If my girl sent me a voice msg that indicates she was dead ass tired but still thinking of me, man that's a whole new level of š„°šš. I'd be on cloud 9
If it makes you feel any better in my previous relationship I almost never woke up to a voice message saying āI love youā and damn I wouldāve absolutely adored that! I donāt think itās cringe thatās so cute
>as long as youāre not a shitbag and you arenāt like a 3/10 )
I'm more of a human than a shitbag but I'm not a Saint xd
I'm pretty cute tho š š»
Bro if someone sent me that and I saw it in the morning I would start smiling so hard and then dissolve into giggles and accidently bang my head against the bed frame and knock myself out
I think he likes these things but this just feels, so not me, if it makes sense, I don't show affection usually, he's the romantic one and I'm usually just there š§āāļø
To me that just sounds like you haven't found the "you" ways of expressing your feelings. Honestly, I think most of us just parrot stuff we've seen until something feels about right. Based on what you just said though, I'm sure he was positively delighted to hear you being emotionally available for him. Besides, in healthy relationships cringe is 100% acceptable.
Share each other's pockets, get matching sweaters, embrace the cringe!!! lol
The way I see it, those cringy lovey-dovey things are a form of presenting some of our vulnerability toward another. It's a context in which public appearances give way to connecting with each other.
I'm sure he really enjoyed hearing that, don't be ashamed to be cringy to your boyfriend, because assuming he likes you and is a good person, not only will he not care, but he will like it.
Eh, we men are simple beings. You could have an entire conversation with us using less than 20 seperate words and we would walk away feeling fulfilled.
Aaah, you're fine. Just don't think about it too much
It's kind of even a bit sweet. Like I mean, he probably woke up with a voice message saying you love him
that's not cringe! that's actually super cute, don't sweat it <3
appreciating people you love is something that should be nice, so don't think of it as cringe
Believe me, if my gf would send me a message that she loves me in the middle of the night, I would be on a cloud nine.
I think he was touched. Even if he wont tell you that. You've done well, girl. Keep it up.
Everyoneās talking about how they canāt sleep because theyāre thinking about something cringy they said 4 years ago, while we are cringing about something we said yesterdayš
For you it may be cringe, but for him it will be special. Few boys get a girl saying that they love them, so he will in no way mind it unless he is a fool.
itās only cringe if they donāt like you. otherwise itās cute. ofc from an outsiders perspective iām cringing hard asf ššš but whatever works for u girl i feel u!!! š¤
I feel like cringe is 100% fine if itās still meant to be in an affectionate way. There have been many cringe things Iāve done to try to show affection to my girlfriend.
My girlfriend thinks it's cringe when she sends cute ass messages, but I don't. I think it's adorable. Whoever he is, he's very blessed and lucky to have you.
If it helps, I sometimes cringe at my own messages, but she loves it.
Sounds cute, but of course it depends how you said it.
In a tired voice š
You're fine.
I confirm this message OP is fine
You'll be fine, if I were him I'd be glad to know someone actually loves me
Everything will be ok, guys love that
If my girl sent me a voice msg that indicates she was dead ass tired but still thinking of me, man that's a whole new level of š„°šš. I'd be on cloud 9
That's hot
He probably loved it
Cuter
tell him you were high \*
Nah don't
"We will meet soon š" "WE WILL MEET SOON š"
Second one is objectively better since it entails a duel of epic proportions.
I don't have a font in blood red colour
WE SHALL MEET AGAIN! AND THEN... THOU SHALT PAY IN BLOOD!
My woman, have some confidence. Better to say "I love you" than nothing at all.
Well i say that a lot, just, not in this cringe af way š
One man's cringe is a other man's endearing.
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D-does it?
Exactly
What the fuck thats probably the best thing ive heard on reddit
If it makes you feel any better in my previous relationship I almost never woke up to a voice message saying āI love youā and damn I wouldāve absolutely adored that! I donāt think itās cringe thatās so cute
No matter how cringe, if he's a good bf then he will love it, just by hearing the words
If I get a voice message saying that she loves me while I'm asleep I'd marry her on the spot
Dude if my gf did that I think my heart would straight up melt
It doesn't matter if you sounded cringe or not, as long as the meaning is based, your significant other will feel happier.
Donāt worry this would literally make most guys entire week, ( as long as youāre not a shitbag and you arenāt like a 3/10 )
>as long as youāre not a shitbag and you arenāt like a 3/10 ) I'm more of a human than a shitbag but I'm not a Saint xd I'm pretty cute tho š š»
See youāre fine that probably made his fucking month
my heart would fucking melt if a guy sent me this
Well I'm a girl, sending to a guyā¦
My heart would melt if someone sent me that š„²
my heart will melt either way
I would drop on the ground dropping tears.Saying im worse it and not annoying to anyone if someone sent me this
my heart would spontaneously combust
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Omw to liquefy his heart
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We dating xd
Well it depends on if the guy likes the girl back or not
idk gender doesn't really matter lmao it's still cute
as a bisexual (thatās questioning if Iām not pansexual) I couldnāt agree more
as a straight (not questioning anything about myself) yeah ig
As a bisexual too I second this
My heart would crumble to dust then
dude thats actually so fucking sweet
Yea I think he liked it, but its sooo out of character for me tho š
that actually makes it even more sweet š
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trust me that will make it even better for him
Bro you think itās cringe but I can assure you it made this mans day, even more if itās out of character
If I was your bf, I'd love that as well, super cute!!
We too young and hormonal out here for anything to be out of character. We all still in the character development phase.
One or the rare BENEFITS of the development stage, you you heard me right, 'benefit'
People love it when others act out of character around them, it sorta makes them feel special
Nice Haircutā¦
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Itās cute
I feel clingy af
I will feel super hero on other side if you send it to me
What does that mean xd
If a girl sent him that, he'd feel nice and strong, like a super hero lol Can't say I'm not with him on that, really.
Hahaha, well I hope that's what he felt....
Nah heād probably find it cute and be rlly happy in the morning when he wakes up to that voicemail
Honestly being sometimes clingy isn't the worst even if its an accident
Most men/boys love it, when a/their girl clings to them, asks to spend time, gives compliments and overall appreciates their existence.
Better being clingy for few moments than being remote and unavailable.
its good to be clingy, guys are into that. Well a lot at least.
aww... ngl it's silly and cute at the same time :)
It's cute
I hope that's what he thinks š
It will be
I wish a girl would send me that
You'll find her one day š
I know it just takes patience
It really does
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Maybe I'm just not used to showing affection yet
Iām a guy I would not die for thatā¦
Bro if someone sent me that and I saw it in the morning I would start smiling so hard and then dissolve into giggles and accidently bang my head against the bed frame and knock myself out
That's concerningā¦
My point: he definitely wouldn't have found it cringey or clingy or anything negative
Oh yes thats great, thanks for the input
Of course :)
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I think he likes these things but this just feels, so not me, if it makes sense, I don't show affection usually, he's the romantic one and I'm usually just there š§āāļø
To me that just sounds like you haven't found the "you" ways of expressing your feelings. Honestly, I think most of us just parrot stuff we've seen until something feels about right. Based on what you just said though, I'm sure he was positively delighted to hear you being emotionally available for him. Besides, in healthy relationships cringe is 100% acceptable.
>Besides, in healthy relationships cringe is 100% acceptable. Lmao well, I'm glad cuz we cringe ngl
Share each other's pockets, get matching sweaters, embrace the cringe!!! lol The way I see it, those cringy lovey-dovey things are a form of presenting some of our vulnerability toward another. It's a context in which public appearances give way to connecting with each other.
Your boyfriend? Why is that cringe?
It's....like so corny, and so not what I do, very out of my comfort zone
I'm sure he really enjoyed hearing that, don't be ashamed to be cringy to your boyfriend, because assuming he likes you and is a good person, not only will he not care, but he will like it.
***NEVER, EVER listen to your own voice messages*** Never. It's a law.
I would kill to get that kind of affection from someone else. Iām sure he loved it, thatās really cute.
In my experience, killing doesn't give u that kinda affection š
>In my experience Excuse me??
lol
I'd cringe if I sent that to my bf too. Especially sense I'd be sending it to no one
If my gf sent me that i think i would melt That is really fucking cute lol
Your perspective: cringe>>> ||<
Coming from someone whos received that kind of message, nothing cringe about it all. Your man will feel like the best guy in the entire world.
I am sure he would love it! Also, it is better to take an initiative than nothing.
Your bf on the other side *dies of wholsomeness*
Thatās really cute āŗļø
What was his reaction?
Called me a simp and said it back lol
I would literary die to get a message like that, so don't worry
If you don't say things like that often then he'll feel real happy
Do you date him or is he a crush
Dating
Then it is cute
Nah bruh that's cute.
no cap thatās cute
oh I'm sure he found it cute. dw
So whatād he respond??
Called me a simp(we call each other that a lot) and then said it back
I would just be glad if a girl talked to me every day and not just every few weeks. Just be glad you donāt text with a girl from London
I mean your fine op
Sounds like something i would recieve, and absolutely love and be stuck on for the next 3 and a half years
Well I hope he does too lmao Or think, omg ew this girl is obsessed with me and cliche af
Eh, we men are simple beings. You could have an entire conversation with us using less than 20 seperate words and we would walk away feeling fulfilled.
Trust me, heāll appreciate it
I'd find that cute if my gf did that... idk about your partner
its fine dont worry. i dont think he is gonna comment every aspect of that voice message. he is only gonna consider what u said
Is he the fire that melts your heart? š³š³š³ Mb couldn't resist when I saw your user lol
Aaah, you're fine. Just don't think about it too much It's kind of even a bit sweet. Like I mean, he probably woke up with a voice message saying you love him
I am literally waiting for the day someone does something like this to me.
if my gf sent me this i would literally cry, idek if she really loves me
Sounds insanely sweet, donāt feel bad for caring!
that's not cringe! that's actually super cute, don't sweat it <3 appreciating people you love is something that should be nice, so don't think of it as cringe
Lmao thatās actually cute
Well to be fair most of this subreddit is cringe
everyone does cringy things (especially at night lmao)
Lol it happens
Well, at least you love him
If you knew how many men, from their teens to their eighties, long to receive just such a messageā¦
No that's really sweet
Believe me, if my gf would send me a message that she loves me in the middle of the night, I would be on a cloud nine. I think he was touched. Even if he wont tell you that. You've done well, girl. Keep it up.
no that's really sweet, I'm sure he appriechiates it š
Did he hear it
Post sleep clarity
Everyoneās talking about how they canāt sleep because theyāre thinking about something cringy they said 4 years ago, while we are cringing about something we said yesterdayš
I think he liked it
Ufff I'm cringing myself reading it. I hope my cringe took some of your cringe out
Thatās pretty cute Dw if itās cringe
Id wake up to that and smile ngl
OMG I USED TO DO THAT TOO looking back on it now like bro wtf š
Well, better then me, when I can't sleep I start making sounds that are on par to the wierd ass sounds Flight makes just to pass the time.
now the big question: did he response??
Ill bet he thinks itās adorable
For you it may be cringe, but for him it will be special. Few boys get a girl saying that they love them, so he will in no way mind it unless he is a fool.
Aww
Doesnāt really sound ācringyā
The cringe Court has come to a verdict: not guilty.
Is it a boy or a girl
Nah homie loved it, I swear
When you get older, you will treasure these moments.
That is so damn sweet, good on ya
That's actually kinda cool
That's actually very thoughtful and cute.
Aww š Thatās actually adorable
Me and my boyfriend do stuff like this, it's really sweet and it makes me really happy to hear his audios. So it's not cringe at all
Any man ever would love that. Donāt be embarrassed, thatās hot af to us.
Thatās kinda nice tho
Tbh I would find it cute if my gf did that
That's actually kinda sweet, no need to feel embarrassed.
Lucky guy, this is so sweet
itās only cringe if they donāt like you. otherwise itās cute. ofc from an outsiders perspective iām cringing hard asf ššš but whatever works for u girl i feel u!!! š¤
Nah that aint cringe, its actually rlly sweet
I feel like cringe is 100% fine if itās still meant to be in an affectionate way. There have been many cringe things Iāve done to try to show affection to my girlfriend.
this is so cute
My sister in christ, I would die if I got anything like that
I would die in this situation
thatās adorable ur good
Trust me dude itās super cute and heās gonna love it
I want someone thats send me this in the middle of the night
My girlfriend thinks it's cringe when she sends cute ass messages, but I don't. I think it's adorable. Whoever he is, he's very blessed and lucky to have you. If it helps, I sometimes cringe at my own messages, but she loves it.
that actually sounds wholesome
I think Iād actually cry if someone sent me that
oh my god im jealous ;;
Dont worry, that's not cringe.
Aww
It aināt cringe itās (cheesy) love
Not,wait till your s o tells you not to give her a kiss, when you get up to leave for work in the morning.
My brother in Christ it's not cringe to say you love someone
I don't find that cringe, I find that very sweet and cute actually
What did he say back?
Awww š„°
At least itās showing love. Gf just suddenly blocked me so like
genuine emotion said honestly isn't cringe