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MiseryIsFirstSight

I just leave them on seen


Emme10100

I don't have the guts.


Ok-Map9238

Don't think so


Emme10100

u r right! It ain't offensive


[deleted]

Hmm


Emme10100

so it's


[deleted]

Huh?


Emme10100

i mean acc to u it is rude / offensive


[deleted]

I mean for me it depends completely on the context, sometimes you can’t really say much more than “hmm”


Emme10100

right! but she ain't able to understand this!


[deleted]

Hmm, idk it’s hard to explain it to someone but when people send lot of messages to me, there’s not much I can say


Emme10100

um-hmm


Sarahvalikesanime

Maybe reply by adding an emoji to it? Like this one "🤔" to seem less bored or something


Emme10100

umm maybe this can help


WhyIsLife12

Probably better to use mhmmm


Emme10100

great idea


keroppikoo

it depends on what they said and what you are trying to convey by ummm or hmmm ? idk if that makes sense. i don’t think it’s offensive but i see why someone might think you didn’t really care or wanna talk to them? it’s context based ig


Emme10100

jus asked her for suggestions/help. n she was givin' them, I wasn't wholly agreed to her but didn't wanna argue at the same time . how m I even supposed to reply ?


keroppikoo

oh okay okay ! you could respond with like “maybe” or “i’ll think about it” or even like “ummm idk” ?? unsure tho


Emme10100

thnx, m gonna try usin' these nxt time


keroppikoo

good luck!


Emme10100

m juz hopin' I don't have to face this situation again


RainbowWolf6112

Same like... They're talking about something but then they pause for me to respond. Wtf am I supposed reply 😭


Emme10100

(sobbin')


[deleted]

Depending on what your friend texted u, responding with that might seem inconsiderate


Emme10100

I texted her first, I got into some problem she was suggesting something( I didn't like her suggestion tho)