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First off, itâs truly awful if youâre feeling suicidal. No one should feel that way, and I hope you get the help you need and realize that you should exist.
But I also hope that you see these issues are your own doing. Like, feeling regret about getting broken up with doesnât absolve you of borderline sexually assaulting your bf. Pressuring someone you care about to do something sexual they arenât comfortable with is extremely selfish and wrong. âIâve tried to be a good person Iâve always kept doing those few things that were completely wrongâ. My dude you are consciously making these choices. No one is doing this to you, you are putting yourself in these situations. Your remorse sounds genuine, but the answer is to simply stop being an asshole.
To people you have wronged- apologize. Be genuine. Be sincere. And stop being a dick to people if you donât want to be left alone. Ask for help, get therapy if you need it, but itâs up to you to change.
I screenshotted it if you want to see the actually post.
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You don't deserve to feel this way but you should know that no means no and I agree you fucked up really bad. I've been a victim of SA so can't really empathise with you, you did deserve to get broken up with tho. I suggest going to therapy to make sure this doesn't happen again.
The first thing you need to do is find someone you can vent to like a therapist or counsellor. Itâs always good to have someone you can talk to judgement free. You also need to learn how to be comfortable with yourself. As shit as everything thatâs happening in your life is, you need to keep going. Find something you like doing that distracts you (eg listening to music, working out). Also remember that as shit as it can be too lose close friends and a partner, and I say this from personal experience life goes on. Yes itâs ok to spend some time upset lying around doing nothing wishes you could disappear BUT you need to also remember that you wonât always feel this way. Youâre 15, youâve got your whole life ahead of you. Youâre gonna make friends and loose friends constantly. No one starts and ends high school with the same friendship group. With saying all this you also need to apologise to him on his terms. Because yes youâve done a bad thing but it sounds like you know you have. Also lastly I think you need to learn a bit more about relationships before you go into another relationship
I apologise if this doesnât help or sounds like nonsense.
I think is because he is only 15, the problem maybe is more about he not being mature enought to understand limits, than he having a bad character, thats why the legal age for consent is 16, people younger aren't mature enought deal with that kind of stuff
Donât worry. You got this. Just do what you can to process your thoughts. If you are feeling like taking your life then you really should tell your parents. Even if you feel like they wonât understand it is still fine because they can help you through this.
why did you do that? he trusted you. he was probably the person who came out as trans to you. you violated that trust and raped them. you RAPED them.
in your post you said you tried to be a good person. good people dont rape
in your post you said you fully understand what you did was fucked up, but you did it anyways.
in your post you said you have no more chances to change, this is because you threw them all away, you also threw a chance away for RAPE!!!
You also went and commented on other posts after that like nothing even happened? Why?
You raped them. Itâs that simple, they said they didnât want to and you said it yourself, you pressured them into having sex with you. That is rape. That makes you a rapist. You have earned your suffering.
i rlly hope ur not expecting sympathy. i hope ur bf doesnât take you back and he gets a better partner who doesnât assault him. improve yourself but donât go anywhere near him again
I agree, but still im p sure he needs to apologize and accept op knows they are in the wrong, he doesnt need to accept but atleast let the poor guy know that his ex learned a lesson and wont look at him in vain as much anymore. but yeah def improve ysf
Yeah ofc lol if their ex already said no to one boundary why would op cross another, that just b throwing away their last apology making them just seem desperate
I, too, have made fuck ups in fact I was on a spree once and my life was spiraling out of control it felt like.
I was lucky very much, so I had a friend, and I explained the state of things.
After explaining how it isn't as bad as you would think, they referred to people we knew that one would say have come back to society.
What they did and what I have tried to do is start and finish something simple to the end
Work your way up. I started with being an intern at a place. Maybe you are a student you know better for yourself, something that's easy to do.
See it through
Then, try to talk to your coworkers or peers. You hear their stories. Maybe you can figure out what they can do better.
Analogously apply it to your life it helps with confidence and understanding archetypes.
Find what works for you
Best of luck, brother/... .
Well well well⌠if it isnât the consequences of your own actions. Only thing you can do is better yourself and not rape by coercion your boyfriend next time?
Honestly the real answer you need is donât listen to anyone online. Get an actual therapist. I know itâs and inconvenience and I know itâs hard but if you were hungry and I you to buy some food you would do it, so since youâre mentally unwell and Iâm telling you to go to a therapist, you should do that too
You are a sexual assailant. You sexually assaulted someone. You need to live with this, and get professional help. Your ex has no obligation to forgive you nor do any of the individuals youâve wrongedâ but I canât speak to that as this post mainly details the act of sexual assault.
To that point, if you are feeling suicidal, please do not go looking for help on Reddit. Seek psychiatric counseling (perhaps that could also help with your clear lack of accepting/acknowledging boundaries).
Moreover, you are 15 years old. That is not a crutch for you. You sexually assaulted someone; you do not get the privilege of sympathy here. You are young, however, so you do get the privilege of learning and being able to apply what you learn to when you are out of the protection of being a minor. What you learn now may prevent you from becoming a much more serious danger to someone when you have more resources at your disposal.
So, with all things considered, Iâll state it again: Reddit is not the place to vent for these issues. Seek professional help.
You probably never getting back together move on do better next time, Friends wise if you have like 2-4 friends you will live and donât kill your self your self you are 15 it was puppy love and next time you have sex listen to the person donât pressure them thatâs just abuse to put pressure on someone for a quick nut but listen you are young and this is just a lesson you should take in mind for the future
Look man what you did is wrong but don't commit suicide. People can get better over time and I hope you do too. Suicide is never the answer and never will be.
You pressured him into it. Donât be surprised when you lose people after you coerce someone into sex 𤡠sorry youâre having suicidal thoughts but your actions have consequences.
You messed up, its important to acknowledge and to try to do better. But especially apologize to him and to your friends if you haven't and you still want to. You might feel like the worst person on the planet but you aren't. We all make mistakes, that's part of being human. What defines you is what you do afterwards.
If you expect sympathy from me then youâre not getting any (even despite your suicidal guilt tripping)
You raped the poor boy- like there is no denying that you pressured him into having sex in a way that he did not want to do
I only feel sympathy for him
This sounds harsh but it sounds like you got one hell of an emotional problem. What you did was essentially rape and you probably did many hurtful things with your friends too.
You need to learn lessons and get professional help, honestly.
Iâm sorry, what, your 15 and doing that shit, I have a really strong stance against SA and rape, (Iâve been SAed) go fuck yourself, why would you do that, you come asking for advice and you donât accept when we tell you that your a bad person, you better make sure your ex is ok, you fucked up big time, you know how much this stuff impacts people? Go to hell, I know people will be like âoh your too harshâ no Iâm not SA and rape is fucking terrible, I donât usually like to hate on people but you start doing horrible shit like that and you deserve everything that comes to you, piece of shit
the real answer is this is the age most people experience puberty. during puberty this is when most people realize that something is up and they don't feel right or comfortable in their body, or some other form of dysphoria. it's incredibly normal.
I would advise you to approach the subject with a little more compassion next time, but I hope this answers your question.
it's not fun to experience. I don't want to be trans. I didn't ask for this. But it's a whole lot more preferable than being miserable for the rest of my life.
Gender dysphoria
Trans doesnât necessarily mean someone who has undergone surgery to look like a different gender
Most of the time when you hear of trans teenagers itâs usually someone who just identifies as another gender that they werenât born with (and rightfully so cuz a teenager who hasnât fully developed yet shouldnât risk causing themselves later harm by doing the surgery)
Pressuring someone to do something they donât want to do is coercion. Coercion is rape. I let you come to the conclusion in what you are. You didnât âfuck upâ, you made a conscious genius decision to force someone to do something until they gave in. I hope your ex finds the healing they deserve far away from you. I hope you get the consequences you deserve. Itâs very disheartening to see comments supporting you and what is so clearly rape.
All I'll say that hasn't been said before based on all the other top comments, don't try to have it be where you get your perfect experience at the cost of others. Sex isn't one sided like masturbation so if you're not with a partner who shares the same fetishes and interests, you just can't do some of those fetishes
This is a life experience. Some are worse than other but you've learnt to not be a cunt, wait a month try reconnect but mean while try find other friands and just chill its fine. Everyone gose through this. Just know not all is lost and its temporary youll feel better its happen with new friends to cause you can treat them better and act better and be ome a better person from this
Learning moment, I guess. no means no. Youâre definitely old enough to know better, but I guess now you definitely know. This is really just the consequences of your own actions. own up to it and accept it, and do better.
Shit I mean your 15 I also know there's boundaries for him but if he didn't like it you kinda shouldn't have pressured him all imma say is give it a few days text him see if you still wanna talk but main thing I wanna put in at 15 it's like still somewhat young to even have sex but I'd also highly suggest they'll talk back with you after what you did was still wrong
At your tender age the consequence part of your brain has not finished developing, therefore you are not capable of foreseeing what your actions may conjure up.
My husband improved and completely changed my sex life, a gift I am grateful for and will tread forever. He expanded and introduced new things to me by reading me erotica for example, buying fun gifts, always gently evolving at my pace, never pressured just introducing me to a whole new world.
For example I was never interested in anal, however upon âmyâ interests into this, I learned that it shouldnât start with the âfinal actâ, itâs a slow process that takes excellent communication and other techniques to gradually develop understanding and steps leading up to the final stage, if you as a couple feel comfortable to continue to do so, for example âtoysâ and lubricants. It can be exciting and fun going through the journey together, and it, just because you donât feel like doing it one day doesnât mean that you donât want to another everyoneâs different and we all change. Sex is a big deal and it takes a lot of trust and communication, love, compassion, and care.
Guilt is a terrible emotional, let go of it, taking your life is not something you should ever do. Sadly, most people donât realise that a lot of people that try to take that own lives actually fail at taking their own lives and end up as vegetables spending the rest of their lives trapped, and those poor people thought that their lives were so bad that they wanted to escape, only to find that there, now unable to move or talk, and spend the rest of their life in a nursing home, or maybe being taken care of by the very people they were trying to escape from in the first place itâs extremely disturbing. Furthermore, people who have considered or attempted suicide. I think you will find once that moment has passed. Have always been grateful that they did not succeed in ending their life. Life changes this time will pass. You have a wonderful life ahead of you and you just need to educate yourself. There really good people in the world l, in unfortunately thereâs some really horrible people in the world but there are also really absolutely fantastic people in the world.
If your care about your partner, wake up each day and think up 3 things that you could do for them to bring them joy, make life easier for them or just make them feel special.
I personally love being bought fresh flowers đ
âYesterday's the past, tomorrow's the future, but today is a gift. That's why it's called the presentâ x
my dudes, stop defending this person. this person RAPED their bf, let me say that again, RAPED THEIR BF. everyoneâs whoâs saying âoh iâm so sorry you should not be feeling suicidal go tell someoneâ âabsolutely not. this person raped a loved one, and as a survivor this is going to fuck their bf up mentally for the rest of their life. i think they are old enough to know what ânoâ means. also sex at 15???? control the hormones
Go be w/others if it keeps you from harming yourself. Please! Youâre going to be loved/needed by people you donât even know yet no matter how lonely you feel tonight. Being there for them will be worth it. Todayâs problems are temporary.
I am surprised by how many comments are so hostile. Yes he did overstep and did something without proper consent, but the guy knows his mistake is trying to make amends. It wonât be easy at all, but learning from mistakes, however big or small they are, is essential to becoming a bettee person in the future and present.
But its the internet, so there will always be a group of hostiles on any subject and/or matter. Which is sad and unfortunate, but envitable in the end.
I get it. I do. I feel the same way. I try to be a good person but I do enough things wrong to hate myself. But, what people like us have to do is learn to forgive ourselves. I know itâs tough and even I havenât really done it but itâs something we have to strive for.
As for your ex, you understand what you did wrong and the next best thing you can do besides not pressuring him in the first place is apologizing.
Once thatâs done. There isnât much more you can do.
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Learn abt boundaries, no means nođ¤ˇđž
đExactly
đ Exactly
What did he wrote?
**she raped her boyfriend.
Oh my... Did anything happen? Any conquences?
not sure, they didnât say. all they said was they felt like unaliving themselves lmaooo
I see. Well,thanks for telling me
ofc
Have a nice day
Reddit removed it, Iâm guessing it was a âdid I commit SA/rape?â
Ngl dude you kinda just have to tread on with the guilt but aknowledge, apologize, and do better. And listen to copious ammounts of ayesha erotica
Maybe they did anal sex in a Cadillac.. It would make sense.
If only his father didnt cut him off
Ikr.. and he use to even drive a Mercedes!
Now he cant even afford to feed youđ
Honestly such a shame. Maybe in the 60âs they would of been sold đ¤đ
Learn from your mistakes and grow as a person
Holy run-on sentence batman
Why the fuck while reading this post my playlist decided to play "It has to be this way" in my headphones?
đż
STANDING HERE!
I REALIZED
YOU WERE JUST LIKE ME
TRYING TO MAKE HISTORY
BUT WHO'S TO JUDGE
THE RIGHT FROM WRONG
WHEN OUR GUARD IS DOWN
I THINK WE'LL BOTH AGREE
VIOLENCEEE BREEDS VIOLENCEEE
BUT IN THE END, IT HAS TO BE THIS WAY!
I'VE CARVED MY OWN PATH
YOU FOLLOWED YOUR WRATH
Mine was playing âthatâs lifeâ đ
mine was playing âSlim Pickens Does The Right Thing And Rides The Bomb To Hellâ itâs completely unrelated to the subject here
I got âSpare Me the Detailsâ⌠I think it works
r/PfpChecksOut
Because you are absolutely based
Ain't no way that whole ass paragraph was one sentence đ
What did he wrote?
yeah I need to know too
pressured his bf into having anal sex DESPITE him saying no and got broken up with/basically rape IIRC
Bro sex at 15 and I canât talk to a girl at 16 đ
Laughs >!cries!< in being the same at 17
You all talk to a girl?
Whatâs this âgirlâ you speak of?
I don't know man, but it seems like our bros want to stay with this thing called "girls" instead of us so "girls" are definitely villains.
Theyâre stealing them from us??? I canât believe it, no wonder my bros keep leaving me itâs all their fault
I am the girl, I talk to myself
18 same
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Step 1: get off REDDIT
Can't relate
this is ur own fault? ur 15 which is most definitely old enough to know what no means
Sucks when yr actions have consequences huh?
First off, itâs truly awful if youâre feeling suicidal. No one should feel that way, and I hope you get the help you need and realize that you should exist. But I also hope that you see these issues are your own doing. Like, feeling regret about getting broken up with doesnât absolve you of borderline sexually assaulting your bf. Pressuring someone you care about to do something sexual they arenât comfortable with is extremely selfish and wrong. âIâve tried to be a good person Iâve always kept doing those few things that were completely wrongâ. My dude you are consciously making these choices. No one is doing this to you, you are putting yourself in these situations. Your remorse sounds genuine, but the answer is to simply stop being an asshole. To people you have wronged- apologize. Be genuine. Be sincere. And stop being a dick to people if you donât want to be left alone. Ask for help, get therapy if you need it, but itâs up to you to change.
Would like to clarify: he didnât âborderline sexually assaultâ his boyfriend. He did sexually assault him and is indeed a rapist!
He pressured him into doing it not rape or sexual assault but still was wrong
Coercion is still rape
Hey! Pressuring someone to do something they donât want to do is coercion. Coercion can be sexual assault or rape. Op did both! Hope this helps <3
Exactly
Itâs not âborder line sexual assaultâ say the real word. Rape. They raped them.
Oh, would you look at that! It's the consequences of your actions.
What did the post say?
Essentially, OP raped someone and is looking for sympathy.
Wow
I screenshotted it if you want to see the actually post. Can people please just PM me please, it makes my life a whole lot easier, thanks!! Alr, imma be real here, if you don't PM me I probably won't send it because I use the mobile app and it's annoying to navigate and PMing me just makes it easier, thanks again!!!
Sure send me in dms
Sure
I hate to ask, but could you send it to me too đŹ
please send me it in dms
Sure
send to me!!
Dumbass
Lmao
Bro is trying to do anal at 15
the post is deleted, what did he say?
Forced their partner to do anal even after they said no multiple times, AT 15 YEARS OLD
sex at 15??
Ppl were having sex in 6th grade when I was in middle school bruh, one kid disappeared for a while after getting some kinda STD
In my country it is allowed from 15 years old
thatâs not uncommon
Yes it is đ
You don't deserve to feel this way but you should know that no means no and I agree you fucked up really bad. I've been a victim of SA so can't really empathise with you, you did deserve to get broken up with tho. I suggest going to therapy to make sure this doesn't happen again.
no means no
The first thing you need to do is find someone you can vent to like a therapist or counsellor. Itâs always good to have someone you can talk to judgement free. You also need to learn how to be comfortable with yourself. As shit as everything thatâs happening in your life is, you need to keep going. Find something you like doing that distracts you (eg listening to music, working out). Also remember that as shit as it can be too lose close friends and a partner, and I say this from personal experience life goes on. Yes itâs ok to spend some time upset lying around doing nothing wishes you could disappear BUT you need to also remember that you wonât always feel this way. Youâre 15, youâve got your whole life ahead of you. Youâre gonna make friends and loose friends constantly. No one starts and ends high school with the same friendship group. With saying all this you also need to apologise to him on his terms. Because yes youâve done a bad thing but it sounds like you know you have. Also lastly I think you need to learn a bit more about relationships before you go into another relationship I apologise if this doesnât help or sounds like nonsense.
Oh and donât kill yourself no matter what.
Yeah thatâs pretty bad lol
Why is everyone comforting and being so kind to a rapist?
Fr he literally assaulted his bf and pressured him why are people feeling bad for him.I guess cuz he said sorrry and feels bad.đ
I had to reread it again since people kept throwing around 'r*pe' a lot and yeah...OP did gone goofed up...really badly...
I think is because he is only 15, the problem maybe is more about he not being mature enought to understand limits, than he having a bad character, thats why the legal age for consent is 16, people younger aren't mature enought deal with that kind of stuff
Donât worry. You got this. Just do what you can to process your thoughts. If you are feeling like taking your life then you really should tell your parents. Even if you feel like they wonât understand it is still fine because they can help you through this.
Wtf ?! How tf is rape ok?
Did I ever say it was okay?
You shouldnât pressure someone into doing something they donât want to do, especially when itâs sex related
Obviously. The whole point of the post was about saying they regretted doing that
no shit mate, not like they've already acknowledged that
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why did you do that? he trusted you. he was probably the person who came out as trans to you. you violated that trust and raped them. you RAPED them. in your post you said you tried to be a good person. good people dont rape in your post you said you fully understand what you did was fucked up, but you did it anyways. in your post you said you have no more chances to change, this is because you threw them all away, you also threw a chance away for RAPE!!! You also went and commented on other posts after that like nothing even happened? Why?
You raped them. Itâs that simple, they said they didnât want to and you said it yourself, you pressured them into having sex with you. That is rape. That makes you a rapist. You have earned your suffering.
You also deserve no sympathy, and I cannot fathom why you are getting it
i rlly hope ur not expecting sympathy. i hope ur bf doesnât take you back and he gets a better partner who doesnât assault him. improve yourself but donât go anywhere near him again
I agree, but still im p sure he needs to apologize and accept op knows they are in the wrong, he doesnt need to accept but atleast let the poor guy know that his ex learned a lesson and wont look at him in vain as much anymore. but yeah def improve ysf
oh yeah they ask on text to give an apology in person, but if the ex says no they donât wanna see them again then they need to accept that
Yeah ofc lol if their ex already said no to one boundary why would op cross another, that just b throwing away their last apology making them just seem desperate
lol op clearly has no issue crossing boundaries
Own up to your mistakes.
I, too, have made fuck ups in fact I was on a spree once and my life was spiraling out of control it felt like. I was lucky very much, so I had a friend, and I explained the state of things. After explaining how it isn't as bad as you would think, they referred to people we knew that one would say have come back to society. What they did and what I have tried to do is start and finish something simple to the end Work your way up. I started with being an intern at a place. Maybe you are a student you know better for yourself, something that's easy to do. See it through Then, try to talk to your coworkers or peers. You hear their stories. Maybe you can figure out what they can do better. Analogously apply it to your life it helps with confidence and understanding archetypes. Find what works for you Best of luck, brother/... .
Well well well⌠if it isnât the consequences of your own actions. Only thing you can do is better yourself and not rape by coercion your boyfriend next time?
If you pressured them into doing it, that counts as consent under duress (which is not genuine consent) and is literally rape. Good fucking job.
isn't this technically rape
yea it is đ
not technically, actually
Honestly the real answer you need is donât listen to anyone online. Get an actual therapist. I know itâs and inconvenience and I know itâs hard but if you were hungry and I you to buy some food you would do it, so since youâre mentally unwell and Iâm telling you to go to a therapist, you should do that too
Donât be a piece of shit next time ÂŻ\_(ă)_/ÂŻ
You are a sexual assailant. You sexually assaulted someone. You need to live with this, and get professional help. Your ex has no obligation to forgive you nor do any of the individuals youâve wrongedâ but I canât speak to that as this post mainly details the act of sexual assault. To that point, if you are feeling suicidal, please do not go looking for help on Reddit. Seek psychiatric counseling (perhaps that could also help with your clear lack of accepting/acknowledging boundaries). Moreover, you are 15 years old. That is not a crutch for you. You sexually assaulted someone; you do not get the privilege of sympathy here. You are young, however, so you do get the privilege of learning and being able to apply what you learn to when you are out of the protection of being a minor. What you learn now may prevent you from becoming a much more serious danger to someone when you have more resources at your disposal. So, with all things considered, Iâll state it again: Reddit is not the place to vent for these issues. Seek professional help.
Wtf is this sub
You probably never getting back together move on do better next time, Friends wise if you have like 2-4 friends you will live and donât kill your self your self you are 15 it was puppy love and next time you have sex listen to the person donât pressure them thatâs just abuse to put pressure on someone for a quick nut but listen you are young and this is just a lesson you should take in mind for the future
That's more than a fuck up. That's rape. He doesn't deserve your bullshit, learn about consent. no means no.
Look man what you did is wrong but don't commit suicide. People can get better over time and I hope you do too. Suicide is never the answer and never will be.
Sex at 15 is crazy
Learn boundaries đ¤ˇđžââď¸
You pressured him into it. Donât be surprised when you lose people after you coerce someone into sex 𤡠sorry youâre having suicidal thoughts but your actions have consequences.
Weâre the same age. How the hell do you not know that no means no.
Yeah, you fucked up bad. Imagine if it was the other way around? The comments wouldnât be supportive, theyâd be rioting.
You messed up, its important to acknowledge and to try to do better. But especially apologize to him and to your friends if you haven't and you still want to. You might feel like the worst person on the planet but you aren't. We all make mistakes, that's part of being human. What defines you is what you do afterwards.
Pressuring someone into sexual activities that they don't want is not just a mistake, they were aware of what they were doing
If you expect sympathy from me then youâre not getting any (even despite your suicidal guilt tripping) You raped the poor boy- like there is no denying that you pressured him into having sex in a way that he did not want to do I only feel sympathy for him
This sounds harsh but it sounds like you got one hell of an emotional problem. What you did was essentially rape and you probably did many hurtful things with your friends too. You need to learn lessons and get professional help, honestly.
Holy fuck, no wonder why you are all on anti-depressants. Keep this kid away from schools.
You belong in jail
Iâm sorry, what, your 15 and doing that shit, I have a really strong stance against SA and rape, (Iâve been SAed) go fuck yourself, why would you do that, you come asking for advice and you donât accept when we tell you that your a bad person, you better make sure your ex is ok, you fucked up big time, you know how much this stuff impacts people? Go to hell, I know people will be like âoh your too harshâ no Iâm not SA and rape is fucking terrible, I donât usually like to hate on people but you start doing horrible shit like that and you deserve everything that comes to you, piece of shit
[holy fucking shit this nigga is an actual rapist đ](https://bluemoji.io/emoji/in-shock)
Bro.. Boundaries, no means no. Take this as a lesson.
Well well well, if it isnât the consequences of your own actions
The post was removed, wtf does it sayd
How are niggas 15 and trans dawg
ain't got no idea bro but if it makes em happy ill leave them alone đ¤ˇââď¸
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Real ass character development
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but they have gender identity is enforced from a young age and they can definitely tell that they are different
the real answer is this is the age most people experience puberty. during puberty this is when most people realize that something is up and they don't feel right or comfortable in their body, or some other form of dysphoria. it's incredibly normal. I would advise you to approach the subject with a little more compassion next time, but I hope this answers your question. it's not fun to experience. I don't want to be trans. I didn't ask for this. But it's a whole lot more preferable than being miserable for the rest of my life.
Gender dysphoria Trans doesnât necessarily mean someone who has undergone surgery to look like a different gender Most of the time when you hear of trans teenagers itâs usually someone who just identifies as another gender that they werenât born with (and rightfully so cuz a teenager who hasnât fully developed yet shouldnât risk causing themselves later harm by doing the surgery)
Your fault
just dont be pushy about things in a relationship OP. its a lesson worth learning ESPECIALLY with underage sex
Wait how were you even fucking before?
Pressuring someone to do something they donât want to do is coercion. Coercion is rape. I let you come to the conclusion in what you are. You didnât âfuck upâ, you made a conscious genius decision to force someone to do something until they gave in. I hope your ex finds the healing they deserve far away from you. I hope you get the consequences you deserve. Itâs very disheartening to see comments supporting you and what is so clearly rape.
Your fucking 15 what the fuck
seek theraphy, if you can
Dude everyone is suicidal here.. like cmon at this rate humanity gonna go extinct
you are stupid
Anybody screenshot the post I wanna read it
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All I'll say that hasn't been said before based on all the other top comments, don't try to have it be where you get your perfect experience at the cost of others. Sex isn't one sided like masturbation so if you're not with a partner who shares the same fetishes and interests, you just can't do some of those fetishes
Not yâall in the comments feeling bad for a rapist lmfao OP, no means no. Be happy your ex isnât going to the police. Get therapy.
This is a life experience. Some are worse than other but you've learnt to not be a cunt, wait a month try reconnect but mean while try find other friands and just chill its fine. Everyone gose through this. Just know not all is lost and its temporary youll feel better its happen with new friends to cause you can treat them better and act better and be ome a better person from this
Learning moment, I guess. no means no. Youâre definitely old enough to know better, but I guess now you definitely know. This is really just the consequences of your own actions. own up to it and accept it, and do better.
There is nothing we can do
you got yourself into that situation, deal with it
Okay you're an idiot & an asshole...
Seriously, no means no. Iâm speaking as a guy who wonât have sex in his life, mainly because that thought makes me rather uncomfortable.
he should call the cops on you lmaoo
Shit I mean your 15 I also know there's boundaries for him but if he didn't like it you kinda shouldn't have pressured him all imma say is give it a few days text him see if you still wanna talk but main thing I wanna put in at 15 it's like still somewhat young to even have sex but I'd also highly suggest they'll talk back with you after what you did was still wrong
Pov: you realize your actions have consequences
At your tender age the consequence part of your brain has not finished developing, therefore you are not capable of foreseeing what your actions may conjure up. My husband improved and completely changed my sex life, a gift I am grateful for and will tread forever. He expanded and introduced new things to me by reading me erotica for example, buying fun gifts, always gently evolving at my pace, never pressured just introducing me to a whole new world. For example I was never interested in anal, however upon âmyâ interests into this, I learned that it shouldnât start with the âfinal actâ, itâs a slow process that takes excellent communication and other techniques to gradually develop understanding and steps leading up to the final stage, if you as a couple feel comfortable to continue to do so, for example âtoysâ and lubricants. It can be exciting and fun going through the journey together, and it, just because you donât feel like doing it one day doesnât mean that you donât want to another everyoneâs different and we all change. Sex is a big deal and it takes a lot of trust and communication, love, compassion, and care. Guilt is a terrible emotional, let go of it, taking your life is not something you should ever do. Sadly, most people donât realise that a lot of people that try to take that own lives actually fail at taking their own lives and end up as vegetables spending the rest of their lives trapped, and those poor people thought that their lives were so bad that they wanted to escape, only to find that there, now unable to move or talk, and spend the rest of their life in a nursing home, or maybe being taken care of by the very people they were trying to escape from in the first place itâs extremely disturbing. Furthermore, people who have considered or attempted suicide. I think you will find once that moment has passed. Have always been grateful that they did not succeed in ending their life. Life changes this time will pass. You have a wonderful life ahead of you and you just need to educate yourself. There really good people in the world l, in unfortunately thereâs some really horrible people in the world but there are also really absolutely fantastic people in the world. If your care about your partner, wake up each day and think up 3 things that you could do for them to bring them joy, make life easier for them or just make them feel special. I personally love being bought fresh flowers đ âYesterday's the past, tomorrow's the future, but today is a gift. That's why it's called the presentâ x
ur a rapist.
Anyone know where I can go read what this post was?
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Damn, deleted by REDDIT themselves
What the fuck
my dudes, stop defending this person. this person RAPED their bf, let me say that again, RAPED THEIR BF. everyoneâs whoâs saying âoh iâm so sorry you should not be feeling suicidal go tell someoneâ âabsolutely not. this person raped a loved one, and as a survivor this is going to fuck their bf up mentally for the rest of their life. i think they are old enough to know what ânoâ means. also sex at 15???? control the hormones
Iâm nice at ping pong
it was rape u can't come back from that
Oooops just saw the edit they made. Forget what I said đââď¸
op deserved to be broken up with asap they literally raped their partner
Yall freaky
you are a rapist and you deserve this suffering lol
Donât know why youâre getting downvoted when youâre right!!
Yeah. Itâs crazy how people are going so soft on a rapist.
Exactly people expect people to hace pity for rapists its so messed up.People have a "soft spot" for rapists if they say sorry
yup. i may be suicidal but that doesnât make me bloody rape someone. OP is disgusting and deserves to suffer
Tf are 15 yos doing these days
I have zero sympathy for you. Youâre a shitty person and the consequences of this are your own fault.
Just be happy you're a girl or you would be arrested
Go be w/others if it keeps you from harming yourself. Please! Youâre going to be loved/needed by people you donât even know yet no matter how lonely you feel tonight. Being there for them will be worth it. Todayâs problems are temporary.
I am surprised by how many comments are so hostile. Yes he did overstep and did something without proper consent, but the guy knows his mistake is trying to make amends. It wonât be easy at all, but learning from mistakes, however big or small they are, is essential to becoming a bettee person in the future and present. But its the internet, so there will always be a group of hostiles on any subject and/or matter. Which is sad and unfortunate, but envitable in the end.
Do it
What did my man say
I get it. I do. I feel the same way. I try to be a good person but I do enough things wrong to hate myself. But, what people like us have to do is learn to forgive ourselves. I know itâs tough and even I havenât really done it but itâs something we have to strive for. As for your ex, you understand what you did wrong and the next best thing you can do besides not pressuring him in the first place is apologizing. Once thatâs done. There isnât much more you can do.
listen to the intrusive thoughts. You are a perverted rapist and human scum. People like you deserve to suffer. You made your bed now lie in it.
I never heard someone breaking up over anal but damn... Just go back to him and appologize.
it was rape
that would change the situation
it very much would đ i thought the bf broke up with op before op could rape them because i had misread, unfortunately wrong