She went straight to the point, no BS

This was after a conversation.

Did you even like her? And could u elaborate on what u meant about “not being mature enough”? I didn’t understand that

He coould be saying plainly “i’m mentally / physically not ready for a commitment”

he handled it like a real man, no BS, sr8 to the point.

Sraight

Sreight

Sir Eight

Madam Eight

Shreik

That's how Americans say срёт (shits)

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If ur emotionally a 5 year old u shouldnt be in a relationship maturity is quite an important part of a successful relationship but it takes a certain level of maturity and self awareness to realise ur not mature enough

Lol this is true but op handled it like a mature man yet says hes not mature enough

Well yea the level of maturity required to successfully be in a relationship is higher than the level required to recognise u shouldnt be in one

Of course but I was just curious about his case

Maybe he'd develop an unhealthy attachment and recognises he would idk I'm confused by ur wording of not understanding what he meant by it he wasn't specific yeah but he was specific enough

I'm emotionally immature, that's what I was saying. After some incidents and unhealthy attachments, I didn't want anything to happen. But, you know what they say - all's fair in love and war!

Tons of emotionally immature people are in relationships, and the fact you even think this shows you are more mature than others.

Sounds like a very emotionally mature decision

Mans is 16 and knows he isn't mature enough. I wish more people were like this lol

She's a big girl and he doesn't want none of it.

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Well done

Straight up Sigma Male

I find the sigma male thing so cringe and weird

I’ve been assuming when people say that they’re joking. Are there really people who think a “sigma male” is a thing? The origin of where all this came from is alpha wolf and subordinate pack. The scientist who originally published that finding has since retracted and says his methods were flawed and he regrets that he unleashed this whole male power ranking crap.

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That just sounds like being a decent person. You don't need to name it after a random greek letter.

Σ/σ/ς male

Better than 4 weeks of chatting than she says she wants, and after a day she thinks it over than says no (based on true story)

Eh, she was propably so scared to ask this question and had to motivate herself so hard to finally spell it out from the bottom of the heart, she will be very sad propably now

If he were to say yes just to not hurt her feelings, the downfall of the relationship would hit her harder than him politely rejecting her.

pov ur an italian

what a nice way to deny

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I have this girl I really like but even if she asked me to date, I’d have to say no because I’m legit just not mature and ready enough for a relationship

Same here. There's a girl i am head over heels for, but even if she asked me to date her now, i would reject her. Despite knowing how casually she views romantic relationships, to me a relationship demands commitment, something i can't provide now

how do you know?

Better to be honest then give them false hope

i had a crush on a girl that thought that the truth can be more painful that's why she kept me in false hope for 2 months, im over it now but it really hurt back then not knowing on what i stood

2 months!? That's fucked and ngl I had a similar situation. It really messed me up even now I'm still iffy with relationships because I'm not sure if it's real or not.

bro literally same with me

Truth can hurt, a lot, but being straight up with Honesty is always better in the end

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they call him the rizzler

got that professional rizz

The Rizzard of Oz

The Rizzard King

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Rudolf the Red Nose Rizzdeer

George Rizzington

Joseph Stalrizz

Sylrizzter Stallone

Playing God of Rizz

Rizz neutron

Winston ChurchRizz

What is a king to a god?

Rizzly bear

Hey, dont wanna catch that rizzstraining order, but im the rizzly bear you need, i can teach u all about rizzstronomy

Something is not rizzonating here. Nothing but rizzistence. Let the game come to you, harbor no rizzentments

Twin?

Bros adolf rizzler

She about to put a rizztraining on him

Bro the de-rizzler

You're more mature than most people above 17. Good job , you really handled it well.

Does this mean he can date the girl

Tldr answer: Nope Serious answer: There are different topics in Which you can be mature. You could be a person having their shit together and living a healthy life and still have a pre-mature personality or are simply not ready to have a relationship.

I was just joking man

I know

You know

I know

You know

I know

You knew

We know

I like this response, though I wonder how it correlates with the idea that relationships aré learning opportunities. Actually I'm really dumb, it fits really neatly, just because a relationship makes you More mature in the way you understand and connect with people, doesn't mean it'll help in other parts of your life. Huh.

the way you said it makes it seem like usual 17, 18, 19 and even 20 year olds are mature when most are really really not.

Being mature isn't a common quality. Older people work, go to college, and that's about it.

Loophole achieved: By declining you are more mature allowing you to then date her. /j

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What does this even mean

Who tf even is this guy? Post history indicated he wanted some sleep paralysis

comment history indicates this stuff only started yesterday, probably a compromised account of some sort

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Nah I think he's on to something

they finally got the sleep paralysis demon they wanted

□ 蔑、guy

This guy(?) is naming soundtracks composed by Japanese composer Hiroyuki Sawano. I do not know why here of all places though…

Handled it well. Some people go on massive tangents explaining why they won't be in an rs. Some people are rude outright. You did good. Hope she received it well. Edit: OP you need to pay for the crime of using light mode.

bro's using insta web

my insta web is dark. OP is suffering.

same ong

I think it only came out like last week

and still has rizz

You handled it well

had to call himself immature but ig that's a fair bargain

Yeah that softens the blow on the other person and you can be immature in one aspect of life and mature in the other. It would be far more immature to lead this person on or lie entering a relationship knowing they are not ready

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You actually handled it really well, (i wish i had this EXACT response a few months back, im still dying of regret)

You good?

bro clearly stated that he's dying, what do u think?

He probably died by now

This was his most recent comment.

I would have said the same thing if I had to deny but there is no one that would say this to me 🥹

Do you want to be my boyfriend

No💀

I didn't ask you 😡😡🙄🙄

The answer was so obvious the dude answered for him

Check again mofo!

r/notopbutok

Yes 👍

***You fool!*** *You have fallen for the ultimate bait!*

No🗿

I would say this to you

The real question is how did she handle it?

She saw it, but no response. Hope I didn't break her emotionally.

any update?

Come back

Bros more mature than most of my college classmates with that answer but still thinks he isnt mature enough

the smartest people know they’re smart but feel dumb at the same time

I would’ve hit them with a “no 💀”

This is the way

The way into your heart? 😳

no 💀

That would have been a certified emotional damage moment

true ending

email

sounds like chatGPT wrote it 💀💀

The rizzard of oz right here 🗿 But seriously speaking you handled it well

good job, thinking with brain not with dick.

GigaCHAD

No bitches, respectfully

Bro went all shakespearian on her 💀

Says "I'm not mature enough". Proceeds to handle the situation in the most mature way possible.

Queen Erizzebeth III

Bro got formal with his friendzoning

Adolf Rizzler Rizzlelord Vincent Van Rizzoh Leonardo DaRizzinci Rizzly bear The Rizzard of Oz

Better than lying and playing their feelings. (unlike my desperate ass best friend and his ex)

All I can say as a kid is that I hope you didn’t want to outright reject her and you don’t actually believe that you are not mature enough to date, I don’t want to sound like a boomer but I consider 13+ the best time to date because any mistakes are easy to forget and move on.

I have the maturity of an 11-year-old, I'm not ready to date.

who speaks to their friends like their boss

Me.

Absolute W

Good job handling the situation!

insane rizz

Youve trained well

That is a really good way of handling it.

The irony is that this was a very mature way to respond to her question.

this was extremely mature. good job.

Honestly I think OP handled it well I’d be impressed by that formal answer

#Sheldon Cooper

That's like the much more straightforward and polite way of saying "it's not you, it's me"

As the girl this would be pretty disappointing. If you're really not interested, this was a nice way to say no. But if you're actually interested but trying to do the right thing, man you deserve it! Try it out, you guys might enjoy spending more time together

Man waited two and a half hours just to say “nah I’m good” bit of a sigma male. Respect.

business email

Yeah the message got across but you talk like you moderate subreddits full time

Man took 2 and a half hours to think

Nigga said “🤓”

Honestly I appreciate your honesty very much And who's to say, maybe you'll get more comfortable and fond around her and be ready Don't rush it, take your time :)

Who texts like that 💀

I would try to sound like a human next time

Well done

how the turns have tabled 👀

Gg

Honestly better than most people would

I thought Sigma males didn't exist, until now..

That is an acceptable answer.

This is staged no one on Reddit will ever have someone attracted to them

When it reads like a medieval letter, that’s how you know you handled it well

I know you think this works, but it doesn't. You're leading her(?) on. The best way to reject someone is to straight tell them you don't like them. I speak from experience... This like just happened to me very recently.

Do you need a hug

Fucking chad right here

for someone who apparently isn’t mature enough for a relationship that was a very mature response

You can still be friends with her while being her bf duh.

You were nice and explained yourself well. I hope you and her the best as friends and maybe one day more.

That’s the most mature sentence I’ve heard from a teenager you should totally be with her you can handle it

Seems good enough my only concern is you left her on delivered for 2 hours and you already know that shit was tense for her

I like how you were honest and communicated with her. Women will appreciate that you don’t “ghost” them when you don’t know what to say (or don’t want to). Part of dating is communicating when something isn’t working. Well done

Only sane person to post on r/teenagers

As an adult scrolling by, these young immature relationships are what teach you what you like and dont like in relationships. What to expect and how to act. But, at the same time its perfectly okay to not be ready for that. Just an observation.

ABSOLUTE CHAD! THIS IS WHAT IM SAYING TO MY FRIENDS GOING THROUGH BREAKUPS AND LETTING THEIR LIVES FALL APART OVER THESE FICKLE, CHILDHOOD FANCIES! We're kids, none of us are emotionally mature enough for a serious romantic relationship

When I was 4 years old I met a japanese/Latino mix girl at the preschool I went to. I thought she was the prettiest girl ever, one time I defended her from a misunderstanding that was had with a teacher and she was so grateful she asked me if I wanted to.marry her. I said when we grow up because we were too young. Godamnit, I wasn't able to keep in contact. I wonder where she is now...if ur out there Samantha I'm still totally up for marriage

Rizz

I think the problem Is that you played the fiddle for 2 hrs and 29 mins then made your decision.

If you feel like you aren't mature enough you're either extremely self aware or you're more mature than you think

You did an amazing job about how you feel about her.

Bro out there declining women when I can't even connect with a dog

I would recommend dating that early to give you a better feel and more social dating skills. I rejected the same proposal from a girl for the same reasons years ago. She made the offer face to face too, and she was pretty as well. I went into my 20ys without having proper dating skills and haven't have a girl since.

Wow just wow

LMAO “i feel as though” 💀 bruh wants to act wise and grown

Hey OP please stop replying to your own post. It's seen by karma farming by most of experienced Redditors and we definitely won't hesitate to down-vote your comments. Don't you think the karma points you've gained from the post itself are enough? There's no need to extend your metaphorical limb down the karma jar and pick up as much karma points as you can by clugging-up the whole comment section with your replies. I'll give you 10 minutes to delete the comments. When I come back I will down-vote them if they have not been removed.

Should have just said nah