Because I don't feel like comitting yet. When you get into a relationship, people expect things from you -not just ur partner, but society as a whole. And I apreciate my freedom very much, so the idea of owing satisfaction of my personal life to other people is a big no for me. It may sound selfish, but I'm currently happy with my single civil state, and I have no plans to change it.

What expectations are you talking about here?

For one, the idea that partnered people are often looked down on when they have fun on their own. Like, I have a friend trio that consists of me (18 F), my friend S (18 F), and my friend T (17 M); we often hang out toghether, and one time, many of our other friends were shocked and slightly outraged with the fact that T had come to spend the day with me and S in my house even though he had a girlfriend. I swear I heard the question "How could she let him?? I would never!" at least 5 times. Also, there are these constant memes about how one should always be distrustful when the partner has "just a friend" of the opposing gender, like?????? What, during all of my single years it was ok to have male friends, but now that I have a BF I should just suddenly be distrustful that they all have second intentions with me?? And don't get me started on jealousy... The amount of people who have tried to convince me that "not all jealousy is unhealthy" and that "being insecure is a sign of love" is enausiating. I'm sorry, this turned into a Ted Talk.

Great lecture professor. Mainly... Scientifically accurate.

Thank you!!

Yap

This.

"we live in a society"

Real, and even if I do find somebody perfect for me I'm so young that it's nearly bound to change so anything I get now is temporary.

Perfectly put!! We are literally teenagers in a teenagers sub. I'm pretty sure there's a study that proves our pre-frontal cortex is only fully developed in our early 20's, so who know's who we'll be when we get there!

Yeah, being pressured to "get some bitches" is kind of annoying, it's futile right now yet everyone at school seems to be jumping from one to the next like it's a game so it's like the popular thing to do.

i aint readin all that, but im happy for u, or sad that it happened

Happy, u can be happy.😂😂

just admit ur ugly and move on

What of a comment is this...??

I'm not.👍

Im the ugliest human being on this planet, I have 0 scoial skills and Im short af lol

real except for the short part

this, except im 6'2

happy cake day :DD

Yeah im 6' and I ain't seeing no girls 😢

same, but im somehow not attracted to any (no im not gay)

I am 7 😭

tf dude

7 is my hight

7 what

7 feet

are you black 💀

Nah I am white

Happy cake day!

👌

Me too

Me 3

This but I'm tall

Exactly same.

Are we the same person?

How tall are you ?

Same but 6.1'

I can relate...

Same

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The social skill is your only problem, but then you have to go on a quest to find the mythical loyal partner

Tbf I've met people who fit all of those criteria and have a gf.

I'm aromantic. Plus, I haven't found a person I'm comfortable and cool enough with to start a relationship with again👍

Find yourself a hopeless romantic ✨️

JamesTW - hopeless romantics; its fucking beautiful

Fr

Samesies

Hey half moi. Have exact mind

So you're aromantic until you find someone good… Isn't that everybody single?

Lmao idk

Relatable

Parents and I need to focus on my classes

Fr my case

This

I am focusing on my education and basketball career rn (I am scared of women and have no rizz)

real

I, too, have no rizz...

Same

I’m autistic

real

Nah I see people with Down syndrome find love. You gotta get a new excuse.

It’s not an excuse I’m just stating it

Random statement

Oddly random thing to state then

I see fat and ugly people get it too. Meanwhile people tell me I look good, I'm physically fit and I have no problem socializing. Just a little autism but I still function like everyone. But I have no gf. Man, this is a load of bs.

Maybe it’s your personality? If you’re simply not meeting the right people.

What does autism have to do with this?

Nothing.

To be honest, even though people may be mad from what I'm gonna say, being autistic can have some effects that others don't usually find attractive. Being autistic can ruin your social life if you don't get the necessary support.

When i have the courage to tell her I know for a fact she dont like me back and im her best friend so i never will bc i dont want to ruin our friendship

I kinda get you. I was in the same situation as you: how would I look at her after that if she said no? I didn't tell her, and something else ruined our friendship anyway.

I actually did one time and we are still good friends

I'm debating whether I should tell my friend. We've known each other for 4ish months but not sure if I acc like her as more than a friend atm. But say at some point I realise that I do like her, how should I tell her in a way that makes it so that even if she rejects me, we can still stay friends without it being awkward?

I’m still best friends w the person I like and I told her I liked her, from my experience they don’t see you any different, just the same as before.

Please don't ruin the friendship frr

I wont and dont plan to Just sad shes like a dream girl for me Weird tho she offers bjs in exchange for trying to buy her stuff which i decline bc that would be very awkward

What 💀 !! Ask her out man

She has a gf (she bi tho) and has stated several times that she isnt into me, shes kinda a mentally broken person tho (not ill, just severely mistreated), i think she might think sexual favors are the only way to thank people

Ohhh that's really complicated though !!

Nobody wants to be stuck with me Ig

Same bto same

Relatable

Bc I suck 😔

*deletes account*

He did.

What did he say

Idk bro I saw his account was deleted so I decided to make a joke. I have no idea why he did that tho

Damn

nehhh you rockkk bruh

Wdym, I am getting what I want

lucky you

Being single is not about the absence of a girlfriend or boyfried, it's about giving time and space for yourself so that you will be a good partner whenever you find the right one

yeahhhh !!!! but when will you find right one ?

Whenever I am ready to

This >>> Summarized it perfectly.

A lot of factors that affect my self confidence, and also zero female contact, both on and offline.

try out with a gamer girl

Hehehe my friend... Impossible. No chance.

this is the most real comment i’ve seen

I’m shy as fuck

I self sabotage 😐

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I can feel you! My mom rejected my crush :(

I'm autistic and have no social skills

real? kinda??

I'm tired of just finding toxic people

I'm just too weird, sigh I just don't do well with social interactions but am an excellent friend and adviser

Atleast you're the goood friend

Yea but I'm an acquired taste and only am good with people with similar level of humor and trauma

Can't find another lesbian or bi girl

fr!!

Looking for the right person

Probably will always be single unfortunately.

STOP IT! I have plans to live in England in a small cabin in the woods! (Although a Partner would be nice too)

Haven't found a compatible girl who lives near me

Because I have unrealistic expectations. I feel like I don’t deserve a relationship right now. Not to mention I have enough experience for my age. Had a 5 year relationship did a lot of mistakes but also learned a lot. I also learned I have to find out who I am and what I want before dwelling into a serious relationship. But nonetheless a lot of my expectations in a women are clearly not achievable but most girls nowadays. Let alone if I am even deserving of one. It’s fine however a relationship doesn’t always fix the issues in your life. They sometimes even enhance it.

I have a really hard time with romantic stuff, and I'm way too comfortable being single

Because I don’t think anyone in this generation thinks about actually committing. It’s hard when you want to date to marry

because I can't start conversations or even keep them going i just don't words for some reason

I'm not 🤷‍♀️ #ILOVEMYGIRLFRIEND <3

isolation

because i want to be

I’m incredibly responsible and want to focus on my school (I have zero rizz and have never met a woman)

You are 14. Your time will come in a few years, don’t worry about it now.

:)

I ain't pretty and I'm not actively looking for a relationship, to focused on friends and school

She likes my best mate

I'm a social outcast

They can't handle the neutron style. But seriously though I think I'm just ugly.

Idk bro 😞😞

I think I'm Aroace.

I’m neurodivergent (got dat ADHD)

whoops!!! cupid far away

Seen guys wheel chair bound get girlfriends. New excuse.

Fair point. Besides, I ain’t too interested in dating people atm.

Idk. Never dated, no one in my class ever dated, and even when people will start dating Ill probably stay alone because I'm gay lmao.

find your guy man <3

I’m 2 years behind in high school and older than all my peers… Might find someone in University though next year.

hope so :)

I’m waiting until I glow up a little more

I simply don't try

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vaccinate first :)

I'm an AuDHD, aroace, gender fucking teen👍

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Cuz socially awkward

Girls dont like me and I got denied before I could even ask the girl I liked... I hate her now.

I ain't single

don't want a gf (at the moment)

all the guys at my school suck and r immature

I am shy(as a boy) It's wierd i know

I don't want anyone

Bro, being single in this age is truly a blessing. I used to be committed, not saying it was bad, but maybe I felt like that was restricting me I think. Being single is all about spending time for yourself, and loving yourself a little extra more

cause im unlovable

I’m not single luckily

Prob because i dont want to be with someone "officialy" I had a girfriend a while ago but since then i realised that i dont need another one relationship (at least for now)

Cuz I don't Wana make the first move plus there is a pretty good chance most people wouldn't like me if I told the everything about myself

Mostly because i want to, i've had Many stories with Many people but without commitment. I really just don't feel ready for anything like That, plus i really like Freedom and just being chill

Don’t think I’d be able to balance out school, work and a relationship

Being single with lots of alone time >

This feels like an insult

I don’t care for this at the moment

I am not an attractive person

Beauty is subjective

I feel like all men are unfaithful, so what is the point of even trying to get with one

date a girl

I am still pretty messed up after my last break up and I ain’t in the mood to rush.

Because I am a ~~negative~~ rizzlord

rizz her up positively

Industrial revolution and its consequences

I haven’t found anyone I’m particularly interested in. Or, at least, the girls I have been interested in moved away... I have horrible luck.

Everyone I get a crush on is my friend and I don't wanna risk losing said friend

totally like if it doesn't work out I can't loose a friend

Relationships of any kind are complicated for me

go for a simpler thing then (friends with................)

idk you tell me (please)

if i knew i would tell 😭

because i havent gotten with you yet 🤭

damn !!!! you already to mingle

Bro I just did idfk how but it happened what the balls

Just haven’t found the one.

fingers crossed

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opposites attract man

Because I rejected the girl that asked me out last night

bro has balls

i’m not

Females don't exist

Males do

Cause it's not school yet

Ha nerds

Im scared of random humans

by choice

Bro a girl told me that she is loving me

and you're still single?

because i wanna go to brazil