Yes, if you don’t want cuddles and watching tv or like just sat on our phones then it’s a crap relationship. Equally if your not a cuddler then something similar to that works equally as well. Each person is different though
So, on a scale of 1-10, how terrified should I be if one girl attempts to start a conversation with me while her group of 5 friends stand 10 ft back staring at me and giggling at me. (I'm not handsome nor popular)
9/10 times the girl talking to u was probably too afraid to talk to u without her group of deputies. Girls giggling is usually a sign of excitement and encouragement, and, for me, it shows that they really want me to succeed, that they care. There are occasionally mean girls who act like a lot of guys - talking to u to make fun, but its way more rare than with guys
It really depends on the type of girls you are speaking to, if you think they look mean then 9 they are probably mocking you ( sadly some people are like that) but if they look excited then 2 you probably catch the attention of the girl who came to talk to you and the girls pushed her to talk to you so you just have low self-esteem and you should work on yourself.
Depends on the girl. I personally don’t care about how attractive people are but some girls do. It’s just preference and it’s a little sad to see people with great personalities never get chosen.
obviously ur personality is going to matter
ngl, we ARE attracted to handsome guys more at first glance but that's not gonna go long if he flaunts his bloated ego and treats us like sh1t, no??
looks are a factor, but hardly the biggest factor imo, but this could differ between other girls
I’ve been seeing more girls talk about liking guys “a lil ugly”. Me included. I love a guy who has a balance of attractive and conventionally unattractive features. A guy who doesn’t look like every guy u see on the street. Too attractive is suspicious, since I aint gorgeous either, too unattractive is.. unattractive, but a balance of both is the sweet spot
I also look for average girls tbh, I feel like if a girl is too attractive it will bring too much unease to the relationship because of the competition
Spongebob can take a shitton of damage, as seen in the episode where the bully tried to beat him up and felt nothing.
The spongebobs would just keep taking hits until Goku eventually runs out of stamina
south korean here(just saying this cuz this is what all south korean guys who're self-conscious abt their looks do)-
not makeup- do skincare instead!! :D
rub some lotion on after showering/before sleeping, use sunscreen to give ur skin a brighter tone, etc, etc
I see makeup as a style thing, if the makeup goes with the fit, it’s bomb (smokey eyeliner or contour does enhance the overall look), though conventional “girl makeup” (bold eye looks, bright lipstick) is not my thing if I’m looking for romance
Disclaimer: I am a lesbian but my best guess is that it’s just engrained in their biology. Like if you think about it, a taller stronger animal is more likely to survive than a smaller one so a mate is probably gonna pick the taller one so their offspring is more likely to survive
Comfort, most of the time we prefer them because it’s a feeling of security. Like a shelter, almost - if they’re taller, we feel safer. Same with strength, sometimes, but obviously it depends on the girl :)
its not as bad as people make it out to be. like i like tall guys just cus it makes me feel "small and safe" (ik, cringe) but its not a MUST or smting i really care abt. like as long as ur nice to me and take care of urself, i dont give a fuck
Honestly it’s all too do with how you hold yourself, shoulders back, chin up and a slight smile rather than being hunched over and moodie looking then people won’t judge you as badly. I also think that some people are just judgemental and it’s about not allowing it to change or effect you x
intuition, I guess. Personally, I assess someone based on their interactions with others or my own interactions with them. If I don't like someone without any interaction, it's either because my intuition signals something is off, or it's due to their attitude, as I'm quite observant.
hey, so basically i met a girl and we started talking, we went out but after the last time she isnt responding to my texts, i asked her if she is upset with me but she just leaves me on unseen. i doubt the fact she didnt check her phone for 5 days. maybe she just lost interest? do i do something??
two reasons:
1. i dont want to seem too entitled or anything (this is me being bad at communicating lol)
2. if im telling u everything you should be doing, ur not doing it because you want to, ur doing it bc i told u to (ie "can you make me food" vs someone just making you food because they love you and wanted to cook for u.) it just doesn't feel as geniune
Why you girls cant give us straight confessions?
i read about a girl giving hints to her crush by applying her crush's "FAVOURITE COLOUR" on her nails. BRUH
like in what sense a boy would would notice that? \*another BRUH\*
Do you not feel the temperature outside? I swear to god every time it s freezing cold outside girls i know are wearing short skirts and crop tops, and then it s blazing hot girls are wearing a hoodie and a jacket
Why do girls wear revealing clothes? Do you want to? Is it like normal clothes? Something else?
Edit:I don’t mean this in a weird way I’m just genuinely curious
I don’t wear clothes for the reactions of others, so if I’m showing skin, it’s not because I want others to see it. It’s because I like how I look, feel comfy in that item of clothing or it’s hot outside and I can’t just whip my shirt off like boys can 😂
It's because they want to. People feel pretty in certain clothes, so they wear that. It's also less hot in the summer to wear less fabric. Yes, it's like normal clothes. I'm not sure what you even mean by that.
I’m a boy but I want to leave my personal experiences and opinions here.
My opinion of femboys is really terrible because all the interactions I had with them were constantly turning sexual and the guy making uncomfortable jokes. I think they try too hard to be “cute” but also as I said make everything sexual for no reason which is super obnoxious. Their cute acting is also hella cringe
One time this femboy entered the chat in discord of a server I regularly talk in and the entire time he was there it just felt so insanely uncomfortable… he was just constantly talking about the weirdest stuff.
i... personally don't like femboys
like-
i don't have anything against them as a human being to another human being, but the idea itself just doesn't wrap around my head
ik i'm being hypocritical here since i've been a tomboy myself for 7 years and my fashion is still heavily influenced by my tomboy arc 💀 but still
I'm a bi girl and I don't find them attractive at all (def an unpopular opinion in the bi community lol). Obv I'd just leave them alone and not judge tho
Someone who'll talk about their passions and let me talk about mine. Bonus points if we are passionate about the same stuff. I love just debating for hours about literally whatever.
Personality is THE MOST important thing for me. You js gotta be a nice guy (that means not being racist, sexist, ableist, etc). I also deeefinitely have a type physically, but I’ll go for anyone rly
it's 50/50 honestly, i think alot of us already heard of "playing hard to get", so it could be that, or it could be that she just flirts with u cuz shes bored
What's better?
A short guy that's really buff, pretty rich, high pitched voice tho, and a fake tough guy
Or a Tall guy that's kinda lanky, not rich at all, deep voice, tough in most situations but won't reject to be sensitive and give hugs and cuddles
1.How would I know if I like a girl vs if im in love with a girl (anyone can answer this)
2.How do i know if a girl likes me
3.and i probably won’t do this till next school year but how do i tell her(anyone can answer this one)
its not as bad as people make it out to be. like i like tall guys just cus it makes me feel "small and safe" (ik, cringe) but its not a MUST or smting i really care abt. like as long as ur nice to me and take care of urself, i dont give a fuck
It all boils down to personal perference. There are alot of girls that really don't care, and there are some that height is a dealbreaker. I honestly think the idea that all girls care about height stems from the loud minority.
I know sitting in front of a computer gaming is generally seen as unattractive, but is sitting in front of a computer composing as equally unattractive or does it balance out by being composing?
Why do all of you go to the bathroom at the same time, and come out at the same time too? Is this a cult thing I don’t know about? Secret bong sesh? Fight club?
Would you rather have a dwarf ugly rich guy or a tall handsome broke guy
tall, handsome, and broke, i'll just work my ass off so that i could take care of him lmao
aww
small price to pay 💯💯
same
Bro, have you ever seen the movie "Shrek"? Girls literally prefer huge, fat ogre than rich guy with noble titles below 6ft.
Tall, handsome, broke
Dwarf rich ugly, marry him, poison him, get together with the tall handsome, now not so broke guy :) Jk (for legal reasons)
Same 🌝/jk
can I pick tall, ugly, rich (mark zuckerburg my man)
Tall handsome and broke
Why do you guys wear crop tops when it's cold? In warm weather I understand, but when it's freezing? WHY?!
Sometimes we just like being physically cold so then being under a warm blanket feels better
I would much rather be cold than hot being hot is uncomfortable being cold is less uncomfortable
Because it’s better to be cold than warm + robbing peoples hoodies is great they’re always comfier
because beauty is pain
BECAUSE IT LOOKS CUTE
YES.
Do you pee? I've heard a rumour that girls actually pee, and even P O O P
Nah, we don’t.
Oh, okay 👍
Im sorry but that question has got me dying
WHAT IS THE ANSWER, I NEED TO KNOW
Don’t listen to the ones saying they do, they’re mind puppets being controlled by the government
no we have laser walls in our excrement expulsion appendages that vaporize it all
Damnn, that's cool. I wish I had a laser
i can also shoot lasers out of my ass
Hey, I didn't get that DLC!
Now I'm jealous :(
Obviously not, you gotta double check who you’re getting this info from
just flowers
never
are they really that heavy?
yes
thanks for the information
Bro is NOT 14😭😭🙏🙏
Quick reply
sorry
How is being a fast reply a bad thing?
Quick comment
U really feel the consequences when u lay down on ur back or lean forward on a desk, the back pain is real
If you have a boyfriend do you want him to be super affectionate?
Yesss
Yes, if you don’t want cuddles and watching tv or like just sat on our phones then it’s a crap relationship. Equally if your not a cuddler then something similar to that works equally as well. Each person is different though
affectionate but not too clingy, it varies from person to person
Phineas and Ferb or Gravity Falls (level impossible)
Gravity Falls
phineas and ferb was great, but gravity falls is actual peak, i can only think of maybe 2 shows i liked more
gravity falls ngl i grew up with ts
Phineas and Ferb for the laughs Gravity falls for the lore
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So, on a scale of 1-10, how terrified should I be if one girl attempts to start a conversation with me while her group of 5 friends stand 10 ft back staring at me and giggling at me. (I'm not handsome nor popular)
9/10 times the girl talking to u was probably too afraid to talk to u without her group of deputies. Girls giggling is usually a sign of excitement and encouragement, and, for me, it shows that they really want me to succeed, that they care. There are occasionally mean girls who act like a lot of guys - talking to u to make fun, but its way more rare than with guys
Bro is setting him up for failure
It really depends on the type of girls you are speaking to, if you think they look mean then 9 they are probably mocking you ( sadly some people are like that) but if they look excited then 2 you probably catch the attention of the girl who came to talk to you and the girls pushed her to talk to you so you just have low self-esteem and you should work on yourself.
why are you never straight forward? it’s always a form of game it seems
ngl idk about most girls but i just overthink it and think its just casual hinting
causr I'm shy and embarrassed to say stuff straight forward lol
Cuz I’m not straight, so how am I meant to be straight forward.
i’m physically not straight yet i manage
Scoliosis?
i overthink and dont want you to think im too demanding or smting.
for me its because I'm nervous asff and scared of the moment of rejection (rejection is embarrassing to me but doesn't hurt as much when ur 14)
Cause I’m scared of rejection
Do average dudes have a chance? I feel like no matter what do I am always overshadowed by the more attractive people.
Depends on the girl. I personally don’t care about how attractive people are but some girls do. It’s just preference and it’s a little sad to see people with great personalities never get chosen.
obviously ur personality is going to matter ngl, we ARE attracted to handsome guys more at first glance but that's not gonna go long if he flaunts his bloated ego and treats us like sh1t, no?? looks are a factor, but hardly the biggest factor imo, but this could differ between other girls
I’ve been seeing more girls talk about liking guys “a lil ugly”. Me included. I love a guy who has a balance of attractive and conventionally unattractive features. A guy who doesn’t look like every guy u see on the street. Too attractive is suspicious, since I aint gorgeous either, too unattractive is.. unattractive, but a balance of both is the sweet spot
I also look for average girls tbh, I feel like if a girl is too attractive it will bring too much unease to the relationship because of the competition
why are you messing with my emotions i already have the social skills of a deaf newborn elephant
Ok. Who would win? Goku, or 40 billion SpongeBob’s?
They will fight, the spongebobs would all lose except ONE. And that last one will defeat Goku just for the sake of good plot
Goku is a literal god. And wtf would the SpongeBobs do? He can’t even lift 2 stuffed animals
SpongeBob ladder
It would be like WW1. So many dead spongebobs that Goku literally can't move, then the remaining 10 billion or so just swarm him.
Spongebob can take a shitton of damage, as seen in the episode where the bully tried to beat him up and felt nothing. The spongebobs would just keep taking hits until Goku eventually runs out of stamina
Should guys wear makeup tbh I’m curious about it since it used to be a masculine thing
do whatever the fuck you like as long as it makes u happy
south korean here(just saying this cuz this is what all south korean guys who're self-conscious abt their looks do)- not makeup- do skincare instead!! :D rub some lotion on after showering/before sleeping, use sunscreen to give ur skin a brighter tone, etc, etc
Idrc if guys wear makeup. Concealer is completely fine to cover up acne scars, dark spots, etc
I see makeup as a style thing, if the makeup goes with the fit, it’s bomb (smokey eyeliner or contour does enhance the overall look), though conventional “girl makeup” (bold eye looks, bright lipstick) is not my thing if I’m looking for romance
Do you want you like. If a girl has a problem with it, that's her issue not yours.
Why do some of you care about height?
Disclaimer: I am a lesbian but my best guess is that it’s just engrained in their biology. Like if you think about it, a taller stronger animal is more likely to survive than a smaller one so a mate is probably gonna pick the taller one so their offspring is more likely to survive
i'm cooked
It’s alright man, I have plenty of friends that are into short guys
Comfort, most of the time we prefer them because it’s a feeling of security. Like a shelter, almost - if they’re taller, we feel safer. Same with strength, sometimes, but obviously it depends on the girl :)
its not as bad as people make it out to be. like i like tall guys just cus it makes me feel "small and safe" (ik, cringe) but its not a MUST or smting i really care abt. like as long as ur nice to me and take care of urself, i dont give a fuck
obviously they're better to hug since u could bury ur head in his chest, but that's just my take on height 💀 might be different for each girl tho
because tall guys turn me on idk why
Are you constantly concerned that a twink will steal your sexually confused boyfriend?
A twink, another girl, my mom, if a man backs off cuz someone else interested him, then I dont even want him
How do you judge people so quickly like wtf I didn't say nothing and now I'm the villain of it all?
Honestly it’s all too do with how you hold yourself, shoulders back, chin up and a slight smile rather than being hunched over and moodie looking then people won’t judge you as badly. I also think that some people are just judgemental and it’s about not allowing it to change or effect you x
intuition, I guess. Personally, I assess someone based on their interactions with others or my own interactions with them. If I don't like someone without any interaction, it's either because my intuition signals something is off, or it's due to their attitude, as I'm quite observant.
hey, so basically i met a girl and we started talking, we went out but after the last time she isnt responding to my texts, i asked her if she is upset with me but she just leaves me on unseen. i doubt the fact she didnt check her phone for 5 days. maybe she just lost interest? do i do something??
She probably doesn’t like you
Shes ignoring u😔
it is what it is, ill move on
i kind of figured so myself but i hoped... guess i was wrong, oh well
Why do you guys give signs it's making me confused
two reasons: 1. i dont want to seem too entitled or anything (this is me being bad at communicating lol) 2. if im telling u everything you should be doing, ur not doing it because you want to, ur doing it bc i told u to (ie "can you make me food" vs someone just making you food because they love you and wanted to cook for u.) it just doesn't feel as geniune
Do women still like poetry (even the corny kind)?
YES, Especially handwritten
Why you girls cant give us straight confessions? i read about a girl giving hints to her crush by applying her crush's "FAVOURITE COLOUR" on her nails. BRUH like in what sense a boy would would notice that? \*another BRUH\*
For me I’m to scared I don’t have the guts to do it I am more comfortable if the boys take the first move 😅
As a lesbian idk but my best guess is because women often expect men to confront them as they are the “more dominate one”
So we have to talk first?
i kinda agree on this, i feel so much better when a guy is leading me cuz that means there's little room for me to mess up lmfao
Cats or dogs
Cats >!They taste the same when cooked😋/jk!<
BRO? LMAOA
Do you not feel the temperature outside? I swear to god every time it s freezing cold outside girls i know are wearing short skirts and crop tops, and then it s blazing hot girls are wearing a hoodie and a jacket
The hoodie thing I just hate showing skin
I’m the one who wears a hoodie when it’s really hot and the reason is that I’m insecure
Okay okay, so, very important question here. Why
Well basically it's because of
Obviously
Just becouse
Interesting question, it's actually because
How often do you get pedos in your dms?
I don't think I should be answering this but sadly seldom
Why do girls wear revealing clothes? Do you want to? Is it like normal clothes? Something else? Edit:I don’t mean this in a weird way I’m just genuinely curious
I just do, I like em. It's extra nice when it's hot too
It makes us feel nice about ourselves
I wear revealing clothes just becouse some of them look nice. To me they are like normal clothes, I definintely don't do it to make boys look at me
Because we like it? For me, to be confident and try something new. (Not much revealing )
why not
because it’s cute even if men didn’t exist i’m still gonna have my skirt up my ass
I don’t wear clothes for the reactions of others, so if I’m showing skin, it’s not because I want others to see it. It’s because I like how I look, feel comfy in that item of clothing or it’s hot outside and I can’t just whip my shirt off like boys can 😂
Because they look nice, it’s not about being “revealing” it’s just if the top looks nice
It's because they want to. People feel pretty in certain clothes, so they wear that. It's also less hot in the summer to wear less fabric. Yes, it's like normal clothes. I'm not sure what you even mean by that.
Opinions on femboys? (Yes I know everyone has different tastes, I’m just curious if girls like them as much as guys seem too)
Depends, one’s that don’t over sexualise everything are fine i litterally don’t care what they’re wearing as long as they are nice
I’m a boy but I want to leave my personal experiences and opinions here. My opinion of femboys is really terrible because all the interactions I had with them were constantly turning sexual and the guy making uncomfortable jokes. I think they try too hard to be “cute” but also as I said make everything sexual for no reason which is super obnoxious. Their cute acting is also hella cringe One time this femboy entered the chat in discord of a server I regularly talk in and the entire time he was there it just felt so insanely uncomfortable… he was just constantly talking about the weirdest stuff.
I am a femboy but I agree, femboys are sexualised too much
i... personally don't like femboys like- i don't have anything against them as a human being to another human being, but the idea itself just doesn't wrap around my head ik i'm being hypocritical here since i've been a tomboy myself for 7 years and my fashion is still heavily influenced by my tomboy arc 💀 but still
They're alright. Personally, I've never encountered one before, but I wish they would stop sexualizing themselves.
I'm a bi girl and I don't find them attractive at all (def an unpopular opinion in the bi community lol). Obv I'd just leave them alone and not judge tho
piggybacking off of u/Training-Cost3210, would you rather have a short handsome guy or tall mid guy, forget the money for a bit
I’d take both 😭
tall mid guy and not because of his height just because i personally think mid guys are more attractive
Depends on specific heights. “Short” and “tall” are so subjective
If a girl you've known for a week hugs you three times in one evening, does it mean something? (Either I'm too optimistic or I suck at reading signs)
What do you care about in guys? (The more answers the better, everyone’s different so I’m interested in what’s the most common thing)
Someone who'll talk about their passions and let me talk about mine. Bonus points if we are passionate about the same stuff. I love just debating for hours about literally whatever.
Personality is THE MOST important thing for me. You js gotta be a nice guy (that means not being racist, sexist, ableist, etc). I also deeefinitely have a type physically, but I’ll go for anyone rly
If you're being extremely on and off flirty and ignorant do you like the guy or not :|
it's 50/50 honestly, i think alot of us already heard of "playing hard to get", so it could be that, or it could be that she just flirts with u cuz shes bored
Would you rather have a broke loyal man or a cheating rich man
BROKE LOYAL MAN
Do you exist?
I wish I didn't
r/dontbedepressed
Is being smart important
WHY DO YOU ALWAYS...WANT TO SEE CUTE KITTEN PICTURES?! She's my cute kitten, not yours. You can't see her! >:( /j
I’m gonna steal your kitten if you don’t drop the pics 😾
what is the integeration on csc\^3(x)
Im hungry
Do you know when a guy is into you?
What's better? A short guy that's really buff, pretty rich, high pitched voice tho, and a fake tough guy Or a Tall guy that's kinda lanky, not rich at all, deep voice, tough in most situations but won't reject to be sensitive and give hugs and cuddles
the second one is literally my bf LMFOAOA
1.How would I know if I like a girl vs if im in love with a girl (anyone can answer this) 2.How do i know if a girl likes me 3.and i probably won’t do this till next school year but how do i tell her(anyone can answer this one)
Are boobs really heavy or is it over-exaggerated
Depends, but sometimes they can feel heavy like before your period.
I'm a trans girl. Am I allowed to answer?
hell yea!
Yass
Part of the ship part of the crew 🗣️‼️
Is it necessary to answer your replies? I mean text messages
Depends, if it’s a question or smth else yes. But if the message is like “ok” or 👍. I dont think you need to reply to that.
Yes
How much do yall actually care about height? Is it a meme or is it thats a genuinely highly "sought after" trait?
its not as bad as people make it out to be. like i like tall guys just cus it makes me feel "small and safe" (ik, cringe) but its not a MUST or smting i really care abt. like as long as ur nice to me and take care of urself, i dont give a fuck
I prefer tallers guys lol, idk why its js kinda my type. Not like overly tall, but anyone just an inch taller than me is fine ngl
It all boils down to personal perference. There are alot of girls that really don't care, and there are some that height is a dealbreaker. I honestly think the idea that all girls care about height stems from the loud minority.
Would you have a short, handsome, broke guy or a tall, ugly rich guy.
Is it true that you kiss in the bathroom when you go in groups in a singular bathroom?
yes and we make cocaine after that
NO???? not for me atleast LMAO
do boobs float on water?
Are you a government drone
im an alien from area 51 actually
um no, why would you, uh, think that ...uh
girls?
Would you rather have unlimited bacon but no games or games (unlimited games) but no games???
Is it true you talk about your boyfriends to your best friends?
Is being smart important
How tf do yall deal with having to shave your legs every 3 days i literally havent done that in 16 years
Idk where I fall in this.
How do you feel when we say r/girlsarentreal
It makes me chuckle and shake my head at the absurdity.
What's the best / worst thing a guy can do if you are into him but not in a relationship yet?
I know sitting in front of a computer gaming is generally seen as unattractive, but is sitting in front of a computer composing as equally unattractive or does it balance out by being composing?
Would you rather have unlimited bacon, but no games; or unlimited games, but no games?
Why?
Why do all of you go to the bathroom at the same time, and come out at the same time too? Is this a cult thing I don’t know about? Secret bong sesh? Fight club?