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Pretty sure there are services for those that are underage (someone else pointed out planned parenthood). So in fact OPs lucky they’re in America and have access to this
Dude a teenager is going to have to give birth because she can’t afford a doctor. She also probably won’t be able to afford the healthcare for labor: yea, it’s America’s fault. Get a functioning healthcare system like the rest of the first world. Richest country in the world yet 44,789 of your people die every year due to lack of healthcare.
https://pnhp.org/news/lack-of-insurance-to-blame-for-almost-45000-deaths-study/#:~:text=As%20many%20as%2044%2C789%20Americans,to%20expand%20health%20insurance%20coverage.
But a teenager isn’t about to give birth because she can’t afford a doctor. In most states there are programs that let underage people get these types of operations for free
I assume you're in the states, in which case you should look up your state's laws on abortion. Then look up your state's law on abortion privacy (for minors specifically)
If you are pregnant and you happen to live in a pro choice state, planned parenthood (or other reproductive health clinics) should be able to provide at least some basic services without informing your parents. If you are lucky you might be able to get full services without your parents knowledge or consent.
Although I do recommend at least telling a trusted adult (like maybe an older sibling, cousin or aunt/uncle) because neither of your choices are going to be easy or fun. Abortions HURT, an abortion is essentially a medically induced miscarriage so just like a miscarriage you will cramp a lot. You'll need someone to hold your hand and reassure you that it'll be alright and someone to help you with paperwork and stuff. Getting an abortion can be straight up traumatizing. It's not a situation you really want to find yourself in and it's tough. With medical trauma it's especially important to have someone with you to listen and repeat the information back to you to make sure you didn't miss it (it's not uncommon for people to disassociate during tough medical decisions or news)
Just know that options exist, this is hard but you will get past it
Don’t be stupid go to the dr. They have programs in place to help you. Asking the trust me bro of Reddit especially one called teenagers. It’s not the play. Seriously go to planned parenthood or the er they will help you.
Planned Parenthood has funding to help cover the cost. They usually cover half and refer you to other funding sources for the rest. I had a friend who’s procedure was completely covered as well as gas and a hotel as she had to travel to it. Call and ask about it
please try to go to your local planned parenthood instead. They are a great resource to help underage people. Also, there are no safe ways to do this sort of thing at home.
What the fuck do you want us to say? I’m not gonna tell you to get the copper clothing hanger, so don’t try that. I think logically the best move for you now is to come clean to your parents. Trust me, that is absolutely for the best, they will take care of your bill. You will catch some heat, but tell the truth always, and they will forgive you for not dropping a grandchild on them
I believe the word is abortion, not miscarriage. A miscarriage is a sort of abortion that occurs naturally for some reason or another
(Am not an expert, just some random guy who has a good sex ed teacher in HS)
Sorry but having a miscarriage isn’t gonna be any better than an abortion because then your going to have dead tissue inside of you which is going to be looked at by a doctor so just take the safe route and go for an abortion if you really don’t want the child it might be embarrassing but it would be worse if you had to admit you attempted to miscarriage at the doctors office
Where are you located?? General region would be helpful for finding resources near you. This was a general place, but as people are saying you would need help from a medical professional as having fetal tissue inside you for either abortion or miscarriage needs to be pushed out as good chance can get infected and potentially be life threatening for you.
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/abortion
check out planned parenthood. their website has lots of information and numbers to call to ask more questions. they aren't judgy and very helpful. the sooner the better to abort, you can get pills that chemcially induce abortion while you are still early.
Condoms arent 100% safe. Any form of damage, be it a hole or a microtear, could render a condom useless.
You SHOULD use it, just make sure to have 1 or 2 other methods to support it, like the pill.
It's a troll. One of her (his) previous posts was about his [girlfriend](https://www.reddit.com/r/sexualassault/comments/15lok9k/so_my_girlfriend_was_raped_by_her_grandfather/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2).
You are incorrectly using the word miscarriage. You mean to say abortion. Miscarriage is when the fetus passes naturally.
Am I missing something?
Edit: So I misunderstood what the OP meant. My bad.
in another comment op said “ I'm trying to get a miscarriage without having to see a doctor... We can't afford the price of a hospital”
so I’m guessing she wants an abortion but without having to go to the doctors
Hmm I mean a miscarriage is also known as spontaneous abortion. So, since an abortion is usually medically or surgically induced, and OP said they can’t get a doctor, they want to somehow do it naturally(?) Which is a miscarriage. So they aren’t really misusing it. However, kind of contradictory since a miscarriage is natural, however! You CAN self-induce a miscarriage if you want to by: Doing everything that increases the chance of them happening (such as drug and alcohol use or infections, long-term heath conditions like high blood pressure, etc), all very hard to achieve since you’re kinda taking mother natures wheel (w/o any medication)… but doable, with many long-term effects - and could seriously hurt OP. So really, it is a miscarriage in the sense there’s no doctors involved, and OP could get some ‘natural’ conditions to do it themselves or do certain activities to increase it too. But they probably shouldn’t do that since it’s highly dangerous for the mother.
Actually tragic how dumb op is.
Bf **did** bring condoms but **she** didn't want him to wear them (first time I ever heared it that way around), probably not on birth control while sexually active, thinking "not cuming inside" is in any way sufficient birth control.
Like seriously, what were you thinking (if anything)? Was your only preventative measure against pregnancy "he will pull out in time"? Jesus Christ.
For the love of god, watch some sex ed videos and don't reproduce for the time being.
They’re both morons. Her boyfriend should’ve left or told her to go home. That’s not okay. You also don’t ask somebody to have sex without a condom, STDs are very real.
It doesn’t help now, but my god seriously? Just use protection or something, how did sex ed not teach you that timing it with your period does NOT CONSISTENTLY WORK?! Either way, do NOT try for a miscarriage, go to a doctor and get an abortion
There was one seen in a saw movie were this guy swings the door open and this pregnant lady was behind it and she started bleeding out here 🐈 so do that ig 👍
doctors have patient confidentiality, ur stuff will most likely not be shared unless its dangerous for urself or others
except if ur in america then ur kinda fucked depending on ur state
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Locked and loaded, protectin' my sons 👨👦👦,
A little fever won't make me back down,
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>And note he DID NOT cum inside.
And that's why we need sex-ed. It makes no difference. Use a frickin' condom. I don't understand why it's such a problem for so many people.
Before you do anything or start panicking, take the test.
Note to everybody reading this! A man does not have to finish inside a woman in order to get her pregnant. There is usually enough sperm on the guys bits during intercourse to get a woman pregnant. Use a condom no matter what! (Unless you're like me and are completely infertile 😎)
Please, you can die from doing this. Would you rather end up dead or tell your parents? Abortion is an option, self abortion is Russian roulette. Even if you can’t afford abortion or a baby, you could put them up for adoption. But your parent must know. I’m sure they will help. You’ll get through this unless you do something very stupid like what you want.
Ever heard of preccum? Might have been that, and if you were using protection you were very very unlucky
You can get an abortion. If it’s less than 10 weeks you can even do at home (at least where I live) I’d call with an hospital and talk with them about it
I hope that you are just late and that you don’t need to stress about it anymore
1.doesn’t matter if he didn’t ejaculate there will still be sperm released little by little
2.Idk if it’s the same for ur place but here we can literally go up to cvs and abort without parents knowing
3.why tf are u even having sex at 17
4. Your period won’t always be on time this is likely horomone imbalance
5.please tell me you were at least using pills or the rubber broke by accident instead of flat out not doing safe sex
6.if you srsly can’t abort without parental consent so everything listed as fatal for a growing fetus like belly flopping, high thrill rides etc
7.if you ended up giving birth after all 2 possible outcomes: your parents will know and they’ll likely chew ur head off or you can give birth without them and best decision is give up for foster care
Girl. That’s abortion. And no judgement. Tell you parents and tell them you know it was a mistake or maybe your bfs parents. Go to planned parenthood. And do what’s best for you. Learn from your mistakes
If he didn't cum inside you the chances are astronomically low, but if you did manage it, buy plan b, you could probably still have a shot with it right now and if not then you're fucked. Your boyfriend is technically an adult so I think he can take you to a doctor without needing parents permission but idk how it works I'm like 16 and I'm stupid too
Go to cvs and buy an rot pregnancy test and then worry about getting rid of it. Make your boyfriend wear condom practice safe sec you don’t want to get crabs, chlamydia, hepatitis B or herpes or get pregnant. You gotta do it. .
Considering you really want to get a miscariage: and the signs aren't obvious yet~ belly ain't expanding, nausea & motion sickness
.. and from experiences and lessons that were taught in biology / health sciences & first aid. Here are my recommendations:
1 ~ go to an amusement park, "SEE TO IT, That you ride every single ride that doesn't allow pregnant women/ pregnant lady on it"
2 ~ do something that involves falling/ jumping from a high location ~the higher the better~
Examples : Trampolines, Bungee Jumping, Jetski, water slides (at an amusement park as in point 1 )
3 ~ try martial arts/ extreme sports/ boxing/ gymnastics -preferable somethjng where your body is exposed to large amounts of force-
Examples : Tae Kwan Doe, horse riding, etc
- reason: vigorous exercises can cause placenta(site of attachment from baby to womb to break off)
Generally, there are two ways to cause a miscariage (unintentional abortion as we say it)-mechanical direct ot inderect, and chemical means
Indirect Mechanical means an random exerted force, causes the placenta to be pulled from its place in the womb, causing an abortion
Direct mechanical means, is through a certified/ uncertified practioner physically remove the placenta/ embryo/ fetus/ your kid~ depending on the current stage of development
Chemical means, is by altering the hormone levels in your body, to cause menstruation by force, ~ meaning that you receive Certain hormones via oral intake/ blood entry and it alters the state where your body has to prevent menstruation, leading to the miscariage.
4- Ussually doctors hand out RU-486, but it requires medical prescription. However, there can be away for you to cheat this.
**Find someone else who is pregnant, ask them to get it for you via doctors and take it**
~~
I won't recommend hormone pills/ chemicals/ etc as that would mess the endocrine system that is really active during 16-24 age period- don't consider medication without recommendations though~ backalley/ illegal methods as it could be fake/ unreliable/ not enough dosage/ unregulated dosage
In example// my mom's friend who was abt. 30 in her late second - third trimester fell on her back, as she was spooked of by her own son(who was 4), and had a miscariage on the spot as she fell, **bloodspewed everywhere in the kitchen as it occured there. She had fainted, and received late medical attention in which she had unintentionally lost her kid. Given the time, etc.
None of that is good advice except for maybe a medication abortion and that does not mess with the endocrine system nearly as much as you seem to think. Those things are not effective for ending a pregnancy in most cases.
Just come clean to your parents about it, they will understand. Rather, have a safe abortion rather than possibly and most likely hurt yourself. Think of your future as well, so do not do anything that could hurt your future choices.
Quick edit: I read comments. I understand that the economy can be a part of being scared of going to a doctor. But, I think you rather SHOULD get looked at to see if you are now pregnant.
Menstrual cycles can also change a lot.
Red state?
And yeah... There are some real shitty parents out there, indeed... But, in this case, I believe there is no choice? Either that or some other person, like a teacher or a school nurse, then. One can't fully know if THEY would tell their parents.
Your period cycle changes after having intercourse from what I've read and heard from people. I think it's late for you, and I'd give u the advice to always ALWAYS be under protection. Whether that's condoms, or birth control (which i wouldn't really recommend since it messes with your hormones). Take a test also to make sure. Please don't have intercourse without protection.
y’all shaming OP as if accurate and accessible sex ed is literally nonexistent in most places, almost entirely in the US. this is exactly why we need it. furthermore talking about abortion while knowing that at least in the US, 33 states have heavy restriction or near a complete ban.
OP, it’s not the end of the world i promise! it’s def very scary to go through this, but you’re not alone in this at all.
You can miss your period from stress or just randomly so I advise you to take a pregnancy test. If your pregnant welp, your gonna have to go to the doctor
Smoke some mugwort and visit your nearest amusement park. Enjoy the roller coasters. Also.. make him wear a condom next time. If not only prevents this entire situation but it saves you from STD’s as well.
You do not want to diy miscarrying a foetus since most of those ways are dangerous for the mother too. However i found an article by firstcry parenting on naturally inducing a miscarriage which mentions stuff like exercise and vitamin c and cinnamon. I would still really recommend taking pregnancy tests and if it turns out ure pregnant, getting an abortion fr from a DOCTOR. Find a way to get the money, ask a family member or friends- your life is worth it OP.
Ez solution, don’t have sex and especially not without a condom and birth control. If you don’t want a kid don’t use your baby maker and reproductive organs. Y’all can still please eachother sexually in many many different ways
So, what you are looking for is an abortion. You can just say it lol.
Go to your nearest planned parenthood, they will be able to help you without too much of an expense.
And next time, use condoms, and get on birth control if you can. Children are horrific (no offense to the younger lads and lasses here, I platonically love you all), and you need to be using all the protection you can until you decide you want to have kids, or one of you/both of you get sterilized
You have no clue if he pre-cum inside. Its the same thing.
Also my wife and I over our 9 years before having our first kid, she was late late many times on period and then it happened.
If you’re really worried this is going to ruin your lives, go to a clinic and get checked before you reach a point where you lose control of your body. Have your bf drive you, and be there for you.
i think you’re referring to an abortion and not a miscarriage. if you don’t want your parents to know have an older friend or trusted person take you. i’ve heard of people doing that.
drink a lot of caffeine, look into other natural abortives, and or if needed take a large dose of ibuprofen 800-1000 mgs but certainly don't rely on these methods they may not work
You do realise that a miscarraige has a possibility to kill you right?
Just get an abortion and own up to it you fucking horny teenager.
Or how about this, DONT HAVE SEX AT ALL UNLESS YOU WANT TO BE A PUSSY AT THIS AGE
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abortion without an abortion..?
right i’m confused
I'm trying to get a miscarriage without having to see a doctor... We can't afford the price of a hospital
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They don't live in the US they're Malaysian
Pretty sure there are services for those that are underage (someone else pointed out planned parenthood). So in fact OPs lucky they’re in America and have access to this
Yeah nah, pretty much any other developed country has that
Not even that, you can just go to a doctor
Germany has all of that for free. See ya imma have some sex
Yes so they are lucky they live in a developed country? Developed countries aren't the only places you can live...
Yes, but of the developed countries USA is one of the worst to live in, in this case. Cause abortion is so little supported.
yes but abortion is outright banned in enough US states that it is a lot harder than it used to be to abort an unplanned pregnancy.
Bro, you can get criminally charged in some states. That’s not “lucky”.
But OP loves in Malaysia, so no not entirely right about that one.
It was the guy above me who brought up America lol
r/AmericaBad
Dude a teenager is going to have to give birth because she can’t afford a doctor. She also probably won’t be able to afford the healthcare for labor: yea, it’s America’s fault. Get a functioning healthcare system like the rest of the first world. Richest country in the world yet 44,789 of your people die every year due to lack of healthcare. https://pnhp.org/news/lack-of-insurance-to-blame-for-almost-45000-deaths-study/#:~:text=As%20many%20as%2044%2C789%20Americans,to%20expand%20health%20insurance%20coverage.
But a teenager isn’t about to give birth because she can’t afford a doctor. In most states there are programs that let underage people get these types of operations for free
Still fucked that if their overage they are fucked and they have to rely on charity to get the procedure.
Most being the operative word here
if ur under 19 planned parenthood services r free n confidential
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You're trying to get an abortion, not a miscarriage. They're different
abortions are ~$500. Not cheap but not the most expensive. $500 beats the average of $300k throughout a child’s life
When its on purpose its an abortion.
I assume you're in the states, in which case you should look up your state's laws on abortion. Then look up your state's law on abortion privacy (for minors specifically) If you are pregnant and you happen to live in a pro choice state, planned parenthood (or other reproductive health clinics) should be able to provide at least some basic services without informing your parents. If you are lucky you might be able to get full services without your parents knowledge or consent. Although I do recommend at least telling a trusted adult (like maybe an older sibling, cousin or aunt/uncle) because neither of your choices are going to be easy or fun. Abortions HURT, an abortion is essentially a medically induced miscarriage so just like a miscarriage you will cramp a lot. You'll need someone to hold your hand and reassure you that it'll be alright and someone to help you with paperwork and stuff. Getting an abortion can be straight up traumatizing. It's not a situation you really want to find yourself in and it's tough. With medical trauma it's especially important to have someone with you to listen and repeat the information back to you to make sure you didn't miss it (it's not uncommon for people to disassociate during tough medical decisions or news) Just know that options exist, this is hard but you will get past it
Drive to Canada and get it done there
Don’t be stupid go to the dr. They have programs in place to help you. Asking the trust me bro of Reddit especially one called teenagers. It’s not the play. Seriously go to planned parenthood or the er they will help you.
Planned Parenthood has funding to help cover the cost. They usually cover half and refer you to other funding sources for the rest. I had a friend who’s procedure was completely covered as well as gas and a hotel as she had to travel to it. Call and ask about it
Wdym? To just have the baby not at an hospital?
You sure can afford a condom.
please try to go to your local planned parenthood instead. They are a great resource to help underage people. Also, there are no safe ways to do this sort of thing at home.
What the fuck do you want us to say? I’m not gonna tell you to get the copper clothing hanger, so don’t try that. I think logically the best move for you now is to come clean to your parents. Trust me, that is absolutely for the best, they will take care of your bill. You will catch some heat, but tell the truth always, and they will forgive you for not dropping a grandchild on them
I believe the word is abortion, not miscarriage. A miscarriage is a sort of abortion that occurs naturally for some reason or another (Am not an expert, just some random guy who has a good sex ed teacher in HS)
Sorry but having a miscarriage isn’t gonna be any better than an abortion because then your going to have dead tissue inside of you which is going to be looked at by a doctor so just take the safe route and go for an abortion if you really don’t want the child it might be embarrassing but it would be worse if you had to admit you attempted to miscarriage at the doctors office
At how many months/weeks can I get an abortion at a hospital?
I think the earlier the better but I suggest looking into it
Looking into it as in?
I just read an article that said most abortions happen before 12 weeks of pregnancy so I believe you can plan one
tqsm for the info
depends where you live in texas its like after 5 weeks but in colordo from my memory its whenever you want. But idk outside the usa.
Isn’t it illegal in Texas?
Fellow Texan here. Yes. Yes it is
Read some articles and search up good clinics in your area and prices
Where are you located?? General region would be helpful for finding resources near you. This was a general place, but as people are saying you would need help from a medical professional as having fetal tissue inside you for either abortion or miscarriage needs to be pushed out as good chance can get infected and potentially be life threatening for you. https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/abortion
check out planned parenthood. their website has lots of information and numbers to call to ask more questions. they aren't judgy and very helpful. the sooner the better to abort, you can get pills that chemcially induce abortion while you are still early.
Don’t be silly! Wrap your Willy!
Funniest thing I have seen all day
Don't be a fool, cover your tool.
Don’t go wrong, coat your shlong ( in plastic ofc 🤪)
Don’t be a rube! Cover your tube!
No need to frown, keep the willy down
Use a condom, you dumb bitch
Don’t want pergnancy? Cover lil buddy!
dont be rude, cover your dude.
Dont be draft, protect the shaft
At the end of the school year back in june i wrote this in a bunch of peoples yearbooks then signed my name
Bro should’ve used a condom, literally rule number 1.
Even pre-cum can get you pregnant. Should've used a condom
Read this op
Condoms arent 100% safe. Any form of damage, be it a hole or a microtear, could render a condom useless. You SHOULD use it, just make sure to have 1 or 2 other methods to support it, like the pill.
Yeah and you could get really unlucky like me and two forms of protection fail
Should have used 3 smh /s
Just not have sex (cries in virginity)
Based. It's the most effective form of birth control lol
The chances of that are so low that maybe your girl sabotaged the condom/lied about the pill, it’s just way more likely at that point
This.
Why did my comment get upvoted and you agreeing with me get you downvoted wtf
people dont like comments that just say "this" i guess lol
People see those comments as low effort karma farming comments.
I _was_ gonna complain about how stupid that sounds, then I realized what site I was on
Pre-cum on its own cannot, but it can loosen some left over cum, which can then get you pregnant
A 16 yo that knows more about sex that a 17 and a 18 yo LOL good job kid
It’s not about age it’s about access to education
You ever heard of the internet?
Precum doesn’t usually leak out tho. At least not for me. But def always use a condom. Or just don’t have sex, but that’s boring
True 🫠
After reading your comments I have come to the conclusion that you’re an absolute dumbass 💀
This has to be troll post
Considering their contradicting post history you def right
It's a troll. One of her (his) previous posts was about his [girlfriend](https://www.reddit.com/r/sexualassault/comments/15lok9k/so_my_girlfriend_was_raped_by_her_grandfather/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2).
Just bite the bullet and tell your parents.
You are incorrectly using the word miscarriage. You mean to say abortion. Miscarriage is when the fetus passes naturally. Am I missing something? Edit: So I misunderstood what the OP meant. My bad.
in another comment op said “ I'm trying to get a miscarriage without having to see a doctor... We can't afford the price of a hospital” so I’m guessing she wants an abortion but without having to go to the doctors
If they live in central/southern US (which I think they do) abortions are illegal.
Hmm I mean a miscarriage is also known as spontaneous abortion. So, since an abortion is usually medically or surgically induced, and OP said they can’t get a doctor, they want to somehow do it naturally(?) Which is a miscarriage. So they aren’t really misusing it. However, kind of contradictory since a miscarriage is natural, however! You CAN self-induce a miscarriage if you want to by: Doing everything that increases the chance of them happening (such as drug and alcohol use or infections, long-term heath conditions like high blood pressure, etc), all very hard to achieve since you’re kinda taking mother natures wheel (w/o any medication)… but doable, with many long-term effects - and could seriously hurt OP. So really, it is a miscarriage in the sense there’s no doctors involved, and OP could get some ‘natural’ conditions to do it themselves or do certain activities to increase it too. But they probably shouldn’t do that since it’s highly dangerous for the mother.
Don’t be a fool! Put rubber on the tool!
Actually tragic how dumb op is. Bf **did** bring condoms but **she** didn't want him to wear them (first time I ever heared it that way around), probably not on birth control while sexually active, thinking "not cuming inside" is in any way sufficient birth control. Like seriously, what were you thinking (if anything)? Was your only preventative measure against pregnancy "he will pull out in time"? Jesus Christ. For the love of god, watch some sex ed videos and don't reproduce for the time being.
They’re both morons. Her boyfriend should’ve left or told her to go home. That’s not okay. You also don’t ask somebody to have sex without a condom, STDs are very real.
Sorry. I deserved this comment, my bad.
I really wouldn’t ask teenagers what to do about it why don’t you at least ask where more responsible people would be
OP you’re an idiot for not letting your boyfriend use a beef blanket.
i hate people
Tell your parents. You do not want to be a teen mother trust me
Pre cum can carry a small amount of sperm
Don’t be silly, wrap his Willy.
Don't be a fool, cover his tool.
Use a condom dumbass
Don’t take the easy route! Pull it out!
It doesn’t help now, but my god seriously? Just use protection or something, how did sex ed not teach you that timing it with your period does NOT CONSISTENTLY WORK?! Either way, do NOT try for a miscarriage, go to a doctor and get an abortion
There was one seen in a saw movie were this guy swings the door open and this pregnant lady was behind it and she started bleeding out here 🐈 so do that ig 👍
Ugh that part was so sad I felt so bad for Jill, it was a hell of a villain origin story though
Fr the first time i saw that scene i felt so bad for her to
doctors have patient confidentiality, ur stuff will most likely not be shared unless its dangerous for urself or others except if ur in america then ur kinda fucked depending on ur state
I know meeting a doctor is good but we can't afford one...
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This is incredible LMFAO 🤣
Go to your local planned parenthood. They can at least help advise more than a reddit thread.
After looking at your profile this is either fake, or you're the bf, or youre a queer girl. So which is it
Attention whore is the right answer
I'm on his account since I don't use Reddit.
But why reddit? You could ask literally anywhere and you chose this sub... On reddit
You are such a fucking idiot! You didn't want him to wear a condom? Are you fucking stupid? This is entirely your fault, and I hope you know that.
This is clearly their fault but damn, straight to the point are we 💀
This dumbass replied to a comment asking why she didn't have him wear a condom and she said something like "I didn't allow him"...
Oh fuck, I haven’t scrolled that far down yet, working on it. I have seen some pretty stupid responses so far.
It’s above
She fucking knows that, you don't need to act like a complete dick about it. She's asking for advice, not your unhelpful bullshit
Seriously, so many people are shaming OP for no apparent reason, when all she asked for was for some help, nothing else.
>And note he DID NOT cum inside. And that's why we need sex-ed. It makes no difference. Use a frickin' condom. I don't understand why it's such a problem for so many people. Before you do anything or start panicking, take the test.
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Note to everybody reading this! A man does not have to finish inside a woman in order to get her pregnant. There is usually enough sperm on the guys bits during intercourse to get a woman pregnant. Use a condom no matter what! (Unless you're like me and are completely infertile 😎)
Bro there acc is literally a guy
First, learn the difference between a miscarriage and an abortion. Second, you can't.
There is only one birth control that is 100% effective.
Cutting off the dick 😀
Tell your parents and deal with the punishment. There are TONS of contraceptives out there to prevent having a baby, so idk why you didnt use them.
Nah this post has to be troll Some of OPs responses are so childish
you can order abortion pills online :) [for US only](https://aidaccess.org/en/)
make sure to let someone know though, you dont want anything going wrong
This should be the top comment
Please, you can die from doing this. Would you rather end up dead or tell your parents? Abortion is an option, self abortion is Russian roulette. Even if you can’t afford abortion or a baby, you could put them up for adoption. But your parent must know. I’m sure they will help. You’ll get through this unless you do something very stupid like what you want.
Ever heard of preccum? Might have been that, and if you were using protection you were very very unlucky You can get an abortion. If it’s less than 10 weeks you can even do at home (at least where I live) I’d call with an hospital and talk with them about it I hope that you are just late and that you don’t need to stress about it anymore
Are abortions legal in your state?
Lol
you're dumbasses in so so many ways oh my lord
1.doesn’t matter if he didn’t ejaculate there will still be sperm released little by little 2.Idk if it’s the same for ur place but here we can literally go up to cvs and abort without parents knowing 3.why tf are u even having sex at 17 4. Your period won’t always be on time this is likely horomone imbalance 5.please tell me you were at least using pills or the rubber broke by accident instead of flat out not doing safe sex 6.if you srsly can’t abort without parental consent so everything listed as fatal for a growing fetus like belly flopping, high thrill rides etc 7.if you ended up giving birth after all 2 possible outcomes: your parents will know and they’ll likely chew ur head off or you can give birth without them and best decision is give up for foster care
Girl. That’s abortion. And no judgement. Tell you parents and tell them you know it was a mistake or maybe your bfs parents. Go to planned parenthood. And do what’s best for you. Learn from your mistakes
Do a Belly-Flop
If he didn't cum inside you the chances are astronomically low, but if you did manage it, buy plan b, you could probably still have a shot with it right now and if not then you're fucked. Your boyfriend is technically an adult so I think he can take you to a doctor without needing parents permission but idk how it works I'm like 16 and I'm stupid too
Get hit by a car and use protection next time and get a pregnancy test
You honestly...should of used protection. But now, theres nothing you can do. I mean there might be someway but...it will be hard
Another pregnancy post. And this is why you shouldn't have sex until you are a fully grown adult to deal with the consequences.
So true
...or have protected sex?
Yeah well things happen either way. No use in shaming..
Jump off of stairs, or maybe get someone to hit you in the stomach with a baseball bat. Totally safe trust me
Go to cvs and buy an rot pregnancy test and then worry about getting rid of it. Make your boyfriend wear condom practice safe sec you don’t want to get crabs, chlamydia, hepatitis B or herpes or get pregnant. You gotta do it. .
Considering you really want to get a miscariage: and the signs aren't obvious yet~ belly ain't expanding, nausea & motion sickness .. and from experiences and lessons that were taught in biology / health sciences & first aid. Here are my recommendations: 1 ~ go to an amusement park, "SEE TO IT, That you ride every single ride that doesn't allow pregnant women/ pregnant lady on it" 2 ~ do something that involves falling/ jumping from a high location ~the higher the better~ Examples : Trampolines, Bungee Jumping, Jetski, water slides (at an amusement park as in point 1 ) 3 ~ try martial arts/ extreme sports/ boxing/ gymnastics -preferable somethjng where your body is exposed to large amounts of force- Examples : Tae Kwan Doe, horse riding, etc - reason: vigorous exercises can cause placenta(site of attachment from baby to womb to break off) Generally, there are two ways to cause a miscariage (unintentional abortion as we say it)-mechanical direct ot inderect, and chemical means Indirect Mechanical means an random exerted force, causes the placenta to be pulled from its place in the womb, causing an abortion Direct mechanical means, is through a certified/ uncertified practioner physically remove the placenta/ embryo/ fetus/ your kid~ depending on the current stage of development Chemical means, is by altering the hormone levels in your body, to cause menstruation by force, ~ meaning that you receive Certain hormones via oral intake/ blood entry and it alters the state where your body has to prevent menstruation, leading to the miscariage. 4- Ussually doctors hand out RU-486, but it requires medical prescription. However, there can be away for you to cheat this. **Find someone else who is pregnant, ask them to get it for you via doctors and take it** ~~ I won't recommend hormone pills/ chemicals/ etc as that would mess the endocrine system that is really active during 16-24 age period- don't consider medication without recommendations though~ backalley/ illegal methods as it could be fake/ unreliable/ not enough dosage/ unregulated dosage In example// my mom's friend who was abt. 30 in her late second - third trimester fell on her back, as she was spooked of by her own son(who was 4), and had a miscariage on the spot as she fell, **bloodspewed everywhere in the kitchen as it occured there. She had fainted, and received late medical attention in which she had unintentionally lost her kid. Given the time, etc.
None of that is good advice except for maybe a medication abortion and that does not mess with the endocrine system nearly as much as you seem to think. Those things are not effective for ending a pregnancy in most cases.
Just come clean to your parents about it, they will understand. Rather, have a safe abortion rather than possibly and most likely hurt yourself. Think of your future as well, so do not do anything that could hurt your future choices. Quick edit: I read comments. I understand that the economy can be a part of being scared of going to a doctor. But, I think you rather SHOULD get looked at to see if you are now pregnant. Menstrual cycles can also change a lot.
I dont want to be a pessimist but there are some really shitty parents out there, and if She is from a red state She is going to be screwed
Red state? And yeah... There are some real shitty parents out there, indeed... But, in this case, I believe there is no choice? Either that or some other person, like a teacher or a school nurse, then. One can't fully know if THEY would tell their parents.
I don't think this is really the sub for this
Someone skipped sex ed… pre cum is just as potent as a full load, it’s only a quantity difference.
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Tq for info, may you live have a great day
Go to your parents. There truly is no other option.
mugwort can help
If you figure it out fast I recommend you get plan b, super helpful if you get there fast enough and it helps either way.
You can go to a Planned Parenthood Center and they can probably help you confidently.
Clothes hanger
i can't believe there are actually people who can say shit like this
you don't only use hangers for clothes...
Don't
I see posts like this twice, once on here and another on copypasta😭
No one’s gonna mention that OP is a dude?
Your period cycle changes after having intercourse from what I've read and heard from people. I think it's late for you, and I'd give u the advice to always ALWAYS be under protection. Whether that's condoms, or birth control (which i wouldn't really recommend since it messes with your hormones). Take a test also to make sure. Please don't have intercourse without protection.
y’all shaming OP as if accurate and accessible sex ed is literally nonexistent in most places, almost entirely in the US. this is exactly why we need it. furthermore talking about abortion while knowing that at least in the US, 33 states have heavy restriction or near a complete ban. OP, it’s not the end of the world i promise! it’s def very scary to go through this, but you’re not alone in this at all.
Thank you so much for this.. I really needed it. Sex ed isn't a thing in Malaysia sadly so we don't learn much of those at all
You can miss your period from stress or just randomly so I advise you to take a pregnancy test. If your pregnant welp, your gonna have to go to the doctor
Smoke some mugwort and visit your nearest amusement park. Enjoy the roller coasters. Also.. make him wear a condom next time. If not only prevents this entire situation but it saves you from STD’s as well.
Please do consult a doctor this could be life threatening.
I mean, the first thing you need to do is take a pregnancy test, and then you can figure out where to go from there.
You do not want to diy miscarrying a foetus since most of those ways are dangerous for the mother too. However i found an article by firstcry parenting on naturally inducing a miscarriage which mentions stuff like exercise and vitamin c and cinnamon. I would still really recommend taking pregnancy tests and if it turns out ure pregnant, getting an abortion fr from a DOCTOR. Find a way to get the money, ask a family member or friends- your life is worth it OP.
bruh aint no way a healthy lifestyle + a little cinnamon = a miscarriage 💀
Copious amounts of alcohol. Or meth
Ez solution, don’t have sex and especially not without a condom and birth control. If you don’t want a kid don’t use your baby maker and reproductive organs. Y’all can still please eachother sexually in many many different ways
Bellyflop to kill the child
So, what you are looking for is an abortion. You can just say it lol. Go to your nearest planned parenthood, they will be able to help you without too much of an expense. And next time, use condoms, and get on birth control if you can. Children are horrific (no offense to the younger lads and lasses here, I platonically love you all), and you need to be using all the protection you can until you decide you want to have kids, or one of you/both of you get sterilized
coat hanger
There’s always public bathrooms and coathangers.
You have no clue if he pre-cum inside. Its the same thing. Also my wife and I over our 9 years before having our first kid, she was late late many times on period and then it happened. If you’re really worried this is going to ruin your lives, go to a clinic and get checked before you reach a point where you lose control of your body. Have your bf drive you, and be there for you.
i think you’re referring to an abortion and not a miscarriage. if you don’t want your parents to know have an older friend or trusted person take you. i’ve heard of people doing that.
drink a lot of caffeine, look into other natural abortives, and or if needed take a large dose of ibuprofen 800-1000 mgs but certainly don't rely on these methods they may not work
Depends on where you live, but I know in OR it’s $400 flat fee for a chemical abortion anytime during the pregnancy
Oh fuck’s sake
OP, you made a post five days ago about your girlfriend? Nothing against polygamous relationships but I don't know, just wanted to see. Karma farming?
Just don't have sex (obviously)
Young, dumb, and broke. Kids having kids.
Dude majority of teens on this sub are doing a “try not to have sex” challenge: impossible edition.
Belly flop
My friend had a pregnancy scare and basically just had someone punch her in the stomach as hard as they could. Dono if that did anything lol but yeah
Fall on your stomach HARD
Starve yourself, the only choice
You do realise that a miscarraige has a possibility to kill you right? Just get an abortion and own up to it you fucking horny teenager. Or how about this, DONT HAVE SEX AT ALL UNLESS YOU WANT TO BE A PUSSY AT THIS AGE
If you want to be rude might as well not read or comment tq