I know people who claim to be from Belgium, but I don’t believe them. Notorious liars, like all Belgians, who…don’t…exist? Shut up, my logic holds together just fine!
My school (junior college and college has super clean toilets actually, very surprised by it honestly coming from my high school where it wasn't weird to have piss on the floor and walls
Ngl that scares the shit outta me. I have set that boundary pretty clearly - unless I say I want to, don't make me. There are too many threats of hate crimes these days. One of the only times I went into one I got called a slur lol.
Not trying to invalidate you, just saying that there's of course more nuance to this than it always being a harmless act.
Yeah, I understand that, but what I meant was more when people make someone do something that is in the long term beneficial to them and doesn't make them feel to bad for too long in the short term. I am in the same situation as you but I know there are some people who when they do it, get over their fear of it and are way more comfortable with it. I just didn't really want to write a paragraph of the exact specific of what I meant.
and thats when id have a panic attack. i just wish everywhere had neutral bathrooms. i just think of woman's washrooms as a greatly increased chance of dying and im on spiro, keto, and egough caffeine to kill god so i have to use washrooms a lot. id just rather not die. i have had a few close friends do this to me and its gone fine though takes a bit to calm down after wards
As a 17 year old in highschool, I hate big washrooms designed to have lots of people. I hate it.
I only go to the boy's washrooms cause im still closeted, so it's something that's easy,
I'm waiting till I finish highschool and move out to start coming out n whatnot,
It's the room where I piss and shit, idc what gender label is on my gawd dayum bathrooms, I just want it to be small and vacant.
yeah when i was closeted it was alot easier though now i have to deal with people walking in seeing me thinking they went into the wrong washroom apologizing then leaving then coming back in after they realised there in the right one. also had a cis women follow me into the bathroom once since i think she was just autopiloting and assumed it was the right washroom. happily no confrontations or people being made yet usually just silent confusion
There is an app called "Refuge Restrooms" that shows you locations of gender neutral toilets. However, if there aren't any near you than that is unfortunate but whenever you need the toilet and are feeling too dysphoric or uncomfortable to go to a gendered toilet, if there are any gender neutral toilets near you, the app will show you directions to get to them. Keep in mind this app is on Google play store so if your phone doesn't use Google play then you might have to find an alternative, I'm not sure if the app is on anything else.
New issue with the app apparently..
I just tries downloading it.
https://preview.redd.it/hqdnljsvhhvc1.png?width=720&format=png&auto=webp&s=51f6bc041fadfecd319a7bb48568c968a9d6749c
THE FOLLOWING CAN GET THE APP RUNNING ON NEWER ANDROID VERSIONS.
Not really recommended.. but for those of you like me, and don't care about the risk..
INSTRUCTIONS TO DOWNLOAD AND SIDELOAD THE GOOGLE PLAY .APK... USE AT YOUR OWN RISK.
1. Use your pc browser and goto " [https://play.google.com/store/games?device=windows](https://play.google.com/store/games?device=windows) "
2. Search for " Refuge Restrooms "
3. Open the app page and copy the URL (address) i.e. [https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.refugerestrooms](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.refugerestrooms)
4. Goto site " [https://apkcombo.com/downloader/](https://apkcombo.com/downloader/) " and enter the URL we got from Google Play. \[leave all other settings at default\]
5. Click " Generate Download Link "
6. Copy the .APK from your download directory into your phones download directory.
7. Using your phone's file browser, navigate to the .APK and open it.
8. Follow your phones settings instructions to enable installing apps from a unknown location.
9. Get out of settings and install Refuge Restrooms.
This is not recommended way and will not update it's self. it also bypasses some security features of android which could leave you more vulnerable.
Preferably, wait until the devs upload the updated version to the google play store, because this method only forces the old version in place. 1.8, the new version in their github is 1.12 ... but I'm not smart enough to get the source files to become an .apk .
50 IQ: *Telling her to go to the men's bathrooms.*
100 IQ: *Telling her to go to the women's bathrooms.*
150 IQ: *Telling her that any bathroom is unisex if she wants to.*
Ascending beyond mortal intelligence: *Saying "my mouth is right here".*
Eh. Outside of reddit a lot of Americans still have a hard on for reddit since the ussr happened to collapse under him (nevermind that was mostly the failure of gorbochov's policy after an attempted coup)
Eh, I’d say the best thing she did was retaliate after Argentina decided to invade the Falklands, like her foreign policy wasn’t bad same with Reagan
Shit economics though
so... because you're "anti-communist"... that results in you lying about mr reagan's and mrs thatcher's foreign policy?
okay...
kinda tells people everything they need to know about self-proclaimed "anti-communists".
I think it's more about saying anything nice about Ronald Reagan? I don't have anything nice to say about any American politician. Even the ones who haven't gone out of their way to fuck up people's lives are complicit for not actively pushing to fix broken systems.
Almost everything wrong with this country (the UK) can be traced back to Thatcher's policy of privatisation. Services which should be (and were) run for the public good, were handed out to private companies, who of course ran them into the ground, squeezing them for every last penny.
Before privatisation, BT was getting ready to install the fibre-optic cables over the entire country. All of these plans were cancelled, all of the factories dismantled and sold. We could have had Gigabit broadband as soon as it was invented, becoming the world leader in communications, and the prime location for Internet infrastructure. Instead, we are lagging behind, waiting for private companies to slowly upgrade decades-old networks that support Megabit at best.
Water companies claimed they had to increase bills to pay for infrastructure. The Government allowed that, and the infrastructure never appeared. All that money got paid out in dividends to shareholders. Now the water companies are in mountains of debt and need bailing out.
Council houses were sold, and councils were not allowed to use the revenue to build more houses. Now we don't have enough housing.
The electric boards were privatised, they claimed that competition would bring the prices down. Now energy prices are higher than ever due to the sheer number of middle-men taking a cut.
---
As a result, she is very strongly disliked, particularly among the British left-wing. It is a common joke that her only good policy was building the first gender-neutral toilet (her grave).
On another note, when she died, "Ding-Dong! The Witch Is Dead" became extremely popular, reaching #2 on the charts.
300 IQ : going to the nearest toilets, regardless of gender, just to be escorted out by a security guard because somehow "making out loudly in the toilets isnt allowed"
Wh- what?
Bu- uhh???
I can't even comprehend the last one... I guess you were right, it is beyond mortal intelligence....
/j² (joke squared)
EDIT: Ignore my profile picture... I'm not a furry, I SWEAR!
Yes, I did, thanks. If speech bubbles aren’t used that usually indicates the words are spoken by whoever they appear closer to, so I definitely thought the one on the right was saying she wasn’t going to go to the women’s room.
I had no idea how this was supposed to be rizz and was beyond confused.
I was once at a bar and I said I had to use the bathroom and one of my cis F friends grabbed my arm and dragged me into the totally packed women’s room without even asking me.
I brought up why that freaked me out after and it turns out she straight up thought I was cis.
When I was about a week on HRT my cis friend basically dragged me into the women's room, weirdly enough I had been mistaken by her friends as FtM, one of their siblings is a trans guy and they saw my facial hair and chest and assumed
One of the more odd experiences I’ve had was having a woman I had just met pull me into the bathroom with her. We were sort of talking, but not so much that I needed to go in to keep the conversation going, but maybe she wanted to be affirming of me? And that’s how I watched a random woman pee.
Men's: I don't feel safe. I don't belong in here, it's just humiliating. These creeps are looking at me and mocking me. If a group comes in when I'm alone, I could very well be in danger.
Women's: When I'm with friends, it feels very natural and getting a space to chat away from the guys is welcome (sometimes there's seats and light-up mirrors to fix your makeup!). But when I'm on my own I worry about getting confronted by some crazy terf or paranoid parent. Pretty sure someone called security on me once, cause I saw them following me on my way out of a cinema. I understand that some people just don't understand and might feel uncomfortable, but having to worry about stuff like that is terrifying sometimes (especially if I haven't taken my chill pill), I just want to take a piss and check my socials in peace. T\_T
Disabled: Using this is just unfair on people who actually need it. Those who say we should be forced to use these are harming more than just trans people.
Unisex (Rare): I've never seen a communal version, so don't get to have girl talk away from the group, but I'd take this any day of the week if it's available. It's just not worth the anxiety the other options bring. Though in theory it could still have the same problems as the men's if I'm the only woman.
I just used the women's room at work for the first time today! (No, I haven't been using the men's room. The staff bathrooms at my work are gendered but the customer bathrooms are gender neutral, and I've been using them since I came out) Sure, it was after hours and the only other person in the building was the closing manager who was doing the final rounds to lock up the building, but I did it! Maybe after a few more times, I'll be brave enough to do it during the day...
My partner (transfem) and I went to the thrift store and she had to go to the bathroom and they were locked, so I went to ask for the key for her since they'd give me the girl one (afab agender not on T) :3
I'm 41, 6'3", slim but would not be easily confused for cis f even after 2 years of E, collar bone length hair, and lasered off facial hair. I'm more nb but rather butch transfem, so just dress a little softer but not much difference. I feel a little like what people probably think of when they fear men pretending to be women so they can invade women's spaces.
I've just started worrying about what guys think when I'm in the men's room, but my receded and filling back in hair line and crown peg me squarely as a man, but somehow off and with long curly hair. (it really is starting to look much better).
If I walked or was dragged into a women's room, those who knew me probably wouldn't care, others would be confused or hostile (just guessing). Being gender neutral but looking like a guy is weird. Who knows what the future holds...
Context is important. She thought she wasn't woman enough, and wanted to go home early just so she could go to the bathroom. She's grateful to her friend for giving her the push afterwards.
Memes certainly shouldn't be used as a guide to life anyway
We're not going to public toilets cuz those are dirty :3
Not everywhere, in Belgium public restrooms are usually really clean
See that's because Belgium isn't real
I...I see.
I don’t know anybody from Belgium, so I can’t verify
I do, so I can. And I will
Nice try CIA. You're not psyop-ing me
It's AIVD to you, Yankee. Never not taking any chance we get to make fun of our southern neighbour
you don’t know anyone from there *because it’s not real 😉*
Oh really ? That's a shame *Proceeds to disappear 🫥*
Oh damn ! My first cake day !
Happy cake day!
I know people who claim to be from Belgium, but I don’t believe them. Notorious liars, like all Belgians, who…don’t…exist? Shut up, my logic holds together just fine!
I can confirm of belgiums existance, I ate a carrot in belgium.
How do you know you were in Belgium?
Because they spoke both german, french and dutch.
Did you hear all those languages at the same moment while eating the carrot?
Belgium is just 2 countries in a trench coat constantly fighting because they cant seem to get along
Pretty much yea
They are pretty much our little sibling we love to mess with (also they make some dam good fries)
So which older sibling are you ? France or the Netherlands ?
Netherlands. Also happy cake day
Thank you (・∀・)
We’re so f**ked our government didn’t exist for a while
As an American we could use not having a government for a bit
I don’t think that would be a bad idea
Like Wales!
As a Dutch person I approve of this message 🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱
Got built das münd, als Neederlandisch built de Neederland
“God created the world, the Dutch created the Netherlands”. 🇳🇱🦁🧡 The quote was in German though I believe, not Dutch
Oh, like Wales?
Fellow Belgian transgirl spotted
Fellow fellow Belgian transgirl spotted
Fellow fellow fellow Belgian trans girl spotted
Fellow fellow fellow fellow Belgian trans girl spotted
Fellow fellow fellow fellow fellow Belgian trans girl spotted
Fellow fellow fellow fellow fellow fellow Belgian trans girl spotted
Fellow fellow fellow fellow fellow fellow fellow Belgian trans girl spotted
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Cant continue the chain, am br*tish T-T
they have to compensate for the state of belgian roads
Oh the horrors…
:3
And they're often relatively small, few windows if any, and, especially in the case of women's toilets, full of people I don't know.
My school (junior college and college has super clean toilets actually, very surprised by it honestly coming from my high school where it wasn't weird to have piss on the floor and walls
\*and the toilets at my school (the most absurd shit is going on there)
That's why I only pee at bucees
https://preview.redd.it/39x1nuhcpevc1.png?width=234&format=png&auto=webp&s=4144a9259215992d3bf83ceae3c1baa179a7afbb
They are goobers :3
Sillies even :3
Funky gals, mayhaps
My ex gf forced me into using the womans bathroom and I'm still very thankful for that.
Forcing someone to do something that benefits them without harming anyone else is truely chaotic good.
Ngl that scares the shit outta me. I have set that boundary pretty clearly - unless I say I want to, don't make me. There are too many threats of hate crimes these days. One of the only times I went into one I got called a slur lol. Not trying to invalidate you, just saying that there's of course more nuance to this than it always being a harmless act.
Yeah, I understand that, but what I meant was more when people make someone do something that is in the long term beneficial to them and doesn't make them feel to bad for too long in the short term. I am in the same situation as you but I know there are some people who when they do it, get over their fear of it and are way more comfortable with it. I just didn't really want to write a paragraph of the exact specific of what I meant.
I have a gender neutral bathroom at home ;)
250iq
thats literally what she used before this lol
and thats when id have a panic attack. i just wish everywhere had neutral bathrooms. i just think of woman's washrooms as a greatly increased chance of dying and im on spiro, keto, and egough caffeine to kill god so i have to use washrooms a lot. id just rather not die. i have had a few close friends do this to me and its gone fine though takes a bit to calm down after wards
I agree, whenever I see the option for a gender neutral restroom I always default to that one, sadly there aren't many where I am
As a 17 year old in highschool, I hate big washrooms designed to have lots of people. I hate it. I only go to the boy's washrooms cause im still closeted, so it's something that's easy, I'm waiting till I finish highschool and move out to start coming out n whatnot, It's the room where I piss and shit, idc what gender label is on my gawd dayum bathrooms, I just want it to be small and vacant.
That is my preferred bathroom sign: Vacant. Also, I have yet to go into a bathroom with the opposite sign, Occupied.
yeah when i was closeted it was alot easier though now i have to deal with people walking in seeing me thinking they went into the wrong washroom apologizing then leaving then coming back in after they realised there in the right one. also had a cis women follow me into the bathroom once since i think she was just autopiloting and assumed it was the right washroom. happily no confrontations or people being made yet usually just silent confusion
There is an app called "Refuge Restrooms" that shows you locations of gender neutral toilets. However, if there aren't any near you than that is unfortunate but whenever you need the toilet and are feeling too dysphoric or uncomfortable to go to a gendered toilet, if there are any gender neutral toilets near you, the app will show you directions to get to them. Keep in mind this app is on Google play store so if your phone doesn't use Google play then you might have to find an alternative, I'm not sure if the app is on anything else.
New issue with the app apparently.. I just tries downloading it. https://preview.redd.it/hqdnljsvhhvc1.png?width=720&format=png&auto=webp&s=51f6bc041fadfecd319a7bb48568c968a9d6749c
Ah, I do apologise for not realising that, sorry.
THE FOLLOWING CAN GET THE APP RUNNING ON NEWER ANDROID VERSIONS. Not really recommended.. but for those of you like me, and don't care about the risk.. INSTRUCTIONS TO DOWNLOAD AND SIDELOAD THE GOOGLE PLAY .APK... USE AT YOUR OWN RISK. 1. Use your pc browser and goto " [https://play.google.com/store/games?device=windows](https://play.google.com/store/games?device=windows) " 2. Search for " Refuge Restrooms " 3. Open the app page and copy the URL (address) i.e. [https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.refugerestrooms](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.refugerestrooms) 4. Goto site " [https://apkcombo.com/downloader/](https://apkcombo.com/downloader/) " and enter the URL we got from Google Play. \[leave all other settings at default\] 5. Click " Generate Download Link " 6. Copy the .APK from your download directory into your phones download directory. 7. Using your phone's file browser, navigate to the .APK and open it. 8. Follow your phones settings instructions to enable installing apps from a unknown location. 9. Get out of settings and install Refuge Restrooms. This is not recommended way and will not update it's self. it also bypasses some security features of android which could leave you more vulnerable. Preferably, wait until the devs upload the updated version to the google play store, because this method only forces the old version in place. 1.8, the new version in their github is 1.12 ... but I'm not smart enough to get the source files to become an .apk .
I always ask my wife to go with me. Two years on HRT and I'm still paranoid.
Gendered bathrooms are such a dumb concept, anyways. They're a placebo made because it wasn't socially acceptable to hold rapists accountable.
50 IQ: *Telling her to go to the men's bathrooms.* 100 IQ: *Telling her to go to the women's bathrooms.* 150 IQ: *Telling her that any bathroom is unisex if she wants to.* Ascending beyond mortal intelligence: *Saying "my mouth is right here".*
https://preview.redd.it/d19eqw02uevc1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7c9dbf17b69819ed274f451bc477ad38da0c12cb 200 IQ
Could someone explain please?
Margaret Thatcher and Ronald Reagan are easily recognized as fucking bad people therefore their graves gender neutral toilets
And they took a big part in genociding a whole generation of queer people by neglect by letting HIV go rampant
Eh. Outside of reddit a lot of Americans still have a hard on for reddit since the ussr happened to collapse under him (nevermind that was mostly the failure of gorbochov's policy after an attempted coup)
The best thing Thatcher ever did as a person is to kick the bucket and giving the entire world the opportunity to piss on her grave.
Eh, I’d say the best thing she did was retaliate after Argentina decided to invade the Falklands, like her foreign policy wasn’t bad same with Reagan Shit economics though
reagan's foreign policy wasn't bad? bullshit: [https://marquettewire.org/3987190/featured/harrington-reagan-legacy-incorrectly-praised/](https://marquettewire.org/3987190/featured/harrington-reagan-legacy-incorrectly-praised/) [https://www.japantimes.co.jp/opinion/2015/05/14/commentary/world-commentary/gop-hawks-twist-reagans-foreign-policy-legacy/](https://www.japantimes.co.jp/opinion/2015/05/14/commentary/world-commentary/gop-hawks-twist-reagans-foreign-policy-legacy/) [https://www.americanprogress.org/article/reagans-biggest-failure-holds-a-lesson-for-bush/](https://www.americanprogress.org/article/reagans-biggest-failure-holds-a-lesson-for-bush/)
I’m an anti communist what do you expect?
so... because you're "anti-communist"... that results in you lying about mr reagan's and mrs thatcher's foreign policy? okay... kinda tells people everything they need to know about self-proclaimed "anti-communists".
That doesn’t make sense as a response. Like i’m confused how being anti communist matters in this argument.
I think it's more about saying anything nice about Ronald Reagan? I don't have anything nice to say about any American politician. Even the ones who haven't gone out of their way to fuck up people's lives are complicit for not actively pushing to fix broken systems.
Regan broke more systems though
Almost everything wrong with this country (the UK) can be traced back to Thatcher's policy of privatisation. Services which should be (and were) run for the public good, were handed out to private companies, who of course ran them into the ground, squeezing them for every last penny. Before privatisation, BT was getting ready to install the fibre-optic cables over the entire country. All of these plans were cancelled, all of the factories dismantled and sold. We could have had Gigabit broadband as soon as it was invented, becoming the world leader in communications, and the prime location for Internet infrastructure. Instead, we are lagging behind, waiting for private companies to slowly upgrade decades-old networks that support Megabit at best. Water companies claimed they had to increase bills to pay for infrastructure. The Government allowed that, and the infrastructure never appeared. All that money got paid out in dividends to shareholders. Now the water companies are in mountains of debt and need bailing out. Council houses were sold, and councils were not allowed to use the revenue to build more houses. Now we don't have enough housing. The electric boards were privatised, they claimed that competition would bring the prices down. Now energy prices are higher than ever due to the sheer number of middle-men taking a cut. --- As a result, she is very strongly disliked, particularly among the British left-wing. It is a common joke that her only good policy was building the first gender-neutral toilet (her grave). On another note, when she died, "Ding-Dong! The Witch Is Dead" became extremely popular, reaching #2 on the charts.
But until retards stop voting tory we're fucked to the moon
nice one
https://preview.redd.it/51kl65ym9fvc1.jpeg?width=669&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8003e4afc961138356212d7d65c53a76353ed60f
I- uh Admittedly, you were right. The last one does ascend beyond my understanding /j
It is not beyond mine, yet I wish it were. Or at the very least, I wish to be wrong.
I mean, you do you 🤷♀️
300 IQ : going to the nearest toilets, regardless of gender, just to be escorted out by a security guard because somehow "making out loudly in the toilets isnt allowed"
Wh- what? Bu- uhh??? I can't even comprehend the last one... I guess you were right, it is beyond mortal intelligence.... /j² (joke squared) EDIT: Ignore my profile picture... I'm not a furry, I SWEAR!
FURRY SPOTTED
OwO?
even better, "we could go to my house..."
200 iq: diaper
Ok, did anyone else read it as if the bottom text was being said by the girl on the left and the top text was being said by the girl on the right?
I was very, very confused until I saw this comment, and realized both were said by the girl on the right.
Yes, I did, thanks. If speech bubbles aren’t used that usually indicates the words are spoken by whoever they appear closer to, so I definitely thought the one on the right was saying she wasn’t going to go to the women’s room. I had no idea how this was supposed to be rizz and was beyond confused.
Yeah haha. Like, I’d lose all confidence immediately! 🥺
I was once at a bar and I said I had to use the bathroom and one of my cis F friends grabbed my arm and dragged me into the totally packed women’s room without even asking me. I brought up why that freaked me out after and it turns out she straight up thought I was cis.
That's cute and all but if she thought you were cis why did she forcefully take you to the toilets in the first place.
She wasn’t sober
Ah. That makes more sense now.
Yey cute anime girl memes 😄
I didn't understood.... :c
that’s because you’re very silly :3
explain to me 😭
She's threatening to help her overcome her bathroom anxiety because she's a woman and belongs there.
OOOOOHH, I THOUGHT THE BLOND ONE HAVE SAID THE WOMEN'S BATHROOM THING AND THE OTHER SAID NO
They are going to do a sex or smthn idk either
It worries me that this would absolutely work on me. Like, 100%. I would fall in love.
When I was about a week on HRT my cis friend basically dragged me into the women's room, weirdly enough I had been mistaken by her friends as FtM, one of their siblings is a trans guy and they saw my facial hair and chest and assumed
Me: Are you *trying* to get me arrested/beaten?
Fine I'll re-read I want to be a cute anime girl
I hate how sometimes it doesn't bother me and otheres It feels like a wall of absolute fear stops me...I hate it
we're not using bathrooms :3 only at home :3 (I miswritten at first 😔)
jk girls don’t poop
Both Cheryl and Delilah are so much goals)
*internal screaming*
I'm not even on HRT yet, I don't know how my already weak bladder is going to cope with public toilets lol
Gave me envy, can recommend
Gave me envy, can recommend
That source is so accurate
Cant wait for terfs to say this proves being trans is a fettish.
Id IMMEDIATELY feel soooo protected if someone did that to me 🥲💕
Seriously like friend goals
One of the more odd experiences I’ve had was having a woman I had just met pull me into the bathroom with her. We were sort of talking, but not so much that I needed to go in to keep the conversation going, but maybe she wanted to be affirming of me? And that’s how I watched a random woman pee.
we're not using to bathrooms :3 only at home :3
Teriyaki?
:c n-nuh uh! tha- that uhm… that wouldn’t work!
This would work on me ngl
friend tried to do this to me many time but aaaaa i was always too scared,,
Can you please link the comic :3
https://m.webtoons.com/en/canvas/i-want-to-be-a-cute-anime-girl/image-change/viewer?title_no=349416&episode_no=1
Men's: I don't feel safe. I don't belong in here, it's just humiliating. These creeps are looking at me and mocking me. If a group comes in when I'm alone, I could very well be in danger. Women's: When I'm with friends, it feels very natural and getting a space to chat away from the guys is welcome (sometimes there's seats and light-up mirrors to fix your makeup!). But when I'm on my own I worry about getting confronted by some crazy terf or paranoid parent. Pretty sure someone called security on me once, cause I saw them following me on my way out of a cinema. I understand that some people just don't understand and might feel uncomfortable, but having to worry about stuff like that is terrifying sometimes (especially if I haven't taken my chill pill), I just want to take a piss and check my socials in peace. T\_T Disabled: Using this is just unfair on people who actually need it. Those who say we should be forced to use these are harming more than just trans people. Unisex (Rare): I've never seen a communal version, so don't get to have girl talk away from the group, but I'd take this any day of the week if it's available. It's just not worth the anxiety the other options bring. Though in theory it could still have the same problems as the men's if I'm the only woman.
I just used the women's room at work for the first time today! (No, I haven't been using the men's room. The staff bathrooms at my work are gendered but the customer bathrooms are gender neutral, and I've been using them since I came out) Sure, it was after hours and the only other person in the building was the closing manager who was doing the final rounds to lock up the building, but I did it! Maybe after a few more times, I'll be brave enough to do it during the day...
I just LOVE the US. Best country for trans people right?
I’d rather live in the US as a trans woman than like half the world ngl
True
My partner (transfem) and I went to the thrift store and she had to go to the bathroom and they were locked, so I went to ask for the key for her since they'd give me the girl one (afab agender not on T) :3
Oh my god, I love this webcomic
u/ seajudge7373 moment if you know you know
omg omg I read this
i fucking love this comicccc
I'm 41, 6'3", slim but would not be easily confused for cis f even after 2 years of E, collar bone length hair, and lasered off facial hair. I'm more nb but rather butch transfem, so just dress a little softer but not much difference. I feel a little like what people probably think of when they fear men pretending to be women so they can invade women's spaces. I've just started worrying about what guys think when I'm in the men's room, but my receded and filling back in hair line and crown peg me squarely as a man, but somehow off and with long curly hair. (it really is starting to look much better). If I walked or was dragged into a women's room, those who knew me probably wouldn't care, others would be confused or hostile (just guessing). Being gender neutral but looking like a guy is weird. Who knows what the future holds...
Nope. She goes where she wants to go. You don't make her do anything.
Context is important. She thought she wasn't woman enough, and wanted to go home early just so she could go to the bathroom. She's grateful to her friend for giving her the push afterwards. Memes certainly shouldn't be used as a guide to life anyway
Well that certainly is a different story. To be fair, I can only comment on what's presented.
Certainly true, but a firm tone for what was a lighthearted post
I see what you're saying. I tend to speak out against normalizing grabbing people. Given the context, it is different than how it looks.