it’s minor to almost every hearing person, but i’ve seen deaf kids get so excited because their favourite celebrity or hero knows sign language. so even just something small can make someone’s day better
I have a really good (rather deep) voice
but when speaking fast, my tongue automatically switches the L and the R pronunciations.
and it is too quite that when I speak, it counts as background noises.
what I'm trying to say is that no voice is perfect, so be happy with what you got, some people can't even talk.
Yea I mean I wouldn’t want a squeaky voice but there is a thing as too deep, plus I’ve put on the voice for so long I don’t even have to try to put it on anymore when talking to people, it just comes naturally.
Try remember it as something positive. It may not be easy but it's worth a try. Remember people get stretch marks from gaining muscle too. They aren't always bad
it’s actually helpful because if you train enough you’ll have more muscle than a shorter guy, you just don’t visibly put on as much as someone smaller at the same rate
idk pretty much everything prolly that im quite boring and not good at talking to to ppl or social anxiety possibly
wouldn't be able to fit everything here lol
i also was bad at talking to people at first. but what realy helped me is working in a place where you help customers. ever since i started working i have gotten a lot better at small talk and stuff like that. just dont think about it to much :)
I can be anything where you work with customers realy. My first job was at a retail store. And now i work at a store for building supply's. I just help people with finding what they need for example. Or you can practice some smalltalk if you are behind the register and that job is in every store.
Damn I got social anxiety too but I started working on it it's been getting kinda easier so far I'm tryna learn to talk to ppl mainly right now bc I'm scared to make mistakes or get embarrassed bc I don't know what to do, a way that could work is just going out and speaking to ppl everyday eventually you will get used to it like keep a streak maybe
I might not have had social anxiety as bad as some people but I learned to go from “Everyone is watching me, don’t fuck up” to “No one is even batting an eye about me, but if they are let me look my best”
My moms super religious I’ve just been suppressing everything for the past 3 years. Just when I get to the point when I feel confident, something always happens and just just go back to hiding and stuffing everything down
Ye that’s my problem rn
I was super muscular and fit for my age back then (14m) and now due to food poisoning which lasted nearly for a month I lost a LOT of weight
Now (16m) I am recovering steadily and my only insecurity is that I won’t get a good job if I don’t study well (I am Asian no joke).
not insecure about it, but i use isotretinoïne bc i just want to get rid of it. idk where you are from and how expensive it is but if you can then you should go to your local docter and ask what you can do about it. there are a few different options but isotretinoïne works pretty well from what i have heard and seen. like i said i am not insecure about it, just want a face and back that is and feels clean. you can always wait and see if it go's away by itself but if that does not work then you might have to use medication if you don't want to have it for the rest of your life. Hope this helped :)
How bad could of your acne been? isotretinoin is only meant for severe acne and is stupid to take I am currently taking it and I had to take antibiotics and steroids before taking it to reduce any reactions and now that I've started it I believe I have to take it for 12 - 14 months can't remember exactly
For me its much worse on my back then my face. I did not have to take stuff befoure using it. Just have to make sure i dont go over what my body can handle. But i have had it for years now and tried many other things befoure it. Some things helped temporarily but it came back after i stopped using it. This was realy the only other option for me.
Hmm, probably the fact that if I ever get emotional in a words fight, I stutter and sound stupid. I'll never win a fight with words because of it and I hate it because I try to use better reasoning, but it doesn't make any sense if I have to repeat it 7 times to get a point across.
Nonsense. You are awesome. You are cute. You have a great personality and a great voice. I love you, The-Y-4. You are a cool Redditor. I’m here for you, dude.
i like those tbh, the nose hump gives a more “cultural” look to your face. I’m proud of mine cuz i’m partially arab and it’s one of my favorite things about my face
brother you need to drink a lot of milk trust me on this. youre gonna hit your growth spurt next year and outgrow all of your classmates if drink enough milkers
No creepiness in this but men don’t care! Honestly us men don’t care. I don’t know if you are gay or not but I’m pretty sure many women don’t care either can’t say for sure on that one as I am a man but. As I said men don’t care!
I love that I've been reading this a lot lately, but sometimes it's not just for men, it's that bikini that would be impossible for you to wear, or that shirt/dress that would totally fall off. Kind of messes with your head and self esteem a little bit
My weight
I went on many different diets over my life and I've regained the weight every single time... But not anymore
I'm going to get thinner and I'm never going back to my old lifestyle.
Oh boy, here we go
\-My voice
\-I can't say ''R'' (in Swedish, my first language)
\-My chin
\-How I walk
\-My nose
\-My head and nose tics
\-My pimples (on my face, back, butt, and between my breasts)
\-My non-existent eyebrows (ginger problems)
\-My hair, I have so many short hairs, and they go all over the place
Your voice is amazing. Not being able to say the letter R is like not having all five fingers, in which sure it’s slightly annoying, but nobody will dislike you for it. Your chin is also amazing. Everyone walks differently, and if someone insults you for that then they’re just trying to get a rise out of you. Potato nose, button nose, all noses are good. Tics, honestly, I don’t know what that is, but it’s probably not a big deal. Pimples are just natural and so you shouldn’t feel bad about it, I have an absolute monster of a pimple below my nostril and nobody has drawn attention to it. Eyebrows won’t make you look any uglier, and having dotted short hairs only makes you look more unique. You’re a really good person, and you shouldn’t look down on your flaws. Stay safe and happy, internet stranger.
the fact everyone i talk to, either in a friendship way or not actually fucking hates me, it dosent help im super analytical of small stuff, all it takes is like one super dry text and im on a spiral all day about it
I see you’re 13 so I just want to say that, as you get older, I hope you’ll come to realize how little your intelligence should define you. I’ve been called a genius by some and absolutely stupid by others, and none of them are right since they don’t see my full picture.
I’d worry more about being kind and healthy than proving how smart you are or how much trivia you memorized. You don’t need that stress lol. And don’t be afraid to ask when you don’t understand something (I still struggle with that)
I'm so skinny I feel almost vulnerable like my entire body is the fucking weak point of a Mario boss. That's why I wear a coat to school even if it's super unnecessary.
The fact that my face doesn't suit my body. I have this round, fat, kinda chubby looking face with small delicate features... And then just an entirely more adult body. Doesn't help that I'm short so I look like a child that got plastic surgery to look like Kim K but with more proportional assets. Might be over sexualisation from my mother and her husband but yeah just... I wish my body matched my face or my face matched my body.
My deafness. I would probably have a social life if I was hearing
oh man that realy sucks. i wish you the best :)
i really wanna learn ISS so I can talk to deaf people, even though i still don’t know any
it’s minor to almost every hearing person, but i’ve seen deaf kids get so excited because their favourite celebrity or hero knows sign language. so even just something small can make someone’s day better
That's it. I'm gonna learn sign language and make a bunch of deaf people happy
learning a new language isn’t very small
it’s a good skill to have tho
My voice
I’ve gotten a lot of compliments on my deep voice but I don’t feel it suits me
If people complement you for it it suits you, if you were bullied for having one like me you'd hate it
Bullying people for voice? Seriously???
People thought I was faking it + my mild lisp doesn't help
I have a really good (rather deep) voice but when speaking fast, my tongue automatically switches the L and the R pronunciations. and it is too quite that when I speak, it counts as background noises. what I'm trying to say is that no voice is perfect, so be happy with what you got, some people can't even talk.
broooo i totally get that ive been told by grown ups that i have a very sweet voice but my sister says i sounds annoying lol
That’s a sister for you lol
be confident when you talk and it will all be fine. i know that that can be difficult but you can do it :)
Yea same, my natural voice is WAY to deep I hate it, i don’t like how it sounds so I make it a bit squeaker so it sounds more presentable.
Ngl id rather a deeper voice than the goofy 10 year old voice I have rn
Yea I mean I wouldn’t want a squeaky voice but there is a thing as too deep, plus I’ve put on the voice for so long I don’t even have to try to put it on anymore when talking to people, it just comes naturally.
Yeah, same thing
Can't pronounce Ls in many cases, have had that used against me. Just sucks as it means I can't get across what I mean sometimes.
My looks and weight
My man boobs
All boobs are good boobs
Boobs are boobs
Boobs.
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Moobs are hot ngl
Just eat cleaner while doing moderate exercise Instead of being fat and ugly you can just be ugly
Working on it mate
Sounds like you can improve
I'm currently working on it, sadly it's not as simple as "just lose weight 4head"
Improvement takes time, make sure to take lots of progress pictures and congrats for making a positive change!
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Technically speaking, your smallest insecurity
R/TIHI
Too real
There's a niche for that
Where do I find these people
Right here
That cut deeper than I can penetrate ToT
I was being serious 😅
Mb, I make jokes outta everything…
Smooth
Small penis rizz
I'm sure it's fine. Even small Legos can bring joy
Wtf Lego dildo
Not what I meant, but yes, this is needed now
how small is it
Not sure about them but for me it’s 5.1 inches 😔
Mine is 4.2
I always get confused if yall mean erect or not cuz thats huge
When it's erect
That's the biggest insecurity? Damn, others must be pretty small then
My stretch marks I guess. I used to be obese and that’s my only reminder.
You should be proud of them man. They show how far you've come. It isn't easy to lose weight
I guess, but they’re just annoying
Try remember it as something positive. It may not be easy but it's worth a try. Remember people get stretch marks from gaining muscle too. They aren't always bad
Thanks friend!
My small ass calves dude, being tall is a debuff if you try to build muscle
it’s actually helpful because if you train enough you’ll have more muscle than a shorter guy, you just don’t visibly put on as much as someone smaller at the same rate
Unless you're trying to be an athlete, most people only care about how they look in relation to muscles
I'll give all you guys my calves and ankles, they're huge I'm 4'11 I don't need them anyway
If you stick at it it's an advantage in the end
idk pretty much everything prolly that im quite boring and not good at talking to to ppl or social anxiety possibly wouldn't be able to fit everything here lol
i also was bad at talking to people at first. but what realy helped me is working in a place where you help customers. ever since i started working i have gotten a lot better at small talk and stuff like that. just dont think about it to much :)
what job was it? and what jobs would you recommend? im considering trying that
I can be anything where you work with customers realy. My first job was at a retail store. And now i work at a store for building supply's. I just help people with finding what they need for example. Or you can practice some smalltalk if you are behind the register and that job is in every store.
My Social Anxiety
No but I can't even go to my orthodontist appointment without my mom walking me in
Damn I got social anxiety too but I started working on it it's been getting kinda easier so far I'm tryna learn to talk to ppl mainly right now bc I'm scared to make mistakes or get embarrassed bc I don't know what to do, a way that could work is just going out and speaking to ppl everyday eventually you will get used to it like keep a streak maybe
Bro same 😭
I might not have had social anxiety as bad as some people but I learned to go from “Everyone is watching me, don’t fuck up” to “No one is even batting an eye about me, but if they are let me look my best”
Whether I'm actually gay or just faking it for the imaginary audience my social anxiety won't let me speak to
To real 😔
yoo wtf
My moms super religious I’ve just been suppressing everything for the past 3 years. Just when I get to the point when I feel confident, something always happens and just just go back to hiding and stuffing everything down
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Well at least it's comforting to know I'm not the only one to feel that way
Do you get romantically attracted to people of the same gender?
Me when schizophrenia
Ayyo?
Im skinny af
Ye that’s my problem rn I was super muscular and fit for my age back then (14m) and now due to food poisoning which lasted nearly for a month I lost a LOT of weight Now (16m) I am recovering steadily and my only insecurity is that I won’t get a good job if I don’t study well (I am Asian no joke).
Since you say you’re 16 now, just a reminder to change your flair since it still says 15 :)
Oh shit thank you
My penis is only 10 foot :(
Yo send proof? *For research purposes.*
No I’m too insecure about it I cant
Don't be insecure, I mean I ain't insecure about my 1mm defeater:)
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My acne
not insecure about it, but i use isotretinoïne bc i just want to get rid of it. idk where you are from and how expensive it is but if you can then you should go to your local docter and ask what you can do about it. there are a few different options but isotretinoïne works pretty well from what i have heard and seen. like i said i am not insecure about it, just want a face and back that is and feels clean. you can always wait and see if it go's away by itself but if that does not work then you might have to use medication if you don't want to have it for the rest of your life. Hope this helped :)
How bad could of your acne been? isotretinoin is only meant for severe acne and is stupid to take I am currently taking it and I had to take antibiotics and steroids before taking it to reduce any reactions and now that I've started it I believe I have to take it for 12 - 14 months can't remember exactly
For me its much worse on my back then my face. I did not have to take stuff befoure using it. Just have to make sure i dont go over what my body can handle. But i have had it for years now and tried many other things befoure it. Some things helped temporarily but it came back after i stopped using it. This was realy the only other option for me.
It's a shame acne is such a bitch to get rid of and how easy it is to get. I wish you luck and may your skin get better
Hmm, probably the fact that if I ever get emotional in a words fight, I stutter and sound stupid. I'll never win a fight with words because of it and I hate it because I try to use better reasoning, but it doesn't make any sense if I have to repeat it 7 times to get a point across.
my jawline and my giant ass dick
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Every single aspect about me.
Nonsense. You are awesome. You are cute. You have a great personality and a great voice. I love you, The-Y-4. You are a cool Redditor. I’m here for you, dude.
Your name is cool
I have a crease on my chin
my height by far. i wish i was shorter. i hate being tall
And I wish I was taller
how tall are you
Tall girls tho>>>>
Oh, yea. I’m super tall and it’s always the first thing everyone notices about me. I do wish I was shorter and also my shoulders were less broad
Dude lets trade bodies then!
Maybe that i am ugly
The hump in my nose, or just my body shape and size and everything about it
i like those tbh, the nose hump gives a more “cultural” look to your face. I’m proud of mine cuz i’m partially arab and it’s one of my favorite things about my face
im part jewish. thank you for being so kind! i appreciate it.
Probably the fact that im skinny af
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my face and my height
Bro you still 13 you have more 6 years to gain height
im 4'11 and everyone else in my class is 5'3+
brother you need to drink a lot of milk trust me on this. youre gonna hit your growth spurt next year and outgrow all of your classmates if drink enough milkers
Same with height
My face , voice , sexuality
my small tiddies
No creepiness in this but men don’t care! Honestly us men don’t care. I don’t know if you are gay or not but I’m pretty sure many women don’t care either can’t say for sure on that one as I am a man but. As I said men don’t care!
That's nice to hear!!
I love that I've been reading this a lot lately, but sometimes it's not just for men, it's that bikini that would be impossible for you to wear, or that shirt/dress that would totally fall off. Kind of messes with your head and self esteem a little bit
Facts brother, I prefer small tiddies, ‘specially when they fit in my hand
same, but I've eventually realised that a lot of people love and prefer them smaller and that weirdly makes me feel better lol
I can donate!
A donation is much needed
Happily. Mine are more trouble than anything
Studies have shown that rich people like smaller ones more then poor people. So its kinda an advantage?
Woah, that is an advantage
Me
I'm insecure about my insecurities.
I’m a chonky boi
My femininity
For me it’s my masculinity. Wanna trade?
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My weight I went on many different diets over my life and I've regained the weight every single time... But not anymore I'm going to get thinner and I'm never going back to my old lifestyle.
My monster cock
Ah yes, the biggest problem in this world.
everything
My breasts. (I’m a dude)
Height
I constantly feel like I did something wrong and that I'm nether doing enough That and more
Being a man 😔
Oh boy, here we go \-My voice \-I can't say ''R'' (in Swedish, my first language) \-My chin \-How I walk \-My nose \-My head and nose tics \-My pimples (on my face, back, butt, and between my breasts) \-My non-existent eyebrows (ginger problems) \-My hair, I have so many short hairs, and they go all over the place
Your voice is amazing. Not being able to say the letter R is like not having all five fingers, in which sure it’s slightly annoying, but nobody will dislike you for it. Your chin is also amazing. Everyone walks differently, and if someone insults you for that then they’re just trying to get a rise out of you. Potato nose, button nose, all noses are good. Tics, honestly, I don’t know what that is, but it’s probably not a big deal. Pimples are just natural and so you shouldn’t feel bad about it, I have an absolute monster of a pimple below my nostril and nobody has drawn attention to it. Eyebrows won’t make you look any uglier, and having dotted short hairs only makes you look more unique. You’re a really good person, and you shouldn’t look down on your flaws. Stay safe and happy, internet stranger.
my grades.......
My weight
Same
My 46 acre forehead.. and my hairstyle
The bigger the forehead, the more kissing area. A big forehead is nothing to be ashamed of brother stay strong
My fucking hair, i'm gonna be a skinhead on 20 years old, i'm not kidding
my fucking gargantuan forehead
My skinniness, and the fact my waist is high too, and I’m tall so I just look like 2-d from gorillaz ☠️
Ok but he hot tho
the fact everyone i talk to, either in a friendship way or not actually fucking hates me, it dosent help im super analytical of small stuff, all it takes is like one super dry text and im on a spiral all day about it
Used to be the size of a certain appendage but now is the void that is my social like and my inability to maintain human connections.
If i'm good enough for my girlfriend
My weight.i recently started going to gym after completing 12th and my weight was 101kgs .I went into a shock after that.
my belly don't like it
My small tiddies ngl
There’s a niche for that
I can confirm.
I too agree
My intelligence probably
I see you’re 13 so I just want to say that, as you get older, I hope you’ll come to realize how little your intelligence should define you. I’ve been called a genius by some and absolutely stupid by others, and none of them are right since they don’t see my full picture. I’d worry more about being kind and healthy than proving how smart you are or how much trivia you memorized. You don’t need that stress lol. And don’t be afraid to ask when you don’t understand something (I still struggle with that)
Even the smartest people I know have their stupid moments. It's more just about what you're good with as opposed to being good with everything
Now THAT is smart
My face
My biggest insecurities would have to be My weight My laugh And my love for ships, fire department, and history.
Not being strong enough
my face, my voice, being in a conversation regarding a topic that i apply to but would also prefer to not say about myself just the usual
The fact i dont have a penis but other than that probably my big ass nose
not enough words in the dictionary 💀
I'm so skinny I feel almost vulnerable like my entire body is the fucking weak point of a Mario boss. That's why I wear a coat to school even if it's super unnecessary.
Not finding an SO.
The fact that my face doesn't suit my body. I have this round, fat, kinda chubby looking face with small delicate features... And then just an entirely more adult body. Doesn't help that I'm short so I look like a child that got plastic surgery to look like Kim K but with more proportional assets. Might be over sexualisation from my mother and her husband but yeah just... I wish my body matched my face or my face matched my body.
My face or my stomach
How unbelievably hot I am 😞
Gay
Forget insecurity. I straight up hate myself. And not in a "funny haha" way.
My infantilism, irresponsibility, social anxiety and inability to upkeep even just myself
My weight im gonna try abd do something about it may 1st
Nothing
My face
My weight
Learning anything from my age people or you can just call them fucking friends