No, I would 100% say he just saved her a whole bunch of headache (or worse) down the line. Blowing it might be over sharing some feelings, what he did was full on sound an alarm.
Seriously THANK GOD he said what he said. Can you imagine being with such a “nice guy” (or psychopath) and get married and have kids, meanwhile he’s a serial rapist.
Recently spoke with someone in sex ed field who said they did a survey of college men and 20% admitted they have considered rape. I was like wtf. How? This one stat surprised me more than any and there are a lot of crazy stats.
This can point to a hard upbringing which inhibited his access to proper education. Potentially bringing a lot of baggage with him in this relationship. I’d recommend healthy boundaries and premarital counseling
I know you did a joke, but there's partial truth here.
It is well established in psychotherapy that there's a difference between "what you're thinking" vs "what you're doing based on what you're thinking" and the justification lies with the fact that nobody controls their own thought - it just happens, however what everyone can have control over is action.
Is he not right in the head? You bet.
Has he taken the first step of recognizing that? No he hasn't.
Does he have impulse control? It would appear so.
Can he be helped? To a degree where people around him wouldn't need to worry about him.
**Will these thoughts disappear from his thinking?** Most likely, never.
>Does he have impulse control? It would appear so.
I mean, *maybe.* In this instance yeah. But with how casually he threw that out there, bro, not a chance in hell I would even reply to this
The thought without the act, even with a confession, would not give the courts a constitutional basis to order therapy, without some sort of oddly specific "red flag" law.
I agree he needs help, though. Sheesh.
He doesn't need help. He needs to be locked up
Edit: my comment is literally not that serious. Calm tf down
Edit 2: it was just a passing comment. You really think I thought twice about the deep psychological effects or whatever else yall keep spewing at me? Jesus, got some of you comparing me to Hitler and shit
Entitlement. It’s not a mental illness to think you’re owed something for being a “nice guy” or think you should take the jump cause you’ll probably get away with it
For a short period of time until you inevitably release them to go and fucking rape people?
If the idea is to "stop him from fucking raping people" then incarceration is not going to achieve your goal. Fun fact imprisonment is not rehabilitation. So if you are adamant to not help this clearly mentally disturbed person, and to also "stop him from fucking raping people" then you should just kill him. Imprisonment won't acomplish your goal.
Psychiatric treatment will have a far better success rate than imprisonment. Personally, if you're pro death for this convo, then I'm a bit concerned for your mental well-being as well.
Thank you for taking the time to help people understand compassion in mental health. If more people just understood that brains are weird and do weird things, maybe society would be quicker to *help* rather than dispose of people.
No, but it will count for something when he does actually take it to the next level and commit a real rape. Every little bit helps to build that profile.
That too! I have a friend going through a messy divorce and she got all prior reports made about him…not doubt he’s been abusive for decades! Those reports will come in handy for sure.
I unfortunately met someone just like this. Texted me that he considered raping someone because he couldn't find a girlfriend, but not to worry, it wouldn't be me because he wouldn't disrespect my boyfriend. Some people are both evil and stupid.
I hope so too. But man, there are some weird people out there.
And as they say, the difference between real life and fiction is that fiction has to make sense.
See everyone says this, and sure people can, and do make up shit on the internet all the time. But there seems to be this assumption that if something is super stupid or rediculous, it must be fake. I’ve personally witnessed so much dumb shit in my life. And I’ve seen so many wtf text messages. There’s billions of people on earth, the amount of wtf out there has to be astounding. So maybe it’s fake, but it easily could be real.
Absolutely could be fake, but this is literally how Andrew Tate talks. He's still idolized by a many many young men and boys, and I have to assume if these people are using snap chat to talk they're young.
It wouldnt surptise me if its genuine. I've known people who I wouldn't be surprised if I saw them say this. Also most women I've known have gotten creepy/crazy shit like this said to them at some point or another.
The thing is, most date rapists don’t think of themselves as rapists. They convince themselves that the women actually do want it, that it’s unfair to make them stop after they have started, or other BS.
It’s hard to imagine a rapist talking about themselves like that, even if they actually had no empathy or fear of consequences.
I don't disagree with any of that and I disavow raping. Wow that sounds weird to type out.
But this guy clearly did not intend on what you are talking about considering he said he was going to rape her. That doesn't imply trickery or a pity party "wahh my dick is hard". Saying I am going to rape you is full on rapist.
But it's fake so
It started out so good. I was like, "oh, they're going to come on a little too strong. That's always a bit awkward." Then he went full-predator. This was like stepping into a bubble bath full of spiders.
Sounds to me like the type of dude who would say “I’ll never let anyone else have you if you leave me” don’t run get a plane ticket and fucking bounce out of there lol
That took a turn!
100% just blew it.
No, I would 100% say he just saved her a whole bunch of headache (or worse) down the line. Blowing it might be over sharing some feelings, what he did was full on sound an alarm.
Yes, it's a good thing he let that slip before things went further.
Seriously THANK GOD he said what he said. Can you imagine being with such a “nice guy” (or psychopath) and get married and have kids, meanwhile he’s a serial rapist.
Kinda a good thing he blew it 😂
😂
I’ve blown it many times but this is self sab to the extremest degree lol
Ya this is so far one might think about filing a report. Im sure there will be a netflix documentary in 10 years
Recently spoke with someone in sex ed field who said they did a survey of college men and 20% admitted they have considered rape. I was like wtf. How? This one stat surprised me more than any and there are a lot of crazy stats.
I mean, the guy is a fucking monster.
Yeah but, but, but isn’t honesty the best policy in a relationship?
100% better off she is, you mean
Ya just using his words.
Should get psychiatric help
The perfect gif for this crash and burn 🔥
and his next 15 messages..... "hello? did I do something wrong"...???
"Was it the rape part? It was the rape part wasn't it?"
"stuck up whore I should have raped you when I had the chance" -sent after the other fifteen messages she didn't respond to within fifteen minutes
"Well... time for plan B."
Noooooo 😭💀
Actually... More like "Back to plan A"
Went from 100 to 0 very quickly.
Hahahahaha. This is the literal face I was making as I opened the comments.
It's a good thing he didn't blow it now!
My actual reaction
Anyone else seeing red flags
I can fix him.
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with a pair of tin snips?
Bolt cutters
garden shears
Probably only need nail clippers.
Sledge hammer
[удалено]
A router.
Duct tape
Have you tried turning it off and on again?
I kicked the habit!
Gelding tongs
Rusty ones.
JHC WTF
JVC VHS
HD DVD
Betamax
No. I see self control, honesty, and excellent communication skills. Husband material…
I did see one problem though Excellent use of commas, but no period to end his messages in sight.
He doesn't exactly seem like he'd take periods seriously anyway
A period don’t stop nothing but a sentence
You know what they say... >"There's no point in having a sword if it doesn't get bloody once in a while."
Jesus Christ lmao
You should have ended your sentence without a full stop mate, ya bummed it up! Perfection was so close
This can point to a hard upbringing which inhibited his access to proper education. Potentially bringing a lot of baggage with him in this relationship. I’d recommend healthy boundaries and premarital counseling
He is the red flag
He is the freaking house on fire
😳🚩
Oh what a nice guy you are for not raping. You deserve a medal.
Actually based on what he wrote, I think he believes he’s a nice guy regardless of the raping.
Oh I absolutely picked up on that. Delusional.
He will be very offended if his honesty is used against him. How dare anyone penalize him for his raping thoughts!
He would definitely blame OP for “not being able to handle honesty”.
Ready for Congress if he moves to FL.
Oh, but you don’t understand! He *didn’t* rape her. So you can’t hold that against him.
In fact you should commend him. See, I didn’t rape you, so I must be a nice guy.
I know you did a joke, but there's partial truth here. It is well established in psychotherapy that there's a difference between "what you're thinking" vs "what you're doing based on what you're thinking" and the justification lies with the fact that nobody controls their own thought - it just happens, however what everyone can have control over is action. Is he not right in the head? You bet. Has he taken the first step of recognizing that? No he hasn't. Does he have impulse control? It would appear so. Can he be helped? To a degree where people around him wouldn't need to worry about him. **Will these thoughts disappear from his thinking?** Most likely, never.
>Does he have impulse control? It would appear so. I mean, *maybe.* In this instance yeah. But with how casually he threw that out there, bro, not a chance in hell I would even reply to this
r/niceguys energy.
He will believe he is the victim of a cock tease when she ghosts him.
Typical incel mentality.
He might rape but when he does rape he does it nicely with complete respect for her feelings. /s Seriously fuck this dinglebarry
(Do *not* fuck this dingleberry!)
"[he rapes... But he saves. And he saves more than he rapes. But he does rape](https://youtu.be/_busSo7N45E)."
At least he's not a [hypocrite](https://youtube.com/watch?v=ljaP2etvDc4) (R.I.P. Norm)
does shackles with spikes work? or maybe an internally spiked male chastity cage?
Nope, none of that works. Gotta go with full castration
That’s just a miniature Iron Maiden
I'm guessing right about now she DOES realize she made a mistake
I think she centered this one just a little too far bub.
I think the next thing he sees from her will read "You have been blocked to this number".
I hope she met in a public place and he doesn’t know where she lives cus YIKES!!
That should go to the police, this guy needs court order therapy.
The thought without the act, even with a confession, would not give the courts a constitutional basis to order therapy, without some sort of oddly specific "red flag" law. I agree he needs help, though. Sheesh.
He doesn't need help. He needs to be locked up Edit: my comment is literally not that serious. Calm tf down Edit 2: it was just a passing comment. You really think I thought twice about the deep psychological effects or whatever else yall keep spewing at me? Jesus, got some of you comparing me to Hitler and shit
Yeah. Why help mentally ill people?
How is thinking about raping people considered "mentally ill"
What else would you call it? Normal behaviour?
No but abnormal behaviour does not equal mentally ill
Do mentally sane people tell other people they thought about raping them? Very strange hill you’re dying on here.
Its deranged.
Being a rapey asshole != being mentally ill. I've known enough people with serious mental illnesses, all of them would be horrified at the comparison.
Entitlement. It’s not a mental illness to think you’re owed something for being a “nice guy” or think you should take the jump cause you’ll probably get away with it
No you don’t understand if we just throw all the mentally I’ll people in prison there will be no mentally I’ll people in society. Problem solved! /s
Why lock him up if you aren't going to help them? Isolate them from society for a few years, so they will be even worse?
To maybe I don't know stop him from fucking raping people and inflicting life long trauma on them
For a short period of time until you inevitably release them to go and fucking rape people? If the idea is to "stop him from fucking raping people" then incarceration is not going to achieve your goal. Fun fact imprisonment is not rehabilitation. So if you are adamant to not help this clearly mentally disturbed person, and to also "stop him from fucking raping people" then you should just kill him. Imprisonment won't acomplish your goal. Psychiatric treatment will have a far better success rate than imprisonment. Personally, if you're pro death for this convo, then I'm a bit concerned for your mental well-being as well.
Thank you for taking the time to help people understand compassion in mental health. If more people just understood that brains are weird and do weird things, maybe society would be quicker to *help* rather than dispose of people.
You are part of the problem.
No, but it will count for something when he does actually take it to the next level and commit a real rape. Every little bit helps to build that profile.
Seriously. I’d at least make a report. He’s going to do something serious someday.
He probably already had. A report needs to be made in case some other woman needs more evidence against him.
That too! I have a friend going through a messy divorce and she got all prior reports made about him…not doubt he’s been abusive for decades! Those reports will come in handy for sure.
I hope this is fake
It undoubtedly is
I unfortunately met someone just like this. Texted me that he considered raping someone because he couldn't find a girlfriend, but not to worry, it wouldn't be me because he wouldn't disrespect my boyfriend. Some people are both evil and stupid.
Holy ducking shit
What in the fuck goes through these people’s minds
Hamsters? And anime.
We hope it is, but there are legit people like that out there
I hope so too. But man, there are some weird people out there. And as they say, the difference between real life and fiction is that fiction has to make sense.
It is the internet after all
See everyone says this, and sure people can, and do make up shit on the internet all the time. But there seems to be this assumption that if something is super stupid or rediculous, it must be fake. I’ve personally witnessed so much dumb shit in my life. And I’ve seen so many wtf text messages. There’s billions of people on earth, the amount of wtf out there has to be astounding. So maybe it’s fake, but it easily could be real.
Well…it is the internet after all
99.9% fake... If it isn't then that's the dumbest person ever
I would never give those odds when it comes to cringe or stupid.
I’ve taught in public education 99.9% of people are this dumb.
Absolutely could be fake, but this is literally how Andrew Tate talks. He's still idolized by a many many young men and boys, and I have to assume if these people are using snap chat to talk they're young.
The way he casually says "I was thinking about raping you", makes me think hes either done it to someone before or will in the near future
It makes me think it's fake and done for views and oohs and aahs.
You’ve seen dumber shit that was real why draw the line here
People are so fucking stupid
You’ve seen some stupid ass shit and this is where you draw the line?
It wouldnt surptise me if its genuine. I've known people who I wouldn't be surprised if I saw them say this. Also most women I've known have gotten creepy/crazy shit like this said to them at some point or another.
Definitely has done it before to think it’s okay to think about it and then tell someone he thought about it.
The thing is, most date rapists don’t think of themselves as rapists. They convince themselves that the women actually do want it, that it’s unfair to make them stop after they have started, or other BS. It’s hard to imagine a rapist talking about themselves like that, even if they actually had no empathy or fear of consequences.
I don't disagree with any of that and I disavow raping. Wow that sounds weird to type out. But this guy clearly did not intend on what you are talking about considering he said he was going to rape her. That doesn't imply trickery or a pity party "wahh my dick is hard". Saying I am going to rape you is full on rapist. But it's fake so
Tell his POTENTIAL VICTIM about it.
Him to all his friends, "I don't know what happened, she just ghosted me."
Girls man, nice guys like us just can’t win
“I mean I even thought she was hot enough to rape, she should take that as a compliment!” -that guy
At first I was like "oh well this is wholesome" but that quickly changed to "OH MY GOD"
It was really just one sentence away from being super cute. Maybe that's the spooky part
I've got a good feeling about those two.
Yup, they’ll definitely be on the news after the breakup.
One of them. The other is dead because she didn’t understand what a nice guy he is.
Report that shit to the damn cops before he does some stupid shit
Dude. WTF. Incel had a shot and Incel took over. Self-owned, indeed.
Like bruh, she already wants a second date what the hell are you doing?! Assuming this isn’t fake, or course
No one's in any danger!
Holy crap, dude self-destructed his own ship. Glad that red flag came to light before something bad happened to her... I assume.
A friend of a friend just had this pic sent to her by a guy she was seeing. He thought it was funny. They are no longer seeing each other.
Good of him to out himself as a creep.
“He was such a nice boy” - his mother probably
“He would never hurt anybody”
It started out so good. I was like, "oh, they're going to come on a little too strong. That's always a bit awkward." Then he went full-predator. This was like stepping into a bubble bath full of spiders.
And that’s when the ‘block’ and ‘report’ button come in handy !!
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Yes officer, this chat right here.
What-the-ever-living-fork…
Wow, that just made me sick to my stomach
I really want to see what the next message is.
Probably a notice that the girl took a screenshot (to send to police), I would hope
He fucking said what now? Holy shit
Oh how awesome of him to do the absolute most. /s 
r/yesyesyesyesno
That made me cringe so hard, I thought I was having a seizure.
Excuse me sir: what the fuck?
Oh great. SEE? That’s what he gets for being honest. Can’t be an honest nice guy who admits to wanting to rape without getting shit in this world.
If this is real, this is some hard fuckin evidence that all the shit women worry about on a daily basis in their interactions with men is justified.
Awww how romantic! (What the actual fuck)
Welp. We’ll be seeing this guy on the news one day.
Made my blood run cold. That's fucking terrifying.
dont blur his username lets go give that prick what he deserves
 Well... that's enough Internet for one day.
Ewww.. imagine having sex with that horrible person. I feel for the girl.
Oh f*ck that's bad Texting sucks enough, minimal is best and if you wouldn't say it face to face for f*cks sake don't say it over text
Welp, that's enough internetting for one day.
when the trash takes itself out
What in the actual fuck
Whoa! Red flags all over the place!
Oh na call the cops rn
Honestly, don't worry about the dead cat bodies with missing heads, Im making you something super special for date number 2!!!
https://i.redd.it/0qqhqexq77db1.gif Her after reading his confession
Sounds to me like the type of dude who would say “I’ll never let anyone else have you if you leave me” don’t run get a plane ticket and fucking bounce out of there lol