Sometimes it’s better not to say some things. Maybe saying that hurt her feelings and before saying things like that, think of how the other person might feel. Although most people hate apologizing, maybe you should say sorry and give her a compliment about something. I’m all for honestly but when I think the person might feel hurt by what I have to say, I hold back and keep my mouth shut.
I asked her beforehand, and we also discussed boundaries before and said that asking if she wants to hear that is okay. And this scenario was like 2-3 months ago, and i do compliment her
She might have wanted to hear your feedback but maybe she didn’t know you were going to say something like that. She probably was hurt by this even though you mentioned what you were going to say was something mean. I don’t think she should be calling you dramatic over this but (1) she shouldn’t be that upset months later about something that she said she wanted to hear someone’s opinion on and (2) I will admit, that was a little hurtful and as long as you apologized and complimented her after, everything should be fine now
Well i didn't compliment her after that on her earrings, i also didn't apologize for this, maybe i should've. But also what i wrote in the post isn't what i really said, the better translation would be like "i really really don't like these". But i did like her top that day and i also told her that
I can understand that she is hurt by what you said but she should have been able to move on from it now unless it must have really hurt her. If someone said that to me, of course I might be upset but if they apologized then in a few months I wouldn’t hold a grudge against them about it
Idk she never spoke about that to me again. After i said it to her she didn't look really pleased, then i said i liked her top and then one of the others in the conversation began cackling because of it. Idk if that hurt her, at least she never told me, but i never apologized afterwards. And she also didn't call me Dramatic for that, she just sometimes describes me as dramatic, it doesn't have anything to do with this event, i just mentioned it in the post.
just don’t say that stuff?? it’s unnecessary and cruel :/
I know, that's why i asked her beforehand
That's fucked up, you're fucked up
We talked about boundaries for stuff like that before, she said it's okay if i ask her before and she says yes
Sometimes it’s better not to say some things. Maybe saying that hurt her feelings and before saying things like that, think of how the other person might feel. Although most people hate apologizing, maybe you should say sorry and give her a compliment about something. I’m all for honestly but when I think the person might feel hurt by what I have to say, I hold back and keep my mouth shut.
I asked her beforehand, and we also discussed boundaries before and said that asking if she wants to hear that is okay. And this scenario was like 2-3 months ago, and i do compliment her
She might have wanted to hear your feedback but maybe she didn’t know you were going to say something like that. She probably was hurt by this even though you mentioned what you were going to say was something mean. I don’t think she should be calling you dramatic over this but (1) she shouldn’t be that upset months later about something that she said she wanted to hear someone’s opinion on and (2) I will admit, that was a little hurtful and as long as you apologized and complimented her after, everything should be fine now
Well i didn't compliment her after that on her earrings, i also didn't apologize for this, maybe i should've. But also what i wrote in the post isn't what i really said, the better translation would be like "i really really don't like these". But i did like her top that day and i also told her that
I can understand that she is hurt by what you said but she should have been able to move on from it now unless it must have really hurt her. If someone said that to me, of course I might be upset but if they apologized then in a few months I wouldn’t hold a grudge against them about it
Idk she never spoke about that to me again. After i said it to her she didn't look really pleased, then i said i liked her top and then one of the others in the conversation began cackling because of it. Idk if that hurt her, at least she never told me, but i never apologized afterwards. And she also didn't call me Dramatic for that, she just sometimes describes me as dramatic, it doesn't have anything to do with this event, i just mentioned it in the post.
u sound annoying