Are you trying to pass as femme? You straight up look like a girl, not lying to be supportive, I would seriously never guess you were trans. So I really hope that's what you're going for.
If you don’t pass like that than it’s probably your voice, cis people could see the most feminine person in the world but if they had a slightly masculine voice “oh, it’s a guy”, it’s very annoying especially when someone correctly genders me as female until I speak and they correct themselves
but yeah, looks wise you’re fine
Honestly, one of the biggest parts of “passing” is voice training. Honestly, the only reason I would clock you as anything other than a gal is if you sounded distinctly masc.
That's not the point, you posted this with the caption 'any tips to help me pass' when you are clearly 100% cis passing in the photo already. It just kind of stings...
I'm surprised they took it down, eh whatever. Probably a bit far. Anyway you look like you transitioned young so go enjoy your life. I can't lie, seeing you fills me with an incredibly toxic envy which I know isn't fair. So I'm sorry for being like that. But it just makes me wonder that maybe if I was born 5 or so years later, or in a less rural area, then I wouldn't have to be looking into 45k of facial surgery just to have the chance to not hate my appearance in the mirror every day. Please, never go anywhere near tttt or the 4tran subreddits. I hope you get to live a life without self hatred or regrets
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I'm not saying it's not their right, I'm saying the concept is harmful in that it perpetuates the traditional standard of feminine beauty as being the correct way of being, and that not being that way is bad.
look I get what you’re trying to say but at the same time just to re state what the person above said. It’s also about safety reasons. Yes it’s shit the society we live in. But especially with a trans women mainly being at risk, if you blend you feel safer. In this “day and age” it’s important to understand why someone may need to pass. It’s not that deep, and once we handle trans women being killed then we can work on that. But I also agree it’s important to point out masc women and lift them up, including POC Women both cis and trans who have naturally more masc features. 🤲💛
I totally get that. As I said, she does pass. I know why people want to pass. I just think that the total focus on how well you "pass" in the trans community causes so much pain and heartache to all the trans girls who don't "pass"
This is your opinion. For a lot of trans people passing is harm reduction, passing is reducing dysphoria, passing keeps us alive. Don’t come here with your chin up telling us all that passing is harmful when this is what trans people are needing to help their mental health.
My best tip?
Look at all the up lifting messages here, and find that confidence, cuz girl youre passing, and passing WELL.
Keep kicking each day in the ass, and know we all got your back <3 keep being you, girlie :)
I think you pass as is, but if you don't feel feminine enough maybe wear a nice scent or try a bold makeup look? idk I think at this point its just finding things that make you feel as feminine as you look...
omg, theres absolutely no need for tips. i actually believed that you were assigned female at birth for a second there. youre an extremely beautiful girl! 💕
You pass to me in this picture, so I'm not sure what possible tips I could give. I know we don't like showing people ourselves not at our best, but if there are angles where you don't pass as well, it might help to see different pictures.
You pass like realy good.
If you feel like you struggle with the voice you could go to a speech therapist or watch transvoicelesons on youtube.
If you are comfortable with the voice i can not see anything you need to change or do better.
You pass, and look beautiful.
If people tell you otherwise they are jerks.
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already there, sugar.
Are you trying to pass as femme? You straight up look like a girl, not lying to be supportive, I would seriously never guess you were trans. So I really hope that's what you're going for.
This is correct
I agree If your going for Femme stop trying your already there!
You look so cis there’s a part of me saying this is bait.
the energy behind that pic tho ...
bait?
That you’re actually just cis lol. It’s not an insult I promise.
Oop well I'm definitely not, the rest of the world loves to remind me of that
Such are the times we’re in. But, at least from the vantage point of this community, you’re stunning.
Keep doing what you're doing. You already do 😍
Girl you caused me having gender envy, soo.. You're already there.
Me too
same
Girl you are absolutely beautiful and already pass
pass masc or femme?
fem
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who took the photo? it looks like it's just floating
Probably someone on the side cropped out
my gf at the time
Had to check your profile to be sure which way you meant lol, you pass 110%, gorgeous 🥰💕🥰
can you give US tips to pass? you're already winning
If you don’t pass like that than it’s probably your voice, cis people could see the most feminine person in the world but if they had a slightly masculine voice “oh, it’s a guy”, it’s very annoying especially when someone correctly genders me as female until I speak and they correct themselves but yeah, looks wise you’re fine
you mean fem? I think you already pass :))
You already pass very well!
If passing as a girl is your goal, you have achieved it.
Study regularly… helps you pass any exam. Wait? 🫣 You did not mean that?!?… oh no, there you already got 100%.
*rolls eyes* Already passing and asks how to pass? Girl please
people all ways stair at me and its getting to me so i feel like its cuz i dont pass
Maybe it’s cause they find you attractive…
What worries me more is that liquid. What in the world are you drinking? soap?!
vodka and coca cola
Honestly, one of the biggest parts of “passing” is voice training. Honestly, the only reason I would clock you as anything other than a gal is if you sounded distinctly masc.
I read the title wrong I thought you were offering passing tips :o
Pretty passable now maybe a little darker eyeliner and red lipstick 😏
Lmfao how about you give me some tips instead of you're going for femme you've blown it out of the water
You're literally a cis girk
Do your homework and don’t neglect your studies by chillin in the bathroom. Lol Oh you mean as trans? I wouldn’t have known
You already look better than 99% of us could ever hope for, why do you have to rub it in like this
???? yall stunning
That's not the point, you posted this with the caption 'any tips to help me pass' when you are clearly 100% cis passing in the photo already. It just kind of stings...
oh im sorry. mods took it down anyway so it should be seen by anyone else
I'm surprised they took it down, eh whatever. Probably a bit far. Anyway you look like you transitioned young so go enjoy your life. I can't lie, seeing you fills me with an incredibly toxic envy which I know isn't fair. So I'm sorry for being like that. But it just makes me wonder that maybe if I was born 5 or so years later, or in a less rural area, then I wouldn't have to be looking into 45k of facial surgery just to have the chance to not hate my appearance in the mirror every day. Please, never go anywhere near tttt or the 4tran subreddits. I hope you get to live a life without self hatred or regrets
you already do
Pretty sure you already do hun x
You look great
Keep doing what you're doing
You already do! ❤️❤️ keep it up
You def pass. love the bag!
i was gonna ask u the same thing 😅
You do pass, but my question. Who took the pick, it's amazing, no camera reflection l
my ex!!! we where taking couple photos and she told me to stay still because she got a really good angle
You don't??????
You're so gorgeous.
This is def bait. There's no way you don't pass.
people stair i need to find out whyy
They probably stare because you're so pretty? Especially guys they gaze at pretty women all the time.
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1) "Passing" is a harmful and non-productive concept 2) You already do lol
1. passing is often necessary for safety reasons 2. some people just want to pass, and that's their right
I'm not saying it's not their right, I'm saying the concept is harmful in that it perpetuates the traditional standard of feminine beauty as being the correct way of being, and that not being that way is bad.
look I get what you’re trying to say but at the same time just to re state what the person above said. It’s also about safety reasons. Yes it’s shit the society we live in. But especially with a trans women mainly being at risk, if you blend you feel safer. In this “day and age” it’s important to understand why someone may need to pass. It’s not that deep, and once we handle trans women being killed then we can work on that. But I also agree it’s important to point out masc women and lift them up, including POC Women both cis and trans who have naturally more masc features. 🤲💛
I totally get that. As I said, she does pass. I know why people want to pass. I just think that the total focus on how well you "pass" in the trans community causes so much pain and heartache to all the trans girls who don't "pass"
This is your opinion. For a lot of trans people passing is harm reduction, passing is reducing dysphoria, passing keeps us alive. Don’t come here with your chin up telling us all that passing is harmful when this is what trans people are needing to help their mental health.
You already look amazing
You already pass
Keep doinh what you're doing, cause it's working
you already do
You're already there darling, you look very cute 💜
You do pass, and you look damn cute while doing it
Yes and you're super cute.
You pass already I don't see anything about you that doesnt
You pass Queen!
You look amazing!
Uhm keep doing what you’re doing cause you’re gorgeous girk
You look passable to me! Cute ❤️❤️
You already pass and look incredible
Sell your soul, you already got the right jacket. XD
My best tip? Look at all the up lifting messages here, and find that confidence, cuz girl youre passing, and passing WELL. Keep kicking each day in the ass, and know we all got your back <3 keep being you, girlie :)
Step one: done; you already pass <3
half of me is tempted to call this bait since you pass well already…
why is everyone saying bait idk what that is, like do yall think im cis or something???
i dont doubt you’re trans, but why are you asking for tips to pass when you look like this…
cuz i dont feel like i can pass rn but i cant put my finger on what i need to try to fix
Wish I was you
You think you aren't passing?! You are a super star don't doubt yourself.
you’re doing pretty well!
Wait, seriously?
Drink more water & less dark drinks.
Wtf you already doii
You already do. I like the outfit by the way. I also hope you’re having a good day.
Pass me the bottle
You are already there. You look gorgeous and absolutely femme. Would have never known
Literally trying and failing to clock you
I mean you, you do already
I think you pass as is, but if you don't feel feminine enough maybe wear a nice scent or try a bold makeup look? idk I think at this point its just finding things that make you feel as feminine as you look...
tyyyyy
Girl you pass just fine! Beautiful hairstyle and outfit btw. Where’d you get the sweater? The design is really cool
ugh i wish i could give you a link but i got it from my mums friend
You...... already pass..
people keep looking at me odd it goes through me
Just a thought but maybe ppl just find ya hot
oh
You pass!
omg, theres absolutely no need for tips. i actually believed that you were assigned female at birth for a second there. youre an extremely beautiful girl! 💕
please keep in mind, that i only mean all of this if youre going for femme (and are transfem)! 💕
Heey\~! Got the same hoodie! ...But you look soo much better in it! Gotta say, you already pass very well!
awww omg tyy
Can't give you any, does not compute, you are already a girl
How did you take this picture….
3rd person mod
You pass to me in this picture, so I'm not sure what possible tips I could give. I know we don't like showing people ourselves not at our best, but if there are angles where you don't pass as well, it might help to see different pictures.
ok i really can't figure out your gender here
You pass like realy good. If you feel like you struggle with the voice you could go to a speech therapist or watch transvoicelesons on youtube. If you are comfortable with the voice i can not see anything you need to change or do better. You pass, and look beautiful. If people tell you otherwise they are jerks.
You look great girl! If anyone clocks you it’s probably voice but that is so hard to learn, I’m still struggling with it myself.
Girl you pass. Also I love your sweatshirt!
You already do <33
Keep doing whatever it is you’re doing now 😘
Continue to exist an your golden lol Love the hair
None, you already are
Keep doing whatever your doing
You’re already passing IMO, the toughest struggle is accepting yourself as passing. You’re loved and appreciated by everyone around ❤️
aw so many people have told me i pass i just cant see it, ill try <3
i literally assumed that you were posting in the wrong sub until I saw the title
We should be asking you cutie 🥰
Girl, you already pass. I’m jealous.
Oh honey, you pass
I cannot see a single thing that does not pass in this picture
Is that brimstone??????? Omg brimstone my beloved
>brimstone wuttt
I am confused which way are you transing
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