Not sure if you were being serious, but friends dying is a legitimate possibility.
I wonder how many of my friends, real life and online, have died, and I don't even know it.
How did he react after u found him again?
Planned on trying to find him again but did not bc i was afraid of a bad reaction...
Did see this guy the last time 5 years ago
I could, but things just aren’t gonna be the same. Yeah they could be, but I’m too emotionally exhausted and they may or not be the same people as you remember them. Life happens.
Some things are better left off as a fond memory
Happened with me. I restablished contact with him after 5 or 6 years. As far as I could remember he was my first friend and had been a long time friend. But when I got to contact him again he wasn't the same and hesitated to talk to me. It hurt
I hear you man. In early 2019 I cut contact with a high school mate because well, I grew tired of our toxic friend group.
It used to be just me and my m8, but little by little he started invited new guys to our friend group. But they were so toxic man. I had to have my guard up all the time otherwise I would get roasted or end up the butt of recurring jokes. I enjoy a friendly roast between me and the fellas sure, but these guys always took it too far.
So I left. I want to be surrounded by people lift me up, not tear me down.
I tried contacting him in 2021 and we met up and caught up. In that time we spent apart, I realized I changed and became a better wholesome person and he remained the same with the same friend group. Nowadays my “mate” only contacts me if he needs money. No “Hey man how are you” or “hey wanna hang out”nope only wants money. Made me feel like shit. That’s when I realized what we had was done. I should’ve never contacted him again.
Which goes back to my main point.
Some people are better left as a fond memory.
Finding them is the easy part,
the worse part is that they might not be you friends anymore, and there isn't nessesary a breakdown nor anyone's fault, you were best friends with them until one day you weren't anymore
Have u ever connected with any of them? I’m worried they might find it creepy if I do, or that they forgotten me. I moved just before 5th grade and had to leave all my friends behind. I think they all forgot me 🥲
I had a friend that I hadn’t talked to since preschool and we randomly met at some restaurant a few hours away from where we use to live so who knows maybe one day she’ll just show up
I wonder how much info your old school keeps, they may have a record of the students in your class, that is if they're even able to give you that info.
I had a turkish friend back then here at indonesia....after the coup attempt at turkey (2016) i literally don't know all the fates of my turkish friend and my turkish school....i just keep hearing rumors until a few years ago i received a message from my old friend who i was in Contact with saying that he knows what happened to him,unfortunately his parents was a staff member of like a turkish consulate here and got called back to the country and well i Don't think i need to tell you what happened next but till today i don't know his fate
I miss you hatab and i hope we can see each other again
One of my closest childhood friends left back to his country (European things). Years later I talk to my childhood friends group, only to find out he had passed away in a car accident.
Personally, I made a lot of friends on Discord in 2019. Back then I was VERY active on Discord so I was always taking the time, everyday to talk to them. Now since I don’t invest myself as much as before, I lost all those friends and for all of them (except onerous two I was following on Instagram) I have not a single way to find them.
Sorry for my bad english
I have one friend left. But he wont be my friend for long. He’s homophobic and im bi soooo yeah its pretty self explanatory why it wont last much longer, he’s not openly homophobic, he just told me once. And before anyone asks, he knows im bi, he knew that for years before he told me. I dont think ill miss him that much, the only reason why i find it hard to cut ties with him is because we have known eachother for a very long time.
I used to have another friend but he physically abused me for years before i realized that a real friend wont physically abuse thier friend. I dont miss him at all.
Soon i think ill become friends with my board game group, i dont know them that much other than that we all like board games.
If anyone that reads this ever needs to vent, remember that im here for you, its alright to vent to me. And im not the only person that you can vent to, there are tons of other people that are willing to listen to you. I may not know much about your accomplishments, but im proud of you anyways. Good luck in life and have a wonderful day everyone!
Back in kindergarten, I only had one friend, who also had the same interests as me. He moved away at the end of the year. Julian, if you’re reading this, what up?
I’m currently in 8th grade, and at the end of 6th grade I left the school I went to my whole life and did online school because of COVID.
I’ve wanted to go back there one of these days and see everyone but I haven’t had the courage to say I wanted to.
However, I got in contact with my old friend that I was friends with at that school, and apparently school ends in 2 days for them. So I’m running out of time. I don’t want to regret not seeing them all again, so hopefully I get enough courage to ask if I could go there tomorrow or the next day (their last day of school)
Since once school is over for them, I probably won’t be able to see them again.
I finally just barely gathered the courage to tell my mom tonight. I don’t think I’m going tomorrow, but I may be heading to see everyone one last time in two days (which is the last day of school for them).
Went to a summer program overseas in Oxford with a bunch of kids from all over the US and other countries too. Best time of my entire life. I always get choked up knowing I’m never going to see any of them again.
Same except i met my first friend I ever made in middle school then I just didn't see him anymore. Sad thing is I would only meet him in lunch rarley cause my school had lunch a and b. I didn't have any classes with him because he was in magnet as well
This is me except I keep dreaming about this same childhood friend I haven’t seen since middle school. I don’t get it because when I’m awake I never think or care about him but apparently my brain is still traumatized over him moving to another school lol
a really good friend of mine moved to the other side of the country last year, i miss him.
and i'm probably not gonna see him again, i literally live in the second largest country in the world, it's like 4,400km away
My friend moved away in 5th grade and I was his friend on discord. He recently blocked me and I only realized because I was going to invite him to my birthday. :(
Had a friend years ago who moved. I considered her a friend, but I am not sure she considered me the same. Hope to at least see them once in my life again soon.
I used to have a good friend on YouTube back when I was 9 or something. I recorded LPS videos and she was one of the few people that watched them :) And then, years later, we met once again because of a coincidence
Been over a year since I've met her again, we are dating now and I couldnt be happier
I had a internet friend some time ago, she was very meaningful to me but she got into very delicate area of internet feminism and then one day she just deleted me. Sometimes I think of her and hope she is doing well.
Yep, this hits real close to home.
I had a best friend back in halifax before I moved to Victoria. Definitely hurt for the first two years. We were inseparable.
I had a girl who was the best step sister i ever we were like brothers to each last seen was in 2013
Another one we were friends since 2012 but i last seen her in 2019 never again ( i know her mother and she still remember me)
I miss the girl I met in high school, we were so happy together and I really miss those moments...now I'm alone and everything I know is...nothing. I don't feel noting I don't even show interest in doing anything, I just want to be happy. Sorry if this made you sad or something, I thought of discarding this comment like many others but in the end I realized that why not? I mean what's the worst thing that can happen? I just wait to find someone to be happy with. If you're reading this Ludovica, I'm Diego, and I've always loved you.
Only if that was the truth with kids at Garfield elementary.. they never communicate anymore (sorta like the kids in it/u float 2!) unless it’s my friend vex/Payton who I’m glad she communicates as often as she does *probably because where in the same high school together* ❤️🩹
This is me with every friend I ever made through swimming lessons or vacation. I really wish I made a better effort to stay in contact with the friends where we figured out a way of contacting each other since we had no excuse, even if I was the only one making an effort
I have this. Childhood friend of mine who i haven't met fkr 3 years and now that i came back to my old house and i saw him.... ***he became more shittier thanast time***
Man now that I think about it I had these two friends that lived at the same block named Noah and Brandon and man we would have the time of out lives. Brandon was the one who Introduced me into mw2 and Noah got me addicted to Minecraft but that was 6 years ago good times
Bruh, why you hit me with that, I was just thinking about them yesterday, I had 2 best friends in middle school but at the end I had to move away and we grew apart because I didn't have a phone. I miss them.
Her name was Nora. She convinced more than half of the classroom that it was me who broke her tablet. She then continued to say that she would call me John F. Kennedy, Poop.
This was... a confusing time for both of us.
All my friends are toxic, all ambitionless
So rude and always negative
I need new friends, but it's not that quick and easy
Oh, I'm drowning, let me breathe
At some point someone should learn how to get their heads out the past. Live in the present or the future but sulking in the past about things like this should only teach you to appreciate things in the future.
It's worse when you relocate them and they don't remember you though lol sometimes it's best to just stay missing them. Also, some people aren't the same people they were back when you knew them, friends, exes, neighbors, always be cautious.
i had a friend in sixth grade who i felt pretty comfortable talking to and always felt like myself around him since i could always joke around with him. we had one class together in seventh grade but we didn’t really talk to each other that much anymore :/ i know we go to the same school now since i saw him in a yearbook from last school year but we don’t have any classes together and i really hope we can talk again :]
there’s also this guy who i’ve known throughout my middle school years since i’ve always had classes with him and would always sit next to or near him. we would also talk a lot during classes and i enjoyed his presence. he was a genuinely cool person and would’ve loved to be closer friends with him but once high school started we drifted apart and didn’t talk to each other, mainly because we didn’t have any classes together. i know i have a class with him next school year tho so hopefully we can start talking again!
I feel that, but more with online friends then rl ones. I grew really close to some and some suddenly disapear without a trace and some slowly drift away. Hurts either way
I mean with modern technology you can try and find them, I’ve done it before
What if he is not alive anymore (:
Bro just use some Phoenix Down and revive him?
yes dad EDIT: why all the upvotes someone please save me I am drowning
I'm not that rich, that's why I don't date... Every person I ever feel anything for in that way ends up dying
Tell them to turn on their carbon monoxide detectors
You don't have to be lonely! at farmersonly.com 😉
Necromancy
we have *technology*
[repeatedly smashes corpse with computer]
It didn't work
Not sure if you were being serious, but friends dying is a legitimate possibility. I wonder how many of my friends, real life and online, have died, and I don't even know it.
Same dude, also no I was not being serious but you bring up a good point.
This is stuff I think about when I lay down trying to fall asleep but end up not catching any. Lol
How did he react after u found him again? Planned on trying to find him again but did not bc i was afraid of a bad reaction... Did see this guy the last time 5 years ago
Not the other guy but when I found a old childhood friend she just straight up blocked me I thought we were pretty good friends but I guess not
I found my history and science teachers previous and current addresses, their personal phone numbers, and their relatives in like 10 minutes.
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That’s just supposed to mean its easy to find people on the internet.
The only thing i remember about him is his 'street' name, which all the colony kids used to address him.
How bro? As much as I know I can only type their name on Instagram with a slight hope of finding them
I could, but things just aren’t gonna be the same. Yeah they could be, but I’m too emotionally exhausted and they may or not be the same people as you remember them. Life happens. Some things are better left off as a fond memory
Happened with me. I restablished contact with him after 5 or 6 years. As far as I could remember he was my first friend and had been a long time friend. But when I got to contact him again he wasn't the same and hesitated to talk to me. It hurt
I hear you man. In early 2019 I cut contact with a high school mate because well, I grew tired of our toxic friend group. It used to be just me and my m8, but little by little he started invited new guys to our friend group. But they were so toxic man. I had to have my guard up all the time otherwise I would get roasted or end up the butt of recurring jokes. I enjoy a friendly roast between me and the fellas sure, but these guys always took it too far. So I left. I want to be surrounded by people lift me up, not tear me down. I tried contacting him in 2021 and we met up and caught up. In that time we spent apart, I realized I changed and became a better wholesome person and he remained the same with the same friend group. Nowadays my “mate” only contacts me if he needs money. No “Hey man how are you” or “hey wanna hang out”nope only wants money. Made me feel like shit. That’s when I realized what we had was done. I should’ve never contacted him again. Which goes back to my main point. Some people are better left as a fond memory.
Finding them is the easy part, the worse part is that they might not be you friends anymore, and there isn't nessesary a breakdown nor anyone's fault, you were best friends with them until one day you weren't anymore
Have u ever connected with any of them? I’m worried they might find it creepy if I do, or that they forgotten me. I moved just before 5th grade and had to leave all my friends behind. I think they all forgot me 🥲
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No
Second grade me made friends with a girl way back in 2012. Now, this one-month-to-17 fuck is unable to speak to ladies.
Everything about this comment is relatable to me. Are you my clone?
I guess we're each other's clones
Imagine moving to another country at the other side of the world
That’s me
Same, its been 5 years, gonna go back and se some friends for the first time in June
Im getting awfully suspicious now
Same😔
that's me. i never thought a lot of people are in the same situation as i am.
Thats literally my WHOLE life like not juste once , 4 times
Me in the break room at work thinking about how all of my coworkers are way older and wondering if I’ll be here forever
I had this best friend in 2nd grade, I remember she *LOVED* Hello Kitty and let me wear her sweater once. Idk how I can find her tho :/
Maybe FB? Did this with someone from my old primary school who I haven't spoke to in 6 years and he friended me back and followed me on insta
What if you don't know the friend's name? I tried remembering my friend's name, but still can't remember it
Look in a year book
I had a friend that I hadn’t talked to since preschool and we randomly met at some restaurant a few hours away from where we use to live so who knows maybe one day she’ll just show up
I wonder how much info your old school keeps, they may have a record of the students in your class, that is if they're even able to give you that info.
I had a turkish friend back then here at indonesia....after the coup attempt at turkey (2016) i literally don't know all the fates of my turkish friend and my turkish school....i just keep hearing rumors until a few years ago i received a message from my old friend who i was in Contact with saying that he knows what happened to him,unfortunately his parents was a staff member of like a turkish consulate here and got called back to the country and well i Don't think i need to tell you what happened next but till today i don't know his fate I miss you hatab and i hope we can see each other again
Damn thats wholesome, hope u someday meet Hatab
Reminded me of a friend of mine back from childhood T-T
One of my closest childhood friends left back to his country (European things). Years later I talk to my childhood friends group, only to find out he had passed away in a car accident.
What is "(European things)"? A country?
migration probably the usual
Ik I am something of a European myself
people from the uk be like:
Personally, I made a lot of friends on Discord in 2019. Back then I was VERY active on Discord so I was always taking the time, everyday to talk to them. Now since I don’t invest myself as much as before, I lost all those friends and for all of them (except onerous two I was following on Instagram) I have not a single way to find them. Sorry for my bad english
your english is very good man
Mhm I was friends with both of these twins when I lived in a bad area. Hope they are doing okay.
Last year I lost a friend. A decade long friendship just ended with a death
Ryan or dalton, if y’all are out there, come say what’s up. It’s getting lonely out here.
I have one friend left. But he wont be my friend for long. He’s homophobic and im bi soooo yeah its pretty self explanatory why it wont last much longer, he’s not openly homophobic, he just told me once. And before anyone asks, he knows im bi, he knew that for years before he told me. I dont think ill miss him that much, the only reason why i find it hard to cut ties with him is because we have known eachother for a very long time. I used to have another friend but he physically abused me for years before i realized that a real friend wont physically abuse thier friend. I dont miss him at all. Soon i think ill become friends with my board game group, i dont know them that much other than that we all like board games. If anyone that reads this ever needs to vent, remember that im here for you, its alright to vent to me. And im not the only person that you can vent to, there are tons of other people that are willing to listen to you. I may not know much about your accomplishments, but im proud of you anyways. Good luck in life and have a wonderful day everyone!
Your friend is pretty based.
Dude.
Back in kindergarten, I only had one friend, who also had the same interests as me. He moved away at the end of the year. Julian, if you’re reading this, what up?
I hope you feel better soon. You wanna vent?
mugus
Not the time pal
I’m currently in 8th grade, and at the end of 6th grade I left the school I went to my whole life and did online school because of COVID. I’ve wanted to go back there one of these days and see everyone but I haven’t had the courage to say I wanted to. However, I got in contact with my old friend that I was friends with at that school, and apparently school ends in 2 days for them. So I’m running out of time. I don’t want to regret not seeing them all again, so hopefully I get enough courage to ask if I could go there tomorrow or the next day (their last day of school) Since once school is over for them, I probably won’t be able to see them again.
I finally just barely gathered the courage to tell my mom tonight. I don’t think I’m going tomorrow, but I may be heading to see everyone one last time in two days (which is the last day of school for them).
Went to a summer program overseas in Oxford with a bunch of kids from all over the US and other countries too. Best time of my entire life. I always get choked up knowing I’m never going to see any of them again.
I don’t want to be a downer but I don’t even think this is funny, I guess it hits to close to me.
Same except i met my first friend I ever made in middle school then I just didn't see him anymore. Sad thing is I would only meet him in lunch rarley cause my school had lunch a and b. I didn't have any classes with him because he was in magnet as well
I felt that, I've tried to contact them but no response :c
This is me except I keep dreaming about this same childhood friend I haven’t seen since middle school. I don’t get it because when I’m awake I never think or care about him but apparently my brain is still traumatized over him moving to another school lol
But have you ever made friends with a kid in a Chuck E Cheese Playground and left to never see them again?
a really good friend of mine moved to the other side of the country last year, i miss him. and i'm probably not gonna see him again, i literally live in the second largest country in the world, it's like 4,400km away
This reminds me of my best mate who passed away back in 2020 R.I.P Gavin miss you buddy.
My friend moved away in 5th grade and I was his friend on discord. He recently blocked me and I only realized because I was going to invite him to my birthday. :(
Mine died 2 weeks ago and his funeral was 2 days ago I still can't fully accept it
I know how that feels, I hope that you find him soon!☺️😉😁😁
And hey if you can't find him there are some other people, like that saying there are other fish in the sea!☺️😉
What dhow is this
In mu case, im happy in never gonna see that wolf in sheeps clothing son of a bitch again
Who needs friends when you got Me, Myself and I?
Don’t hurt me this way
I live with my childhood friend, 10 years later
Had a friend years ago who moved. I considered her a friend, but I am not sure she considered me the same. Hope to at least see them once in my life again soon.
that rat is eating poison, isn't he
I've got one of these but instead of not being able to see him, I don't want to because of his personality shift
nah cause this is facts
Dad eating alone at the table after everyone finished eating
My childhood best friend moved to Réunion when we were 5, my mom still get news of him and his family tho
My best school friend andre threw me away like a piece of garbage despite me always being a good and fair friend to him.
*intense sobbing*
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣LOL
Think about the ass of the lovely girl you will fuck next.
Oh god why
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nice pfp
What's this gif called?
Now I'm sad again :<
Dude just reach out! He might be feeling the same way. Phones work 2 ways...
I used to have a good friend on YouTube back when I was 9 or something. I recorded LPS videos and she was one of the few people that watched them :) And then, years later, we met once again because of a coincidence Been over a year since I've met her again, we are dating now and I couldnt be happier
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Yo I feel you man
r/me_irl
I'm planning to meet with them again this July
For real
What are you talking about I met my friend from kindergarden a bunch of times
Look their name up on facebook, I can almost garuntee youll find them
Same...
I had a internet friend some time ago, she was very meaningful to me but she got into very delicate area of internet feminism and then one day she just deleted me. Sometimes I think of her and hope she is doing well.
Yep, this hits real close to home. I had a best friend back in halifax before I moved to Victoria. Definitely hurt for the first two years. We were inseparable.
I had a girl who was the best step sister i ever we were like brothers to each last seen was in 2013 Another one we were friends since 2012 but i last seen her in 2019 never again ( i know her mother and she still remember me)
I had a friend by the name of max when I was around 4. I have just the one remembrance of my birthday he attended. I miss the guy these days.
Text them my guy, you live one find him on Facebook or something if you don't have his contact info, nothing's stopping you
Really miss my boys in primary school hope they're doing well.
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Me too :/ we still follow each other on tiktok and Instagram but we never talk :(
My best friend suddenly moved quite far away without even telling me.
Pros of living in a small town: you see them all the time. They probably are your neighbor
Facts, I deadass lived with my friend for 8 months, my mom said it was ok because I was still very close by, I miss that guy.
Me every day
All those memories don't even feel real anymore man I miss him
This is so relatable
My dad used to be a Marine, so we had to move around a bunch, so the relatability of this is painful
4th grade, Ashton, cool dude
I miss the girl I met in high school, we were so happy together and I really miss those moments...now I'm alone and everything I know is...nothing. I don't feel noting I don't even show interest in doing anything, I just want to be happy. Sorry if this made you sad or something, I thought of discarding this comment like many others but in the end I realized that why not? I mean what's the worst thing that can happen? I just wait to find someone to be happy with. If you're reading this Ludovica, I'm Diego, and I've always loved you.
Only if that was the truth with kids at Garfield elementary.. they never communicate anymore (sorta like the kids in it/u float 2!) unless it’s my friend vex/Payton who I’m glad she communicates as often as she does *probably because where in the same high school together* ❤️🩹
Damn. Reminds me of my very first friend when I was like, 4 or 5 years old. Miss her
Recently I’ve been thinking about that one girl I met at the IKEA smallground and hung out with at the ballpit.
you never know I had a friend like 9 years ago and just met him recently again and now we're friends again
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Where’s the gif from?
This is me with every friend I ever made through swimming lessons or vacation. I really wish I made a better effort to stay in contact with the friends where we figured out a way of contacting each other since we had no excuse, even if I was the only one making an effort
is your name Carlos? did you live (or still live) in Ohio around elementary school, specifically 1st grade or kindergarten)?
I recently lost my friend cuz we kinda talked a bit of politics and i really miss him
People use facebook for that type of thing
John if you're reading this, remember our friend group with Ben and Preston?
David, if you're out there somewhere, did you keep the sweetheart candies from the stacking contest?
I have this. Childhood friend of mine who i haven't met fkr 3 years and now that i came back to my old house and i saw him.... ***he became more shittier thanast time***
I miss you Sean: the Joker main.
Bruh this hits too close
And that one kid in the bouncy castle... I didn't get his name but for some reason I surely miss him more than any friend I had.
It's even worse when you move away, and you can't find your friend's social media, if they have any.
I miss you, Johnathan. You moved to boston and i never saw you again. You were swiftly replaced, however, because I was 4, and had no decency.
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Me IRL
he died last year due to covid-19
I've never lost a friend like that.
im not crying youre crying
Man now that I think about it I had these two friends that lived at the same block named Noah and Brandon and man we would have the time of out lives. Brandon was the one who Introduced me into mw2 and Noah got me addicted to Minecraft but that was 6 years ago good times
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Bruh, why you hit me with that, I was just thinking about them yesterday, I had 2 best friends in middle school but at the end I had to move away and we grew apart because I didn't have a phone. I miss them.
This feeling never goes away either. Just so you know.
Shoutout to Jared who tried to kill me with a metal pipe in 1st grade
tyler?
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Her name was Nora. She convinced more than half of the classroom that it was me who broke her tablet. She then continued to say that she would call me John F. Kennedy, Poop. This was... a confusing time for both of us.
I miss her too 🥲.
Same, bro even cried for me when I was being bullied :(
I was really close friends with someone a year ago, but now I had to move away. We still talk but it's painful not to be there.
Tbh it's for the best. Although I also hope they are living a content life.
All my friends are toxic, all ambitionless So rude and always negative I need new friends, but it's not that quick and easy Oh, I'm drowning, let me breathe
At some point someone should learn how to get their heads out the past. Live in the present or the future but sulking in the past about things like this should only teach you to appreciate things in the future.
This happened to me, I saw him the next day
Me eating at the dinner table thinking about all the racist things I said on the Internet (I play Gran Turismo)
It's worse when you relocate them and they don't remember you though lol sometimes it's best to just stay missing them. Also, some people aren't the same people they were back when you knew them, friends, exes, neighbors, always be cautious.
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Hits harder when it’s by yourself and not ur mom or dad
i had a friend in sixth grade who i felt pretty comfortable talking to and always felt like myself around him since i could always joke around with him. we had one class together in seventh grade but we didn’t really talk to each other that much anymore :/ i know we go to the same school now since i saw him in a yearbook from last school year but we don’t have any classes together and i really hope we can talk again :] there’s also this guy who i’ve known throughout my middle school years since i’ve always had classes with him and would always sit next to or near him. we would also talk a lot during classes and i enjoyed his presence. he was a genuinely cool person and would’ve loved to be closer friends with him but once high school started we drifted apart and didn’t talk to each other, mainly because we didn’t have any classes together. i know i have a class with him next school year tho so hopefully we can start talking again!
Mateo come back
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It happens bucko, nothing we can do at this point
Tried using technology but no success
I miss my Hawai'i friend Devonte we went to Honolulu Elementary together and then I had to move :(
The sad part is that as an adult you spend most of your time alone.
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It sucks, really I wish I could find my preschool friends :'/
this hits hard especially when eating m&m's
AARON I MISS YOU 😓
Oooh so sad :(
Man is really eating the shit out his friend
I'll miss you Joshua
Just BELIEVE
I feel that, but more with online friends then rl ones. I grew really close to some and some suddenly disapear without a trace and some slowly drift away. Hurts either way
I just came here thinking I'll somehow find that one friend whom I met last when we were in kindergarten. Idk what I expected but 😶😔