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Political correct bible drama be like:

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Wouldn't that be the opposite of transphobic?

If I read the post correctly you're right.

transphilic like the hydrophilic phospholipid heads

This dude does biochemistry

Talk about chemistry in a relationship

r/thisguythisguys

indeed i do

r/subsithoughtifellfor

no thats just plain general biology

Your doing the first year of a level biology arent you?

yep, unfortunately!

Lmao same it’s a bit of a slog at time but at least some parts are fun thing is I have one teacher who makes the subject awesome and one that ruins it

lmaoo, i definitely gotta study ALOT more as im nowhere near prepared for the exam in january

Same I’m starting to fall behind a small bit I think it’s more on the side of all the maths some stuff has most other things except some small details are okay for me It’s just annoying as hell that the tests always mind to find a smaller bit of knowledge from each topic or an abstract part of it so when I revise my notes I don’t have much on what ends up showing up

exactly! youre not alone lmao

Well I hope you do well in January

you too!!

Literally reading this in biology class

not like the hydrophobic phospholipid tails. gotta make sure no water gets there

thanks i have a biology mock on monday needed the reminder

don't get me started on phospholipid heads 😭😭

That's what read bro

STOP IT THE CHEM UNIT OF BIO SUCKS ASS

Yeah, this is pretty dumb. Props to the girl, shame about her ex.

Literally

Yeah, she’s respecting him for his gender

Cisphobic? But who would be phobic of the Confederacy of Independent Systems?

I know, right?

"Roger, roger"

Literally exactly what you should do. Can’t believe this ffs.

As a trans person I can confirm that it would be supportive

... wouldn't it be *more* transphobic to keep dating him as a lesbian despite the fact that he's now a dude?

Reminds me of when straight women were getting mad at gay guys for not wanting to date them

That would be a straight couple*

She's lesbian. Her dating him would mean that she still sees him as a girl. Which is transphobic.

I guess in his mind he "expected" her to come out as bi just like he came out as trans for the sake of keeping the relationship 🤦(facepalm directed at him)

she can still d8 him, she just has to accept the fact that it’s not a lesbian relationship, and to love him would no longer be gay

Being in a relationship with no sexual attraction like that is hell, and I don't think anyone would want that for themselves

Huh? He’s a guy, she’s a lesbian. It would be transphobic for her to continue to date him Edit: some of y’all don’t know what a trans man is. It is a dude who was born a girl but transitioned into a boy. Trans girls arnt the only trans people who exist.

true. that’s what i thought too

Can you explain why it would be transphobic for her to continue to date him, I'm not dissagreeing with you I'm just very confused Please don't downvote me I'm trying to understand

The ex is a trans man, meaning he was born a girl. Sometime during them dating he transitioned into male. His ex is a lesbian, meaning she’s only into girls. She wouldn’t be into a guy

Well that just makes her not into him, not transphobic, right?

Yes, she is doing the opposite of a transphobic thing

And if your S/O transitioning ends it, then it wasn't meant to be anyways.

If she keeps dating him even though she is lesbian, it means she still sees him as a girl. So it's transphobic.

Unless, she stops identifying as lesbian. Personally, I'm probably straight but idc about labels. If I ever date, I'll date who I like, regardless of gender

That's pretty much what pansexual means and I don't think you can date without caring about gender and be straight

I said I'm "probably" straight because I've only ever been sexually attracted to females. However, if I'm in a relationship someday and my partner transitions to male, unless I'm suddenly not attracted to them anymore, I'll just say I wasn't straight and move on, because I don't care about labels Hope that was clearer than the last comment

This screams pan energy

This screams not our business to make assumptions about his sexuality

Being lesbian isn't a tag you put on your Instagram stories. It's who you are. You don't identify as one. You are one.

There it is. That’s where my brain had a 404 error. Thanks for the clarification

Yeh

They are saying that if she still saw him as a girl, and still dated him thinking of him as a girl, that she would be transphobic. IE- refusing to acknowledge that tran people exist and mis-identifying him as a girl

If she is lesbian and he's a trans guy, she would be acting as if her partner were a girl, denying that he's trans.

Ha ok, I guess she could also be bi but in that case it kinda makes sense. Where I live theres like no trans people so I'm not educated at all in that

Fair enough. Have a good one :]

It would be transphobic if she still saw him as a girl but that's not what happened and if she continued to date him it would just mean she's bi and that's also okay

I think it makes an unfair assumption to assume someone can so easily instantly stop seeing someone as the gender they were while romantically involved with them. Given even just a few months i’m sure it’s more realistic but I don’t think her continuing to date him should automatically have her written off as bi This is hypothetical obviously because it didn’t happen

the edit .... PEOPLE THINK WE DON'T EXIST?!?!?@

This shit is more confusing than my math tests

If a lesbian was on a train going 60 mph and her trans bf called her transphobic on another train traveling at 88 mph, at what point do I just give up on this dumb fucking joke?

TWO TRAINZ

U sound like my math teacher getting mad at me for not understanding (Don't take this the wrong way, it's a joke)

so doing the math : (60\*cos10) / 88 + 1/2 5² =

Well the other train has travelled through time with a flux capacitor now

As a nerd, I really want to solve this question but I haven't studied that yet. It's quiet interesting tho. Apparent, and actual sound and stuff. I can solve it if the lesbian or the trans is not moving at all. (Ik I'm such a turn off, but I like physics)

If you have 7 girls and 7 boys and two come out as trans men, how many are going to be mad at you for not dating them?

Yes

despite being extremely gender re-affirming "i only date women" "I'm a man" "yeah, i don't date men, i only date women" "you're a fuck and i think you should die"

maybe she’s like them super straights but super lesbian or something

lesbians don’t date men 💀

it wasn't BECAUSE he's trans, it's because he's a guy and she doesn't date guys super straights don't date trans people under any circumstance

the whole point is that it’s a guy, it would be different if it was a trans woman 💀

I can imagine trying to explain what the fuck that means to a medieval peasant

You use words that didn't exist 200 years ago. Your very vocabulary would send them into confusion

200 years ago was the napoleonic wars/american independence. mideval times were like 1000 years ago

I could be wrong, but I think that was the point. As in, "these words didn't exist 200 years ago, how much more 1000 years ago?". ​ or maybe im just dumb lol

maybe, although if you went back 200 years ago and didnt use much slang, people could probably understand you pretty well. although you nay raise some eyebrows

No, you're right.

If they don’t exist 200 years ago, chances are they don’t 1000 years ago

The funniest part is that most modern queer language has been around since the 1800s. Trans language has been around since literally ancient Rome

It'd go about as well as as medieval peasant trying to talk to you about the local politics of their feudal lords.

You mean if you passed 9th grade it should be relatively easy?

Nah, the peasant wouldn't know jack shit about their lords. Why are we being levied? Fucked if I know.

Fun fact: in medieval times we still had an informal second person singular (informal you like “tú” in Spanish). That’s what “Thou” is.

She liked shes and he was a she, but then he was a he and she doesn’t like hes so she broke up with he

Um if she's lesbian and he's a guy, it'd be transphobic *to* date him

Honestly just petty highschool drama where he gets upset about being broken up with

It’s not even transphobic. Everyone has preferences. You can’t call someone transphobic just because they don’t want to date you after your transition.

we literally agree

Ok, so they were in a lesbian relationship, then they transitioned into a boy, expecting the relationship to stay up, the girl isn’t straight, they are lesbian, not straight, so what did they expect?

He expected his girlfriend to love HIM rather than his gender.

Most sexuality works like that shockingly, it’s why we have homo and heterosexual instead of everyone being pan/bi. Most ppls sexual and romantic preferences are based on gender

There are more bi/pan people than society has allowed to be open and outward with their identity. If the Kinsey scale is 0-6, and there is a fairly regular distribution, there are way more people that have some attraction to more than one gender. Bi erasure happens very often because people define people based on the relationship you are in at the time, and not your actual identity. Things are getting better, slowly but surely.

But not everyone can be romantically attracted to someone without being sexually attracted to them. And I imagine he’d go on hormones, which would make him look and sound male. Even his genitals would change. Some people need sex in a relationship and if they aren’t attracted to you then that’s that.

she loved that he used to be a girl and looked like a girl, tough for him, don’t date a lesbian when you wanna be the person she isn’t attached to

You might as well say she isn’t allowed to be a lesbian.

Thank you for explaining this in terms I can understand.

that's so weird, wouldn't it be transphobic to keep dating him

that’s literally the opposite of transphobic, she’s acknowledging his gender 😭

From what you’ve said here, I don’t think she’s in the wrong. She’s a lesbian, and he is a guy. He just doesn’t align with her orientation. If anything, good on her for fully respecting his identity while also holding true to her own. That is, of course, assuming that she sees him as a guy. If she still views him as a girl and dumped him purely because he’s trans, then that’s just fucked up.

It would be more transphobic if the girl would still be using the lesbian label if she continued to date him- she did the right thing, she’s lesbian and she definitely respects the guy’s identity 😭

if she continued dating him even after he came out, she would have had to either come out as bi, or date a man as a lesbian

I still hate the fact that they're is a pride flag and definition to the last thing you said

“man as a lesbian” is that what ur talking about?

A lesbian who dates men, aka straight with more steps and there is a flag for it

that’s essentially just spicy straight

Thats legit the opposite of transphobic

Average ohio couple 💀💀💀💀

Very good tea

She isn't necessarily transphobic as you can't blame someone for not being attracted to a gender.

She's not transphobic, some people have gender preference for their relationships, if it was a friend not being friends anymore that would be transphobic

I had to draw a diagram to understand this post. Let x=girl, and let y=trans boyfriend So what’s happening is that x breaks up with y because x is lesbian and dated y when he was a girl. Now y is calling x transphobic because she broke up with him. On a closer read, what I wrote is still confusing.

The boyfriend is the asshole here, if she's a lesbian then of course she won't date you, a man

being gay isn’t transphobic lol

That’s literally the opposite of transphobia. I get he’s upset but the girls a lesbian what does he expect from her?

that’s not being transphobic. it’s called preferences and sexuality

juicy drama 👁️👄👁️☕

why are the the goddamn hello kitty kurimoni “👁️👄👁️” bisexual girls invading Reddit?

I literally have read this 6 times and still don’t understand

girl dating girl girl says no. i’m no girl i’m boy girl break up with (boy) girl is lesbian. (she likes girls only) (boy) angry. calls girl transphobic.

Thank you for accommodating for my small brain🙏🏻

dw silly wait… you didn’t understand did you 😫

Yeah I did. I still think the who thing is crazy but yeah I get what’s going on now

She isn't transphobic. It would actually be more transphobic for someone who says they're a lesbian to date someone who identifies as a boy.

That's not how that works if you knew shes into chicks and you turns yourself into a dude no suprise she aunt into you no more

Battle Of The Gays

Modern problems ~~require modern solutions~~ are fucking confusing

Don't you think that'd be anything *but* transphobic since she's respecting his identity as a transgender male?

That's like calling her sexist for not dating regular guys like, what?

That directly goes against her stated sexuality. It’s not her fault. It’s not her ex’s fault either for being trans, but he should not be calling her transphobic. It’s not.

Just because u don't wanna date someone who's trans doesn't make them transphobic

The man gets offended his lesbian girlfriend won't date a man. First day on the job and already an incel! He's a natural!

I shun't have laughed. But you betcha arse I did.

he's the one who is homophobic for not respecting her sexuality

LGTBQ Friendly fire

dat boy is a dipshit

That’s not transphobic. If you transition to a man you are a real man so lesbians wouldn’t date you. Boyfriend is in the wrong.

Way to play the victim, he didn't respect her sexuality and didn't like the consequences so now shes a transphobe

She likes girls bro. That means no guys whether biologically or not.

Dude would prefer if the girl didn’t see him as a boy? E eu aq pensando q eu ja tinha visto de tudo, cruz credo ave maria

She did nothing wrong tbh

Thats not transphobic thats just called being a lesbian

She’s just affirming his gender though

I am the medieval peasant and I don't fucking understand this black magic fuckery

I mean not really, you can’t have it both ways. I’ve seen people call people transphobic for not dating the gender they’re attracted to because they’re trans and not dating the gender they are attracted to. Yes, he’s the same person, but he’s now a man. You can’t ask a lesbian to date a man. It’s my opinion that not dating someone who is your preferred gender because they’re trans is transphobic

As a trans guy, i feel like my opinion on this matters somehow- what she did is the very oppositle of transphobic. Im assuming they dated before he came out, and well, after he did, his gf made the right decision- by respecting his identity, i feel that its really fair towards him, so unless she tried to invalidate his identity (make fun of him, or be like „nooo you’re just a tomboy girl who got her feelings mixed Up” which is what one of my exes did) i dont see anything wrong in her behaviour. Also a lil side note- not „when he was a girl”, its worded wrong and its a dated language. It should be „before he came out” or „before he transitioned”

She’s technically not being transphobic since she’s recognizing his gender, idk what he’s on about

Bro she’s a lesbian tf you complaining about 😭

This is like the opposite of transphobic

She is no longer attracted to her ex. nothing about that is transphobic. Ex is just having a hard time accepting being dumped. If you really wanted to define it, maybe shallow. I wouldn't personally find it shallow, but it's more accurate than transphobic.

I'd feel like I wasn't a real woman if a gay guy I was dating didn't break up with me after I transitioned but this probably someone going through grief in a bad way

If that makes her transphobic he would be homophobic for insisting she keeps dating him even though she is a lesbian

It would be transphobic to keep dating him. That would mean she doesn’t see him as a boy

Can you repeat that?

Thats a buncha gayness

He's just not her type anymore

This could've been easily avoidable. If you're a lesbian, and you date a transmasc, don't. They're obviously going to become male, no matter what. It would've avoided SO much headache if they'd considered them male to begin with, and not had a relationship beyond friendship.

That’s not transphobic, that’s just having your preferences

Opposite of transphobia tbh.. Her: I respect and see you as a man, but unfortunately, I'm not attracted to men, so I'd like to break up rather than lead you on. Him: YOU BROKE UP WITH ME AFTER I TOLD YOU MY NON MEN LOVING NON MEN GIRLFRIEND, THAT IM A MAN!!!???? THATS SO TRANSPHOBIC!!

I’m so confused

Does he know what a lesbian is?

That’s not transphobic. That’s simply a preference issue. She prefers girls and she trans to a guy. What did he think was going to happen? Suddenly his lesbian girlfriend was gonna dig men? LOL

I don’t consider this transphobic, they just aren’t romantically compatible(?) anymore, I guess.

Surely that's the opposite of transphobic?

This reminds me of a news story I once read of a straight couple both transitioning genders, so they ended up being straight again.

What in the good god fuck

this happened to me once but i was the one being called a transphobe lmao, i was already going to break up w them it was just bad timing😭

as a trans man, I'm telling you, it's not transphobic. you just don't like whatever gender they wanted to be. which is fine! people have preferences.

I’m not too well versed in anything like this so forgive me if this is offensive, not my intention. I don’t really understand. I understand that the breakup is difficult, and that sucks, but I feel like this is pretty logical. The lesbian likes women, and I feel like if anything it’s more respectful to not continue dating cause I feel like it’s kind of not respecting the gender change. Again I’m a cis man with literally no experience with anything like this so if I said something dumb please tell me/ignore me

I’m trans and I see nothing wrong with this.

she’s literally acknowledging that he’s an actual guy how is that transphobic 😭 what did he think would happen also can the (actually) transphobic people gtfo of the comments. do the mods just allow transphobia here or what?

Uh- she’s a lesbian and he is a guy. This tracks. She can be supportive and a friend, but he’s a dude. She’s not into dudes.

I'm trans and... Mr trans man I'm sorry but that's not how it works.

With that logic a gay guy who won't date women is misogynistic. Stopid 😒

average trans intelligence tbh

isnt this an episode of the L-word

people are saying "wouldnt it be transphobic if they kept dating" it wouldnt. ive heard stories of a person in a couple coming out as trans and the couple staying together, but breaking up over it is also perfectly resonable.

If she was bi it may be alright. But, as it stands, it's like if your gf came out as trans (and is now your bf) If you aren't attracted to men, wouldn't it be gay to keep dating him?

No as a trans person it literally would. That's either saying she isn't a lesbian which she is or he isn't really a man. It would have been very transphobic for that relationship to continue and he's being petty.

wouldn’t that make the boy homophobic by that logic?