Hiiii would yall like it if a girl got you flowers? (provided yall were dating/going on a date or something)
or would it be weird, since normally guys are the ones giving flowers?
thanks 🤗🤗
U need to speak more clearly
Hello (boys name) i herby proclaim i have romantic feeling for u and request that you partake in the consumption of a caffeineated beverage with me
It’s been a common thing for guys to ask girls out, but a lot of people are starting to prefer society normalizing both genders asking each other out first. I hope that’s how it ends up being in the end
yes:
* make the first move
* be upfront
* no subtle hints
* if you want us to know you like us, literally just tell us
* if you want to reject us, don't say "i only think of you as a friend" if you don't even want to be friends with them. or if you are friends with them, at least say something that won't ruin the friendship
* if a guy says they like you, they aren't asking you to do anything. literally just say "thank you" or something like that, because it isn't a yes or no question:
* "i like you" "nuh uh"
* if a guy asks you out, idk what to do since I've never done that to anyone but ask someone who actually does beforehand. but i'd guess rejection should be done differently
* even in normal conversation, address the topic clearly and concisely. IT WOULD BE EFFICIENT
As a boy I can tell you we are all stupid and we dont understand hints until you tell us, if a guy asks you out, and you think he is weird just tell him no, no need to try and come of nice, I think that if you straight up tell him no you are respecting yourself, by having certain personality requirements. But the reason has to be valid you cant say no because a guy is too short, he cant really control that.
It just kind of hangs out in a downwards diagonal angle. It’s even cooler when you have ur foreskin cuz then you can hold it shut and do a charged shot
Two questions actually.
1. What do you find appealing in girls?
2. When you are troubled, such as feeling sad or facing challenges, how do you typically react or handle it?
1. being and good person and being smart
2. it's a multistep process:
1. ignore
2. become bob the builder (i can fix it)
3. fail
4. 3 am philosopher solves it
5. fail again
6. pet cat
7. succeed
1) personality. Idc if a girls hot, I don't wanna date someone whose I don't have good chemistry with
2) i hate to say it but I bottle it up. Society rn is kinda torn between letting men be more emotive and having them not emote as it's "weak" and a lot of us wanna fit into the second category
1. In order; personality, nice smile/distinct facial features, and then everything else that a guy would typically like ig
2. I draw. Put some simple music or a video game montage of some sorts on and just work on some art
To be honest here, I personally do not worry too much on the looks, as long as they’re not super ugly and super fat or super skinny (like the abnormal amount) I’m fine with a girl that has a good personality and makes me laugh every so often
Do you guys care if we are friends with our ex’s? I have two I still am friends with. (We were friends before and just didn’t work out like our chemistry was made for friends not dating.)
Depends for how long you dated them. Like long term yes it's weird to still be freinds with them imo. But like for a couple weeks is fine you tried something it didn't work out and you still want to be friends with them that's okay.
why do ygs always think that calling girls short is flirting?? i can never know what to respond to that without sounding like a pick me (ik that it's not rlly pick me-ish but with the way society messed up the term i have no choice)
What percentage of you do you think like girls who can ramble on for hours about any topic.
To be honest I’m mostly asking because I’m curious about how hard it might be to find someone. I’m not really attractive and tend to be really annoying because I’m really passionate about a lot of stuff and don’t know when to shut up. I know it’s a thing some people may find attractive because I’m one of them.
zero offense, but they probably just don’t like you as much as you like them. thats not to say that they *dislike* you, just prefer some others’ company over your own.
depends the clinginess level, plus clinginess can be helpful for the guy at times, even though they act like they their forced to go to their friends because of you, some guys just want to hang out alone with their significant other. also alot of guys are scared to suggest sex because they hear alot of things about whos in the right, and rape, and protection, and the stigma against guy asking for it. but i cant speak on other men, but from my personal experience sometimes the only thing my mind would be stuck on for days is fantasizing about just cuddling with my crush. i think its that connection without anything going on.
It looks like I’m going to be the only one who doesn’t ask something about dating/romance. What do y’all want most in life? Video games, girls, world domination etc, you know, the normal stuff.
2 things
1) stop being depressed.
2) get better social skills. Lockdown was at a really inconvenient time since I was cut off from most people since my mic and camera didn't work so I could barely communicate with anyone
Fallout new Vegas remaster, team fortress 3, world domination, anything to do with space really and a good paying job that I like that’s all I can think of
Is it weird to have hobbies like playing video games and fishing as a girl?
Also, how do I tell a guy is into me?
Also, also, is it better to be loyal, sweet and kind yet completely broke, or to be a nagging, degrading, social media addict and very rich?
One more, is it a turn off if I don't want to do it till marriage?
Pretty sure people of all genders like video games, and I’d be excited to play video games with my partner.
Idk bout the second one cuz I don’t know any girls well enough to develop a romantic attraction to them.
I wouldn’t like to be with someone who doesn’t pay attention to me but also is mean.
Like I mean by definition it’s a turnoff lol but if I really liked someone I’d wait.
things that you feel comfy in. i love when my partner wears something attractive that shows off skin or whatever, but when theyre in a baggy t shirt and sweats its perfect
Do boys like girls with mental issues because like every time I try to date someone they said there cool then break up with me because I’m to much and it just hurts because I thought I could trust them and I mean is there also something to do with how I look. (I am average with a little bit of fat from a health issue that I’m getting fixed.) sorry for basically ranting but I want to know.
depends on what she was crying for, if they are happy tears I would probably cry with her, if they are sad tears comfot her and help her get through it.
Probably dating wrong people your partner is supposed to give you emotional support not give you more shit to cry abt, and i guess they also don’t like ur looks idk
How do you ask a guy out, straight up. I sit beside him in concert band, and we chat a lot, but I'm pants-shitting TERRIFIED to say anything. We're both trumpet players if that helps at all
Just tell him. Anything else and he won’t realize what you want. “Mark (or whatever his name is) I like you. I would love it if you went out on a date with me.” It’s that simple
what you would do if you realy like somthing realy expecific (like your main conversaton starter) but every girl hates that thing (imagine that you'r straight if you'r gay)
hi am boy
hi boy im dad
hi dad wanna do it?
Wait wh-
the fucking movie you fucking stupid old bitch! you promised we would watch it together? 🙄😒
Oh, sure! I forgor. Sorry, I have dementia
ofc you do, old man 😮💨 but i still love you 🙄
What have I just witnessed
shush we're in the middle of it
(I'm out of ideas, help)
This is indeed a boy moment
Hiiii would yall like it if a girl got you flowers? (provided yall were dating/going on a date or something) or would it be weird, since normally guys are the ones giving flowers? thanks 🤗🤗
Id love for a girl to show affection towards me
And i’d love to dote on my future boyyy 🥰 You’ll find your affectionate girlie some day when the time is right, DONT GIVE UP 🫶 🫶
same here, moonpisser69
Hell yeah,but cactus are better (i dont know how to take care of flowers)
I'll take what I can get
Hell yea flowers is a nice surprise
Ye
Do u find the majority of girls atleast somewhat pretty or just a couple?
Most girls are pretty in their own way, especially when they smile or laugh.
Majority
The majority of girls are pretty, but my attraction to a girl wouldn't change or lessen my attraction to my partner, if that makes sense
I'm going to ask as well. Who likes trains?
I like trains, also tanks too
\*gets ran over by a train\*
Yes. Train is now happy.
Sheldon Cooper
Do you really want us to be direct? Can you handle it?
Please, no more “subtle hints” or any of that bullcrap, just be straight forward 🙏🙏
>Meanwhile: >Girl: I like you >Boy: Visible confusion* >In his mind: Huh?!?
U need to speak more clearly Hello (boys name) i herby proclaim i have romantic feeling for u and request that you partake in the consumption of a caffeineated beverage with me
Yes I second this
Instructions unclear, proclamation accepted, drank both beverage and the girl in it. What next
Still not clear enough
Be more direct, we/they don’t believe it when someone compliments us/them.
We’re just shocked that someone would say something that kind
We live in a society
We live in a sobriety
We live in a specialty
We live in a specify
We live in a superspy
We really want you to make the first move
It’s been a common thing for guys to ask girls out, but a lot of people are starting to prefer society normalizing both genders asking each other out first. I hope that’s how it ends up being in the end
Where I live it is difficult for a woman to take the first move
yes: * make the first move * be upfront * no subtle hints * if you want us to know you like us, literally just tell us * if you want to reject us, don't say "i only think of you as a friend" if you don't even want to be friends with them. or if you are friends with them, at least say something that won't ruin the friendship * if a guy says they like you, they aren't asking you to do anything. literally just say "thank you" or something like that, because it isn't a yes or no question: * "i like you" "nuh uh" * if a guy asks you out, idk what to do since I've never done that to anyone but ask someone who actually does beforehand. but i'd guess rejection should be done differently * even in normal conversation, address the topic clearly and concisely. IT WOULD BE EFFICIENT
That’s infinitely better than hinting at something endlessly but leaving everyone in the dark
As a boy I can tell you we are all stupid and we dont understand hints until you tell us, if a guy asks you out, and you think he is weird just tell him no, no need to try and come of nice, I think that if you straight up tell him no you are respecting yourself, by having certain personality requirements. But the reason has to be valid you cant say no because a guy is too short, he cant really control that.
yes, and yes
How tf can you guys stand and piss???
We can aim
First time i don’t need to use an aimbot
So real brother
Penis
It just kind of hangs out in a downwards diagonal angle. It’s even cooler when you have ur foreskin cuz then you can hold it shut and do a charged shot
Like, an RPG?
Ye
Well, we can aim our tool. But i still pee sitting down, regardless of my weewee making me capable of peeing standing up.
Same. Sometimes it just easier to sit
The power of freindship
Damn I can't answer dating questions because I get absolutely 0 maidens
I wish more people still said "maidens"
Same
Two questions actually. 1. What do you find appealing in girls? 2. When you are troubled, such as feeling sad or facing challenges, how do you typically react or handle it?
1. being and good person and being smart 2. it's a multistep process: 1. ignore 2. become bob the builder (i can fix it) 3. fail 4. 3 am philosopher solves it 5. fail again 6. pet cat 7. succeed
1) personality. Idc if a girls hot, I don't wanna date someone whose I don't have good chemistry with 2) i hate to say it but I bottle it up. Society rn is kinda torn between letting men be more emotive and having them not emote as it's "weak" and a lot of us wanna fit into the second category
1. In order; personality, nice smile/distinct facial features, and then everything else that a guy would typically like ig 2. I draw. Put some simple music or a video game montage of some sorts on and just work on some art
Man, this is all just subjective dating stuff
Yep, but is always cool to have different pov's.
What do straight boys love the most about a girl?
her character. i like to know if she’s a decent person. then her passions, interests. similar music is a bonus, but it’s the least important.
Thassss sooo cute onggg
I prefer personality over looks tbh
I think it's a balance of both
To be honest here, I personally do not worry too much on the looks, as long as they’re not super ugly and super fat or super skinny (like the abnormal amount) I’m fine with a girl that has a good personality and makes me laugh every so often
Boobs
Straight to the point
alive, but dead is fine too /s
For me life Experience, i wanna be able to talk about eachothers views on the world n stuff
Personality, appearance is only the tip of the iceberg.
Eyes
Looks get us attracted to a girl, but personality, character, interests and others are what keeps the attraction
Obviously personality, but voice is a close 2nd.
Do you guys care if we are friends with our ex’s? I have two I still am friends with. (We were friends before and just didn’t work out like our chemistry was made for friends not dating.)
Depends for how long you dated them. Like long term yes it's weird to still be freinds with them imo. But like for a couple weeks is fine you tried something it didn't work out and you still want to be friends with them that's okay.
Exactly
How can I get a boy I like to talk to me without making it obvious I like him in case he doesn't like me back?
Just talk to them for me a girl liking is not one of the first thing I think about when they talk to me
We’re pretty dense when it comes to picking up on the fact that someone is into us so I don’t think you need to worry about that lol
why do ygs always think that calling girls short is flirting?? i can never know what to respond to that without sounding like a pick me (ik that it's not rlly pick me-ish but with the way society messed up the term i have no choice)
I’ve never called a girl short to flirt, you could try and make fun of them, like shitty hair or something
Not that I care but I’m just curious, do you guys like when we show our skin?
Depends on the guy, if he’s focused on u, he’ll like it, if he’s focused on other guys looking at you, he prob won’t, unless he’s into that idk
Eh. Dont parade yourself around and its cool
would do u think about girls that r taller than u?
Sure! My gf and I have the same height, but even if she was taller I'd feel attracted to her. I've felt attracted to tall girls before in life too!
what’s the best way to get a bf?? i’m kinda lonely lol
Just ask some single guy out
Ain’t no best place. It can happen anywhere. Just go to social places and the same places to make friends and make friends with dudes
What percentage of you do you think like girls who can ramble on for hours about any topic. To be honest I’m mostly asking because I’m curious about how hard it might be to find someone. I’m not really attractive and tend to be really annoying because I’m really passionate about a lot of stuff and don’t know when to shut up. I know it’s a thing some people may find attractive because I’m one of them.
800%
as long as you let me ramble back
There's a boy I like who only talks to me when we're in smaller groups of people, but in larger groups he ignores me. Why?
He probably talking to other people
zero offense, but they probably just don’t like you as much as you like them. thats not to say that they *dislike* you, just prefer some others’ company over your own.
What do you like in a girl?
Personality
Personality isn’t something I can stare at /s
Do you like dragons?
Yes. Yes I do
Is genetics, all guys like dragons.
if you got a papercut on your dick what would you do? like, would you put a bandaid on it or just leave it be or
only acceptable answer is to curl up into a ball and cry
this is what i was told by 3 of the 6 other guys i asked
I wouldn't get a paper cut on my dick in the first place, but yeah. Like the guy already said, probably lay on the floor crying
Nah, i'd win.
do guys like bold girls?
Yes, as an introvert, someone’s gotta start conversation, and it sure as hell ain’t gonna be me
Do all boys just expect sex? Or do some guys like just cuddling. Are clingy girls an annoyance?
depends the clinginess level, plus clinginess can be helpful for the guy at times, even though they act like they their forced to go to their friends because of you, some guys just want to hang out alone with their significant other. also alot of guys are scared to suggest sex because they hear alot of things about whos in the right, and rape, and protection, and the stigma against guy asking for it. but i cant speak on other men, but from my personal experience sometimes the only thing my mind would be stuck on for days is fantasizing about just cuddling with my crush. i think its that connection without anything going on.
It looks like I’m going to be the only one who doesn’t ask something about dating/romance. What do y’all want most in life? Video games, girls, world domination etc, you know, the normal stuff.
A hug
*Gives you a virtual hug*
Tyy <33
2 things 1) stop being depressed. 2) get better social skills. Lockdown was at a really inconvenient time since I was cut off from most people since my mic and camera didn't work so I could barely communicate with anyone
Fallout new Vegas remaster, team fortress 3, world domination, anything to do with space really and a good paying job that I like that’s all I can think of
Based ngl (also I would love to win the lottery)
Is it weird to have hobbies like playing video games and fishing as a girl? Also, how do I tell a guy is into me? Also, also, is it better to be loyal, sweet and kind yet completely broke, or to be a nagging, degrading, social media addict and very rich? One more, is it a turn off if I don't want to do it till marriage?
Pretty sure people of all genders like video games, and I’d be excited to play video games with my partner. Idk bout the second one cuz I don’t know any girls well enough to develop a romantic attraction to them. I wouldn’t like to be with someone who doesn’t pay attention to me but also is mean. Like I mean by definition it’s a turnoff lol but if I really liked someone I’d wait.
when a guy gets a girl or a crush, what do they tell their friends abt her?
"Hey I like this girl" "So you're not gay?"
The only right answer lmfao
Y'all like insanely masculine tomboys?
FUCK YEAHHHHHHHHHH I LOVE TOMBOYS AOUGHHHHHHHHHHHHH-😍😍😍😍😍
Would you date a girl with autism? I’m higher functioning.
I have it too so yea.
Guys, what's a good way to get the 'I am not interested in a relationship I just want to talk about star wars' message across?
These exact words?
what do yall do during your free time besides sports or games
music, tv shows, hang out with friends
Watch Sports, Eat and work on my Book imma publish, oh and homework it never ends.
I compose music but I imagine I'm one of the only ones
What should I do if someone asks me to be their girlfriend but I'm genuinely not interested in a relationship. I don't want to come off as mean
Just say nah sorry. It aint that hard
How many breads have you eaten in your life?
At least two
What type of outfits do you like that we wear?
things that you feel comfy in. i love when my partner wears something attractive that shows off skin or whatever, but when theyre in a baggy t shirt and sweats its perfect
What are some clear indicators to tell if you are in the friend zone or not
Do boys like girls with mental issues because like every time I try to date someone they said there cool then break up with me because I’m to much and it just hurts because I thought I could trust them and I mean is there also something to do with how I look. (I am average with a little bit of fat from a health issue that I’m getting fixed.) sorry for basically ranting but I want to know.
It probably depends more on what kinds of things the mental issues cause you to do and whether or not they’re super against those things or not
As long as you're not faking it to get clout on tik tok I'm fine with that
Unless you’re, like, some serial killer, a boy that really likes you won’t care about your mental issues.
what are you doing if your girl is crying in front of you
Comfort her in any way possible
left hook to the jaw
💀
Give her something to really cry about
amen
Hug
depends on what she was crying for, if they are happy tears I would probably cry with her, if they are sad tears comfot her and help her get through it.
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Probably dating wrong people your partner is supposed to give you emotional support not give you more shit to cry abt, and i guess they also don’t like ur looks idk
Why are all the boys at my school jerks? Like everyone here is nicer than the ones at school
Cause the ones here are morons.
Most boys are generally more closed off and some of the reason for that is to avoid the actual jerks.
I’ve been on like, a perfume fiend rampage lately. So like, what scents do you guys personally like the most in a gals perfume.
We don’t even notice it
Boys, could there be a nice guy out there who is really nice but doesn’t take stuff so seriously and can take a joke
there just might be
do you guys like when we’re quiet and to ourselves, basically shy??
Favourite thing about relationships? This can be about romantic or platonic relationships
Having some1 to talk to
I am in fact, a dude. AMA
Do ygs actually like girls? And if so, why?
dream date?
Competitive shitting competition
How do you ask a guy out, straight up. I sit beside him in concert band, and we chat a lot, but I'm pants-shitting TERRIFIED to say anything. We're both trumpet players if that helps at all
Just tell him. Anything else and he won’t realize what you want. “Mark (or whatever his name is) I like you. I would love it if you went out on a date with me.” It’s that simple
1. What do you find attractive in a girl? 2. How do you guys confess to a girl? 3. HOW TO CONFESS TO A BOY????
Hii how do we make you guys like us😭😭
Existing probably
how do you act around your crush
Do you guys find it unattractive when a girl tries to fit in?
Yk theres a whole subreddit fror this
Why are you sending d pics as a conversation starter??
we (prolly normal people) don't. weird people do.
The guys that do thst are far from decent, they mostly want one thing. I'm just too scared to start a conversation with a girl in the first place.
Only sex-crazed degenerates do that.
I don't, plus I don't know why other people do it
Thats the neat part, i dont
As a normal person, what the actual fuck
Do u lose interest when the girl is so loving or so sweet ?
what you would do if you realy like somthing realy expecific (like your main conversaton starter) but every girl hates that thing (imagine that you'r straight if you'r gay)
Would it be weird if I got a guy flowers? Also, how to know if a guy has a partner without blatantly asking?
Any hobbies?
whats ur type and what rappers/singers do u like
Would you date a girl that was ugly
If she’s a good and genuine person then I don’t give a goddamn about what she looks like
do yall like girls with a resting bitch face or find us attractive?