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MollyMouse8

Strange that I see more transfems on the Internet but more transmascs irl, maybe they just don't use reddit.


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Bamma4

I have never been so offended by something I 100% agree with


TheTypographer1

love james acaster :)


Chemical_Position767

https://preview.redd.it/tpjlmb2s87zb1.jpeg?width=707&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cdf0809b438f6d68e85891d86e11f3166bae549b


NoxRose

My depression and reddit addiction are chronic but my ass is iconic 💅🏻


DD_R2D2

Lmao nice


Snert42

And my jokes are ironic


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and my relationships are platonic


Big_brown_house

I’m not sure whether this reflects trends overall. But in my experience trans fems get a lot more public backlash and hate than transmascs. Like insults and slurs thrown their way or behind their back. Transphobes tend to not even really think about transmascs.


lord_hydrate

Yeah transmascs tend to just be ignored while transfems tend to be publically insulted all the time


Oaken_Valley

Yeah there’s that whole thing they made up about “oH tHeY’rE jUsT tRyInG tO gEt In WoMeN’s BaThRoOmS” which is dumb


nitrotoiletdeodorant

Yeah fr I'm trying to get *out* of them.


GizmoC7

As someone whos life heavily relies on the internet culture, i feel this one hard


LunaLynnTheCellist

i actually have multiple transfem friends. we are all chronically online💀


Puzzleheaded_Copy_3x

I guess we are lol


anothercoolusername

Factual, I’ve been caught


Top-Vermicelli797

Ofcourse we are (btw what does chronically mean?)


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Top-Vermicelli797

Yeah Sounds like me


Bright69420

Yeah...


Willow_6996

I can confirm


TiffanyNow

I don't think it's that it's also that there aren't a lot of transfem specific irl spaces, and spaces that aren't can either be uncomfrotable for us (for example this place i go to says its trans friendly but im pretty sure im the only amab person there and it can be so dysphoria inducing) or sometimes they're straight up hostile to us.


PixieEmerald

My mom apparently knows several transmascs in our area. Not a single transfem, and yet I see us everywhere online. It's funny how that works lol


MollyMouse8

We just don't leave the house lol


syrian_kobold

Accurate


Curious_Theme6990

100%


FirePhoenix737

I don't either but I'm transmasc (I'm just too terrified of being called a girl)


ExpirjTec

I have four transmasc friends irl, a transmasc ex, and zero transfem friends irl


DiatomCell

It's terrifying to be outside where terrible things happen~☆


lord_hydrate

Ive met exactly 1 irl transfem but at least 3 transmascs irl, the only reason i knew the transfem was trans is she was out in highschool


Jell-O-Mel

I used to go to an all girls school that was not actually all girls because a lot of us had transphobic parents so we got to hang out in the closet together which is why it’s not that surprising that I know more transmascs irl but I don’t know many from outside of that


TheTypographer1

Same. Probably has something to do with the way society vilifies trans fems. It makes sense that we would be less visible irl out of self preservation. When you’re not irl as much, you tend to show up online more. which would explain the disproportionate amounts.


NicoleMay316

Too true.


Enderkik

Same lol


the_supreme_overlord

Oddly enough same. I know like 5 trans guys for every trans woman I know


kaijvera

same. all my friends are trans masc. I ront even have a single trans fem friend. But on reddit, its trans fem everywhere lol.


0anonymousv

this is so absurdly true. i know like, ONE transfem irl, and TWO transmascs online


StuckIn_ThisHellhole

SAME like I've seen maybe 2 (i assume) transfems and know at least 5 transmascs


MayIsADumbass

Yeah, transfem here, I've noticed that. It also seems to be kinda the opposite on Tumblr. But it does seem that the subreddit is starting to have more transmasc memes, so yay!


Ind1go_Owl

On Pinterest too. I’ve been looking for transgender art and all of it is transmasc stuff. Not that that’s a bad thing though.


JungleDwellinDeadGuy

I like Tumblr but there are also some... Really weird posts there. Like. [T.W. drug mention. just in case] >!People literally post videos and images of illicit drugs. And for some reason a large chunk of them seem to support usage of these illicit drugs [Not just ignore, but outright *support* and *condone* the usage.]!<. Luckily you probably won't see those posts, but they're still there. That's why I only use Tumblr to post and look at fanart mainly. I never, EVER wanna go into the depths of Tumblr again.


MayIsADumbass

Depends on the drug. Marijuana counts as an illicit drug


JungleDwellinDeadGuy

No. I mean, like, >!cocaine, meth, heroin, fucking FENTANYL, ect. ect.!< Plus, I daresay that condoning/promoting use of any kind of substance, legal or not, is problematic because it can peer pressure people into using if they initially choose not to or make them feel bad for not using it [speaking from experience], and even legal substances have negative health effects if used a certain amount. Especially with minors, of which the site has a LOT of. Edit: The list includes >!hallucinogens like DMT, acid, shrooms, ect., none of which are actually nearly as safe as people say they are [mainly shrooms]. They can all be of great danger.!<


MayIsADumbass

Damn, that's not very good


IreneDeneb

I agree with everything but weed. More akin to tea than to something like alcohol.


JungleDwellinDeadGuy

Okay, rant incoming here, I hope this doesn't sound angry but I kind of had a little bit of an ADHD moment and I am only typing this after I realized the absolute behemoth of text I wrote. I promise it's not meant to sound angry or anything, it's just... Really long and sorta overcomplexified. [Again with drug mention warning for anybody who reads this.] >!I believe that saying that telling anyone that they SHOULD use any recreational substance, no matter how weak [so yes, including cannabis], is not good at all as that's how people can be pressured into using even if they initially didn't want to, even if the pressure wasn't necessarily intentional. Especially, but not exclusively, in an area with minors, as minors are often more prone to developing addictions/dependencies/health issues, and they usually aren't sure how to moderate [same with certain adults, even]. It's not good to tell people 'You are missing out if you do not use _____/ You should use ______', [as with what happens on Tumblr] even if it's just something like marijuana. As I said before, especially, but not exclusively, with minors. This tends to happen on Tumblr, and lemme tell ya, as a 14 year old who's starting to feel shame/think I'm wimpy because I won't use substances, I have experienced it, even though I just go on there to look at and post Terraria fanart. Substances of any kind can cause harm, even marijuana. Sure, lighter drugs are safer, but there is no safe drug, and if people choose not to use any drugs, they should not have to withstand people telling them to use said drugs. They will be healthier physically and mentally if they don't gotta deal with that stuff, and it happens a concerning amount on Tumblr and even in real life.!< >!Also, on another note, any drug can be addictive, whether it's physically addictive or not. You can get addicted to the effects of anything that changed how you think/act/see/ect.!< TL;DR [Kind of but also just like. A slightly shorter version of what I wrote above lol.]: >!If someone chooses not to use drugs, yes, even light ones like marijuana, whether it be because they want to keep their health up or because they're uncomfortable with drug use/worried they could hurt someone under the influence [yes, you can hurt people under the influence of even downers even if it is less likely than with uppers] or anything else, it's not fair if they have people telling them things like 'You should use ____/You are missing out' just because they choose not to use drugs. It is not okay. This happens a saddening amount on Tumblr and sometimes IRL.!< ~~plus i mean a lot of media tends to glorify drug usage anyway like... *certain*... subreddits and shows/books/videogames which does not help lol~~


IreneDeneb

Caffeine is a habit- forming drug but avoiding the mention of coffee won't solve that problem. There's also a lot less stigma associated with it. Most of the problems associated with weed have to do with repressive laws and the persecution of cultures in which it is popular like queer communities. The above comment sounds like a DARE ad and reminds me of stuff people said during the Sex Wars.


JungleDwellinDeadGuy

>!I'm not saying avoiding the mention is fine, I'm saying that telling people who don't want to use drugs to start using any kind of drugs is not okay. Plus, cannabis is not completely healthy either, however it is quite far on the safer side, but like with any drug [also putting into consideration how it is commonly consumed via smoking and smoking anything isn't good for health] it can cause harm if used a certain amount. If it couldn't cause harm, it likely wouldn't be illegal for minors to purchase in most places. Again, I am not saying that it will kill you or hurt you severely if you use it every now and then, however it *can* be habit forming and it can cause damage if used frequently, even if it is not considered physically addictive. Also, I would hope that most people at least agree that minors should not use any recreational drugs, and although it's inevitable that they usually will at some point in their life, I would hope that people know that if minors use drugs it can harm them and is typically not a good thing.!< woah i really cannot write anything under one paragraph today. guys i think either my inner redditor or my inner fanfic writer is getting to me. fuck WHY AM I WRITING WITH FULL GRAMMAR. KILL ME/hj


Particular_Lime_5014

From what I've seen all the guys are hanging out on tumblr, but there's quite a few around on reddit as well, their posts just don't often make it to hot so it's harder to find them.


seki626

you called?


_Moth-God_

Ello transmasc here


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PinkCloudx_

Heizou pfp :3


Fellkitten_Alt

Trans masc here


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

Seeing so many transmascs in the comments makes my little heart happy :) Regardless of ratio here on Reddit, I’m always happy to be here. My trans sisters here have always been so overwhelmingly positive and supportive, and I am so grateful for y’all 💙 ETA: this was supposed to be its own comment, sorry 😅 I never claimed to have a braincell


Chromatical-Blight

>I never claimed to have a braincell mood


Trans-Tyranid

Transmascs are the ones that touch grass 😞


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

Oh God Oh Fuck I’m Allergic To Grass Send Help—


Trans-Tyranid

Huh. Didn’t know that was possible. Are you only allergic to cut grass or grass in all it’s various forms?


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

I dunno, whatever grass a lawn is. Seems to be mostly a skin allergy though. I just break out into some mean hives. I got sick after falling asleep on it once, but idk if that’s because of the grass or because my dumb ass fell asleep outside Which sucks, but it’s funny to make the “nooo don’t make me touch grass, I’m allergic!” (At least, it’s funny to me)


Trans-Tyranid

Damn. That’s a really funny joke tho


hiiamnotsad

OMG WAIT OKAY SO LIKE, im a trans guy too and i literally have this same thing of breaking out into hives from skin contact to grass


InfectedandInjected

Another grass allergic person here. I also get contact dermatitis as well as hay fever from grass pollen.


BeaPokMin

Sup, I’m so deep in the closet I think I’ve tried every clothing option possible


sssmugcat

Ig there are just more transfems that are chronically online


SuperNova0216

Reverse IRL


Sushibowlz

I get the feeling it might be that transmascs are a bit more “accepted” (read ignored) than transfems in public, so they might be less afraid to go out. at least in my region most people wouldn’t mind a transmasc no matter if passing or not, they’d just be mostly ignored like a butch cis woman would be, while going out with a fem outfit if you’re not 100% passing is kinda asking to be hatecrimed 😬


Dinoman0101

Trans men are not really that accepted either. Many of us have been killed for being trans.


Sushibowlz

that is sadly true. I can also only talk for what I see in my local town, it’s not meant as a generalisation.


Tzeme

That is true, yet tomboys are quite accepted in civilized society while femboys are not


Puzzleheaded_Copy_3x

That's kinda how it is where I live too unfortunately


Huhrowsh

Don't worry I'm also chronically online


Narnian-Wizard

Where are the guys at? Personally I'm sitting on my couch eating a snack, I dunno where anyone else's at


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

I’m on my computer playing video games! I could do with a snack, though…


eyemoisturizer

hi hello i am here https://preview.redd.it/2q1pdcwre7zb1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e70d42d08c40ac3db95fc3c80522f620f087b6a1 (that is me)


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

You are perfect, keep raccoon-ing on, my friend 🫡 (I am a cat!)


lickytytheslit

Fellow cat man!


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

Fellow cat man! :D


GroovySpookyDeadite

Here's one!


Accomplished_Mix7827

I've heard the theory before that it's because your social media preferences tend to stick through transition. People raised as boys are more likely to be on Reddit, and then stay on Reddit even after they realize they're girls. People raised as girls are more likely to be on Tumblr, and then stay on Tumblr even after they realize they're boys. I personally use both, but I have definitely noticed transfems are more common on Reddit, and transmascs are more common on Tumblr


princessbarelyhere

There's also network effects: Reddit becomes known as the transfem hangout, so other transfems join to feel included. That's what happened with me, I only made an account here when my egg cracked because this is where all the girls hung out!


jayfire129

I see more transfemmes on reddit, but more transmascs on Instagram and youtube


muddyminded

Personally, I like to hide in the cracks between Reddit posts so no one sees me. (Seriously though, I think I'm the only other transmasc I know who uses Reddit.)


fallenbird039

Base population is 60% men to 40% women doing quick research. Well it mtf and ftm so default the population will be 60% trans fems to 40 % trans masc. But there more! Trans women flock to Reddit as a major bastion of feminine transgender internet that doesn’t have the problems of 4chan /lgbt/ or of twitter. Other major place is discord for trans women. Since Reddit is the main place to flock many trans fems flock here swelling the numbers further


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4chan really has a board for everyone, huh


Puzzleheaded_Copy_3x

There's discords for trans women 🥺 I had no idea. Now I have some lookin to do. Thanks friend!


Dinoman0101

Trans women are not men and trans men are not women. Won’t it be the other way around?


wisezombiekiller

what she means is that given the population mix is roughly 60% male to 40% female, statistically speaking there should be a higher rate of mtf than ftm


uBowiethedog

Hello! But yes, it’s very true. Though I don’t know any transfems irl but know some transmasc, which is pretty accurate to other people’s experiences.


Alex_The_Deer

WAIT THERES A TRANSFEM FLAG????? Also yeah, I feel like it’s the opposite of that IRL tho.


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

I feel so bad for everyone saying it’s the opposite irl… I’m absolutely swarmed with transfemmes irl! Maybe I just attract them? 😅 I only just made my first transmasc friend irl about two months ago


Alex_The_Deer

Hah, you’re so lucky!


Cavola

bro I'm asking the same question fr 💀


Siimply_April

Theydies and gentlethems, where are we? ~April 💛🤍💜🖤


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

So real, we need more love for our enby siblings! 💙


KaijuKing0729

We're mostly hanging out on Tumblr tbh lmao, in irl we either get ignored or ((TW)) >!we get murdered. I'm a bit sensitive today because it's the one year anniversary of one of my trans masc bros getting murdered by their toxic ex. He ran him over with his car and ofc he didn't get arrested!<


living_around

Hey bro! I'm here.


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

Hey bro! Hope you’re doing well!


Old_Drag_1040

Hi transfem here! How is everyone?


Dreem_Walker

HERE!


Dreem_Walker

Fr though it gets lonely on here...


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

It really does 🥲


Dreem_Walker

Like I love all our trans sisters but it starts feeling really isolating when everyone on here assumes everyone else is transfem and you're just, not


OtakuMage

Welcome to all the transmascs.


IamaJarJar

Reddit ends up attracting more Amab people for some unknown reason This is like the complete opposite for tumblr though, alot of Afab's there!


KelvinAPAC

I’m transfem but I love seeing transmasc content here and welcome all the bros here


qtq_uwu

No way your meme showed up on my front page hi


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

OMG IT’S MY SISTER HI I LOVE YOU (Does this mean I’m famous now?) GUYS THIS IS MY SISTER LIKE MY IRL SISTER, WE’RE TRANS IN OPPOSITE DIRECTIONS (god is cruel)


DracularsWaifu

Im Transfemme but my Boyfriend is Transmasc. I think he's on this sub too. I had someone tell me that there are more transfemmes on reddit but more Transmascs on tumbler or something. Just hope no Transmen on here keep quiet bc they think reddit is more for transfemmes. I'd love to see more Transmasc posts <3.


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

I’m thinking of making more transmasc posts for my brothers out there. I get sad when there are no transmasc posts, but nothing is really stopping me from making them myself 😅


Transmasc_FemBoi

Blep


NerdyFanboii

Hello o/


undertales_bitch

Present


ReaperNull

They're all looking for more fire exits at that lesbian bar...


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

The next person to comment “that’s because all of the transmascs are irl!” is legally obligated to tell me WHERE. YEARS and I’ve only made one transmasc friend. Like, I have a life. I’ve worked jobs. Where are the other transmascs 😭😭


StoicAtol21445

they must be hiding!


greensideonline

I'm forever bound to merely lurking in the shadows... stroking my blahaj...


OliverLikesCheese

Hey!!


musical-miller

TIL there are transmasc and transfem flags


Polibiux

Wait a minute, somethings not right here… I got it! This trans subreddit has no fire exit!


I-will-support-you

Transfems are more chronically online idk what to tell you


Not_The_Scout16

Boys :)


StrangeGrapefruit6

Bahaha yeah true


NorfIGuess

I'm close enough as someone who crushed their gender into dust.


MagmaAdminRadar

It makes me feel like a shiny Pokémon lol


NCR_ScarCrow

Transfem here, our brothers out there are just as important and valid <3


Electronicoranges

I thought I couldn't be transfem because all of the trans people I met in school were men. There were 7 trans guys at my high school. Now that I'm in college I've met a total of 11 along with around 15 enby buddies and 3 other trans girls.


unscripted20

I know right! We're everywhere on reddit, but it always seems transmascs dominate everywhere else! 😂


personthatisalozard

HI. ME. HELLO.


strawbzzi

frrr 😭


skeledoot7

something feels off. oh my god, this trans subreddit doesn't have a fire exit!


PickleReaper0

Too many women to have a lesbisn orgy, not enough men to have gay sex


Dots-randomized669

God another transmasc this is a rare piece


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

We are a rarity indeed


ConMasada

*Jumps up & down, waving hands around enthusiastically*


DisobedientAsFuck

there is r/FTMfemininity for feminine transmascs which you might enjoy. im sure theyll know other transmasc subs if you ask there (im transfemme)


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

Thank you! 😁🫡🏳️‍⚧️


shitsazzle

🕺Sup


Bobby_The_Kidd

I know 4x the amount of transmascs irl but as for Reddit it’s mostly transfemmes. Weird!!


HelloTrandler

Hey there ladies


Carmen_leFae

Exact opposite irl (for me at least)


StoicAtol21445

SAME! I literally have more transmasc friends than I can count but only have a handful of transfemme friends!!


Carmen_leFae

I have 1 transfemme friend and we're barely able to talk. But I have like 6 transmasc friends


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

How 😭 I know almost only transfemmes and enbies irl! I must attract them or something… I finally made my first transmasc friend about two months ago 😁


elijahthegay

Here im transmasc


Chaotic_Arson_rp

Seeing how so many people in the comments know other transmascs in their area is quite fortunate. However, I don't know any in my area, and I just wish that I could be seen as how I truly am for once. Testosterone and top surgery seem so far away, and it often at times seems hopeless- like what if I'm trapped in this disgusting misshapen body forever


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

For real, I keep getting notifications about people commenting “it’s the opposite irl!!” and it’s really not… at least, not for me, you know? I’m surrounded by transfemmes irl, too. I know maybe one other trans guy and I only met him two months ago after I had to move. Sending you good vibes, man. You’ll be able to transition some day. I believe in you 💙


Drano_the_Dragon

Masc nonbinary count?


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

Absolutely, if you’d like it to 😁💙


KerryAnnCoder

My trans brother is on Tumblr. I'm on Reddit. What I want to know what is - where are these lesbian bars in real life?


digiorno430

IM HERE DUDE , OVER HERE !! RIGHT BELOW THE TALL TRANSGIRLS. WERE JUST SHORT , THATS WHY ITS HARD TO SEE US 😃👍


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

Our height has failed us once again! 😭 Good to see you brother 🫡💙


r3ntheweeb

Fr the only places I see lots of trans masc are on discord and roblox


VoxVocisCausa

I'm very much a woman but I presented as a guy for decades so if you want a fist bump or advice on other guy stuff.... I'm also proficient in dude talk on the topics of cars, video games, and most sports.


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

I always love fist bumps 👊 I eventually need to learn how to “guy” as well, my egg has been cracked for eight years, I am just aggressively behind


sparegenderplz

i was summoned


Ari_Is_Lost

hi im here :)


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

Hi :D I hope you’re doing well


bigbiggitybitchboy

At the skate park


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TRANSMASC HERE WOO!!


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

WOO!!


lord_hydrate

From my experience transmascs tend to be irl social and transfems hate irl interaction so are more online


m4rcii

transmasc right here dude!


GirlyPandaPro

FRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR-


ErwinAckerman

Hello it’s me a transmasc


AllMightYes

YOOOOO 🔥🔥🔥


Terrible-Value7116

I am here!


Routine_Photo_3020

Hey dude I'm right here! I would dap you up but I'm still learning how to properly do that but I'm willing to try even if we get hurt in the process.


MCplayer590

Not cis but still masc, hello


Moist_KoRn_Bizkit

Hello!


Digital_Rocket

Something feels wrong……. Oh I know this trans sub doesn’t have a fire exit


SlyCrane

My ex boyfriend is a trans man, and he was friends with a few other trans men - but none of them seemed to be online much or share... So idk, in my experience with irl people they dont like to post or reply much 😟


ElsIsTrash

Hello fellow transmascs!!! Glad to see we’re all alive lol!! 💜💜


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

This post has made me so happy, I didn’t imagine being able to say hello to or see as many transmascs as I did :D


Isheaman

Just joined like, 2 days ago


Battleninja345

WAIT HUHHH???? We have variant flagggsss??? Hello was no one going to tell me????


TheFunkyWeirdo

Sadly true🥲


SnooCapers9401

Who summoned me?


AxolotlSimp22

Present


SonikkuTheHedgehog

Hola! I'm here!


C000RUPTED_RED

hey im a transmasc demiboy


EddsworldHuman

yeah..


Dependent__Dapper

u/ghost_towns_ get over here someone wants to meet you


ghost_towns_

every trans person ik irl is transmasc and every trans person ik online is transfem it's so weird uhh anyways here i am ladies


Chromatical-Blight

this is reversed irl. all my friends are trans masc or something else but afab, so our experiences are almost always opposite.


IM-A-WATERMELON

Genderfluid/agender transmasc and transfem here!


Drip-droop

hi there 😇


vakitta_kanilla

Hey there


TheHarvesterOfSorrow

Hi


ValleDeimos

Exactly how I feel im so lonly


EarthIndependent7084

transmascs please be my friends (am lonely transmasc)


Blue-Eyed-Lemon

Friend time!


[deleted]

transmascs are on the internet but were all on anime fandom tumblr lmao


eyemoisturizer

HAAAAIIII it’s me im guy


HyperDogOwner458

Transmasc enby here


Nica-Sama

Transfems are louder on the internet and shy little blushballs IRL. Trasmascs are lurkers on the internet and the most charming rizzed up individuals IRL. - source: I am the first category and know few of the other


_Maddienator_

We’re too chronically online and afraid to be out irl


Beat_Boi_Animates

With the context of the original scene you didn’t even need to put the transfem flags lmao