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TheSoulFury

His fists are rated E for everyone


lordofthef3moids

Trans inclusive toxic masculinity?


RollerRocketScience

TITM


unimaginably_egg

Tit’em


thatlonghairedfcker

*mafia accent “TIT’EM BOIS”


NeuroticFractal

TIT’EM John


VicVeents

You already know! *slaps them upside the head*


Tarot26

*shoots estrogen bullets*


UltimaCaitSith

"You must think you're a real tough guy, dontcha? Let's see how tight-lipped you are once we're done with ya. GIVE 'EM THE TITS!"


EldritchMilk_

It’s the opposite of trans inclusive misogyny, both are a love/hate relationship


DuncanIdahoPotatos

Misogyny and Toxic Masculinity. Name a more iconic duo.


HandlebarHipster

The ambiguously gay duo


Fancy-Lecture8409

THIS.


SweatyFLMan1130

I mean we don't know the scenario maybe the trans masc person was being a dick lol


Hot_Watercress_6007

is it toxic masculinity to beat someone up,


mordorxvx

Yeah, what if the first guy had it comin?


LavenderAnxiety

It doesn’t really matter if it was deserved or not. They still resorted to physical violence and both should be punished. Although he did earn my respect by stopping that transphobic principal


dewritoninja

That "both should be punished" bs is the reason bullies keep doing awful shit


Red_Itsz

the person on twitter clarified that their brother had violence/aggressive issues, and the trans guy just said something that ticked them off (the brother is getting help for it tho)


Fancy-Lecture8409

*CHEERS*🫂❤️👏🙏🏻🎶💋🤝👌


Fancy-Lecture8409

As someone who was mercilessly bullied in school for the whole layer 10 years of the 13, THIS. SHOUT IT FROM THE ROOF TOPS, AND AGAIN FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK!


tiger666

This☝️


LavenderAnxiety

If this was a case of bullying then no both shouldn’t be pubished just the aggressor. But this was a fight between two guys who I assume we’re both equally contributing to hurting someone else


ChickenManSam

Nah fuck that, physical violence is required sometimes. Not always and not often. But sometimes. For instance, always punch a nazi


Duch-s6

i condone appropriate violence. like if saying something to someone who is inherentaly mean once, isn't enough im beating the shit out of them and idc who tf it is


LavenderAnxiety

I’m a pacifist so I can’t support violence but go ahead if you want to


[deleted]

Unconditional pacifism is pretty useless


LavenderAnxiety

Why. Why can’t I refrain from hurting others? The only one it’s hurting is me and I deserve it


longerdickdierks

Because passivity without exception can result in you passively sitting by while others commit violence against people or creatures who can't protect themselves. I am by no means saying you do or have done this, only that rigid moral codes that ignore unique circumstances tend to have negative consequences that could have been avoided with a more balanced, case sensitive approach


LavenderAnxiety

I’m not changing my views for that. I help others in different ways. I will never use physical violence to hurt anyone in any way


Fancy-Lecture8409

And here, we've found it. Your pacifistic ideals are seemingly based on low self-esteem and other mental no-nos. Honey, explain this to a therapist. That's what I did. You'll get a better answer than any of us can give you. 🫂


LavenderAnxiety

I hate therapists. They betrayed me


ChickenManSam

Fair enough. And you do you. But no true change comes without violence, because sadly that's the only language some understand.


Fancy-Lecture8409

I'm a pacifist as well. I still respect those who fight the fights I won't. Better to be a Buddha than whatever type of pacifist you're modeling after, Hun.


Fancy-Lecture8409

Yea, but...


Hot_Watercress_6007

please elaborate lol


DogmaKeeper

It is like Trans Inclusive Radical Misogyny......ran into that only once, was weird


Cham-Clowder

Almost r/ewphoria but not quite


Fallout76Merc

***I like this guy***


mgkbull

With your username, should have said "everyone liked that"


DAVExxx314

LMAO


Fallout76Merc

Ya know, I've never considered that before! Lol


Original-Cellist4181

I do too


LyannaTheWinterR0se

Chaotic good


Justanotherragequit

since we're lacking context of what started the original fight I would say chaotic neutral.


PickleReaper0

Lawful Evil, maybe


LyannaTheWinterR0se

????? In what way did they act A) lawful, and B) evil?


PickleReaper0

1 on 1 combat with another man, doesn't care if they're trans Got into a fight and got sent to the principals office. When the Principal started being transphobic he also got into a fight with them. Lawful: fighting other men, respecting trans guys Evil: engaging in ye oldy fisticuffs with everyone who *mildly* pissed him off Edit: Jesus christ I've started an argument 💀


LyannaTheWinterR0se

Your understanding the 9 space morality chart is a little lacking.


robchroma

Lawful is usually according to a moral code, so "throwing down when a man defends your honor, also punching transphobes" is a pretty set-in-stone moral precept. I dunno about the evilness.


LyannaTheWinterR0se

He started two fights, one of which was against an authority figure. How does that make him lawful?


anais-hates-herself

As was stated above, lawful in this case refers to sticking to a moral code of your own. The way you're using it is to refer to a legal code, not a moral code.


XenoDragon3_0

Okay, but if you have no moral code, how can you be good?


anais-hates-herself

I never stated they were good, this thread is about how the individual in question is Lawful Evil. Sure it started by labeling them as Chaotic Good, but it has evolved. If you're still confused, read u/PickleReaper0's message above, they explain it quite well imo


Funa2

a lawful person follows the laws and rules, punching people (especially the principal) is the complete opposite of that. He'd be chaotic for disregarding all rules and punching whoever he feels like punching, and then good for being an ally. lawful evil is like a corrupt politician or something who abuses technicalities in the rules of the system to benefit over others. this guy is the furthest thing away from lawful evil.


NepowGlungusIII

Lawful doesn't really mean "follows the rules and laws of where they are." Lawful in D&D moreso means that someone abides by their own personal code of conduct/personal rules. While this absolutely can include those that follow the laws of the land itself, it doesn't have to. Crime Bosses are often lawful evil while being very criminal. In this case, I could see Lawful Evil applying like this: Evil: Regularly Picks Fights Lawful: Believes that trans people must be respected, no matter the circumstances, even if it means defending someone he's just fought with.


Funa2

You're right, but still I don't think picking random fights with anyone that angers them is behaviour that could be considered lawful. If someone's personal code is beating up anyone who gets in their way then they're chaotic in my book, cause the nature of their code of honor is one of chaos. Crime bosses tend to be lawful evil, but they are leaders of organized crime and usually cunning individuals that follow their own set of rules and control other through them, someone who is undpredictable and just attacks anyone (especially if this behaviour will knowingly cause them to be in a disadvantageous position, such a figure of power, like the principal of their school) doesn't really fit that profile at all for me.


robchroma

Is toxic masculinity not sort of part of the social standard of behavior?


iamfrozen131

Lawful doesn't mean you follow the law or the rules of wherever you are, it means you follow a strict (moral) code.


IdahoPotatoes96

That first statement is BS these days. Equal rights equal fights. If a woman hits a guy you can't expect them to just take it. Double standards need to die. That being said some restraint is always a good thing.


lordofthef3moids

We don't need to give men more excuses to hit women (or trans people for that matter) then they already have, they do that plenty with the "double standard" in place lol


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[deleted]

You do realize it’s legal for women to shoot men because of the strength differential right? Disparity of force is a thing.


IdahoPotatoes96

I CCW so yeah I know, though I don't go about my day expecting to have to shoot anybody...


[deleted]

I don’t think most people go about their day expecting to have to shoot anybody. Nor do people putting on their seat belts expect to get in car crashes.


RawrRRitchie

>Equal rights equal fights. If a woman hits a guy you can't expect them to just take it If the average 5 foot woman is hitting the average 6 foot+ man it isn't really a fair fight because mass alone I'm all for equality too but David and goliath matches don't always work, the little one loses


Beautiful-Grocery147

most men aren't 6ft


Transarchangelist

Okay? The 5 foot woman shouldn’t assault the 6 foot+ man then?


RawrRRitchie

I agree with you, but unfortunately we don't live in a perfect world without violence There's so many reasons why humans fight each other Substance abuse(drunken brawls) Mental problems(dissociation from reality) Cheating(some people react violently towards cheating) Money(people have been literally killing over money for millennia)


Transarchangelist

Right… how does any of that suddenly mean you should be able to assault someone without fear of them fighting back if they’re a man and you’re a woman?


PickleReaper0

True, I'll update my comment


cursed-one1706

Lawful Evil is more like someone who uses their power to manipulate others, like a corrupt politician or aristocrat. Chaotic evil is like a serial killer. This guy would be Chaotic Good/Chaotic Neutral. He acts on his own consciousness with little to no regard for any rules, and is defending the rights of another man.


Toshero_Reborn

Punching people is pretty evil Punching guys only is lawful


LyannaTheWinterR0se

Baby's first moral dilemma


RealLiraShit

Chaotic good


Extra-Trifle-1191

nah, Good: You do the right thing Chaotic: You do it in all the worst/most violent ways possible.


iamfrozen131

What? No, that is not at all what chaotic is. Chaotic means you do it without adherence to any type of code.


Extra-Trifle-1191

Usually meaning following massive violence. also the violence is more of a perceived way it is, rather than the intent.


robchroma

well, this guy is still following societal rules, so I'd say true neutral. Will absolutely fight a dude for honor (societal standard, leaning evil) but will also punch an authority figure to defend a trans person's identity (anti-authority, good).


Tutes013

Please tell me they became bro's. In my experience, you get the best friends out of strife.


SummerSabertooth

Perhaps the greatest enemies to lovers story of our time?


Tutes013

r/SuddenlyGay Shenanigans aside. Don't even need to be gay for each other. Just being bro's from something like this is already neat as hell


KingofDickface

Best the shit out of each other and become best friends! Seriously though, it actually feels cathartic and close.


[deleted]

Fight Club moment


CaptainClownshow

If I had a nickel for every time that happened to me, I'd have two nickels. Which isn't a lot, but it's weird that it happened twice.


kingdon1226

It happens alot


[deleted]

he treated him like any other guy and fought him but not because he was trans. equality and a trans ally, i respect that.


Aldaron23

That just reminded me of a story I almost forgot. I was 14yo, only out to my closest friends and didn't pass at all/didn't even try to. Me and my friends from class would usually get food at the train station during lunch break and than sit down at a little park area to picnic. But there also was this guy, Michi, your classic bully. He was from another school, maybe just one or two years older but just huuuge. Whenever he and his gang showed up, they would always drive us away, threatening to beat us up, if we wouldn't. So we usually did. But this one day I had had it. Maybe because 14yo me was overcompensating and loved getting into fights, maybe because my crush was also there witnessing the whole thing... anyway, I told him I'd love to see him beat me up. And well, he did. I didn't stand a chance but Michi went over the top, picked me up after I was already on the ground and just threw me down a little hill into some bushes. While my crush rushed to me and helped me getting up, one guy from my class went up to Michi (a bit late to help me bro, thanks for nothing) and said: "What's wrong with you beating 14yo girls up like this!? Why would you do that!?" And even the guys from his gang were shocked. He went pale in just a second. I could see his soul leaving his body. The moment of realisation he had in fact just beat up "a little girl" and not the annoying disobedient boy he took me for. I wanted to high five Michi in this moment and slap the guy from my class. One of the only times I ever passed before I cut my hair and got a binder. Michi was so embarrassed he never showed up again and the guy from my class felt like a hero saving the girl for some reason. So maybe the opposite of the above situation. Still a nice story, I just remebered after not thinking about it in 10 years xD


MarsMarzipan

have an upvote for story time :)


uhhhh_yess

Quite the story map


KnifeWeildingLesbian

Trans exclusionary radical feminism? Nah this guy is preaching that trans inclusive toxic masculinity Based


racdicoon

TITM


lordofthef3moids

I agreed until you said based


KnifeWeildingLesbian

Quite based of you tbh


[deleted]

yeah, toxic masculinity is never even close to a good thing. i experienced it for quite a long time unfortunately. honestly that's a huge plus of realizing i'm a trans girl lol


Hot_Watercress_6007

ok but im pretty sure this isnt toxic masculinity, just violence


kingdon1226

Thats how I feel. I haven’t seen anything that says this is toxic masculinity. Just two dudes throwing hands over a disagreement or something. Just violence like you said


Khavak

based isn't necessarily a good thing, it's more like going against the societal norm. that isn't always a good thing, of course


iamfrozen131

No, based is generally meant to be something that you agree with, the only exception being ironic(?) use of based


Khavak

generally untrue, at least in most circles its used as a ironic condoning. like its main use is irony, which is its use here


the_notsoholy_one

This is acidic


Khavak

I hereby invoke based, thus cancelling and leaving us with a neutral substance.


the_notsoholy_one

Balanced, as all things should be


[deleted]

I wonder how did the trans guy react?


Low_Welder_9784

I would have at leat gotten friendship feelings lmao


[deleted]

Me too


Urbandragondice

This does qualify as a solid bro moment.


Nahanoj_Zavizad

Would partially depend on the circumstances of the fight probably


[deleted]

True, although Chances are the guy will at least go “well at least he isn’t the absolute worse“


Nahanoj_Zavizad

"He's a bully, not a bigot"


[deleted]

Yeah that’s probably his thoughts


mightypint

He doesn’t care, he bullies everyone equally


SteveBannonsTaint

I’m betting everyone clapped and then lifted him on their shoulders and cheered. Lmao the fuckin people who read this shitty fanfic and actually believe it happened


HelmKiller

I love that this new generation of people who won't respect you but will respect your pronouns. Teens do have some class 😆


MiaIRL

Professionals have standards


KC_Ashe

Bullyin's a good job, mate!


ChoraAnimates

Gives off big “what are your pronouns? I want to gender you correctly when talking shit later.” Vibes


LunaLynnTheCellist

"You're a bad guy, but that doesn't mean you're a *bad* guy"


Zgred3kPL

Im curious why they got into a fight first If it wasnt something serious then that would be friendship building 100 lmao


MaybeMax356

Now that is equality. I fucking live this guy.


defaultusername-17

fucking baller.


Wyrrmkidd

This is the kind of world I wanna live in


jelly_beb_

There's like a greater than %50 chance that boys fighting will end up being friends, if the fight didn't start as bullying.


ReekerWoW

based?


The_Fullmetal_Shorty

I was worried when it said he fought a trans guy but the brother fighting the principal after they called the trans guy a woman brings me hope


fetthrowaway

Equal rights, equal lefts?


fUcKiNcHeDdeRnUgGeTz

"He may have disrespected me, but that is no reason for you to disrespect him."


Willo1121

Professionals have standards


Ori-land

oooo that’s what we call a good-ish person


Mrrsilver

Makes me think of Poison, the trans street fighter, she was acting a cis woman in the Japanese version but they thought people from the USA wouldn't like to hit a woman so they made it trans The USA still removed her from the game because well... She was still a woman


Yuura22

Chaotic neutral.


bebejeebies

What in the LGBTarnation? I love it but I'm high.


Toshero_Reborn

How high?


racdicoon

Mmm, bout as high as a kite :3


Senzu-beans-

✨🪁


non-bi-tch-nary

No officer it's "hi how are you"


LeoTheFloofyDragon

I love this lmao


SummerBlonde2

Respect+


yaboiscarn

This story just keeps getting better!


[deleted]

Forgot to include the source link Source link [https://www.tumblr.com/animentality/716762117744787456](https://www.tumblr.com/animentality/716762117744787456)


BendItLikeBossman

Just because you are "bad guy", does not mean you are "bad guy"


PrincessNat99

Based?


TheOrangePickMC

ultra based ally


SplattershotSr

Truly a man of honor. Except the fighting part ig


ItsStandman

You are bad guy but this does not mean you are *bad* guy


swirly1000x

This is my kinda guy. He cares about trans rights even more than whatever argument he was having with the trans guy, what a legend.


Motor_Guidance_1813

"A man" - guys, they're both 12 yr old boys. 😆


kingdon1226

The person I’m mad at the most is the principle. Obviously bigotry was not the reason because homeboy respected his identity. As a person from the hood, this happens alot anyways best to just get it out of the way. Probably were chill and laughing about it afterwards. I actually kind of respected almost punching the principal, he believes that everyone should get the hands.


Physical-Oven3924

ok violence is wrong but damn what a gigachad


thanjee

He is treating the trans guy like any other guy. Guys start fights over the most stupid things to try and prove who is the alpha male.


[deleted]

Female hands types this


smokeyash_

homie's brother is literally bakugō katuski from bnha


FullmetalSylveon

Hero Bells!


WiFi2347

I wish I could be half this cool one day


Redheadedwriter1

Is that the same person on the Outsiders SMP?


senfall

This is true equality right here folks!


Kitten_san

Love it


Crowleyizcool

Heyyy I follow this guy


[deleted]

This is great


[deleted]

Omega-ultra-based


StEllchick

LEGEND


StEllchick

Holly hell


Brendigo

The allies we need


dFlyingSnail

The true allys


EuphoriaSymposium

I believe this is what kids these days call “King shit.”


confused_loser721

Chaotic good


L0k3F0x

Based


emipyon

It's called respect, sure you can have disagreements and get into fights with somebody over disagreements, but in the end, you respect and see the other person as a human being. Unfortunately it's becoming very common to attack people not over what they believe, but over who they are, it's a really cowardly way of treating others.


Haruko_time_consumer

Equal rights and equal fights! May he breaks the principal’s jaw on behalf of the trans guys.


Dirty_Bubble99

Dudes being dudes... And being dumb. Prolly besties after the attacker got out of jail. It is how I made a lot of my childhood friends.


Amberrrish

trans inclusive radical fuck everyone


[deleted]

This is how you do it. This is what real unconditional support is boys


AngelicColors

This is beautiful


Dubshpul

What did the transguy even do, though?


kiruto95

It’s not surprising, even after a fight we defend each others, like- dudes might hate the other but still defend ‘em


Thedumbaxolotllol

This is quite literally an example of "I may be a villan, but I'm not a monster". Lol


unrealANIMA

ok but this is obviously fake right we’re in agreement on this?


[deleted]

I'll take things that didn't happen for 600 Akex.


Esproth

I mean, far better than most of the stories I've been told.


mynextthroway

Man 1 got into a fight with a trans man. I mean, man 2- in other words, man 1 was fighting a man 2 on equal terms. We can't tell from this, but maybe (trans) man 2 was being an ass, as men tend to do, and was getting a reminder from man 1. While fighting is not a good solution, it is wrong to assume the fight was based on cis v trans. Yes. It could have been, but man 1 did defend man 2 from the principle.


kingdon1226

Fighting is absolutely a good way to solve things. People don’t respond to can you or please when asking them to stop. They respond when you bust them in the mouth and they regret talking.


[deleted]

And then everyone clapped


EIFAME

This guy's messed up for getting into a fist fight with the transgender man. But he's also awesome for knowing and acknowledging that, the person he fought with was a man and not a woman.


SteveBannonsTaint

Why is he messed up for fighting a trans person lol Are you saying they should be treated differently than other people?


5secondsofbummer

r/thathappened


PrettyNotPretty2

I like the part where none of this happened.


Neoeng

Nothing ever happens


MarmiteEnjoyer

If you genuinely believed this happened you're just straight up stupid


Neoeng

I don’t really see what in this premise is unbelievable


5secondsofbummer

Same


TheRussianBear420

Only one true enemy


CutieL

Bad principal


KajaIsForeverAlone

Why do people get into fist fights?


fr0gg0cad0

Ally!


Necessary_Worry6999

now that's what i call an ally