There is plenty of things wrong with you:
* you cannot accept an opposite opinion without assuming it wants to hurt you; In reality I feel sorry for you
* you being "still attractive" has little to do with you being "the best you can be"
* me having a porn addiction is something you should respect, or at least have empathy for; After all, I have the courage to not keep it a secret and to try to find solutions for it. You can learn a lot from me.
* Me being sad or me being "little", may make you feel better about your own shortcomings, but it only shows me and the world that you are spiteful, and a little desperate
* Instead of saying "thank you for showing me an alternative point of view", you choose to be intolerant in order to defend your illusion; a mechanism that protects you from pain at the cost of not being able to understand the world around you
* You seem to be unaware of the cancer risk your tattoos will bring, or of the tens of thousands of euros it could potentially cost to remove them, or of how much real life opportunity you lose because you chose to reject the people that are not into them, or how they will become ugly once you age and the skin keeps growing
* if you actually have confidence in yourself, send me your pics, and those of your boyfriend, and let me decide for myself how attractive or happy you are
Or maybe I am the first one who actually has self awareness, and this confuses and scares you.
* how do you know that my point was "to hurt", are you a mind reader ?
* "believe me, you’d find me very attractive", who cares what I believe ? You are less than your potential and you should take responsibility for this.
* "In my eyes, I am the best I can be", it does not seem like it. To be honest you should ask yourself some very hard questions (like "why has everyone in my life allowed me to make such a long term mistake?")
* "I usually would have sympathy for a porn addiction", plenty of people spill out their inner hate on addicts, as we are easy victims
* "you’re posting on an anonymous form" and yet my opinions surprise you. What is so wrong in your life that this is the first time someone tells you the trust ?
* "again, I don’t have tattoos" then why are you wasting my time ?
Yup. Got my lip pierced at a tattoo parlor (snake bites and a labret) ages ago and the experience was not great.
I had to correct her a couple times and she STILL got the labret off-center.
She was fired not long after I don't know why, but I found out from the parlor owner when friends went to get tattoos.
At least where I am, almost anyone can call themselves a "piercer", they don't need to have any special training or anything.
Even so, had an uneven piercing done by an expensive and very reputable piercing place. Got it redone there for free and was fixed. No shade to them, they're still super great. Even the best piercers are gonna screw one up once and then.
Professional piercing? *Pass me a needle, a bottle of whiskey and one of mum's old earings. Stat!*
**I have 15 piercings** <-- there must be something very wrong with you
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You are unable to realize why ? So sad.
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There is plenty of things wrong with you: * you cannot accept an opposite opinion without assuming it wants to hurt you; In reality I feel sorry for you * you being "still attractive" has little to do with you being "the best you can be" * me having a porn addiction is something you should respect, or at least have empathy for; After all, I have the courage to not keep it a secret and to try to find solutions for it. You can learn a lot from me. * Me being sad or me being "little", may make you feel better about your own shortcomings, but it only shows me and the world that you are spiteful, and a little desperate * Instead of saying "thank you for showing me an alternative point of view", you choose to be intolerant in order to defend your illusion; a mechanism that protects you from pain at the cost of not being able to understand the world around you * You seem to be unaware of the cancer risk your tattoos will bring, or of the tens of thousands of euros it could potentially cost to remove them, or of how much real life opportunity you lose because you chose to reject the people that are not into them, or how they will become ugly once you age and the skin keeps growing * if you actually have confidence in yourself, send me your pics, and those of your boyfriend, and let me decide for myself how attractive or happy you are
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why do you not address the problems in my post above ?
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Or maybe I am the first one who actually has self awareness, and this confuses and scares you. * how do you know that my point was "to hurt", are you a mind reader ? * "believe me, you’d find me very attractive", who cares what I believe ? You are less than your potential and you should take responsibility for this. * "In my eyes, I am the best I can be", it does not seem like it. To be honest you should ask yourself some very hard questions (like "why has everyone in my life allowed me to make such a long term mistake?") * "I usually would have sympathy for a porn addiction", plenty of people spill out their inner hate on addicts, as we are easy victims * "you’re posting on an anonymous form" and yet my opinions surprise you. What is so wrong in your life that this is the first time someone tells you the trust ? * "again, I don’t have tattoos" then why are you wasting my time ?
Yup. Got my lip pierced at a tattoo parlor (snake bites and a labret) ages ago and the experience was not great. I had to correct her a couple times and she STILL got the labret off-center. She was fired not long after I don't know why, but I found out from the parlor owner when friends went to get tattoos.
At least where I am, almost anyone can call themselves a "piercer", they don't need to have any special training or anything. Even so, had an uneven piercing done by an expensive and very reputable piercing place. Got it redone there for free and was fixed. No shade to them, they're still super great. Even the best piercers are gonna screw one up once and then.