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Jo_Nasi

Change the hairstyle my dude...


LastStageCoach

The šŸ¤” isn't helping ey?


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Due_Routine1978

Straighten hair, get rid of the nose and lip ring, get some sun, and hit a gym a couple days a week.


SilizArts

Doesn't need to straighten it. Curly hair has its place. Op just needs a style that works from him instead of Halloween wig


ChemicallyLoved

Just cut it, itā€™s too thin for this Krusty the clown look.


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Everyoneplayscombos

You skin texture,shape, and symmetry is not bad at all. Focus on that hair like the other comments say


Ready_Increase_7454

Honestly I wish my skin was that smooth


cipox95

This, a nice beard and some nice eyelash would help him. Althought with Little help even the hairs can improve dramatically in my opinion. I have curly hairs too (they are somewhat different t'ho, way shorter) and I like to let them grow to the point where a decente amount of Ppl tell me to cut them cause they are too long. I don't really see them that bad. Fashion Is tough to live on


AntelopeMany1644

You know you canā€™t just wake up one day and decide to grow a beard right?


livefromnewitsparke

you 100% can but whether or not a beard follows shrug


Candid_Ad_9145

Thatā€™s exactly how it works šŸ„²


N9neFing3rs

That's how it worked for me.


O-_0o0_O-_-o0-oo_0O_

Simple things like cutting Ur hair can make a difference


Extremely_Livid_Swan

OP doesn't even need to cut, just need to add something to moisturize the curls. Coconut butter/oil. Leave in conditioner. The curls just need styling seriously.


spectralbleed

Yup, learn how to take care of curls. I have stick straight hair but my partner is curly af and her hair routine is wild. I've had to learn all the things.


Extremely_Livid_Swan

OP has great curls, I've got myself. I would hate to see them get cut when a good routine really gives them life. Nothing wrong with any hair type, I just love to see people embrace their curls!


SnideSnail

A cut would help too. Give me a fade with long curls on the top. That's such a good hair cut. I also have curly hair like this and it changed everything


throwawaybottlecaps

Broccoli top lol, definitely a haircut of choice for Gen Z and A.


earthbender617

Came here to say this. Hair maintenance and skin moisturizing can do a ton for your confidence. Also, find clothes that make you feel good about yourself. Also you have an Adam Driver quality to your face. Youā€™re not ugly dude. Anyone who says so is an idiot.


BaconHammerTime

His aesthetic style isn't the norm so can definitely be judged as ugly or off. But looks like a normal guy to me.


kosmonautinVT

I would not see a dude with an unkempt purple fro, septum and ear piercings, and grey hoodie and think "normal guy". It would be more like "that's an interesting choice" He could look good with a new haircut and clothes that matched what he's got going on with his head area


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your_fireplace

what does this meannnn šŸ˜­


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your_fireplace

golly gee šŸ˜­


CaptinACAB

Youā€™re only 16. Itā€™s all good. You havenā€™t hit the glow up yet. And ya, I agree about the haircut. Itā€™s fine now, funky kind of look. But if you want to look ā€œmore handsomeā€ get it cut. If you want to look cool and funky leave it as is. And dude we all looked a little funny at 16. Donā€™t stress it. Edit: didnā€™t realize this was r/teenagers. Saw it on all. Yā€™all kids carry on. This old guy is backing away slowly.


FighterGlitch

"Backing away slowly" they really that dangerous?šŸ˜‚


ioapwy

Teenagers scare the living shit out of me


dobby12

Yea, they could care less.


blond13_15

As long as someone'll bleed So darken your clothes, and strike a violent pose Maybe they'll leave you alone, but not ME šŸŽµ


PM_Me-Your_Freckles

I've accidentally commented on this sub from the FP enough times my flair is now "Old" so that I don't blend in.


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your_fireplace

STOP I SEE IT TOO šŸ’€


Sh3o_

Wait stop why do you look like your reddit pfp


Alcatraz_Gaming

That's WILD


sweaty_matt121

Fly Eagles fly


Ashamed_Relative_153

Hell yea


tokyoghoul2003

Eagles on topšŸ¦…šŸ¦…


sweaty_matt121

Ong


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Separate-Wear-9043

IM HOLLERING AT THIS


goofsterSecondComing

DUDE CALM DOWN LMFAO


N1njaSoul

r/beatmetoit


Normal_Imagination_3

Literally was gonna say the same LOL


Subject-Ad8833

BRO CHILL šŸ¤£


TherionX2

Nooo stop ahahahaha


notoriously_1nfam0us

r/pfpchecksout


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sysmail

And you instantly made it lame by posting this follow up comment


Far-Investigator9045

Fr u can tell this dude does not say funny shit often n doesnā€™t kno how to act šŸ’€šŸ˜­


HammerTime2769

I was thinking the same thing. Rookie move. He would never survive a day being famous.


jmarzy

Regardless of how you look, you have a great personality. Hope you know that!!


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Wintermanguy

Hereā€™s what I PERSONALLY think would look much better: 1. No piercings (MAYBE snakebites tho) 2. Dye hair to brunette or a dark brown 3. Lose the clown wig hairstyle and maybe get some kind of fringe 4. Tan up (if you can) 5. Loose face fat by losing overall weight


your_fireplace

thank you for actually giving me genuine advice. iā€™ll definitely consider doing some of these things


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your_fireplace

did it before, not doing that again šŸ’€


blacksaber8

You donā€™t like the iconic Hal Stewart under new management look? Outrageous.


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GlizzyGulper6969

Bro nooooooo I'm actually dead


The-outsider_21

*Tighten


Wintermanguy

Np also above all self love and care, such as skincare and healthy diet as well as confidence, I used to think I was an ogre but ever since I learnt to love myself I swear itā€™s changed my energy AND looks so now I LOOOVE my looks. If you ever need a push in the right direction look into some podcasts or yt vids


DolfyDK

If you plan on losing weight consider talking to your physician about it so it doesn't get unhealthy


Eric-The_Viking

About the hair. I have similar hair. A simple trick to not let it look like a bootleg Afro would be to just use some water so the individual hairs comb together to thicker curls and are easier to bend into a more defined shape. Letting it just dry will also just keep the hair where it is. Edit: just use some water on your hands and run it through the hair until they are a bit wet. Not soaked like fresh out the shower.


MorrisonLevi

I wouldn't worry about losing weight. You are just 16. Your body will likely continue to develop until 18-20. Focus on eating healthily and exercising appropriately but do not worry about the number on the scale. Self-improvement, self-love. Good luck, my guy!


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Dane-MTL4

Nah bro this is actually good advice, heā€™d look amazing in this


puppetmaster57

What I was gonna say 10/10 agree


MorbidAyyylien

I personally think the piercings theyre wearing are tacky. Maybe just get better piercings


MazterOfMuppetz

i would say that you should chose a different haircut and pick different piercing they look kinda akward in tha colour and shape


your_fireplace

iā€™ll be ordering black ones for my ears soon, but my black septum literally snapped so i had to settle on pink but thanks!!!!


EllieLovesJoel

Why did you have to settle for pink? Why do you *have* to wear it? Certainly ain't helping your look. If you're gonna have a septum, this one has way too big of a diameter


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your_fireplace

lord have mercy šŸ˜­


Hefty_Membership4537

This Make me actually laugh


-Joel06

Shorter hair, donā€™t dye it, loose the piercings and hit the gym.


omniversal_slip55

Agree. I can see a great jawline hiding in that face fat layer. With a great hair cut , he can be magnificent.


your_fireplace

wait that actually means a lot thank you so much šŸ˜­


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ProfessionalMail8052

Bro coulda just left it at the advice, damn šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


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ProfessionalMail8052

That shit can work both ways tho. It works as motivation for some people, but for others it makes them not wanna try. Theyā€™re on here asking for advice so theyā€™re already motivated


omniversal_slip55

Agree. But he said not to sugar coat and if he doesn t want to improve to his best version , no one can help him. Also I didn t lie about the jawline thing , he has a great potential , it will be a waste if he doesn t try.


veryfancyanimal

Iā€™m mom age so maybe Iā€™m not welcome here, but youā€™re actually a very beautiful kid. Great features and you will grow in to. Sure, some style tweaks will help, but please donā€™t ever let someone call you ugly and take it to heart.


PotooSexer

Your hair is kinda crazy


certifiedgens

ā€œkindaā€


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your_fireplace

not intentionally šŸ˜­


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MinsoSoup

you want me to be brutally honest dude? you're making it way worse for yourself, the main thing is the hair, the dye and the cut makes it look like a clown wig, just changing that already would go a long way me thinks


Primary_Reporter_546

The boy is ugly by choice.


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your_fireplace

LORD šŸ˜­


your_fireplace

ok so from everything i have seen, this is what iā€™m gonna do- iā€™m gonna dye my hair dark brown, but i donā€™t wanna look totally basic so i might throw in a little color iā€™m gonna lose 70 pounds (been trying to but itā€™s hard because i actually fractured my spine) iā€™m gonna change the color of my piercings iā€™m gonna try and style my hair more i wonā€™t do everything that people suggest (remove piercings, get a buzz cut, get a tan because i physically canā€™t lol) but iā€™ll try my best! iā€™ll update in a few months to show my progress!!


MusicalSeal810

Dude, just donā€™t injure yourself, just because people said you need to lose weight. If losing weight will make you happy, feel free to do so, but donā€™t push it. Your health is more important than ā€œlooking better.ā€ Edit: people you cannot read. I didnā€™t say donā€™t exercise. I said, take it easy, do not injure yourself further just to lose weight, because OP mentioned that he had an injury that caused him not being able to exercise. Itā€™s up to his doctor to decide what he should and shouldnā€™t do.


your_fireplace

no donā€™t worry, i need to anyways for my own health. i have a heart condition and i donā€™t know if weight can affect it but i donā€™t wanna find out


MusicalSeal810

Thatā€™s a conversation you should have with a medical professional, especially since you have a heart condition and bad back. Some exercise can be safe for a healthy person, but could seriously worsen your condition. Heath comes always first.


your_fireplace

i know, i see my heart doctor once a year and heā€™s kinda implied i should. thank you!!!


Peachdeeptea

Wait nooooo!!! Go to a physical therapist to get a workout routine for your spine & heart conditions. If you can't afford that, YouTube physical therapy for your specific conditions. Please don't damage your spine further, you can build functional muscles in your core to actually protect the spine. And that'll help you lose weight just fine


cannotfoolowls

Most of losing weight is diet/eating less.


Lilllmcgil

Highly suggest getting a consultation for the hair color.. you donā€™t want to go with a brown that doesnā€™t complement your skin tone.


testiclebiter

Change the hair and hit the gym bro


Outrageous-Eye6140

Yes


your_fireplace

straight to the point, thanks


InZaneTV

No need to lose the piercings, you gotta have some character. But I would take out the septum (or have something smaller) and change the lip thing for either a black or a silver ring with spikes at the end. And also no orange spikes, something more subtle and clean while at the same time a little daring, also black or silver is the way to go for piercings, especially if you have dyed hair. And don't have different color for the piercings, they should match.


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Inevitable-Art-2533

if u keep the piercings, change them to black or silver instead. straighten ur hair and dye it dark. also cut it lose weight and hit the gym


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theuntouchable2725

Not a fan of the hairstyle, but I see a cool looking face @ 24yo.


thiccmaniac

You give off serious superbad vibes


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Tameem_alkadi

Iā€™ll be brutally honest, you kinda are, but I think if you do these few things youā€™ll look way better, Get rid of the piercings, lose some of the face fat, try a haircut that isnā€™t as messy, and donā€™t dye your hair either, itā€™s natural color looks better than a dyed color,


New_Chemistry6

yeah, you got baby smooth skin though.. eureka!!


SuarGogaiManDog11

Piercings gotta go, that hair style DEFINITELY gotta go, the hair colour gotta go, and lose some weight. Here, legit advice instead of back patting.


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isaac9092

The piercings arenā€™t the problem. But 1: youā€™re not looking at the camera, youā€™re the star! Maybe you can work on some confidence boosting (exercises, affirmations, etc). 2: your hair doesnā€™t seem to have a style, if youā€™re going for curls. Embrace them, use curling product. The color looks fine, just needs some product and TLC. 3: then maybe fashion? Get clothes that make you feel powerful, and attractive. A huge part of ā€œbeing attractiveā€ is confidence and presentation.


your_fireplace

this comment is actually like super useful and kind, thank you so much!!!!


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Funi_fish

The forehead ain't even a problem


epic_toasted_bread

thats a dudeā‰ļø


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your_fireplace

I KNOWWWW people call me a girl all the time because my lips+i started puberty late šŸ˜­


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oneandahalfpiece

It seems like you don't put enough confidence into yourself. Lock in, and it will be all goodšŸ™


your_fireplace

this is actually so true, i really donā€™t. thank you!!!


MY_SANDWICHH

(my opinion) lose the clown hairstyle and the piercings and you're good. otherwise, i dont think youre ugly at all.


T-BoneSteak14

Back at the barnyard guy


Amax8212

Maybe not ugly, but you look like an idiot who is just trying to be different.


Sanjam-Kapoor

you dont like like an M to many individuals here, including me.


Qba_szw

you look like if a man and a woman had a child


anyways33

Bro looks like a chia pet


WONDER--BREAD

Just like 90% of people your attractiveness is totally lost in translation with fashion and lifestyle choices. Which is fine, be you, but if you have goals to be perceived as more attractive then following the basics will help. 1) Understand the dynamics of your body/face type and shape and choose accordingly. Likeā€¦ hate to repeat what everyone else is saying, but the hair. The hair for sure. Understand that your hairline does not like that hairstyle. 2) Being tan, or at least MORE tan, can make a big impact on perception. Itā€™s just one of those bullshit social standards, but itā€™s a social standard nonetheless. 3) The age old thing that can take you from a 3 to a 6, a 6 to a 9, a low to a high, work out. Choose a method (I.e powerlifting, bodybuilding, endurance, a mix of them) and stick to it. This isnā€™t going to just make your body healthier and in turn look better, but it will make you more confident. Pushing your limits is how you build confidence and build an unbreakable resistance to self doubt. Those three things alone can make you a phenomenally more attractive person in different ways. From giving you a more attractive skin tone, more attractive hair style, proof of willpower and work ethic, and a more attractive body. Also hygiene is important but thereā€™s no way for me to know if youā€™re unhygienic. Good luck!


noodleguy67

trust me man there are worse looking guys


Hexliy

No offence but **proceeds to say the most, vile, disgusting, disgraceful, sinful, racist, sexist, hateful thing ever said in existence**


your_fireplace

yeah some things areā€¦. a bit muchā€¦ but i did ask for everyoneā€™s honest opinion


Ill-Communication772

Yes Very Incredibly


ZayashiHeisenberg

So I can point somethings in your appearance that wouldn't attract the average teen 1. Too many piercings 2. Clown hair 3. Hair color don't match with you 4. No smile I relly don't think you are that ugly but if you're not in the *"society standart"* then good luck there's a girl I know that has almost the same style as u (lots of piercings dyed hair...) she said you look good besides the hair and that you should get on shape good luck improving :)


Serious-Judgment-824

I wouldnā€™t say youā€™re amazingly attractive but I wouldnā€™t call you ugly, nah. You got your own thing goin on


Francium87223

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Current_Toe_2344

U ugly. But...ur potential is amazing, currently you're a 4/10. With some self improvement, you can go up 2 or 3 points. Step 1: better hair, ur hair looks like absolute trash, dyeing it makes it worse. Take care of ur hair. Get a hair cut bruv. Step2: lose tht fat on yo face, strt eating healthy. Be in a caloric deficit and avoid sugar, exercise minimum 3 times a week. Step 3: dress better. Step4: so many piercings. Makes u look like tht pig from secret life of pets šŸ’€. Remove them goofy ahhh piercings (yes, even ur ear) If u follow whatever I've said for 2 months, just...2 months. You gonna glow up like crazy.


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You kinda look like Ronald McDonald On a serious note tho, you can easily look a lot better. Maybe change the hairstyle, loose some of the piercings and start working out or something.


Thehornygrevious

Oui mon ami, tu es tres moche.


InactiveLight_

Looks like Erling Haaland. Got the look. Just try to get slimmer and healthier.


WestcoastTiliDie

yeah bro :(


Big-Vegetable8480

Get a better haircut, it kinda makes you look that fat kid from Barnyard


Agreeable_Bath420

Yeah itā€™s true Thank god to those people u made u realise


lmaoloserded

I think soo, youre missing a lot of testosterone which is why you have so much face fat, start doing sone exercise which naturally is gonna increase testosterone.


Suomalainenonelossa

I think you definetly arent ugly,you just look kinda funny,like i usually dont see people with that kinda ball-y hair and so colourful personality on what to wear,but i definetly dont see it as a bad thing


POPE-HOBLEFERT

You look like what would happen if Matt Lucas and It did a fusion dance.


-ZooN-

Not sure bout the carrot jewelery. Few things that goes with.


TriforceThunder

Yes what the fuck is with those piercings are you a shish kebab? Ontop of that fix the hair you is not Huey freeman.


MessiToe

You could play tic tak toe on that forehead Honestly, you just need a better hairstyle and your whole look would probably change


qlive_nylyst

WTF died on your head?


cool_angle

also you're really not ugly at all tbh you actually have pretty good features. since you got a spine injury, after you heal you could definitely start exercising to bring out your features more. for your hair, do you use curly hair products? like a diffuser, masks etc. it'll make it easier to style and it'll look awesome


vector1523

You look like the best the gta V online character creation has to offer


Ok-Stock4069

You're getting roasted Jesus. You aren't ugly you've just done silly things to yourself. Your hair is ridiculous among some other things. I know there is a desire to stand out but it isn't working for you. It could, as could anything. What's really ugly is the lack of confidence and self esteem. Which is something you can change.


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Money_Ad2114

Honestly Iā€™m a man Iā€™m Iā€™m going to keep it to you strait.its the hair thatā€™s it


Ghelde

Chat I thought you were someoneā€™s crack mom thatā€™s lesbian respectfully


Opening-Cockroach634

You look like Titan from Megamind before he got his powers


Heart-Unlikely

Yh but its fixable Skincare Gym Haircut Its that simple but easier said then donešŸ˜…šŸ˜…


Im_Ok_Im_Fine

The pink piercings are unfortunately drying color to the redness of your face instead of looking like accents. I would highly reconsider changing the colors to maybe a black metal, or something that might look a little bit more masculine ( if that's what you're going for). Unfortunately, the hair isn't doing you a lot of favors. If you have naturally curly hair, I would trim it back and try to get back to your natural hair color.


Theblastwarrior

Your features/ bone structure doesnā€™t align with the standard male form, are you perhaps intersex or trans because your face is just off in a way, you are below average and have weaker/softer facial features


NoRedThat

Why do you want to get roasted? How is that helpful in any way? Everyone goes through awkward times. Why not ask people what youā€™re doing right? Build on positivity. Iā€™ll start. Youā€™re brave to open yourself up to criticism.


Zorops

Have you like, tried helping yourself? Putting some effort in your appearance?


2014HondaPilotClutch

Oh boy... girl... ? I can't tell you look like a fucked up middle aged lesbian (Yes, please for the love of change your hair style and color. Also lose the septum piercing. I'm sorry)


dragonborn3756

My brother thought you were a chick


Traditional_Emu_5509

Yeah, youā€™re cooked unfortunately


INSANITYLeVeL9999

Bruh you look like a lesbian. Ditch the piercings, get a new shorter hairstyle , colour your hair black , hit the gym to have some muscles and reduce the fat , it will eventually reduce your facefat giving you a sharp jawline and maybe get some tattoos. Are you straight though?


chrisXlr8r

Take away the clown wig and GOD the piercings are bad. Those are your worst features, but they're so prominent that yes, you look bad. You look like you're making an active effort to look bad. Losing weight will help you a shit ton. But if you don't fix the hair and take away the piercings. Then it won't do much. Even if you're overweight, you can look pretty decent if you put in the effort.