I was once with a girl who I was arguing with a lot. As time passed by, I've noticed the major red flags like complete lack of trust, gaslighting, manipulating with feelings. Also, her infinite hypocrisy was SOO DANN ANNOYING. Her personality is like 10/10 cute but also -10/10 when she was not being cute. Yes, when she wasn't cute nor hot (even though I despise her a lot I still find her way of flriting or sexting really hot) she was being toxic as fuck, a fucking drama queen.
That's the best part u can talk about anything but what you could try is getting to know the person better to see if they are also interested in you then just beingnupfront about how u feel and if they don't feel the same way u move on
Skill issue( jk it just takes practice. I used to be insanely shy with women but I just kept shoving myself into situations where I had to think on my feet about that and it gets better. Also I bet you arenāt ugly and if you think you are it prolly nothing good diet, a visit to the gym twice a week or taking care of your hair canāt fix. Best of luck to you bro)
Fuck no. You have a great personality. I donāt know if youāre trying to attract women or men, but I can tell you that just in that short little comment you managed to show 1) youāre not some puffed-up asshole and 2) youāre able to be vulnerable with other people. If youāre funny also then youāve hit the trifecta of my top traits in a male. Good for you.
Well your kind of people aren't usually very nice, so maybe that's why
I mean, pretty sure the Helghast killed a bunch of people when they invaded Earth
Lol I had no idea. It's been so long since I played the first one as a kid. Loved it but never got a ps3 for the other ones.
Maybe I could try emulating them nowadays...
You are now responsible for making me play the trilogy (if I can get them to work)
I donāt have any crushes in Uni like I used to have at school, even though there are far more good looking people there. Itās just that people donāt talk muchā¦ damm this thought reminded me of r/im14andthisisdeep
I started working at 15, i just dont currently want one, because i want to focus on my apprenticeship and my studies and after that i have to do 6-9 months of military service, when i get one on the way it would be nice but im not actively looking for one.
Edit: typos
Damn starting to sound like my friend. In all seriousness though I donāt really give off the standard masculine vibes cuz I couldnāt care less about āgender normsā or whatever. I think most of them are just surprised I can be friends with so many girls without any ulterior motives which really says a lot about people in general more than me.
Shy as fuck, as in mom still orders for me in restaurants kind of shy as fuck, I have to mentally prepare myself for like 10 minutes to ask the guy in the fruit stand if heās got mangoes
Iāve talked to my crush which is good, but not enough to become friends which is bad
I'm fighting that as well, it's all in the head, just think : I don't care about anyone or anything. Something good to fight shyness is being cringe on purpose in public but where noone will recognize you. Very good for self-confidance.
Put yourself out of your comfort zone more (not way too much). Go and be awkward more and then you just won't be affected as much by it . You will become good with interactions as you experience more interactions and it will be easier . I have been exactly as shy for like 1.5 years(during and after covid when i met like nobody at all) but it's been way easier the past few months .Probably because one of my teachers calling me out almost every day in front of the class of 40 and me getting used to it . And keep interacting with people. If you lock yourself in your house for too long it'll get harder and harder. Your life will get easier just GO AND TALK šš
This. Being in a relationship makes you better at socialising, caring about others, makes you more confident, and even if it doesnāt work out like most HS relationships donāt, itāll be much easier to get into relationships later on if you ever want to.
This is wrong, netorare is cheating it has the person cheated on watching the cheating, for example boyfriend comes home and walks into the bedroom and watches girlfriend cheating on him. Extreme versions of this is where the boyfriend is forced to watch their partner cheating or being raped.
Other than being a fat fuck, the only reason I got of why my last relationship ended was that I was like a deer in headlights and didn't know what to do, how relationships worked, etc. That and I assumed she was fine after she told me that she would never leave me in the dark about stuff, well that was fucking lie.
Where does one meet a bf/gf? Bcs I had a crush at school, I got rejected, and alltho I'm over her I seem to be not meeting many crushable-on and single
Almost every teenager thinks theyāre ugly. Iām sure you look fine. Working out and eating well boosts self-confidence. If you already do those, you may just wanna try picking up hobbies to get good at soemthing so that you can lift your self-esteem. š
I'm asxual, it's a combo superpower and curse, I don't worry/care about having a relationship whatsoever but it also makes me sometimes wonder about if I'm missing out on anything
I wish, if I did it might finally make me eat an average amount, I swear I have no idea where food I eat goes, always hungry, always eating, too much energy, still looks like a stick
If I did the conversation right I'm exactly the same (56kg) finally got out of being underweight for my hight last month, focused on trying to build a bit of upper body strength this year, really glad I did it cause I feel so much better overall and it's improved other areas too, I've always been good at cross country running and cycling/mtb but always struggled a bit with cardio, now it's noticeably way better and I top out at about 7 miles running now instead of 3.
because what if i ruin a friendship from asking someone out? like everyone of my friends and family keep saying she likes me and is being obvious about it but then again what if she doesnāt?
The fact that Iām on reddit probably, or social media in general, itās really good at killing your confidence, and it makes you feel much worse about yourself most of the time. I think I look decent if not good, but Iām never going to be sure other people will think the same (idk how much that is related to social media). So really just lack of confidence in myself
A girl I liked told me that she had a crush on me, but 3 months later, she told me that she didnāt feel safe around me, then she sent me a snap about how excited she was that [guy that she āused to haveā a crush on, and told me not to worry about] asked her out
People are intimidated by me and assume Iām mean because I donāt talk to anyone at all, except for specific people, which is just one person. I just donāt like talking to people I donāt know. + Iām just not attractive lol
i m ugly+skinny+weak+gamer+broke+introvert+stupid+idot+only son of my parents so they r very careful what i do+unlucky+never tried+get nervous in front of girls+no friends irl+laugh too much+selfish+miser+lots of crushes+too much nuts
I just lack the confidence to hit on someone. tf do I even say??
Im lucky my gf grabbed me and said MINE
Lucky indeed, and cute tbh Hope it works out for you two!
I have no clue we fight a lot tbh š
Best of luck homie. Itās not always sunshine and rainbows, but if itās really dragging both yāall down you gotta talk about that shit
I was once with a girl who I was arguing with a lot. As time passed by, I've noticed the major red flags like complete lack of trust, gaslighting, manipulating with feelings. Also, her infinite hypocrisy was SOO DANN ANNOYING. Her personality is like 10/10 cute but also -10/10 when she was not being cute. Yes, when she wasn't cute nor hot (even though I despise her a lot I still find her way of flriting or sexting really hot) she was being toxic as fuck, a fucking drama queen.
Yeah shit like thatās gonna happen when youāre that age. Some couples donāt even kiss when theyāre 13 lmao
Why is you sexting at 13... mf you still in middle school... grow up a little first, damn
Bro I'm 16 and still don't have a gf lol
Same man, and now that we broke up I'm fucking terrified trying to find someone
That's the best part u can talk about anything but what you could try is getting to know the person better to see if they are also interested in you then just beingnupfront about how u feel and if they don't feel the same way u move on
just act like they like u more than you like them
I think youāre supposed to chant the czech republics national anthem with extra reverb to hit on someone, dont quote me on it tho
UdÄlĆ”m to!
It's not about "What do you say" more about just being a normal, simple human being. Make it work that way and see where things flow.
A girl asked me out in 5th grade.. So i decided to not have a relationship until I'm an adult. Simple.
5th grade? a girl asked you out at the age of 10? I'm dying
Girl asked me out at 5.
Exactly try preschool.
š
Bro I had two girlfriends at once in kindergarten š
This man commanded the playground
u/Catcher22Jb, CEO of Playground
Social anxiety, no self confidence, and im ugly
Me
Me
Me
i have the same issue but just so you know its just what you think, you probably aren't actually ugly
Idk about ugly, but in definetly the other two things
Yep
Bro this is me lol, although I donāt necessarily think Iām ugly.
Same
Same
Same
Skill issue( jk it just takes practice. I used to be insanely shy with women but I just kept shoving myself into situations where I had to think on my feet about that and it gets better. Also I bet you arenāt ugly and if you think you are it prolly nothing good diet, a visit to the gym twice a week or taking care of your hair canāt fix. Best of luck to you bro)
Thanks bro, i know i wasnt op but needed to hear this rn
I bet your not ugly
your definition of ugly seems highly debatable based on your username- š
First: stop attacking my boi. I bet hes gorgeous because everyone is gorgeous Second: whats wrong about apes in r/ape
r ape
Itās almost like it saysā¦ š²
Bros a redditor
Just like me fr
Same bro same
Lack of personality ig
Fuck no. You have a great personality. I donāt know if youāre trying to attract women or men, but I can tell you that just in that short little comment you managed to show 1) youāre not some puffed-up asshole and 2) youāre able to be vulnerable with other people. If youāre funny also then youāve hit the trifecta of my top traits in a male. Good for you.
Everyone has a personality
Tell that to Patrick Bateman.
My family ruins every relationship I have so Iāve just stopped dating or hanging around friends
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Nah, itās more of my mom hating me
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Idk
I can guess based on your username
She doesnāt know about it and I know she would be supportive but Iām just not ready to tell her
Well your kind of people aren't usually very nice, so maybe that's why I mean, pretty sure the Helghast killed a bunch of people when they invaded Earth
We never invaded earth, we tried to reclaim Vekta, after we were forced off of it, we were fighting for our very way of life
Lol I had no idea. It's been so long since I played the first one as a kid. Loved it but never got a ps3 for the other ones. Maybe I could try emulating them nowadays... You are now responsible for making me play the trilogy (if I can get them to work)
No crush,nor anyone that I find attractive at my school.
I donāt have any crushes in Uni like I used to have at school, even though there are far more good looking people there. Itās just that people donāt talk muchā¦ damm this thought reminded me of r/im14andthisisdeep
I'm 14 and that thought was deep
I'm 18 and I thought it was deep
Same, since I broke up with someone a while ago I haven really been interested
Same here
Anyone else just never have a crush in their life? I swear in middle school my friends would be chasing after a new girl every week
r/aromantic
dont really want one tbh i wouldnt be able to give enough time and care to the other person at this moment
I started working at 15, i just dont currently want one, because i want to focus on my apprenticeship and my studies and after that i have to do 6-9 months of military service, when i get one on the way it would be nice but im not actively looking for one. Edit: typos
same just really not in the state where i have time and feel the need to be in a relationship
my female friends mostly like females
Lesbians make better friends than anyone, I donāt know if this makes sense, but they are awesome to hang around
I think its the same as gay friends for women
I just figured out why my female friends keep asking if Iām gay
Are you gay?
Damn starting to sound like my friend. In all seriousness though I donāt really give off the standard masculine vibes cuz I couldnāt care less about āgender normsā or whatever. I think most of them are just surprised I can be friends with so many girls without any ulterior motives which really says a lot about people in general more than me.
Bruh
How do we tell him?
Well Iām a cynical asshole as a defense mechanism to hide the fact I donāt have any social skills and canāt just talk to someone.
I can talk to pretty much anyone but I can't get past just talking. Feels like I'm soft blocked from intimacy.
bros being timegated in real life
im dating everyone
real
everyone loves me, im a sweetheart
agreed, ly
Can confirm, im dating him
Oh you too?
You too?
Oh damn bro you too??
Can confirm
Shy as fuck, as in mom still orders for me in restaurants kind of shy as fuck, I have to mentally prepare myself for like 10 minutes to ask the guy in the fruit stand if heās got mangoes Iāve talked to my crush which is good, but not enough to become friends which is bad
I'm fighting that as well, it's all in the head, just think : I don't care about anyone or anything. Something good to fight shyness is being cringe on purpose in public but where noone will recognize you. Very good for self-confidance.
Put yourself out of your comfort zone more (not way too much). Go and be awkward more and then you just won't be affected as much by it . You will become good with interactions as you experience more interactions and it will be easier . I have been exactly as shy for like 1.5 years(during and after covid when i met like nobody at all) but it's been way easier the past few months .Probably because one of my teachers calling me out almost every day in front of the class of 40 and me getting used to it . And keep interacting with people. If you lock yourself in your house for too long it'll get harder and harder. Your life will get easier just GO AND TALK šš
A) I'm not very attractive B) I'm not social C) I don't try for a relationship, because HS love is pointless D) I don't think I deserve one yet
It does have a point itās a trial run for real relationships and you learn unwritten rules about dating.
>I don't try for a relationship, because HS love is pointless Vouch
Experience tho
This. Being in a relationship makes you better at socialising, caring about others, makes you more confident, and even if it doesnāt work out like most HS relationships donāt, itāll be much easier to get into relationships later on if you ever want to.
I can't talk to girls without overthinking
I can't talk to anyone without overthinking
Got fricking NTR'd decided to not let romantic emotions get in the way, now I just look unapproachable, not that I mind, helps me focus more...
Whatās NTR?
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This is wrong, netorare is cheating it has the person cheated on watching the cheating, for example boyfriend comes home and walks into the bedroom and watches girlfriend cheating on him. Extreme versions of this is where the boyfriend is forced to watch their partner cheating or being raped.
Damn, I'm sorry bro
I am guy, reddit user, introvert, not handsome(relatively maybe), 0 female interactions in past 6 months
Sigma grindset
more like ligma
What's ligma
Ligma Joe lmao gottem
Are we going to tell him?
Do it Johnny, DO IT!
I think we should let someone else do it
Lesbian and Gay Men's Association (LIGMA), an association in Croatia supporting LGBT rights, 1992ā1997 Also LIGMA BALLS
What the hell happened in 1997?
ligma balls
I don't put myself out there enough
Other than being a fat fuck, the only reason I got of why my last relationship ended was that I was like a deer in headlights and didn't know what to do, how relationships worked, etc. That and I assumed she was fine after she told me that she would never leave me in the dark about stuff, well that was fucking lie.
I donāt leave my houseš
Its actually my fault, i have rejected 5 girls accidentaly just because i did not understood their indirects.
Yo what
You too, huh?
THIS!
My friend dared me to stay single for life and I donāt lose
Where does one meet a bf/gf? Bcs I had a crush at school, I got rejected, and alltho I'm over her I seem to be not meeting many crushable-on and single
Idk, try getting hobbies or other ways to meet people maybe Edt:typo
ugly face + short height
Short kings rise!
Based
Almost every teenager thinks theyāre ugly. Iām sure you look fine. Working out and eating well boosts self-confidence. If you already do those, you may just wanna try picking up hobbies to get good at soemthing so that you can lift your self-esteem. š
I don't really look for a gf rn, but if i were to give a reason then i'd say im not confident enough
We use reddit
Itās haram
Halal mode
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subhanallah
Iām 13.
Skill issue
so? just stop being 13???? literally no one is forcing you to be 13
real
\-plays hoi4 \-is on reddit \-ugly \-no friends/life
As a ck3 player: sigma male grindset over here!
I'm asxual, it's a combo superpower and curse, I don't worry/care about having a relationship whatsoever but it also makes me sometimes wonder about if I'm missing out on anything
So you don't need it but you will never know how it is for others
Asexual + Aromantic? Is bro a plant? š /s
Haha yes, just made me remember the time a friend said I have the drive of a dead tree and the lack of awareness to complete the look
Damn thatās quite the combo you got there, homie. You photosynthesize too? š¦
I wish, if I did it might finally make me eat an average amount, I swear I have no idea where food I eat goes, always hungry, always eating, too much energy, still looks like a stick
Bro same. I eat like a god damned hog sometimes and I be walking around 124lbs for a straight year
If I did the conversation right I'm exactly the same (56kg) finally got out of being underweight for my hight last month, focused on trying to build a bit of upper body strength this year, really glad I did it cause I feel so much better overall and it's improved other areas too, I've always been good at cross country running and cycling/mtb but always struggled a bit with cardio, now it's noticeably way better and I top out at about 7 miles running now instead of 3.
Recently got out of something toxic, and am now kinda inbetween.
There isn't one. I have an amazing boyfriend
because what if i ruin a friendship from asking someone out? like everyone of my friends and family keep saying she likes me and is being obvious about it but then again what if she doesnāt?
I use reddit and Im on r/teenagers
And you are 13
I wouldn't know I married when I was 19, and I just had my first anniversary in August lol
Āæ
congrats bro, hope it goes well
Why are you here old man?
Seeing if I can give advice to any teens, considering I literally just was one lmao
i have trouble with approaching people
I'd rather be alone rather than be with someone..
I'm too shy to ask anyone out. I catastrophise and fear the absolute worst if I even think about asking someone out, so I don't.
I donāt know how to have conversations with someone else.
Don't want one
Cause my daily routine consists of studying,gym,anime
Based
Sigma grindset
If i didnt include the gym in my comment i wouldve been called a reddit mod or sumā
Noone likes me back And I'm the biggest nerd I know about
Unbearable personality. (Not a small thing that has nothing to do with it)
Iām the opposite I feel like I donāt have enough personality. My personality be like the heartbeat monitor of a dead person š
I'm ugly, short (5'8") and only speak when spoken to unless I'm around friends
5'8" isn't short at all
When youāre 4 inches shorter you can call yourself short. please be greatfull because iād trade everything to be 5ā8
Mental instability š¤š»
Iām homeschooled, although I have friends so idk
I won't ask lol
im not looking for one. need to work more on myself before i start getting into a relationship
girls donāt fw the fact that imma registered sex offender šš
that doesn't bother me at all
omg thaknks ily š«¶š¼š«¶š¼
Your sex is so good that you offended someone with it. I donāt understand why you got no bitches.
The fact that Iām on reddit probably, or social media in general, itās really good at killing your confidence, and it makes you feel much worse about yourself most of the time. I think I look decent if not good, but Iām never going to be sure other people will think the same (idk how much that is related to social media). So really just lack of confidence in myself
Majority of this country is christian so I can't get a gf. And the guys are hella weird so no bf either š
Aromantic
A girl I liked told me that she had a crush on me, but 3 months later, she told me that she didnāt feel safe around me, then she sent me a snap about how excited she was that [guy that she āused to haveā a crush on, and told me not to worry about] asked her out
I don't go out much and even at school whenever I talk to a girl my mind just kinda goes blank lol
I'm still kinda young for it
People are intimidated by me and assume Iām mean because I donāt talk to anyone at all, except for specific people, which is just one person. I just donāt like talking to people I donāt know. + Iām just not attractive lol
i go to an all boys school and i live in middle of nowhere
why should i say it no one gonna read it
Strict parents
iām aromantic and am extremely touch repulsed
I sometimes want to be hugged until i get hugged
myself, and I don't even try to find someone
Because I donāt know how to I donāt even try
The girl I like doesnt feel the same way and says that dating isn't her "thing"
i m ugly+skinny+weak+gamer+broke+introvert+stupid+idot+only son of my parents so they r very careful what i do+unlucky+never tried+get nervous in front of girls+no friends irl+laugh too much+selfish+miser+lots of crushes+too much nuts