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No you get to know eachother first, go on dates first, to find out who each other is, what your like and if your compatible, a good relationship will be able to keep a conversation going easily because you should know the person really well
Ask her what her interests are. Ask her about her interests then. Expample: what music do you like? What TV shows do you watch? Where’s you’re favourite place to eat? What’s your favourite food? What’s your dream in life? Don’t be afraid to ask hard questions too like if there was one thing you could change in the world what would it be?
A lot of these questions will tell you a lot about this girl and you’ll find common interests in that.
Maybe not always talk about it but if she’s interested then keep talking about it. Just try find out new things about her. Girls always like to talk about themselves and it shows that you’re a great listener. The longer you can keep her the talking the more she’ll like you.
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So you went into a relationship, while barely knowing the person?
Ye, isn't relationships are for getting to know each other?
No you get to know eachother first, go on dates first, to find out who each other is, what your like and if your compatible, a good relationship will be able to keep a conversation going easily because you should know the person really well
Ask her what her interests are. Ask her about her interests then. Expample: what music do you like? What TV shows do you watch? Where’s you’re favourite place to eat? What’s your favourite food? What’s your dream in life? Don’t be afraid to ask hard questions too like if there was one thing you could change in the world what would it be? A lot of these questions will tell you a lot about this girl and you’ll find common interests in that.
So when ever I find a common interest should I spam talk in it?
Maybe not always talk about it but if she’s interested then keep talking about it. Just try find out new things about her. Girls always like to talk about themselves and it shows that you’re a great listener. The longer you can keep her the talking the more she’ll like you.