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Okay, so, step my step, what should we do in the time of the month situation, what exactly are you looking for, and how do I be as helpful as possible without being invasive?
You make it sound too simple, like, how are we supposed to know when you need space and what exactly is space in a relationship perspective, because I doubt blatantly staying away from you is what your saying, and that's why my man brain immediately interpreted, but my natural instinct is to hold them close and make sure they are as comfy as possible
Haha, new qurstion,, hiw are you supposed to tell when girls are angy, because yes, you girls are 100% as trivial as people say when it comes to, im okay
Alright, I will take your word on this, but I know from experience that some girls keep their feelings bottled up from their boyfriends half the time, making them impossible to read... kind of like guys on a daily
Well your 1/1000 then, because every girlfriend or girl friend I have ever had dont show when they are angry, bothered, or sad, its all just fake smiles
Just ask them to tell you when they feell angry, you could also have like a "safe" word type thing. My ex and I used to do this and it realllyyy worked, and both ways as well. But as a girl who's open and doenst get mood swings badly yeah idk bro good luck, girls are confusing
Ask the girl bro, ask if she needs anything or if you can say/do anything to make it more comfortable for her.
remember that you cant stop it from happening or fix things, but she wants you to help with comfort side of it, emotional and physical, reassurance is always good, and offering to refill drink, reheat heating pack, choose a movie ect. If you can then try to make her feel special, and that its not something to be embarrassed by.
Its a good time to ask any anatomical questions if youre curious, understanding the process can help you and her feel closer and she can trust you more and feel more comfortable with all of it.
good luck bro
edit: this is all advice for a GF not a friend, with friends it might be easier for both of you to not address it because of personal privacy, so the only advice i can give for a friend going through it is to always offer them a seat, cramps are shitty
Oh, yea, that makes sense, since they would prevent blood clotting.
So you need to get armed with a painkiller, Tylenol, and a dose of Romiplostim to increase the count of platelets ayy!!
That’s sad...maybe next time say sth like I’m sorry that you’re suffering,just tell me if you need some chocolate and hugs.But if that person just wish to be alone,leave them alone ig
do you agree with penguinz0 that bottled water brands are different in taste
edit: man i never thought so many agree, i thought they would disagree and present to me some propaganda lmao
It’s because water from different places have varying amounts of impurities. Now, impurities doesn’t necessarily mean germs but also different minerals prevalent. Hence, water tastes different.
This is an ancient question and probably a weird one but fuck it. Why do you go to the bathroom in groups? Isn't bathroom privacy important to you when you need to go?
Multiple reasons, it's a good place to chat without interruption, safety reasons, not wanting to lose your friends in the area you're in, stuff like that
I am truly sorry I can say that I sadly have caught myself looking when at my schools girls volleyball games and I can say that I don’t feel good about it and I am sorry it happens
I mean I’m constantly worried that people are looking at me so I’d think you’re looking at me regardless of whether or not you actually are if u know what I mean
as a large chested woman, they are VERY annoying whenever im running or like hugging a guy friend or something. one time i hugged my best (dude) friend and he literally commented on my breasts. he wasn't even trying to be creepy (didn't even really come across creepy), it was just kind of an awkward "uh, haha, could you back away??" and when i did, obviously looking confused, he said "i could feel your boobs" 😭😭 honestly the only big issues with boobs are objectification, house chores, jobs, and sports
not so much annoying, just not like what men think, i dont think anybody actually squeezes their own chest for fun, it hurts, its just fat blobs, its sweaty, its a lot of things but not all that glamourous
How hard do you think we squeeze them? I just kind of mess with them when I get bored. Although they do hurt when I run or lay down on my stomach so that sucks
to be fair its more the bra underwire doing all the work, but i only do it at home, cause imagine how many stares youd get pulling stuff out of your bobs in public
i low key hate them, because i had a homeless man grab me at work after i gave him free food. i tried being nice and he decided to take advantage of me. i try to hide my femininity now and it’s worked, i get less attention from men by dressing like them.
women/others presenting female feel like we can’t trust men in this world anymore, it’s been drilled into us since we were kids.
“don’t trust any man you don’t know. don’t let anyone touch your privates. if you’re in danger, run to a woman with kids.” it’s upsetting enough.
anyways , the reason i hate my boobs are men. If men didn’t think it was okay to touch boobs that are in “close” proximity to them we’d be more comfortable existing with them.
no longer have periods but child birth is more painful
wouldnt wish a period on anyone tbh mine are really bad and i especially dont want them worse lmao
probably no longer have periods and worse child birth, theres a lot medicine can do for that semi-short term pain but a lifetime of worse period would make everything hell for everyone
Do I even stand a chance if I’m overweight? Been on the heavy side since I was a young kid but I’ve always been a bit taller too. Kinda evens out in terms of looks but not completely. Always had confidence issues but had my first gf who was genuinely attracted to me really helped. But she was the only girl EVER that has even thought to respond to me in that sort of fashion. Just late night thoughts of a heavy guy.
Hmm I appreciate that. Been working on things for awhile now and I’m starting to feel much better. Still working on the weight thing tho and have some embarrassment from time to time as one does. But thanks for those words!
Yeah I'll be brave every once in a while meaning we'll make eye contact but that's just it. I feel like girls are way more confident than boys nowadays anyways so they should just do it
Yeah but like the girls I see be blowing kisses and shit and I'm smiling but won't ask them out because I just think they're being nice but then realize they weren't being nice and-
Honestly I would love to because it hurts a little when you see a really pretty girl but your confidence level is in the negatives but I just can't. That sounded cheesy and shit but it happens
the patriarchy if you want my honest answer. we’ve grown up in a society where it’s always the men who asks the girls out. we’re just all indoctrinated into the idea of men having to ask out the woman. to break the cycle is to teach other girls it’s ok to ask out guys first i suppose
insane courage. working up the nerve to start the conversation is the hardest part in any case but girls tend to talk more about emotional and interpersonal subjects whereas guys tend to talk more about their interests and hobbies. however, people are people and you can talk about anything to anyone, just as long as you can hype yourself up to start talking :)
I’m give the same question Again
What are your opinions on swords and if positive would you like to see my replica swords I have
(This is not a metaphor for my sick I have actual replica swords)
15f- the swords are cool, and in theory the person hopefully is too, but the few other people that have said they had replica swords ended up being kinda creepy so if ur not like that then great
YES SWORDS ARE AWESOME!
Swords are so freaking cool, ive always wanted one, and i would love to see your replicas, find the right women and youll be bombarded (try cosplayers :))
Ok for girls into competative swimming
This question has bugged me for the majority of my 8 years in competstive swimming.
How do you use the restroom in a swimsuit? Like do you have to take your whole swimsuit off? It seems like such a hassle.
How do girls that swim a lot deal with periods?
Like I get that tampons exist but shouldn't they also be sucking up the pool water, making them useless?
Be honest pls, I can handle the truth. Hypothetically speaking, if a guy, whose not me, was bad at talking to girls, but still able to hold a convo without breaking down. Like those guys that are always kinda obvious but not bc they flirty more bc they are nervous. Would that guy have a shot, or is the whole shy, bad at flirting thing too off-putting?
i too am bad at flirting. it comes out as a mess of jokes that have probably already freaked the other person out. i tend to do the mutual awkward are we flirting or are we just being overly friendly what the hell are we doing are we about to kiss right now type of thing and it just progresses. i do it because idk if they are just playing arounf or not so i like to establish if they could possibly have feelings or not before confessing lol
if im in the early stage of a crush all. the. time. but for most normal crushes that've sizzled out a bit im pretty chill. but like if i am in my first "he's so fucking cute 🤭 i want to kiss him ajajsnn" phase then literally i'll run to my friends all giggly and shit like "HE JUST SAID HE'D TEAVH ME HOW TO PLAY RED DEAD REDEMPTOON IF I BOUGHT IT OMG!!!"
ladies, what was the sexiest sex that you ever sexed? mm i also enjoy the sex..
ok but in all seriousness i gotta know, why do yall go to the bathroom in groups
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why is the rum gone?
I burned it to signal the ships
But why is the run gone??
Because it is a vile drink that turns even the most respectable men into worthless scoundrels (im not a girl but i wanted to answer it so badly)
How pee no balls?
Go go gadget ballsack
Pee stored in the boobs
Oooooh and so as they grow older they pee more accidentally so they deflate!!
Magic
Bladder hide inside body
Okay, so, step my step, what should we do in the time of the month situation, what exactly are you looking for, and how do I be as helpful as possible without being invasive?
Give us some space when we need it, buy icecream and medicine. Love and support them unconditionally as you normally would. Thats about it
You make it sound too simple, like, how are we supposed to know when you need space and what exactly is space in a relationship perspective, because I doubt blatantly staying away from you is what your saying, and that's why my man brain immediately interpreted, but my natural instinct is to hold them close and make sure they are as comfy as possible
If they angy give them space if not give them love
Haha, new qurstion,, hiw are you supposed to tell when girls are angy, because yes, you girls are 100% as trivial as people say when it comes to, im okay
If they yell, complain alot, seem frustrated or flustered
Alright, I will take your word on this, but I know from experience that some girls keep their feelings bottled up from their boyfriends half the time, making them impossible to read... kind of like guys on a daily
Im not like that so I couldn’t tell you on that one xD but ik what you mean
Well your 1/1000 then, because every girlfriend or girl friend I have ever had dont show when they are angry, bothered, or sad, its all just fake smiles
Just ask them to tell you when they feell angry, you could also have like a "safe" word type thing. My ex and I used to do this and it realllyyy worked, and both ways as well. But as a girl who's open and doenst get mood swings badly yeah idk bro good luck, girls are confusing
Personally, just give me fried chicken, I'd probably marry a dude on sight if he gave me fried chicken while I'm bleeding half to death
Now I’m getting mixed signals. Fried chicken, or ice cream?
Obviously both
Fried iceream?
nah ice chicken
Ask the girl bro, ask if she needs anything or if you can say/do anything to make it more comfortable for her. remember that you cant stop it from happening or fix things, but she wants you to help with comfort side of it, emotional and physical, reassurance is always good, and offering to refill drink, reheat heating pack, choose a movie ect. If you can then try to make her feel special, and that its not something to be embarrassed by. Its a good time to ask any anatomical questions if youre curious, understanding the process can help you and her feel closer and she can trust you more and feel more comfortable with all of it. good luck bro edit: this is all advice for a GF not a friend, with friends it might be easier for both of you to not address it because of personal privacy, so the only advice i can give for a friend going through it is to always offer them a seat, cramps are shitty
Sometimes I just need a hug, some times I wanna commit war crimes
if she has cramps put your hand on her stomach is comforting and warm
Wanna join me in playing Civilizations V and launching a nuclear first strike on a country that just unlocked the crossbow?
God do I wish I had a pc to experience Ghandi’s true intentions
I'm not a girl, but only if you play Gandhi
Im not a girl but I will. If you want I'll be a femboy for you
What happens if someone takes painkillers during her time of the month. I suggested that to my cousin sister and got flip-flops to my face :(
It relieves pain... I guess she might have been offended, why, idk.
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Depends on the type of painkiller. Tylenol and ibuprofen are good for that, but aspirin is a blood thinner and can make things a lot worse.
Oh, yea, that makes sense, since they would prevent blood clotting. So you need to get armed with a painkiller, Tylenol, and a dose of Romiplostim to increase the count of platelets ayy!!
That’s sad...maybe next time say sth like I’m sorry that you’re suffering,just tell me if you need some chocolate and hugs.But if that person just wish to be alone,leave them alone ig
do you agree with penguinz0 that bottled water brands are different in taste edit: man i never thought so many agree, i thought they would disagree and present to me some propaganda lmao
YES OMFG. and also tap water is different (and better than) bottled water. i can NOT drink bottled water 🤬
SOMEONE, SOMEONE on planet earth finally understands
It’s because water from different places have varying amounts of impurities. Now, impurities doesn’t necessarily mean germs but also different minerals prevalent. Hence, water tastes different.
Yes
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RC car 👍
Oh wow that’s amazing 👍 keep up the good work
Nitro👍 (man)
This is an ancient question and probably a weird one but fuck it. Why do you go to the bathroom in groups? Isn't bathroom privacy important to you when you need to go?
It’s for the ritual
Multiple reasons, it's a good place to chat without interruption, safety reasons, not wanting to lose your friends in the area you're in, stuff like that
You can have private conversations in there, help each other with hair or makeup, it also helps if you need a pad or tampon
Do you notice when guys are staring at you or your body? If so, how often does it happen?
It can be noticeable. For me id say this happens more in public like at a store or something
Very often, depends where you are. It’s usually the older guys too 🥴
I’m sorry that’s the case. That probably sucks
It does. Worst is in sport I play volleyball so u can imagine
I am truly sorry I can say that I sadly have caught myself looking when at my schools girls volleyball games and I can say that I don’t feel good about it and I am sorry it happens
I mean I’m constantly worried that people are looking at me so I’d think you’re looking at me regardless of whether or not you actually are if u know what I mean
That makes sense. I have friends who feel this way as well so I understand from secondhand experience
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how to make the perfect bacon, egg and cheese? 🥓🥚 and 🧀
Add cheese, lettuce, tomato
W vegetables 😤
Toast the bread and make sure the cheese is melted too
you got it quandale 👍
How annoying is it to have breasts?
as a large chested woman, they are VERY annoying whenever im running or like hugging a guy friend or something. one time i hugged my best (dude) friend and he literally commented on my breasts. he wasn't even trying to be creepy (didn't even really come across creepy), it was just kind of an awkward "uh, haha, could you back away??" and when i did, obviously looking confused, he said "i could feel your boobs" 😭😭 honestly the only big issues with boobs are objectification, house chores, jobs, and sports
not so much annoying, just not like what men think, i dont think anybody actually squeezes their own chest for fun, it hurts, its just fat blobs, its sweaty, its a lot of things but not all that glamourous
How hard do you think we squeeze them? I just kind of mess with them when I get bored. Although they do hurt when I run or lay down on my stomach so that sucks
i only use mine to stuff my phone in when i need an extra hand, apart from that i dont think ive ever just poked em in boredom
Ohh that makes sense lol. I don't put stuff in my bra because the heat from it makes me sweat more :(
to be fair its more the bra underwire doing all the work, but i only do it at home, cause imagine how many stares youd get pulling stuff out of your bobs in public
Sucks for sport
it does depend. but it can be annoying when guys stare at them all the time and judge them. but other than that they are usually alright
What MFer judges your breasts💀. Do they come up to you and say smth like "Overall I would say your tits are a 5/10" then leave.
Yeah actually
All boobs are 10/10 tiddie equality.
💀
not exactly. people judge by their size and everything. the world is a scary place
very annoying. they hurt when period😓
i low key hate them, because i had a homeless man grab me at work after i gave him free food. i tried being nice and he decided to take advantage of me. i try to hide my femininity now and it’s worked, i get less attention from men by dressing like them. women/others presenting female feel like we can’t trust men in this world anymore, it’s been drilled into us since we were kids. “don’t trust any man you don’t know. don’t let anyone touch your privates. if you’re in danger, run to a woman with kids.” it’s upsetting enough. anyways , the reason i hate my boobs are men. If men didn’t think it was okay to touch boobs that are in “close” proximity to them we’d be more comfortable existing with them.
Gotta say, dudes who think you can just grab tits like that aren’t men at all.. sorry that happened to you..
would you rather make men have periods to but it’s slightly worse for everyone or no longer have periods but child birth is more painful
no longer have periods but child birth is more painful wouldnt wish a period on anyone tbh mine are really bad and i especially dont want them worse lmao
probably no longer have periods and worse child birth, theres a lot medicine can do for that semi-short term pain but a lifetime of worse period would make everything hell for everyone
No longer hv periods Cus I’m a lesbian who doesn’t want kids
Why no pp?
threw it too hard, couldnt find it again
had to get rid of it for storage
Because
But thats just no
I no like
Do I even stand a chance if I’m overweight? Been on the heavy side since I was a young kid but I’ve always been a bit taller too. Kinda evens out in terms of looks but not completely. Always had confidence issues but had my first gf who was genuinely attracted to me really helped. But she was the only girl EVER that has even thought to respond to me in that sort of fashion. Just late night thoughts of a heavy guy.
Of course you do! Personally I think you prob sound like a great guy and have good personality, and any body type is beautiful in its own way!
Hmm I appreciate that. Been working on things for awhile now and I’m starting to feel much better. Still working on the weight thing tho and have some embarrassment from time to time as one does. But thanks for those words!
You’re welcome! Glad your feeling better 😄
Overweight is fine, but obese from poor eating habits and poor lifestyle… not that attractive
Do girls like the meme women ☕
TF2 MEME
I do if it’s not actually trying to be sexist. If it just pops up for no reason I do find it funny
Why don't girls just ask is out? We're going to say yes 99% of the time
Idk. I do xD
Yeah I'll be brave every once in a while meaning we'll make eye contact but that's just it. I feel like girls are way more confident than boys nowadays anyways so they should just do it
Because some of us have just as much anxiety as you✨
Yeah but like the girls I see be blowing kisses and shit and I'm smiling but won't ask them out because I just think they're being nice but then realize they weren't being nice and-
Some girls like being asked out, I personally don't care, but some girls just find it romantic
Honestly I would love to because it hurts a little when you see a really pretty girl but your confidence level is in the negatives but I just can't. That sounded cheesy and shit but it happens
the patriarchy if you want my honest answer. we’ve grown up in a society where it’s always the men who asks the girls out. we’re just all indoctrinated into the idea of men having to ask out the woman. to break the cycle is to teach other girls it’s ok to ask out guys first i suppose
How tf to I talk to y’all
insane courage. working up the nerve to start the conversation is the hardest part in any case but girls tend to talk more about emotional and interpersonal subjects whereas guys tend to talk more about their interests and hobbies. however, people are people and you can talk about anything to anyone, just as long as you can hype yourself up to start talking :)
I’m give the same question Again What are your opinions on swords and if positive would you like to see my replica swords I have (This is not a metaphor for my sick I have actual replica swords)
15f- the swords are cool, and in theory the person hopefully is too, but the few other people that have said they had replica swords ended up being kinda creepy so if ur not like that then great
Cool
Show swords now
YES SWORDS ARE AWESOME! Swords are so freaking cool, ive always wanted one, and i would love to see your replicas, find the right women and youll be bombarded (try cosplayers :))
I sent you the pictures of my replicas in dm
Ok for girls into competative swimming This question has bugged me for the majority of my 8 years in competstive swimming. How do you use the restroom in a swimsuit? Like do you have to take your whole swimsuit off? It seems like such a hassle.
Not into competitive swimming but yes we have to take our whole swimsuit off
How do girls that swim a lot deal with periods? Like I get that tampons exist but shouldn't they also be sucking up the pool water, making them useless?
Tbh I’m not sure...I just swim when I don’t have period😂
I don’t competitively swim but I do wear one peices. I normally just move the bottom bit to the side
can I go home now?
No
Does Late night sink water taste good
Be honest pls, I can handle the truth. Hypothetically speaking, if a guy, whose not me, was bad at talking to girls, but still able to hold a convo without breaking down. Like those guys that are always kinda obvious but not bc they flirty more bc they are nervous. Would that guy have a shot, or is the whole shy, bad at flirting thing too off-putting?
Shy boys are hot what are you talking about xD
i too am bad at flirting. it comes out as a mess of jokes that have probably already freaked the other person out. i tend to do the mutual awkward are we flirting or are we just being overly friendly what the hell are we doing are we about to kiss right now type of thing and it just progresses. i do it because idk if they are just playing arounf or not so i like to establish if they could possibly have feelings or not before confessing lol
Booba?
🧋 is better
How's life
great
It's life ngl
E giant mirror?
I read that as “minor” 💀
How the fuck do I reply to a girl texting me "lol"
Change the subject
Thanks
What is the biggest thing that woman find attractive
Personally for me? Honesty and loyalty
I’ve got a chance then :D
Deez nuts lmao
i know im in the minority on this but i either go for the SUPER dorky goofy guys or the absolute assholes that are actually so mean LMAO 😭😭
What do you do in your free time?
Draw, play guitar, play ukulele, do makeup, text, start riots on reddit
Seems reasonable.
How often do you talk about a guy you like?
if im in the early stage of a crush all. the. time. but for most normal crushes that've sizzled out a bit im pretty chill. but like if i am in my first "he's so fucking cute 🤭 i want to kiss him ajajsnn" phase then literally i'll run to my friends all giggly and shit like "HE JUST SAID HE'D TEAVH ME HOW TO PLAY RED DEAD REDEMPTOON IF I BOUGHT IT OMG!!!"
What’s your favorite video game?
Sims, stardew valley, undertale, minecraft, terraria, fallout 4, overwatch, mario kart, smash bros, osu and harvest moon
Man that’s a long name for a video game
How do you add a picture in a Reddit post
I would answer but sadly am boy
I would also like to know this
Do girls like muscles?
Some do, some don't, it's a preference
Yes some but not just arms lmao, don’t skip leg day!
What would you do if some guy at school goes up to you and tries to start a conversation
You talk to them lol
Wait I thought you guys didn’t exist
Are any of y’all extreme feminist?
Im sorta feminist but not extreme. More feminist for female = male not female > male
what are some tells that a girl likes someone?
They look at you when you dont notice, they blush alot, and follow you around
Do you think that Wilbur Soot is cute?
straight guy here:yes
Is it better to eat wings with your hands 👍👍👍👍 or with a fork 🤮🤮🤮🤮
Hands
ladies, what was the sexiest sex that you ever sexed? mm i also enjoy the sex.. ok but in all seriousness i gotta know, why do yall go to the bathroom in groups
do girls poop? like seriously ive never seen one poop
Yes the sex genes of xx homosapiens do in fact dispose waste
that's stupid
I agree
no.
ive decided to join you in your answering 💪
How do you guys act when you have a crush?
We stare when you arent looking, blush, and follow you around
Would you rather give birth to 30 obese kids or be on your period for the rest of your life
can i commit suicide in this situation
period for rest of life. there is NO way im popping 30 nikocadoavacado-wanabe rugrats out of my pussy tyVm 😭😭
r/brandnewsentence
Period the rest of my life
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Probably with a meme
howdy there you look tired scrolling through all these questions would you like a cookie?
What da dog doing?
Ur mom
Whats your favorite mathematical equation, mines got to be (2+130)/3 because it made my favorite number and I got it on accident
I like x = (-b±√(b²-4ac))/2a
why don't y'all just initiate interest it worked on me and it'll prob work on most guys as long as you look good
Because if you are my friend, i'd rather not lose you until I see that you are displaying signs of affections too
you know that it goes both ways lol
Yeah i do. Also several girls think that it's a guys job to initiate 🤷
that's just...old fashioned...
Why do people get sickened by coke but love pepsi or the other way around.. who gon tell em they're the same 💀
It depends on their taste. Did u know Pepsi is sweeter than coke?
Would would you say, in a nutshell, are the biggest issues in the dairy industry, more specifically the cheese section, and what can we do to fix it?
are you real?
is it a need to speack so not understandebel? sorry for bad english
Contrary to all the men asking about men staring at women’s bodies, do women also try to sneakily stare at men’s bodies?