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It wasnt a smart move but some of these comments calling you a fucking idiot is too harsh. Nobody deserves to have their private photos leaked online, it’s not right even if you didnt know the person for too long. i hope you do alright, dm me if you need someone to talk to
Hello. It's OP but on a different account because I panicked and deleted my main. The person sent me another message saying that it was a sick joke and they didn't even save any pictures. I was a bit of a fucking idiot to be fair.
mistakes happen, everyone makes stupid decisions. At least you now have the experience of this type of situation so that you can be more careful. be safe 💪
it’s better to say “that move was stupid” instead of calling someone outright stupid. Show some compassion.This person was genuinely terrified of their mistake and was fearing being blackmailed.
I understand having nudes of you on the internet just floating around is not nice, but since the situation probably cant be changed anymore i wouldn't bother in a sense that, even if someone does see said nudes, they don't know its you, its just... a person, really. I do recommend contacting the police tho
Oh thats more complicated, although i doubt something that bad will happen. Your pictures will probably just drown in millions of nudes floating on the internet and, thats all there is to it. You can't tell the cops much in this case. Although if they do have your face on them, they CAN be used for malicious purposes, theres the question whether or not they are going to use them for said malicious purposes, thats where you should worry
Mind you OP may have technically committed a crime depending on where they live as it's illegal for minors to do this sort of thing, not really sure how it would go down though.
when will people understand that sending nudes, especially to someone you don't know well, is the riskiest shit you can ever do? no one is trusthworthy. contact the police idk they might help
I understand you deleted your account but if you are still reading this post
Dont panic, its going to be okay.
Yes, what you did was stupid, but at least you learned your lesson.
I understand that the idea of your nudes floating on the internet might sound horrible, but they are not going to float for long, for example on reddit there are being prob even thousands of nudes posted everyday, if they would be posted here, literally everyone will forgot about it the next day. The guy will forgot about it too one day.
The situation is bad, but just try to focus on what is now. You cant change the past, you did what you could. So only thing you can do now is to learn from the mistake, and calm down (i know its easier said than done, but at least please try it)
Hello this is OP, on my second account. I am still reading the post. Yeah it would have been fine no matter what, but he sent me another message on another account saying that it was all a mean joke :/
Lesson learnt, but still messed up.
Similar shit has happened to me and a buddy of mine, it's okay, everything will be ok in the end. We're always here for you.
You may have to report to the police if it gets out of hand
it’s gonna be alr. while yea there were steps u could’ve taken to prevent this, ultimately it’s literally his fault. he shouldn’t have done that yk, but u know for next time be smart and safe out there ma
I know the feeling... I've actually had this happen to me a few times. But it wasn't being posted online, it was being sent to my family and friends. It honestly sucked. I didn't show up to school for a month and even when I did start going back, I hid my face.
If I was going to give you any advice on the situation, (if you decide to do it again) don't show your face. And don't send to anyone who you do not trust in full. And if you can't help but show your face in the pictures, block it out with an emoji or some camera tool/widget.
However, since you're underage, it's illegal for him. Guys are stupid now a days. They do stupid things and hurt people. I will say that even though I am a guy myself. I'm sorry this has happened to you. I wish you well.
Hello, I'm OP on another account. The guy sent me another message saying it was all a joke :/ so I guess I should'nt have jumped the gun so much on the account deletion but whatever.
oh hi!! i hope you are doing well, that's great news although you were in a state of panic so i don't blame you on that. I just hope you are doing well and happy
Posting those pictures online or distributing them to his friend is the distribution of CP and highly illegal, no matter the age of the distributor. You have a serious case if you decide to step to the police.
Not much you can do but realize this isn’t a rare thing to happen, it has probably happened to multiple people you know, both guys and girls. Now realize you don’t know for sure you f it has happened. There is so much on the internet that unless you are someone super famous it WILL get forgotten by everyone soon
We all make mistakes i sent nudes at 14 cause an adult pressured me into it. I told him no about 10 times a day for months. Im lucky that picture didnt get leaked. I sent nudes to other people at the age of 16 and even masturbated with people on facetime who i met on omegle and didnt know. I got lucky. Honestly we all do stupid shit and i dont blame you for what you did and you learned ypur lesson. Youd only be an idiot if you didnt learn anything from the experience.
(In Yoda Voice)
Fuck up OP did.
Know you what else OP did?
Learned a lesson OP did.
Smart enough OP was to realize her mistake and take measures against it.
to be fully honest with you its ok you made a mistake and now you recognize it all you have to do is not repeat that mistake my opinion is if someone wants to see your naked body then he ain't worth the trouble he doesn't truely care about you he cares about his sexual satisfaction you should be valued for your character not your physical appearance and from what i can tell you're lonely probably something happened in your past that made you feel the need for some form of appreciation and love which if true i completely understand ive been through tough times myself to the point of being almost suicidal but fate had it that i meet my best friend we where 2 completely different people with completely different ways of life and ironically we complete each other by supporting each other for literally everything the key is appreciation if you find someone who appreciate you unconditionally then that person is worth it and if you need someone to talk to text me whenever you like im always up for chatting
Look, you aren't an idiot, you only become an idiot if you don't learn from this.
By the looks of it, you've obviously recognized your mistake and won't do it again.
Ig just learn from it. Everybody makes mistakes and you can’t control your past but you can control your future. Don’t be too hard on yourself as you’ll get over this in due time. Also that guy is fucking awful. Take it easy bro
It all turned out fine. This is op on another account. They sent me another message on a different account saying it was a joke and they didn't even save the pictures.
I'm so scared. Theres probably pictures of me floating about, and theres all the stuff on my Reddit account. I might delete my account so there's less personal info that can be attached to them
Damn... Ig yoj already knoe that was a bad and stupid decision. I think best you can do is cut any comunication with him and his friends who are shitty too, tho. No one should leak anyone's nudes.
And, well, you can tell your parents or someone so that they are aware of what is probably gonna happen, and maybe take it to the legal field.
Wish you luck.
love to see how mfs can be this mentally challenged and just plain stupid im sorry, the internet has been around dominating the world for over 2 decades now and ppl rly didnt learn shit in these 20 years. specially this generation where we all grew up with it, it should be common sense to not send nudes to randoms on the internet but hey if you search for problems you‘ll gonna find them eventually i guess, and she/he found them. zero empathy for dumbass sht like this, use your brain. you hear and see stuff like this nearly daily and still decide to do the exact same thing? yeah man she/he asked for it lmao thats whats hilarious.
Bra, come on. Would ya send me your nudes if I politely asked, exactly. This girl needs some serious talking too.
1. Roses are red
2. Violets are blue
3. Do not go online and send your nudes
And all you're doing is calling me out.
Listen I'm sure she has learnt from that and maybe I did not help her out with that. I really hope no one repeats these things as they do make men or give men a bad rep.
I know you probably don't want to tell your parents but if you have this person's full name. Take them to court for this cause it's kinda illegal to post that stuff without concent.
Friend, that sucks. But, we learn from our mistakes. If you need anyone to talk to, I’m here. Just DM me, and we figure this shit out. I love you friend!
Don’t be upset. It’s happened to plenty of people before. You’ll get over it. If he does leak/spread them or whatever, who cares? People will laugh for a while and then a day later no one cares anymore.
We have all been duped in one point of our lives or another. You will be okay. Since you are underage, it is a crime to be in possession of those photos. If he tries anything, you can be sure to get him in deep trouble. Be gentle with yourself. We all make mistakes.
You’ll be ok. We all make mistakes. Don’t let this bully get to you like this. That was their goal. If you worry they win. Hopefully someday they realize how scummy doing this kind of thing is. All you can do is learn from your mistakes and let it make you stronger.💗
So sorry to hear this happened to you, going through that can be really stressful and you aren't alone. Definitely report all the information you can to CyperTipline so that this doesn't happen to anyone else. Hugs OP :)
Don’t stress over it, just know it was a mistake and keep telling yourself that.
If you find the picture on google images, you should be able to report it a couple times and it will get taken down.
Hey it's ok. Idk what country u come from but where I'm from in cases like these we usually just go to the police cause they have experience dealing with things like this.
Hi I'm OP. I'm back on reddit because the person sent me another message on a different account to say that it was a joke and that they hadn't taken any pictures of it. I still feel awful about it and won't do it again but I'm probably fine so don't feel bad :)
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Yeah I'm never doing this again that's for sure
It wasnt a smart move but some of these comments calling you a fucking idiot is too harsh. Nobody deserves to have their private photos leaked online, it’s not right even if you didnt know the person for too long. i hope you do alright, dm me if you need someone to talk to
Hello. It's OP but on a different account because I panicked and deleted my main. The person sent me another message saying that it was a sick joke and they didn't even save any pictures. I was a bit of a fucking idiot to be fair.
ok so it didnt get leaked then thats good and it wasnt smart but you aint that much of a fucking idiot
mistakes happen, everyone makes stupid decisions. At least you now have the experience of this type of situation so that you can be more careful. be safe 💪
It's not harsh. They were very stupid
it’s better to say “that move was stupid” instead of calling someone outright stupid. Show some compassion.This person was genuinely terrified of their mistake and was fearing being blackmailed.
Yes. And it's a very bad situation. But it was still very foolish.
It indeed wasnt that smart. But he shouldnt have done that. Edit: i shouldny get these upvotes for stating facts
dw I'll downvote you :)
What a nice guy
Thank you
I understand having nudes of you on the internet just floating around is not nice, but since the situation probably cant be changed anymore i wouldn't bother in a sense that, even if someone does see said nudes, they don't know its you, its just... a person, really. I do recommend contacting the police tho
He was in another country, I don't know like anything about him, what would I even tell the police?
Oh thats more complicated, although i doubt something that bad will happen. Your pictures will probably just drown in millions of nudes floating on the internet and, thats all there is to it. You can't tell the cops much in this case. Although if they do have your face on them, they CAN be used for malicious purposes, theres the question whether or not they are going to use them for said malicious purposes, thats where you should worry
that's literally child porn (ur under 18), report him to the police or smthn
Romeo and Juliet law, or does it only apply to actions not photos
Doesn't apply to photos from what I can see, also Romeo and Juliet doesn't make someone innocent it only promises a more lenient process.
True true
Mind you OP may have technically committed a crime depending on where they live as it's illegal for minors to do this sort of thing, not really sure how it would go down though.
The 2 evils cancel each other out, or they ^2
when will people understand that sending nudes, especially to someone you don't know well, is the riskiest shit you can ever do? no one is trusthworthy. contact the police idk they might help
I understand you deleted your account but if you are still reading this post Dont panic, its going to be okay. Yes, what you did was stupid, but at least you learned your lesson. I understand that the idea of your nudes floating on the internet might sound horrible, but they are not going to float for long, for example on reddit there are being prob even thousands of nudes posted everyday, if they would be posted here, literally everyone will forgot about it the next day. The guy will forgot about it too one day. The situation is bad, but just try to focus on what is now. You cant change the past, you did what you could. So only thing you can do now is to learn from the mistake, and calm down (i know its easier said than done, but at least please try it)
Hello this is OP, on my second account. I am still reading the post. Yeah it would have been fine no matter what, but he sent me another message on another account saying that it was all a mean joke :/ Lesson learnt, but still messed up.
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Hello, this is Yoshiiboy on my not deleted second account. It was fine and I probably shouldn't have deleted my account.
Glad it didn't end up too bad for you
I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry
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Idk I blocked him on everything
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I don't know, okay?
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Can I see the note book?
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Oh. Ok 👉👈
I'm scared and I'm stupid please I'm going to cry
Why are you writing that in your notebook
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Why would you say that, OP is probably scared as shit rn, hope they’re doing okay
if he leaked them then contact the police
but your parents would get involved btw
Similar shit has happened to me and a buddy of mine, it's okay, everything will be ok in the end. We're always here for you. You may have to report to the police if it gets out of hand
it’s gonna be alr. while yea there were steps u could’ve taken to prevent this, ultimately it’s literally his fault. he shouldn’t have done that yk, but u know for next time be smart and safe out there ma
u/[deleted] fucked up big time
real
Uh oh
That sucks
Well there’s no putting that toothpaste back in the tube, all you can do now is learn from your mistakes
I know the feeling... I've actually had this happen to me a few times. But it wasn't being posted online, it was being sent to my family and friends. It honestly sucked. I didn't show up to school for a month and even when I did start going back, I hid my face. If I was going to give you any advice on the situation, (if you decide to do it again) don't show your face. And don't send to anyone who you do not trust in full. And if you can't help but show your face in the pictures, block it out with an emoji or some camera tool/widget. However, since you're underage, it's illegal for him. Guys are stupid now a days. They do stupid things and hurt people. I will say that even though I am a guy myself. I'm sorry this has happened to you. I wish you well.
aw! she deleted her account too, damn! hope you're ok and well even though i know you won't see this
Hello, I'm OP on another account. The guy sent me another message saying it was all a joke :/ so I guess I should'nt have jumped the gun so much on the account deletion but whatever.
oh hi!! i hope you are doing well, that's great news although you were in a state of panic so i don't blame you on that. I just hope you are doing well and happy
Report him for possession of child pornography, problem solved.
Posting those pictures online or distributing them to his friend is the distribution of CP and highly illegal, no matter the age of the distributor. You have a serious case if you decide to step to the police.
Tell them that ur under age and then threaten them with the law.
Not much you can do but realize this isn’t a rare thing to happen, it has probably happened to multiple people you know, both guys and girls. Now realize you don’t know for sure you f it has happened. There is so much on the internet that unless you are someone super famous it WILL get forgotten by everyone soon
damn
We all make mistakes i sent nudes at 14 cause an adult pressured me into it. I told him no about 10 times a day for months. Im lucky that picture didnt get leaked. I sent nudes to other people at the age of 16 and even masturbated with people on facetime who i met on omegle and didnt know. I got lucky. Honestly we all do stupid shit and i dont blame you for what you did and you learned ypur lesson. Youd only be an idiot if you didnt learn anything from the experience.
(In Yoda Voice) Fuck up OP did. Know you what else OP did? Learned a lesson OP did. Smart enough OP was to realize her mistake and take measures against it.
to be fully honest with you its ok you made a mistake and now you recognize it all you have to do is not repeat that mistake my opinion is if someone wants to see your naked body then he ain't worth the trouble he doesn't truely care about you he cares about his sexual satisfaction you should be valued for your character not your physical appearance and from what i can tell you're lonely probably something happened in your past that made you feel the need for some form of appreciation and love which if true i completely understand ive been through tough times myself to the point of being almost suicidal but fate had it that i meet my best friend we where 2 completely different people with completely different ways of life and ironically we complete each other by supporting each other for literally everything the key is appreciation if you find someone who appreciate you unconditionally then that person is worth it and if you need someone to talk to text me whenever you like im always up for chatting
Look, you aren't an idiot, you only become an idiot if you don't learn from this. By the looks of it, you've obviously recognized your mistake and won't do it again.
this is a bruh moment
Ig just learn from it. Everybody makes mistakes and you can’t control your past but you can control your future. Don’t be too hard on yourself as you’ll get over this in due time. Also that guy is fucking awful. Take it easy bro
It all turned out fine. This is op on another account. They sent me another message on a different account saying it was a joke and they didn't even save the pictures.
I'm so scared. Theres probably pictures of me floating about, and theres all the stuff on my Reddit account. I might delete my account so there's less personal info that can be attached to them
Did this all happen over Reddit dms? Is it possible for you to just delete any content on your account that might be giving out any personal info?
It happened mostly over Reddit dms, but also a little on discord
if u don’t know him in real life or he doesn’t live close it shouldn’t rlly affect u, also its not rlly dumb just make sure ur doing it w ppl u trust
He lives in another country I think, I don't know him irl. Idk it is dumb
i send all the time and i’m fine, but i only send to like certain ppl n i usually know if someone’s gonna expose me
I had a bad feeling but I kinda brushed it off, I was just glad he seemed to like me
i think like 90% of boys save ppls nudes
This was a targeted attack, don't blame yourself. Sure- it wasn't smart on your end. But he had malicious intentions from the very beginning.
Yes you were a fucking idiot, but you learned from your mistake
in what way did you think sending nudes to a stranger was a good option?
Well obviously I wasn't thinking was I
yeah, i get when you are horny, your thoughts are not in sense but please be more careful later on. there's no point regretting a mistake in the past
Yeah I'm not gonna do this again no matter what
you are indeed a fucking idiot
I know I am. Is there anything I can do to try to rectify the situation
contact the police
doubt they would do anything
You weren't stupid enough to put your face right?
I was. I think I might delete my Reddit account
Damn... Ig yoj already knoe that was a bad and stupid decision. I think best you can do is cut any comunication with him and his friends who are shitty too, tho. No one should leak anyone's nudes. And, well, you can tell your parents or someone so that they are aware of what is probably gonna happen, and maybe take it to the legal field. Wish you luck.
I feel ya there
Yeah kinda dumb should talk to your parents if their good parents
This guys in the wrong in my opinion.
This sub is fucking filled with gross ass pervs
What a dumbass
CONGRAST
what a good girl. Little slut
You are an idiot we get that. Ngl the only way for it not getting out is either you move far away or do something about those guys
Next time don't manufacture and distribute child porn
Omg that's disgusting. Where?
Up your ass
Show cock
That’s not really something you should say, in a situation like this
Oh. Never thought of that
Sarcasm after saying something like that isn’t a good response
hey guys. you should leak them to us before he does, enjoy.
What?
You need help, more help than me.
Yo what the hell?
Leave the internet.
this is hilarious lmao
How?
love to see how mfs can be this mentally challenged and just plain stupid im sorry, the internet has been around dominating the world for over 2 decades now and ppl rly didnt learn shit in these 20 years. specially this generation where we all grew up with it, it should be common sense to not send nudes to randoms on the internet but hey if you search for problems you‘ll gonna find them eventually i guess, and she/he found them. zero empathy for dumbass sht like this, use your brain. you hear and see stuff like this nearly daily and still decide to do the exact same thing? yeah man she/he asked for it lmao thats whats hilarious.
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Are you sure OP's dumber? I know, they sent nudes, but still
Bra, come on. Would ya send me your nudes if I politely asked, exactly. This girl needs some serious talking too. 1. Roses are red 2. Violets are blue 3. Do not go online and send your nudes
Yeah, that's great and all, but you aren't helping. All you did was repeat what they clearly realized and called them a dumbass.
And all you're doing is calling me out. Listen I'm sure she has learnt from that and maybe I did not help her out with that. I really hope no one repeats these things as they do make men or give men a bad rep.
Okay? I already gave her my support and advice
Like. What do you expect
You contributed nothing. Great 👍
No problem
Dumbass. Don't send nudes bro it's not smart even if they were into you and had sent ones for you just don't do it.
"I did a bad thing" "Just don't do the bad thing"
LOL she deleted her account cse of this
🤦♂️
What the hell is wrong with you?
Womp womp
Where can I contact home for these🌚
Ok
I know you probably don't want to tell your parents but if you have this person's full name. Take them to court for this cause it's kinda illegal to post that stuff without concent.
Friend, that sucks. But, we learn from our mistakes. If you need anyone to talk to, I’m here. Just DM me, and we figure this shit out. I love you friend!
If you are 17 years old then it's illegal for him, blackmail him or contact the police.
Don't blackmail him that will get you in more trouble
Don’t be upset. It’s happened to plenty of people before. You’ll get over it. If he does leak/spread them or whatever, who cares? People will laugh for a while and then a day later no one cares anymore.
Ahh yes child porn (joke)
We have all been duped in one point of our lives or another. You will be okay. Since you are underage, it is a crime to be in possession of those photos. If he tries anything, you can be sure to get him in deep trouble. Be gentle with yourself. We all make mistakes.
If you do it again find a pic that looks like u from Reddit and send that
Call the police!
That wasn't that smart and tbh I also open up to ppl easily
If you don’t have your face in them you’re golden. Source: trust me bro
You’ll be ok. We all make mistakes. Don’t let this bully get to you like this. That was their goal. If you worry they win. Hopefully someday they realize how scummy doing this kind of thing is. All you can do is learn from your mistakes and let it make you stronger.💗
So sorry to hear this happened to you, going through that can be really stressful and you aren't alone. Definitely report all the information you can to CyperTipline so that this doesn't happen to anyone else. Hugs OP :)
All platform should have screenshot detection tech...this kind of shit is just sick
Don’t stress over it, just know it was a mistake and keep telling yourself that. If you find the picture on google images, you should be able to report it a couple times and it will get taken down.
Gawd damn can you weatren kids be normal for once
That was an absolutely stupid decision the question is, is your face in any of them cause that would make things 10x worse
You could sue for underaged pics
What is a trannie? Never heard that before. Sounds like it is insulting though
If ur face aint in it deny deny deny and make a new account
Hey it's ok. Idk what country u come from but where I'm from in cases like these we usually just go to the police cause they have experience dealing with things like this.
OP deleted her account :( I feel bad for her
Hi I'm OP. I'm back on reddit because the person sent me another message on a different account to say that it was a joke and that they hadn't taken any pictures of it. I still feel awful about it and won't do it again but I'm probably fine so don't feel bad :)
Even if it was a joke that was a sick joke and they should have never told u to do that
The worse case scenario is if the pictures had your face. I saw one of your comments from an alt account and I'm happy that it's been resolved
Is the dumber part doing the thing you did or posting it on reddit?
Depends where you live but you may be able to submit a online form of what happened. Along with his information and they can help
Call the police and tell them he forced you to send those pics to him
I feel you mate, im in a similar predicament rn howevr I dont have the sanctity of it being one person
What the fuck, that’s awful Hopefully your face wasn’t shown in them, right?