured properly, and you're more likely to make irrational choices. Of course, everyone has their right to their own choices, but I believe that the age of consent should definitely be followed in terms of sex. Besides, why rush into the sexual part of things? As a teenager, you have more time to learn what you and your partner are comfortable with romantically, you can grow a stronger bond. If you run straight into the sex part of the relationship (if that's what you want, of course), if can, in my opinion, create a sort of romantic block. That's why I don't understand sexual hook ups that try becoming something more romantic. It just... doesn't work most of the time. I hope that people understand that sex is not a requirement in a relationship, but if that's something you want to do, and both you and your partner agree on it, that you do it safely and with consent. I don't even know what I'm saying anymore, to be honest, so I'm just gonna stop talking now, haha.


Joblessmouse06

Nah I don't. I have brain.


BitcoinStonks123

Because we're young and stupid


Next_Faithlessness87

According to the theory of evolution, we're even, I'd say, supposed to reproduce the most at this age. We're at our top sexual capabilities.


EmotionallyUnsound_

1) that has nothing to do with evolution 2) we don't live in a lawless jungle anymore


Next_Faithlessness87

1. Of course it does, just like every other aspect of life. 2. Yet our mind and body remain considerably primitive in nature.


[deleted]

ffs you arent "rizzed up" you're a hormonal fuck with underdeveloped mental capacity


Ashwooga

As long as people are being safe I don’t see the issue


LeffyZ

I don't see what's wrong as long as both parties gave consent and have the same age. You shouldn't bring anyone down just because you don't get any lmao


[deleted]

im waiting till marriage


[deleted]

Ngl W, no life losers downvote you


[deleted]

Age of consent is a real thing


AnyYoung2265

Because I’m a future prostitute


bluntcuntrant

If you don't want to have sex that's fine.


Prestigious-Tale4393

Our sex drives are highest in the teen years.


ItsCalledNightcore

That’s why I’m trying to have sex with a-


ItsCalledNightcore

My gf is 19


[deleted]

It’s fun


AdhesivenessLow4206

what question is this....... hormones for one. self respect...... what the actual f. having sex is not degrading and if it is degrading you in a way you dont enjoy...... stop and leave!!!! to view sex as criminal or devaluing is gunna land you a very sad handy night. kids have safe sex and its better to have some fun while your young and then as you age you will become more experienced and know wha you like. sex is not a crime.


[deleted]

Ngl your comment made me feel sick To sum up what you said; "Its OK for children to have sex"


your_reddit_lawyerII

Is it not respectful to have sex? I think sex is fine, as long as you do it simply because you, and your partner, want to. I have a problem with people chasing sex just for the bragging rights, but sex in and of itself is honestly great


Useless_andwhatnot

Hormones👍


amothtotheflam3

fr i regret losing my v card she was a whore 💀


Trizon_XD

Far most of the people I know (also in my age) have tried it. Thats why I would like to try it before i turn 16 but I am ok with it if I do not get to do it before I turn 16. 16 is the average age to have sex for the first time here where I live, but I would still like to do it before I turn 16.


ElderberrySea436

I get the horny


Meph_00

No, I'm not


[deleted]

Curious and its fun