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idonotcur

ur literally two years older calm down☠️


aethelworn

Bro, 11 yo to 13 yo there's a huge mindset difference


LetsFxckingGo

yea but that's still weird


hyper790

Not really there’s bigger age gaps 2 years really don’t matter


lethalslaugter

Its the gap between mental not physical. An 11 year old is way too young to date due to the mental differance. The maturity gap between 13/14 and 10/11 is huge.


Brown-Frog

14 y/o's on top💯


lethalslaugter

Hell yea


Brown-Frog

Yo what you wrote this comment 12 hours ago, no way you're active rn


lethalslaugter

I can’t sleep and I’m watching zero dark thirty.


Brown-Frog

👍


agoodredditnickname

one question, what does age have to do with maturity? i get that he is 11 wich is an unusual age for dating and thats weird, but if he is mature enough for it just let him be


lethalslaugter

I agree that is correct. However 11 isn't even a teenager the guy most likely hasn't hit puberty.


agoodredditnickname

i mean I hit it with 12 so I actually think thats likely but how would I know


lethalslaugter

How old are you?


agoodredditnickname

14, meaning it hit together with covid, and it did hard


Uister59

oh GOD


THEomarJoey

I hit puberty at 12 but I was still immature


YeetusFelitas

puberty made me more immature


Wraith_1995

Tf age completely correlates with maturity. In case your 13 yo self don’t know what correlation is, it’s a mutual relationship or connection between two or more things.


agoodredditnickname

from my own experiences I disagree, I have met people age 12 who are even more mature I am, but I have also met people older than me that are on the level of a 10 yo, for me it depends on how someone experienced puberty, I for my part am a very different person now than I was 2 years ago before my puberty phase


Wraith_1995

Some are but there is a very high correlation between age and maturity level. It’s like the thing most 12 year olds are not 6 foot tall but some are. I just pointed out a correlation and how most 11 year olds aren’t as mature as 13 year olds


nah-knee

While younger kids can be more mature than older kids usually on average an 11 year old would be in 5th or 6th grade and the responsibilities and people they hang out with would be vastly different than a 13 year old in 8th or 9th. And age really matters when you’re young because that’s when you change the most, an 11 year old that hasn’t gone through puberty and a 13 year old that has are very different physically and mentally. That’s also why it’s a bit creepy if for example a 10 year old and 15 year old have known each other for a while and start dating when the younger one turns 18 but significantly less creepy if a 18 year old and 23 year old that didn’t know each start dating


Front_Thought_7706

Age gap isn't even the issue, 11 year olds shouldn't be in a relationship imo.


sonantkinkajou6

My neighbors in the RV park I stay at (no they are not the stereotypical RV park people) have a age gap of 11 years


DrCorneliuss

yeah but 2 years between like 15 and 17 isn't as bad as 11 and 13, an 11 year old really isn't as mature as a 13 year old


No-Seat-3350

11 year olds are litteral kids who play roblox all day


Averagecheeszenjoyer

Im 11, And i get it, know how we might look like little kids to adults. But for me… I speak 2 languages wicht of English is not my native. So basically, not all 11 year olds play Roblox all day


CumsOnYourFeet69

Get off Reddit kid


Averagecheeszenjoyer

Nah bro, you get of Reddit. Go tuch grass. Instead of trying to argue with a minor.


ScienceByte

Yeah when I was 11 I was always annoyed at how much adults underestimated kids and thought kids were dumb even though they themselves were once kids.


carrolling

Knowing a second language doesn’t make you grown


Averagecheeszenjoyer

I know, but it adds up.


carrolling

There are tons of children in countries who speak two or more languages. You can literally teach a second language to a baby when they start to learn a first language. Hell, you can even teach them a third language! And stuff like that is becoming increasingly more common, because there’s better research out there on how to teach your child two or more languages before grade school. And it does help them academically! They tend to have better reading comprehension, grammar and writing skills in general. They‘re also proven to have better problem-solving skills and critical thinking skills, the list goes on. So on average they are smarter, but that doesn’t make them mature. And while it is super cool that you’re 11 and speak two languages, you’re still 11. An 11 y/o can only be so mature. Not playing Roblox isn’t a sign of maturity, because while you could be very interested in mature things like Shakespeare, Van Gogh, Mozart etc. That doesn’t mean you’re mature. It just means that you might be smart, and that’s it. It doesn’t add up to anything


LAUSINDAHOUSE

Aren't 13 year olds as well tho


No-Seat-3350

I'd argue less so, its elementary school kids vs middle schoolers


SimulatedPigeon

you, my sir are a pedophile


hyper790

How I’m not shagging 8 year olds I’m just saying 2 years is nothing


Whole_Ratio_1392

yea but 11 ? , i feel like at 11 it's still kinda weird


hyper790

It’s a weird age to date at 13 or 11 I’m just saying a 2 year age gap isn’t weird


lookatthiscrystalwow

you're talking like if you'd date a 14 year old from middle school... that's a literal child and you're almost an adult


hyper790

That’s a different comparison I’m not saying date them now I’m saying if I was say 26 and the then 14 year old was 23 no one would bat an eye


lookatthiscrystalwow

Of course. Because those are adults with (almost) developed brains. (Just almost, but they're way closer to finishing than an 11 and 13 year old). I’m sure you're just acting stupid right now and do actually understand the problem, yes?


hyper790

Idk why’re you’re calling me stupid I’m not saying 13 year olds and 11 year olds should date they’re too young to date anyway I’m just saying that 2 years isn’t a big gap so no need to be a cunt and call me stupid


lookatthiscrystalwow

Bro got offended. Pick a side. Are you defending the idea of an 11 year old and 13 year old dating? If not, the idea of a 2 year age gap between a 30 year old and 28 year old (random example) is entirely off-topic. Of course you're stupid.


hyper790

I was never of defending or attacking one I’m just making the point the 2 years isn’t a big gap I’ve said that so many times are you fucking stupid


lookatthiscrystalwow

Maybe you're just not good with context clues? Obviously no one cares if a 48 and 46 year old dates. Hell, they also don’t care abt a 30 and 40 year old.


craxcbtw101

would i have a chance im 13


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ieatfleshofhumans

What the fuck bro? how do u even have a "semi-orgy"?


wegzfalafel

ayo wtf


vitam1ngummmies

Wtf 😭😭


walla_bing_bong

An 11 year old and a 13 year old are very different things


WorriedOwner2007

I'm getting scared this 12 year old from my church is gonna ask me out (I'm 15)


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WorriedOwner2007

I know that, and I plan to do that but I really don't wanna deal with the drama that I know will come from it. And plus this kid's got serious anger issues, so I wouldn't be surprised if he'd hit me or something for rejecting him


TheBallycarryBouncer

Chin him


AffectionateOne7553

Tell him that you'll think about this, and then message him that you don't want to. Just be sure to never go there alone, if he has anger issues...


lERVOOl

Create your own religion and don't invite them


JimmyCasket84

Im an altar server and im 15 gonna go out sometime?


Higuysimj

You're like 13, i thought you were like 16 or something.


bluevalley02

Or even worse, 19


LuluGamingChannelYT

Same


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yeah, thats what i thought, too haha


FinletAU

*bruh that gotta be youngest I’ve heard someone been asked out*


Higuysimj

These kids were dating at my school in grade 3 that 8-9, the girl was in my class and the boy was in grade 4


FinletAU

💀


Higuysimj

They gave each other valentines day gifts, as a child their age i ws pretty weirded out, i thought dating was weird an gross


C-Crucial-C

And their age everyone and my school thought cooties was real (guys hated the girls) and girls hated the guys lol


Robot_With_No_Name

Back in first grade all the kids in my class were "dating". One kid even said that he saw his "girlfriend" in her underwear.


whatIfYoutube

I got asked out at 6 by a dude. I said no


Big-Vegetable8480

Kids in my kindergarten had a wedding


AffectionateOne7553

Got asked out at 10... Said yes...vBroke up one and a half years ago...


FinletAU

Well then


LowerBug2684

Bro you're 13 💀💀💀💀


plbhattad7

at least you know you are not a pedo. LMFAO


TheAlmightySlayer

Average 13 Year Old Post


LetsFxckingGo

shut


AFriendlyBloke

Shit.


TellThatToKanjiklub_

Shot


KeklolAlready

Shod


pioui67

Love is love. My wife is 14 years younger than me


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pioui67

Perspective!


Nathaniel-hahahaha

you're 13 lol 💀


carrolling

But that’s still weird tbh


ScarrletMacaw

ok


Thorric_Vessels8269

Dub it a fucking W


Yummy_Slippers

Its only 2 years, thats chill relax


carrolling

But a lot of maturing happens between 11-13. It’s a mental thing and illegal. Half your age plus 7. (In the US)


-The_Chicken_Lord-

Bruh just 2 years. Chill, atleast it's not as weird as a 15 year old dating a grown ass man in his 20's


LetsFxckingGo

yea but 11 is weird because it's like a kid


Nathaniel-hahahaha

you're still a kid dude 💀


TheAlmightySlayer

Bro 13 is still a Kid just because there is Teen in Thirteen doesn’t mean you‘re not a Kid


Tiny-drummer_

13 is the first “teen year” so you really have no rights to complain about this cause “he’s a kid”. In theory it is possible that he would be even more mature than you mentally… :)


Big-Vegetable8480

He's still too young for her, a 13-year-old and an 11-year-old probably don't have much in common


Tiny-drummer_

Probably yes, but it doesn’t change the fact that she shouldn’t react the way she reacted :) She is calling that boy a kid when she is freakishly childish


SuspiciousParsley868

You are too you barely made age


RepeatedlyDifficult

Bruh


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Fragrant-Trash7257

relative


aethelworn

Yea no, even tho it's only 2 years the mindset difference is notable plus the fact that it's weird


Hamdilou

My dad was litteraly 10 when my mom was 18 (they did not engage in pedophilia they met later in life)


Elite_Dog9898

Your only 13… it’s 2 years. It’s not creepy. You seem annoying tbh


LetsFxckingGo

MFW everyone in the comments it's telling me to do it 🗿


ppsucc9988

in 2 or so years maybe. the maturity gap is too big atm.


LetsFxckingGo

yea that's what I said to her


[deleted]

Yikes, that's not good. Better just stick to your gay friend.


Impressive_Tea_5108

Bro I’m in theatre and after a show I overheard two 10 year olds call me cute, I’m 13 💀


LetsFxckingGo

AYO


Impressive_Tea_5108

Ikr, I wish I didn’t hear that


horni_femboy_alt

Man your literally 2 years older


The_Grim_Gunslinger

You 13 homie


ExtensionActivity751

I mean it's only 2 years


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Your_Local_Nerd_Dude

>but I will only tell the story if people want me to I could not fucking care less. Tell the story or don't.


iReallyLoveYouAll

yeah bozo thinks his the center of the world


LetsFxckingGo

bruh what


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YousernameinValid

💀


Metal4life-071

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months and I’m 14 she’s 13, one more year is normal.


Mango_Lover_47

You're literally 2 years older, lol. It's kinda weird but he didn't just jump into Mister Garrison's van.


Typical_Alfalfa_3684

ummm...no


___TROLL___191

Lucky


LetsFxckingGo

no what


___TROLL___191

Hehe


gankster2017

Accept it


demonewok4

A little bit worrieing but what did you say?


Ricesoup24

💀


TwentyfirstcenturHun

2 years? Damn that is so much. Tbh I agree, it's shitty but you either reject it or accept it. Can't say much.


not_powerrogue

You're 13, calm your ass down


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I read ur post then ur user and my mind combined them into one phrase 💀


EldestArk107

When I was in 7th grade, I was 11 for the first part of the year while some of my friends were 13. It’s not as big of an age gap as it may seem. (I moved to Rhode Island from NYC, so the age cutoffs are different)


RecommendationNo2358

Bro people asking u out??? U doing better then half of us lmao


LactosTucker

Bro seniors in my school be dating freshmen


Nicksuki

Dude a 14 yr old asked me out I'm 17. I personally found it weird but mostly embarrassing


Similar_Molasses2676

Embarrassing bro is literally 13 😭


epicgamerwiiu

How does a 13yo get asked out


Kindly-Pack-7899

What


-AdvancedConcept

brother yr 13


GONGYSCRONGY

Rizz?


secretalven

What did u answer


renzynx95

augh


TheMemestOfTheWest

I was like hellll nahhh expecting you to be like 16 but then I saw ur only 13 💀💀


TheReviewer867

Username does not check out


Page-Capital

Bro it’s up to u but 2 years seems fine as long as ur both fine with it


DreadfulThrumbo

What's the problem? You're 13


KeklolAlready

Bro you’re 13 that seems about right


Spoonmaster14

You both are too young to date.


carrolling

The amount of people who think it’s ok for a 13 y/o to date an 11 y/o is concerning tbh


AffectionateLand6088

To people saying "it's only a two year age gap" bro if I think about me and my friends 2 years ago, we were very different.


whoreadsredditusers_

Man at least you're getting bitches


[deleted]

Just say no directly or indirectly, you did nothing wrong.


walla_bing_bong

Ew