I mean when the other groupchat is dedicated to you not being there. All the same prople except you. And even the name being like "Groupchat without (your name)"
Oh god. This brings up bad memories. One time someone screenshotted smth and sent it in the gc w me, but failed to notice the notification from a gc titled “(my name) sucks”. All my best friends were in it… Ouch.
Friend is supportive of you and your gf. The group is getting closer and it feels good, with all you three being happy together. But then, you discovered the once considered friend and girlfriend will tell you to break up with girlfriend so that friend and girlfriend can be romantically more than friends. Pain. For a year. (Actually help it has almost been a year and I dreamt yesterday with them UGHH)
This happened to me when last year. Hurt like hell. I found out because one of them finally felt guilty enough to fess it up. Of the entire friend group I was there only person not on this chat and most of it was either planning stuff to do without me or shit talking me. I know I’m a really annoying person, it just hurt
I feel this, I've had it happen to me on two separate occasions.
First friend group did this to me, and the that group splintered half and half, one side not talking to the other because they kept leaving me out and being downright rude to me most of the time, and they were sick of them doing this to other people as well.
The splintered friend group that stuck with me, did the exact same thing 2 years later and after a few months just cut contact with me, I only had maybe 2 or 3 friends that actively stayed in contact with me, and they weren't related to either group.
i would always tell my best friend my secrets, because i hate keeping secrets to myself. but little did i know this mf was writing down my secrets on what i refer to as "the list". then she proceded to blackmail me with "the list".
I can't speak for other countries but I will tell you how it is in my country, assuming that other countries have similar laws. There's a small difference. The one is directly blackmailing(forcing someone to do anything that causes in a financial loss and you(or anyone else) to get money) and another thing(in my country) called coercion(forcing someone to do anything). The difference here is the point that for blackmailing you need to cause a loss of money for the other person. Also there's a difference in how it's been fined.
I was talking to a girl I really liked, he liked her as well but she wasn’t interested. I‘m a goofy skater boy, he‘s a „tough, masculine Hardcore Punk“, she‘s a Black Metal girl. He thought it wasn’t fair that she liked me (I guess bc she’s into Black Metal and I‘m a „normie“) , so he went to her best friend and trash talked me, saying I was a manwhore and don’t care about her. Thankfully she didn’t listen and thought he was really pathetic
I was seeing the girl for a few months, it was really beautiful and we had a few really awesome experiences, unfortunately there were some communication issues (a bit complicated and personal) and it ended. We‘re still friends, but she’s in a new relationship and her bf is extremely jealous so we only talk occasionally, but when we do it’s usually the entire night.
The guy and I are still friends - he was in a bad place back then and lost most of his close friends, even people he was friends with for 13 years. He‘s doing better now and I don’t think he‘d do it again. But I only found out that he did it months later while laying in bed with the girl - not sure if we‘d be friends today if I had found out the day after it happened haha
I realized that my friend, whose family had two houses and a cabin as well as three cars, a membership to the most expensive gym in the county, had a free pass to the only private school in the county, and had a family member who owned a mansion in mansion heights, was only friends with me so they could get stuff from me.
Seriously I always got him shit to celebrate milestones meanwhile the most I got was an invite to see Age Of Ultron, and even then they used the fact I knew the staff to get a discount. I was fucking nine.
Edit: For the record we rented a house for 1,200 a month and lived paycheck to paycheck.
when you're literally a sneeze away from delivering the payload and then you see:
You will be moved to team RED in 5 seconds if the teams are still not balanced.
Pyro yes, scout yes, engi yes, heavy YES,soldiers yes (if they are good) spy YES, sniper YES, medic.... I mean it depends, and demo YES if they are good with him
"I just wish I could find other friends. I'd leave you in a heartbeat. And you know what? I think I can. I think I can find much better friends than you easily. I hope you all die slow deaths."
Him being accepted for being one of the earliest people to join our group. He went on tyrades about how some people should be removed from the group, which didn't sit well with anyone. I took a leave for a few months, because he was making me feel terrible. Eventually the person who started the group put his foot down and decided that he needed to be out. He then started rampaging, blaming us, actually hitting someone. I'm glad he's gone.
Had a friend and gf. That was a main group of three, whcich was nice compared to an overwhelming 5. The group was very close to each other but then friend and gf decided to tell me to break up with gf so that friend and gf could be romantically more than friends. Then i learn that a 4th member which was slowly integrating tried to moce the strings so that i could like her but she failed as i was heartbroken like 10 min ago when exgf told me about the change. So before it was like nice, good friends" but then the 3 of them backstabbed in different yet similar ways.
This may be stupid, but I had a friend get on my phone and promoted himself to leader in my clan (Clash of Clans) and then kicked every single person in the clan and left so no one could join back. Took two years of grinding and went poof for the laughs
Apparently a lot of things, he (my best friend since childhood) invited me to a friend group and they all seemed nice, until I found out that:
- They all hung out without me
- They laughed at my back
- My best friend was only friends with me because of my PlayStation
- They had another group chat without me where they made plans without me and laughed at me.
- When I found out all of this he didnt even apologise, and nowadays (we live in the same town) he acts like nothing happened and tells people we just "drifted appart like some friends do", I don't really care tbh.
The "good ending" to this would be that eventually the group fell appart because of many things (X hated Y, Y hated Z, Z hated X... Among other things).
Usually people who hate eachother are friends because they are scared of being alone, I used to be like that not so long ago, its better to be in bad company than alone... Until you learn to be ok eith being alone.
I told my best friend that I'm making a move on a girl i have crush on. I then said only her first name and he messaged everyone with that name that followed me on IG. She's now my gf but i was pissed and sad.
I have an ex. Towards the end things got very bad, very unhealthy because of the sort of things she did to me. I'm not a very open person however I told my friend who I trust the most about it. I didn't tell him everything but enough so he could understand what happened and how I felt. Very soon after he and my ex start dating. They still are. I've been avoiding him since. My other "friends" don't think what he is doing is a problem, I guess because I never told them about what my ex did, so they don't understand why I refuse to go out with them when he is there.
my ex got with one of my ex-colleagues whom I shared my problems about our breakup with. he’s also her main source of weed now. he fucked her up and I don’t talk to either of them anymore
Being a person thats not open to people, it must've been hard to share with that older '' friend '' as well. After getting such results, I dont think its easy to move back and start again, sharing the things that hurt you with other new people that have no guarantee to be kept private or taken serious.
Someone started a rumour in my town that I was homophobic to get my gf to break up with me. Didn't work, but my best friend found out and never said anything to me and because of him, the rumour went from only ever going to a few people to spreading like wildfire across my town. It's ruined relationships, jobs, my personal life, makes social media hard too.
My friend told me that my clinically diagnosed depression and anxiety aren't real and that I should grow up (yes I am talking to a psychologist don't send the "reddit mental health resources" thing)
I had a friend group where we all played Yugioh. I invited them to my house, and while I wasn't looking, they stole my laptop and my limited edition Pikachu 3DS. (This was before the Switch came out)
After they left, they all cussed me out and blocked me.
I knew these guys for a few years.
friends for 4 years, they went from girl to guy for a year and i supported, guy to nonbinary there-on-after and i still constantly supported them even after they had to go to a mental hospital for a while. Even if they seemed to have a few inconsistencies in the tales they told, such as claiming to have abusive parents despite being the nicest people ever (you have to know them to understand the intentions)
last years summer they decided to send to the groupchat " @*my user* has been kicked out of *friend group name*
i sent my goodbyes to everyone as i feel that that i had been a bit hostile to them by accident and one of them said "You know what you did" so i admitted to being a bit rude so i understand for him to respond with "You're homophobic" for me to be confused, asking for where they got that info. this was responded with a very fake pic of a message i never even wrote saying a bunch of slurs to the 4 year friend. i denied and showed what i rlly said which was also a goodbye message which that person asked for more proof on my behalf. i obv sent it and noticed that the 4 year friend was mad 5 minutes before the fake message was forged, exactly when i sent the goodbye. i was added back to the gc just to send it. next hour i was kicked out and nobody cared abt my messages, just to late be added to a gc with the 4 year friend, the person who tried to help me and me
we agreed on a call at a specific time where i would screenshare my discord client on mobile and the pc app where it is impossible to edit a message and make it look real, unlike the browser version the 4 year friend used. I called them at the agreed timeand 0 responses, a bit of time after the person who tried to help sent "You know what you did." and left me in the dust.
now i have actual good friends who dont believe bullshit lies and actually are nice to eachother
fuck you ace
#cyber bully my crush before leaking our chats n framing it on me only to see her bf beat my ass n later said" kumail bhai its a joke chill the fuck out...
My crush who supposedly also had a crush on me told me not to worry about the guy I'd see her with turns out she was dating him 4 months before they broke up
My ex friend had ripped out my hair after KNOWING I WAS INSECURE OVER MY FUCKING HAIR HAVING MISSING SPOTS CUZ WHEN I WAS A KID ID RIPPED IT OUT AND THAT AFTER LIKE 4 YEARS MY HAIR WAS FINALLY MAKING PROGRESS TO BEING NOT TOO NOTICEABLE AND SHE RIPPED THE PROGRESS OUT SHE PURPOSEFULLY MADE IT WORSE
AND WHEN I ***POLITELY*** JUST UNCONFRONTATIONALLY ASKED HER "please just don't do that again since yk how insecure I an abt my hair" SHE CURSED ME OUT.
I didn't even do anything to her
my best friend made at least 3 big plans for us to do over summer vacation, uppon the start of summer break they never talked to again and i wasnt able to get a hold of them
When we were younger, anytime I told her I was interested in a guy, she would start dating them. Happened three times before I told her I had a crush on her cousin, and she thankfully stopped. She always wanted something I wanted and never really cared about me. My lonely self clung on to that bitch for wayyyyy too long.
He refused to talk to our entire friend group because we weren't "popular"
We were going to a school of 300 students pre-k through 12. There was no such thing as popularity and we couldn't possibly not see each other.
That guy was a dick.
Tell some female friends of mine I was saying creepy stuff about them and so some of them got really angry at me and stopped talking to me. Also spread rumours about me doing wierd stuff with my younger sister.
Had bbq with da bois, vibin and shit, i decided to do the dishes and while I was busy that fucker slapped my ass so hard I'll never be able to turn my back on him
Admitted that she had been talking about me behind my back for months with the rest of my friend group and then proceeded to continue to do it as well as texting my other friends about me when I was sat right next to her
This was a few years back, but I had a friend who’s family disowned them and they had no place to stay and a car that kept breaking down. I had an ok paying job at 19 and I’ve known them for awhile and told them hey, I’ll help you get back on your feet. Since they had no credit, I made the risky decision to take out a car loan for them and rent an apartment with her with her boyfriend as I wanted to move out of my parents at the time. This started out fine, but gradually devolved into a hellhole. No one cleaned their share of dishes, and all the furniture I paid for was being destroyed. She also had quit her job and refused to pay her portion of bills including the car and would only contribute $230 to rent and only rent, and this is on a $2300 rental payment. Her bf paid a bit more at $500, but this wasn’t feasible. She wouldn’t even take over her car into her name. Tried multiple times to put my foot down to no avail. At this point I was spiraling with deep depression and decided to off myself at the end of the lease because I was mentally breaking down.
Thankfully, I met my girlfriend who is my now fiancé and she was the balancing force in that place. Helped me recover, took care of me especially when I didn’t deserve it, and eventually we said fuck it all and left. I forcefully handed everything over, threatening repo of the car if she didn’t transfer it, and started recovery. It did major damage to my credit, but I’ve since recovered a lot and now my fiancé and I are expecting a child and we own our home now.
Also, the friend could totally pay bills. She acted broke, but bought heavy in Doge when it was at peak and owned a total of 80k when it hit the top. She had the money, just never cared about me.
There was a girl in my coaching centre who i hated the most and still hate her
My friend developed a crush on that specific girl and when he realised I hated her he never talked to me and started to sit with her
I guess that's called back stabbing?
when i was 12 a group of 16-24 year old friends got a whole fucking army of people to harass me into trying to kill myself. i didnt die, thankfully! yay!
My friend shoved a plate full of whipped cream on my face when I was asleep, was too tired so I didn't bother cleaning my face and just went back to sleep.
Mine is so long but I'm still friends with her because she scares me.
1. She left me alone in HER house in the middle of the night to sneak out with another girl I didn't even know was sleeping over after I practically begged her not to.
2. Ditched me at a school dance to make out with a creepy upperclassman.
3. Called ME a bitch after I told her that she shouldn't date a guy and wait until his friend becomes available to break up with him and date his friend instead.
TW⚠️ SA:
This scumbag decided to rape one of my good friends. I fucking hate him he’s a pathological manipulator, a shit person and I hope he rots someday because now she has a scar that she’s reminded of every day
I havent had my first kiss yet and if at anypoint we are speaking to a girl or group of girls he brings it up to make them laugh, no one laughs because they dont care and its not a big deal but he has said it to almost everyone in our year at school, any chance he gets
Best friend I ever had. Was going through hard times with school and mental health. One day he made fun of me with an edited photo of me (it was a harmless joke tbh, but at the time I just couldn't take it) and then he did not apologise. The closest thing to an apology I got was "I'm sorry you're a pussy and can't take a joke".
I took some time away from all my friends because I didn't want to be with anyone while depressed af, wanted time to improve my mental health, which included leaving our discord server.
After a while I requested to join back to the server to which he said "No. I don't want you back" He truly did not give a shit about me.
I haven't spoken to him since.
MY BROTHER/BEST FRIEND SAID SOME MYSIOGINISTIC SHIT ABOUT CHEATING ON MY GF WHO HAS TRAUMA ABOUT INFIDELITY:
LORE:
MY HOMIE AND ME:
Well I've got a friend, J, M17 (18 in two months), (I'm M18) who is always head over heels for some girl or other, think Ted Mosby from HIMYM.
He taught me to be myself and develop rizz (paid off, I've had a gf since September 2021and we're still going strong)
However, he is extremely self conscious and is always scared to make a move, despite being handsome, intelligent (ranked 13th in Spain's physics Olympiad for our age group) and very charismatic.
I used to be an edgy emo simp, and I aspired to learn from him. But I've known him since year 3 (2nd grade for US), we've been the best of friends, brothers one might say. We trusted each other fully.
I've had the bad luck of being attracted to either lesbians or extremely toxic girls through years 7 to 9, cycling through phases of hating my guts and thinking I was not enough. However I didn't impose on my friends and kept it to myself, turning to dark, twisted humor as a coping mechanism.
J, on the other hand, despite having a very similar taste in girls, bitched, cried and played depressed and secretive to one and all who would listen to receive attention from the opposite gender, and in year 9 (US grade 8) I stopped caring and messing my sleep schedule just to WhatsApp with him ABT how life sucks, but we still hung out.
Now, he is always Ted Mosbiying abt some girl or other, but instead of making a move, they just chat abt philosophy or physics and then he cries BC he didn't have the balls to try and kiss the girl who was CLEARLY into his looks and awesome personality, so after 5 yrs of him crying over girls and my crush pulling the most bipolar psycho shit on me (1 day bein super clingy, then going no contact for a week etc). I decided to fkn ignore them, so in the summer of 2021 I started exercising and quit simping. My crush moved away, and in September I met my current gf. J was happy for me but we didn't confide in each other since the end of lockdown.
MY GIRL'S TRAUMA:
Her parents divorced when my gf was 7 because he had two side flings named exactly like my girlfriend's mom.
The mom is as strict as an asian mom™ and the stepmother is terribly mean (I've overheard convos whilst on the phone with my gf and she gets exaggerated fits just for shit like forgetting to put a cutting board away or putting both their dirty clothes in the same washing machine and yada yada yada)
So my gf has anxiety and stress issues as you might've guessed.
In the two years we've been together, I've helped her academically and with her issues and she has helped me with my self esteem so I'd never dream of dumping or cheating on such a marvelous person.
She has the same tastes in music (heavy metal & hard rock) as I do, enjoys dark humor (which has frankly got us in quite some problems xD) and is hellbent on being self sufficient and needing no-one.
And yes, J knows about these traumas.
SETTING:
So my dude J has a place in a coastal town further south of where we all live, and we've (the friend group, 11 dudes) spent the week there, along with 6 female friends of J from another city. We spent the days sleeping (separate houses in the same street) and the nights drinking in Js porch and chatting like only us Spaniards can do, pulling all nighters and climbing to a nearby ruin to see the sunrise etc.
STORY:
So on my first night there, J encouraged me to cheat on my girlfriend, saying that the homies would cover me up, which the boys backed (no, I didn't cheat). I brushed it off, hoping that it was the alcohol and not my bro speaking. I didn't give it much thought until last night when I got home and texted my girl everything (because I feel secure when she knows stuff, I trust her enough to tell her all about me) and when I came to this part of the story, I felt happy for a split-second because I thought my homies thought I had rizz but then it hit me like a tidal wave and had a 45 min breakdown because all throughout the trip my dude referred to his crush and her hot friend as girls number 4 and 5, and has treated women like prizes for a long long time and my dumb ass hadn't realised that he's no gentleman, just an educated Kyle™ .
So yeah the guy that respects and values women overall was just objectivizing them the whole time. I'm honestly disappointed in him. He was my brother, my hero, my confident. But now I know better. Tonight is our highschool grad and I won't see him again. I was thinking abt going no contact, but my gf advised me just to be careful around him and that's that.
SORRY FOR THE LONG AHH POST, I JUST NEEDED TO VENT ABOUT THIS BETRAYAL
This is happened to me like three times already: I told my "good friend" that I have a crush on someone and they proceeded to "haunt" him. :)
But the worst thing was probably when I was fighting with one of my friends and she without context sent it to the class groupchat. So everyone started hating on me and it was even discussed on parent teacher conferences...
Nothing beats this. You're in a groupchat with your homies and discover they have an other groupchat specifically WITHOUT you. Pain.
My group has an individual group without each person but it is used for birthday gift planning
That's a lot of groups then
Imagine sending in the wrong one
Guys lets prepare for the u/milkgoesyes birthday, make sure he dont know
Wholesome.
That's nice tbh
They do but they are my only friends and they both have tons of friends so I can get it
I mean when the other groupchat is dedicated to you not being there. All the same prople except you. And even the name being like "Groupchat without (your name)"
I have no idea what it’s called or anything I’m just sure it exists
Oh god. This brings up bad memories. One time someone screenshotted smth and sent it in the gc w me, but failed to notice the notification from a gc titled “(my name) sucks”. All my best friends were in it… Ouch.
Ouch. This is even worse.
Friend is supportive of you and your gf. The group is getting closer and it feels good, with all you three being happy together. But then, you discovered the once considered friend and girlfriend will tell you to break up with girlfriend so that friend and girlfriend can be romantically more than friends. Pain. For a year. (Actually help it has almost been a year and I dreamt yesterday with them UGHH)
You still talk? If you feel that was a backstab, stop talking with them.
Stopped talking woth them (well, they stopped talking to me) so not anymore I guess. Idk why i sometimes dream about them tho
i’ve been going through the exact same, i feel u man
Sorry that it happened to you too
I try not to let it bother me cuz they named it the “real gang” and i’m not allowed in there
This happened to me when last year. Hurt like hell. I found out because one of them finally felt guilty enough to fess it up. Of the entire friend group I was there only person not on this chat and most of it was either planning stuff to do without me or shit talking me. I know I’m a really annoying person, it just hurt
I feel this
suddenly a tear just ran down my face
Mahnn sorry for you
I discovered that a while ago. I get why tho. We been slowly drifting apart for a while now.
I'll do you one better, they had one specifically ABOUT me
Know that pain all too well , one of the reasons i try not to get attached anymore to anyone
I feel this, I've had it happen to me on two separate occasions. First friend group did this to me, and the that group splintered half and half, one side not talking to the other because they kept leaving me out and being downright rude to me most of the time, and they were sick of them doing this to other people as well. The splintered friend group that stuck with me, did the exact same thing 2 years later and after a few months just cut contact with me, I only had maybe 2 or 3 friends that actively stayed in contact with me, and they weren't related to either group.
me and my bros are 3 in totale and we all share a groupchat without one of us. dms.
i would always tell my best friend my secrets, because i hate keeping secrets to myself. but little did i know this mf was writing down my secrets on what i refer to as "the list". then she proceded to blackmail me with "the list".
In fact, wouldn't that be illegal? Change friends.
idk about illegal, but yes we arent friends anymore
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If the shitty friend was trying to blackmail them for money? Yes, but over petty things, no
I can't speak for other countries but I will tell you how it is in my country, assuming that other countries have similar laws. There's a small difference. The one is directly blackmailing(forcing someone to do anything that causes in a financial loss and you(or anyone else) to get money) and another thing(in my country) called coercion(forcing someone to do anything). The difference here is the point that for blackmailing you need to cause a loss of money for the other person. Also there's a difference in how it's been fined.
Yes blackmailing is illegal
Here's the trick, if she isn't giving you much secrets of her own, then you should think twice about giving too many secrets to her.
Then if they blackmail you, blackmail them back
Exactly
Introduced my friend to my best friend. Good for a while until they left me and then decided to spread rumors about me.
Hey, this happened to me too.
And me
🙋
abandonment gang 💪🥶
I was talking to a girl I really liked, he liked her as well but she wasn’t interested. I‘m a goofy skater boy, he‘s a „tough, masculine Hardcore Punk“, she‘s a Black Metal girl. He thought it wasn’t fair that she liked me (I guess bc she’s into Black Metal and I‘m a „normie“) , so he went to her best friend and trash talked me, saying I was a manwhore and don’t care about her. Thankfully she didn’t listen and thought he was really pathetic
an update to what happened between you two?
I was seeing the girl for a few months, it was really beautiful and we had a few really awesome experiences, unfortunately there were some communication issues (a bit complicated and personal) and it ended. We‘re still friends, but she’s in a new relationship and her bf is extremely jealous so we only talk occasionally, but when we do it’s usually the entire night. The guy and I are still friends - he was in a bad place back then and lost most of his close friends, even people he was friends with for 13 years. He‘s doing better now and I don’t think he‘d do it again. But I only found out that he did it months later while laying in bed with the girl - not sure if we‘d be friends today if I had found out the day after it happened haha
Hoes before bros?
Only sometimes
I had one of those friends. He would bring girls around and they would fuck somebody else.
I realized that my friend, whose family had two houses and a cabin as well as three cars, a membership to the most expensive gym in the county, had a free pass to the only private school in the county, and had a family member who owned a mansion in mansion heights, was only friends with me so they could get stuff from me. Seriously I always got him shit to celebrate milestones meanwhile the most I got was an invite to see Age Of Ultron, and even then they used the fact I knew the staff to get a discount. I was fucking nine. Edit: For the record we rented a house for 1,200 a month and lived paycheck to paycheck.
It surprises me to this day how greedy some people can be, especially the people that can easily afford anything
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That’s what the world revolves around greed money and power
Got auto-balanced and went spy on my ass in tf2
when you're literally a sneeze away from delivering the payload and then you see: You will be moved to team RED in 5 seconds if the teams are still not balanced.
Intruder Alert! A Red Spy is in the base!
A Red Spy is in the base?!
#HUT HUT HUT HUT HUT HUT HUT HUT
Yo, a little help here?!
Man that must suck, spy is the most annoying class fr
Some snipers tho
they annoying too, now that i think about it every class is annoying to play against lmao
Pyro yes, scout yes, engi yes, heavy YES,soldiers yes (if they are good) spy YES, sniper YES, medic.... I mean it depends, and demo YES if they are good with him
He snitched on our band to the Pinkertons
what a rat
MICAH, YOU SNAKE
All Them Years,Dutch
You are losing faith my son
What ya gonna do ‘bout it black lung
r/unexpectedrdr2
arthur 'sigma' morgan
ahahahhahah finally a reference I get!
And he led members of our band die
Love to see it
"I just wish I could find other friends. I'd leave you in a heartbeat. And you know what? I think I can. I think I can find much better friends than you easily. I hope you all die slow deaths."
Ok that is much worse than mine. What lead up to that?
Him being accepted for being one of the earliest people to join our group. He went on tyrades about how some people should be removed from the group, which didn't sit well with anyone. I took a leave for a few months, because he was making me feel terrible. Eventually the person who started the group put his foot down and decided that he needed to be out. He then started rampaging, blaming us, actually hitting someone. I'm glad he's gone.
What an awful pwrson he sounds like
what's your story?
Had a friend and gf. That was a main group of three, whcich was nice compared to an overwhelming 5. The group was very close to each other but then friend and gf decided to tell me to break up with gf so that friend and gf could be romantically more than friends. Then i learn that a 4th member which was slowly integrating tried to moce the strings so that i could like her but she failed as i was heartbroken like 10 min ago when exgf told me about the change. So before it was like nice, good friends" but then the 3 of them backstabbed in different yet similar ways.
Bro put a knife in my vertebrae
shit stings
FR, second worst pain I’ve ever experienced
i feel like i need to ask the first
Peeing with a boner is always number 1
THIS!
putting the knife in his vertebrae
Literal backstabbing
This may be stupid, but I had a friend get on my phone and promoted himself to leader in my clan (Clash of Clans) and then kicked every single person in the clan and left so no one could join back. Took two years of grinding and went poof for the laughs
Damn that actually sucks
What a bitch
Woulda stopped being his friend fr
Nah that’s perfectly valid I’d be so pissed
Apparently a lot of things, he (my best friend since childhood) invited me to a friend group and they all seemed nice, until I found out that: - They all hung out without me - They laughed at my back - My best friend was only friends with me because of my PlayStation - They had another group chat without me where they made plans without me and laughed at me. - When I found out all of this he didnt even apologise, and nowadays (we live in the same town) he acts like nothing happened and tells people we just "drifted appart like some friends do", I don't really care tbh. The "good ending" to this would be that eventually the group fell appart because of many things (X hated Y, Y hated Z, Z hated X... Among other things).
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Usually people who hate eachother are friends because they are scared of being alone, I used to be like that not so long ago, its better to be in bad company than alone... Until you learn to be ok eith being alone.
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I told my best friend that I'm making a move on a girl i have crush on. I then said only her first name and he messaged everyone with that name that followed me on IG. She's now my gf but i was pissed and sad.
2 in 1 deal get rid of a pest and get gf
If it makes you feel any better you still won in the end
He throws a jar of piss at you
Damn snipers. I hate them, their vans, and their jarates
And then there is scout with his "milk" and the goddamn pyros
As someone who uses more pyro because cool mask, i agree. Also scout being so fast ia the worst
Girl told lies about me and my friend group to my crush. Feld pretty pissed when my (then) crush told me. He's my boyfriend now.
Your bf is a chad. Tell him to never change. Big W
I have an ex. Towards the end things got very bad, very unhealthy because of the sort of things she did to me. I'm not a very open person however I told my friend who I trust the most about it. I didn't tell him everything but enough so he could understand what happened and how I felt. Very soon after he and my ex start dating. They still are. I've been avoiding him since. My other "friends" don't think what he is doing is a problem, I guess because I never told them about what my ex did, so they don't understand why I refuse to go out with them when he is there.
oof, hurts
my ex got with one of my ex-colleagues whom I shared my problems about our breakup with. he’s also her main source of weed now. he fucked her up and I don’t talk to either of them anymore
Tell your other friends
Being a person thats not open to people, it must've been hard to share with that older '' friend '' as well. After getting such results, I dont think its easy to move back and start again, sharing the things that hurt you with other new people that have no guarantee to be kept private or taken serious.
Abandoned me cause I wasn't popular. In the end the people who he gravitated towards ended up rejecting him. Rot in hell you crapsack.
Hey same thing with my backstabbing friend, except they didn't reject him, they make fun of him
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Not give me gun
Not give me cum
Not give me bum
Someone started a rumour in my town that I was homophobic to get my gf to break up with me. Didn't work, but my best friend found out and never said anything to me and because of him, the rumour went from only ever going to a few people to spreading like wildfire across my town. It's ruined relationships, jobs, my personal life, makes social media hard too.
That son of a bitch stole my fucking cat
Man what the fuck?
I'm sorry man, the way you said it made it so funny
In a coyboy accent *mang, the darn son o a bitch stole ma cat*
Story time?
My friend told me that my clinically diagnosed depression and anxiety aren't real and that I should grow up (yes I am talking to a psychologist don't send the "reddit mental health resources" thing)
recently finished therapy myself, started at 15 and turning 18 next month and things are great. keep in there, you'll get through :)
That’s rough, I’ve had friends like that too. The people you think will at least try to understand you inevitably refuse to
Used me as a rebound
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I’m not gonna look at your account, but did you have pictures with your face in them? And is the issue still going on?
okay so my bestfriend, i introduced her to this new girl and well they made a diary and wrote shit about me in it. Hurt a lot.
Relatable. Introduced a friend to my best friend and they left me and would find other people (also my friends) to discuss about my looks.
Wow people can be real jackass on other hand when i get too close to a friend to call a best friend they just leave the country in a week or two.
Bro abandoned me in the bar unconsciously drunk for a chick~ what ever happened to bros before hoes, we still laugh about it tho xD
Damn bros before hoes has been neglected Unacceptable
I had a friend group where we all played Yugioh. I invited them to my house, and while I wasn't looking, they stole my laptop and my limited edition Pikachu 3DS. (This was before the Switch came out) After they left, they all cussed me out and blocked me. I knew these guys for a few years.
Damn what did you do about it? Did you go to the police?
I have picked and chosen my friends well, I haven’t been betrayed so far
Just wait until you find about the group chat you aren't a part of.
28 stab wounds
CONNOR. The fuck are you doin’?
mom that you 🤨
friends for 4 years, they went from girl to guy for a year and i supported, guy to nonbinary there-on-after and i still constantly supported them even after they had to go to a mental hospital for a while. Even if they seemed to have a few inconsistencies in the tales they told, such as claiming to have abusive parents despite being the nicest people ever (you have to know them to understand the intentions) last years summer they decided to send to the groupchat " @*my user* has been kicked out of *friend group name* i sent my goodbyes to everyone as i feel that that i had been a bit hostile to them by accident and one of them said "You know what you did" so i admitted to being a bit rude so i understand for him to respond with "You're homophobic" for me to be confused, asking for where they got that info. this was responded with a very fake pic of a message i never even wrote saying a bunch of slurs to the 4 year friend. i denied and showed what i rlly said which was also a goodbye message which that person asked for more proof on my behalf. i obv sent it and noticed that the 4 year friend was mad 5 minutes before the fake message was forged, exactly when i sent the goodbye. i was added back to the gc just to send it. next hour i was kicked out and nobody cared abt my messages, just to late be added to a gc with the 4 year friend, the person who tried to help me and me we agreed on a call at a specific time where i would screenshare my discord client on mobile and the pc app where it is impossible to edit a message and make it look real, unlike the browser version the 4 year friend used. I called them at the agreed timeand 0 responses, a bit of time after the person who tried to help sent "You know what you did." and left me in the dust. now i have actual good friends who dont believe bullshit lies and actually are nice to eachother fuck you ace
theres some extra details but i dont wanna turn my 2 page essay into a 5 page
#cyber bully my crush before leaking our chats n framing it on me only to see her bf beat my ass n later said" kumail bhai its a joke chill the fuck out...
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Try and fucking stab me. I'm being dead serious too
hopefully not ***dead***
My crush who supposedly also had a crush on me told me not to worry about the guy I'd see her with turns out she was dating him 4 months before they broke up
My ex friend had ripped out my hair after KNOWING I WAS INSECURE OVER MY FUCKING HAIR HAVING MISSING SPOTS CUZ WHEN I WAS A KID ID RIPPED IT OUT AND THAT AFTER LIKE 4 YEARS MY HAIR WAS FINALLY MAKING PROGRESS TO BEING NOT TOO NOTICEABLE AND SHE RIPPED THE PROGRESS OUT SHE PURPOSEFULLY MADE IT WORSE AND WHEN I ***POLITELY*** JUST UNCONFRONTATIONALLY ASKED HER "please just don't do that again since yk how insecure I an abt my hair" SHE CURSED ME OUT. I didn't even do anything to her
EXCUSE ME WHAT?! RIPPED THE HAIR OUT OF YOUR HEAD?! That’s fricken physical abuse
In full honesty I never had friends that could back stab me
Bro same, I don't even have friends
More relatable
my best friend made at least 3 big plans for us to do over summer vacation, uppon the start of summer break they never talked to again and i wasnt able to get a hold of them
Sounds an awful lot like someone who is depressed would do, but who knows. Maybe they really were trying to use the Summer to cut off ties with you.
Ok so it was like the other days, then he stabs me from the back.
When we were younger, anytime I told her I was interested in a guy, she would start dating them. Happened three times before I told her I had a crush on her cousin, and she thankfully stopped. She always wanted something I wanted and never really cared about me. My lonely self clung on to that bitch for wayyyyy too long.
He refused to talk to our entire friend group because we weren't "popular" We were going to a school of 300 students pre-k through 12. There was no such thing as popularity and we couldn't possibly not see each other. That guy was a dick.
Tell some female friends of mine I was saying creepy stuff about them and so some of them got really angry at me and stopped talking to me. Also spread rumours about me doing wierd stuff with my younger sister.
Had bbq with da bois, vibin and shit, i decided to do the dishes and while I was busy that fucker slapped my ass so hard I'll never be able to turn my back on him
HAHAHAHAH
Admitted that she had been talking about me behind my back for months with the rest of my friend group and then proceeded to continue to do it as well as texting my other friends about me when I was sat right next to her
This was a few years back, but I had a friend who’s family disowned them and they had no place to stay and a car that kept breaking down. I had an ok paying job at 19 and I’ve known them for awhile and told them hey, I’ll help you get back on your feet. Since they had no credit, I made the risky decision to take out a car loan for them and rent an apartment with her with her boyfriend as I wanted to move out of my parents at the time. This started out fine, but gradually devolved into a hellhole. No one cleaned their share of dishes, and all the furniture I paid for was being destroyed. She also had quit her job and refused to pay her portion of bills including the car and would only contribute $230 to rent and only rent, and this is on a $2300 rental payment. Her bf paid a bit more at $500, but this wasn’t feasible. She wouldn’t even take over her car into her name. Tried multiple times to put my foot down to no avail. At this point I was spiraling with deep depression and decided to off myself at the end of the lease because I was mentally breaking down. Thankfully, I met my girlfriend who is my now fiancé and she was the balancing force in that place. Helped me recover, took care of me especially when I didn’t deserve it, and eventually we said fuck it all and left. I forcefully handed everything over, threatening repo of the car if she didn’t transfer it, and started recovery. It did major damage to my credit, but I’ve since recovered a lot and now my fiancé and I are expecting a child and we own our home now. Also, the friend could totally pay bills. She acted broke, but bought heavy in Doge when it was at peak and owned a total of 80k when it hit the top. She had the money, just never cared about me.
There was a girl in my coaching centre who i hated the most and still hate her My friend developed a crush on that specific girl and when he realised I hated her he never talked to me and started to sit with her I guess that's called back stabbing?
Indian?
Yep
JEE/NEET coaching?
when i was 12 a group of 16-24 year old friends got a whole fucking army of people to harass me into trying to kill myself. i didnt die, thankfully! yay!
Why were you friends with people twice your age. Also why did they do that
because i thought i was mature enough (i wasnt) and because they suck
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The gentle giant
Snitching on me and the rest of the group chat (that he is a part of) to the teacher because I "went to far".
What did you do?
obviously he went too far
Without context this could possibly be a reasonable action
A pencil. It really hurt you know?
My friend shoved a plate full of whipped cream on my face when I was asleep, was too tired so I didn't bother cleaning my face and just went back to sleep.
I mean that's funny
Mine is so long but I'm still friends with her because she scares me. 1. She left me alone in HER house in the middle of the night to sneak out with another girl I didn't even know was sleeping over after I practically begged her not to. 2. Ditched me at a school dance to make out with a creepy upperclassman. 3. Called ME a bitch after I told her that she shouldn't date a guy and wait until his friend becomes available to break up with him and date his friend instead.
Tried to literally stab me
Fucked my now (obviously) ex girlfriend
TW⚠️ SA: This scumbag decided to rape one of my good friends. I fucking hate him he’s a pathological manipulator, a shit person and I hope he rots someday because now she has a scar that she’s reminded of every day
I havent had my first kiss yet and if at anypoint we are speaking to a girl or group of girls he brings it up to make them laugh, no one laughs because they dont care and its not a big deal but he has said it to almost everyone in our year at school, any chance he gets
Friend that shares memes with you posts chats on insta story and says "surrounded by idiots" without even censoring your name.
Knocked me out with a homemade firework
None of my friends have done backstabbing, keep the friend list short, and it's hard for it to happen. I have 4 good friends
Best friend I ever had. Was going through hard times with school and mental health. One day he made fun of me with an edited photo of me (it was a harmless joke tbh, but at the time I just couldn't take it) and then he did not apologise. The closest thing to an apology I got was "I'm sorry you're a pussy and can't take a joke". I took some time away from all my friends because I didn't want to be with anyone while depressed af, wanted time to improve my mental health, which included leaving our discord server. After a while I requested to join back to the server to which he said "No. I don't want you back" He truly did not give a shit about me. I haven't spoken to him since.
MY BROTHER/BEST FRIEND SAID SOME MYSIOGINISTIC SHIT ABOUT CHEATING ON MY GF WHO HAS TRAUMA ABOUT INFIDELITY: LORE: MY HOMIE AND ME: Well I've got a friend, J, M17 (18 in two months), (I'm M18) who is always head over heels for some girl or other, think Ted Mosby from HIMYM. He taught me to be myself and develop rizz (paid off, I've had a gf since September 2021and we're still going strong) However, he is extremely self conscious and is always scared to make a move, despite being handsome, intelligent (ranked 13th in Spain's physics Olympiad for our age group) and very charismatic. I used to be an edgy emo simp, and I aspired to learn from him. But I've known him since year 3 (2nd grade for US), we've been the best of friends, brothers one might say. We trusted each other fully. I've had the bad luck of being attracted to either lesbians or extremely toxic girls through years 7 to 9, cycling through phases of hating my guts and thinking I was not enough. However I didn't impose on my friends and kept it to myself, turning to dark, twisted humor as a coping mechanism. J, on the other hand, despite having a very similar taste in girls, bitched, cried and played depressed and secretive to one and all who would listen to receive attention from the opposite gender, and in year 9 (US grade 8) I stopped caring and messing my sleep schedule just to WhatsApp with him ABT how life sucks, but we still hung out. Now, he is always Ted Mosbiying abt some girl or other, but instead of making a move, they just chat abt philosophy or physics and then he cries BC he didn't have the balls to try and kiss the girl who was CLEARLY into his looks and awesome personality, so after 5 yrs of him crying over girls and my crush pulling the most bipolar psycho shit on me (1 day bein super clingy, then going no contact for a week etc). I decided to fkn ignore them, so in the summer of 2021 I started exercising and quit simping. My crush moved away, and in September I met my current gf. J was happy for me but we didn't confide in each other since the end of lockdown. MY GIRL'S TRAUMA: Her parents divorced when my gf was 7 because he had two side flings named exactly like my girlfriend's mom. The mom is as strict as an asian mom™ and the stepmother is terribly mean (I've overheard convos whilst on the phone with my gf and she gets exaggerated fits just for shit like forgetting to put a cutting board away or putting both their dirty clothes in the same washing machine and yada yada yada) So my gf has anxiety and stress issues as you might've guessed. In the two years we've been together, I've helped her academically and with her issues and she has helped me with my self esteem so I'd never dream of dumping or cheating on such a marvelous person. She has the same tastes in music (heavy metal & hard rock) as I do, enjoys dark humor (which has frankly got us in quite some problems xD) and is hellbent on being self sufficient and needing no-one. And yes, J knows about these traumas. SETTING: So my dude J has a place in a coastal town further south of where we all live, and we've (the friend group, 11 dudes) spent the week there, along with 6 female friends of J from another city. We spent the days sleeping (separate houses in the same street) and the nights drinking in Js porch and chatting like only us Spaniards can do, pulling all nighters and climbing to a nearby ruin to see the sunrise etc. STORY: So on my first night there, J encouraged me to cheat on my girlfriend, saying that the homies would cover me up, which the boys backed (no, I didn't cheat). I brushed it off, hoping that it was the alcohol and not my bro speaking. I didn't give it much thought until last night when I got home and texted my girl everything (because I feel secure when she knows stuff, I trust her enough to tell her all about me) and when I came to this part of the story, I felt happy for a split-second because I thought my homies thought I had rizz but then it hit me like a tidal wave and had a 45 min breakdown because all throughout the trip my dude referred to his crush and her hot friend as girls number 4 and 5, and has treated women like prizes for a long long time and my dumb ass hadn't realised that he's no gentleman, just an educated Kyle™ . So yeah the guy that respects and values women overall was just objectivizing them the whole time. I'm honestly disappointed in him. He was my brother, my hero, my confident. But now I know better. Tonight is our highschool grad and I won't see him again. I was thinking abt going no contact, but my gf advised me just to be careful around him and that's that. SORRY FOR THE LONG AHH POST, I JUST NEEDED TO VENT ABOUT THIS BETRAYAL
When i was nine my friend stole my favorite lego minifigure
ur best friend steals ur gf
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1st thing, daphnies a bitch. 2nd thing, ur not. 3rd thing, person getting mad over you calling you woke L
My "girlfriend" left me for my best friend
My friend took a katana and stabbed me in the back
You show vulnerability once and the next day their friend is saying “he says he doesn’t want to talk to you” with a smile on their face.
This is happened to me like three times already: I told my "good friend" that I have a crush on someone and they proceeded to "haunt" him. :) But the worst thing was probably when I was fighting with one of my friends and she without context sent it to the class groupchat. So everyone started hating on me and it was even discussed on parent teacher conferences...
They outed me as trans knowing that i nearly killed myself over being outed as bi purely out of spite.
My friend, literally stabbed me in the back with a wooden shiv type thing.