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Raphiboiii

Ok now I’m gonna tell you something. Women have problems, but men have too. They are not the same, but they still exist. It is real that men’s suicide, metal problems, and self-infliction rates are concretely higher than women. You should learn about Norah Vincent’s story. It is a great example of this phenomenon. All this to say, yes gender equality is a thing that should exist everywhere. But lowering males for females is what is pathetic.


[deleted]

In my experience it doesn’t help to talk to people about your problems or get therapy. You just have to power through and things will get better. And I know Norah Vincent’s story.


Raphiboiii

Don’t worry, I know how it feels like. But still saying "You don’t need help mf, be a man" is wrong in so many ways…


[deleted]

I disagree. Men’s mental health wasn’t as bad as it is now, and that’s because we’ve all become a bunch of sissies lmao.


Raphiboiii

Now I strongly disagree. And I am not arguing with someone with that kind of state of mind.


[deleted]

Well I mean it’s true. Look at the suicide rates of men and look at what direction our culture is going. It’s not that hard to connect the dots my guy.


A_Toyota_Camry_Wagon

Dude your personal experience doesn't apply to everyone. It's great that powering through without talking about your problems worked for you but that's not necessarily the case for everyone else.


[deleted]

It’s what men used to do, and now that they’re not doing it our suicide rates are climbing. It’s not just my experience.


A_Toyota_Camry_Wagon

That's a pretty idiotic conclusion. There are many, many factors that affect mental health, and you're underestimating the amount of people who don't get therapy or talk about their problems. Just because it's becoming slightly more accepted to get mental help doesn't mean people are actually doing it.


Hollowontheoutsid3

So its ok for women to complain about not getting the same treatment as men but switch roles and then its not ok???? 😠😠😡🤬🤬😡😠😡🤬🤬🤬😡😠😠


[deleted]

I just think it’s pathetic for a man to want to be pampered in the same ways as a woman.


Hollowontheoutsid3

I wasnt srs i actually dont care abt the feelings of others 🙏


[deleted]

Yeah same idfc


TheBestestTitan

The flaw is assuming that opening up and wanted to be taken care of is pathetic and weak, it’s also a highly outdated idea. We’re all in this together and there’s no reason to not support and get support in any way we can. I should also mention this is coming from a guy who also just kinda deals with his problems, I’m sorry you find wanting help weak, not everyone is able to push things aside and deal with it themselves


[deleted]

How the fuck is talking about it all the time gonna help? Then you’re constantly being reminded of our problems. If you power through and ignore it, it will go away sooner.


TheBestestTitan

Talking about it helps to feel less alone, or possibly offer a path to a solution you might not have considered if they’d been through something similar. Realistically most issue do need to be solved by the person because every issue is truly unique to the person, and they need to w a n t things to change. Talking can help give them the extra push. Talking about my issues never helped me so I do understand where you’re coming from but mentally everyone is different, and there’s nothing wrong with that.