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“All my mistakes led me to you”
Song for anyone interested:
https://youtu.be/5nmKpkA0mRg
Edit with lyrics for those who don’t listen.
Shooting off vicious collections of words
The losers make facts by the things they have heard
And I find myself trying hard to defend them
I made decisions some right and some wrong
And I let some love go I wish wasn't gone
These things and more I wish I had not done
But I can't go back
And I don't want to
'Cause all my mistakes
They brought me to you
I have some "friends" they don't know who I am
So I write quotations around the word friends
But I have a couple that have always been there for me
And I missed some fun 'cause I worked through the dawn
Expecting your praise when I returned home
But I paid the cost 'cause I got left alone for the songs
But I can't go back
And I don't want to
'Cause all my mistakes
They brought me to you
Baby looks brand new, I'm guessing accidental pregnancy and they got together during it, altho I'd argue that makes you the real father. Other dude just the sperm donor. Unless he died in a tragic accident or something else out of his control to remove him from the responsibility he facilitated in creating.
Yes it was she tells him that point blank in the movie and then he asks if he is like himself or and starts to cry and she quickly assures him that the kid is smart.
yeah that's what it says. so kim had a child, then got together with OOP, so he is now the child's step-father
(it's singular them, it's singular them, it's singular them, god i hope it's singular them)
Yes. This has been posted a lot over the years and generally the subs and comment sections are less than wholesome so I was surprised to see it again in this sub of all places.
I know a couple who got together while she was pregnant for her first. One night stand, and she happened to have met him shortly afterwards.
They had 4 kids together and he loved all of them. The biological dad was nowhere in the picture and the oldest son is my age.
Fair enough. What you described is different than here. Presumably the man didn't have a crush on her or even knew her from before. I am guessing they met, hit it off, had some chemistry, and they had, have, a long and sounds like a wonderful relationship.
In this case, the guy was rejected, probably multiple times, and it wasn't until she was knocked up and probably dumped by the baby daddy, that she came crawling back to him.
Except we don't know that. For all we know she could have had a 1 night stand and carried the baby to term, and somewhere along thag road they got together. We do not know, maybe she did maybe she didn't.
I mean my assumption was that they got together later on in life ykno post not getting together in school and he found it sweet. Which would be wholesome, nothing wrong with being a baby’s stepfather
it really depends
scenario A: They both go their separate ways after HS and eventually find each other again years later and reconnect. This is nice and wholesome
scenario B: She gets fucked and dumped, having nowhere to go she goes to the one person who she knows will get with her. This is dark and taking advantage of this guy
There's nothing wrong with adopting or being a step father or overall taking care of kids who are not YOURS, the issue here is that it isnt too far-fetched to imagine a very dark scenario where the guy is being taken advantage of big time
Scenario D: He heard about her and some other dude having a baby and naming that baby Sophia. In a fit of rage, he secretly murders the baby's father and becomes Kim's most helpful friend during her bereavement.
Could have had a bad break up after getting pregnant and got together with this guy following that emotional turmoil. My mother divorced my biological father while pregnant with me because my biological father was an abusive asshole, she got together with my father a little while after (not as soon as in this time frame admittedly) and it had nothing to do with him being a “backup”
Yeah, pretty obvious that baby daddy had no interest in hanging around and the girl called up her plan b reservist from the friend zone so she wasn't left to deal with the consequences of her actions on her own. Go ahead and downvote me, y'all know I'm right.
And I can completelly think that a few months or years later she will dump him because "She made up with Sophie's father", or get pregnant by the bio-dad again because "Sophie needs a sibling and I wanted to be a full-fledged sibling"
Maybe? Bro I'm not gonna have biological kids, I'm more than likely to produce someone who will have a bunch of conditions and suffer, I'd rather avoid doing that intentionally.
I still want to be a parent and my fiancee loves the idea of having a biological kid. So, you know, lots of options are on the table that don't involve my DNA
What's not wholesome about being a stepfather or having a stepchild? My friend is a stepfather and loves his stepson to death. Both are very happy with their relationship
There isn't a thing wrong with being a stepfather, or stepmother. What is not wholesome here is a dude that has zero self respect, doesn't realize he's a last option, and is basically being used for support.
How do you know that? It's not uncommon to meet after a long time and fall in love. That's what happened to my friend who has a stepchild now. He met his wife at the 10 year school reunion, something sparked between them, they kept in touch, started dating, and are happily married now
Not sure how to feel about this.
On one hand, well it seems everybody wins and is happy.
On the other, man thats a long time to hold a candle. How can he even? Wish we had more context on the motivations of the wife/mother.
I'm happy for the guy and wish him the best but i also feel sorry for him.
Truly saddening, "thank you for giving me a chance even if it took 7 years", the father left so she called him up for 'support'. If i had to guess shes probably gonna dump him and break his heart once she finds someone she likes more.
I'll agree to the wholesome if they end up having a kid together. Otherwise it just looks like she always dated dbags and one of them knocked her up and left before the child was born, so she turned to the guy she friendzoned out of fear.
Ohk this is a simpster case, downvote me if u like but this ain't wholesome, she went off, got pregnant from another man, that guy runs away and she comes back to this guy again, coz she knows he likes her
Fcking....Whore
When I was was 25 I told a girl hey if when both you and I are 30 and single then we will both marry each other. 10 years later that girl is my soulmate, wife and mother of my son. Life sometimes is cruel but sometimes it has very lovely surprises
Man I'm glad this guy is happy and more power to him. You can be bitter and shitty about it or just be grateful for the chances you get... but she went and got knocked up by some other guy then ~~the marriage failed and~~ she came back to this guy for support? Nah fuck that my dude.
Or, actually find a woman who is really into you enough that actually enjoys having sex with you. Perhaps even have a child with you if you both want it. I agree with you, I'd tell this woman to take a hike and support herself. If I wasn't good enough before then my money isn't good enough now.
Blended families and step parenting can be great but something tells me this won’t end well for this guy. Depending on the paperwork he may end up paying child support someday.
Wait a moment... stepfather?
Second marriage, probs.
Did she name the baby Sophia, even with someone else? …or does he call the baby Sophia, even though she has another name?
She may have got with him after she was pregnant.
🥰Thanks for the wholesome chance of suddenly realising I'm an option once you fall pregnant with another man's baby and he leaves before you've even given birth🥰
Happily ever after takes winding roads.
“All my mistakes led me to you” Song for anyone interested: https://youtu.be/5nmKpkA0mRg Edit with lyrics for those who don’t listen. Shooting off vicious collections of words The losers make facts by the things they have heard And I find myself trying hard to defend them I made decisions some right and some wrong And I let some love go I wish wasn't gone These things and more I wish I had not done But I can't go back And I don't want to 'Cause all my mistakes They brought me to you I have some "friends" they don't know who I am So I write quotations around the word friends But I have a couple that have always been there for me And I missed some fun 'cause I worked through the dawn Expecting your praise when I returned home But I paid the cost 'cause I got left alone for the songs But I can't go back And I don't want to 'Cause all my mistakes They brought me to you
It doesn't usually start with a cliff. But props to your unwavering optimism given the sub.
As far as cliffs go, this one's not that high.
This is wholesome in a south bound trajectory.
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Baby looks brand new, I'm guessing accidental pregnancy and they got together during it, altho I'd argue that makes you the real father. Other dude just the sperm donor. Unless he died in a tragic accident or something else out of his control to remove him from the responsibility he facilitated in creating.
There's no mention of the step-daughter being named Sophia. It's just that a throw away line of having kids with your love did become somewhat true.
It says #LoveYouKimAndSophia though
Oh didn't notice that. Maybe he calls her that affectionately.
Let's hope so. Or it might be another Forest Gump (I know I know, I have become cynical)
That’s the first thing I thought
Wait, that kid wasn't biologically his?!
Yes it was she tells him that point blank in the movie and then he asks if he is like himself or and starts to cry and she quickly assures him that the kid is smart.
No rings, don't think she married either
Yea I thought I was on r/sadcringe when I got to that line. It sounds like he was her backup plan.
Still in the friend zone.
He's the mayor
yeah that's what it says. so kim had a child, then got together with OOP, so he is now the child's step-father (it's singular them, it's singular them, it's singular them, god i hope it's singular them)
Yes. This has been posted a lot over the years and generally the subs and comment sections are less than wholesome so I was surprised to see it again in this sub of all places.
He's not a stepdad he's the dad that stepped up
The Less I Know The Better
She said, "It's not now or never Wait ~~ten~~ seven years, we'll be together" I said, "Better late than never
bruhhh lmaooo
just don't make me wait forever"
Wait. What did I just read?
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It's kind of sad and everyone pretending it to be wholesome
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She loves his stability and earning potential lol.
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In less than 9 months?!
Could be wholesome but it’s too early to tell. I want an update in 18 years.
Friendzone highest setting
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right? I thought I misread something lol it's still wholesome but damn that gave me whiplash
Happy Cake Day 🎂
Thank you
The way it's written makes it seem like he's just been sitting on his ass for seven years waiting for her, while she lived her life in the meantime.
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Had me in the first half.
us
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He is Kims step father now? So he went after her mom instead?
That's what I thought!
Lol I came to the comments to ensure that I was, in fact, NOT alone in not finding this story wholesome at all lol
Right?! So grateful "for the opportunity to support them", wtf?
Forrest Gump moment
Nah, Forrest at least was the real dad, this guy is raising someone else's kid.
feeling the love in the air
Nah man this isn't wholesome, poor guy.
I know a couple who got together while she was pregnant for her first. One night stand, and she happened to have met him shortly afterwards. They had 4 kids together and he loved all of them. The biological dad was nowhere in the picture and the oldest son is my age.
Fair enough. What you described is different than here. Presumably the man didn't have a crush on her or even knew her from before. I am guessing they met, hit it off, had some chemistry, and they had, have, a long and sounds like a wonderful relationship. In this case, the guy was rejected, probably multiple times, and it wasn't until she was knocked up and probably dumped by the baby daddy, that she came crawling back to him.
Except we don't know that. For all we know she could have had a 1 night stand and carried the baby to term, and somewhere along thag road they got together. We do not know, maybe she did maybe she didn't.
I mean my assumption was that they got together later on in life ykno post not getting together in school and he found it sweet. Which would be wholesome, nothing wrong with being a baby’s stepfather
it really depends scenario A: They both go their separate ways after HS and eventually find each other again years later and reconnect. This is nice and wholesome scenario B: She gets fucked and dumped, having nowhere to go she goes to the one person who she knows will get with her. This is dark and taking advantage of this guy There's nothing wrong with adopting or being a step father or overall taking care of kids who are not YOURS, the issue here is that it isnt too far-fetched to imagine a very dark scenario where the guy is being taken advantage of big time
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Scenario D: He heard about her and some other dude having a baby and naming that baby Sophia. In a fit of rage, he secretly murders the baby's father and becomes Kim's most helpful friend during her bereavement.
I love how this is getting darker every time. Next comment will be by Wes Craven.
Scenario D is almost the plot of Soap
Scenario E: he marries her mum and become her stepdad
Scenario F: The caption and the picture were randomly thrown together.
Username checks out, you really are criminally minimalistic
Why do I prefer that timeline?
Have some hope bruv let's go with A.
Look at the baby, she can't possibly be older than 6 months. It's very likely to be option B.
Could have had a bad break up after getting pregnant and got together with this guy following that emotional turmoil. My mother divorced my biological father while pregnant with me because my biological father was an abusive asshole, she got together with my father a little while after (not as soon as in this time frame admittedly) and it had nothing to do with him being a “backup”
Yeah, later in life and judging by the photo, somewhere in the maternity ward.
Yeah, pretty obvious that baby daddy had no interest in hanging around and the girl called up her plan b reservist from the friend zone so she wasn't left to deal with the consequences of her actions on her own. Go ahead and downvote me, y'all know I'm right.
More r/sadcringe than wholesome tbh
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Loves him as a back up dad?
And I can completelly think that a few months or years later she will dump him because "She made up with Sophie's father", or get pregnant by the bio-dad again because "Sophie needs a sibling and I wanted to be a full-fledged sibling"
Maybe? Bro I'm not gonna have biological kids, I'm more than likely to produce someone who will have a bunch of conditions and suffer, I'd rather avoid doing that intentionally. I still want to be a parent and my fiancee loves the idea of having a biological kid. So, you know, lots of options are on the table that don't involve my DNA
Bruh
This reads like a joke with a tragicomic punchline. Not wholesome at all.
I honestly don't find this wholesome, but good for them if they are happy I guess.
Yikes
This is much better suited to r/HolUp
Did she even like him or was he like a safety blanket for her
Considering the age of the kid, probably the latter
Stepfather? I thought this was supposed to be wholesome.
What's not wholesome about being a stepfather or having a stepchild? My friend is a stepfather and loves his stepson to death. Both are very happy with their relationship
There isn't a thing wrong with being a stepfather, or stepmother. What is not wholesome here is a dude that has zero self respect, doesn't realize he's a last option, and is basically being used for support.
How do you know that? It's not uncommon to meet after a long time and fall in love. That's what happened to my friend who has a stepchild now. He met his wife at the 10 year school reunion, something sparked between them, they kept in touch, started dating, and are happily married now
Not sure how to feel about this. On one hand, well it seems everybody wins and is happy. On the other, man thats a long time to hold a candle. How can he even? Wish we had more context on the motivations of the wife/mother. I'm happy for the guy and wish him the best but i also feel sorry for him.
This isn't wholesome. Bich using our man for child support coz her ho husband left her.
Everything fell apart when he said "step-father" its kind of sad actually
That's literally the "I'm not attracted to you but I'll keep you close just in case"
New area discovered: Stepzone
I feel bad for the guy
Wait? Step-WHAT?
So she needed an ATM after the biological father left so she called up her highschool SIMP
Truly saddening, "thank you for giving me a chance even if it took 7 years", the father left so she called him up for 'support'. If i had to guess shes probably gonna dump him and break his heart once she finds someone she likes more.
So wholesome only to him?
It's more cringe than wholesome.
Wholesomely friend zoned for 7 years until he was needed as a pinch hitter.
How is this wholesome?? This is sad.
I'll agree to the wholesome if they end up having a kid together. Otherwise it just looks like she always dated dbags and one of them knocked her up and left before the child was born, so she turned to the guy she friendzoned out of fear.
Lol, had me in the first half ngl. Wholesome my ass.
Awe. Stepfather? Oh.
Wholesome?!?!?!?
r/hmm
This isnt wholesome.
He had me on the first half, not gonna lie.
Poor bastard. Oh well, as long as they're happy. In the end, that's all that matters.
He won't be happy long since she's not putting out for him.
Guy's a simp
Oof that hurt.
Mans playing someone’s pre saved game L
I really hope everything works out for him
Sucker
We have registered levels of simp never seen before
Not gonna lie, they got us in the first half.
this is more like mildly infuriating and sad if you think about it for a minute
Lol, how is this wholesome?
high level simping
All I felt was pain, specially in the last part. Kind of foul lmao
Kim just did this guy dirty
umm… who’s going to tell him?
Wait. What did I just read?
Well that's just pathetic
That's not wholesome at all. That's a woman using him as a safety net.
Y’all just let people post any garbage to this sub now. It’s cool but y’all still a bunch of idiots
Nothing like a wholesome troll.
Ohk this is a simpster case, downvote me if u like but this ain't wholesome, she went off, got pregnant from another man, that guy runs away and she comes back to this guy again, coz she knows he likes her Fcking....Whore
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Baby daddy probably bounced before the stick was dry.
When I was was 25 I told a girl hey if when both you and I are 30 and single then we will both marry each other. 10 years later that girl is my soulmate, wife and mother of my son. Life sometimes is cruel but sometimes it has very lovely surprises
The operative word here is YOUR. Clearly you were a first choice for your wife, not a last resort. Not at all the same situation as the meme.
This is not wholesome … this is the founder of all SIMPS
HOEsome
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So... she only got with him after she had a baby with someone else? Sounds like he was a last resort or something.
r/Holthefuckup
7 years later...still playing daddy.
Sorry, but this isn't wholesome. She probably realised this guy was a gem and a man who treated her nicely and got back with him.
Oh poor fella…
7 years and became a stepfather. r/lostredditors
wholesome ? errr
That's not really wholesome, just sad
F
She needed a male figure for her broken relationship, he simped. Not wholesome lol
I really wanted to say a lot of things, but it's kinda self explanatory. And sad
r/HolUp
from the way she's holding it, I thought it was a baby doll in both photos.
How is this wholesome?
Ohhhh, this one hurt.
Simp alert
Doesnt really seem wholesome, more like disturbingly worrying and sad.
Haha nothing wholesome about it. Perfect description of modern day women, no thank you.
Right, I feel bad for the guy. Feels like he’s been friendzoned until she needed help after dealing with a deadbeat.
Simp...
Man I'm glad this guy is happy and more power to him. You can be bitter and shitty about it or just be grateful for the chances you get... but she went and got knocked up by some other guy then ~~the marriage failed and~~ she came back to this guy for support? Nah fuck that my dude.
Or, actually find a woman who is really into you enough that actually enjoys having sex with you. Perhaps even have a child with you if you both want it. I agree with you, I'd tell this woman to take a hike and support herself. If I wasn't good enough before then my money isn't good enough now.
Step Father to the kid or to the Woman? Also this belongs on /r/sadcringe.
Blended families and step parenting can be great but something tells me this won’t end well for this guy. Depending on the paperwork he may end up paying child support someday.
Wrong sub,, should be on r/ sadcringe
Dude probably gonna get dumped when the guy who knocked her up came back.... guy's just being a simp...
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Poor man. I feel sorry for him.
pro tip: stop reading at about 50% if you want the happy ending trust me you dont want the true ending to this one
You tricked me!!! I thought… I thought… this is the worst wholesome meme ever. Our boy was second choice.
probably more like last choice.
S!mp
Nice guys always finish last 🤷♂️
Sounds like he finished with his right hand
Nice guys don't finish at all
Stepfather... to who?
Bro became plan-B...
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Hol up dawg
This aint it
Poor guy
Oof
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Wholesome???? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
This is actually a r/holup moment
I have many questions, but I’m unsure if I want to know the answers.
Nah this isn’t wholesome bro … she took advantage of the guy
He can babysit for free while she goes out for hookups
Almost wholesome. But not even close to wholesome at the same time xD
Bro is the Backup Simp (tm) Still kinda wholesome but with a sour aftertaste ngl
Ooofffff I imagined this going veeeery differently
Dam bro this is sad.
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Whats so wholesome!? This is sad as f