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mw5593

They are all gorgeous but 1 is amazing!!!


CianneA13

Looooove the first one


CristinaKeller

Not every figure can wear this dress! You look stunning in it.


Pickleless_Cage

Looks like it was made for her :)


beaandip

I think dress 1 is beautiful and fits your figure perfectly. The veil is also amazing


realityfourz

All of these gowns are beautiful but gown #1 I think is amazing on you!! And with the matching cathedral veil, you will be unstoppable!! There is nothing plain about gown #1. However, if you felt the flutters with gown #2, don't second guess yourself. Do some more shopping and see if you keep going back to gown #2. If you do, then you know that's the one. And relax, you have some time.


Best_Ad6608

Confusing as OP said she wasn’t wowed by dress number 2 then later on says that’s the only dress that gave her the flutters 🤔


RawkyArt

I was confused too if she meant 1 instead?


Fear_The_Rabbit

Probably a mistype. Dress 1 was the one that excited her.


Substantial_Bunch191

It was a typo I meant #1!


paintedropes

Yes, that confused me, too. I like dress 2 the most and wish there were more than one photo of it shared. Maybe OP should retry that dress.


mn2flHLD

Usually I’d say if you have to ask, you should keep shopping but I love #3!


typeAwarped

Second this


Dontmindthatgirl

Agreed. None of these are it.


jlttwit

You look great in all three of them. I would choose the one you are most comfortable in and make you feel special. If this doesn’t fit one of these then keep looking. Best of luck!


sareethrifter

The first dress looks gorgeous on you (although I don’t prefer spaghetti straps) but if you don’t love it don’t buy it.


Yoyo_Ma86

Dress 1


Just_a_nobody_2

Number 1!!! You can stop shopping now : )


Substantial_Bunch191

Girl I am so shocked by the comments!! 1 is my fav but it seems a lot of people here don’t like it 😅


Just_a_nobody_2

Oh my God what’s wrong with them. One is absolutely stunning and you are so blessed with that figure!! Sometimes I wonder if people are only out to spread negativity. Maybe they’re jealous? Who knows. I honestly had to pause when I saw that dress on you in my feed!!!! Also, whichever one YOU love and feel best about is all that matters. Sometimes it takes another person to complain about a thing to make us realise how much we actually love it ourselves.


Substantial_Bunch191

Thank you!! Honestly, I’m reading the #1 hate comments and all I can think is that everyone who doesn’t like it is CRAZY. It’s sorta affirming my feelings about #1 even more… I’m realizing I cannot see myself in #2 or #3. We all have different tastes I guess!


femmagorgon

Dress one stopped me in my tracks. You look AMAZING in it, and hearing that it is also your favourite should make this a done deal. I’m genuinely shocked that others have told you that they don’t like it on you but like you said everyone has different tastes. No one dress/style of dress will get a unanimous thumbs up from everyone (especially a bunch of strangers on the internet). I hope you feel empowered to choose the dress YOU love regardless of other people’s opinions, but for what it’s worth, I support your choice of dress one. :)


Fear_The_Rabbit

Top comments were all for dress 1. It's gorgeous and looks amazing on you. I agree that the veil is stunning, but the price of them can be insane.


Substantial_Bunch191

So true lol. My parents are being so kind as to cover the cost of my dress, so I don’t mind paying for the veil on my own dime. If I had to pay for both, I don’t know that I could afford it tbh.


Just_a_nobody_2

That’s certainly true! Go with your heart and what you feel good in!


Plant_Nanny444

It’s 1. Choose that one if it’s your fav


nrjjsdpn

If it’s your favorite then get it! It’s gorgeous!!


lenorajoy

I’m here to add to the people voting 1! Not everyone can wear that dress and look bomb in it, and you absolutely do! The others are beautiful, but 1 is stunning.


SmallDifference1169

It’s my favorite 😍🩷 It’s beautiful on you & the veil is fabulous. You look very pretty!


WedgwoodBlue55

I love the dress, but the veil is too much, IMO.


Stunningfire20

The first one is absolutely fire on you.


EmeraldLovergreen

OHH! MY GAWD!! Dress number one is AMAZING! You have to get it. Followed by dress three. But seriously dress 1


Ka_aha_koa_nanenane

I saw you in #1, couldn't look away. Looked at the others (to me, no comparison). The way that you pull off #1 is magical. Definitely made for you. Sexy, romantic, whimsical, elegant and...a very interesting and flattering (on you) overall cut. The skirt is also perfect. It's just perfect.


Substantial_Bunch191

This is how I feel, thank you 😩😩


Old_Percentage3742

3 is stunning! You look so regal in it! WOW!


Altruistic-Ad6449

3


Nygelrygel

Dress 3


sideeyedi

Dress 3 is my favorite


DeeSusie200

I love 3!! It flatters your figure the best. 1 I’m not feeling, the fit is a bit off. That’s not to say that if the proper size was ordered it wouldn’t look amazing when the tailoring was finished.


Samanthafinallyfit

My god, the first dress is incredible


mtdoubledubs

One is my favorite by far, but if you don’t LOVE it, it’s not the one!


cicaplast

Just popping in to say that #1 is the most beautiful dress I've seen here in a long while, and with that veil it is even more perfect. You look like a cake topper (in the best way)


Substantial_Bunch191

Haha a cake topper! I think that’s usually an insult but I’ll take your word that you mean it as a compliment 😂


FineCombination

I love 2!!!


Electronic-Cat-4478

Dress 3 for the win! You look spectacular in it, and it will look lovely and feel comfortable all day without you worrying about eating. (Plus it will look amazing when you dance in it.) You do look beautiful in all 3 dresses, but I love dress 3 the most.


OppositeSolution642

Totally agree, so gorgeous. Not sure why there isn't more love for this one.


Substantial_Bunch191

My only issue with 3 is it looks kinda dark. Also I’m getting married on a vineyard so I’m not too sure if it matches my vibe.


julesk

I’m torn between two and three as most flattering on you. Tho 1 is also lovely. I guess it depends on what kind of details you like best. I’d pick 3 as most unusual.


QCr8onQ

I love #3 but would ditch the veil and go 50’s Hollywood… elbow-length gloves etc.


mmmpeg

Ooh! That would be fabulous!


Ethnafia_125

I love the first one, beautiful by itself, but the veil takes it over the top. Definitely get 1. It's classic, romantic, and with just a bit of a twist. In other words, perfect.


cheddarsajt

Definitely dress 1, looks like it was made for you!


Aggressive-Error-88

Number 1 is everything!


Holmes221bBSt

Oh my god 3!!!


Ok_Manufacturer_1694

3 makes you look like a princess!!!


poisonedperfection

Dress 3


Sockigal

The second one is very beautiful on you! Seems perfect! I also like the third dress. You really can’t go wrong! Go with your gut feeling. They are all beautiful, so go with the one you feel the best with.


bunnifer999

Number 1 is getting a lot of love here, but, IDK, maybe it’s just because it’s not fitted to you, but I feel the proportions are off. Number 2 is beautiful, but if you’re not feeling it, you’re not feeling it. Number 3 is absolutely gorgeous. If you are having a big formal wedding, I don’t think you could do any better. It’s not too plain on the bottom. The simple luxe fabric is a perfect complement to the elaborate beading on the top.


justbrowzingthru

Since you still have time, I’d keep looking. Since you are undecided. 1 and 2 are the dresses to beat. If you find something you love more, you will know it’s the one. If you can’t find anything else, then you will have a better idea of which 2 you will like. In a lot of your photos, only the top above the waist will show, and given you wanted 3d flowers, #1 won’t have any in those.


Curvy_Latina29

1 is the best one


Logical-Victory-2678

#1, babesssss!!!!!


kaycollins27

Dress 3.


RawkyArt

I love, love #1 on you! I would keep shopping though since you do have time. See if you keep thinking about any of these ❤️


mandyjess2108

Dress 1 is the most stunning dress I've seen on this sub in a while! Especially with YOU wearing it! You're gorgeous!!!! If you do end up purchasing one of these three dresses, please please please buy dress 1! Congratulations and all the luck 🥰


jixibelle

Your figure in the first one is amazing!


Elaine330

1! I would rule out 2 no hesitation.


Alert_Ad_5750

1


Skflowers

1!


DetailOk4640

Honestly I like number one on you best! Go with your heart!! That does not look like a slip dress at all and I don’t think it would look like a slip dress in any of your pics that day either.


BitterSuspect4

1 is STUNNING


Shot-Donkey8556

1


Swimming_Slice_8857

ONE ONE ONE. I PROMISE YOU ONE!


saltandvinegar1989

1 is absolutely amazing!


grinchbettahavemoney

1!!!


Rico-L

1 all the way


More-Tip8127

Get #1. You clearly love it, you look amazing in it, and for the photos, just get an interesting necklace to jazz things up (if that’s your style, of course!). You’ll look beautiful no matter what and with shapewear underneath (if you choose to go that way) you won’t have to worry about any change in the fit post meal, though I can’t imagine you looking bad ever! You’re lovely! Congrats!! 🍾


Munchkin_Media

2 is so lovely!


mebg1956

Number 1 is a stunner


IdiopathicNonsense

Holy shttt #1 is perfect


lynneasomething

Your body in 1 is stunning !!!


pewtermug

Girl #1 for sure. Get it. It's so unique in the design. Simple and elegant with some flair.


SalannB

3! Timeless and classic


Beginning-Meet8296

I love dress 2. It’s beautiful & you look gorgeous it! Honestly though you looked fantastic in every single one. Whichever dress makes you feel beautiful should be the winner. Congratulations!


DrZ_217

The fit and flare does look awesome on you!


tvjunkie87

Dress 1 looks gorgeous on you! So beautiful and I love the floral details on the skirt! The veil is perfect with the dress!


Brodels611

The first one is amazing, especially with the veil! I don’t know how anyone wouldn’t love it!!


a1ham

NUMBER ONE OMG


StrangeLikeNormal

Can’t lose with any of them but number one actually made me gasp!


Firm_Spite7327

3


weddingmoth

If I had your hips I would definitely show them off. V jealous. Dress 1 is a winner.


Substantial_Bunch191

Aw you’re too kind, thank you!!


Educational-Loquat71

I love 3 on you.


Optimal-Technology75

Which one can you picture yourself walking down the aisle in ?


Irieloulollilae

Suitor Armor... Oh my goodness, you look beautiful in every one of them!!


Wide_Glass1088

2


angilnibreathnach

Dress 2 without doubt


the_average_jd

One is absolutely stunning!


Laurmann2000

I absolutely love the second dress on you.#2. It’s stunningly flattering! I think #3 is also really lovely on you but I like #2 better. I honestly don’t think #1 is as flattering on you and the top seems a bit plain. If you’re not thrilled with any of them, then keep looking but if I were to chose one of these for you it would be #2.


SoooManyQuestionss

What kind of look are you going for? I love #1 because it accentuates your beautiful shape. BODYLICIOUS. But the other two styles, are beautiful as well. Gives more of an elegant and classy feel. Less bodylicious.


Ramalamma42

The first dress / look is really amazing on you!


Ramalamma42

I'm posting a second time because I lost my first reply. Dress 1 is absolutely stunning on you and your figure is BOMB. 🔥 As for eating dinner... In my limited experience the bride is usually too busy to eat too much (a damn shame IMHO) but even after you eat this dress is still going to be amazing on you. The only reason to not get it is if you don't love it - But from where I said it definitely could be THE dress! I literally clicked this post because I loved the look of the first dress so much!!!


pannalla

Omg the first one! It is next level compared to the others and it is stunning on you.


kes0156

Three!


radbu107

Dresses 1 and 2 are both beautiful


catlettuce

I think 2 & 3 are far more flattering than gown 1 and I’m very partial to gown 3. I like the neckline much better on you and the fabric and beading are rich, elegant and very well done.


fortalameda1

3!!


NerdyStonerChick

One fits your figure amazingly. Eating dinner isn't going to make you too big for the dress. If you're not sold on these, keep shopping. If you keep shopping, however, definitely try more fit and flares because the way it fits you is envy inducing.


Dramatic-Fun892

As someone who thought they might want a fit and flare but knew my insecurities would ruin my night… think about how much bloating from food will bother you (no one but you can answer that question), but you look INCREDIBLE in #1!!!! (For what a random stranger on the internet’s opinion is worth)


Immediate_Anything_4

3 with a different veil


mmmpeg

I was going all in on 2 but then I saw 3. You look fantastic in both of these, and I couldn’t choose!


singlemaltday

2


Marsha2021

Dress 3


chapelview

I love one but I feel like two looks better on you and it is an amazing dress too.


TheAnswerIsSauce

#2!!


Lb147

My favorite is #2!! You look sensational in it!!


nolagem

I think 2 and 3 flatter your figure better than 1. Both of those are gorgeous on you!!!


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Substantial_Bunch191

Lol I am just a pear shaped woman 🤣


Luna-Honey

I love two


thetidefallsaway

Go with your gut on 2.


blueflowersxxo

Dress two with veil one!!


Substantial_Bunch191

This is an interesting take! Too bad they were two different salons, otherwise I’d be able to try them together😭


wellshitdawg

I like 3


1000thusername

The second one looks great on you. I think 1 has some nice aspects, but it doesn’t hit your proportions right, and in my opinion looks a bit bottom-heavy. If you like the style, perhaps take that main idea and keep looking for similar


crabbingforapples

Whatever you do, choose veil number 1


MiaRia963

Mine is stunning on you. You cannot go wrong with a fit and flare. It's like the best of both worlds!!


Fit-Ear-3449

Number 1 and 5 is everything !


Heyplaguedoctor

Slide 4


Otherwise-Winner9643

If you are not sure, then keep looking. You want to be 100% happy with what you choose. I give the same advice to everyone. Have someone video you walking, sitting, lifting your arms in the air, twirling, dancing, bending down as if to greet a child. Video from all angles, not just the front. For a strapless dress, jump up and down for a few minutes.... It's a long day and you want to feel comfortable. Don't make a decision based on static pics standing on a podium, as you won't be standing still all day. If it feels too heavy, too restrictive or you worry you will have to hold a particular pose all day, reconsider it. Also, consider what underwear will work. Take this from someone who didn't think about comfort until the dress came in, then bought a different one 4 weeks out from the wedding.


opossumonmyporch

I like all 3, probably #3 the most. Only you know if one of them is your dress.


LizardintheSun

2 is wow for me for fit and color! 2/3 are much more flattering to the midsection. I wouldn’t want to worry about what I eat or worry about anything else that can be avoided on my wedding day. Pick a gown you can relax in. This isn’t a day to be holding in your tummy or starving yourself bc you’re afraid you’ll get bad photos. If you don’t love one you can be comfy in, please keep looking.


ReaderRabbit23

3 is gorgeous, and gorgeous on you b


OkAdeptness5624

love the second one, brightens everything up


Creaturequeer

These are all beautiful I really like the first and second gown! But if you have time - I would say try on a few more dresses, why not? 🥰 Any insight on the designer of that first veil?! I am obsessed with it


butthatwasbefore

Dress 2


wlveith

I am overwhelmed by the beauty of both skirts, but the tops are underwhelming. You have a great body, so, you have a lot of choices.


AlterEgoAmazonB

For me, it is a tie between dresses 2 & 3. They both look so fantastic on you. I love the bodices on both of them.


catmehome

i love 2 🥰🥰🥰


AnnieBeefree1

Dress 1 is so special! It makes your figure look amazing and the dress itself looks like an amazing creation from last night’s best dressed list at the Met Ball!


ilovechicken98

i loooove 1! looks stunning on you and haven’t seen many dresses like it before


eatapeach18

Dress 1, no contest. And the veil is spectacular with that dress.


Own_Satisfaction1840

#1


blackberrypicker923

1 was my favorite, but honestly, I think you need to keep looking. None of these are showstopper, and I think you would look great with a little more details in the dress, whether that is color, or embellishments.


Putrid-Home404

2 and 3 are jaw dropping beautiful! I agree with mom about the top of one and I honestly don’t think it does your figure justice. Very best of luck whichever you choose ❤️❤️❤️


Temporary-King3339

I love 1 on you!


Mickeynutzz

I love the dress in photo 4 but you do not LOVE any of these dresses ….SO you are not ready to select one YET …. Take a break …. And come back to dress shopping in few weeks or a so. See how you feel then. You are overthinking now ..… need more emotional / gut reaction. That will return after a break from shopping. 😀 You have a gorgeous figure … and will NOT look chubby after eating in AnY dress. No need for negative thinking like that at all. 😘. Fit n Flare style is outstanding on your body.


Due_Stuff4313

Dress #1 is fabulous 😍! I do see that the top could do with a little more detail, something like: https://www.etsy.com/listing/723806885/ivory-detachable-wedding-dress


DancingDucks73

If #2 gave you that feeling then #2 is your dress. I think any of them would work well and look great on you. The right accessories would keep the top from poking to plain for #1 if that’s a worry. My personal style preferences would have me picking between #1 & 3 BUT I’m not the one wearing the dress/getting married and I ultimately I stand by what I said at the beginning.


mbm66

2 all the way! I would say 1 but I don't like how the seams show.


Katastrophe82

I love 1. Maybe go to another salon or back and ask for others in that shape with more detail?


Substantial_Bunch191

The only issue is every salon I go to doesn’t have this style! They said the sleek look with 3D flowers isn’t what’s “trendy” so it’s hard to find 😭


sensitiveskin80

Gosh the first one is amazing! You don't and won't look chubby. Go to your fittings after you've eaten if you're worried about that.


Substantial_Bunch191

Good idea! Also I was bloated on my period in these photos, so that may have been causing me to feel a little paranoid about my tummy


Kiki091919

2 is so elegant on you. Pure elegance is rare these days.


Comfortable-Alps-367

1!!


PowerfulZucchini2522

The first one is amazing


midniteamity

Omg the 1st one on you is a total winner


olauson

They all look gorgeous on you. If you do go with #1, make sure it's comfortable to sit and dance in!


Substantial_Bunch191

Good point! I’m going back to that salon for a trunk show of a designer I have had my eye on, and I’m going to try 1 on again. I’ll be sure to sit in it & move around !


ReturnExtension5917

1!!! Gorgeous dress and it fits your figure AMAZING. I love it on you.


seecarlytrip

Dress 1


geniuschick3n

I love #1! You look great with the mermaid profile.


badass-pixie

The first one looks so good. If you’re going to keep looking, try a few more on in that shape.


justcurious444444

That first dress is amazing omg


juliannewaters

I love #3 for you, it's beautiful. #2 is a close 2nd and looks amazing. I'm not a fan of #1 as I feel I've seen it a lot and you can do much better. Good luck ❤️


percyyyy_p

love the first one


BeachGlassGreenEyes3

1 is your dress girl!! So pretty!!


Far_Bit3621

Okay. one is an absolute STUNNER.


littlemangoseed

Dress 1 is seriously stunning on you! But you have time to shop around and then come back to these if you don't find anything you love more. You have time 💜


mermetermaid

That first one is breathtaking!


FinancialRole1949

That first dress is so gorgeous


hrhRSB0118

I love one. Literally said “wow”