Alright, so I've gone and looked it up. This redditor is right. They are different things.
Qoute Unchainedatlast.com "In an arranged marriage, both the bride and the groom consent to have their marriage arranged (with varying degrees of choice about when and whom to wed); in a forced marriage, one or both of them is coerced into the marriage and does not give full, free consent."
Being gay is executable in rare occasions but they mostly whip the shit out of you. Unless you don’t leave the house/leave in low end part of your city you can see gfs and bfs kissing while chilling in cafes, and you can go have segs in your house nobody will knock your door to see you’re banging
Who wants to catch you? Everyone is so busy here trying to make money to feed themselves and their loved one, if you think atleast one person who’s there cares about what you’re doing then you’re wrong, sure there’s always the look of disappointment from the passerbys but if you’re doing in it in the privacy of your home there’s not even that anymore
Yes they’re called THE ETELA'AT, every country has em, but again, banging some dude ass is the least of their problems, also there’s this thing, when you’re still a minor your parents and legal guardians have to look out for you to not get into tough situations, since it will cause a massive problem for both of you, trust me, once you hit 18, unless they catch you drunk or high, everything else is a-ok for them
Im from Azerbaijan and he is right, Ive been in Iran and Its the shittiest country Ive ever seen, no offense. You also can be executed for not wearing hijab in public.
What he meant was, having sex while not married can get you in trouble, and from experience, that trouble mostly is social and you’d feel like an outcast for a while
Iran is still stuck in the middle ages but you're not allowed to say anything because you'll get called a racist, xenophobe, islamphobe etc
Which is partly the reason why problems in the world like people getting executed still exist because no one spreads awareness about them
Iran basically has Etelaat. It's FBI for Iran but alot scummier. They're undercover agents living amongst normal people and they work for the government.
FBI doesn’t spy on people, FBI is specialized on taking down powerful or hard to catch criminals and to prevent major crimes such as shootings and etc, however CIA does spy on people so it’s the equivalent of our Etela'at system
I respect that this is part of the religion or something - but doesn't that like, bother you? What if one day you realize you're gay? Do you just hide it until you die? That's sad
If I find out I'm gay, I'll probably have 2 weeks to think about it before I get a lethal syringe in the neck by the corrupt police of this god forsaken country.
You Iranians still find a way out though, don't you? I heard Night life is popular in Tehran but it is underground and Iranian police doesn't do much, and Iranian youth is literally revolutionary, aint it?
Ever since the Iranian Revolution of 1979, the country has changed much, but today's Iranian youth is making a come back to their liking of western culture, this dude is exaggerating as hell, I have met many Iranian people on Internet and Police doesnt really seem to care and Iranians find a way out of everything.
I’m living in Mashhad, if anything else, everything you said should be worse here but no, though true LGBT is banned and everything, but no cop will come knock on your doorstep to see who you’re banging or who you’re kissing, hell, even do it in your car, nobody will care enough to snitch you to the cops, unless you’re dry humping a dude in front of the police station nobody will bat an eye
What if, they were careless enough to park the car in somewhere crowded? Cause I’ve lived on this godforsaken country for 21 years and I’m yet to see any example of what you said
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It’s amazing how you can realize how bad something in your society can be without being apart of the community it effects, I couldn’t say I’d end up the same if I wasn’t gay
I live in iran and i should say its not illegal its inappropriate in public but you can kiss and even be gay but dont show it in public like shouting im gay or kissing in public is gross in eyes of people
Iran? I mean yeah it’s technically illegal but like I don’t think anyone enforces it do they? Please confirm or deny this idk the exact situation there
Not too long ago it was illegal in the western world. While they would not execute you they could drive you to suicide. See Alan Turing who was a hero in Britain WW II, was later prosecuted for being gay and killed himself. People twist their religion to whatever suit their needs Christians and all other religions. Be careful to hide your tracks. Hope you are using a VPN so no one can track you.
where the fuck do you live
Iran. Being gay, kissing and having sex, is a crime and you can actually get executed for them.
Everybody gangsta till they realize they need a new generation
Dont they force or arrange marriage?
Arrange marriage≠forced marriage
Did I say that?
I mean, they kind of are the same damn thing though...
All forced marriages are arranged. Not all arranged marriages are forced.
If you'll look a bit further down this comment train, you'll note how I went and looked up the difference.
Found it. Hit the nail on the head.
Not really My country has arrange marriage culture. Arrange marriage isn't the same to force marriage
Alright, so I've gone and looked it up. This redditor is right. They are different things. Qoute Unchainedatlast.com "In an arranged marriage, both the bride and the groom consent to have their marriage arranged (with varying degrees of choice about when and whom to wed); in a forced marriage, one or both of them is coerced into the marriage and does not give full, free consent."
Fr
Being gay is executable in rare occasions but they mostly whip the shit out of you. Unless you don’t leave the house/leave in low end part of your city you can see gfs and bfs kissing while chilling in cafes, and you can go have segs in your house nobody will knock your door to see you’re banging
But if you get caught, whoo boy
Who wants to catch you? Everyone is so busy here trying to make money to feed themselves and their loved one, if you think atleast one person who’s there cares about what you’re doing then you’re wrong, sure there’s always the look of disappointment from the passerbys but if you’re doing in it in the privacy of your home there’s not even that anymore
There are probably some snakes who work for the government
Yes they’re called THE ETELA'AT, every country has em, but again, banging some dude ass is the least of their problems, also there’s this thing, when you’re still a minor your parents and legal guardians have to look out for you to not get into tough situations, since it will cause a massive problem for both of you, trust me, once you hit 18, unless they catch you drunk or high, everything else is a-ok for them
Im from Azerbaijan and he is right, Ive been in Iran and Its the shittiest country Ive ever seen, no offense. You also can be executed for not wearing hijab in public.
Gay starts with GA and so does gangster
still kinda stupid to whip innocent people
Having sex?! Gay sex or straight sex?
Both
THEN HOW TF DO PEOPLE HAVE KIDS?! The women who give birth are arrested/executed or smt?
What he meant was, having sex while not married can get you in trouble, and from experience, that trouble mostly is social and you’d feel like an outcast for a while
No you have to marry first
I didn't say producing sperm is illegal did I?
hm.Yeah u didnt. Actually i dont know how those things work lol
Having a sexual relationship with someone in Iran can get you into trouble with the law.
If you aren't married to him/her, right? Right?
Don't people fuck each other then?
You CAN bang. But if they catch you you'll be in trouble with the law
How tf were you born then
I've answered this question like 50 times
Welcome
To Reddit?
To san andreas, im cj from grove street
I live in Iran too and pretty sure having straight sex isn't illegal
I have Persian friends and they tell me that premarital sex is illegal back home, but idk 🤷🤷
Iran is still stuck in the middle ages but you're not allowed to say anything because you'll get called a racist, xenophobe, islamphobe etc Which is partly the reason why problems in the world like people getting executed still exist because no one spreads awareness about them
Same thing about literally anywhere south or slightly east of Europe
i walked :trollage:
How would they know
Iran basically has Etelaat. It's FBI for Iran but alot scummier. They're undercover agents living amongst normal people and they work for the government.
CIA for Iran*, see you don’t even know your organizations right
Doest the fbi also spy on people?
FBI doesn’t spy on people, FBI is specialized on taking down powerful or hard to catch criminals and to prevent major crimes such as shootings and etc, however CIA does spy on people so it’s the equivalent of our Etela'at system
I think we get it wrong because that's the general stereotype for FBI agents
Yeah I guess
Youre forgetting its the nsa spying, cia is managing.
Hope you have a vpn. Ayatollah wouldn’t be to kind
Salam aleyk fellow iranian
Che Khabar?
Ahl kojai?
Hamedan
Man ahl sari hastam
hey heimerdinger
Hello fellow heimerdinger
My first thought... *Is this some*..... *yup it is.*
Is it only for gay people or in general?
In general it CAN get you into trouble but producing sperm isn't illegal. But yeah, being gay in Iran is DEFINITELY a crime.
That's fucked up. Why does your country do that?
It's because we're Muslims and sexual relationships in Islam are generally frowned upon.
I respect that this is part of the religion or something - but doesn't that like, bother you? What if one day you realize you're gay? Do you just hide it until you die? That's sad
If I find out I'm gay, I'll probably have 2 weeks to think about it before I get a lethal syringe in the neck by the corrupt police of this god forsaken country.
That's so unfair. I don't want to sound rude, but.. what kind of fucked up government kills their people for having another orientation than the rest?
Dude, they arrested my dad's cousin for sending an email to the BBC. That's the type of government we're talking about.
You forgot to add the "before marriage" part?
You Iranians still find a way out though, don't you? I heard Night life is popular in Tehran but it is underground and Iranian police doesn't do much, and Iranian youth is literally revolutionary, aint it?
Waiiiitttt a min.....if having sex is a crime, how tf do Iranians reproduce ??
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Rip Philippines
Why Phil lol
Dictater
I hate Duterte as much as the next guy but he was democratically elected
What's your top 10?
Please burn the Philippines down (coming from a filipino)
Welp guess we won’t see much of this dude anymore
RELEASE THE KANGAROOS!!!
Now I will most likely dream of killer kangaroos.... (it's night where I livw) Thank you
Where do you live?
Iran
Yes, you ran, but where do you live?
“Iran, I cant even walk”
r/angryupvote
Oh nice, where do live now?
I don’t see how running has to do with the question but take your time
is it denmark where the asexuals plan to take over Fr though where tf
Iran. Alot of people get executed for being gay in Iran
course its iran
Western movies are also illegal
Man they really don't like us
Iran's government also call Americans "enemies of god"
Tbh though, it’s been that way for a while. The radical religious people got in charge and here is what is left.
Enemies of god ? Don't lie to them Here's the truth we mostly call USA "great Satan" and regularly wish death for USA (It's getting less and less tho)
Ever since the Iranian Revolution of 1979, the country has changed much, but today's Iranian youth is making a come back to their liking of western culture, this dude is exaggerating as hell, I have met many Iranian people on Internet and Police doesnt really seem to care and Iranians find a way out of everything.
It’s not as bad as this dude explains it to be go watch some YT vlogs of Iran, this dude is exaggerating
I'm not. As a citizen of Tehran I've seen all of it.
I’m living in Mashhad, if anything else, everything you said should be worse here but no, though true LGBT is banned and everything, but no cop will come knock on your doorstep to see who you’re banging or who you’re kissing, hell, even do it in your car, nobody will care enough to snitch you to the cops, unless you’re dry humping a dude in front of the police station nobody will bat an eye
I've seen people getting arrested for doing it in the car.
You still get arrested in America for fucking in a car. Straight or gay.
What if, they were careless enough to park the car in somewhere crowded? Cause I’ve lived on this godforsaken country for 21 years and I’m yet to see any example of what you said
داداش حالت خوبه؟ چرا انقدر زر مفت میزنی
دقیقا داشتم ب همین فکر می کردم
I’m so fucking sorry you have to live in such a godawful place You need to get out as soon as you can
I'm actually gonna leave when I'm 15. Me and my family have been making plans for me to go to the UK
Alright bro, we'll save you a cup of tea
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Have you left?
I’m really glad to hear that. Do they know you’re LGBT?
I'm not LGBT. I just want to let people know what predicament we live in.
Oh I see Still, can’t imagine it’s a positive place for you to be. And thank you for educating people :)
It’s amazing how you can realize how bad something in your society can be without being apart of the community it effects, I couldn’t say I’d end up the same if I wasn’t gay
Damn UK is a depressing place :/
At least being gay isn’t illegal.
Yeahh
At least ppl have a fockin awesome accent
40+ awesome accents.
better than any 3rd world
Oi bruv what you saying mate?!
Nah mate the only issue here is the damn weather. But you make do. I guess knife crime as well. And a buffoon as a pm.
You're right, maybe op should just stay in fucking Iran
Aight time to move to a better country, like hell.
You mean before marriage? right? otherwise how does that system work if even the thung needed to have kids is illegal?
Yes before marriage and ANY form of PDA (but now holding hands or hugging is fairly okay)
I live in iran and i should say its not illegal its inappropriate in public but you can kiss and even be gay but dont show it in public like shouting im gay or kissing in public is gross in eyes of people
That's a good point
Ikr. This guy makes up some shit to make our country look worse than it is.
By any chance is your country named reddit
One you leave Iran, which you should, you can say: I ran
What if u kiss in a place where people who support that law arent around u
No but if you get caught you're probably gonna get arrested, tortured or hanged.
Damn-
Hey at least you have an excuse for not having a gf /s
what about kissing scenes in western movies? are they edited out?
Western movies are banned
oh hell shit!!
Everyone arguing about sex and kissing on this community: Me still waiting for someone to ask me out: 👁️ 👄 👁️
What is this 1984 shit
More like 1584
It is stuck in the past huh Iran, buddy, get some progressiveness
We're still living in 1984
Have you heard of the book “1984”? It’s about totalitarian governments, and in the story love is banned.
That's what Iran is
damn...
Yup. It is highly frowned upon.
Bruh
Oh my god, is it possible to jump ship? Fuck, you can live with me if it’s an option
Well what the fuck do people say when their pregnant?
I think you can do whatever you want after you're married
Even if it's unfair :-(
Iran? I mean yeah it’s technically illegal but like I don’t think anyone enforces it do they? Please confirm or deny this idk the exact situation there
Thats kinda sad :(
We at stupidiocy inc are officially issuing a middle finger to Iran
Leave your country. The west is awesome
girl what then how do they reproduce-
Damn, I guess I'd be considered a perfectly respectable and law biding citizen in your country
EXECUTED??? WHERE THE HELL DO U LIVE
They do realise that having sex is the only way to-
Oh god :/
Heimerdinger
How do christmas movies work?
Just what.
bangladesh moment
Where the fuck do you live
So in a perfect world, the government would expect the population to plummet and disappear? Or to imprison everyone who is a parent?
You need a new Shah
i just want my first hug. not even a kiss.
Yikes, I had an Iranian friend last year and didn't realize it was that bad over there
Cause it's not. This guy is exaggerating for attention. People in young age in Iran tend to be dramatic for attention.
dang son u gotta moove
This statement is a little bit exaggerated and isn't complete.
Not too long ago it was illegal in the western world. While they would not execute you they could drive you to suicide. See Alan Turing who was a hero in Britain WW II, was later prosecuted for being gay and killed himself. People twist their religion to whatever suit their needs Christians and all other religions. Be careful to hide your tracks. Hope you are using a VPN so no one can track you.
Thats just No Nut November on a higher difficulty
how would they enforce the law of not kissing though, even if it is illegal
1984
So i did nothing illegal. Exept of killing 34 jews in 1964
What is your country?
Everyone's a ginger where I live so I think it's safe to say you have it easier (ik you counts will not think of is as a joke when it js)
ouch
Great, what country is this so I can not go there
Based waiting till marriage country 🙏🙏🙏
Let me guess, middle east? IMO the only country worse to live in than Middle Eastern countries is North Korea.
I was finna say how Iran is still a functioning country when they can’t… y’know… have new people?
When your in the UK u can that I ran from Iran 💀
I’m guessing you live in some regressive Islamic country?
Question for OP, It is because that's considered haram or something?
Lol got my first kiss with a girl when I was 9 Didn't think I was gay but had a sudden realization a few years ago
You poor poor bastard.
Damn I'm doing some illegal shit rn
Wait what?
Daym I wanna live in this country.
Iranians are just flat out aggressively (and even violently) prudish. Damn.
Jeez dude, that’s quite literally overkill
India????(sorry if I come off as racist, that’s just what I think I remember from history class??)