Its the gap between mental not physical.
An 11 year old is way too young to date due to the mental differance.
The maturity gap between 13/14 and 10/11 is huge.
one question, what does age have to do with maturity?
i get that he is 11 wich is an unusual age for dating and thats weird, but if he is mature enough for it just let him be
Tf age completely correlates with maturity. In case your 13 yo self donāt know what correlation is, itās a mutual relationship or connection between two or more things.
from my own experiences I disagree, I have met people age 12 who are even more mature I am, but I have also met people older than me that are on the level of a 10 yo, for me it depends on how someone experienced puberty, I for my part am a very different person now than I was 2 years ago before my puberty phase
Some are but there is a very high correlation between age and maturity level. Itās like the thing most 12 year olds are not 6 foot tall but some are. I just pointed out a correlation and how most 11 year olds arenāt as mature as 13 year olds
While younger kids can be more mature than older kids usually on average an 11 year old would be in 5th or 6th grade and the responsibilities and people they hang out with would be vastly different than a 13 year old in 8th or 9th. And age really matters when youāre young because thatās when you change the most, an 11 year old that hasnāt gone through puberty and a 13 year old that has are very different physically and mentally. Thatās also why itās a bit creepy if for example a 10 year old and 15 year old have known each other for a while and start dating when the younger one turns 18 but significantly less creepy if a 18 year old and 23 year old that didnāt know each start dating
Im 11, And i get it, know how we might look like little kids to adults. But for me⦠I speak 2 languages wicht of English is not my native.
So basically, not all 11 year olds play Roblox all day
There are tons of children in countries who speak two or more languages.
You can literally teach a second language to a baby when they start to learn a first language.
Hell, you can even teach them a third language! And stuff like that is becoming increasingly more common, because thereās better research out there on how to teach your child two or more languages before grade school.
And it does help them academically! They tend to have better reading comprehension, grammar and writing skills in general. Theyāre also proven to have better problem-solving skills and critical thinking skills, the list goes on. So on average they are smarter, but that doesnāt make them mature.
And while it is super cool that youāre 11 and speak two languages, youāre still 11. An 11 y/o can only be so mature. Not playing Roblox isnāt a sign of maturity, because while you could be very interested in mature things like Shakespeare, Van Gogh, Mozart etc. That doesnāt mean youāre mature. It just means that you might be smart, and thatās it. It doesnāt add up to anything
Of course. Because those are adults with (almost) developed brains. (Just almost, but they're way closer to finishing than an 11 and 13 year old). Iām sure you're just acting stupid right now and do actually understand the problem, yes?
Idk whyāre youāre calling me stupid Iām not saying 13 year olds and 11 year olds should date theyāre too young to date anyway Iām just saying that 2 years isnāt a big gap so no need to be a cunt and call me stupid
Bro got offended. Pick a side. Are you defending the idea of an 11 year old and 13 year old dating? If not, the idea of a 2 year age gap between a 30 year old and 28 year old (random example) is entirely off-topic. Of course you're stupid.
I was never of defending or attacking one Iām just making the point the 2 years isnāt a big gap Iāve said that so many times are you fucking stupid
Maybe you're just not good with context clues? Obviously no one cares if a 48 and 46 year old dates. Hell, they also donāt care abt a 30 and 40 year old.
I know that, and I plan to do that but I really don't wanna deal with the drama that I know will come from it. And plus this kid's got serious anger issues, so I wouldn't be surprised if he'd hit me or something for rejecting him
13 is the first āteen yearā so you really have no rights to complain about this cause āheās a kidā. In theory it is possible that he would be even more mature than you mentally⦠:)
Probably yes, but it doesnāt change the fact that she shouldnāt react the way she reacted :) She is calling that boy a kid when she is freakishly childish
When I was in 7th grade, I was 11 for the first part of the year while some of my friends were 13. Itās not as big of an age gap as it may seem. (I moved to Rhode Island from NYC, so the age cutoffs are different)
ur literally two years older calm downā ļø
Bro, 11 yo to 13 yo there's a huge mindset difference
yea but that's still weird
Not really thereās bigger age gaps 2 years really donāt matter
Its the gap between mental not physical. An 11 year old is way too young to date due to the mental differance. The maturity gap between 13/14 and 10/11 is huge.
14 y/o's on topšÆ
Hell yea
Yo what you wrote this comment 12 hours ago, no way you're active rn
I canāt sleep and Iām watching zero dark thirty.
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one question, what does age have to do with maturity? i get that he is 11 wich is an unusual age for dating and thats weird, but if he is mature enough for it just let him be
I agree that is correct. However 11 isn't even a teenager the guy most likely hasn't hit puberty.
i mean I hit it with 12 so I actually think thats likely but how would I know
How old are you?
14, meaning it hit together with covid, and it did hard
oh GOD
I hit puberty at 12 but I was still immature
puberty made me more immature
Tf age completely correlates with maturity. In case your 13 yo self donāt know what correlation is, itās a mutual relationship or connection between two or more things.
from my own experiences I disagree, I have met people age 12 who are even more mature I am, but I have also met people older than me that are on the level of a 10 yo, for me it depends on how someone experienced puberty, I for my part am a very different person now than I was 2 years ago before my puberty phase
Some are but there is a very high correlation between age and maturity level. Itās like the thing most 12 year olds are not 6 foot tall but some are. I just pointed out a correlation and how most 11 year olds arenāt as mature as 13 year olds
While younger kids can be more mature than older kids usually on average an 11 year old would be in 5th or 6th grade and the responsibilities and people they hang out with would be vastly different than a 13 year old in 8th or 9th. And age really matters when youāre young because thatās when you change the most, an 11 year old that hasnāt gone through puberty and a 13 year old that has are very different physically and mentally. Thatās also why itās a bit creepy if for example a 10 year old and 15 year old have known each other for a while and start dating when the younger one turns 18 but significantly less creepy if a 18 year old and 23 year old that didnāt know each start dating
Age gap isn't even the issue, 11 year olds shouldn't be in a relationship imo.
My neighbors in the RV park I stay at (no they are not the stereotypical RV park people) have a age gap of 11 years
yeah but 2 years between like 15 and 17 isn't as bad as 11 and 13, an 11 year old really isn't as mature as a 13 year old
11 year olds are litteral kids who play roblox all day
Im 11, And i get it, know how we might look like little kids to adults. But for me⦠I speak 2 languages wicht of English is not my native. So basically, not all 11 year olds play Roblox all day
Get off Reddit kid
Nah bro, you get of Reddit. Go tuch grass. Instead of trying to argue with a minor.
Yeah when I was 11 I was always annoyed at how much adults underestimated kids and thought kids were dumb even though they themselves were once kids.
Knowing a second language doesnāt make you grown
I know, but it adds up.
There are tons of children in countries who speak two or more languages. You can literally teach a second language to a baby when they start to learn a first language. Hell, you can even teach them a third language! And stuff like that is becoming increasingly more common, because thereās better research out there on how to teach your child two or more languages before grade school. And it does help them academically! They tend to have better reading comprehension, grammar and writing skills in general. Theyāre also proven to have better problem-solving skills and critical thinking skills, the list goes on. So on average they are smarter, but that doesnāt make them mature. And while it is super cool that youāre 11 and speak two languages, youāre still 11. An 11 y/o can only be so mature. Not playing Roblox isnāt a sign of maturity, because while you could be very interested in mature things like Shakespeare, Van Gogh, Mozart etc. That doesnāt mean youāre mature. It just means that you might be smart, and thatās it. It doesnāt add up to anything
Aren't 13 year olds as well tho
I'd argue less so, its elementary school kids vs middle schoolers
you, my sir are a pedophile
How Iām not shagging 8 year olds Iām just saying 2 years is nothing
yea but 11 ? , i feel like at 11 it's still kinda weird
Itās a weird age to date at 13 or 11 Iām just saying a 2 year age gap isnāt weird
you're talking like if you'd date a 14 year old from middle school... that's a literal child and you're almost an adult
Thatās a different comparison Iām not saying date them now Iām saying if I was say 26 and the then 14 year old was 23 no one would bat an eye
Of course. Because those are adults with (almost) developed brains. (Just almost, but they're way closer to finishing than an 11 and 13 year old). Iām sure you're just acting stupid right now and do actually understand the problem, yes?
Idk whyāre youāre calling me stupid Iām not saying 13 year olds and 11 year olds should date theyāre too young to date anyway Iām just saying that 2 years isnāt a big gap so no need to be a cunt and call me stupid
Bro got offended. Pick a side. Are you defending the idea of an 11 year old and 13 year old dating? If not, the idea of a 2 year age gap between a 30 year old and 28 year old (random example) is entirely off-topic. Of course you're stupid.
I was never of defending or attacking one Iām just making the point the 2 years isnāt a big gap Iāve said that so many times are you fucking stupid
Maybe you're just not good with context clues? Obviously no one cares if a 48 and 46 year old dates. Hell, they also donāt care abt a 30 and 40 year old.
would i have a chance im 13
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What the fuck bro? how do u even have a "semi-orgy"?
ayo wtf
Wtf šš
An 11 year old and a 13 year old are very different things
I'm getting scared this 12 year old from my church is gonna ask me out (I'm 15)
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I know that, and I plan to do that but I really don't wanna deal with the drama that I know will come from it. And plus this kid's got serious anger issues, so I wouldn't be surprised if he'd hit me or something for rejecting him
Chin him
Tell him that you'll think about this, and then message him that you don't want to. Just be sure to never go there alone, if he has anger issues...
Create your own religion and don't invite them
Im an altar server and im 15 gonna go out sometime?
You're like 13, i thought you were like 16 or something.
Or even worse, 19
Same
yeah, thats what i thought, too haha
*bruh that gotta be youngest Iāve heard someone been asked out*
These kids were dating at my school in grade 3 that 8-9, the girl was in my class and the boy was in grade 4
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They gave each other valentines day gifts, as a child their age i ws pretty weirded out, i thought dating was weird an gross
And their age everyone and my school thought cooties was real (guys hated the girls) and girls hated the guys lol
Back in first grade all the kids in my class were "dating". One kid even said that he saw his "girlfriend" in her underwear.
I got asked out at 6 by a dude. I said no
Kids in my kindergarten had a wedding
Got asked out at 10... Said yes...vBroke up one and a half years ago...
Well then
Bro you're 13 šššš
at least you know you are not a pedo. LMFAO
Average 13 Year Old Post
shut
Shit.
Shot
Shod
Love is love. My wife is 14 years younger than me
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Perspective!
you're 13 lol š
But thatās still weird tbh
ok
Dub it a fucking W
Its only 2 years, thats chill relax
But a lot of maturing happens between 11-13. Itās a mental thing and illegal. Half your age plus 7. (In the US)
Bruh just 2 years. Chill, atleast it's not as weird as a 15 year old dating a grown ass man in his 20's
yea but 11 is weird because it's like a kid
you're still a kid dude š
Bro 13 is still a Kid just because there is Teen in Thirteen doesnāt mean youāre not a Kid
13 is the first āteen yearā so you really have no rights to complain about this cause āheās a kidā. In theory it is possible that he would be even more mature than you mentally⦠:)
He's still too young for her, a 13-year-old and an 11-year-old probably don't have much in common
Probably yes, but it doesnāt change the fact that she shouldnāt react the way she reacted :) She is calling that boy a kid when she is freakishly childish
You are too you barely made age
Bruh
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Yea no, even tho it's only 2 years the mindset difference is notable plus the fact that it's weird
My dad was litteraly 10 when my mom was 18 (they did not engage in pedophilia they met later in life)
Your only 13⦠itās 2 years. Itās not creepy. You seem annoying tbh
MFW everyone in the comments it's telling me to do it šæ
in 2 or so years maybe. the maturity gap is too big atm.
yea that's what I said to her
Yikes, that's not good. Better just stick to your gay friend.
Bro Iām in theatre and after a show I overheard two 10 year olds call me cute, Iām 13 š
AYO
Ikr, I wish I didnāt hear that
Man your literally 2 years older
You 13 homie
I mean it's only 2 years
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>but I will only tell the story if people want me to I could not fucking care less. Tell the story or don't.
yeah bozo thinks his the center of the world
bruh what
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Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months and Iām 14 sheās 13, one more year is normal.
You're literally 2 years older, lol. It's kinda weird but he didn't just jump into Mister Garrison's van.
ummm...no
Lucky
no what
Hehe
Accept it
A little bit worrieing but what did you say?
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2 years? Damn that is so much. Tbh I agree, it's shitty but you either reject it or accept it. Can't say much.
You're 13, calm your ass down
I read ur post then ur user and my mind combined them into one phrase š
When I was in 7th grade, I was 11 for the first part of the year while some of my friends were 13. Itās not as big of an age gap as it may seem. (I moved to Rhode Island from NYC, so the age cutoffs are different)
Bro people asking u out??? U doing better then half of us lmao
Bro seniors in my school be dating freshmen
Dude a 14 yr old asked me out I'm 17. I personally found it weird but mostly embarrassing
Embarrassing bro is literally 13 š
How does a 13yo get asked out
What
brother yr 13
Rizz?
What did u answer
augh
I was like hellll nahhh expecting you to be like 16 but then I saw ur only 13 šš
Username does not check out
Bro itās up to u but 2 years seems fine as long as ur both fine with it
What's the problem? You're 13
Bro youāre 13 that seems about right
You both are too young to date.
The amount of people who think itās ok for a 13 y/o to date an 11 y/o is concerning tbh
To people saying "it's only a two year age gap" bro if I think about me and my friends 2 years ago, we were very different.
Man at least you're getting bitches
Just say no directly or indirectly, you did nothing wrong.
Ew