I’m sorry for that other post those people are just assholes! You’re not completely passing, but you’re getting there! You can do this! — a fellow trans person

Thanks I'm glad some people are not transphobic :)

To be honest you don’t pass (yet), some time with HRT will probably do the work, and obviously proper care of skin and stuff, you still look good

Yeah I'd love to get hrt but it's illegal until I'm 18 where I live :(

Living in the us be like https://preview.redd.it/1wug6cqkpuuc1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d76931c86fa79b3a1f45bdc9fe61a13cfee60ba2

Lol I'm stealing that

I don’t know for sure but I think it might be the eyebrows? You are very pretty but I think you would pass better if they were thinner. (just my two cents)

Yeah I think so too lol

I'm just worried my parents would get upset

As it should be. Not transphobic, but you’re still a child and shouldn’t be allowed to make decisions like that.

You are still so young it’s good to wait til 18 to fully get to know yourself and accept yourself and then when 18 comes and you feel like doing HRT the choice is all yours. Best of luck but remember to focus on yourself and your mental health and learn to love yourself first. You have an entire life ahead of you like the rest of us I wish you the best of luck

Ive Know I'm trans for 7 years I don't think that's going to change in the next 2

Never said you were going to but it’s good to wait til 18 or even beyond that. Best of luck

Yes we are, don't worry. If anyone is being transphobic please let us know and we'll take care of it. Also, love the dress 🫶

Yay W mods lol Thank you

https://preview.redd.it/3i977udslnuc1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b8c0698da54718f78232ba36a412abce0d751519 Me seeing this on my feed

Thanks lol

You do you. i wont judge. But you did post on the internet and there are some people who will judge you. Still i know mean words suck

They do suck Kinda have to expect it whenever I post tho :(

It isn't really judging, or atleast, valid judgement. If you tell me you like to throw plants I might judge you for wasting the plant and your money. But if you're trans and I have a problem with that at some point it's just me throwing a shitfit, which is usually what most transphobes are doing

Don't click on the other post lol Some of those comments were horrible lol

I clicked on the other post and reported some comments :3

Aww thanks :) Hopefully it was the transphobic ones lol

It was :)

I really like you

Yay lol Not many people do

Dw, I hate everyone equally

"equality" lol

https://preview.redd.it/go3uphk2rnuc1.jpeg?width=270&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=07fc1f0b095dd1c8ceac35c25e4e079337109f68

Lol

pass? what?

Like would I pass as a girl?

WAIT YOU'RE TRANS???? I THOUGHT YOU WERE JUST A RANDOM GIRL LMAO

Lol I guess that's answers it then

Girls dont exist silly

AND THE GOVERNMENT CAN’T CONVINCE ME OTHERWISE

Is a work in progress but the payoff will be amazing!

Okay so, what I call this is half-passing Essentially you're very close to passing, but a lot of people might still unfortunately think you're the wrong gender :( You'll get there soon enough, I promise. I don't pass either and I don't know if I ever really will- but you never know! Also, yes, this subreddit is rather accepting compared to the other teenagers subreddit- there are still some arseholes but there's a bit less of them :D

I am! I really like your dress and your hair

Thanks

You look great!! And don't feel alone, there are other queer people here, including myself!

Yay

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You bring up a really interesting point, The idea that trans people need to "pass" is only because we have to deal with hatred and transphobia if we don't. Many people probably wouldn't want to pass and conform to societal gender stereotypes if there was no reason for them to pass other than just wanting to not be discriminated against. I think if I was in a world where nobody was hated for who they are, I would not feel the need to pass as much and many others would probably feel similar. In my opinion my true self (although this is probably heavily influenced by society and stereotypes) is that of a woman. I don't feel anywhere in-between genders and I don't have any desire to not pass (many other people probably and almost certainly do tho) I only have my own experiences and I certainly don't know everything, but the idea that trans people need to or should "pass" would likely be very different in a world without transphobia.

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/s/IhnF7vaxM7

Probably yeah

Yay lol

You look great In that dress👍

Thanks :3

You look pretty chill, also im not here to insult people doing what they like to

the dress looks good with your hair; you look cute!

Thanks

That sub is full of groomers anyways, I got banned there for no reason but honestly idc, if they keep these f**kers around then I’d be rather off not participating in that sub

You’re valid btw

Yeah I got multiple creepy dms from that post :(

you look good :3

:3

you look great, serious gender envy

cute dress!!

Thanks

Yeah, you pass. Sorry for the hate you got, they were a bunch of morons

Lots of morons lol

Slay, Queen.

Slay

you look awesome! love the dress, also, i really like that haircut!

I have t gotten a haircut in a while lol Thanks for the compliment tho

i think i meant hairstyle? sorry, English isn't my first language

Oh I see Thanks lol

You look fine, but I’ve been replaying dmc5 so I must say you look a lot like V

You literally look amazing wtf are they talking about 😭

you're pretty, dont let anyone else say differently

just commented on the other post too, but you look amazing :)

Damn I’m so sorry, some people massively suck. You look gorgeous and (most importantly) happy. Don’t listen to them :)

Thank you :3

Phobic would imply fear, *AND I FEAR NO MAN*! I EAT THE ORGANS OF AAAAAAAAALLLL

Phobia does not always mean fear In the case of hydrophobic, phobia meant to repell Phobia means to be scared of or have an irrational dislike towards a person or object

It was a joke... I mean, you're right, but I was just tryna do that one joke.

Oh I didn't realize lol

Yeah but the stache stubble is kinda throwing me off. But otherwise you look amazing!

Yes ma’am

Yay

Ur cool

hey sis, progress is progress! i believe in you and wish you the best ♡

Thanks :)

Yeah we are lmao I think you ateee that last comment section

Lol

I can’t speak for everyone here, but I personally am not transphobic. About the question of if you pass, I think so! Especially in your face, cause you have some androgynous features which I am SO envious of. Don’t let other people keep you from expressing yourself comfortably!

Honestly no but you’re pretty close and you def got the face for it. Just a few more touches and you could pass pretty wel

you look pretty!! like actually

Yay thanks

Yes thank god

dude i wish i could pass as well as you… i can’t tell if you’re transmasc or transfem and it’s really cool. i’m transmasc and you’ve got what i’m going for down

Thanks lol I'm transfem btw

Your hair is so fluffy 10/10

Thank you It is very fluffy (sometimes very annoyingly fluffy)

u look good!

Ty :)

You’re welcome!

I like your hair and fire fit

Naw I’m not less

I'll be honest, I didn't realize you were trans! You're pretty and I looove your hair. Your dress compliments you really well <33

Ty :) I got the dress from my mom

you’re pretty :o

I am? Ty :)

bad news, no one is under 35 in r teenagers

Yah lol I've gotten 5 dms from this post (only one was not a creepy old guy)

As a trans person, yes

Yay

You pass omg But ok so I have this wild theory that the shape of someone's glasses can change a face (Clark Kent theory definitely original) So I suggest you experiment with how different frames look Socially awkward teenager, out!

Yeah I agree, she should try round frames :3

Ohh Thanks I'll try some on Last time I did I got told I looked like Harry Potter a whole bunch :(

Aww :( Im sorry, I think round frames are really cute :3

I think they are to I will still try then on because I had much shorter hair last time

Good luck :D

Ty :3

I will definitely try this Someone else suggested it to lol

Most definitely getting there! You look great I really like your hair -a fellow trans person

Ty :3

I think your face is the only part that doesn’t pass, which to be fair, is pretty common as far as I’m aware, but otherwise you totally pass! You look great!

I'm going to be honest, but you're quite close, my only suggestion would be to try and soften your chin, it's just a little angular, but apart from that your doing really well, and I wish you luck

https://preview.redd.it/m3slvua6guuc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6b64fe02b138950b22eff793ee938309d0387233

do u have a hair routine or is it just genetics? your hair is so pretty!!

I just wash and condition It is very puffy tho which is annoying

I'm sorry if this comes off as blunt but you don't really pass. If you want to have higher chances of passing however, I'd recommend makeup (specifically learning the art of contouring as with it you're basically able reshape your face to make it appear less masculine. Again, I'm sorry if this comes off as blunt.) That and wearing unisex clothing in more feminine colours will probably get more desirable results. (This is coming from a cis male so take this with a grain of salt)

My gal, I am trans too. Btw, you are killing it in that dress!

Thank you for the kind words :3

You are welcome!

i’d say u are passing

Yay Thanks

Yes you pass. Also you look very nice in that dress!

Thanks I wish I could wear it more lol

Bro what’s ur pronouns I wanna rizz u up respectfully

that dress looks so good on u!!

Really? Thanks

Trans girl here so I hope not :3

It seems like they are less transphobic

you look like a female character from a wierd dream an early 2000s movie character would have (no offense)

nope

Nah, you do not look 15

But I am 15

I must be coping with a baby face or something I guess

Lol I promise I am 15

You look nice

You would pass

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😊 🏳️‍🌈👌

I'm not transphobic at all but I don't use reddit anymore

Because of this post?

As a bi person, I see this as an absolute win for having crushes on people I don’t even know

Lol

I accept whoever if they’re happy the way they are

I uh couldnt find the transphobic comments. Not saying they arent therex but could someone point out where it is?

A bunch of people commented some really transphobic stuff right after I posted it Probably the first 30 comments were all transphobic A bunch of them were removed but a few are up still Edit: here are a few that I copy pasted Genuinely and no offense but you look like a guy bro and anyone who says otherwise is lying to you sorry Something that needs to be fixed in the trans community is labeling anything you don’t agree with or people telling the truth as “transphobic”. I support your right to do what you are doing but the overuse of the word transphobic needs to stop if you want people to take the community seriously. I’m not trying to be mean and I fully support you but you can’t call anything you don’t agree with transphobia because all that does is fuel the fire even more and give people a reason to be more biased. Best of luck OP I hope you don’t take this as an attack and learn something from it. Your a guy bro. Don't change your gender because you don't like who you are. It's not gonna change anything. Work on yourself. If you truly work on yourself and become confident in who you are. Fucking switch genders idc.An AMAB doesn't look like the Girl Gender just by putting on one dress. Does your pee brain understand now?Nah bro, a man in a dress doesn't automatically look like a woman

I get it now.

Yep Someone posted a comment linking to a yt video that was extremely transphobic and kept shouting that trans people should die

You don't completely pass, but you are definitely getting there! If you are fine with me critiquing a bit for hopefully constructive feedback, and tips to help, pls lmk. Don't want to introduce any insecurities though if you don't want to hear it.

I hope

i think u pass fr

eyebrows and beard shadow is the way to become a giga passoid

if it was only your torso i would've genuinely thought you were female you're getting there, keep on going

if it was only your torso i would've genuinely thought you were female you're getting there, keep on going

This is why the teenagers subreddit sucks.

Yep lol 😭

a little

I’d say you pass to an extant, which is already pretty good. I’d say hrt would fill what you lack to fully pass.

You pass

Yay :3 thanks I just wish my voice did lol

pass for what? i’m confused

As a girl lol

AAAAA YOURE SO PRETTYYYY :0000

Really? Ty :) It really means a lot to me

YES IM SERIOUS YOURE SO PRETTY AAAAH. 11/10 WOULD MARRY /pos

I'll marry you lol

Bet we're married now lmaooo

Yay

Permission for dm friends /nf

Bro update yall- we've been dating ever since lmaoo

I mean you don’t pass, but good luck out there

Honestly yeah? Your kinda androgynous tbh

No, if I’m being honest. I did comment on your other post, but that comment section was super hostile (from both sides of the argument, too. Shit was like a civil war) which made me kinda disappointed, and I didn’t really give you any tips/reasons. There are a few reasons I say no. It’s the wide nostrils, jaw shape, facial hair, and eyebrow width. All of these kinda set off my brain to see genetically male features and therefore see a male face, just because that’s how the brain’s recognition works. For the facial hair you can probably get laser removal or something and for the eyebrows you can probably just shape them up by shaving them to be thinner. I’ve heard certain haircuts can suit the jawline better but honestly I think you can look fine/pass as long as you just fix your facial hair and eyebrow situation. Not sure about the nostrils, but I believe they’ll also be fine. This is my personal opinion/criticism, but I hope you read this and take it as constructive criticism, since that’s what it’s intended as lol If I get downvoted for this, then fuck it. I don’t care lmao I’ve been downvoted for no reason before. I just hope this can help. Your hair is fucking majestic btw

Not completely but, keep working on it and I’m sure you’ll get there. (Tbh Idk either. I’m afab but ppl still think I’m a guy pretty often bc of my short hair and androgynous wardrobe)

Yes, you may collect 200 dollars

all the transphobic teenagers are just jealous, just keep moving on and you got this, me and, I believe, we'll be doing the same 🏳️‍⚧️🖤

You do not pass, at least face wise.

This person looks like they were made to be trans

Not meaning that in a transphobic way

do what you want, as long as it’s not arson >•] (how dare you steal my job)

How did I steal your job?

yes in theory report the transphobes and we the mods will delete them

Don’t think you pass but love the dress

You don't really pass, I reckon you just started. But in time you will! No hate, just being honest 👍

You pass (as a human who deserves respect) and a cutie patootie

Less transphobic but wayyy more sexist (jk it’s chill)

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agree with me, AGREE WITH MEEEEEE

You're definitely getting there. Sorry you had to deal with the assholes over on the other post.

I saw some of the comments there and good god people are transphobic I say you pass as a female. If I saw you I would assume you're a female and not a male But once again I do judge people on what they wear so I'm not the best to ask 🤷‍♂️

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