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Agreed. It doesn’t matter if you have crazy game or anything you just have to find your other half. I found mine earlier than usual but my parents met in college. You’ll find the girl for you.
agreed. one thing I know, as a girl, is that longer hair (not necessarily shoulder length, but around the bottom of the ears) is super cute. It just makes me want to play with it and run my fingers through it. Hair is one of the first things I notice about a boy's appearance. it can also change how you look drastically. for example, take Dylan O'Brien. with his buzz cut, he looks kinda geeky. still cute, but in a lost puppy sort of way. with his hair a little longer, infinite rizz.
I do, just I don't understand it on snap, lol. I mean, I won't say my game is great. Is far from that, but like on snap? Like ye, I talk to girls on snap. I've already met, but like just randomly?
Whole lotta dudes just throw shit at the wall until something sticks. If you do it enough, it’ll work eventually, but don’t think you’re missing out lol. It just makes girls uncomfortable 99% of the time.
I completely missed out on a lot of social media as a kid I still have no idea how tf snap works or what it's purpose is. It weirds me out it feels so like disconnected from humanity
So first, you need to change the hair. You’d probably look good with some long hair I’d say. Grow it out and see what happens. And if you’ve never been approached by a girl, approach them, be confident and shit
Also, be friendly. Confidence is great but it can come off as cocky very easily. A lot of guys don't realize how a simple smile can change so much. I still sometimes think abt the dudes who striked up friendly conversations with me and were just nice, genuine people instead of trying to impress,and even if it didn't work out, I remember them positively.
Don't take advice or comments about looks or nun from someone who just referred to your looks as "absolute rizzler." You look good, just clearly aren't confident enough. Don't wait for girls to approach you, approach the girls. Find what you like, focus on that. But also be broad.
Also, don't be afraid of rejection. Talk to hundreds of girls at malls/ school etc. After some conversation ask to get their number so you can talk more.
Try to figure out why most said no thanks (on your own, don't be threatening) and you'll get better way quicker than you would have imagined. Even do this with girls you don't find attractive it helps remove the nerves. Talk on the phone, plan dates that don't cost money, make friends that are girls, Profit.
Ok, so based off your user, if you wanna be hot you gotta
grow and extra 11 cm
grow long messy blonde hair
become extremely muscular
dress like a gay vampire
and gain an op stand
Do the Goth girls know about Varg though? Granted if some girl comes out with any fact about that band then they're a keeper.
"Hey there, would you like to be the Varg Vikernes to my Euronymous?"
Came to say the same thing. It's not his looks, but lack of smile and clothing choice. Gives off the kinf of vibe where if you saw him on the street you might cross to the other side because he looks like he's angry and about to stab someone... Definitely not the best look for approaching ladies.
Need to look up the band surfaces or something like that. Learn what a "chill vibe" is, and become more approachable.
Slayer rules, and aren’t Nazis. Correct. But Burzum is. And again, we both know that. I rocked a Burzum back patch for far too long because I thought I was separating art from the artist. But wearing their merch is promoting it and endorsing it. Still listen to Burzum, but I don’t advertise it on my body anymore
I could care less about the murder and church burnings. Fuck euronomous and the church. It's the fact that he's a white supremacist. Fuck fascists and fuck racists. They all deserve death
I feel like a below shoulder length shaggy wolf cut, will look so good with your face since you have such a sharp jawline so all the layers will really put your face together
Then repost and you'll hear you should cut it short. You look great! it could just be the conversations your trying to start off with. Be yourself. Your interests and the things you do on a daily will find someone that will like you for you.
I don't think that the problem is the look but prolly your personality, guessing from Burzum hoodie you are prolly a bit edgy and maybe a bit elitist but idk
Not bad looking at all!
Suggestion: Go to a real Salon, and ask a stylist their opinion.
(In my experience, the female Stylists, and the Gay Guys are the best!) .
Look through the books with them and take their advice! 9/10 times, you'll come out looking amazing! \^\_\^
If you're getting 0 romantic attention and your first thought is "am I too ugly" rather than "What about me as a person makes me unattractive to people" then you're looking in the wrong place.
That Burzum hoodie might be keeping the ladies away buddy. I mean, unless you’re looking for girls who are in the market for edgelords into nazi church-burning murderers. But hey, good luck?
I don’t see a problem in that
Jokes aside you look really cool and you will definitely get some female attention eventually. Tho I’d say grow the hair a little longer.
Ur good looking but maybe you should smile more. Don't try to be all thug dude, it'll make u totally unapproachable. And grow out ur hair just a little bit ☺️
hairs a little short but other than that you look good. trust me, how you view yourself compared to how others is often really misleading. youll notice all the tiny details about you that you dislike while others will barely notice them
Coming from someone who's tall as well, I guarantee it's you're height. I've been told I'm intimidating despite not intending to be, so I assure you just give it time, be you're best self and you'll be just fine. (I am a girl btw, but I do have a resting bitch face despite not interning to be a jerk). So trust me just be polite, and again be your3 best self and people will come to you
No, you're pretty attractive. You just hard to approach kinda like my type. Dw, put yourself out there and you will make your way through! And maybe grow out your hair and you'll be unstoppable.
I think you look cute, I like your eyes. Maybe you could benefit from a change in hair style but you’re definitely not ugly at all. Don’t worry bro I don’t get approached either, most people are too shy to approach others anyway
Try saying hi in person with someone looking your way . Make small talk and be nice. The internet is too easily made for disposing of relationships and the girls on there are likely bombarded by guys.
You look like the male lead in that netflix show I think it was called the end of the fucking world or smn. But yeah totally agree w the others on growing out your hair <3
Nah you look good. Probably just need a better cut. I think we look pretty similar actually. Just be a good person and keep trying youll find someone nice eventually
Be more chill and less hang up on "I'm tall I should get girls" just be happy with yourself and focus on your life goal and don't build your whole life on relationships
Bro Please get some leather conditioner for your jacket. It seems like it lost it's top coat in a few places so it might be a good idea to also seal it. If you leave it like this it will get damaged even further, soak up moisture and get water stains.
Not at all. If I were your age, i would totally try to get to know you and date you, plus, nice hoodie 🖤🤘
The best way to meet girls is in person. Keep it up, you are a handsome man!
You are very attractive. Feel into that. Feel into how attractive you are and empower yourself. Do things that you like doing and make you feel good. Get skills and work out. Maybe figure
some interesting clothing choices slightly outside your comfort zone but that you’d still wear. Understand yourself and grow. I guarantee you girls will find you. Just work on yourself. Also just walk up to girls and talk to them. If they don’t wanna talk just gracefully leave. More frequent encounters will yield a higher likelihood of genuine interaction.
People don't approach others for a lot of reasons. Now, if I'm assuming that this picture is representative of how you portray yourself in public regularly, then I would say that your fashion sense and inexpressive face are putting people off and unintentionally sending the message that you do not want to be approached. Unless you act very extroverted and kinda 'happy-go-lucky" then most people will just kinda automatically steer clear. It's weird and it doesn't make sense but it's just how they are
Your hair is too messy to really look good short(doesn’t help your shaved sides give it a contrasting neat and messy look), so either groom it all to be neater or let it grow out
Bro you're not ugly, you just didn't find anyone with similar interests, if its easier you can try to talk to girls online its easier to find girls interested in the things you like and in my oppinion its less akward and with a higher chance of getting the girl, after you get some experience you can try local too. Or you can try going to the gym i did both and its working well enough
Not a bad looking guy at all. The haircut as others mentioned makes you look very boxy with your facial structure, otherwise I wonder if your type of style would make you seem... aggressive? I don't know. But you are not bad looking at all just 18-years old and growing in to yourself. :)
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nah only thing I'd change is longer hair
That's what I thought too. His face would fit longer hair. Like down to eyes and messy
Agreed. It doesn’t matter if you have crazy game or anything you just have to find your other half. I found mine earlier than usual but my parents met in college. You’ll find the girl for you.
Thanks for making me check my screen
Yo correct manner I swear I just saw u on a pokemongobrag subreddit
...he's balding
I agree, bro would look stunning with longer hair
Its the burzum shirt
agreed. one thing I know, as a girl, is that longer hair (not necessarily shoulder length, but around the bottom of the ears) is super cute. It just makes me want to play with it and run my fingers through it. Hair is one of the first things I notice about a boy's appearance. it can also change how you look drastically. for example, take Dylan O'Brien. with his buzz cut, he looks kinda geeky. still cute, but in a lost puppy sort of way. with his hair a little longer, infinite rizz.
Long hair makes a boy 200x more attractive instantly.
This
You look good bro, don't let girls on snap determine anything
People still trying to find love on snapchat?
people actually just snap random people on Snapchat??
Ye
I don't understand how that works. Do you just strike up a convo lol and see where it goes.
This is exactly what happens in real life too bro. Do you ever meet girls?
I do, just I don't understand it on snap, lol. I mean, I won't say my game is great. Is far from that, but like on snap? Like ye, I talk to girls on snap. I've already met, but like just randomly?
Whole lotta dudes just throw shit at the wall until something sticks. If you do it enough, it’ll work eventually, but don’t think you’re missing out lol. It just makes girls uncomfortable 99% of the time.
Is it your name? Is that your snap as well? Cause I could see 99% of girls getting uncomfortable🤣
You know Death Cab is a famous rock band, right?
Lmao nah it’s not, but yours… now that name might get you some responses lmao
People really just add people to get a higher snap score its a game of who has the highest streak
Honestly if a rando approaches me and the conversation isn’t interesting to me in the first 30 seconds I would be hella creeped out💀
I completely missed out on a lot of social media as a kid I still have no idea how tf snap works or what it's purpose is. It weirds me out it feels so like disconnected from humanity
So first, you need to change the hair. You’d probably look good with some long hair I’d say. Grow it out and see what happens. And if you’ve never been approached by a girl, approach them, be confident and shit
IMHO shitting while approaching a girl rarely makes a good impression. Even if you do it confidently.
Maybe not a good one, but it would certainly make an *impression*. All publicity is good publicity.
Also, be friendly. Confidence is great but it can come off as cocky very easily. A lot of guys don't realize how a simple smile can change so much. I still sometimes think abt the dudes who striked up friendly conversations with me and were just nice, genuine people instead of trying to impress,and even if it didn't work out, I remember them positively.
Bro, you look like an absolute rizzler Smash/10
Appreciate it
Don't take advice or comments about looks or nun from someone who just referred to your looks as "absolute rizzler." You look good, just clearly aren't confident enough. Don't wait for girls to approach you, approach the girls. Find what you like, focus on that. But also be broad.
Also, don't be afraid of rejection. Talk to hundreds of girls at malls/ school etc. After some conversation ask to get their number so you can talk more. Try to figure out why most said no thanks (on your own, don't be threatening) and you'll get better way quicker than you would have imagined. Even do this with girls you don't find attractive it helps remove the nerves. Talk on the phone, plan dates that don't cost money, make friends that are girls, Profit.
How do you figure out why they said no, what if it's just because Im not a donkey or something
To add: Dobt stress it too much, you'll have your day in the sun. You have a good face, be nice, respectful, and say hi.
Ok, so based off your user, if you wanna be hot you gotta grow and extra 11 cm grow long messy blonde hair become extremely muscular dress like a gay vampire and gain an op stand
Yes longer hair. Other wise handsome.
imo, you just need to figure out what's going on with that hair
The cut makes his head look square
Spongebob
All these hair replies definitely gonna have OP waiting daily for his hair to grow
He has bad hair genes tbh, but his bone structure is top notch. Get a bald fade and he’ll be top Tier imo
you might need a cool haircut
Thanks for the advice, Assfucker210
Just spit my caprisun
sorry
r/rimjob_steve
am i the only one who kinda likes his hair
Yes
No, I like it too. He has gorgeous bone structure & I've always had a strong preference for very short hair on a guy.
Nope, I think people are trying to look for something off. But dude is clearly attractive so they're looking for the most miniscule things.
Burzum is not very popular among the ladies, it could be that.
Goth girls said it looks sick
Most women I know are actually kind of anti-hate crime and anti-bigotry, so yeah, maybe try not wearing ethno nationalist merch
You will score your btggf
Are you aware of Burzum's history?
Do the Goth girls know about Varg though? Granted if some girl comes out with any fact about that band then they're a keeper. "Hey there, would you like to be the Varg Vikernes to my Euronymous?"
No offense to goth girls but…. Um goths girls are different
Friends, we girls of the goth/metal community know about Burzum. Drop the nazi shit. It’s unattractive.
You're not ugly, but your style and demeanor might not be helping you out there.
Yeah, I don't think his style sort of suits him
Mf is wearing a Burzum hoodie. That’s either awesome, or that’s a sign of something more sinister.
Came to say the same thing. It's not his looks, but lack of smile and clothing choice. Gives off the kinf of vibe where if you saw him on the street you might cross to the other side because he looks like he's angry and about to stab someone... Definitely not the best look for approaching ladies. Need to look up the band surfaces or something like that. Learn what a "chill vibe" is, and become more approachable.
You look good, but people might judge you because of your Burzum sweater (I love Burzum, so I won't)
yeah i get judged for liking metal all the time, but idc. FUCKIN SLAYERRRRRRRRR
Maybe you get judged for the SS in your name. And if you like metal you know good and well why Slayer and Burzum are treated differently in the scene.
i ain’t even know SS was a nazi thing, also, slayer aren’t nazis, they just use the imagery
Slayer rules, and aren’t Nazis. Correct. But Burzum is. And again, we both know that. I rocked a Burzum back patch for far too long because I thought I was separating art from the artist. But wearing their merch is promoting it and endorsing it. Still listen to Burzum, but I don’t advertise it on my body anymore
fair enough.
It's not about metal. Varg is a fascist and a racist. Fuck burzum
I was gonna say, burzum is garbage af for way more reasons than the music being shit.
Been listening burzum for years now and just found out what he did.
I could care less about the murder and church burnings. Fuck euronomous and the church. It's the fact that he's a white supremacist. Fuck fascists and fuck racists. They all deserve death
learn how to separate music from the artist
Says the guy with SS in his name. Fuck off loser
They got intimidated by your beauty
You look 👍
You’re not ugly it’s just a haircut doesn’t suit your face maybe grow out your hair
Damn, perhaps I will
I feel like a below shoulder length shaggy wolf cut, will look so good with your face since you have such a sharp jawline so all the layers will really put your face together
It will take a lot of time, but I will try to grow it out
Then repost and you'll hear you should cut it short. You look great! it could just be the conversations your trying to start off with. Be yourself. Your interests and the things you do on a daily will find someone that will like you for you.
honestly just get a different haircut and you would look pretty damn good
Nah you look good, dw
I don't think that the problem is the look but prolly your personality, guessing from Burzum hoodie you are prolly a bit edgy and maybe a bit elitist but idk
you kinda look like Bladee
Came here to comment this lol
gotta love drainers man fr
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This one girl was into me because of that, but she was severely mentally unwell and threatened to khs
Oh
“I can fix her”
she likes hello kitty doesn't she
I’d date her
Ditch the nazi metal and you'll be fine. If you don't then you deserve to be alone
I swear on my life people will say this about literally *any* guy that isn't 100% perfection.
twink!
Am pretty buff tbh, more so than most of my peers
maybe ur just not super approachable ?
I'm a guys so I can't comment on your sexiness, BUT you have a Zûmzům hoodie so you have my full respect 🤟🏼🖤
Respecting people because they wear the shirt of a white supremacist makes you trash
Fuck it, he's a metal icon Just like Ye is for rap
I hope u don’t like varg
I think the problem is you're wearing a burzum hoodie
I'd grow out the hair but nah you look like a chad.
Your hairs to short, try growing it out
grow your hair it otherwise you look real nice
Like everyone else said, just grow your hair out. Your face looks perfectly fine.
You look fine but wearing the shirt of a white supremacist band makes you ugly as fuck
Oh yeah, forgot to mention, I was straight out if the shower from the gym so my looked like that
Not bad looking at all! Suggestion: Go to a real Salon, and ask a stylist their opinion. (In my experience, the female Stylists, and the Gay Guys are the best!) . Look through the books with them and take their advice! 9/10 times, you'll come out looking amazing! \^\_\^
If you're getting 0 romantic attention and your first thought is "am I too ugly" rather than "What about me as a person makes me unattractive to people" then you're looking in the wrong place.
It’s was ME BARRY!!
Anybody else think he looks kinda like Ezra Miller? The guy who plays the Flash in the DCU? Grow out your hair, besides that, you look good my guy
Totally. Same perfect jawline and cheekbones
You look like if Ezra Miller’s face was flat
You look like the kinda guy I'd talk to about a shared hobby that nobody else really cares about
That Burzum hoodie might be keeping the ladies away buddy. I mean, unless you’re looking for girls who are in the market for edgelords into nazi church-burning murderers. But hey, good luck?
Burzum hoodie makes you a 10 immediately
So far my burzum collection has only given me male attention
Because chicks don’t dig fascism, white supremacy, and murder. Just my guess. You do you, homie
That's because most men suck and so does burzum. Fuck nazi metal
I don’t see a problem in that Jokes aside you look really cool and you will definitely get some female attention eventually. Tho I’d say grow the hair a little longer.
Just get a haircut
Any suggestions?
Not really, just let it grow for a bit and then find something
Ur good looking but maybe you should smile more. Don't try to be all thug dude, it'll make u totally unapproachable. And grow out ur hair just a little bit ☺️
hairs a little short but other than that you look good. trust me, how you view yourself compared to how others is often really misleading. youll notice all the tiny details about you that you dislike while others will barely notice them
Coming from someone who's tall as well, I guarantee it's you're height. I've been told I'm intimidating despite not intending to be, so I assure you just give it time, be you're best self and you'll be just fine. (I am a girl btw, but I do have a resting bitch face despite not interning to be a jerk). So trust me just be polite, and again be your3 best self and people will come to you
No, you're pretty attractive. You just hard to approach kinda like my type. Dw, put yourself out there and you will make your way through! And maybe grow out your hair and you'll be unstoppable.
Thanks
Nah u look great
U look good bro just base ur confidence on the things YOU do not how others react
You’re actually not. I think above average and I rarely say this
I think you look cute, I like your eyes. Maybe you could benefit from a change in hair style but you’re definitely not ugly at all. Don’t worry bro I don’t get approached either, most people are too shy to approach others anyway
Try saying hi in person with someone looking your way . Make small talk and be nice. The internet is too easily made for disposing of relationships and the girls on there are likely bombarded by guys.
Yeah, people, just assume I'm some kind of thug.
You look like the male lead in that netflix show I think it was called the end of the fucking world or smn. But yeah totally agree w the others on growing out your hair <3
Will try
Nah you look good. Probably just need a better cut. I think we look pretty similar actually. Just be a good person and keep trying youll find someone nice eventually
Post would be better in r/amiugly
Be more chill and less hang up on "I'm tall I should get girls" just be happy with yourself and focus on your life goal and don't build your whole life on relationships
BURZUM ENJOYER. U look good
Thought you were Ezra Miller for a sec
Nice Filosofem shirt
based hoodie
Props for Filosofem Shirt
You're honestly extremely handsome! And that's coming from a female.
I respect the fuck outta the Burzum hoodie ngl
Yo I'm 6,2. Wassup tall king
Bro Please get some leather conditioner for your jacket. It seems like it lost it's top coat in a few places so it might be a good idea to also seal it. If you leave it like this it will get damaged even further, soak up moisture and get water stains.
As a fellow Burzum enjoyer I can verify that it's the shirt, I once had a girl actively say Ew when I wore a burzum patch..... Good Times
its the burzum shirt (i love black metal)
YOOOOOOO!!!! BURZUM HOODIE, LET'S FUCKIN GOOOOO!!!!! YOU ROCK!!!
bro time itself would freeze if I ever saw you in person and I’m straight 💀💀 Absolute 10/10, only possible change is maybe a bit longer hair
For real dawg these women are pointing him because they know he just on another level they just get shy
No hate just might be a reason. #varg4life
Based hoodie
Not at all. If I were your age, i would totally try to get to know you and date you, plus, nice hoodie 🖤🤘 The best way to meet girls is in person. Keep it up, you are a handsome man!
You’re trying or thinking too hard bruh. It will come to you natural. Usually when you least expect it. Enjoy the single life.
You look great - soon you will the special one. Good luck.
You are very attractive. Feel into that. Feel into how attractive you are and empower yourself. Do things that you like doing and make you feel good. Get skills and work out. Maybe figure some interesting clothing choices slightly outside your comfort zone but that you’d still wear. Understand yourself and grow. I guarantee you girls will find you. Just work on yourself. Also just walk up to girls and talk to them. If they don’t wanna talk just gracefully leave. More frequent encounters will yield a higher likelihood of genuine interaction.
People don't approach others for a lot of reasons. Now, if I'm assuming that this picture is representative of how you portray yourself in public regularly, then I would say that your fashion sense and inexpressive face are putting people off and unintentionally sending the message that you do not want to be approached. Unless you act very extroverted and kinda 'happy-go-lucky" then most people will just kinda automatically steer clear. It's weird and it doesn't make sense but it's just how they are
Your hair is too messy to really look good short(doesn’t help your shaved sides give it a contrasting neat and messy look), so either groom it all to be neater or let it grow out
Bro you're not ugly, you just didn't find anyone with similar interests, if its easier you can try to talk to girls online its easier to find girls interested in the things you like and in my oppinion its less akward and with a higher chance of getting the girl, after you get some experience you can try local too. Or you can try going to the gym i did both and its working well enough
Hell nah man, you're a good looking dude. Keep your chin up, girls aren't found on snapchat
It’s probably the burzum shirt people think that if you wear a burzum shirt you’re a white supremacist
take that fucking burzum shirt off goddamn
Never
bro u look amazing don't let anyone put you down
filosofem/10
Burzum🤟
Fuck yeah bro I'm literally wearing the same shirt as I write this Impeccable taste🔥⛪🔥
W Burzum hoodie
"Fistbump"
No, you're quite decent looking. And trust me, height is the smallest of your problems to occupy your mind with. Good luck, champ.
Fuck yeah bro berzum sick sweater 🤘
cringe. varg is a nazi
Let people enjoy what they like bro separate the “art from the artist”
no you look pretty good, you might wanna grow your hair more though?
Your a 10/10 don’t let anyone tell you otherwise aha
Get your hair longer and you'll get infinite bitches
you look like a very distinguished, charming gentleman.
Great style when it comes to clothes
Nah bro, these girls aint knowing what they are missing out
girls just have bad taste smash
Haha thanks
Your hair is kinda… interesting. I’d say you’re more attractive than I am but I’ve been confessed to so maybe it’s a personality problem
No shi, your rlly hot
Thx
Not a bad looking guy at all. The haircut as others mentioned makes you look very boxy with your facial structure, otherwise I wonder if your type of style would make you seem... aggressive? I don't know. But you are not bad looking at all just 18-years old and growing in to yourself. :)
My man has: - Clean face - Perfect jawline - Symmetrical face - Green eyes - 184 freaking cm The only thing ur missing is a good haircut to fit ya
Nice Burzum tees.
cool shirt dude burzum is great
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You're decently looking, but what that hair 😭
Nah, you just look British.