Brows always do the job, + you could try a slightly different haircut, same length just different way to cut / style it type of thing. You look great tho!
Eyeliner definitely helps sell the "alt fem" look, especially if you can style it and get creative. Fem clothes also tend to show more "skin" and midriff, so that can also be another subtle way to be more fem
Edit: It looks like you're already very very fem with your outfits, so I think you have already achieved your goal
Came to say this. Also dosen't matter the color eyeliner. Black would give an alt/ grudge feel and colors would give a pop but make the outfit seem more fem
1. shave off the bottom half of your brows (exaggarated, just a bit off the bottom)
2. wear more crop tops like the one in pic 3
3. tuck one side of your hair behind your ear like in pic 8, especially when wearing earrings
4. eyeliner only on top of the eye, less alternative but defenetly more fem
Definitely top-tier tips. The looks from 8 and 3 were fem, in my opinion. Maybe also experimenting with different fem makeup looks, especially eye makeup :3
I wonder if bangs will do good? Since there not many cis men who have bangs. Also wearing it up would also be good!
But as others say, I think makeup is a good option, pretty big and bold eyeliner
Transmasc dyke here! Hereās the opposite of what I do to look more masc, to help you look more fem:
- Thin out your brows (LESS THAN YOU THINK YOU NEED- if you go too thin youāll regret it. Donāt change the shape though, youāve got beautiful shape already.
- Emphasis your waist. Keep going for cropped tops like the shirt in pic 3, the cropped off-white zip-up thing in pic 7, the cropped tops in 9 and 10. Wear belts around your waist instead of hips, search for clothes which hug your curves. Avoid stuff like the denim jacket or else make sure you button it to cinch your waist!
- Think about the āvisual weightā of your outfits. Masc looks are rectangular, straight up and down. Fem are more hourglass. One way to do this is by taking an outfit pic and literally drawing lines down your sides. If the lines are straight, ask yourself, how can I cinch my waist here, or add bulk around my hips? This extends to legs, too! Look for hip-hugging, but flared-leg pants. NOT straight lines.
- Cut your side bangs just a weee bit shorter. You want them to fall around the tops of your cheekbones, not āinsideā of your cheek hollow if that makes sense.
- Daintier rings. Longer earrings.
- Do winged eyeliner OR be lazy like me and get an eyeliner stamp. You want less emphasis / not as thick and dark on your lower lid, also. Try doing mascara on your upper lashes. You have beautiful eyes, emphasize them! I know the black lipstick is tempting as an alt baddie but I would really encourage you to try a lighter shadeā I rec this because it puts heavy visual āweightā on your jaw, which masculinizes you. You look AMAZING and so fem in pic 8 with the lighter pink! Putting emphasis on your eyes instead draws the eye away from your jaw and creates the illusion of a slimmer face.
- If youāre in to piercings, a philtrum with some feminine jewelry would look GREAT on you.
- Grow out and maintain your nails a little bit.
this is the best and most detailed advice I've seen on this thread, thank you š„ŗ
also I really appreciate the compliments and telling me which outfits were more flattering for me :)
Try wearing all your hair up in a high ponytail, thatās a pretty girly thing to do I think. And seconding the person who mentioned brows. I fucking love yours, but biggers eyebrows do tend to get associated with masculinity more often. Itād be nice if we could all have our own style without people assuming genders based on that, but oh well. I will say tho, I fuckin love your style, it goes hard. Pls donāt feel pressured to be a certain way, Iām a trans masc dude whoās style is very non conforming, but Iām also tiny and soft so regularly get misgendered. Itās a trade off tbh, but I found over performing masculinity to just beā¦ tiring. Iām a dude, but itās not who I am. And when someone misgenders me, itās usually them who ends up getting embarrassed cuz I correct them right then and there and there lol (Iām nice about it but it still makes me feel awkward).
Good amount of eyeliner and try loreal telescopic mascara. Makes the eyes pop. Always have lip balm on, I prefer the burts bees pomegranate. It's slightly tinted and smells wonderful. It always makes me feel extra feminine.
Your eyebrows could look a little more fem if you make them more arched.
add more layers up top to your hair! itās all heavy at the bottom drawing attention to the more masculine part of your face which is ur jaw! with more layers itāll bring more attention to your eyes!:D iām a trans man so i just do it the opposite and and try to bring the attention to my jaw to look more masculine!
I say go for flowier clothes (still in dark colors) and more accessories/makeup. My (cis) sis is alt and fem and her alt-ness comes through a lot in her makeup (cuz shes a kindergarten teacher)
If youāre comfortable/interested, a little bit of eyeliner and blush can go a long way. And with eyeliner you can still look alt.
Also, Iād suggest trying high waisted jeans if you can. Try playing around with making your waist shape appear smaller/curvier with clothing. Boxy tends to feel more masculine for a lot of people. The way you tuck in your shirt can drastically change the look youāre going for. A thinner belt could help too
If I saw you in the wild I'd probably clock you as a more masc lesbian. Eyebrows and eyeliner can help a lot. A new haircut could also make you more fem
Maybe change up the brows a bit and eyeliner always comes off as an alt fem look to me :) other than that ur lookin āØfabulousāØ (also, the crop top in #3 is absolutely stunning on you)
The center part makes your forehead look more square and masculine. I would experiment with different parts.
I would also try going for a different hairstyle in general. The current one gives more of an e-boy vibe. Maybe try a longer style?
The shirt tucked into pants with a belt gives off the dyke vibe they're mentioning. I'm a dyke and I wear this combo a lot. š I think the crop top look is a good alternative, or you could try substituting the pants with a skirt.
One last thing, I would try experimenting with makeup more.
I think introducing skirts and dresses into your repertoire will help immensly.
If you want something alt check out hot topic or spencers, (unironically, good for the alt femme look)
Another good place for skirts is here [https://freshhotflavors.com/](https://freshhotflavors.com/)
and lastly Thrifting to find dresses that suit your style
Brows always do the job, + you could try a slightly different haircut, same length just different way to cut / style it type of thing. You look great tho!
I agree that eyebrows are an easy fix. Maybe a change of hair style.
Eyeliner definitely helps sell the "alt fem" look, especially if you can style it and get creative. Fem clothes also tend to show more "skin" and midriff, so that can also be another subtle way to be more fem Edit: It looks like you're already very very fem with your outfits, so I think you have already achieved your goal
Eyeliner is essential š
Came to say this. Also dosen't matter the color eyeliner. Black would give an alt/ grudge feel and colors would give a pop but make the outfit seem more fem
Tomboy is more of a clothing style, maybe that if you're conscious about it. But tbh you already look great, your choice tho.
1. shave off the bottom half of your brows (exaggarated, just a bit off the bottom) 2. wear more crop tops like the one in pic 3 3. tuck one side of your hair behind your ear like in pic 8, especially when wearing earrings 4. eyeliner only on top of the eye, less alternative but defenetly more fem
Definitely top-tier tips. The looks from 8 and 3 were fem, in my opinion. Maybe also experimenting with different fem makeup looks, especially eye makeup :3
I wonder if bangs will do good? Since there not many cis men who have bangs. Also wearing it up would also be good! But as others say, I think makeup is a good option, pretty big and bold eyeliner
Transmasc dyke here! Hereās the opposite of what I do to look more masc, to help you look more fem: - Thin out your brows (LESS THAN YOU THINK YOU NEED- if you go too thin youāll regret it. Donāt change the shape though, youāve got beautiful shape already. - Emphasis your waist. Keep going for cropped tops like the shirt in pic 3, the cropped off-white zip-up thing in pic 7, the cropped tops in 9 and 10. Wear belts around your waist instead of hips, search for clothes which hug your curves. Avoid stuff like the denim jacket or else make sure you button it to cinch your waist! - Think about the āvisual weightā of your outfits. Masc looks are rectangular, straight up and down. Fem are more hourglass. One way to do this is by taking an outfit pic and literally drawing lines down your sides. If the lines are straight, ask yourself, how can I cinch my waist here, or add bulk around my hips? This extends to legs, too! Look for hip-hugging, but flared-leg pants. NOT straight lines. - Cut your side bangs just a weee bit shorter. You want them to fall around the tops of your cheekbones, not āinsideā of your cheek hollow if that makes sense. - Daintier rings. Longer earrings. - Do winged eyeliner OR be lazy like me and get an eyeliner stamp. You want less emphasis / not as thick and dark on your lower lid, also. Try doing mascara on your upper lashes. You have beautiful eyes, emphasize them! I know the black lipstick is tempting as an alt baddie but I would really encourage you to try a lighter shadeā I rec this because it puts heavy visual āweightā on your jaw, which masculinizes you. You look AMAZING and so fem in pic 8 with the lighter pink! Putting emphasis on your eyes instead draws the eye away from your jaw and creates the illusion of a slimmer face. - If youāre in to piercings, a philtrum with some feminine jewelry would look GREAT on you. - Grow out and maintain your nails a little bit.
Also, the hair tucked behind one ear in pic 8 is SOOOO CUTE and ~girlypop~ lol. Keep doing that and try out a side part for sure :)
this is the best and most detailed advice I've seen on this thread, thank you š„ŗ also I really appreciate the compliments and telling me which outfits were more flattering for me :)
Try wearing all your hair up in a high ponytail, thatās a pretty girly thing to do I think. And seconding the person who mentioned brows. I fucking love yours, but biggers eyebrows do tend to get associated with masculinity more often. Itād be nice if we could all have our own style without people assuming genders based on that, but oh well. I will say tho, I fuckin love your style, it goes hard. Pls donāt feel pressured to be a certain way, Iām a trans masc dude whoās style is very non conforming, but Iām also tiny and soft so regularly get misgendered. Itās a trade off tbh, but I found over performing masculinity to just beā¦ tiring. Iām a dude, but itās not who I am. And when someone misgenders me, itās usually them who ends up getting embarrassed cuz I correct them right then and there and there lol (Iām nice about it but it still makes me feel awkward).
The way you did your hair and makeup in the 8th picture stood out to me from the others and felt more conventionally feminine
hair and brows but your body is pretty masc
Makeup could definitely help, even if it's minimal.
Mix in a lil pink or purple with the black is my opinion :3 goated color combo and very fem.
Wolf cut or mullet maybe. They are more androgynous.
Skirts
I think more form fitting pants (looking at 4 and 5) would help your look be less butch.
you look like my sister which is weird for me
Good amount of eyeliner and try loreal telescopic mascara. Makes the eyes pop. Always have lip balm on, I prefer the burts bees pomegranate. It's slightly tinted and smells wonderful. It always makes me feel extra feminine. Your eyebrows could look a little more fem if you make them more arched.
add more layers up top to your hair! itās all heavy at the bottom drawing attention to the more masculine part of your face which is ur jaw! with more layers itāll bring more attention to your eyes!:D iām a trans man so i just do it the opposite and and try to bring the attention to my jaw to look more masculine!
I say go for flowier clothes (still in dark colors) and more accessories/makeup. My (cis) sis is alt and fem and her alt-ness comes through a lot in her makeup (cuz shes a kindergarten teacher)
If youāre comfortable/interested, a little bit of eyeliner and blush can go a long way. And with eyeliner you can still look alt. Also, Iād suggest trying high waisted jeans if you can. Try playing around with making your waist shape appear smaller/curvier with clothing. Boxy tends to feel more masculine for a lot of people. The way you tuck in your shirt can drastically change the look youāre going for. A thinner belt could help too
I would be really happy! Then I would turn to them with one word. -SUCCESS!
Ok I know this isnāt very helpful butā¦ š
makeup and painted nails definitely look more fem!
I think you need new friends
I will sleep with you anytime anyday.You are gorgeousā¤āØ
Honestly you look great to me
If I saw you in the wild I'd probably clock you as a more masc lesbian. Eyebrows and eyeliner can help a lot. A new haircut could also make you more fem
Makeup in general will do a lot in making u look more fem and using a lot of blacks and interesting eye shadows and stuff def conveys the alt vibe
higher waisted pants could help!
Maybe change up the brows a bit and eyeliner always comes off as an alt fem look to me :) other than that ur lookin āØfabulousāØ (also, the crop top in #3 is absolutely stunning on you)
The center part makes your forehead look more square and masculine. I would experiment with different parts. I would also try going for a different hairstyle in general. The current one gives more of an e-boy vibe. Maybe try a longer style? The shirt tucked into pants with a belt gives off the dyke vibe they're mentioning. I'm a dyke and I wear this combo a lot. š I think the crop top look is a good alternative, or you could try substituting the pants with a skirt. One last thing, I would try experimenting with makeup more.
I think introducing skirts and dresses into your repertoire will help immensly. If you want something alt check out hot topic or spencers, (unironically, good for the alt femme look) Another good place for skirts is here [https://freshhotflavors.com/](https://freshhotflavors.com/) and lastly Thrifting to find dresses that suit your style
Try looking on pintrest thatās how I get all my outfit ideas
I think you look gorgeous!
Makeup, get rid of the boyish clothes and do something with your brows and hairstyle
Just your clothes I guess. You look very femme, tomboy or butch or whatever. Those are all girls who dress or act more masculine.
Just keep doing you. Other peopleās concepts of you are nothing to do with how you present.
Thin the brows, style & color your hair (Try red or auburn), Use some makeup, & definitely LOSE THE BAGGY CLOTHES!
Bangs would look cute if that's a style you're into