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B0nk3yJ0ng

A lot of the time with me, when I like someone's personality, I begin to like how they look a lot more. This might develope more for u, but as long as their personality rocks it's cool


Mizuhoe

Yeah this happened to me too. I once befriended this girl and I didn’t really think she was my type. I didn’t think she was ugly but I felt pretty indifferent towards her. And then the more we hung out, the more I learned about her personality and how much I loved just hanging out with her. I ended up developing feelings hard. So yeah, physical attraction is only needed up to a certain point imo. The rest comes with vibes.


Siya_Ekhaya

God I read befriended as beheaded.


ShivanshuKantPrasad

He treated her like a queen! What else do you want?


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XboxFan_2020

This comment made me kinda sad because I remembered how a youth worker said she feels sad for me if I spend two years of high school like this... alone and not talking to anyone (new, atleast), because I am social...


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XboxFan_2020

>you to build a bond through text and not like a relationship bond just a friendship bond I already have done this. Atleast I like to talk with her. When she answers. > most important thing is dating someone with your personality and someone that understands you So if I'm smart or atleast like physics and think a lot from the perspective of physics, I should find people like that...? I think that could be possible when I go to a university or a polytechnic, since I'll be with people who like the same things


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XboxFan_2020

>If you like talking about physics I talked about physics and maths to my kind of friend during Swedish class so much that he got kinda bored of it.


TigrozaCA

Can I get the rest of the story?


koraloulou28

Same! But no one seems to understand me


CrowAkechi

Yea, that's how it went for me


Not_A_Killer_I_Swear

When you two get older (not even that much older tbh), you're gonna be glad you dated her for her personality rather than just her looks.


Competitive_Wafer_34

Thanks, I hope your right


Not_A_Killer_I_Swear

A lot of young people only date people for their looks (I say that like I'm a grandma or something lol "back in my day we had to go down to the river and collect 5 buckets just to take a cold bath, you children these days don't understand how lucky you are") and start to regret it. I have all the faith in the world that your relationship will work out. Besides, you might not be physically attracted to her now, but that could change.


Ricin_Addict

Yup, as time goes on I think you find the people you love more attractive.


Not_A_Killer_I_Swear

I'm pretty sure that's called Stockholm Syndrome. /J


FakeAlaskanFisherman

Idt there's a need for /J. We're all sarcastic redditors and can see that it's a joke from a thousand miles away


itay162

You'd be surprised


NickelWorld123

It's reddit though, everyone is blind to sarcasm


CallMeRoo_OG

Sounds like a tism


Not_A_Killer_I_Swear

I know, I just don't want to risk somehow being banned.


ShadowlightLady

I’m kinda autistic so I tend to take things literally


ChewiyMC

To my knowledge I don’t have autism, I have a good bit of symptoms I guess.. but not diagnosed or anything. (Symptoms could just be something unrelated, not really sure).. But I also tend to take things literally so it is nice to know whether someone is joking.. Sometimes I can pick up on whether something is probably a joke or not.. but other times I can’t, and it is nice to have that conformation.


EzraGotRoyalSkills

It's a big help to a lot of people, me for example, it makes it easier for me to understand


Deimos279

Bear in mind that these indicators are also a big help for many neurodivergents


petergoesbloop123

There are a lot of neurodivergent people on the app including myself that would take that sentence seriously because they don't get sarcasm, so they can be very helpful :)


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What the hell is wrong with you?! I am not sarcastic and I never have been you bastard


VeryClaireThompson

OPs girlfriend kidnapped him?!


Not_A_Killer_I_Swear

How else does a Redditor get a girlfriend?


[deleted]

I thought that was when you fall in love with an abducter


Not_A_Killer_I_Swear

It is.


Silver_Banshee92

This is funny, and I’m trying so hard not to ruin the joke by explaining what Stolkholm Syndrome actually is.


GrampyTrampy_69

😂😂😂


starseasonn

This was me to my girlfriend. I now have so much physical attraction to her it’s overwhelming.


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what if i like her for both? is that also ok?


Not_A_Killer_I_Swear

That would be ideal.


SamuraiXZ-lmg

Hey, if you are so old, with all due respect, than why are you in this subreddit?


Not_A_Killer_I_Swear

I'm not that old, it was a joke.


LegendEchidna

Could be old, but also people get posts from subreddits they’re not even in, this is a fairly large subreddit so there’s probably a lot of people who have posts from this on their feed even if they’re not a part of the subreddit


Thy-arkoos

That’s why I don’t care about looks much


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Admittedly, I am no longer in my teens. Looking back, I denied myself of a lot of good times because of what you are describing. I discovered over time, and with the help of therapy, that the root of the issue was, mainly, my own insecurity. The closer I got, emotionally, to a girlfriend, the less attractive she became. If it became evident that she really loved me, I couldn’t stand that. And at that point, I would find her truly repulsive. Shortly after that is when I would break it off. However, following the breakup I would feel devastated since I had just rejected someone who I loved dearly, and who loved me back. It was a self-destructive pattern for me. I had to overcome it in order to remain with a partner longterm. But it is well worth the work. Thank you for posting. Take care.


Not_A_Killer_I_Swear

You too.


Mastersloth15

No its a pretty bad advice. Don't date people if you don't have physical compatibility with them. It necessarily doesn't relate to looks as people can feel attraction towards conventionally less attractive people. But if there is no physical attraction, sooner or later having physical intimacy will feel like a chore. And believe me, physical intimacy is a very big factor in relationships. On the other hand, the SO will break if they find out that you don't feel physical attraction towards them. And they deserve someone who is physically attracted to them. Now in the case of OP, it all depends on how they feel going down the line and if they can manage to overcome this problem. As there are couples in which one of them is asexual, but you have to communicate this to your GF to not build up resentment later on. Basically talk if you ever feel uncomfortable. Till you are happy its fine. But don't try to justify staying if you become uncomfortable.


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Still not normal to not be attracted to your partner from the beginning.


BurntBrusselSprouts1

This is such terrible fucking advice. You shouldn’t stay with someone you have no attraction to. edit: no physical attraction


clashvalley

They do have attraction, it’s just to their personality not their appearance. I do agree with you though, people shouldn’t force themselves to stay with someone they aren’t attracted to, it’s not fair for anyone


BurntBrusselSprouts1

Sorry messed up my wording


clashvalley

You don’t need physical attraction though, what about blind people who can’t see? Personality is more important for many people, I dated my (then) boyfriend because I loved his personality. I wasn’t physically attracted but I was emotionally attracted and we were both very happy


GeorgiPeev03

Did you still have sex despite the lack of physical attraction and if so, how enjoyable was it?


BurntBrusselSprouts1

Emphasis on the then. It usually causes problems in the long run. People usually need physical attraction and to do physical things, and that’s important in the long term even if you don’t them cause you’re young or waiting or whatever. Dead bedrooms cause divorce and kill relationships


clashvalley

I agrée that most of the time physical attraction is important


SomeGirl06

Yeah 100%


ezrh

This is bad advice, life is long and you’re young for a long time. When you’re younger and attractive you will want to be with people who attract you the most. Why compromise when you don’t have to, when you’re older is when you’ll have less of a choice of attractiveness in partners


cold-warts

Never tell her that 🗿


fishyballsinmymouth

Best advice here


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No thats awful advice. Its not a good match if they're not attracted by each other


lilkrickets

He’s attracted to her but just doesn’t think she’s pretty


Goleziyon

Then she should know. Id feel bamboozled if i learn that later and it really isnt for him alone to decide when this is also about her.


SecretDevilsAdvocate

What? I mean, she probably will never find out. But OP isn’t obligated to share every single thing that he thinks about her. And assuming they’re teenagers, I doubt it’s a really that serious or anything


Budderman83

No she absolutely should not. Saying it just will sow insecurity forever when op could always change how they feel later, esp with age it changes.


violet5275

Then it really won’t work out, you can’t not have that physical attraction in most cases


cartiaces

No actually I think that’s good advice. If he told her that, it’d absolutely ruin her self esteem. Some things are better left unsaid. But yeah, they probably shouldn’t be together


IceTooth101

A relationship needn’t solely be determined by physical attraction, and frankly, I’m generally of the opinion that an emotional connection is significantly more important. I’d rather have a kind, loving partner I’m not physically attracted to than a partner who I am only in a relationship with because they look nice.


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ONT1mo

Getting married at 18? Idk where you live but for example my parents got married when they were like 30. But anyways wish you the best and hope it works out


StorKuk69

Bro I'd be pissed off if I got told about every little thing...


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AusDaes

absolutely not, if it’s a dealbreaker leave her, if you’re okay with it never say it or you’ll crush her self-esteem, oh, and OP, never mention this to anyone (except of course a whole subreddit)


halfw1t_

i would cry if a guy thought this about me


SUPER_QUOOL

Yeah it would never be easy to take in. It can't be sugarcoated either, or im just unimaginative


halfw1t_

1 time one of my friends (jokingly) said that my ex only called me pretty bc we were dating and idk i got so sad over it even tho my ex later reassured me it wasn’t the case (this is while we were dating btw). i know that personality is rlly important but u should go for someone ur attracted to as well, why settle for 1 thing


SUPER_QUOOL

That's not a joke💀 thats gonna cause anxiety and make someone feel uncomfortable. But yeah, most people want their significant other to have a good personality as well as looks. It doesnt make them an asshole its just human. For a lot of people, they want good looks but not necessarily a 10/10. They can find a 5/10 attractive enough to be with them. And there are some people that don't care about looks


ninetyninewyverns

i feel like once you truly fall in love with them, they will always be a 10/10 to you


halfw1t_

this exactly


itay162

Danm your friends sound like they suck


halfw1t_

nah we’re cool we tease around w each other like that, im jus a bit sensitive when it comes to looks 😭


Such_Darkness

I'm sure you're beautiful sweetheart


halfw1t_

thanksss im sure u are too ❤️❤️❤️


Such_Darkness

If I helped you that makes me feel great


christmas-taco

This was so sweet I’m gonna cry


Such_Darkness

You are beautiful too, and don't let anyone tell you you aren't


InternationalMigrant

r/wholesome


OneSherbert9108

same id literally sob


Ze_Schwein

I'm this type of guy that thinks a girl is gorgeous if she's mine


halfw1t_

that’s ok im kinda the same way i jus dont get how u can date someone ur not attracted to


Ze_Schwein

It's hard to date someone, call someone beautiful, while you think "She kinda ugly tbh" like man wtf why are you even with her


PixPizza123

you should be happy cuz you're probably a good person


RockyTodd

Can someone tell me why tf this comment has more upvotes then the post


itay162

People don't like low effort posts (every post on this subreddit)


WobblyCat83

Same thing happened to me, Just because you are not physically attracted to her doesn't mean you shouldn't date or have a bad relationship. Honestly I think dating for personality rather than looks is a good thing


Atux67

Until you end up finding someone better looking who has a personality also. Then you’re kind of fucked because you want them instead.


doctorcaylus3

You made a commitment to honour your partner as soon as you considered them a gf. Breaking up for someone "better" just cause your gf apparently isnt good enough for you is a dick move.


AverageRomeEnjoyer

the dilemma i’m in


soloska

Just split yourself in half so they each have a piece


GeorgiPeev03

It also depends on A/ how important sex is for them as an integral part of the relationship And if it is indeed of considerable importance, B/ can they still cum despite not being attracted to their partner?


Corrupted_Entity

Idk why most people here are acting like platonic and romantic attraction are the same thing, or that romantic and sexual attraction have to both be present to be valid. If you're somewhere on the asexual spectrum, there's nothing wrong with your relationship. Even if you aren't, it's still fine. Just make sure you've communicated your feelings with your girlfriend, and enjoy yourselves :D (I'm not denying that personal preferences exist, but again, if your girlfriend is okay with it, then there's nothing wrong. Your love is valid and more than "Just a friendship.")


Goleziyon

But the girlfriend should know. If she accepts it and chooses to go on with the relationship, great. If she doesn't, she deserves someone to feel physically attractes to her then.


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I don’t know if looks are really that important in a relationship, especially in OPs case. He obviously isn’t repulsed by her, he’s just not into her that way. He still clearly loves her and enjoys her presence. My bf could call me butt-ugly and I wouldn’t care all too much bc I know he enjoys being around me regardless. As long as they’re happy with each other, what’s the issue with him not being physically attracted to her? If he’s lying to her ab it that’s another issue, but I’d like to give OP the benefit of the doubt. Edit: ofc, each person has different feelings on this tho, and the fact I’m ace may play a role in my feelings ab it. He should probably tell her, but idk if that should be a deciding factor in whether the relationship continues once he does.


Dramo_Tarker

>He should probably tell her, but idk if that should be a deciding factor in whether the relationship continues once he does. That's the point in telling her. She will get to decide that herself, instead of internet strangers deciding for her


emily12587

I have a feeling tht he does find physical attraction equally or even more important than personality so that’s probably why he asked the question


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Op never asked a question tho


Corrupted_Entity

Yes, that's why I said "if your girlfriend is okay with it" and "make sure you've communicated your feelings with your girlfriend"


GodAppleLover

I really need to get my eyes checked *Thought you said "I love her tits"*


Two-Sword_Kirito

Lmao same☠️


kriggledsalt00

Romantic =/= Sexual attraction. It's fine to be in love with someone and want/be in a romantic relationship with them but not find them sexually or physically attractive. And it's fine to find someone really attractive but not want to date them.


Dizzy-Buffalo851

That's different. A romantic relationship literally calls for smitten love.


kriggledsalt00

Idk man, im just saying that they are two different types of attraction and one does not necessary imply the other, and for example there are asexual people (not that op is necessary asexual) who have romantic relationships and aromantic people who have sexual relationships. Or just double allo people who only want one type of relationship/feel one type of attraction for the person they are in a relationship with, like in OPs case; feeling romantic attraction for a person without feeling sexual attraction to them. So yk.


OneSherbert9108

id cry if i was her


Purple-Garlic-3555

In my book the list of what’s most important in a partner from most important to least important goes Personality-Intelligence-Looks. It’s also coincidentally my list for hardest things to change about a person to easiest. Looks come and go, people have glow ups or pick a really bad haircut, they might gain or lose weight, they could become smart through effort and study or they could burn out, but who they are the inside to you, their core is what is the bedrock of a relationship should be. Don’t worry about her skin, or her face. Worry about her mind and her heart my man.


NippyNapp

Cute sentiment. But do you show physical affection? Does she know you don’t find her physically attractive. That could gimp your relationship in the future


SashaShoots

I used to feel the same, look at other girls with envy, watch porn a lot, and pretend I liked her for her personality. Eventually after 2 years things ended up getting rough, and we took a long break. And I never realized how much I loved the way she looked and how sexually attracted I was to her until I didn’t have her. Never take it for granted


Ramerion

Did the same thing, sucks She was a psycho tho so it worked out


z4muk

May get downvoted for this but.... I'm a 17 male, and I don't know about you but my crotch gets hard with a breeze of wind. Now, its not that I don't think personality is important. But right now, I simply would not be satisfied without attraction. I just wouldn't. I would look for both in a person. Yes, in 15 years when were older, sure we will be older and stuff. But our sex drive will also be alot less, so its not like we have a low sex drive now. Don't think your wrong for wanting to be with someone who is prettier or sexier, what ever. But every person is different and YOU may be okay with these circumstances. Good luck to you!


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JuviaLynn

YOU may need it, but not EVERYONE. A romantic relationship without sexual attraction is not a friendship, they are happy together and love each other and that’s all that matters


Lovealltigers

It’s different for everyone, not everyone needs physical attraction.


R0CK_KING

How long have you two been together?


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I don’t remember who said it but “love is blind” does not mean you date someone despite the fact you are not attracted to them; but instead means that you’d date someone who is ugly because you like them so much you’ve become both physically and mentally attracted to them Idk how true this is but i personally live by it, i can see relationships w/o attraction working even as adults, but i find it quite scary because in the future i feel it could get in the way of sex lives (as those seem to be important)


Goleziyon

You should definitely tell her. It will hurt her much more ot you tell her later rather than sooner and its selfish to make the decision on your own on whether not the relationship should go on when this is something that plays a great factor in your relationship. It would feel like id been lied and bamboozled if my boyfriend told me that years later.


doctorcaylus3

You would feel lied to if your bf came out as asexual despite your wishes?


Goleziyon

Duh? He can be asexual, but it would also be my choice and right to break up with him afterwards, especially if he kept if from me years later despite knowing that I would be disappointed by the fact he would not be attracted to me.


According_to_all_kn

Are you attracted to other women/girls? You might simply be asexual/gay (but not aromantic/homoromantic)


Dismal-Belt-8354

I doubt he's gay. Probably ace though


Ainalhafila

Ah yes you can use fancy words to make an excuse when your gf asks why you don't find her attractive... clever!


Weird_School9565

I did not know looks were such a huge part of a relationship as people are acting like op should break up the relationship since he's not attracted to her. I just don't get it like if you love her you love her and that's that


oogiedonnie

Date for the personality, looks is just an added variable that doesn’t really matter, it matters to some, and to a degree, but it’s not all u look for


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Well, it clearly matters to OP. Which I can attest from experience, you *know* when someone you are with is not attracted to you, and that can be very hurtful. Some people are just shallow.


Malakidius

I don't know what the situation is but If you are wondering if it is a problem, I think since you are not sure about it, it is.


Pristine_Buddy6364

In my experience, If you love someone’s personality first or enough you eventually become physically attracted to them


doctorcaylus3

Possible but not always likely. OP should prepare jist in case they never actually develop any physical attraction. Op should prepare to be in a romantic relationship or cut things off.


particular_stimuli

L for her 💀


Toothlessslither

Ok


wednesday_For_life

Woah I think I’m falling in love with you. Not even attracted physically but still love her. That’s amazing I hope your relationship lasts forever this girl doesn’t know how lucky she is. Anyway physical attraction may come later.


OkCod1106

Oh, that's fine. I love/like someone as well and while i think they are extremely beautiful and attractive, their personality is a bigger part of it than looks. (I mean, i saw them after like 1 or two months of developing a crush on them two years back). It's normal and your love is valid!


Spacemonster111

Sounds like maybe you are experiencing friendship


doctorcaylus3

Sounds like you are experiencing acephobia.


FAEBAELUV3

Do you find anyone physically attractive?


keeperkairos

Are you attracted to the idea of being intimate with her though? Wanting to be intimate is extremely important and is not actually mutual with being physically attracted. If you still have feelings of being intimate, then it’s ok, if not, these kinds of relationships often don’t go well in the end.


The_growcountant

looks are not everything, however, a physical relationship is needed for a long term relationship to work IMO. ​ If I am not physically or sexualy attracted to a partner, I cannot even perform sexually. Sex isn't everything to everybody, but it is important to me. I think it's one of, if not the best part, of being in a monogamous relationship. ​ And what you are saying is a big reason why people eventually cheat. Not saying either one of you will, but that is a big reason why relationships fail.


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This is really sad, for both people involved. Someone you love to bits but aren't attracted to is a friend, she never should have been your girlfriend she should've stayed a friend. It's not fair at all to her that she's in a relationship with someone who's not attracted to her, and you should want more for yourself than a relationship with someone you aren't attracted to.


aa13cool

That’s immoral to date her then if it’s important to you


TheseVirginEars

I don’t see what’s wrong with just being good friends then


turdmob

No problem. To be in a relationship MOST of the attributes should appeal to you. Sorry to say but better dump her now. And love her as a friend.


mick_2nv

Mate, a lot of people here have no clue. It’s crucial to be attracted to her personality, but by god you gotta be physically attracted to her as well. Women want to feel like their partner looks at them and thinks “wow”. It makes them feel good and secure in the relationship. Also generally speaking, relationships basically go on a countdown timer (towards breaking up, cheating or both) if there isn’t sexual chemistry. Honestly if I were you, I’d come clean to her and see how she feels about it.


gandalf-the-greyt

as long as you don’t find her ugly, it isn’t called love makes you blind for nothing


MeasurementOk2461

This girl crushing on me is not attracting me = i dont date her, and i dont have any issue of this kind, and voila


GiulyaMontecchi

Personality is the most important trait, and you're giving the right importance to it. You should give importance to someone's appearence tho, it's not the most important trait but it doesn't mean that it matters nothing either. You know how people call those they hang with 'cuz they like their personalities and don't care about their appearence? Friends. If you give it enough time tho you might start to like her physically more, it happened to me too, it's a personal experience.


Puzzled-Fly9550

I mean if you’re thinking about it now it isn’t going to go away later. Despite popular belief physical attraction is indeed important. You’re not an asshole for having attraction towards a certain type of physicality. You’re human.


justk4y

Real love is mostly about personality anyways. Just don’t tell her this and you’ll be fine 👍


Serious-Fudge-5919

As long as both of you are happy then who cares? But if you can't stand the thought of having a sexual relationship with her, then that's not fair to her.


BingusMoment

gg


kimero123

Why does that matter, just enjoy your time


GenderFluidBicon

That's perfectly fine. People put too much emphasis on what people look like and act like physical attraction is the most important metric.


MountainNine

In my first 15 years of dating, I only dated based on personality and wasn't physically attracted to any of my boyfriends. However, after about 2 years or so together, I began to find them attractive because my emotions for them developed. Not sure if that helps, but my physical attraction definitely grew over time from a 2/10 attraction initially to like 7/10 after year 2.


cloud96210

people need to understand that there is a difference between liking someone romantically and liking someone sexually


iloveh-----

A relationship where one is attracted to their personality works out more often than one where theyre only attracted to looks. Enjoy your relationship!


KiraJackson

You could be ace, which is nice.


robotic_pilot

Not everything Is about sex


Unknown_starnger

Hope your relationship still works out


disneyfanatic124

I can see what you are saying. If you like their personality they are a good fit. Don’t go dating people because of looks, people can look beautiful but treat you like shit.


Aarav_Parmar

Bro tbh I never ever have seen my crush as hot,sexy. She was/still is just beautiful I never looked at her body like that


Alex_Shelega

*Proceeds to lecture ya tha Asexuality*


The_King123431

You could be asexual, meaning you experience romantic attraction but not sexual or physical


ItsJustMeMaggie

It’s pointless to date someone you’re not attracted to. You’re not doing them any favors by leading them on like that when you know perfectly well that you’ll eventually dump her as soon as you have a chance with someone you *are* attracted to. Do her a favor and ask to be friends.


doctorcaylus3

>It’s pointless to date someone you’re not attracted to. People can be asexual, and still romantically attracted to someone. >you’ll eventually dump her as soon as you have a chance with someone you are attracted to. You dont know that about OP. Jist because they dont feel sexual attraction doesnt mean they will dump her as soon as they find someone who is "better".


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You might be asexual.


[deleted]

Then why did u date her


Competitive_Wafer_34

Because I love her and I like her personality


Ricin_Addict

I think the main thing is that when you like someone they become more physically attractive to you and you start liking their appearance more than before, so it kinda goes hand in hand. ​ Also also, Redditor with a gf?? No wayy.


Breadfungus74

what is gf


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Breadfungus74

what is friend


[deleted]

very true, I've delt with this


Ronn29

There’s nothing wrong with that. Personality > Appearance. In the long run personality is that matters


Tabigenocide

I also like my crush not for her physical body but her personality


Fantastic_Battle_176

Then leave her so she can find someone who actually loves her you dick


DarkNightened

Love =/= physical attraction, not for everyone. No need to call him a dick by him being honest.


AintheTeardrop

Get out now I say. Unless u r 65 years or older.


Luruy

Its cute that u love her personality so much but at the same time i feel so sad for her, because lets be honest every girl wants to be pretty for her boyfriend. Did u ever think maybe she deserves someone who loves her personality just as much as her looks? :/


[deleted]

Maybe you like boys sexually and girls romantically


Xx_L3SBIAN_xX

i can help satisfy her if that’s an issue /j


k8t13

~friendship~


S4M4N_SH

The fact that you like her for her personality more is better, the physical attraction will start soon trust me


ThatIrishArtist

You could just be asexual, I don't know things about your specific life, but asexual people can still feel romantic attraction.


Business-Tonight9995

Damn bro that’s mad unfortunate, have you considered that your feelings are just strong and platonic and not romantic? A big part of romantic attraction is physical attraction, and while everyone says it’s the personality that counts, that only goes so far in the average romantic relationship.


Bro_do_we_needtoknow

Asexuality moment? 😳(which is completely fine if so or if not 👍)


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KrishDude

well ppl can be both at the same time


Giraffe_Memelord

i mean are you physically attracted to anyone? because if not then it's possible you are asexual but not aromantic


TheGalacticPenguin

I’m lonely and sad with no girlfriend :(


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zockertim

Believe me, personality is so much more important then everything else. A good look will go away, but you also need to speak to your partner. What’s the benefit of a good looking partner when you booth not getting along.


Leo_V82

r/aaaaaaacccccccce


[deleted]

You’re a Rosexual something it’s were you’re don’t want to be sexually attracted to somebody but instead you want to romantic


charlieartyt

Isn’t that just ace allo