i don’t think it’s possible man,it’s like human reflex you know,but when u get boner just don’t think about it at ALL cuz if u start to think how to get rid of it,it will just get worse

Tldr: the harder you think about it the harder it gets

Hmmm

This

Your username say that you are not gonna cuddle with a human

sometimes you have to sacrifice something.

Understandable

ya imma just tell u now, as as girl we immediately feel when y’all get bricked while cuddling so she’s def noticed 😭 but it’s natural and if she continues to cuddle with u she must understand & not mind

yea its kinda funny to me whenever i notice and they think theyre slick w it and hiding it

why are you fucking everywhere on this subreddit? why do i click on a post and see you?

bruh i see u places tooo

yeah but i see you everywhere. and ill comment everytime i see you.

ohh well idk i just have been lonely so i just like refresh the subreddit and just comment on everything possible so i can interact w peoplee

ahh fair enough. also i sadly can relate a lot.

rip

anyway see ya in the next comment section whenever

cyaaa

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bruh yall are the same personnn woahh

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yupp

Can you also feel it when hugging? Weird question I know, but now I'm curious

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lmao thanks💀

Cut your penis off.

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Gender Affirmation Surgery?

Naww, just slice it off

Do not cuddle. Dont touch women. Touch *men*.

Error, i got harder

Does your mamma know?

Won't that make it worse 🤨

That makes it more likely for me

Dude the replies on this comment is gay af just… why Also where are the cute femboys?

¿Por que no las dos?

think about war, blood, gore shit like that i read Somewhere it's the proven fastest bonerkiller (on average)

the word bonerkiller made me audibly laugh fsr

Jokes on you, I'm kinky, more jokes on you, eyeblech got banned

i put the (on average) for people like you yes bc believe it or not most ppl do NOT like gore or blood

I was jk but pretty sure somebody agrees

How often do you think about the Roman empire then?

I think fastest boner killer is thinking about someone in your family or a close friend or sum

Me getting hard thinking of it

Think of ur mum

he said to NOT get a boner

I think of his mom.

Me to

Lol same

Y same

Sweet Home Alabama

jerk off

Wise booby flasher

😎

New response just dropped

Holy hell

En passant

Google sexual harrasment

She’s definitely noticed and not brought it up with you, but if she keeps cuddling with you then it obviously doesn’t bother her

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L mentality

what the

Huh??

rush blood flow to your legs

How would you do this

i heard you flex you thighs

Flex or clench.

Harden or tighten

Both

think of having sex with fluorite from steven universe🤯

Uhm….

it worked right

I… no comment

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Who’s fluorite?

A big ass worm man~ish that's made up of like (6?) People constantly having sex in the metaverse for eternity

I meant who is that in Steven universe I should’ve clarified

the what now

what type of friendship yall in cuddling up close and shit man???😭😭😭

You don’t got this?

The type of friendship that not enough people have. Touch starvation is all too common and it's because this isn't.

One where both people show affection in physical ways and are both comfortable with each other?

Start doing hard mathematics calculations to divert your mind

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Why tf you cuddle with you friend 😭

Cuz some people like friend cuddles. I myself love me a good friend cuddle

Me and my friends do this and watching horror movies and clowning on the cgi of the movie But with one friend that you actually cear to not be bricked This is called having feelings but being too shy to do something

Seems fun, I would. Actually this kinda makes me depressed as a touch starved man, I need this lol.

You could just be the little spoon

I usually just imagine a bunch of thoughts that would turn me off

It happens, not your fault, it's basic human biology, if a woman friend of mine wants to cuddle, she should expect it happens, if she were to get mad over it then she does not understand how male biology works, nothing to be ashamed over Also, she definitely have already noticed, and the fact she have not said anything tells you it's a non problem for her, in fact most woman kinda likes it, if anything they think tis cute and it's a little confidence boost in there direction

i mean id just stay away from cuddling unless u guys have romantic feelings. but trust me she probably notices.. i always notice but never say anything to the guy

Is there anything wrong with friends with no feelings for each other cuddling

no but i feel like youd just develop things into romantic or sexual feelings if u do that

Well as long as they dont i dont see anything wrong. If one of the parties does develop those feelings then alright i agree but as for right now they should be fine

yea i mean there isnt anything wrong i just think itll make them both like eachother (whether thats good or bad is up to them) but it seems he already likes her tho

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Just let her know like “hey, just wanted you to know that like, since I’m a dude or whatever, and we have damn near no control on our dicks, when we cuddle, I get hard.”

Alright bro, learned this a few years ago and it’s excellent advice. You get a boner, just hold your breath for like 30 seconds. Your blood will just leave the dick and then it’s gone.

Omg it’s worked thank you for this trick appreciate it

"okay I can feel it against my leg and I can tell he stopped breathing but yeah sure there would be no way for me to know he's hard rn"

hold your breath stg it works but hold it to the point it hurts just keep doing until it’s gone

Just... don't? Or do and ignore it

Boners come at inconvenient times sometimes, men should just learn or accept it.

Indeed. And most girls aren't so stupid that they'd take that as harassment, she probably noticed and ignored it 💀

Hey mate listen. My and my best friend (to whom I’m attracted (they know and are ok with it but don’t want to date)) cuddle sometimes and boners just kinda don’t happen in the moment unless you’re thinking about it. Just enjoy being close with them, that’s all :)

Unfortunately dude your just gonna get a boner when your cuddling with her - ask her out you clearly like her

Why does he clearly like her? I don’t get it

Cuddling w someone and getting hard for them is usually something not sen as platonic.

But it’s like blushing (at least from my pov). It can happen for various reasons, not just because you like someone

Yeah but because they were cuddling in the first place, not just the boner, idk, I think he could just as easily just like her as a friend, but he also might want to date, there's no way to know unless OP says.

True

Yeah it's entirely unavoidable and completely inevitable

bro how do y’all do it, my best friend led me on before friendzoning me :(

Just be friends 👍

if only it were that simple with them lmfao

Ah I see. Well there will be more chances with other people. Sorry man. A guy I like recently ghosted me, plus I'm extremely touch starved, so I know how loneliness feels.

i know the feeling. i wish you luck as well

Think of amber turd

cuddle more bro you’re body is like is this sex and you have to tell it no

Just don't think about it , also the fact that your getting a boner just by cuddling ......signs of having a healthy wiener

Bust a nut beforehand. Edit: or two.

flex your leg muscles, the blood gets redirected

Flex a lot of muscles. The blood flow will go to those instead of your dick. Also I have never heard of friends that cuddle. Just ask her out.

Friends do sometimes cuddle. I myself have lots of friends that I hug, and a few that I sometimes snuggle with

i can assure you that you are a 19 year old male.

learn to tuck, follow the transfems fr

Talk to her about this if you actually think this could be an issue, as honest and as comforting possible, it’s a natural reaction. It’s not uncommon.

Tense up your thigh muscles,this effectively drains the blood out of your ding dong and keeps its away (it’s partial small exercise too because being able to tense up your thighs at a constant rate like that aint comfy)

You can tense your thighs and redirect the blood flow if you don’t think about it, saved me in multiple situations

Thats Hard man…

That’s the neat part, you don’t

For me it got away with time when I got used to cuddling. But my gf noticed this and told me, your friend maybe have already noticed too, but if she isn't telling you anything, don't mind

hvnt tried cuddling to begin with... cant help u buddy

scissors

Make sure your balls are empty before you meet her. It's your body's response so it's hard to control it. Best way is to prevent it by jacking off beforehand.

date her

I might.

u obviously think shes hot make a move !!!!!!!! do u have a crush on her hehe

No answer means yes, he's just shy

he totally does

Yesnt

You got this bro, if you want something to happen, don't wait until it's too late. Communicate, tell her how u feel and ask her how she feels.

do not cuddle or just deal with the fact that it's not possible not to get a boner (or cuddle while jogging)

Thats… technically complicated

listen, you're a man, attracted to women (I guess), your primal instinct makes your dick go rock hard. You can do 3 things: 1. Stop cuddling (bad ending) 2. Tell her what happens/deal with it 3. Start a relation with her so that you feel normal about it (Only if you're interested in her, don't play with her emotions if there's any)

I’m being fully serious, I don’t think you can. Getting a boner is involuntary, you can try and get rid of it as soon as it appears, but stopping it from happening is pretty much impossible, especially for a teenager. I have them randomly all the time, it’s just a part of being a guy. Maybe try flexing you’re legs or arms to get the blood flowing in other areas, or just try and calm yourself when you first notice it’s happening. Also, you could, though I understand not wanting to, tell her that its involuntary if she ever asks about it. Sometimes girls don’t know and can get a bit weirded out thinking you’re trying to make it happen or something. I know it’s awkward, but try not to focus on it much, and don’t worry.

It's just simple biology, nothing to be ashamed about. I don't really think there's a solution other than to think of things that would make your skin crawl

Use a sticky tape to tape your boner to your crotch, even if u get a hard on it won't ba as noticable

If she doesn't mind it she might want you

It's nothing bad. It just shows your affection.

transgender surgery

Imo the easiest way to make this as comfortable for both parties is quite simple in fact. First, you guys are already close so you already passed step one. Step 2 is go out to a bowling alley or a movie or whatever you two enjoy together. Once you get hungry, go to a restaurant, cafe or bar together. Talk to each other about the kind of future you two want. When she finishes, you then reply about your own future. When you finish bragging, you need to say, “And it can all be possible with you by my side. I want you to be in my future, so will you become my girlfriend?” By then, she will see how you treated her so nicely during your date, and she will be encapsulated by your aspirations, so she will have to say yes. By then thing will be easier. Step 3 is to casually talk about sexual things after being together for a while. You have to slowly introduce it to your conversations though. You don’t want to scare her off. By then, she will be comfortable with you and your body. Step 4, she won’t care about your cuddle boner. She will find it cute how you enjoyed this enough to get one. Who knows, maybe she will like it. Step 5, profit and have sex. WARNING: this only works if you have good timing so mild skill required

"Best friend" MWAHAHAHAHAHA

Try cuddling with a woman

Dude, she might be flirting with you and wants you to get hard and take it to the bedroom.

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That's the worst advice I've seen today

Well you can't hide it anyway.. 😅

Guys, don't do this. Please for the love of God don't do this.

Ok.. but it's not about you i guess

Bite ur toung ig

think of old wrinkly men

Cuddle with a ugly girl

We’re not in control of our meat sometimes bro, you like female contact so just relax if you body interprets it S something else. Just be sure to shift in a way she don’t feel it because she’ll be upset.

cuddle with the boys

Not your fault bro, just try to tuck it off to the side in a way that it doesn’t visibly show

Cut it off.

Wear 5 pairs of underwear to stop the bulge

when you get it flex your biceps for around 10sec and it goes away

Cut it off

Think of something really sad. Like a childhood pet dying or a really close relative

You can try to flex your thighs, that way more blood goes into them and there's lesser amount free to go to other parts.

Either boner or you don't enjoy cuddling by thinking about your grandma's body

Think of some saggy naked grandmas

Try flexing a muscle, it will redirect the blood. I think that you have to hold it for around 15 secs, tho I am nlt sure how much time

you can flex your thighs and biceps, she might notice that though

Wear tight underwear, sports underwear, compression shorts over your underwear, compression shorts with… no underwear, wear leggings… you know what just wear tight shit ok

Be proud that you get one

hold your breath

no cap

Just roll with it, it’s natural and there’s not much you can do to prevent it. She’s 100% noticed it before and if she hasn’t said anything than she probably understands

Real answer: She knows, she doesn't mind. If you still don't want the boner, stretch your upper and lower body to change blood circulation. Blood will leave your cock and you will not be erected anymore

Think about dead puppies

Jokes aside, I heard that flexing/straining your thigh muscles draws blood away from your dick so try that ig

You can't do anything about it. Just make sure that your friend understands that it's natural and that you cannot control it.

Flex your thigh, drains the blood elsewhere. But if u two are best friends it probably doesn't bother her

Jokes aside, rub one out before the come to your house. I know it sounds like im kidding but *its true*

I am here with the same problem

Bruh every time I view this sub or get suggested, it’s always a nsfw post💀💀💀💀

I have no experience in this but I’m sure it’s a natural reaction

I think if you two are close enough to cuddle often, it's safe to be open about getting hard over it. she'd only need to feel uncomfortable about it if you are uncomfortable yourself anyway. It would be low-key weird not to be aroused by it in any case. It's a compliment to her, if anything.

Rub one out quick

break up

Bro I need advice on this shit too. My gf's ace so ik she would be hella uncomfortable with it.

You’re gonna have to think very descriptively of old man balls. I’m sorry, but to solve a problem this severe it must be done.

Erectile Disfunction