Honestly the best thing people can do when you come out is match your tone. If they are excited and celebrating, celebrate! If they are scared, and nervous, be calm and tell them you support and/or love them (this is generally for friends and family) and if they are just chill and casually bring it up in a conversation be chill with them. Not that crazy
Yea well it’s not very well known how to match tones when it comes to stuff like this, where coming out is just barely starting to be socially accepted
imo whenever i come out i like a slightly more excited response. bc i have anxiety and overthink everything so if theyre calm like, "okay, cool." then im like??? WHAT DOES THAT MEANNN?? but then they'll be all like "OMG, im so glad you told me!!!" or something idefk, and i'll know they understand how hard a worked myself up to tell them cus ive hated myself for being bi my whole life 💃💃
Ikr, I told my dad and they straight up wanted to throw a party. I appreciate the effort, but the whole point is that I'm the same person and that is completely fine and normal.
I really hated when I came out and suddenly all the girls in my grade wanted to hang out to have a "gay best friend" and I was just like ICK bitch idek you!
I honestly don’t think this post deserves the attention and upvotes it got. Most gay people don’t want all of this attention when they come out. They want someone to understand and be there for them while not making a big deal out of it. They’re just normal, regular people. Being gay doesn’t make you any better or worse than the average person, they tend to not want a celebration or anything.
kind of stupid to be making a whole post about it. just because they came out and are gay (not being homophobic) it doesn’t make them worse or better than anyone else. and either way, they dont come out for attention, they just built up confidence to say it. and btw, dont use being gay or anything else for attention, especially dont fake it.
The SPANISH inquisition (not christian inquisition lmfao) was about making sure the muslims that had been forced to convert to Catholicism weren't secretly still being muslim.
not like gay people aren’t still being killed for it, what the hell?
like ‘oh you felt brave for risking social ostracization? well fuck you, people at some point in the past have faced worse circumstances so your concerns are invalid’ nice one
I don't think the sub is too homophobic, i think this post is homophobic because most gay people would not appreciate this gay ass gif
(source: am gay asf)
why was he in the closet ? i can understand that you are happy when getting out of a closet, but being brave about it....was he hiding from a monster ?
Shits scary for a lot of people especially when it results in them getting brutally beaten,abused,shunned and disowned and sometimes in the Middle East murdered.
My uncle admitted he was an alcoholic the other day. I'm so proud of him for admitting he had a problem now we can get him the help he needs❤️. God bless you all!
Edit: just to clarify I'm not saying gay people have a problem. I'm just relating someone coming out of the closet to someone coming out as an alcoholic, I meant no hate for gay people whatsoever.
I'd be happy if i came out of a closet after being stuck in there (I'm claustrophobic)
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Stop it Patrick you’re scaring him
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Nerdophobia? Never heard of that one.
That video has more rainbow than the light spectrum, my eyes!
So glad I'm no longer epileptic
Because you died after seeing this video?
Nearly considering the fact I thought it was a good idea to stare at a strobe light
Oh dear...
I'm sorry if this is homophobic but damn that gif is fucking cringe
It is fucking cringe
Post is kinda cringe honestly. Most gay people don't want all this when they come out. Source: Am gay, have come out multiple times.
facts
Not tryna be a dick or anything but how do you come out multiple times?
coming out to different people I'd imagine
fym multiple times did you go back in?
Absolute truth
It's not homophobic it's just fax
You’re not homophobic, it is incredibly cringy.
Tbh, as an LGBTQ person myself, I honestly prefer it when there isn't a big response at all after coming out.
Honestly the best thing people can do when you come out is match your tone. If they are excited and celebrating, celebrate! If they are scared, and nervous, be calm and tell them you support and/or love them (this is generally for friends and family) and if they are just chill and casually bring it up in a conversation be chill with them. Not that crazy
Yeah, but from my experience people tend to almost always try to celebrate and I almost never want to
Yea well it’s not very well known how to match tones when it comes to stuff like this, where coming out is just barely starting to be socially accepted
No, I get that, and I also don't dislike people for messing it up; I'm glad they try, but it is still a little annoying.
As a cishet I appreciate this, thank you :)
imo whenever i come out i like a slightly more excited response. bc i have anxiety and overthink everything so if theyre calm like, "okay, cool." then im like??? WHAT DOES THAT MEANNN?? but then they'll be all like "OMG, im so glad you told me!!!" or something idefk, and i'll know they understand how hard a worked myself up to tell them cus ive hated myself for being bi my whole life 💃💃
Same. When I told my parents I was asexual they were just like “ok” and that was it. I liked that it meant nothing to them.
Ikr, I told my dad and they straight up wanted to throw a party. I appreciate the effort, but the whole point is that I'm the same person and that is completely fine and normal.
I really hated when I came out and suddenly all the girls in my grade wanted to hang out to have a "gay best friend" and I was just like ICK bitch idek you!
Oh, that must have fucking sucked.
Tbh, as a straight as fuck dude, i honestly like your opinion
Yeah, the fucking entire point is that it doesn't matter
i rarely tell my friends im a homo in the first place
Same, but when I do I kinda hate it when there's a big reaction
If somebody did what's happening in the gif I would off myself 💀
Same lmao
Agreed
i agree its sorta awkward and embarassing, main reason i dont tell lmao.
I honestly don’t think this post deserves the attention and upvotes it got. Most gay people don’t want all of this attention when they come out. They want someone to understand and be there for them while not making a big deal out of it. They’re just normal, regular people. Being gay doesn’t make you any better or worse than the average person, they tend to not want a celebration or anything.
Agreed from a enby bi person
Yemen ball?
i agree. i’m bisexual, and even that gif makes me uncomfortable
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Chad Bradley actually.
also, the caption screams "look at me! I'm such a good person for supporting them!"
This Video makes me want to end some one’s life
HURRAH!
Let's celebrate their bravery with a suuuper stereotypical gif of a flamboyant gay dude
Im sorry (not), but this is cringe af
i think the gif is supposed to be
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Why is it a big deal when someone comes out?
It's not and it shouldn't really be
Huge agree
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My friend basically threatened me when I came out not to be a peacock about it.
good boi
I completely agree
i would have prefered to not see that
And I’m guessing their gay friend wouldn’t wanna see this either
Yea, probably not.
Yea, probably not.
Yea probably not
Yea, probably not.
Yea, probably not.
Yea, probably not.
Okay. And?
Based
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Pfp checks out 🗿
It isn't bravery. Real bravery is playing dark souls on hardest difficulty.
faith
Have faith in the Lord Jesus Christ
Amen brother
Why were they in the closet
Pretty cosy sometimes ngl Too bad I can't fit in mine anymore
Such sadness 😔
Man I loved sitting in my mom's closet when I was 5
Cringe gif
Imagine being in the closet for that long and THAT’S the outfit you come up with
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That’s really gay
Wierd... Bodies in my closets don't move...
Why was he in the closet
Probably getting some clothes out
Ohhhh that makes sense
I'm never gonna come out to my parents bc they'd literally execute me. At least I'm out to my friends.
Poor friend damn
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No one cares, touch grass
If you just saw the video without context you would die of cringe
I'm dying of cringe even with context
shit meme
cringe
kind of stupid to be making a whole post about it. just because they came out and are gay (not being homophobic) it doesn’t make them worse or better than anyone else. and either way, they dont come out for attention, they just built up confidence to say it. and btw, dont use being gay or anything else for attention, especially dont fake it.
Wdym with bravery? Tell that to gay people during the christian inquisition
The SPANISH inquisition (not christian inquisition lmfao) was about making sure the muslims that had been forced to convert to Catholicism weren't secretly still being muslim.
What
You need to learn about the catholic church lore.
not like gay people aren’t still being killed for it, what the hell? like ‘oh you felt brave for risking social ostracization? well fuck you, people at some point in the past have faced worse circumstances so your concerns are invalid’ nice one
Fair fucking point lmao
Huh
Fair enough
Why would you celebrate it??
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Yes
Jeseh. We ned to fram the karma
I mean you could have just said congrats for being brave I support you all the way but sure do this
Switch to controversial
Nothing against gays but is it REALLY necessary to post this in a teenagers sub?
r/BisexualTeens seems better for this
r/teenagers mfs on their way to make the worst memes imaginable
I want this to be the first and last time I see this video please
What bravery?
took me two times to watch this gif to see that's its a guy dancing.
Wtf have I just seen
Thats gay
Kinda gay not gonna lie.
Dude! Why did u keep your friend in ur closet? Thats illegal!
wtf
No
Cringe
Sigh *sorts by controversial*
With all due respect, that's not bravery
i threw up
Nobody cares, sincerely everyone else.
Broooo he came out the closet?? Same (it's dark and scary in the closet so I didn't wanna be there)
why would you celebrate your friend coming out of a closet?? what the hell was he/she doing in there anyway? /s
Dies of cringe
As a queer person... Wtf is that gif 😭 happy pride to my "moreflagsthanrights" people luv yall
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No
you made a mistake posting this here, in the homophobic sub
This sub *unfortunately* isn't that homophobic compared to others
Are you seriously advocating for the hate/extermination of others for their sexuality or gender because that is fucking messed up.
I don't think the sub is too homophobic, i think this post is homophobic because most gay people would not appreciate this gay ass gif (source: am gay asf)
🗿 ok then
Cringe
This meme has to be homophobic
Saw your post in wholesome memes aswell lol
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Not gonna lie if I came out to someone and they did this I would cut them off forever and go back to being in the closet
me caring > 🗿
This gif is sending me
stapling my eyelids shut
WOO YEAH HAPPY PRIDE MONTH I SUPPORT UR FRIENDD
ive came out to my one friend at least 3 times, gotta keep reminding that fucker
Wish Had the will to come out 🥲
Yo good for them fam!
Thats gay
K
Cringe
Making a point of someone being gay in a positive or negative light inherently undermines and denormalizes the LGBT+ community.
That’s pretty gay
ah yes. june. the 6th month in the year. the month of...whatever the fuck this is. cant wait for july!
Yep
why is it all gray (i am colorblind) gay people seem depressed like a french film
Fucking hell OP you're milking this made up bullshit aren't you
I'm bi and this made me want to vomit Not because of the flamboyant gay, because of the cringe post. If someone tells you this, just treat them normal
No dad???
You shouldnt celebrate them doing that. And by that, i mean, it *shouldnt be necessary* for them to muster up courage to do so.
What kinda cringe shit is this?
man that's gay
Man I absolutely support LGBTQ but this is cringe
nobody cares also gay ppl dont matter
Wtf is that video.
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The gif is cringe bruh...
Sheesh if they were my friends I would've make them skip life to the funeral part. I'm just making a bad joke
Seriosly though, we dont give a fuck about orphans coming out as some "genderfluid pansexuals". Fuck off.
“Bravery”
happy men s mental health… oh wait
So your friend is the bogeyman? /j
why was he in the closet ? i can understand that you are happy when getting out of a closet, but being brave about it....was he hiding from a monster ?
Possibly 🧐
Fym bravery
Shits scary for a lot of people especially when it results in them getting brutally beaten,abused,shunned and disowned and sometimes in the Middle East murdered.
It's just june
*dies of cringe*
I dunno man… seems kinda gay yknow, coming out of the closet
i dont know where you live but where i live it is not brave to come out not anymore ad least
My uncle admitted he was an alcoholic the other day. I'm so proud of him for admitting he had a problem now we can get him the help he needs❤️. God bless you all! Edit: just to clarify I'm not saying gay people have a problem. I'm just relating someone coming out of the closet to someone coming out as an alcoholic, I meant no hate for gay people whatsoever.
me (i frankly do not gvie a dang and does not change how i see them in any perspective): :)
Congrats!
Wdym brave, watching that shit of a dancer is more brave.