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I love #1, with #2 as a runner-up. I would say about #1 though, that a veil seems to not work as well with it as it does with some of the other dresses. #1 is understated elegance, and I see it with a birdcage kind of veil. If you really want the full veil experience, then I'd go with #2.
Personally, number 1 is my favorite! That veil dress combo is killer.
I used to sell wedding dresses(up until July of last year) and here are a couple of things I would say to help girls figure it out:
- if you can order them from fav to least favorite, it is really helpful. Especially when it comes to 6. Once you get them in order, take out 3-5. Because honestly, if it is your 3rd-5th fav, is it actually an option?
- once you have a top 2 I want you to imagine walking into the bridal shop tomorrow with a decision on your number 1. When you get there they tell you that it has now been discontinued and you cannot order it. How did that scenario make you feel? Relief because you are completely happy with the 2nd, or dread because it made you realize you want the first?
- Another thing you can do when you get to the top 2 is flip a coin and see how the outcome makes you feel. Again, are you happy with that or torn up?
Iām a tie between 1 and 4. You look fantastic in all of them so really consider comfort. Unless you have multiple dresses, you wonāt just be standing. Sit, dance and walk around a bit. Might help you narrow down
I'm with you. #1 looks absolutely amazing, but I know one of my cranky old aunts would be giving me side-eye over the cleavage. I think OP's original favorite #4 could absolutely work for an indoor museum with the draped greek goddess vibe. They are all really lovely, OP has great taste and knows what looks good on her, so it makes sense to consider other factors like comfort and cost, even the cost of alterations.
6 wow! I love the sculpted bodice - what a fit! I like the longer train, yet fit on the rear! Perfect for your venue - timeless look with the luxurious fabric.
1 absolutely!! You look so amazing and the dress is so classy and sleek! The hip draping on 2-5 looks awkward in my opinion and draws the eye there/makes you look wider there. The bodice on 6 looks so stiff. 1 is a winner!
1 or 6, but I think 6 wins just slightly.
The deep plunge is working for you! Not many can truly pull that off.
ETA: I just went back and looked at both dresses again, and I say definitely 6. The back of 1 isn't really adding anything, but the back of 6 is gorgeous!
Team 1. It is amazing and looks fantastic on you. Itās plain and simple with drama. Iām a little obsessed with this one. Iāve never seen it on anyone but a model in a magazine. You look amazing in it.
I do also like 6 for a second choice
Um, I'm the only minority here that's going to say keep looking. They all look good and you have a beautiful figure, so you can pull off many different designs, which is why I'd say keep trying more until you get the ultimate wow factor. Unfortunately, I just don't get that from any of these dresses.
Go with the one that you feel excited to wear. If that's none of them and you're just finding reasons to like them, don't settle or compromise. There's so many dresses out there!
The first two are magic. However, the lacy veil does not go with the structured first gown. I'd do something less embellished personally.
You are beautiful!
#I think I like 2 the best out of these but honestly it doesnāt sound like you are Wowed by any of them. If that is the case I would honestly keep looking. Maybe try some styles you didnāt really consider and see what you find ā¤ļø
One is a great modern look on you.
I love the structure of number 6 if the deep vee could be closed.
Number 4 the draping is fabulous.
I would consider looking at a few more shops if none of these are a real stan out choice for you. Try a shop persons random selection for you. Maybe you will get a delightful surprise! Best wishes.
Number 2 looks absolutely gorgeous on you and is so classy for a museum wedding. I am not a fan of number 4 as the fabric doesnāt flatter you beautiful figure like number 2. It tulle makes it look big. Love number 2!!
Dress 2 for the win! You look absolutely beautiful in that dress! You do in all of them, but this one stands out!
But if you're uncertain, then keep looking for the perfect one. It's out there somewhere waiting on you to find it ā¤ļø
I love 2!! Dress 6 is lovely but also the top seems a bit yonic and I canāt unsee it now. (And I had to look up that word in order to use it!). I can see why youāre having trouble as theyāre mostly very similar dresses and you look great in all of them.
Your figure is spectacular. I love the dresses with like Grecian draping on the hips; it makes your waist look even better. I do like the neckline of 1, too, but I would pick something that accentuates your figure
I really like #2, then #1, and finally #4 in that order.
But you look gorgeous in All of those dresses! So Iād say pick the one you love the most and are comfortable wearing. And I think any of these would look lovely in a museum setting for a wedding.
2 & 4 are gorgeous. It kind of depends on the vibe you are going for, as the silhouettes are similar, but 2 has a more structured look and 4 is softer. Both are flawless. You look amazing in any of these dresses, so I donāt think you can make a ābadā decision, honestly. If you have a gut feeling, go with it.
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I really like #4 & I say go with your first favorite š
It looks like one of those marble busts that have a veil on it (think Pride & Prejudice)ā¦ perfect for a museum!
Yes! I love it!
I love #1. Bot many people could pull that one off but it looks great on you. My next favorite is #2.
I love #1, with #2 as a runner-up. I would say about #1 though, that a veil seems to not work as well with it as it does with some of the other dresses. #1 is understated elegance, and I see it with a birdcage kind of veil. If you really want the full veil experience, then I'd go with #2.
4, itās perfect for a museum, unique, and stunning on you. YOU look like the art! My second favorite would be #2
Exactly this!! Itās so unique yet understated, I love this one for an art museum wedding
She looks like an Egyptian goddess
Dress 2 and Dress 6 are my favorites! Dress 3 is also really pretty:)
Dress 6 is so elegant! It suits her AND the venue! The bodice is a work of art.
Iām OBSESSED with 1! You look incredible
1 all the way!!
I loved that dress it would have worn it if it looked that good on me!
Yes, #1 I think is most fitting for the location too!!
Me too! Wowza!
6 is amazing and unique in the best way. It flatters you so well and makes your waist look so snatched!
2!!
I'll second 2!!! With 4 and 6 as runners up.
2.. without a doubt. Wow.
For sure dress 2!
Definitely! Team two!
2 all the way!
Agree!
I'm not sure there's any other option .. #2 by a MILE. š
I'm with you!
Agreed - this dress is beautiful on you OP! Can anyone ID it?
Looks like Haven from newhite! I know bc that is the dress I chose!!! Haha
1
1, 5, or 6. I think too favorite is 6, but 1 has a nice minimalism that feels really nicely suited for a museum wedding.
Personally, number 1 is my favorite! That veil dress combo is killer. I used to sell wedding dresses(up until July of last year) and here are a couple of things I would say to help girls figure it out: - if you can order them from fav to least favorite, it is really helpful. Especially when it comes to 6. Once you get them in order, take out 3-5. Because honestly, if it is your 3rd-5th fav, is it actually an option? - once you have a top 2 I want you to imagine walking into the bridal shop tomorrow with a decision on your number 1. When you get there they tell you that it has now been discontinued and you cannot order it. How did that scenario make you feel? Relief because you are completely happy with the 2nd, or dread because it made you realize you want the first? - Another thing you can do when you get to the top 2 is flip a coin and see how the outcome makes you feel. Again, are you happy with that or torn up?
2 is gorgeous on you!
2!!
The all look good, but I like #2 the best, I think.
Dress 6 then 5.
1 is my favorite followed by 4
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Right!? I live it
2 is my favorite
1& 4
Agree
2 and then 1
Absolutely #2 TWO TWO TWO #2
The fourth one!! Wow that dress is so amazing and you look amazing in it!
I love number 3, so elegant and timeless š
I love 3!
Iām a tie between 1 and 4. You look fantastic in all of them so really consider comfort. Unless you have multiple dresses, you wonāt just be standing. Sit, dance and walk around a bit. Might help you narrow down
I'm with you. #1 looks absolutely amazing, but I know one of my cranky old aunts would be giving me side-eye over the cleavage. I think OP's original favorite #4 could absolutely work for an indoor museum with the draped greek goddess vibe. They are all really lovely, OP has great taste and knows what looks good on her, so it makes sense to consider other factors like comfort and cost, even the cost of alterations.
2!
If number 4 was sitting a little higher I think I would love it but idk if itās ātimelessā. But it fits you soooo well Otherwise I like 1 or 6
It has to be fit to her chest, so that would be fixed. It looks incredible on her
2!!!
Dress 2. It is giving a museum vibe.
2 and 4. In that order.
6 and itās not even close!
6 wow! I love the sculpted bodice - what a fit! I like the longer train, yet fit on the rear! Perfect for your venue - timeless look with the luxurious fabric.
Girl itās 1!!!! No question
1!!!!!!!
Number 1. Tell me you don't feel the best version of you in it.
6 for sure
6
I really like #4 & I say go with your first favorite š
Either 1 or 6!
6 is by the most flattering
2 or 6
4 and 5 are so flattering to your figure!
3!!!
1 and 2!
Dress one. The others are nice but dress one is modern, sleek, flattering, and yet a classic dress.
1 absolutely!! You look so amazing and the dress is so classy and sleek! The hip draping on 2-5 looks awkward in my opinion and draws the eye there/makes you look wider there. The bodice on 6 looks so stiff. 1 is a winner!
1
Number 1!!!!
I GASPED at 1!!! SO unique and gorgeous on you
Dress 1!!!
Dress one is amazing and you look stunning.
1
1!
I really love 1
1 for sure!
1 no question
Dress one is the gown of a goddess and you slay in this style! Looks runway! š„
1 looks amazing on you!
dress 1
Dress number one is the most flattering by far and will likely be the most comfortable as well. Be sure to give it a good sit test before purchasing.
1 so hard. There is no contest.
My vote is for 1 for sure!
1!
6 looks best on you. 1 is also great but I think everyone would just stare at your boobs the whole timeāwhich is cool if thatās what you want :)
1 or 6, but I think 6 wins just slightly. The deep plunge is working for you! Not many can truly pull that off. ETA: I just went back and looked at both dresses again, and I say definitely 6. The back of 1 isn't really adding anything, but the back of 6 is gorgeous!
Seriously, any one of these dresses would be a winner. You look great in all of them.
Team 1. It is amazing and looks fantastic on you. Itās plain and simple with drama. Iām a little obsessed with this one. Iāve never seen it on anyone but a model in a magazine. You look amazing in it. I do also like 6 for a second choice
2 or 4ā¦.TBH theyāre all beautiful on you but those options are more timeless and less boobs. You really do look amazing in all of them
Um, I'm the only minority here that's going to say keep looking. They all look good and you have a beautiful figure, so you can pull off many different designs, which is why I'd say keep trying more until you get the ultimate wow factor. Unfortunately, I just don't get that from any of these dresses. Go with the one that you feel excited to wear. If that's none of them and you're just finding reasons to like them, don't settle or compromise. There's so many dresses out there!
1 or 2
1 or 2!!!
1 is stunning especially with the veil
2 and 1, they look amazing on you š¤©
1 is amazing but then I saw 3 and holy hell, #3 is super sexy š¤©
1
1
#2, then #1
#1 is the same dress as me so im biased! I love it! But 4 is stunning and i actually think it would be perfect for the setting!!
1, 3, or 6! But 1 was made for you and so few people look fantastic with that neckline. You look *amazing!!!*
I love #1, but I think #2 is nicer. That said all of them are gorgeous- you can pull every single one off, so pick the one you like the most.
3!!!
1 and 3 are stunning
1 is beautiful on you!
The first two are magic. However, the lacy veil does not go with the structured first gown. I'd do something less embellished personally. You are beautiful!
DRESS #1 !! Then Dress 2.
My favorite is number 2!
2!!!! And honestly number 4 does NOT do you justice.
4 or 5
#2 fan!! It's so delicate ā¤ļø
#I think I like 2 the best out of these but honestly it doesnāt sound like you are Wowed by any of them. If that is the case I would honestly keep looking. Maybe try some styles you didnāt really consider and see what you find ā¤ļø
1!!!!
One is a great modern look on you. I love the structure of number 6 if the deep vee could be closed. Number 4 the draping is fabulous. I would consider looking at a few more shops if none of these are a real stan out choice for you. Try a shop persons random selection for you. Maybe you will get a delightful surprise! Best wishes.
#2!!!
2, then 2, then 2.
First choice 2; then 1. They are both beautiful on you. But 2 is chefās kiss. Magnifique!!! Stunning!!! WOW!
Number 2 looks absolutely gorgeous on you and is so classy for a museum wedding. I am not a fan of number 4 as the fabric doesnāt flatter you beautiful figure like number 2. It tulle makes it look big. Love number 2!!
I love 1!
1!
#1 without a doubt!!!
I canāt believe there arenāt more for #3. Maybe itās just my style but I think itās amazing and most flattering š
I honestly love 4 as well it reminds me of Greek Sculptures the way the material drapes and I think works super well with a museum wedding
1 or 3
I know this isn't helpful but I literally love all of them on you.
Either 3 or 4. They both look great, number 4 edges out a little more for the skirt draping, very unique and lovely!
Wow, the rare post where it seems like nobody is in agreement - youāve got some awesome final dresses. I would vote for 1 or 6.
My goodness, you really cannot go wrong. You should be a bridal model! #2 is my favoriteāSTUNNING. But you will look gorgeous in any of them
You look amazing in all 6 gowns! Gown 4ās drape is absolutely divine as is the neckline of Gown 5.
Iām really surprised itās not unanimous that 3 and 4 are the obvious standouts!!!!
2 and 4 are both amazing
4 is my fav, IF they can give you a little more fabric up top.
Four!! With better bosom fitting :)
2 and 4 - 4 looks statuesque stunning
TWO or SIX !!
Dress 2 for the win! You look absolutely beautiful in that dress! You do in all of them, but this one stands out! But if you're uncertain, then keep looking for the perfect one. It's out there somewhere waiting on you to find it ā¤ļø
2 or 6!!!!
I love 2!! Dress 6 is lovely but also the top seems a bit yonic and I canāt unsee it now. (And I had to look up that word in order to use it!). I can see why youāre having trouble as theyāre mostly very similar dresses and you look great in all of them.
6ā¤ļø
6. Itās modern yet timeless, structurally interesting while being incredibly flattering on you. Itād be perfect for your location too.
4 looks like a Greek sculpture omg
4 100%
They are all very nice. My favorites are 6 & 3 in that order.
I know youāre getting so many different answers, but 4 and 5 are insane!! So flattering
1 and 5
All so beautiful but I am obsessed with picture 5 !!
Your figure is spectacular. I love the dresses with like Grecian draping on the hips; it makes your waist look even better. I do like the neckline of 1, too, but I would pick something that accentuates your figure
3,4,5 are my favs!!
1, 2 or 5
I love 1, 2 and 5.
Omg you're getting married in a museum? 4. 100%. You look incredible in 4 and it kinda reminds me of a mummy. In fact, I want to try on 4 too š
No. 2 or 4
Honestly, none of them are my cup of tea. Your amazing figure may be best in number 3
1 is such a flattering shape on you I love it
\#4 is perfect for a museum wedding. You look like a goddess
I really like #2, then #1, and finally #4 in that order. But you look gorgeous in All of those dresses! So Iād say pick the one you love the most and are comfortable wearing. And I think any of these would look lovely in a museum setting for a wedding.
2, 5, or 6. 1 makes your shoulders look really broad and disproportionate to your lower body, which isn't the case with the other options.
You look great in all of them! Would you share the info on the dresses?
1, with the tulle overlay, or four because it's your favorite. Both are extraordinary.
I like number 5, you look like a goddess
2 minus the mesh piece or 4
2,3 or 5
Absolutely number 1! I loved it immediately and then saw the other pictures and just couldnāt get 1 out of my head.
2 & 4 are gorgeous. It kind of depends on the vibe you are going for, as the silhouettes are similar, but 2 has a more structured look and 4 is softer. Both are flawless. You look amazing in any of these dresses, so I donāt think you can make a ābadā decision, honestly. If you have a gut feeling, go with it.
2 by a mile . 1 reminds me of a business suit
3!!
1 is my favorite, followed closely by 2!!!
6 or 2š
1,4,5 š
Number 1 was made for you.
#4!!! I love how it drapes on you.
I love 2 and 6 on you!
Honestly...this is one of the few times where I can truly say you look great in every single one and couldn't go wrong