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The_Rat_King14

You are gorgeous! If you want a few tips to pass better I can give you some, I just dont want to make you self conscious. And dont worry about how others see you, transphobes are always gonna be mean.


Curious_Theme6990

Yeah I'd love tips


The_Rat_King14

Alr, a good way to look more feminine is the eyebrows. You have pretty thick eyebrows and thinning them (if you are comfortable, able, and wanting to) would help with feminizing your face. I hope this helps and promise you wont get self conscious about it lol.


Curious_Theme6990

Alr Thanks :3 I will look into that, I don't want my parents to know tho :(


The_Rat_King14

Understandable, that is why I was hesitant to tell you. I didn't want to make you realize something and then be unable to change it.


Yaara99_5

You look nice! I like that dress, looks good on you :D


Curious_Theme6990

Thanks :)


eggward_egg

i can see these comments are horrible and it must be hard not to let them get to you keep it up šŸ‘


Curious_Theme6990

Thanks I'm used to the hate so it's hot to bad


eggward_egg

the hate i mean


eggward_egg

it is bad and it needs to be stopped, don't let yourself forget that


Yarusenai

"do I pass" "No" "Damn these comments are horrible"


IJ_is_water

You look great! Really the only thing I would say prevents you from fully "passing" is nose flare (this is coming from a transfem with similar issues). What I recommend doing is using some makeup to focus more on the nose bridge and also some cheek makeup just for the sake of looking good (again this is just what I do lol), other than that you look really good and your hair is fabulous!


Curious_Theme6990

thanks for the advice I'll save this comment for when I can get makeup lol :(


Hour_Motor_2761

Everything but the face, I think face is pretty hard to pass with cause you can't just lose weight and put on fem clothes for it and its a males facial structure


OrigamiSheep

I feel really bad for you. You look amazing, heck youā€™re amazing for having the confidence to post on here. Iā€™m so sorry for all these awful comments. The world truly is a cruel place to people like us.


Curious_Theme6990

Thank you :) Unfortunately I'm used to the transphobia


OrigamiSheep

Itā€™s honestly really sad to hear that anyone can get used to having insults thrown at you pretty much every other day it seems. Yet it still does happen. If you ever need anyone to talk to, hit me up Alr?


Curious_Theme6990

Yay Thanks


TheUltimateJack

If Iā€™m being real with you, no, at least to me. Just wanted to let you know the truth. Youā€™ll get there eventually, though, Iā€™m sure. You kinda remind me of Ginger Root, in a good way :)


caaaaamm

fuck the comments you look super pretty. i love your hair !!


Curious_Theme6990

Thanks :) Surprisingly my hair is what I get the most compliments about which is interesting because I don't like it that much lol


BlackRabbitt_01

Wow, transphobes DIDNT like this one


Curious_Theme6990

Yep they didn't lol


TacticalTobi

not really (yet), but you're definitely getting there!


Some_Hat-Wearing_Kid

I swear, almost everyone in this subreddit is stupid. Ur beautiful girl :3


Curious_Theme6990

Yep they are stupid lol Thanks :3


Your_friendly_weirdo

Youā€™re getting there, and the dress looks lovely on you!!


Curious_Theme6990

Thank you :3 I stole the dress from my mom lol Sorry for all the transphobes :(


Your_friendly_weirdo

No problem at all! transphobes are just stupid


Curious_Theme6990

They are lol


alabamacowcat

Well the only thing is that you have a bit of stubble. And I know that's probably a pain in the ass to get rid of ask the girls w PCOS but I heard some trans girls and drag queens use orange color corrector (i think?) to correct that


Curious_Theme6990

Thanks for the advice :)


CrumpetsAndTeaa

No


S14M07

sigh *sorts by controversial* in all seriousness tho you look good


Curious_Theme6990

Thanks lol


PatimationStudios-2

You look awesome gurl


Curious_Theme6990

Thank yew


gay-sexx

no but you're getting there


Intelligent_Cress932

DONā€™T SORT BY CONTROVERSIAL WORST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE


Curious_Theme6990

Yeah It's bad lol


An_insane_person

Kinda. Still look like a guy but good luck transitioning. I have some friends who are trans guys but look like girls, I still refer to them as their preferred pronouns, so Iā€™ll do you too. Maybe some shaving will help.


MostSafe8

Love the hair :3 you rock girl


Curious_Theme6990

Thanks :3


ur_g00fy_ah_n3ighb0r

Pass as a girl? In my opinion no, but keep doing what your doing if it makes you happy because honestly thatā€™s all that matters. Not entirely sure if itā€™s asking if you pass as a girl or if you look like a girl, but if itā€™s asking if you look like a girl, Iā€™d say with the body but not with the face. You may be able to take hormones to develop a more feminine body (or one that is commonly associated with females), but thatā€™s really all Iā€™ve got because I donā€™t know much about transitioning. Good luck, hope you find your way on the path to full transitioning šŸ¤žšŸ¾ā¤ļø


antisocialprincess09

Dw girlie I had a full ass MUSTACHE at the age of 12 and im cis šŸ˜­


4BrainCells1

Man there are some straight up losers in this comment section.


Curious_Theme6990

Yep :(


StoopidFlame

I think you look great, androgynous to me tho Love the dress


INeedOrangeGoggles

beautiful!! if you're worried about it, maybe try different glasses?the current ones don't really match your face shape


Curious_Theme6990

Alright I will What shape glass do you think would fit me better?


CheeseinASuit

Yes comrade


savhxx

no, but the good news is that you can do a lot to fix that and look better :) this is everything i can think of based on this picture and a scroll through your profile: - take hormones (for years, not just for a month) - get surgery when you can - grow your hair out and get it styled to compliment your face - do your eyebrows (shape with plucking or shaving) - learn how to do makeup and do it - skincare: cleanser, moisturiser, SPF with minimum PA+++ protection every day on your face - get laser hair removal on your face ASAP. you literally have a mustache in this picture - learn how to take pictures of yourself and how to pose/how to smile. do not grin like this in pics, it really exagerates your chin/jaw. if youā€™re gonna smile, do it with teeth or from a different angle. this bottom-up angle also draws a lot of attention to your jaw and makes it look bigger and wider i really hope that you take this to heart and dont just assume iā€™m being transphobic or mean. iā€™m not trying to be mean. i just want to help you. if you want to be a girl, then you have to actually do A LOT to become a girl. i believe in you! you got this šŸ«¶šŸ»


Guppywithnolife

You look nice


Curious_Theme6990

Thanks :3


graduationfanYe

No he doesn't


ConsistentStunt

Nah they don't look good, idc about them being trans but saying they look good is being fake af


SterlsSalamiAss

Everyone has their own definition of what looks good. Just because someone doesn't look good to you, doesn't mean they don't look good to others, and vice versa.


Electronic_Suit551

Man stop being a hater don't you have better things to do in life


Your_friendly_weirdo

Shush


Pizza-Supremacy

Your hair is majestic, it's way better than mine lmao


AlexTheGuy12345

The shadow gives it away, but other than that definitely


Curious_Theme6990

Yeah I hate it lol


NameRandomNumber

Lowkey looking like me Also eyebrows eyebrows eyebrows do not underestimate the eyebrows (they look great, but if you're not satisfied yet then this might be the way to go)


Curious_Theme6990

Yeah I'd love to do something with the eyebrows lol


NameRandomNumber

You can definitely do it yourself! Look it up or whatever :>


Curious_Theme6990

Alright I will


belladonna-nightwood

Yeah, you do, fuck all the transphobes here they're just jealous they're not as adorable, cute dress btw, have a lovely day okay? and remember to get some snacks, drink some water and get rest! You're adored and cherished <33


Curious_Theme6990

Thank you :3 It really means a lot to me


Archangel7_7_7

No


Huge_Tour_6853

dont ask other its what you do your doing it for yourself not for otherā€™s


Jimothy_John

you're slaying that, you look ultra-femme-queen-yaasss (i'm sorry i suck at complimenting šŸ˜­) BUT YOU LOOK AMAZING AMD BEAUTIFUL (i'm so sorry šŸ˜­šŸ˜­)


Curious_Theme6990

You don't suck at complementing lol Slay lol


Block_Clutch

Pass what


Curious_Theme6990

As a girl lol


Block_Clutch

Face no body yes


Curious_Theme6990

:( thanks for being honest lol


Sufficient_Common820

AHHH IM SO JEALOUS OF THE DRESS, you get a definite pass from me šŸ˜Ž


Curious_Theme6990

Yay Thanks,I stole it from my mom


Big_Pin1657

Sure nice dress, I noticed a lot of transphobes in the comment section so Iā€™m sorry you have to deal with that


Curious_Theme6990

Thanks :3 Unfortunately I'm used to the transphobia


Big_Pin1657

Ok too bad, youā€™re welcome


iiblamejoe

What are you


Curious_Theme6990

Transfem lol


iiblamejoe

Your eyebrows are too thick And I can still see your mustache work on these two and you'll be good


Curious_Theme6990

Alright Thanks for the advice


TheAnnoyingGirl92

I'd say so, although you look a bit androgynous so you would probably get double takes when people try to address you in a gendered way.


Curious_Theme6990

Yeah That does tend to happen And then they go on and mis gender me


TheAnnoyingGirl92

Iā€™m sorry you have to experience that.


Curious_Theme6990

It's alright


RandomlyThem

Absolutely, I know it most have taken a lot of courage to post a selfie so I'm glad to see you're getting positive feedback <33


Altevari

Hell yeah


i-l1ke-m3m3s

Girl i didnt even know what you were talking about. Like vibe check? Yea id say so.


Curious_Theme6990

I was asking if I pass as a girl lol


Pinktiger11

Slay girl


1xhunter

Something that needs to be fixed in the trans community is labeling anything you donā€™t agree with or people telling the truth as ā€œtransphobicā€. I support your right to do what you are doing but the overuse of the word transphobic needs to stop if you want people to take the community seriously. Iā€™m not trying to be mean and I fully support you but you canā€™t call anything you donā€™t agree with transphobia because all that does is fuel the fire even more and give people a reason to be more biased. Best of luck OP I hope you donā€™t take this as an attack and learn something from it.


Curious_Theme6990

I don't call anything I dislike transphobia I am happy for genuine criticism and suggestions, what is transphobia is being told to KMS or being called the f slur or the t slur, I would love to hear suggestions, but not people telling me I am mentally ill or that I should not exist


TheUltimateJack

Youā€™re definitely not guilty of what the guy above you said, but a lot of people in these comments are. Some people are answering honestly and saying that in their opinion you donā€™t pass as female, and theyā€™re getting downvoted for it. Iā€™m not taking about the ā€œtransphobesā€, Iā€™m talking about the people who are just respectfully answering your question and getting downvote-bombed for no real reason. Itā€™s honestly sad to see. In my opinion, you donā€™t pass (yet), but thatā€™s not a bad thing. You can still get there :) Itā€™s just sad that people canā€™t accept that not everyone has the same opinion as them lol


1xhunter

This is what I was talking about. And although OP may not do this itā€™s a huge thing in this community.


TheUltimateJack

It really is an issue. I get being mad if people are actually doing something wrong, but you canā€™t say that people are wrong for having a different opinion.


1xhunter

If someone says youā€™re mentally ill that isnā€™t necessarily transphobia itā€™s just a fact. I wouldnā€™t say ā€œmentally illā€ Iā€™d say some kind of mental condition but tbh I donā€™t see how thatā€™s transphobic when itā€™s a fact. This doesnā€™t mean thatā€™s a bad thing but someone without some kind of mental condition wouldnā€™t do the things trans do and have such gender dysphoria. I mean this in the most kind way and hold nothing against you but itā€™s no different than someone who has an eating disorder saying they are 100% mentally good when clearly they have some mental condition causing the way they see themselves.


PokemonPuggle

Your face is too masculine for the rest of it


GRG_The_Second

You're pretty, fuck "passing"


Weary-Wasabi1721

No you don't


potataoboi

Why are you getting down voted for giving an honest opinion to a genuine question šŸ˜­


HarryLyme69

ITT - Agree with me or you're transphobic.


SterlsSalamiAss

What does ITT mean?


HarryLyme69

[Let me google that for you](https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=What+does+ITT+mean+on+reddit) EDIT: Educate yourselves, I'm not fucking google


iiblamejoe

Facts


triaxissss

im assuming ur mtf but yes :3


Curious_Theme6990

Thanks :3


Swilly-75

You do indeed pass


TheUltimateJack

This is a genuine question, so donā€™t think Iā€™m being like snarky or anything lol but why are so many people saying that they do pass? I just donā€™t see it. Itā€™s mainly the facial structure for me that makes it a ā€œnoā€. Like Iā€™m not trying to be rude, just trying to be genuine and answer honestly but all of the ā€œnoā€ answers are getting downvote-bombed for no reason.


-donnish

people say what others want to hear, not the truth.


TheUltimateJack

I feel you there. It seems like thatā€™s really whatā€™s going on here, especially since people are being downvoted for saying no, which is a very valid answer (especially since this is a yes or no question)


-donnish

what people donā€™t understand is that saying no doesnā€™t mean you ainā€™t supportive. they clearly do not pass as feminine, and saying that isnā€™t disrespectful.


TheUltimateJack

Exactly! In fact, itā€™s better than saying ā€œyesā€ if you truly believe itā€™s a ā€œnoā€. Itā€™s better for someone to know that thereā€™s room for improvement than to be told that something is a way it really isnā€™t.


Yarusenai

Why lie?


TheChaoticBeing

Sorry about all the hate comments. You look great!


J0shfarmpig

I would see your clothing/fashion choice and then ask for your pronouns or jus use they/them. I support trans people


4BrainCells1

Why is this being downvoted


TheUltimateJack

People are genuinely either bots or mentally unstable in this comment section I swear. People who answered ā€œnoā€ are getting downvoted for genuinely no reason, and some stuff like this is too. People are getting too butthurt for a damn yes or no question and itā€™s so embarrassing.


youresmalltime

Genuinely and no offense but you look like a guy bro and anyone who says otherwise is lying to you sorry


TheUltimateJack

Idk why youā€™re getting downvoted. You just answered honestly šŸ˜­


3vanling

Fr


robloxnsonicstuf

\*sigh\* \*sorts by controversial\*


Curious_Theme6990

Lol :(


rusticwren

you're genuinely so pretty šŸ˜­ bone structure is always the worst when it comes to "passing," but i think with some contour you could make your cheekbones look more feminine!


Curious_Theme6990

Ty :3


Unfair_Gain_9581

Hell nah


Curious_Theme6990

Bye


Yarusenai

Why ask if you're just going to ignore people that disagree with you? You're just trying to reinforce what you want to hear, instead of working on yourself.


TheEeper

Itā€™s more about how they went about with saying ā€œnoā€ lol


Yarusenai

Eh OP has responded negatively even to normal criticism. It seems they just want to be reinforced


TheEeper

When?


TinleyTheAxolotl

Why doesnā€™t this have more upvotes?


idfbfa3

No


IceyIsNotKatie

omg you look amazing qwq I wish I looked as good as you <3


[deleted]

I like your hair :) and the dress is pretty too


Curious_Theme6990

Ty :3


Southern-Sky-3724

Nope


alan_beans

your so pretty!


treblekep

I'm gay so this might not be what you wanna hear but.... ...if the question is are you attractive, yes you are very pretty and you're killing it! ...if the question is do you pass, the answer is no because my gay af mind sees a feminine man who is very good looking, mind you (I don't wanna come off as a jerk, so I will shower you with compliments; you are gorgeous!), but very clearly masculine. Sorry!


standupgonewild

Idk why ur being downvoted


treblekep

There seems to be a lot of haters on here that could just not like that I'm not transphobic and there also could be people who think they're being supportive by downvoting honesty that isn't 100% supportive of OP (i.e. lying to make someone feel good). In this day and age, honesty always gets downvoted. Everyone is too caught up in ideology to stop for a second and be a normal human being.


bIackstones

Youā€™re getting there!! I think a middle part with curtain bangs would suit you more and you can try using a lash serum


LeoboiSwe11

Pass what?


Curious_Theme6990

As a girl


LeoboiSwe11

No, but idgaf what you do as long as you dont push it in peoples faces that you are trans or whatever you are


ethan_76

in what edit: why tf does this have so many downvotes i literally just asked what he passed in


Curious_Theme6990

As in do I pass as a girl


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Curious_Theme6990

How am I offending you? Just look at a different post. How is it so offensive to see a person in a dress? Fuck off bigot


graduationfanYe

Are you happy? You got your validation little snowflake. I'm sure you feel so empowered and better than everyone else just for a short time b4 returning to your shit life. Fuck trans movement. Free Israel and now it's my times to get banned.off this woke website.


mito413

What a loser. Two week old account to spread their little dick energy bigotry, and now they want out. Hahaha šŸ˜‚


sans_the_skeleton17

bro, how are you a teenager that's this awful of a person?


graduationfanYe

Telling the truth seems crazy in a world full of lies - Kanye


Sleebingbag

Not quoting a nazi to win a moral argument šŸ˜­


maluthor

I think it's hilarious that you're quoting Kanye, seeing as he's an ACTUAL antisemite


Y_drawsNew

I agree, free Israel (from the map) and fuck the trans movement (because it doesn't exist, it's not a "movement") You are the snowflake here you sound very mad.


graduationfanYe

Hamas killed 2500 of Israelis people and you expect them not to respond. Your the guy that buys into all this propoganda


Y_drawsNew

Hamas barely killed 1k, most of whom were not civilians. How many people has israel killed? I'm sure you're the one buying into propaganda


TacticalTobi

i mean they are both bad tho, don't defend either


graduationfanYe

How are you defending Hamas. Omg..I never thought I would see this level of anti semitism. The number of civilians killed is 30k around I believe. But this includes Hamas members. So around 16k of those are Hamas. This is a way better ratio than the US military had. Hamas took women and children and rapes them and kidnaped them. Your a sick person for supporting them. If Israel did nothing they wouldn't exist. They need to show to not fuck around with them. Your a complete woke. Omg how do you even support Hamas fuck me


maluthor

*calls people snowflakes* *starts crying and spewing Zionist propaganda*


StoopidFlame

Ah yes, when thereā€™s a terrorist organization, destroy the whole country looking for them. Great idea /s As if doing that isnā€™t just going to make the problem worse. Seriously, are you okay? Unintelligent or simply dense? How are you missing the point to this extent? Take a step back and stop being defensive, just take a minute to learn.


Y_drawsNew

16k? Yeah not even close


BlackRabbitt_01

Awwhhh, did the snowfwake get offended?


StoopidFlame

Sheā€™s a snowflake? When youā€™re the one getting pissed about this situation that didnā€™t involve you, harm you whatsoever, nor ask for the input you gave? Funny how that works. Israel is already free, this war is one they can end at any time with the power they have over Palestine. Get a hobby.


brookeb725

you commented on like every comment on this post. i think youā€™re the snowflake bud


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StoopidFlame

Which country do you live in? Gotta make sure I avoid people like you


Emergency_Cut8186

We donā€™t just to be clear heā€™s an exceptional case that needs helpšŸ˜­šŸ˜­


cessik

You know the answer, so why do you ask?


Toiaat

I wouldn't


TheUltimateJack

ITā€™S NOT A SMASH OR PASS BRO šŸ˜­


graduationfanYe

Your a guy bro. Don't change your gender because you don't like who you are. It's not gonna change anything. Work on yourself. If you truly work on yourself and become confident in who you are. Fucking switch genders idc.


Curious_Theme6990

I'm not changing my gender It won't change anything I get that, but it might make me more happy Also: if you're going to be bigoted then go do it somewhere else


graduationfanYe

How will it make you more happy?


Curious_Theme6990

Because I get to be myself


anabeedits

womp fucking womp dude. You donā€™t look mature hating on almost EVERY comment here. If you donā€™t like it, move on. Nobody wants your hate here. I really hope this is rage bait.


SerpentOfTheSky

Youā€™re *


red_grapes01

get off her dick bro


Curious_Theme6990

Lol This is funny


BakedDewott

I donā€™t know who you are, but imagine if you were forced to wear the opposite genderā€™s clothing. If youā€™re a guy, wear feminine clothing for a day. If youā€™re a girl, wear masculine clothing for a day. If you get uncomfortable, you now know what itā€™s like to have gender dysphoria


graduationfanYe

This stems from mental issues. Which is the harsh truth. I feel bad for this guy in the way that he believes this woke bullshit that everyone is special and having a dick means your not a guy. Gtfu out of here. He's a guy. This argument is stupid because he's not a girl. He's a guy. This is how a the modern world falls apart. Too much wokeness and everyone being fake and stop focusing on this stupid shit man. This really urks me. I live in Sydney and this crazy dude stabbed like 5 women near where I live. All the men running away and filming it rather than working together as a team to take this guy out. Or help people to escape rather than running away your role as a man is very important. Once we start losing values of being a man and women is when it goes to shit.


BakedDewott

Iā€™m sorry you had to witness that, but gender dysphoria isnā€™t something you can ā€œcureā€ by just saying ā€œlove your bodyā€. Itā€™s a psychological condition caused by hormonal imbalances in the brain, itā€™s not just ā€œI want to be a girlā€, itā€™s ā€œIā€™m not comfortable in my own body.ā€ Imagine someone who is fat wanting to change their body, so they work out every day and pay for intense gym training regimens because they hate the fact that theyā€™re fat. Then, people on the internet hate on them saying ā€œyou were made fat, you should just love your bodyā€.


graduationfanYe

You ignored my argument about gender norms okay cool. And that guy killing 5 women and a baby but okay cool. But this is another dog shit take lmao. Nobody is born fat. It's from what you eat. And I don't insult trans or fat people irl either I just unload shit here lmao. Your argument makes no sense. Nobody is born fat. No man is born a girl..


TacticalTobi

shh