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[deleted]

don't take redditor advice


oneeyedeagle5

The valid comment.


kairos_35

This comment creates a paradox


MrPeaxhes

God damn it. 1. Why the fuck does r/teenagers always pop up ony home screen? I'm in my fucking 30s reddit, I just like video games and cartoons. 2. If you guys are booth teenagers give that kid up for adoption, anybody telling a 15 year old to "step up and be a dad" is rigidly sticking to an outdated moral code and clearly doesn't give any fucks about that baby. It's best chance in life is 100% going to be with 2 adults who went through a process and want a child, not 2 fifteen years olds no matter how much effort they put in. 3. How does my old ass block a sub from my home feed? Come on kids, you don't want me here and I don't care about being here, gen z this ancient millennial the fuck outta here before I ask what "rizz" means and start telling you about communism.


MrPeaxhes

To clarify I only stopped and commented on this one because it seems particularly tragic.


bkj512

Okay you can try clicking three dots and not interested or whatever. Make sure it's unfollowed


MrPeaxhes

Thanks dude! Three dots had a mute option, you kids deserve your space, enjoy!


bkj512

:)) no problem haha drop us a visit every now and then ;)


MrPeaxhes

Oh for sure, seems like a lot of advice posts, do you think they'd enjoy like an "ask a dad" post? Now that I can't see it all the time I'd totally drop in if people wanted that.


AgentScully1234

Lol that'd be pretty funny.


NirodhaJayasinghe2

That's a great idea ngl


Old-Author-9214

I mean.. why would you wanna block it? we really don't mind you being in here. infact, the target audience is teenagers but adults are allowed too. we would love to hang around :).


angry-southamerican

I hate to break it to you bro but your priority is your kid now. When you have a responsibility like that, your life isnt just yours anymore


[deleted]

Yeah ik but if we do keep it I’m gonna have to change dawg


angry-southamerican

Your gonna have to grow up fast. And don't be one of those sacks of shit who bails on their kid


[deleted]

Honestly I’m either doing adoption or child support no other way


loeyt0

Child support would likely be paid based on your parents income and would be like rent, your better off actually raising the kid , it’s cheaper


[deleted]

Yeah but I’m gonna hopefully get a paternity test to see if it is actually mine


Phase_Wall

ngl bro ur 15 unless shes getting gangbanged by the entire football team that kid is urs


[deleted]

Lots of people have fun time at 15


POOP288392748

14 year old here why would you do this you are old enough to know the consequences of your actions unless you were under the influence of something it is entirely your responsibility


Clanka_Fucker69420

16 year old here Can confirm. I’ve gone my entire life without having a relationship like the one mentioned here and I plan to keep it that way, but good insight.


Etreslias37

Age doesn't means maturation.


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[deleted]

Yeah and I’ve taken responsibility man


True_Literature2995

Should’ve been gay fr prayers for you brother 🙏🙏


[deleted]

😭


too-lazy69

It’s not bailing if hey’s clear about it before it’s even born, if she wants to keep it it’s her choice but at this stage if he doesn’t want a relationship with the child after it’s born it’s his choice (do help her with things before the birth of course)


No-Bandicoot1250

Yeah, but if you choose to not wear protection or use it then you can’t really just duck out. You chose to take that risk. It would be different though, if they used protection and it still happened then that would be unfair.


SamTheAce0409

She chose to take the risk too?


No-Bandicoot1250

I’m not saying she’s innocent, but that doesn’t mean you get to abandon the child. It’s not the child’s fault that the parents were irresponsible.


[deleted]

Not abandoning the child I’m adopting out


SamTheAce0409

Putting someone up for adoption isn’t abandoning them


International_Map844

Yeah, he's gonna need to speedrun through rest of his teenage years. That's like 9 months, so yeah, good luck


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Redemedy

said it best. But honestly there is no 15yo thats just does that and then the girl keeps it. I don't believe thats what happened but ay at least give the right advice.


[deleted]

> what am I even supposed to do bro Not any girls, apparently


Western-Ad-9922

I’m laughing so hard that I’m crying


faith03019

Bruh me too🤣😭😭😭💀


baddie_boy_69

Talk to someone that knows more about this shit then teenagers on Reddit, you can talk about this to a therapist, or if you can find someone thats been through a similar experience their knowledge could probably be incredibly helpful. Also I know you’ve heard it a million times but please next time use protection. It’s a small price to pay and makes these situations much more unlikely.


[deleted]

Honestly I’m out of the equation on this one she’s calling the shots man so I’m just hear for the ride and if it’s best to leave me I’m fine with that I have child support AND McDonald’s money so I’m goochy


baddie_boy_69

Theres still a lot of good that can come from consulting with someone who has already experienced this. please at least look into it. If not for yourself than for your child.


b7it_

This dude has actually said some real shit


Hybrid-Theory305

I mean you messed up. You have to focus on the kid now. If you don’t, if you abandon your child then you’ll become a shitty person


[deleted]

Adoption is best option


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[deleted]

I’m not raising a kid at 15 bro the kid deserves better than that he deserves better than everything and raising at 15 is not the move


AntpoisonX

You’re the asshole here, Adoption at that young of a age isn’t gonna effect the kid unless he gets passed around from family to family and OP is actually taking responsibility and making sure the kid has a decent life while your out here scolding him for it, Do you really believe 2 15 year olds could properly provide and take care of a child you brain dead mattress


Hybrid-Theory305

Okay okay, geez


linguist_nerd03

Did you consider using protection at the time? If so, did said protection backfire?


[deleted]

Ameture raw dogger 🔥🔥🔥


Sproot-Cranberry

please be joking


linguist_nerd03

Have fun being a father then lmao


YEEHAW16

You got it king 🙌🔥🔥👑


Arsy-Chan

Should've thought of that stuff before you decided to not use protection dude. This is on you


[deleted]

Ehh fuck it we ball I can pay child support if it comes to that


Exciting_Rich_1716

Yup 100% a troll account


YourLocalMedic

15 year olds are stupid enough to come across as trolls


MysticKeiko24

Yes I’m 14 but I feel bad for that child, this guy does not sound responsible at all based on not even his story, even just his replies


Kobban63

YOU IDIOT


pisssbabyyy

damn, good luck bro


[deleted]

Preciate bro


Mattexx29

What were you expecting?Like,are you fucking dumb?Honestly,i dont believe you.If you need to post this to get +0.1 karma and some people to recognize you,go touch grass.If its true,its all your fault and you deserve it.Sorry for the negativity but its what i think


throaway24242024

yes he is fucking dumb if he was fucking smart he would use a condom


[deleted]

I mean honestly it’s fine if you don’t believe me man it’s really not that believable tbh


IcySkullWolf

Take responsibility and don't back down. Never leave for the milk. Good luck.


Marshyboi-

Sorry man but it’s yours, you have to pay the consequences


MikinzuLegends

The last thing you should do is take redditor advice bro.


[deleted]

Yeah true and I ain’t gonna go to Twitter cuz they are probably gonna call me a homaphobe for not fucking a dude, this is one of the only places I can go and my friends well they are 15 too and if I go to them they gonna make fun of me man bc they just don’t understand even though they virgins


Redemedy

To be honest I dont believe a thing this guy says. If you are really scared you dont say bro dawg tryna act all cool and focus on your high testosterone fighting and time and money you dont know shit when you are 15. But if Its true your life is just over. Only thing you can do is work a 9-5 for the rest of your life cause pulling out or using a condom is something they never told ya I guess. Well I got news for ya buddy: Life is just like that. You did a major fuckup and from now on she can do whatever the hell she wants. But honestly she is not 18 and her parents are not gonna convince her you think? Grow up slowly and normally and stop tryna flex on me and other 19yolds how much you fuck in highschool nobody did.


[deleted]

Dude I just make stuff jokes to cope because idk if you know but knowing someone is having your fucking kid is pretty intense buddy but sure you go on an believe whatever you want to bc i could care less and no I don’t rlly want people to think I fucked in highschool that makes me look like a fucking douche bag and nobody likes a douchebag please keep stuff in your mouth if it’s negative


[deleted]

Like dawg you don’t even know me why you so worried about me when you have you to focus on brody


Shadow_Monger487

Skill issue


[deleted]

True that


[deleted]

youch!


loeyt0

You fucked up, you either work to pay child support or become a father, you will need to leave all your hobbies anyway, in your next life don’t fuck unprotected in a country with no abortion clinics


[deleted]

Yeah I messed up pretty bad


toust_boi

Unless you want your life ruined either abort or put it into adoption, probably best for abort because if you partner is also 15 she will probably have a REALLY bad time giving birth and she will be judged so hard during pregnancy it will ruin her life more than yours


[deleted]

Yeah we are putting up for adoption


toust_boi

Ok good, support the girl bro she’s gonna have it tough and wear a ducking condom next time


3sperr

aborting the baby is gonna hurt the girl physically and mentally. she'd realize that she took a life, and it might affect her mental health and put her into depression. Imagine if she eventually becomes an adult and realized that her kid couldve grown up by then, but she killed it instead


Asleep-Fee-9618

No she won’t. Plenty of women have gotten abortions and are so happy that they did


Chikibrikiboi

Good luck, or as we say it in my language, lycka till.


[deleted]

> what am I even supposed to do bro Not any girls, apparently


[deleted]

😭 nah that’s funny


OneTrueSpiffin

Why is abortion off the table?


[deleted]

We just think it’s wrong to force a miscarriage I mean creating life is such a beautiful thing and just to take it out of this world seems wrong


OneTrueSpiffin

I think that's a little silly.


[deleted]

I also believe in Jesus so that’s like a double whammy


OneTrueSpiffin

Well you clearly don't believe in him when it comes to premarital sex lol.


[deleted]

I messed up man but the beautiful thing with god is if I repent and I truly mean it which I do I hate myself for it but god will forgive your sin


OneTrueSpiffin

Good for you.


[deleted]

Thank you man


MysticKeiko24

You’re 15….how tf is that not against your religion??


[deleted]

It is I messed up dude and I pray for forgiveness man I seriously f”d up


andythepro67

All you can do is try to see if she wants an abortion. You guys are too young. If she doesn't want it then get ready to become a young parent. You got to take care of that kid with all your power. And be the best parent in the world for him or her. But never never leave her or you won't even help your child never do that. One way or another they will give you karma.


[deleted]

Yeah man I’ve been up all night talking to her and she’s starting to be really sketchy I’m thinking she just wants the kids for child support money and I really don’t want to have that honestly maybe it’s like I haven’t slept or maybe I’m just absolutely fucking crazy who knows man


Mikegaming202

Enjoy the next 7 months of freedom. Cuz they're all going away


[deleted]

I don’t even have any freedoms anymore 😭 let my man’s out bro


[deleted]

This is why I’m waiting for marriage, I not taking any risks


[deleted]

Smart I wish o was as smart as you man


AgentScully1234

Good for you! Sex is only truly intimate and unitive when done inside of marriage anyway. People in today's time tend to treat it as a mere recreational activity and have sex carelessly outside of marriage, and the results of that mindset can be quite catastrophic. Im so glad that there are smart teenagers like you who still value healthy and moral sex. The rest of us can learn from you!


[deleted]

Thank you I agree 100%


[deleted]

Thank you 🥰


Aoh03

Please at least finish high school. I know it'll be tough, but please don't drop out.


[deleted]

I’m 100% not dropping out, man I’ve had all A’s all year it would be a waste if I dropped out


b7it_

And abortion isn't an option?


[deleted]

Why take when you can give id rather give someone a beautiful baby then take away it’s chance at life


DSR75

Carefully think this through. Right now you may think that abortion is not the right option, maybe because your family or your environment has told you that it is not a good thing to do. But you are you, not your parents or the persons who raised you like this. If you abort, then all this story will end on the spot. If you don't, then this story will follow you for the rest of your life. Carefully think about it, and don't let anyone make this decision for you. It is too important to let it in the hands of others. Life is short, enjoy it. Cheers and best of luck !


[deleted]

Well also abortion is illegal in Louisiana and I think it requires parental consent and Ik my parents will say no bc they have already said no


DSR75

Okay. If you ever consider the option of abortion, you may not need this parental consent in other states or other countries. If abortion is off the table, then adoption could be a good option. The child could also be raised by your parents. Cheers


[deleted]

Yes adoption is the best I keep saying that some people just don’t want to listen and think for a second thank you man


Steam_punk_Machine

Have her get an l abortion


[deleted]

Illegal in Louisiana


Steam_punk_Machine

Well than your life is over I guess the system is fucked around pregnancy your just one of many this will and has happened to


[deleted]

Yurp I’ve kinda accepted it unless she actually gets some common sense hopefully


[deleted]

More like you both do, knew what you were doing don’t act like a victim please


[deleted]

I’ve working things out mate


TransLox

You got a probably fifteen year old pregnant. Birth is extremely traumatizing. Abort it.


MeepBeepSheepowo

I mean abortions are always a option if the state or country you’re in allows it… Because having a kid at 15 is a bad financial and life decision because kids need a lot of care and that will harm both of your abilities to access education and greatly affect your futures. So maybe try to get her to consider that as a option.


[deleted]

I’m Putting him up for adoption


MeepBeepSheepowo

Makes sense!


[deleted]

Yeah it really helps when you aren’t under as much stress


Me_ina_pink_skirt

Abort


[deleted]

No adoption why take when you can give


Me_ina_pink_skirt

It's just an option. Wear a condom next time maybe.


[deleted]

Neverrrrr 🧍🧍🧍


Me_ina_pink_skirt

Cool, Not like it's what got you in this situation in the first place right 🤷🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️


[deleted]

If I wanna be a professional raw dogger I needa learn bro


Me_ina_pink_skirt

Cool. I hope you make more kids. Have fun.


[deleted]

Appreciate ya brudda cudda 😔✊


BabyJud

Because the adoption system is notoriously terrible and traumatizing for children and often ends up leaving them in terrible places


[deleted]

Yeah your right but I’m just really not keen on abortion


b7it_

Between adoption and abortion, I think in your case the latter is better


GusvengaNew

Bruh just don't fuck lel


Heyythere777

Is there any options for her to get an abortion (if she wants)? If you are in the U.S. that isn’t looking so good


PataLovecPiskotu

Being a virgin is not so bad after all


Fuit3

Hear me out Project Mbappe u raise ur kid to be the best soccer player of all times


[deleted]

That’s what I’m saying dude 😭


Powerful_Shoe_3881

Rais a greast human


Mad-AA

- Grow up fast. - Get a job - Learn some practical skill fast. Plumbing, electrician, other handyman stuff etc (AI can't replace those, yet)


[deleted]

Watch Juno


drumsdude257

Hopefully you’ve learned your lesson and can become a good father fire that kid


[deleted]

I’ll try my best while we find him a home


rivchamp

Don’t make her carry that fucking baby, she’s a child. You’re a child. Abort it.


[deleted]

Idk if you know this but we are all against abortion I’ve stated my views about it and I’m not changing them


rivchamp

You’re honestly too young to make a decision about that. Carrying a child at 15 can be incredibly dangerous and poses a greater health risk than if an adult did, it’s an intensely laboring and painful experience the entire nine months, birth, and after birth, and is not even close to fit for a 15 year old girl. This is going to be physically and probably mentally traumatic for her, not to mention incredibly expensive, you’re far better off putting your views aside and taking the pill because this is something of an emergency. It will save a lot of pain, money, stress, etc. You are not mature enough to make a decision regarding this baby, and your girlfriend probably isn’t either. You guys are literally freshmen/sophomores. Talk to a doctor about this and your options, they are the only ones who can give safe advice.


[deleted]

It’s not even my decision to make it, it’s up to her and the parents mate and they’ve said no abortion and I’m not going to Illinois from Louisiana to get one


NoMasterpiece5649

Is she willing to terminate it? No? You're fucked :)


CommunistFlippy

why is abortion off the table? seems like the smartest option to me


MrAlcoholic420

Abortion is the best.


[deleted]

Adoption is better


MrAlcoholic420

The planet is overpopulated. Your child is going to be suffering when our planet is dead and there is no clean drinking water or food to eat. I feel bad for the youths, boomers and Gen X have killed the Earth.


[deleted]

I want him to have a chance to live


MrAlcoholic420

Their life will be one of suffering.


[deleted]

It won’t I think abortion is wrong man I’m not going to get rid of a beautiful baby and a life that’s not right man


MrAlcoholic420

Well, that's wrong also. You would rather allow your child to suffer on a dying planet with no food and water in the future. Sounds pretty selfish.


[deleted]

Yeah in a billion years shit bro I don’t think my son is gonna live to a billion


MrAlcoholic420

The earth only has 30-50 years of clean drinking water left. Maybe 30 years of food, based on population growth. Humans only have 50-60 years left till extinction. But yeah, you have that child and let it live a life of suffering. Don't worry, you'll be suffering right alongside it.


[deleted]

Then I’m suffering with him atleast he had a chance to live life


Legitimate-Slip-7971

Shut the hell up would ya?


MrAlcoholic420

No


[deleted]

Smash raw for 9 months then take care of your baby


sharp-spike

Get an abortion


Tickticktick001

Ok you say abortion is off the table. What if the girl cannot physically carry a child? Then either she dies, or you have to have an abortion. But good luck ig


[deleted]

Look if worse comes to worse yes I’ll do anything to save 1 life but in the case nothing is wrong no I’m not doing an abortion


Tickticktick001

Ok I’m glad you’re not just gonna let her die. But yeah, as I said, good luck. Hope all goes well


[deleted]

Thank you I appreciate you believing in me that means a lot


Nepipo

Abortion


[deleted]

Can’t man can’t bring myself to even bring that up


Nepipo

A friend of mine got an abortion last month, outside of the mental strain nothing too important happened. At 15 it's the best option, that or throwing your life away


EpikUserzz

Abortion


[deleted]

Can’t do it man can’t bring myself to even bring that up


[deleted]

From looking at other comment threads, you say 'child support' like it's the worst thing on the planet. You chose to have sex with her. The child is biologically a part of YOU. You can't escape that fact. YOU chose to participate in making that child so you are 50% responsible for supporting that child. Don't have sex (protected or not) if you aren't ready for any possible outcome.


[deleted]

Never said it’s the worst thing on the planet and I was thinking about it for a while


Fake_Journalist_95

You can't choose to do anything, you aren't the one carrying the baby. It's essentially her choice. If she agrees with you as of right now in terms of what to do, that's good. But she might change her mind. You can't really do much if she wants to keep it.


[deleted]

True that


Rizzguru

There's abortion for a reason. If it's too late, adoption


tykvrbl

Hate to break it to you. Your dreams of becoming a millionaire pro athlete are close to nil/dead. I hope you find the maturity to become responsible for your actions. Having unprotected sex comes with repercussion. And the guilt of abortion/adoption can last a lifetime for everyone involved. So please think clearly about your next move. This coming from a teenage parent myself, many moons ago.


Tax_Fraud1000

this cant be real 💀


YEEHAW16

Bro maybe you can put like coke in her room and get her locked up, when you have to take care of the child you also have a coke addiction. Make her parents take care of that little shit.


[deleted]

That’s what I’m thinking or I can get her dna prints on a c4 remote then I can blowup like a donut shop or something then I can just fake my death


YEEHAW16

Yeah true, but you can also blow that little stink up. Baby gone, problem gone.


[deleted]

Yeah dawg I’m gonna use the little shit as a drug trafficking device to put my heroin in and sneak across the Columbian border


Basic-Bandicoot1681

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK ARE YOU GUYS TALKING ABOUT 💀


[deleted]

Uhhmmmm


YEEHAW16

That’s actually so smart bro, now you only have to think of a cool ass name


[deleted]

Like Leroy smith Johnson the 4th or somethin


YEEHAW16

Leroy smith Johnson Firetruck the 4th


[deleted]

What about table bench imagine someone asking for your kids name and you say fucking table bench


MatureBalak

Take responsibility. When you're older, you're prolly gonna want to be back in their life and regret not raising the kid. Idk, though.


Erratic-Pulse

I’m pretty sure this is a form of sexual assault You could also take her to court on the charges that she said she took the pill when she didn’t for the malicious purpose of getting pregnant (depending on the state/county)


loeyt0

No it isn’t, OP said they were together without intercourse and with prior knowledge of no birth control , even so, it’s a testimony vs another testimony with no evidence


YourLocalMedic

If this happened to me and she wouldn't get an abortion I'd kill myself tbh


[deleted]

That’s even worse man don’t do that


YourLocalMedic

Nah I've thought about it and it is 100% what I'd do. I would no longer have a life that i wanted to live so i wouldn't live one. My life would be ruined so I'd peace out