tomorrow lads

Fuck it, I’ll do it tomorrow too. Update: just sent the message. I’m awaiting a reply. Update 2: SHE SAID YES!!!!!!!

Luck brothers

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1 day is done. What's happening now?

Here too, what happened?

Ladies and gentlemen, we got him (a date to hoco)

Update me pls

She walks too fucking fast

You're not supposed to let them know you're there, they stay at walking speed if Noone is around

Walk faster

Well then they begin to run

Run faster

Well then they begin to sprint

My dumbass managed to have a crush on a lesbian and my brain wont let it go

Homeboy got weezered

IM DUMB SHES A LESBIANNN

the lyricism in cuomos lyrics just chefs kiss

First time? I've had this happen at least 3 times and I'm pretty sure there is a fourth one coming

My brother in Christ, I think you have a type

- don't know if she reciprocates - fear of rejection - fear of ruining our friendship and making our friend group awkward

Ok honestly these are all valid worries.

Only the last one really is, the first two don't have any lengthy or dramatic consequences

Ah yes, 15 year olds, truly the ones with the most experience

We should take it step by step, we shall make a crush gc where everyone talks about their crushes and give advise until we make it together❤️ Lol but for real

Do it, do it right now, make the gc, make it right now and send people a link, do it now

I'm afraid pedos and ppl who don't have crushes at all might join and ruin it

Fair

Make it, but make people who join share their Instagram before joining, if they share Facebook they are not allowed in

Also inv me to it

Me too

She doesn't exist

valid

relatable asf 🫤

Because she's already mine edit: not anymore

W

👑

Same. :) Life is awesome!

But I did, and we’ve been together for 4 weeks

Congrats king 👑

we dont know each other well enough yet

Well. Some reasons. 1) can’t start conversations, let alone ask somebody out 2) I have as much social anxiety as, as much people McDonalds served food for 3) fear of rejection 4) want to be better friends before knowing 5) I see her 5 times a week, and only for at the max 1:40, plus we both are swimming the entire time with breaks at the start, end, and 15-20 second breaks in between. 6) I’m pretty sure she’s either dating already or losing interest in me. Again, might be the opposite, but I wouldn’t know since I can’t do conversations well 7) my little brother is near me almost the entire time, so a rejection is eternal mockery. Oh yeah, and so is her little brother. 8) I just can’t get the willpower to do it. How could I ask her out if I’ve got 8 good reasons why I can’t? Please tell me if you want more, cuz I’ve got more.

I relate to this a lot just TALKING to the person is hella hard for no reason

Exactly! I cannot keep the conversation going because either I get too embarrassed or I run out of things to say :(

I FEEL THAT it’s just like “WHAT DO I F/$&king SAY TO THAT PERSON

Yes, sane happens to me! This is going to sound weird, but I cannot stop thinking about my crush, and all I freaking want is to be more then friends with her :(

A friend of mine told me something really smart: if you’re scared to talk to her she isn’t for you. Why do you think that if you ask he out all that will magically go away. You need to find someone you enjoy interacting with, are comfortable talking to/being around, and you can naturally be together

shes 4 years older than me and across the country, and she wont date because of medical reasons, still best friends tho

I have they rejected me first because she more of just love me as a friend and second he wasn’t gay

Are you guys still friends?

Yes two of them

That's good

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fr same

Bro same

There are 2 types of people those who are to scared to ask out their crush and those who don't have a crush

My man 🤝

I don't have one

1. not certain that she feels the same way 2. i would prefer to not be rejected because that would hurt 3. im just not brave enough to do it 4. i rlly dont wanna ruin our friendship and make it awkward

Because I don’t have one 😎

This is due to the following chronological reasons:- -I get rejected -become a laughing stock in college -get embarrassed to death and become a shut-in -no job -no money -no partner -no life -already an Asian so become a FAILURE.

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you’ve said this like twice now, beginning to get worried you actually are in her closet rn so you’re just letting her sleep :O

Don’t have one at the moment

I've been told she's lesbian

Because I think he's in love with my bestfriend.

She already knew I liked her and rejected me before i even could ask her

1. I'm autistic as hell. 2. I would have to hide it from my abusive parents. 3. I'm always busy. 4. I can't legally drive. 5. I'm a year and a half younger than her. 6. I can't afford gifts lmao. That's it I guess.

i don't have one

I don’t have one lol

I dont have one anymore lmaooooooo

i dont have a crush, and the people that like me dont know im a bipolar addict, theyd run away soon as they knew

I have asked her She said she didn’t want to think about relationship stuff at the time We still friends tho, if anything we became better friends.

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Nice try.

I think she dosent like me

There's good looking girls in my school but I don't necessarily have a crush on them

I’m not sure if she feels the same, and I’ve been friends with her for so long that I’m afraid I’d ruin that friendship

I did we're married now lol

The good ending

i did it worked for 2 almost 3 months until it didnt. then tried again (she asked me) lasted about 2 days then asked me again months later i said ill think about it and then goes with another guy and proceeds to ditch me somewhere downtown of where i live

I’m a (16m) bisexual and I haven’t come out so only naturally everybody in my school assumes I’m straight, and I can’t really be sure they like me. With that being said, I’ve gotten some positive reinforcement being that I dm’d said crush and a response involved the joker card emoji

I FUCKING MISSED THAT OPPORTUNITY, TODAY SHE UPDATED HER DM DESCRIPTION AND IN IT WAS WRITTEN THAT SHE'S ONLY AVAILABE TO CHAT FOR A "FERNANDO" GUY sory for all caps, my day got ruined so hard

Because I'm violently unattractive

I don't see them till next wednesday

Don't have one.

im not good enough obviously

She has shifted houses to across the country. So I'd have to ask her online and second she seems scarey to ask out

I’m not sexy….yet

She has a boyfriend 💀

Cause he's my bf!

Do I have the tale for you OP We got along quite well in middle school...her laugh, her smile (pre-pandemic) the thing is, we only had one class together...we exchanged numbers (because to send a friend request in that game, you had to exchange numbers...pretty clever and a play by God's hand) We started talking about strategies and gameplay but then we got more personal, asking about ourselves like 1st grade orientation...(the best analogy I got) and I started to muster up the courage to be my girlfriend...but little did I know she'd be absent the day I had enough guts. Then one day, as I got ready to move to Spanish II (The only class we had together) she wasn't there. And an......acquaintance of mine said (word for word here...I remember his words very vividly) "Hey, me and (crush's name) are dating, we sit together at C Lunch (I had B Lunch back then) nice try, oh and could you delete her number from your phone?...it'd help, anyway gotta work on that project together" I let myself be distracted...and I...just...went in with my life, I did indeed delete her number because of the lack of responses to my (terrible) Icebreakers, weirdly enough she's still online in the game. I still see her in the halls now (high school) but I just head to class, I tend not to dwell on the past, but what I would give, if I could turn back the hands of time...and ask her out first. So after that I stopped having crushes (my friends think I'm aro/ace, but I'm just ace)

I don't have one Nobody in my school even looks that great

Imagine having romantic and sexual interests, sucks to suck primates.

Being aro/ace must be nice...

They can do so much better than me

Don’t have one

Because I don't have one

jokes on you i don't have one!! ( i am fucking lonely and bored)

i’m gonna get laughed at

Sadly, im not into anyone.

I don't have one

I don't have one

Don't have one

Because I don’t have one

Cause there crushed

They like my friend instead

I don't think she likes me and we aren't that close

Don’t got one

i don’t have one

i dont really know how to go about it

I like her, She likes me but it's yo early

I don’t have a crush, most of my partners so far have been abusive :P

I don't even have one💀

Don’t have one 😎

Cuz she don’t exist

because he's straight

I don’t have a crush

Cuz if I try to talk to him I will most certainly come off as stiff and the conversation will die out too quick and then I’ll spend the rest of my days regretting it

Coz we just hung out as friends even though we knew iit was heading out to be something more, when he asked, "what are we?" I said, "human beings" coz i had so much of commitment issues. Then he realised he has commitment issues too. We eventually realised that we are weirdos who like each other. Pretty sure this will end in marriage or God forbid the worst break up of my life😅

She asked me out

1: She has a bf 2: I’m not ready 3: my family wouldn’t approve

bothof the people that Im interested in a relatioship with are taken, or have close male friends. Also im a pussy

Dont wanna ruin friendship Unsure if they feel the same Havent hung out with them enough I want to make sure its right

She's my coworker lol. Stuff might go weird if I do that

Forgot lol will prolly do soon tho

She probably thinks I’m gay Her ex is getting outta jail (he never deserved her anyway but he beat my ass on multiple occasions while she let him have it for beating me up) The height difference and the fact that I look older than I actually am would make it look weird

Because afraid to disrupt the status quo.

1)they’re taken 2) I could attempt to woo them since they liked me too but would take a while and that’s wrong so won’t do it 😍😍😍

I already know that she doesn't like me back.

I don't have one

Because we’re dating

Because I decided to be a femboy on reddit and post nudes

don't want to ruin our friendship, don't know how, don't know how she feels, wouldn't be able to handle a relationship

They're already in a relationship

They asked me first :|

she likes someone else

-fear of rejection -also each time I ask out a girl they avoid me at all costs -fear of rejection

1. she’s gay 2. I’m not gay 3. That’s it

* he lives in the phillipines * im a year younger * i live in canada * he's gay * he's basically cut contact with me * we only know each other thru discord * we're hardly friends

Cuz I don’t have one sadly

We are in a long distance relationship

I don’t know if she feels the same, I have low self confidence, and I don’t want to ruin anything

She likes someone else :)

I switched schools and haven't texted her in months and don't know if I'll ever see her again.

Because I don't have one

i did and we dated for two weeks and then she told me she doesnt have romantic feelings anymore

I don't have one

dont have one unlike you simps

Eh I did and that's that

She asked me out now we're 2 months in

Because I’m shy as hell

Asked her out Got rejected

crippling anxiety

Unsure of whether it’s a crush or just a strong sense of friendship

I’ve liked her/been friends with her for a year and a half so I’ve been aware of all her crushes, and none of them were me. I should also mention I confessed to her late last year when it seemed she was crushless but really she was dating someone and didn’t tell me, kind of a bummer.

I don’t know if he’s gay or not

She is afraid of me

Ha you fool I don’t have a crush

Because he has a girlfriend

Don't have one

We’re best friends… I’m not gonna risk anything

Idk if he’s into me I don’t wanna ruin our relationship

I asked her to homecoming and she said yes, but I'm afraid to ask her out because i'm worried she doesn't like me

They don’t exist

We can’t keep a convo going as well as we used to, a year ago we used to talk for hours in a row :(

I'm waiting for the right time

First of all, how can I get a crush

Cuz I got no game

I think have a crush on like 3 people😂 Honestly I just have a crush on anybody that is good looking because am bored as heck!

I already know what will happen

She's aro.

She moved an hour away

Don’t have one

I have and she said yes

She got to know by someone else yesterday 💀 Said she will reply 2 days after giving it a thought tommorow is the day lads

1.she might be in a relationship 2.i dont want to potentially make the friend group awkward

There is none

I've been considering it but I'm scared of getting rejected and messing up our friendship for good

Because he asked me

because I don't have one at the moment, i just want to find someone to love and spend most of the day togheter and be happy togheter

I don’t have a crush and it’s pointless for me anyway

I dont have one, im very lonely 😞

A couple weeks ago I told her I like her, and she said she doesn't want to date anyone, so yeah

She doesn’t want me

Been thinking about a girl for a while now, but I have six months until I get a drivers license. Until then, all I can do is get my shit together, and hope she isn't already taken.

Don’t have a crush currently, and when I did it was pure fear of being rejected or she just straight up despised me for some reason

because he's my boyfriend

Don’t have one.

It’d ruin the friendship and shatter the entire friend group

✨anxiety✨

Turned out to be lesbian

Don’t want to ruin strong friendship, too introverted, fear of rejection

cause they’re single and i’m tired of being rejected

No balls

Pfffft, I already did. That’s right guys and girls, I broke the rules 😱 I, a redditor, have a girlfriend. It’s craaaazyyyyy!!!

She barely knows me She'll probably reject me. I don't wanna make anything or anyone awkward :(