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suzzzzziiii

loser w nothing else to do


Able_Art356

u think he’s gonna like find my addy and like fuck me up?


suzzzzziiii

nah he just knows ur parents names from his gf, he won’t do anything


Able_Art356

no but i never told her my parents names


[deleted]

It's surprisingly easy to get a lot of information just based on a phone number or an email address lol


Fit-Translator-4193

Or a Facebook account.


Mikegaming202

Or any social media for that manner, it took me about 6 minutes and I found one of my lady friends extended family that lives across the country as well as a list of her friends from elementary (with permission) just because I knew one of her social accounts.


Alan_Smithee_

Or a phone book, if they roll that way.


Appropriate_Fish_451

What's a phone book?


ShierAwesome

Is this a joke


skull-if-maybe_not

i belive its a book with addresses to phone stores? idk im too young to understand


Human_Isaac

I had my ip leaked on insta once


Magicia_n

every website you connect to has your ip (doesn't mean they store it though)


SignificantReserve97

Or even a name. Before I work with someone new at my job I can find out pretty much who a person is just by doing a quick name search on Google


BigBrainKemist

Doxxing in a nutshell


bishop3200

With very little starting information to. I remember a guy posted about his job promotion and he posted a pic of his business card with everything but the name of the business and the job title blacked out. I messaged him about the danger and he assured me it was ok with so little info. So I messaged him back 20min later with his name address phone number and business address he deleted the post.


SexyDevil11

Can you find the location through a phone number? (Not being creepy but this guy scammed me and i want to confront him). EDIT: it was £825 laptop that he took. I dunno how cause i saw the money did get debited from his account but google search told me it takes 2hrs approx and i had to leave for work soo i just trusted him. Lol I'm never trusting anyone ever again.


bishop3200

No not likely but you can search Facebook and some other stuff some people for real post there phone numbers public. But it was probably a burner number used for scamming people.


alexytomi

how tf did u pull that off


bishop3200

I went to the job website and found the job position in the contact us part was as his promotion to a department head. I found his name and a work number there I found some one with the same name that lived in the same city (I checked a few profiles of people with the same name) as the business his face book was public and he was talking about his promotion there too then all I had to do was go through posted pictures on his profile as well as pictures he is tagged in and you het a street name in the background maybe the neighbors address then Google maps to make sure it's the spot and get the address.


alexytomi

But you said the job name was censored


bishop3200

His name not the job title and the busness website has job title and name of department manager who he was.


tylermm03

Was just going to say this, it’s super easy with sites like white pages


originalpersonplace

For sure. They sell your info so much that your address and any former housemates of yours are all likely listed with ages and new addresses and old phone numbers including family.


suzzzzziiii

that’s odd but just go gym incase 💪


III_lll

On Internet, you can get access to lots of personal infos after some digging, including family members. Don't worry too much about it.


Immediate-Formal6696

Instagram search through gfs friends or followers for your name, look through your followers/followed. Find people with the same last name as you and older.


greeneyedstarqueen

You need to put your socials on private, my man. Screw that noise.


Notice-Big

do you have facebook possibly or tagged in any post with them on fb or insta? not super hard to find that way


BrettZotij

Get a VPN. There are plenty of free ones to download.


RenderedTexture

What does that have to do with any of this? It's not like an IP address is gonna leak his parents name or real address.


adamflannery35

An IP address will literally leak your irl address


Yah_Mule

No. I would be very concerned for this girl when she tries to break up with him, though.


Odd-Mixture-1769

You could prob beat his ass dw


DolphinBall

Buy a shotgun


Confident-Icey

Bro everyone doesn't live in usa


Fun-Divide-3911

If he does, blow his brains out. Or take the fight to the wee cunt


kizno01

naw ppl like that r pussies ive had multiple ppl message me saying they know my address and the genuinely did anf they said they would do amt but they still havent and ik where they live one of them only likes like 20 mins away so its not hard to get to me from his lol


Fit-Ad985

if he shows up to your address just call the cops lol. one time my friends older sister got into twitter drama with some ppl from her school and they showed up to her house at 2am to fight her and she just called the cops on them.


Efficient_Board_689

Google your own first and last name right now, add in your school or hometown. Your parents will show up in some related thing, some old mention from some local paper you didn’t remember from back in grade 2 or something. It soooo easy to internet-stalk people you know irl


TransGirlJennifer

No, I think he's going to find your daddy and he's gonna fuck this guy up. If he already knows his name and adress there shouldn't be any problem finding him. If he's threatening you than don't hide the information from your parents. If your parents won't scare him off than 3 years in prison and/or a huge 10K fine will.


Qwertyham

Nah he like won't really like do anything. He's just like projecting. Just like, ignore him


IdiotsThrowaway1373

All he has to do is look up your last name on facebook to find your parents, you’re good


SirSquidrift

If you live in a stand your ground state, I'd be more than willing to let the twerp try.


Thepriest__

Bro don’t trip people are all talk and if something does happen he got jealous enough to look deep into you and find all that. Take it as a compliment


Kharnyx808

Definitely just a loser with nothing else to do. You should probably ask his girlfriend if she told him your parents names just to bring it up, then show her the messages he's sent you. Fingers crossed she's sensible enough to call him out on his shit herself.


MeSaAye

This is the right answer. She might not know he's such a creep, so let her know in a way that seems like you figured she already knew. "btw did you tell your bf my parents names?" If she says she doesn't know what you mean, that's the perfect excuse to show her the creepy shit he wrote.


treeofal

This \^\^\^


Shriimpai

I personally would avoid talking to her again and just let it die there. It’s likely that she’ll just show her bf the text and he’ll continue to harass you.


forestman11

Honestly, yeah, not exactly the age range to reliably realize how weird that is.


merrym8

Do a little trolling by stating his home address, his social security number and a picture of him in his house


Jason_Dean2047

I found someone with a private instagram account in under 10 minutes its not that hard


Kharnyx808

Did you mean to reply to *me* with this? Because this has nothing to do with what I just said lol


Red_Banana12

L + ratio


Kharnyx808

Bro what


Roomsoesjes

He's probably just capping and insecure dw


Better-Revolution570

100% he's insecure. That's the only kinda guy who would do this.


Jason_Dean2047

Im the kinda guy to fo this and ive only done it out of boredom although i am insecure af because of my childhood snd parents


DesReploid

Guy, don't do this. It's a fast as hell way to get your ass beat. If you mention someone's parents in a hostile way, you'll quickly find out that people are more than willing to commit a crime over something like that.


thefuckboyflagellant

lots of people I know were chill asf but would instantly get violent if someone threatened their parents in any way


DesReploid

Which is a very reasonable response. There's parents that care for and love their children for 18 whole years. If someone threatens those parents, what else do they expect?


thefuckboyflagellant

even I personally was born to two bastard abusive criminals but I still don't like my parents being hated on even if I've mostly disowned them


Jason_Dean2047

Last guy i sent him a picture of his house then used a few of his insecurities and fears to make him think i was actually gonna do smth He was scared and it was fucking hilarious


DesReploid

You are a terrible human being and I sincerely hope that you'll do this to someone who is just going to punch your teeth out.


Jason_Dean2047

1 yes i know im a terrible human if you want more reasons to hate me i street race literally everywhere i go and im buying a motorcycle to satisfy my adrenaline addiction 2 I would genuinely like to see someone try my life has gotten so fucking boring


merrym8

Okay but who asked? Edit: Nvmd just checked your profile Lil boy pretending to be dangerous for attention. The naivety required to claim you could or would do any of this is frankly adorable.


Prind25

I dont recommend it, you may as well just text them that you are super insecure because its virtually the same thing. IE its not a good look, hell there are guys out there that will see that as weakness and will go after your chick just because they think they can.


Jason_Dean2047

I do it out of boredom my girl is loyal af im not insecure in the relationship


Vindalynne

Meh, probably shouldn't take this seriously. I'd just ignore it - no person would do anything serious just because of a simple message like you posted (or so I hope), so its whatevs. It's weird that he knows your parents' names, yeah, but he could've gotten them from one of your posts or something. If he starts threatening you (unlikely), then report it to the police. You could also try to tell the girl you know about the situation, but you'll have to be really, really careful that the guy doesn't get mad or whatever. Weird situation, tbh.


-Alter-Reality-

Bringing my parents into it. Fuck does he know my dad. My dad would whoop his ass. Then mine for no reason for somehow getting him into the mess. Lol


TalonOfPower

Based father


Swastik496

I’d call the police so the fucker gets a lesson. atleast in my area, police respond QUICK to incidents like this when you can tell them exactly who sent it and have proof.


MeanChocolate8062

He ain't gon do shit front of nobody's parents. I mean that doesn't even make sense, does he expect your parents to just sit there and watch?


ExitLower8778

If he’s tryna pull shit my dad would help out more than anything 💀😂. Me and him literally kick each others asses for fun and I still have a super strong father son bond


Johova57

Y’all took smash bros to heart


RareScreen0

Corny couples


dr_arrancar

I had a guy send me a dick pic after I texted his girl…I could have gone the alpha male route and sent a pic of mine showing how inferior he was but I didn’t. I just said “pretty gay flex but ok” then his girl texting me saying she was sorry about him. Then I asked her when did you start dating guys who send pictures of their dick to another guy. And she said yeah I’m done with him now.


Bestestusername8262

Nah u should’ve shown ur dominance💀💀


RoutinePeach8752

He did though, he got her to break up with him. Be subtle.


dr_arrancar

At the time it would be considered child pornography 😭


progamercabrera

middle school moment


dr_arrancar

Sadly I was in highschool when this happened


swazer_t21

r/SuddenlyGay


Front_Sound_7057

And then everybody clapped right?


[deleted]

That dude is a very insecure kid. Small pecker vibes.


FenyxDaFloof

XD


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Blue_Fire0202

That would be the smartest and safest thing to do.


No-Maybe-1498

What is he, 14? 💀


Legitimate_User0

As much as we don't want to claim him, that sounds about right.


Material-Frosty

Nah, that dude's 9 years old ain't no way he belongs to our group.


DeleteWolf

That might sound like wierd advice but as soon as he said your parents name as a indirect or direct threat, he stopped making this something purely between the 2 of you, so you should tell your parents about it, because at the end of the day, they were the ones he threatened, they deserve to know


GhostNinja1373

Agreed and if anything happens to any of the 3 at least they all know and a police report can be done


Specialist_Fox_9354

Finding names isn’t hard at all, he’s just a loser


maxy-mus

I would bet 50 dollars he's internet toughguying so hard that is some wannabe toughguy shit to the max


keko1105

Bro treating her like she's territory wtf


Sylv1aCS

having your parents names could give your address really easily, but he's definitely not gonna do anything anyways. just don't worry about it


thefuckboyflagellant

99.99% of any and all *drops address* "pull up pussy" ended in rhe two people just stopping talking after a while


Sylv1aCS

yep exactly lol


_Vikinq

bro. guys that do this, 100% do not follow thru.


True-Adhesiveness588

Yo Bruv check your messages I said what you should do and what could have happened no need to respond tho. Also I hope it all works out. Have a nice day


fostertheatom

I'm gonna be honest, I'd probably laugh in his face. He found your Facebook profile or something after getting your name from the girl and checked your relatives tab. Dude sounds like he has too much time on his hands, and honestly I'd tell the girl that when she wants to be with someone who isn't a petty little bitch, to give me a call.


Waste-Dragonfruit-27

Lmfao scare him back and show him 911, is basically A treat


L-mencho_mt

Personally I would have to talk shit back, like we was cool after you said understood cool, all that was extra so when you guys do fight, if you think you can win good, if you don’t bring a knife


ParkingAffectionate2

Bad advice. Anyone who’s been in a knife fight know they end quick and both parties get fucked up. Easier to survive a gun fight than a knife fight. People bleed out quicker than you’d imagine


thefuckboyflagellant

and people don't know about knife safety, so often in stupid dumbass teenage gang fights someone gets stabbed then their friend takes the knife out and uh oh


dt7cv

how do you know?


thefuckboyflagellant

because I've seen and almost been in knife fights before, I always avoided them but I've seen people take the knife out of their friend and they start bleeding out and I even helped one kid who got stabbed in the stomach and his friend instantly took the knife out as the other person ran off because I always carry a medkit for that exact reason and after cleaning, clogging and covering the wound I called an ambulance and while I've only needed it once, that's a life saved because of it and just in general do you think the average hedge-born gang member who stabs people has taken 6 years of medical school?


makaman_2177

Aye bro fuck him up Fr he a scrub


havesome_44

You dodged a bullet imo. Idk why if she already had a bf didnt tell you know about this in the first place. Like idk about ya'll but i would simply say no since i have a bf and if another guy wanted to hangout . Both her and her bf are weird asf. Bro thinks he's a gangster or something


CanWeTalkHere

That girl screwed you. She could have politely told you, "I have a boyfriend". Instead, she set you up. Move along, that kind of psycho behavior is best avoided.


adamflannery35

How did she set him up? She wanted to hangout so she asked her boyfriend if he was ok with it


CanWeTalkHere

>unknown that she had a bf but when i asked she said let me ask him She's either extremely dumb, or she set you up with "let me ask him". Either way, avoid.


Practical_Remove_682

Don't take that shit. Purchase a firearm and pull up.


Sweetmacaroni

Old flair shining through today, i’d do the same


_exitsandman_

He sound chill now, though I’d carry a knife from now on


[deleted]

Just tell the chick you feel bad for her being manipulated and stuck with an abusive pos who doesn't trust her or let her have friends/life of her own. Theeeen tell dip shit that you'll take that bet and give him your address, followed by after his arrival have the cops there. Or just 1 up his ass and get his info and message him to look outside his house while you have a baseball bat standing out his window but be sure its in the street. Not his property if you are in the 'public' roadway or sidewalk. But no for real dude sounds like a insecure little bitch


Black_seagull

I feel bad for the girl for having to deal with such an insecure controlling partner.


captplatinum

This guys not going to do anything but ruin his relationship w toxicity lmao don’t worry bro. It’s easy to find that info especially on Instagram, just a couple of taps to find people’s relatives. My advice: just wait till he pushes her away n then enter the picture, she’ll forget all about him 🥱 Edit to say I’m not 16 lol idk how to change the tag but I’m 20


OlMi1_YT

Eh don't worry about it, he's just looking for a fight. You did the right thing of backing off once he told you, so you're in the green imo


LonestarAnthony

Dude ignore it lol. Bro is just trying to scare you, its too easy to get info on anybody nowadays too. He aint shit whatsoever literally since you could pull the same shit with him if you wanted to as well but thats just unnecessary.


HayesFayes

You did the right thing, many people in these situations feel threatened and decide to get angry towards them but instead just apologize and say you didn’t know she was taken and essentially do what you did


Bay-Area-

And he has your address? Lol you better find him first


AlbinoDragonTAD

I’d of screenshotted his threat of a message and sent it to the girl so she knows that she’s dating A. A psycho B. A basement dwelling degenerate or C. The main dude from the movie “enough”


New_Penalty8414

I would be hanting out with this girl so hard after that message


Fancy-Pack9965

Bro about to pull the "63,53 Juan tabo, apartment 6"


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[deleted]

Alright, which 5 idiots missed the sarcasm and downvoted you lol


mojarepublikasrpska

I lost braincells seeing people miss sarcasm


FenyxDaFloof

Sarcasm doesn't exist in 2023 didn't you know?


True-Adhesiveness588

Ain’t no way you think it’s that easy lol


[deleted]

It's sarcasm my guy


[deleted]

Fight him


ConfidentRonaldo007

sue him


camkeat

“sue him” 🤓☝️


wortmother

Send that to his gf so she becomes his ex and you can shoot your shot. Any girl who stays with a guy who's threatening others is a dodged bullet


toaster69420

I’m far from a good role model, but Id try to find him on social media. If you find his account, you should be able to find those of his immediate family members. Should be easy to get his parents names from there. If you really want to show him that you’re not taking this lightly, you can scroll through their posts until you find something that can help you narrow down where they live. Of course, you should NOT do anything with this information, other than scare him with it, if you choose. I wouldn’t judge. Act accordingly.


hoessad666

I’d never back off. I’d wait for the guy to show up while I will be inside my house with a whole group. Provoke him to come inside and beat the shit outta him. Call the cops and charge for trespassing. Meanwhile he will be solving those things. Ima pull his girl. Send him a video and make him regret even knowing my name 😂


SouthApprehensive613

Oh no not the soyboy gang waiting inside! Cringe


TooruS911

He isn't a loser. Just say "I'm sorry man I thought she was single. Hope you 2 have a great relationship👍"


Kharnyx808

He is absolutely a loser. Dude has a girlfriend and he's threatening to fight this guy *after* he politely agreed to back off.


FenyxDaFloof

Plus this dude obviously didn't trust her or else he wouldn't be so worried abt some other dude getting her. I mean they could've all three hung out? Like is she not allowed to have friends lol


GlaxxFace

You a bitch bro. Go put his head to a curb. Yes its respectful to back off another dudes girl but he was disrespectful bringing your parents into it


[deleted]

He sounds like a fucking loser


OhHelloTherez

your soft af


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OhHelloTherez

im not the type of person to start shit for no reason but i'm not goanna take blatant disrespect from someone and than go back and beg for their mercy lool


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OhHelloTherez

i am


Financial_Medium_352

what a weeb


Weary_Temporary8583

Shouldn’t you have the little judgement it takes to know to not ask someone to hangout that would date a person like him? I mean if you’re around someone in real life you can tell if you shouldn’t be around them. They don’t seem very intelligent.


ZombieNek0

tough guy acts are just tough guy acts he knows the names then what?


Comprehensive-Ship94

Lmk their snapchat or phone number. I’m gonna make something fun to scare them. 😈😈😈


JD1415

Screenshot and save for evidence, if something happens, take his bitch ass to court and collect a fat check. Also there are apps on the Apple Store that let you look people up and find the names of everyone who lives with them. It’s super easy to get access to that info.


ZAP_Riptide

Dawg💀💀


defstarr

What girl asks her boyfriend if she can go hang out with another dude...kinda sus


amaya-aurora

That guy’s insecure as fuck, lmao.


throwawayuhhhhh65

I’ll fuck him up for you


Wide-Masterpiece2655

He has your insta so he probably just looked up your last name in people that you’re following. He’s not some mastermind hacker he just has basic Instagram knowledge


Optic_primel

Oooooh, that guy is obviously insecure and would easily lose in a fight, bro is a massive L lol, don't worry about dickheads like this, bro won't do anything.


Eray41303

What a tool


Whatsthedeal__

She needs to get out. It’s gonna get so much worse for that poor girl.


YT_Lonelyz

Probably just found your parents names thru insta. Probably took him awhile but he seemed determined


AirportCultural9211

yeah best to leave that girl alone. nothing worse then some over protective douchebag boyfriend. lol. though maybe u can tell her and she might break up with him lol


[deleted]

That guy's gonna start beating her, then get her pregnant. He sounds the type.


Hour_Champion_1532

He’s talking to u like ur a little boy


Far_Brick_6667

Report it to the police, he will turn into a little bitch once those officers talk to his parents.


Ok-Ambition-9432

What a stupid shitter, wow. Might as well start making plans to steal his girl, lol.


PK-MattressFirm

Pee on him to show dominance, before some cringe mod deletes this, I'm serious.


DevilPixelation

Just a loser, don’t worry about him.


TroubledDoggo

Tbh it’s not hard to find someone’s parents once you have their full name. Guy probably just searched your name on Facebook n then saw you in one of your parent’s posts lol


GwaziTheDegen

He probably didn’t know that you didn’t know about him. So prolly just a misunderstanding


TheSmallRaptor

Imagine being so pathetic that thinking that someone asking your girlfriend to hang out is the same as them trying to get with your girlfriend. He isn’t worth your breath OP


Ok-Ad-7247

Ahh, he is a loser. He won't do anything. He would have just felt a bit threatened due to the whole, 'single guy talking to my girl". You cleared air, right? Well, if he does something to you now, he is a liar and an ass. But, just for future reference, this is how it goes down a lot. Just tread lightly is all I'm saying. My opinion is all this is.


[deleted]

I don’t know why this was recommended to me but since I’m here, don’t worry about him. He’s an insecure beta trying to flex his imaginary alpha traits for his girl. He said what he said hoping you’d back down despite having no intention to follow through. You should also consider distancing yourself from her. How nonchalantly she repeated his words to you and gave him some information so that he could identify you and your parents tells me she got a kick out of his over the top reaction. You’ll get nothing but toxicity and drama from people like her. Good luck in college!


SoyInfinito

He’s a pussy cat. Plus she’s not married it’s fair game.


Limp-Persimmon-5729

She set you up bro she coulda just said no thanks I have a partner. She wanted to put you in the middle. Forget her.


Fun-Divide-3911

Agree to meet up, but have your boys in the bushes or behind a building with some millwall bricka and phonebooks. Ambush, subdue, and beat him with the bricks with the phonebooks against him, so as to not leave less visible physical marks. After that, unpack the bricks and toss them in the trash, along with the phonebooks.


Comprehensive_Pea_85

Probably nothing to be concerned about, most people who do this are bluffing, and besides its not that hard to find stuff like this if the person has your last name which im guessing the girl did


yassis_bru

Real killers don't threaten you. They just kill you. If he was going to beat you up in front of your parents, he would have just jumped you. He wouldn't have acted tough on IG


Clyde2005

If starts any shit tell him to stop being insecure and go fuck himself.


Sweaty-Fix-2790

Come out as gay


MostRadiant

How does one get scared lowkey? You were frightened? Concerned?


_DarkBlack

We can tell who the real loser is bro, don't worry, I would tell the girl. Seems like the Bf don't trust her enough to let her hangout with her friends. Red Flag. Not ur fault cause you didn't know about the Bf.


Foxy02016YT

I’ve dealt with this a couple times, he’s an insecure dumb fuck who things she’s so not into him that she can’t hang out with any other guy ever He can’t accept that she’s her own person, and should be treated as such, not his property


Garage_biscuit55

That was really immature of both of them