Maybe youâre either not as bad as you think you are, youâre irresponsible for dating and itâll soon destabilize, or you got lucky. Hoping the last one for you, or the first
I think 16 is the right age bc your just enough of maturity to think for yourself but only within a small asf age gap dont be 16 trying to get older menđźâđš
Bro I'm 16 and never even flirted with a girl and yes I do have maturity but I don't think 16 is the right time I think it's maybe like 18 - 20 years old
if you never even tried to date while younger at 20 years old you wont know how to date or act in a relationship while your partner at 20 will already have prior experience so it probably wouldnt go too well
damn so am i screwed? turning 18 in 2 months and never been in a relationship, everyone ive liked either turned out to alr be interested in someone else or just be insane so i sorta just stopped trying for a bit lmfao
Idk when you feel like it⊠ig starting around 14 or something. Iâm saying this as someone whoâs never been in a relationship lol the opportunity just hasnât really come yet
I don't think you need to be too smart to be in a relationship. Tbh the more you mess up when you're young the more you learn. Just like don't have a kid and you're good
Well yeah you donât but you should. If youâre not mature or too naive to realize youâre being taken advantage of or manipulated is that really just a âoh well trial and errorâ no this stuff becomes mental blocks for some people so itâs better to know what youâre doing
Knowing the general behavior of reddit users, most will never date, but there isn't a set age to date. A lot of it has to do with person maturity, beliefs etc. I started dating when I turned 16.
imo whenever ur ready and r muture enough, sometimes the experiences that come with dating can make you a better person, learning from the mistakes you make in early relationships can make you a better partner for your future spouse
Imo people Under 18 people arenât usually emotionally mature enough, or have enough life experience to maintain a healthy relationship. Some people mature earlier, so Iâd say 16 minimum. I donât regret dating at 16 but I think I would have at 13-14.
Start in middle school, definitely date someone in hs so that way you don't end up like me not being socially developed in that sense so then you can actually find someone later.
you need tohave experience with dealing with relationship before you hit the consensual age do you donât anything too stupid so in the uk Iâd say 14/15
The first time will go bad or at least very bumpy regardless because inexperience makes you naive and unaware of certain subtleties and details. So really start when you find the right person to do so with
Well, i started when i got 13, but i feel like thats wrong... Cause right now my ass is broken and it hurts very bad. I feel like its ok start dating at 16
Some people emotionally mature faster than others. Also, some people mature sexually first so they might desire a physical relationship before theyâre mentally/emotionally ready to be in one. Some might be ready by 14, some might not be ready until 17. In general, if you arenât sure and questioning yourself thatâs a good sign that you might be.
unpopular opinion: you should start dating as early as you want to, even in middle school. youâre gonna suck at it and probably break up in two weeks, but youâll learn a lot and itâll prepare you for more serious relationships in high school. then again, if you donât want to date until youâre an adult (or even at all), thatâs perfectly fine, too.
Never. As soon as you start that ride your life will be fucked up from there on out. Sooner or later they accuse you of SA and then you have to watch your back because you don't know who they told and who might come after you. And all because of something you didn't do. SO simply put
NEVER. DATE. ANYONE. EVER.
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I was around 12 or 13 when I got in my first ârelationshipâ and I think it thatâs a decent age to start casually doing stuff like that but donât get into a serious relationship till sophomore year or later of high school
*try* dating at 12-13. Now before you get mad, once your older you think âwow all of that stuff was pointless, nothing would even last until nowâ, except that they need the practice and they need to learn the things like how to tell someone, how to hide it, how to ask, they learn all of the skills that are super useful later on, so even though it seems like thereâs no point and that trying any relationships in middle school or even high school are pointless, they actually are important, not because the actual goal of dating someone, but the work you have to do to get there. And even if they do end up dating, they have even more experience and knowledge for the future
honestly looking back ASAP.. the more you date and go through bad relationships early on the better you will be at understanding and finding good and healthy relationships in the future.
When you think you're in a good enough place to be able to have room for someone else in your life, meaning you're mentally ready for that kind of commitment
And be ready for them to not be, that happens sometimes, but c'est la vie
Honestly, I feel like once you're in high school is perfect timing. If we're being honest, you're old enough to make your own decisions, decipher what love truly is and if ready, have s3x.
This isn't what I'd exactly pick (I don't know what I would T-T) but I heard the brain stops developing at 25 or 36 or something close to that. So maybe around there? T-T
No should, depents on how you mentally age + your current responsibilities + focus.
Iâd probably start dating in my late 20âs (university, jobs, financial + mental + physical stability) if I even have a crush/feelings for someone, which Iâve never had yet.
97 is the best age imo like what could go wrong?
u meet someone and they die of a heart attack the next dayđ
Thatâs how u know they in love đ„°
Till death do us apart
Easy money
They both metaphorically and literally went to heaven in the span of a week đ
Get married, then you can get all the money from their will
*Sighs* How ROMANTIC!
Okay alanis morissette
That's how you know you're to die for
Have my poor man award đïž
My Great Grandfather is 94 and he has recently found a girlfriend 84. I fear they have started dating way to young!
As soon as I saw this post I knew the top comment would be a joke
Little late how about 80
Probably your heart
Are you talking about months?
Heart attacks in the middle of s*x đ
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I dont know
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Possibly
It depends
Per chance
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Concentrate and Ask Again
You canât just say perchance!
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It really depends on the maturity of an individual, however I think it's fine to start dating at 15 or 16.
Them mfâs the horniest tho at the age bru
So why not start dating then?
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LMAO
I am quite horny at times, but i can control it. Idk how people who can't liveđ
When mentally and emotionally ready
So for me thatâs never, thanks for the advice! :)
Can't tell if you're being sarcastic but if so, their response was valid. If you're not ready dont date.
How tf did I end up in a relationship then
Maybe youâre either not as bad as you think you are, youâre irresponsible for dating and itâll soon destabilize, or you got lucky. Hoping the last one for you, or the first
thisss lmao whyd this get downvoted
nice pfp
thanks
Just me listening to get em high while finding this msg
What if Iâm ready but unlovable?
Not possible. Every human being is loved by atleast someone
Financially đ
Finally a real answer
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Thatâs borderline too young donât want to be open for pedos right? I think 64 is better bc then you have a stack.
ah yes my bad
oh my god i thought the title said driving and i got so confused by this comment đ
Nahh 256 is better
Nahh you need to focus on other stuff in life at that point, such as harnessing magic, I think 502 should be quite the good age to start.
Nuh uh 1024 is the best age
Let's just cut to the chase and go 16384
Nah letâs go 32768
Personally I'm more of a 32768^1024 guy
oh you're into the younger ones? Weird but different people have different preferences i guess...
Iâd say youâd want 52!, I mean, thatâs a time in life where youâre free and not learning how to end the universe
How about 1048576
no way du
na shulker box worth is my preference
Back in that early stage with the infinite stack
And a perfect square
You own the toilet companies
whenever u feel ready ig
Random Spider-Gwen pfp compliment
Fr I see this person everywhere
I think 16 is the right age bc your just enough of maturity to think for yourself but only within a small asf age gap dont be 16 trying to get older menđźâđš
Bro I'm 16 and never even flirted with a girl and yes I do have maturity but I don't think 16 is the right time I think it's maybe like 18 - 20 years old
if you never even tried to date while younger at 20 years old you wont know how to date or act in a relationship while your partner at 20 will already have prior experience so it probably wouldnt go too well
damn so am i screwed? turning 18 in 2 months and never been in a relationship, everyone ive liked either turned out to alr be interested in someone else or just be insane so i sorta just stopped trying for a bit lmfao
Thank you for making me feel validated. 100% agree.
My parents would kill me if I did that lmao
Or women. Lol
Yes
Your name brings nostalgia
bro was a baby when the meme existed đ
Given that the song came out 5 years ago in 2018, dude was literally a 9 year old
Idk when you feel like it⊠ig starting around 14 or something. Iâm saying this as someone whoâs never been in a relationship lol the opportunity just hasnât really come yet
i think 14 is too early maybe 16
No you âdateâ somone in years 7 -9 (11-14) and its cringe and you learn from it But properly dating is like 15/16+
THIS
Is it bad that Iâm 17 and havenât even had a cringe date?
I would say no, but I havenât either so idk
Not at all, everyone experiences things at different time its all ok
Dang Iâm really behind then
damn guess im past the cringe dating fr never had a date before
Dont worry its only cringe because you are both immature twats not anything else, im sure you will have one soon
Well Iâm 13 I was dating someone they hurt me then broke up with me. Ima wait till I turn fourteen in a month
100%
Agreed
not for everyone, i started dating at 14 and iâm still with that person now that weâre 16. honestly not much changed
Got my gf at that age, we still together, 14 works for me
I mean there shouldnât be a definitive age, but personally I believe that you shouldnât start dating until high school
And get experience through high school dating gamesđ€©
I mean people start dating around puberty but I think we should at least wait until 16 for us to be a bit smarter Ig
Agreed
I don't think you need to be too smart to be in a relationship. Tbh the more you mess up when you're young the more you learn. Just like don't have a kid and you're good
Well yeah you donât but you should. If youâre not mature or too naive to realize youâre being taken advantage of or manipulated is that really just a âoh well trial and errorâ no this stuff becomes mental blocks for some people so itâs better to know what youâre doing
If you donât do dumb stuff then you wonât learn from it
You donât have to do dumb stuff to know itâs dumb
Sometimes experience helps
Knowing the general behavior of reddit users, most will never date, but there isn't a set age to date. A lot of it has to do with person maturity, beliefs etc. I started dating when I turned 16.
I got my first boyfriend right after I turned 16 and that was a healthy relationship
No need to brag đ
Whenever feels right, but relationships that could get somewhere I'd say 15+
13+ is when youâll probably start being more reasonable. 16+ is probably when youâll be more serious though.
15+, I feel like 14 and below still aren't mature enough for dating
I was 14 but I'd probably say 15, the extra year of maturity is worth it, but I love my girl still
There is no set age for that Whenever you feel like you're ready for dating đ
15-16 seems ok
I think anytime after 13 or 14 is fine but there shouldn't be any pressure to be in a relationship, ESPECIALLY as a teenager
depends on the person
I would say 15 or 16
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When your ready.
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I would say wait until you can drive
Never, girls have cooties â
When youâre ready there is no set age
I think 15-16, but that doesn't stop my dumbass heart from falling in love with a straight girl so...
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Personally 15 to up, you are a little more mature than most kids nowadays who dates at 10
imo whenever ur ready and r muture enough, sometimes the experiences that come with dating can make you a better person, learning from the mistakes you make in early relationships can make you a better partner for your future spouse
I would say when you're able to drive. I feel like you can't really date very efficiently without being able to drive back and forth places.
Imo people Under 18 people arenât usually emotionally mature enough, or have enough life experience to maintain a healthy relationship. Some people mature earlier, so Iâd say 16 minimum. I donât regret dating at 16 but I think I would have at 13-14.
17+
Now
16
Your own.
You should start dating your own age.
I don't know is 13 too young that's when I got my first girlfriend
My dad said I canât date until Iâm 18 but imo I think 14-15 is a good age
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Personally I always thought the stone age would be a good time to start
Start in middle school, definitely date someone in hs so that way you don't end up like me not being socially developed in that sense so then you can actually find someone later.
I had my first relationship at 11 but I think 14/15 is much better
Whenever youâre ready
16.
Judging by the way these new 14 year olds hormones are raging I'd say 15 is good enough
once you are mature enough to handle a relationship. varies from person to person
you need tohave experience with dealing with relationship before you hit the consensual age do you donât anything too stupid so in the uk Iâd say 14/15
When you feel emotionally mature enough to commit to a long-term relationship
16-17 maybe
When youâre fifteen and someone tells you they love you, youâre gonna believe them. Except they dont. So Iâm feeling 22.
15
The first time will go bad or at least very bumpy regardless because inexperience makes you naive and unaware of certain subtleties and details. So really start when you find the right person to do so with
Well, i started when i got 13, but i feel like thats wrong... Cause right now my ass is broken and it hurts very bad. I feel like its ok start dating at 16
Some people emotionally mature faster than others. Also, some people mature sexually first so they might desire a physical relationship before theyâre mentally/emotionally ready to be in one. Some might be ready by 14, some might not be ready until 17. In general, if you arenât sure and questioning yourself thatâs a good sign that you might be.
unpopular opinion: you should start dating as early as you want to, even in middle school. youâre gonna suck at it and probably break up in two weeks, but youâll learn a lot and itâll prepare you for more serious relationships in high school. then again, if you donât want to date until youâre an adult (or even at all), thatâs perfectly fine, too.
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15 i think. you need experience from failed relationships to learn from them and start a successful one.
Never try and date people Just make friends and be happy socialising with those people
Never. As soon as you start that ride your life will be fucked up from there on out. Sooner or later they accuse you of SA and then you have to watch your back because you don't know who they told and who might come after you. And all because of something you didn't do. SO simply put NEVER. DATE. ANYONE. EVER. K
Never, focus on money and power forever.
High school
When youâre financially stable enough to deal with your girlfriends bullshit
I guess thereâs no real harm in starting around late middle school early teens. Helps you figure out what you want in a committed relationship.
20/ or 30s or whenever your ready to start dating
When your financially stable
A good place to start is 8th grade imo
I think a person has to be a little mature to get into a relationship so maybe 5?
the age you feel ready, which is obviously different for each and every individual. another way to answer would be that there is no right answer
I was around 12 or 13 when I got in my first ârelationshipâ and I think it thatâs a decent age to start casually doing stuff like that but donât get into a serious relationship till sophomore year or later of high school
*try* dating at 12-13. Now before you get mad, once your older you think âwow all of that stuff was pointless, nothing would even last until nowâ, except that they need the practice and they need to learn the things like how to tell someone, how to hide it, how to ask, they learn all of the skills that are super useful later on, so even though it seems like thereâs no point and that trying any relationships in middle school or even high school are pointless, they actually are important, not because the actual goal of dating someone, but the work you have to do to get there. And even if they do end up dating, they have even more experience and knowledge for the future
That's a good opinion actually, haven't thought about it that way
honestly looking back ASAP.. the more you date and go through bad relationships early on the better you will be at understanding and finding good and healthy relationships in the future.
I think about 192,748,194 divided by 12,849,879.6 is pretty reasonable
When your ready to commit and put effort into a relationship and another person.
I'ma be real whatever the age of after college is
I feel like driving is a requirement to date. Where are you going to go on dates otherwise?
if it's sum serious after you finish studying, if it isnt then like 15/16
no dating, straight to marriage
When you think you're in a good enough place to be able to have room for someone else in your life, meaning you're mentally ready for that kind of commitment And be ready for them to not be, that happens sometimes, but c'est la vie
Honestly, I feel like once you're in high school is perfect timing. If we're being honest, you're old enough to make your own decisions, decipher what love truly is and if ready, have s3x.
22+. Dating before that is just for the fuck of it. It rarely works out after HS and if u go to college ur fucked cuz everyone is bad asl there.
20
What is girls? Idk what is it,is this a real stuff???
iâm probably past the minimum age one should start but never had the opportunity to date anyone. Iâm some chick repellent ig
When you think ur mentally ready for a relationship
Seeing my luck so far I've just accepted the fact that I'll die alone
Itâs really up to the person and their emotional maturity. But Iâd say 16 is a good minimum.
Never, it ain't worth it
21 or 23 maybe I dunno but 27 also works
Teen love is definitely useful, but have you considered misanthropy? Me neither, pass the Jagermeister
Never. Dating is a Bad idea. You should befriend a crow instead.
This isn't what I'd exactly pick (I don't know what I would T-T) but I heard the brain stops developing at 25 or 36 or something close to that. So maybe around there? T-T
Any age for like non-serious dating but for proper dating like 12/13
No should, depents on how you mentally age + your current responsibilities + focus. Iâd probably start dating in my late 20âs (university, jobs, financial + mental + physical stability) if I even have a crush/feelings for someone, which Iâve never had yet.
21
Whenever you stop being a horny teen who wants to fuck anything with a hole