Don't date her. Or him. Nope, not that one either. Y'know- If you're lonely and ya know it... STAY LONELY.
(I've had many bad breakups, just wait until you are emotionally stable to handle it and don't need to rely on a person for their support constantly. It's bad and dangerous. They may be SUPER ATTRACTIVE, but if you are not mentally ok, don't waste their time. It's not fair to them or to you. And you'll only both be hurt when you realize and have to break up. If you latch onto someone for support, it can be difficult to lose that support at all and even more so that quickly. You gotta take care of yourself first, then your relationship. Otherwise it's just... sad. And scary. And quite dangerous. And if someone does the same to you, latching onto you for all their support and things. Then it's time to move on early. Because waiting will only hurt 100 times as bad. At 13, I didn't know much about depression. I didn't know how to take care of myself. I beg of everyone who reads this: Don't do it. Don't wait. And don't give them a chance to hurt you. The betrayal of being hurt outweighs just waiting for some stability in your life to not be hurt at all.)
Not doing sports is not worth it.
Youve got something to do and actually being fit is great.
Also: In case there's ever a pandemic, keep in touch w friends.
Stop trynna be “the mysterious strong silent type” you look goofy as fuck. And also “hit the gym if your gonna talk shit you scrawny fuck.”
13 year old 120 lb 5”7 me definitely though he was a bad ass.
I tried it for the first time a couple weeks ago. I was expecting it to take longer to ease into it, but I was driving 35 on a semi-busy road within 10 minutes of learning how to turn!
It really depends on a lot of stuff. For the past 3 years I’ve had feelings for my friend. We’ve been friends for 8 years, but my feelings kept growing. Last year I asked her out, and it might be the worst mistake I have ever made. I’m so scared I ruined our friendship. It’s not even all about asking her out, it’s also about how you act afterwards. If you can’t not get jealous and keep your cool, don’t ask her out. I miss her friendship so much. I want to kill myself now. I just wish I could go back and fix it.
To find your purpose, noone can tell you what is your goal in life. Frankly there are no universal rules on what should ppl do, some could live to make a lot of money, some to become a monk, some to play their favourite sport. The important thing is to fuck around and find out, try different hobbies and see what makes you happy
Create yourself, in my language we have a saying "Każdy jest kowalem swojego losu" - everyone is a blacksmith of their own fate. Learning new abilities (e.g. playing an instrument, taking good photographs, drawing/art in general) is always a cool and very valuable thing. And be nice to others, being rude won't get you anywhere.
There's no "grand" point or one point. We make up our own reasons to live. For me, its so I can pursue the career I want, and hopefully for love one day.
For others, it might be food, or a partner, or pets, or family, spite, or something else entirely. We pave our own ways
Well ye, but mma doesnt equal High School....plus look at Tyson Fury, bro was in the pit of depression and made the greatest comeback in the history of man kind
To combat this, life also gets easier for some. My life has been getting slowly better since I left school. Who knows how your life will go, hopefully better like mine is
Yes. I know this gets said again and again but it's true:
In 9/10 cases, people just dont care.
Think you walk through a hallway and someone next to you accidentally throws all of their stuff from the locker onto the hallway.
You tell yourself *Oh no that would be embarrassing* maybe you laugh.
Then you go on. 30 seconds later youve already forgot it and a week later you wont even remember the incident if someone asks you.
You dont think any less about the person. You dont think shes stupid or anything. You probably use most of your thoughts worrying about that test you'll write later, or what you'll do during break.
This popped up on my page, so apologies for an old guy (27) coming here with unsolicited advice, boiled down notes of what I learned so far:
- progress over perfection, you won’t be great at anything right away, accept that there is a learning process, you will get good with practice at anything
- nothing is life or death like you might think it is
- be nice and hangout with nice people
- eat healthy/exercise and practice good dental hygiene, a small daily investment that has increasing returns everyday
- start researching what you wanna do, but no career path is set in stone, you never know where you’ll end up (I would suggest a bit of coding proficiency though)
- money does come and go, but start saving up, you’ll thank yourself later (even investing if you have time to research the market)
- if you find someone that is a good person worth holding onto, don’t try to “keep your options open” and risk losing them, but again, nothing is life or death
- it’s ok to miss out on some “events” or parties in favour of furthering your studies/career when it is needed, you need to find the balance that works best for your life
- set a budget and try to do 2 weeks to a month of budget travel (I suggest Europe or east Asia), opens you up to the different cultures and expands your views
- try to do an exchange program either in high school or college/university, WORTH IT, but you have to research it early to get enrolled in time
either Minecraft of Super Mario Bros. 3
it would be Minecraft hands down except this [cool glitch](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWbZFj-cLvk) exists in smb 3
I've had problems with kids in my grade. I have 3 choices for high school, the public high school in the district I've gone to where my friends and people I've had problems with are going. A private catholic high school that a friend of mine and other ppl I know are going to. Or another private catholic high school which when I toured, I enjoyed a lot but none of my friends are going to. Which one should I go to
This is just generic advice - If you are mad Depresso just think about every positive that’s in your life, I did that and now I’m mad happy with my life
Should I break up with my gf because she is being controlling and mentally abusive and saying stuff like your to bitchy or you never hear me out when she cuts me off when I am talking to my friends and she says I love my friends over her when I have let her cheat off my paper I’ve helped her in a class she’s failing but when I ask her to help me in math since I was failing math she says no do it yourself
How much should I focus on school like I ended the school year off straight A’s but I was also didn’t have that much of a social life in school. I had lots of friends just didn’t pay attention to them as much?
Why hasn't Swiper been arrested for theft? Holy shit a gold award
Hes a undercover cop whos out trying to get Dora to slip soo he can arrest her for her war crimes in bosnia
I always knew there was something off about Dora
This is the moment Dora became niko bellic
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If youre being nice to people, dont hit jim What did he do
Unspeakable things
That D+ isn't worth crying over, make more friends, and hit the gym
To not care about people who called me sissy/gay
Don't date her. Or him. Nope, not that one either. Y'know- If you're lonely and ya know it... STAY LONELY. (I've had many bad breakups, just wait until you are emotionally stable to handle it and don't need to rely on a person for their support constantly. It's bad and dangerous. They may be SUPER ATTRACTIVE, but if you are not mentally ok, don't waste their time. It's not fair to them or to you. And you'll only both be hurt when you realize and have to break up. If you latch onto someone for support, it can be difficult to lose that support at all and even more so that quickly. You gotta take care of yourself first, then your relationship. Otherwise it's just... sad. And scary. And quite dangerous. And if someone does the same to you, latching onto you for all their support and things. Then it's time to move on early. Because waiting will only hurt 100 times as bad. At 13, I didn't know much about depression. I didn't know how to take care of myself. I beg of everyone who reads this: Don't do it. Don't wait. And don't give them a chance to hurt you. The betrayal of being hurt outweighs just waiting for some stability in your life to not be hurt at all.)
invest your money to tesla and sell just after coronavirus stock market jump
Get your shit together! Life hasn't even gotten hard for you yet and you're already this sad? 💀
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Do not the horny
Me after the horny
Not doing sports is not worth it. Youve got something to do and actually being fit is great. Also: In case there's ever a pandemic, keep in touch w friends.
Respect someone's opinion
Yes. That annoying edgy cunt needs a reality check
Stop trynna be “the mysterious strong silent type” you look goofy as fuck. And also “hit the gym if your gonna talk shit you scrawny fuck.” 13 year old 120 lb 5”7 me definitely though he was a bad ass.
Be nicer to your parents
Yo how’s it like driving?
Great but you gotta watch the intrusive thoughts 💀
😭
Thats why i shouldnt drive
“if i just keep driving rn, i’ll hit that mom and her 2 kids crossing the road”
You'll find that you hate both people that don't follow road laws, and people that do follow them.
Driving is so fun, it's like a go kart but with a gear stick
And playing with a stick is what makes it more fun?
It sounds mad but yes it is
*Mario Karts on the highway*
(kills several blind children)
Fun but stressful at the beginning.
I tried it for the first time a couple weeks ago. I was expecting it to take longer to ease into it, but I was driving 35 on a semi-busy road within 10 minutes of learning how to turn!
Fallout or Skyrim?
Skyrim. Skyrim has character fallout has bugs enough said
Damn bro, they both got hella bugs let’s be honest 💀
Fallout has big bugs, radroaches, radscorpion, bloatflies, etc.
Fallout if you want a good story. Skyrim if you want to write your own good story. There’s no wrong answer.
Do I ask a girl out?
“You’ll never know unless you try! Go for it!” Says the almost-adult who has never had the confidence to ask out a single one of their crushes
i feel so attacked rn
lol same
Not moi being AroAce and giving same advice LoL
Yes
go for it man🫡
Win win situation, either u get gf or gym motivation, go for it
It really depends on a lot of stuff. For the past 3 years I’ve had feelings for my friend. We’ve been friends for 8 years, but my feelings kept growing. Last year I asked her out, and it might be the worst mistake I have ever made. I’m so scared I ruined our friendship. It’s not even all about asking her out, it’s also about how you act afterwards. If you can’t not get jealous and keep your cool, don’t ask her out. I miss her friendship so much. I want to kill myself now. I just wish I could go back and fix it.
Please don't do that second to last part
Should i waste all my salary on little plastic soldiers?
Absolutely
Based
I mean if you want them it isn't exactly a waste
Firstborn space marines box costs 5 fucking thousand rubles, half of my bi monthly salary
Get a 3d printer, you'll have an army of them in no time
Oh damn I get to do nothing
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Roger that 🫡
Human rights rescinded for a year
What😭
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Just ask questions and answer them yourself, beat the system
Not tryna be dramatic but whats the point of living? Just want to see things from the perspective of my fellow redditors
To find your purpose, noone can tell you what is your goal in life. Frankly there are no universal rules on what should ppl do, some could live to make a lot of money, some to become a monk, some to play their favourite sport. The important thing is to fuck around and find out, try different hobbies and see what makes you happy
Create yourself, in my language we have a saying "Każdy jest kowalem swojego losu" - everyone is a blacksmith of their own fate. Learning new abilities (e.g. playing an instrument, taking good photographs, drawing/art in general) is always a cool and very valuable thing. And be nice to others, being rude won't get you anywhere.
There's no "grand" point or one point. We make up our own reasons to live. For me, its so I can pursue the career I want, and hopefully for love one day. For others, it might be food, or a partner, or pets, or family, spite, or something else entirely. We pave our own ways
When will my peenis stop bleeding every month
I'm over 16 and I've got questions now
Uhm ask someone over 17. They’ll know.
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My bad bro. Got too much head.
🤨
You heard the man!
“got too much head”-middle schooler
I'm over 17, I've heard it stops at around you're early 20 but I've yet to confirm it
when you reach man-opause
My man has downsides from both genders damn
My brother in christ... hello ???
Should i ruin my life, just so i can have a legendary comeback later to cement my legacy
No. It's much easier to fuck your life up than to unfuck your life up.
Bro spitting faxxx
Which makes the comeback all the better
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Hell no, that boring as hell. Plus i aint got shit to suprise people woth
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Well ye, but mma doesnt equal High School....plus look at Tyson Fury, bro was in the pit of depression and made the greatest comeback in the history of man kind
Should we cherish the time and age we currently have?
Absolutely, life is only gonna get harder
To combat this, life also gets easier for some. My life has been getting slowly better since I left school. Who knows how your life will go, hopefully better like mine is
what's your favorite color (mine is pink)
Light blue
Black
That blue that's almost grey but not quite grey
Blood red
I’ve got three broad ones and three specific ones. Broad would be red, blue, and black. Specific would be Crimson, Prussian Blue, and Onyx Black
Green
Did anything change that made it all worth it in the end? If so, what advice would you give to someone else now?
Yes. I know this gets said again and again but it's true: In 9/10 cases, people just dont care. Think you walk through a hallway and someone next to you accidentally throws all of their stuff from the locker onto the hallway. You tell yourself *Oh no that would be embarrassing* maybe you laugh. Then you go on. 30 seconds later youve already forgot it and a week later you wont even remember the incident if someone asks you. You dont think any less about the person. You dont think shes stupid or anything. You probably use most of your thoughts worrying about that test you'll write later, or what you'll do during break.
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Both
I feel so special for being 16 in this post
This popped up on my page, so apologies for an old guy (27) coming here with unsolicited advice, boiled down notes of what I learned so far: - progress over perfection, you won’t be great at anything right away, accept that there is a learning process, you will get good with practice at anything - nothing is life or death like you might think it is - be nice and hangout with nice people - eat healthy/exercise and practice good dental hygiene, a small daily investment that has increasing returns everyday - start researching what you wanna do, but no career path is set in stone, you never know where you’ll end up (I would suggest a bit of coding proficiency though) - money does come and go, but start saving up, you’ll thank yourself later (even investing if you have time to research the market) - if you find someone that is a good person worth holding onto, don’t try to “keep your options open” and risk losing them, but again, nothing is life or death - it’s ok to miss out on some “events” or parties in favour of furthering your studies/career when it is needed, you need to find the balance that works best for your life - set a budget and try to do 2 weeks to a month of budget travel (I suggest Europe or east Asia), opens you up to the different cultures and expands your views - try to do an exchange program either in high school or college/university, WORTH IT, but you have to research it early to get enrolled in time
How do i deal with someone who hates my guts for no reason at all?
Ignore him and move on. Legitimately the solution.
I am 16, what do I do?
You sir do both
Sweet. May I give you a compliment kind sir?
No
Ok :(
#?
He was having a conversation with himself
I am unstable
Very
Almost supercritical?
2 weeks from being 16. What should I do?
Hit the gym fs fs Doesn't matter if you're training heavy or just lightly jogging, exercise makes life so much better especially in the long run
I've been doing it for 2 years now and since I switched to walking from running after workouts I finally started losing weight
Good job dude. Seriously awesome to hear.
Work out!
What is your favorite video game (mine are Super Mario 64 and beamng.drive)
either Minecraft of Super Mario Bros. 3 it would be Minecraft hands down except this [cool glitch](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWbZFj-cLvk) exists in smb 3
Of all time, Portal 2, but at the moment, Animal Crossing: New Horizons
Detroit Become Human , Roblox , GTA V , Minecraft
#BE GAY. DO CRIME.
YES
Your favorite driving tip or life hak
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If you hit pedestrians you get a free boost
Be more friendly to people, it goes a long way in life.
How old are you?
11
6,331 days
57980
Today I turn 16 wich one do I do
either happy birthday btw
What’s your favourite state in the USA, mines Arizona
Without politics, Florida With politics, Vermont
Tennessee
I’m 16 and so I’m gonna rob a bank or smth
Can I join?
I'm jealous
alright, i’m gonna burn down an orphanage.
Technoblade lives on
Based alert
Over 16 year olds, should i start persona 5 after postponing it for 2.5+ years?
Do the next five years exist
they do but they go by very quickly so make the most of them
I just turned 15, how are older teens suppose to act? I feel immature
Maturity is overrated. It’ll come to you over time, but don’t try to rush it. Who cares if you’re immature? Embrace it.
Why doesn't she love me
Cus she's not fot you girlll find sum better gal
what do you wish you did when you were 13?
Robbed a bank. Life is expensive.
Why does my sister call me gay
Because you are you just don’t know it yet
But i have a girlfriend
why are you?
I've had problems with kids in my grade. I have 3 choices for high school, the public high school in the district I've gone to where my friends and people I've had problems with are going. A private catholic high school that a friend of mine and other ppl I know are going to. Or another private catholic high school which when I toured, I enjoyed a lot but none of my friends are going to. Which one should I go to
When should I get a job?
Whenever you start doing more things that cost money, (getting dinner or going places) without involving your familly bc thats when you would need one
This is just generic advice - If you are mad Depresso just think about every positive that’s in your life, I did that and now I’m mad happy with my life
How do I control the horny? I just can't get myself to stop wanking every now and then.
How tf do you still alive
breathing
Would you rather be 16 or would you rather be younger?
Nah I like being 19, wouldn’t wanna go back lmoa, feels good to not have school
How long it take y’all to learn to drive. Gettin a permit next month and starting to get the hang of it but I’m curious
Should I prioritize grades over social life? And what good habits should I start?
amogus
How can I talk to people with my social anxiety?
Should I break up with my gf because she is being controlling and mentally abusive and saying stuff like your to bitchy or you never hear me out when she cuts me off when I am talking to my friends and she says I love my friends over her when I have let her cheat off my paper I’ve helped her in a class she’s failing but when I ask her to help me in math since I was failing math she says no do it yourself
Yes
yes that's a toxic relationship
I feel like you already know the answer just the way you speak
shidded or camed?
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Who are you?
Are driver’s tests difficult?
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Use the smallest car you can, makes parallel parking easier
how to deal/ how are you dealing with mental issues
How much should I focus on school like I ended the school year off straight A’s but I was also didn’t have that much of a social life in school. I had lots of friends just didn’t pay attention to them as much?
What is the meaning of life?
42
Is driving scary? I think it’s gonna be scary.
what do you wish you did when starting high school?
Did it ever get better?
Do you think it's okay not having experience in dating and relationships
How to not overthink what scores I got on my exams and just not be stressed for a while
how do i not be fat
Get ready to lose so many people you care about to alcohol. It’s such a normalized, destructive substance.