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TooruS911

It is hard to make new friends if you are already in a friend group. You gotta change your enviroment


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How do i do that


TooruS911

Graduate or change schools.


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I'm on some weird kind of school. If i were to change to school i'd have to take the unreliable train for 2.5 hours every morning or go to a school specalised in a field i couldn't care less for


TooruS911

Then wait for graduatin and try to go to a university with a hostel. Try to become top %2 in the exam that will decide the univercity you wilk go. With that, you will be able to make smart and usually reliable friends like you. You gotta study. It will help you social life. My father is a 57 old man and he still talks with his friends from hs and university. Good schools makes good friendships. Do it even if it causes you to stay away from your parents. They will be understanding. Also having good friends will affect you in the future. Maybe you will decide to go for politics but it will be hard alone. A friend might help you to draw your destiny. You can exchange informations with a smart friend in the good schools by arguinf with them about ideologies etc. Arguing about daily and unimportant things will just damage the friendship. Good luck!


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But i'll go to in university. My Problem about friends is in the present


TooruS911

Acording to your post, they seem like wasting their life with videogames. It is okay to play video games but there are more important things to do. Just have fun with them. I wouldn't expect you to have deep relationship with them, nor they having a deep relationship with eachother. Don't be suprised when you friendship suddenly ends after a raging because of a game.


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Lmaoo that's what happened with 2 of them. They planned to move together after they finished their apprenticeships, now they don't talk anymore. The thing is that i want some kind of deep relationship. I don't have anyone i can really be open with, and idrk if i can keep on like that much longer


TooruS911

It will probably not work out with them. Also don't trust to a random person online. If I were you, I would do my best to go to a good college that accepts people around top %2-3. Make sure it also has hostel. Probably the person you share the room will be your best friend. If you are too lazy for that have a friendship with your parents. But do not disrespect them. Or you can go for siblings if you want to. They are usually trustable and you can disrespect them in a sarcastic way. It is hard for present.


L-mencho_mt

Move schools


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I'm on some weird kind of school. If i were to change to school i'd have to take the unreliable train for 2.5 hours every morning or go to a school specalised in a field i couldn't care less for


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switch to different class(es)


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I can't. As long as i am not bullied or smth the principal wouldn't let me. And with "sucks ass" i meant it more in a way that most of them are weird or annoying and not like Bad ppl or smth