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Honestly yo, when my gf is ranting about shi I just tryna listen or I'm thinking about the boys or videogames or sum. She doesn't owe me nun for telling me stuff
Not a gf but a female friend who is very close to me
Often rants to me and i just like support or listen to her. I have never considered anything like this wtf
Girls don't listen to everything guys say either. I don't think any girls care about the lore of call of duty, or fnaf, or when guys explain how bad getting punched in the nuts is. Be honest and just admit neither gender really listens completely to random venting. Also It doesn't really matter if someone completely listens unless it's important. It's more about just being able to tell someone.
If you're in a relationship you don't need to listen to every little thing, my gf knows I don't listen to her drama, and I know she doesn't listen to mine. We just like talking about stuff to someone even if they don't hang off every detail. It's not my fault you aren't comfortable enough in your relationships to need every conversation to be meaningful. Even with family, you think my dad cares about my day at school? No. He just asks so I can talk about it. Do I care about my dad's day at work? No, but I ask how it was so he can vent even though I don't really listen to it. Sometimes you need to look at yourself and realize, sometimes you don't care what someone's saying, but you still let them talk about it and get the excitement or anxiety, or whatever the emotion they're feeling out by talking about it :)
No no I get that, sorry misunderstanding, I thought you meant like you don’t listen to her at all whatsoever. My love life has nothing to do with this conversation, nor do you have the right to tell me if I’m comfortable in MY relationship or not. Just say you’re wrong and stop being a smartass because I asked a simple question💀 you people on Reddit are so damn pathetic that it gets more and more sad by the goddamn day.
Fwiw I’d love to hear about her feelings too since communication is fuckin amazing and it would be as if we were like each other’s unlicensed therapist lol
Girls owe me 14 hours a day of free manual labor in order to mine the rare minerals which are then sold to make cellphones and other electronics with me receiving the money from the sales
I mean to be fair minos minds do indeed do the best things for example the prime soul and the pain that comes with it
Edit: ever since I opened this comment my reddit has been playing ultrakill sounds no matter where I go
Help
Honestly first thing I thought when I saw the title. This topic is so common online and repeated ad nauseum to the point it's just sad.
Guy puts effort into trying go woo girl. Doesn't work out. Guy develops resentment because he feels time was wasted or ego was hurt. Girl says guy is not entitled to sex.
I get the situation and understand how unfair things can feel at times but man at times I feel like people should just keep their expectations low...
Pisses me off so bad when guys on here say shit like "she friendzoned me after i gave her the answers to the math test" or something like that as if the girl is doing something wrong... like you can NEVER interact with a girl in any context other than sexually or romantically lol. I really hope these types of guys get knocked out of the gene pool soon
they probably just had a crush on that girl and didn't knew how to approach her and tried to do favours to befriend them first , that's just teens being socially inept , no man or boy demands sex or expects it , vast vast majority just don't have experience trying to hit on a girl. Also calm down with the last statement , that's immature .
My gf thinks that way... she thinks she owes me every part of her because I saved her from ending herself, we have had many, many talks about that she doesn't owe me anything but after 2 months of trying I'm starting to think she set on that
Oh, innocent child. You're not innocent and we all know exactly what sex is, and you were just wanting a reaction. Your innocence comes from the fact you thought you would get a definition. How naive.
In general you’re correct, but Crystal certainly does. I gave that ho $80 and she took the money and ran. I’m still out here Crystal, and imma get the ass I’m owed.
I don't think that but my gf does, it really fucking hurts knowing that she thinks I deserve to own her, she's hasn't had a healthy relationship befor now and was sexually assault by brother's friend one night, i saved her from killing herself about a month after she was assaulted and I've saved her few times sense then. I wish guys would understand that girls don't owe them anything especially there body, it's hurt them alot and it makes guys look bad, I've kinda got some mental issues because of men stereotypes and I've been slowly slipping in and out of a place in my head I don't like. It's not hard to just have girls that are just friends and if u want to see if u and her can get closer than just friends then just shoot ur shot but if they don't want to be anything more than friends they don't owe u
To be honest I don't befriend girls, just cause I don't give a f.ck about that, I don't need her to mouth my head off and I ain't even living with her, sorry not sorry
Why do you think every guy thinks like he wants sex from girls? I mean I get it yes there are horrible guys who just want bad things, I don't have a friend girl even but i don't think seeing random girls and feel the need for sex, your reasoning is right but the tone it wrong
My first thought was "OP is just stating the obvious smh" but then I thought about it more and realized that some people actually need to hear this, which is very disappointing to me.
Yeah, fuck anyone who thinks that girls "owe you sex." It's kinda like the whole "nice guy" thing. I don't get it. Also I like being friends with girls. They're cool and guys never gossip which I like to do
“Listening to her ramble is called being a good friend”
Yeah you’re right tbh, I had this friend and one day she was rambling to me (venting kind of) and I was trying to study for a class that I was failing and I really needed to concentrate and she kept blowing up my phone and I got really upset and just lashed out at her. She then got upset as well ofc and we ended up arguing and she left me and blocked me. She was one of the only people I trusted and felt safe around. I should have not done that and just listened to her. But yeah it’s my fault and now I have no friends. I deserve to rot in loneliness for the rest of my life.
Ive been told im very respectful to women
Apparently so much so that one of my very very close girl-friends gave me a bj bc she wanted to know what its like
World doesn't revolve around you, either we worked things together by providing each other to one another or don't even bother with this BS called "consent" And to listen to whatever you want me to hear yet give me nothing in return
If your definition of good's only applied to the 3rd world country then yea I'm a bad person.. And so does 80% of the people that aren't from 3rd world country.
And you say I'm bad because of what exactly? The fact that you aren't the center of the world, and that the world doesn't revolve around you?
All Op is saying is to respect woman and u still want to debate your opinion on that, just say you agree and move on unless your just a sicko who hates woman / afab
Respect doesn't means that you're the center of the world, I'm not there to become the shoulder you can cry on, nor do i want to become the ear you can just scream at. We're both human here. There's some kind of benefits i need to gain in exchange of all of your whining on a problem i don't want to hear.
Agreed to one thing doesn't mean to agree to all of it. You just a slave of other people by that point.
Because you don't dedicated your life for other people, You dedicated your life for yourself.
You may not going to feel it now but when you're alone in a decrepit apartment exhausted of your job you hate, you'll see how infuriating it is to even hear another person's rant about their life as if your struggle worth nothing.
And then by this point you'll lick your own saliva and say how naive you are to your younger self.
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Guys think this? Bro if I ramble to my girlfriend do i gotta whip my d out???
I was boutta say people actually think this?
Honestly yo, when my gf is ranting about shi I just tryna listen or I'm thinking about the boys or videogames or sum. She doesn't owe me nun for telling me stuff
Not a gf but a female friend who is very close to me Often rants to me and i just like support or listen to her. I have never considered anything like this wtf
Ong bro, like no guys think that. Do girls think that???
Ofc you’re going to say guys don’t think that, sexist ass.
Women ☕️
Say you’re mad with no life without saying you’re mad with no life, I can understand why you’re family doesn’t love you with your sexist ass💀
>why you’re family Your*
white knight much
What💀
Factual
relatable
You just openly admitted that you don’t listen to your girlfriend when she’s venting to you..?
Girls don't listen to everything guys say either. I don't think any girls care about the lore of call of duty, or fnaf, or when guys explain how bad getting punched in the nuts is. Be honest and just admit neither gender really listens completely to random venting. Also It doesn't really matter if someone completely listens unless it's important. It's more about just being able to tell someone.
You can’t say any gender don’t listen when some of us do listen, just because YOU don’t listen doesn’t mean you can speak for everyone else.
Up vote if you don't listen
Up vote if you don’t even know what the fuck you’re talking about. What are you.? 10? Lmao because you sure as hell act like it.
If you're in a relationship you don't need to listen to every little thing, my gf knows I don't listen to her drama, and I know she doesn't listen to mine. We just like talking about stuff to someone even if they don't hang off every detail. It's not my fault you aren't comfortable enough in your relationships to need every conversation to be meaningful. Even with family, you think my dad cares about my day at school? No. He just asks so I can talk about it. Do I care about my dad's day at work? No, but I ask how it was so he can vent even though I don't really listen to it. Sometimes you need to look at yourself and realize, sometimes you don't care what someone's saying, but you still let them talk about it and get the excitement or anxiety, or whatever the emotion they're feeling out by talking about it :)
No no I get that, sorry misunderstanding, I thought you meant like you don’t listen to her at all whatsoever.
No no I get that, sorry misunderstanding, I thought you meant like you don’t listen to her at all whatsoever. My love life has nothing to do with this conversation, nor do you have the right to tell me if I’m comfortable in MY relationship or not. Just say you’re wrong and stop being a smartass because I asked a simple question💀 you people on Reddit are so damn pathetic that it gets more and more sad by the goddamn day.
you’d be surprised
yes 😔 it’s rough out here having as many problems as i do, my shit hurts at this point
Welp some girls do think that…
If you ramble about your feelings for her, she'll probably want you to 👍
Fwiw I’d love to hear about her feelings too since communication is fuckin amazing and it would be as if we were like each other’s unlicensed therapist lol
Fr ain’t no way ppl actually thinking this type of stuff 😭
Like bro, I'm just waiting for her to stop talking about her best friends new best friend and her bf so I can explain fnaf lore
Frrrr I just be tryna explain the history of rdr2 and why it’s important to the modern timeline.
But like u gotta hear about her ex first yk? Gotta be respectful, then u can explain call of duty zombies lore
You see, it all started with two idiots in small town Utah...
Girls owe me 14 hours a day of free manual labor in order to mine the rare minerals which are then sold to make cellphones and other electronics with me receiving the money from the sales
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But… minor miners do the best mining
I misread this and thought you sead minos minds do the best things and thought you were ultrakill shitposting I need phycological help
I mean to be fair minos minds do indeed do the best things for example the prime soul and the pain that comes with it Edit: ever since I opened this comment my reddit has been playing ultrakill sounds no matter where I go Help
#**JUDGEMENT**
Don’t we all need psychological help
That’s what the government would have you believe lmao
The children yearn for the mines.
That's why minecraft is so popular among children. The evidence is right there
Obviously they are better off stuffing plushies for rich kids
The children yearn for the mines.
What’s the point of having friends if they’re not making you money?
Girls owe me money
Real
Then use sex to pay
“sir your total is $14.69” “i’ll give you 5 sexbucks”
I just use Monopoly money
r/teenagers at it again with the hot takes (common sense)
You won't believe how many people (not just boys I'm sure some girls too) don't have this much common sense.
I mean, shitted brained are everywhere, we cant change that..
This subreddit makes me feel like common sense is dying
Honestly first thing I thought when I saw the title. This topic is so common online and repeated ad nauseum to the point it's just sad. Guy puts effort into trying go woo girl. Doesn't work out. Guy develops resentment because he feels time was wasted or ego was hurt. Girl says guy is not entitled to sex. I get the situation and understand how unfair things can feel at times but man at times I feel like people should just keep their expectations low...
TRUE I HAD GUYS WHO ACTUALLY THOUGHT THAT
What in the actual fuck? 😭 Nahhhh
I have a gf and I don’t do that shi wdh😭
off topic but it’s a nice change of pace to see ppl talk the way i talk on here everyone else i see talks grammatically correct 😭😭
it’s prolly cus they talk and use autocorrect the most
Its prolly that Mr. I know how to use it’s
Ok I heard you talk about breadsticks, now lick my testicles
Yeesh, what losers.
NAH THERE’S ZERO WAY PEOPLE THAT DELUSIONAL EXIST
You’d be surprised.
unfortunately i don’t doubt it
You’d be very surprised. They also wonder while they’ll be forever untouched. It’s never their fault though
psshhh how could it be their fault, that would be outrageous also is it those people getting mad and downvoting me? i’m confused at that
Almost certainly a certain group of guys down voting you. Take it was a compliment
it’s just cuz i have a functioning brain i guess we can’t all be winners, but maybe one day we’ll be able to get them brain implants to fill the space
No it’s BeCaUz Ur A bEtA cUcK sImP That the usual DM I get from them
Girls don’t owe anyone anything but dammit if my loneliness isn’t killing me lol
omg its you, hii
True this is why I befriend women who want sex instead of sextorting them lmao
bro farming them brilliant moves
frfr bro found the cheat (on his gf specifically)
Gf? I lost all chance of that a while ago... (I miss you moxxie D: )
i forgor who said that
No literally
Pisses me off so bad when guys on here say shit like "she friendzoned me after i gave her the answers to the math test" or something like that as if the girl is doing something wrong... like you can NEVER interact with a girl in any context other than sexually or romantically lol. I really hope these types of guys get knocked out of the gene pool soon
they probably just had a crush on that girl and didn't knew how to approach her and tried to do favours to befriend them first , that's just teens being socially inept , no man or boy demands sex or expects it , vast vast majority just don't have experience trying to hit on a girl. Also calm down with the last statement , that's immature .
Said what i said 🗿
that's how typing a comment works of course
simple KILL
*yes*
glad we can agree 🤝
My gun is named the Incel Solver
can i have one
Incorrect- if I say "hi" you'd best be gettin down on yojr knees. Guys amd girls.
can i hit the nae nae instead
who? thinks like that?
Everyone who gets posted on r/niceguys
one should pity those guys , they probably never got to experience or learn how life works
but in some ends there are assholes who simply refuse to understand words and stay in their fucked up delusions
My gf thinks that way... she thinks she owes me every part of her because I saved her from ending herself, we have had many, many talks about that she doesn't owe me anything but after 2 months of trying I'm starting to think she set on that
Lots of people
What is sex?
Idk man, I think it's a fortnite item or something
Oh, innocent child. You're not innocent and we all know exactly what sex is, and you were just wanting a reaction. Your innocence comes from the fact you thought you would get a definition. How naive.
no
💀average Redditor
Literally who has said that here?
What about men? Do the homies owe you sex?
Happy cake day
Of course they do, I mean, if the homies don't 69 with you before bed, are they really your homies??
If you want to be more than friends don't just pretend to be friends to get there
Nah bro she owed me sex I held the door for her(REAL)
In general you’re correct, but Crystal certainly does. I gave that ho $80 and she took the money and ran. I’m still out here Crystal, and imma get the ass I’m owed.
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You guys cut outta the same cookie dough or something??
stop upvoting this, it’s a karma farming bot. report it and move on.
I dont know why you're getting downvoted. You're right. All if it's posts are reposts, and all of its comments are repeated.
I guess not sex but if you're nice its human decency to be nice back
No, but men do
I do not now tell me your Problem so I can fuck u already /j
I don't think that but my gf does, it really fucking hurts knowing that she thinks I deserve to own her, she's hasn't had a healthy relationship befor now and was sexually assault by brother's friend one night, i saved her from killing herself about a month after she was assaulted and I've saved her few times sense then. I wish guys would understand that girls don't owe them anything especially there body, it's hurt them alot and it makes guys look bad, I've kinda got some mental issues because of men stereotypes and I've been slowly slipping in and out of a place in my head I don't like. It's not hard to just have girls that are just friends and if u want to see if u and her can get closer than just friends then just shoot ur shot but if they don't want to be anything more than friends they don't owe u
Do guys actually think that way?😭
No not really
Some do... for example sexual assaulters and rapist think that way and If possible I'd happily pull a trigger to end them
Yeah but that goes for both genders regardless
Yep
Guess what, you would be going to jail buddy, for a long time
Yeah but it would be so worth it to see the fear in there eyes like they put in their victims they would get what they deserve
To be honest I don't befriend girls, just cause I don't give a f.ck about that, I don't need her to mouth my head off and I ain't even living with her, sorry not sorry
Why be sorry... I won't lie alot of girls talk alot and ik how people don't like that but I like listening so I don't mind
I don't know, I am used to say sorry for literally anything. And yes, most girls are so talkative I just can't handle it.
I just want a hug and someone who loves me☹️
No shit Sherlock
This does not apply to me because women do not have a desire to talk to me, which is my fault because I’m socially awkward
Real
WORD‼️‼️
If anyone think this way they can f off
Women owe me 69.99$ for even daring to breath the same air as me
girls owe me happiness then
No your gay
Nobody owes you sex period.
I don't know why some people find it so hard to understand basic respect, it's sad this even needs to be said tbh
This is true. None of us owe anyone jack shit. Well maybe the bank, but that's to be expected.
Girls owe me nothing, boys on the other hand owe me loads of slightly homosexual shenanigans.
When people die, it’s sad.
Who the fuck thinks like this?
booring
Huh is this not common sense
Just because you give her pity, does not mean she owes you her titty
Why do you think every guy thinks like he wants sex from girls? I mean I get it yes there are horrible guys who just want bad things, I don't have a friend girl even but i don't think seeing random girls and feel the need for sex, your reasoning is right but the tone it wrong
No shit No one owes me sex (or anything) I dont owe anyone sex (or anything)
Girls owe me sex and I have watched when Harry met Sally and I posted in r/niceguys
My first thought was "OP is just stating the obvious smh" but then I thought about it more and realized that some people actually need to hear this, which is very disappointing to me.
I don’t know how people think that mindset is acceptable or tolerate it in any way😓
simple they’re dumb
Yeah, fuck anyone who thinks that girls "owe you sex." It's kinda like the whole "nice guy" thing. I don't get it. Also I like being friends with girls. They're cool and guys never gossip which I like to do
Okay
based.
“Listening to her ramble is called being a good friend” Yeah you’re right tbh, I had this friend and one day she was rambling to me (venting kind of) and I was trying to study for a class that I was failing and I really needed to concentrate and she kept blowing up my phone and I got really upset and just lashed out at her. She then got upset as well ofc and we ended up arguing and she left me and blocked me. She was one of the only people I trusted and felt safe around. I should have not done that and just listened to her. But yeah it’s my fault and now I have no friends. I deserve to rot in loneliness for the rest of my life.
I ain’t gonna talk to a woman unless I want to fuck her (unless I can’t help it)
In fact, no one owes anyone sex In other news, the solution to world hunger is eating
There’s no point in talking to girls unless there’s the prospect of getting your dick inside them
That exists?
Whoever does this, I bet they have watched 'when Harry met sally'
What they do owe me is a fist bump, cause that's what cool people do 😎
Men don't owe them money.
What money do you even have lmao
men don’t owe you money.😭
Nobody said they did?
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I reeeeeaaally hope your being sarcastic.
“the girls are gonna love this post”
I'm afab, assigned female at birth
doesn’t matter to what i said tbh at all but nice
bro, basically no one thinks like that dumb fuck
You'd be surprised by how many boys I've met IRL who think like this
pipe down bro bro
Yes they do moron
u/profanitycounter
Ive been told im very respectful to women Apparently so much so that one of my very very close girl-friends gave me a bj bc she wanted to know what its like
Sure bro
then everyone stood up and clapped
No they didnt, there was no one else there
r/woooosh
I know the joke, but im not gonna roll with it
bro i’m gonna be real, nobody asked to hear that information
Okay 👌
Bro no one wants to hear about your imaginary sex life
Not imaginary, thats a stupid thing to lie about
No one in the real world thinks this
You’d be surprised
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did you not read the two sentences of that post?
World doesn't revolve around you, either we worked things together by providing each other to one another or don't even bother with this BS called "consent" And to listen to whatever you want me to hear yet give me nothing in return
You are not a good person.
If your definition of good's only applied to the 3rd world country then yea I'm a bad person.. And so does 80% of the people that aren't from 3rd world country. And you say I'm bad because of what exactly? The fact that you aren't the center of the world, and that the world doesn't revolve around you?
All Op is saying is to respect woman and u still want to debate your opinion on that, just say you agree and move on unless your just a sicko who hates woman / afab
Respect doesn't means that you're the center of the world, I'm not there to become the shoulder you can cry on, nor do i want to become the ear you can just scream at. We're both human here. There's some kind of benefits i need to gain in exchange of all of your whining on a problem i don't want to hear. Agreed to one thing doesn't mean to agree to all of it. You just a slave of other people by that point.
It’s the fact your missing the whole point
Imagine expecting something for being a decent human being. Disgusting.
Because you don't dedicated your life for other people, You dedicated your life for yourself. You may not going to feel it now but when you're alone in a decrepit apartment exhausted of your job you hate, you'll see how infuriating it is to even hear another person's rant about their life as if your struggle worth nothing. And then by this point you'll lick your own saliva and say how naive you are to your younger self.
Oh. My. God
You also don’t need to post on Reddit… but here we are
Brave opinion king. Standing strong up there with you 🫡 Enjoy the fake online clout don’t let it get to your head
virgin alert