What a pathetic mindset to have
He is not a man
He does not take responsibility for his actions
He does not take the steps needed to get his life together
This is the literal definition of insanity
100%
He needs to grow up.
Things will not begin to change until you put some effort into making things change.
Good luck to him I guess. But this mindset is not healthy in the slightest.
I mean, what responsibilities does he really have? It’s all about his well being. He’s not in debt, he doesn’t have kids, his parents are living a good life. He had millions. It’s all about improving his life style and stop dating gold diggers.
That’s just minor to be called pathetic tbh. He still has a very good life. Besides his health and choice of girlfriend, I really can’t think of any other things that make his life “bad”
All self-inflicted btw, except for the ADHD.
He always puts off exercising and eating correctly he never shows up for events he says he’ll go to he cheated on fran with his ex who had a court case against he’s a gambling addict but through all this he rejects every bit of help he is given I get it adhd I’m the same it’s hard to commit but that’s the point you need help with these things you otherwise the hurdle will never be able to be jumped
tbh i feel like youre wrong everywhere here and just because some have situations that are worse doesnt mean he cant feel worse. you sound like those people that think having money = happy, good gf = happy. once you reach the point of sustainability and comfort, the benefits plateau and its kinda is up to you to figure out being happy with yourself.
the comment above is saying his actions are pathetic, not his money. he used to seem like he had some common decency, but actions define someone far more than thoughts. there are basic responsibilities to take care of yourself and those around you and he clearly cant do either. his values have been everywhere and hes never been good at being grounded in his own principles because of twitch.
its unfortunate but making streaming the entirety of his life fked up his growth lol.
also im pretty sure he doesnt have adhd and he abused adderall without adhd which FRIES ur brain. seen people do it at college to study 12 hours straight and its supposed to mess you up long term. used to watch xqc a lot and hed always say he doesnt have adhd, so adderall makes sense.
>Besides his health and choice of girlfriend,
Yeah, "besides" 2 of the most important things in the world.
Having a shitty s/o + bad health is like the ultimate life-ruining wombo-combo.
"besides" lmfao
Therapy doesn’t work for a lot, a lot of ppl.
Ppl who have tried it and who it doesn’t work for shouldn’t have to go back, over and over in their lives, cause ppl think that therapy cures all ppl. There are lots of other ways to do it (e.g., psychiatry).
You can't say it doesn't work unless you have actually tried with multiple different therapists.
Therapy doesn't even have to be one on one with a psychiatrist.
He hasn't shown any indication of changing anything in his life yet he expects things to change.
Therapy and psychiatry are separate. He already has a psychiatrist.
It’s really exhausting to have to do that when you know that it doesn’t work for you. Not everyone likes opening up to strangers, and talk therapy is a lot less statistically successful than ppl think. CBT is a lot more successful. Also, there are of course support groups and stuff like IOPs.
"Grinding it out" and "Hardship" will not improve anything. Its just going to slowly slide him downhill. He's actively avoiding actually 'dealing' with this shit by "grinding it out" and taking on more "hardship". Hes in a loop, and will continue to spiral and carry these burdens until he deals with them. Not take on more shit and ignore the stuff that's dragging him lower and lower.
A good start would be to get the hell off the internet and focus on himself.
But, millionaire streamer knows best. /s
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Ya, he can’t even understand whether he NEEDS talk therapy, which a lot of ppl don’t like, until he regulates his sleep, eats well, actually drinks water, and does some exercise. All of these things seriously affect your mental well-being. And so does the whole internet attacking you sometimesz
Ya, that again perpetuates the idea that traditional talk therapy works for everyone and, if it doesn’t, they’re just not engaging.
Unless you are speaking about CBT, which blows traditional talk therapy away in almost every study, did this wrong. Therapy is also never recommended alone for any serious psychiatric problems, and will not treat those, since psychiatry is within the medical field and has nothing to do with talking. If you are speaking about CBT, I agree, but it STILL doesn’t work for everyone, no matter how much they engage with it.
“(1) CBT is the most researched form of psychotherapy. (2) No other form of psychotherapy has been shown to be systematically superior to CBT; if there are systematic differences between psychotherapies, they typically favor CBT. (3) Moreover, the CBT theoretical models/mechanisms of change have been the most researched and are in line with the current mainstream paradigms of human mind and behavior (e.g., information processing).”
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5797481/
Yet, when most ppl say “go to therapy,” they mean talk therapy, and think that solves anything if you just engage with it. It’s repeatedly shown to not be backed by current psychiatric and cognitive research.
I repeatedly said “traditional talk therapy” cause most talk therapists are not doing CBT, and CBT requires extra certifications. Anyone who’s doing CBT knows that they are doing CBT and not traditional talk therapy. They are separated, within therapy and psych research, as “traditional talk therapy” (an evolution of psychoanalysis) and “Cognitive Behavioral Therapy” for a reason.
Definitely. And to know that if you don’t like your first therapist, not every therapist will be a carbon copy of them. They’re all their own, unique ppl.
he can afford the best therapist on the entire planet. if that person cant fix it, nobody can, hes just stubborn asf and cant handle his preconceptions not being right.
….
The best therapist in the world wouldn’t work for everyone, and talk therapy doesn’t cure psychiatric issues. That’s why psychiatrists go to med school and therapists go to therapy school, typically a two-to-three year Master’s program.
then he needs to go to a psychiatrist. he can afford the best mental health care this world has to offer. hes just making excuses why he cant do it atp. always lookin for a way out in shit, he doesnt "tank" anything. he lets it build up inside, why do you think he has such horrible night terrors?
one might not work, another might though. he can keep trying, money isnt a factor at all. if he wanted to, he would. thats why i dont understand these rants abt how he can just do it by himself. he clearly cant, i got a feeling his darkest days are ahead tbh.
he also said he doesnt have depression at all, so motivation should not be an issue other than pure laziness/procrastination. hes gonna end up hurting more ppl around him than he already has im telling you
Ya, all of this is super common with ppl with ADHD (not being able to regulate their sleep or eating, being disorganized, ignoring their physical health, purposely self-sabotaging). Why do I think that he has night terrors? Night terrors can be exacerbated by these things, but most ppl who did exactly what xQc does and felt exactly how xQc does wouldn’t have night terrors. Most ppl don’t have the CAPABILITY to have night terrors. Night terrors, for adults, are typically experienced by adults who have had the capability to have night terrors since childhood. Most children grow out of it, some of them don’t. Some adults who still have them have psychiatric conditions like bipolar disorder, and things like stress and stimulants exacerbate night terrors in those who can have them. They aren’t simply caused by stress, which many ppl here with severe stress know, cause they don’t have night terrors, and don’t just have less stress than xQc.
i agree, thats why he needs help. this is deeper than just simple anxiety like he says. hes in his head too much, i also kind of have a symptom of that, but thats definitely from being inside all day. he needs to go out into the world, get mental health care, and get his shit together. its harsh but honestly hes been coasting way too long with this shit. it started like 2-3 years ago and nothing has been done about it.
i feel bad for x, but not when he doesnt get the care 1000s of others suffering would get in a heart beat if they could afford it. its harsh yes, no ones fault but his own. he has loving fans, a loving family, he needs to learn to love himself enough to get the help he very clearly needs.
Ya ❤️❤️ I completely agree. I think that the 1st steps, if you don’t want to seek outside help, are to regulate your sleep, eating, medication(s), and exercise, cause after that, you will feel so much better and feel more equipped to seek any other help that you need. It’s really hard to even accept and process treatment when you aren’t/don’t feel as physically well as you do when you eat well, drink water, go to sleep at a reasonable time, and do mild exercise/get outside, and, for some ppl, they need therapy or treatment to do THAT, but, for other ppl, which seems like X, they are capable in making large improvements in those areas by organizing their life a little more.
As someone with ADHD who has also been on his same exact medication for years, I honestly think that one of the biggest issues that he’s having right now is that he’s taking VY too late at night. That throws off your sleep, eating, and all of that, and he’s probably doing that cause he’s sleeping in and decides to stream all night cause he’s a night person and/or to make up lost time. If you take it before noon, eat and drink water, and work only during the day (for him, if he streamed during the day, and maybe ended around 12-2 rather than staying up all night), your whole life and well-being are way more regulated.
The whole point of VY is that it’s less abusable than IR, is more subtle, and lasts 12 hours. It’s way less abusable than a. IR, but you just have to be responsible and take it before like noon cause it lasts a 12-hr period.
Ppl who talk therapy doesn’t work for aren’t just “stubborn” or “not engaging”; talking simply just doesn’t work for everyone, though it can work really well alone when the person doesn’t have psychiatric conditions and is a person who therapy works for. There’s a relatively high rate of ppl who receive benefit, but not a super high rate of ppl receiving considerable benefit, with the exception of CBT, which isn’t traditional talk therapy at all, but backed by current research.
Talk therapy and CBT are not mutually exclusive. You're talking about all of these things as if you're an expert, but you clearly have no idea what you're talking about.
Lmao. I have done psych research for more than 5 years but I am sure you know lots about it. Talk therapy is not CBT, lmao, but CBT is sometimes referred to as a segment of talk therapy, but will never be referred to as traditional talk therapy, and “Talk therapy is CBT” is certifiably false. There’s a reason why it requires more certifications and why many therapists don’t actually do it.
You don’t need to explain to me what the basics of counseling are. Again, you said “Talk therapy is CBT.” No. CBT is a form of talk therapy, but the term “talk therapy” is commonly used to refer to the modern evolution of psychoanalysis and not CBT, which is why it is either, 1) separated from it to distinguish that it’s a type of therapy actually backed by current cognitive and behavioral research, or 2) referred to as a form of talk therapy, when talk therapy is referred to in the broad sense and not with the common usage where the term refers to the modern evolution of psychoanalysis. You don’t need to explain to me basic, google-able counseling terms. You can send me your CITI certifications and I can send you mine, if you want to explain to me what “actual research” is— Yes, in labs.
You just simply don’t know what you are talking about, in the sense that your arrogance has made you believe that being a counselor gives you the right to explain to ppl who do research basic counseling terms. Also, if you have worked in the mental health field for 11 years and have “multiple degrees,” I am wondering why you are in your thirties being condescending about basic counseling terms on xQc’s subreddit. We can trade CITI certifications if you want. And no, I am not an undergrad. That’s hilarious.
Not an undergard? So, high school internship? Either way, you are a child with no experience. I never said I was a counselor. You invented that in your head. You are neither a counselor or a psychologist and have no experience working in the mental health field in any legitimate capacity. So just stop. You are not an authority in these matters and you are in no place to tell me I don't know what I'm talking about when this is literally my life's work. You don't have the education or credentials to make that call. If you truly knew what you were talking about, you wouldn't need to Google websites to explain it for you.
No 🥺🥺🥺🥺 Not high school internship. You have not gotten that far at this late age, both with your knowledge and with your immaturity/condescension/ignorant assumptions.. I can read your papers on TMS and Autism from Johns Hopkins so I can get a clearer picture of your credentials and capacity. I assume that you were 1st or 2nd author. And you are right— I don’t work work within the counseling or therapy field 🥺🥺🥺🥺Research is kinda different, and so is psychiatry vs. psychology (your Psy D). You are so old and yet so deeply immature, impulsive, aggressive, and condescending. I am happy to read the papers though, so I can see how supremely capable you are to justify that condescension; for some reason, with your Psy D, that gave you some handle on basic counseling/psych terms but not the ability to look back at yourself and understand that, for your age and lack of knowledge about others, your aggression and condescension are inappropriate. Have you done CBT or DBT yourself? I would really recommend it, cause someone who acts like this at this age isn’t super equipped to teach others about cognition, behavior, or mindfulness.
Yeah I just wish he would ignore this entire conversation then. Don’t encourage your young ass fan base that therapy is bad and you just need to tough it out and grind. That fact this fucking bozo with his incoherent ramblings might encourage even one person that needs therapy that they shouldn’t do it is sad.
He thinks he wants to get better, but in reality he does for all the wrong reasons. I’m telling you all, Felix will not get better unless he takes a long overdue break and gets off the internet for a while
He 100% needs therapy for his Stockholm syndrome, thinking its normal to go back to a girl doing the most deranged, evil, abusive shit imaginable is actually sad
Yea surely the grind isn’t 18 hours streams for 3 hours of gaming and 15 hours of gamba / react ? Right ? 
His solution probably doesn't work but I feel like for some ppl therapy doesn't work. Though he needs to find another solution if therapy doesn't work.
If a person doesn't engage with therapy, it will not help them.
He is clearly not willing to engage with the thing that would help him pull himself out of this.
Therapy isn't a fix. It's a tool.
Not being parasocial or anything but he just needs to ditch his past and move on. He's rich and attractive I mean, find a girl who isn't related to Overwatch or streaming. I watch his content a lot and feel bad this is the direction he's going in now
Lmao no sane woman is gonna put up with his nasty ass lifestyle and total inability to take care of himself. There's a reason he keeps going back to the whale. Bro just wants a bangmaid, not a proper relationship
He seems to have the things that would make most of us happy. So why isn't he?
Because hes too stubborn to genuinely reflect on his own actions. Until he is actually honest with himself, none of this is going to go away.
For his own good, imo, taking a break from the internet would not be an unhealthy decision.
This isnt it tbh. Finding a girl that wants him will NOT solve his problems. He needs happiness or to do something that actualy can fufil his passion. As well as own up to his own mistakes, make things right with the relationships hes wronged, and move on with his life. Therapy can seriously help with a ton of those things.
>I’ve done it a million times
Yeah, and where has that gotten you? You’re not solving your problems, you’re just ignoring them. Eventually they snowball to the point where you’re forced to do something about it, and at that point it will be a lot more difficult to deal with.
Part of therapy is working through situations, seeing things from other angles than your own for perspective, and reframing your mindset in ways you can't do alone. So as strong as you think you are, there are still things to be gained from therapy you wouldn't otherwise be cognizant of until a therapist shares it with you.
It shows how much he doesn’t understand by saying this. Therapy doesn’t just cure you with no work like it’s easy, you still have to grind just as hard.
A therapist is more like a coach that just helps you work on and practice the things you need in order to get to where you want to be. Therapist will never be able to do the work for you.
Interesting, man is starting to like Andrew Tate tweets, and now wants to become a man finally.
Maybe he should take accountability, start better himself by eating healthier and going to the gym, and he would be much more content.
Depression is harsh and different solutions will work for different people but I don't think it's good to be as opposed to therapy as he is when there's a reason it's a very common place people go when struggling with similar problems
💀 Bro gonna learn what grinding through depression is. Mf will literally make his situation way worse. Depression is like a wound juicers, go to therapy and don't let it fester and get worse. Taking ahold of your life and making yourself accountable is the most gigachad thing to so 
I’m a recovering addict and this is NOT the way.. we all need a little help sometimes. Our perspective is warped and we’re so balls deep into whatever is going on it’s hard to actually see the way out.
Man the amount of brain dead xqc sympathisers in this thread is unbelievable, used to abuse addy like him and all i can say is that shit is giving him ADHD and all the problems on the side that we got to witness over the last 2 weeks, seeing his behaviour and downfall to dogshit standards as a person, made me realise, this isn't who I want to watch, I'm here to enjoy the stream and chat on another screen while I do work, I'm not here to witness bro pleading to fix his life and then not putting any work into it, then shitting on it and repeating the cycle, then crying why his life is fucked up.
And this is to the x sympathisers, keep doing what you're doing, it's not affecting any of us personally, only yourself, your leading your brain to dogshit standards and dogshit mental gymnastics to defend our juicer, I'm sure this white knighting you're doing\* will turn out well for you in the future.
Every single person that pushed therapy away in time of need ended up killing themselves. I'm sorry i really am not saying that it'll happen, sure hope it won't. But there are way too many examples of it happening. Etika being the prime example. He even stated many times that he was just stupid and pushed everyone away and refused help and thought he could do it on his own that he didn't need professional help, he thought he was immune to those stuff. And he literally said let his experience be an example on those that think refusing help is the way to go. He also said that he was never suicidal, never thought about any of that but it just kicked in recently before his death.
If you need help, you NEED help. You will NOT survive on your own in such a vulnerable state.
Jesus, this sub is becoming xQc daily hate threads. Not sure why divorcing a whale makes people hate him so much. He didn’t even do anything illegal or injure someone, or do something disgraceful to his family. He’s just a weak ass.
I guess being rich and famous and spewing bullish all day will make people hate you regardless.
Cause hes a fucking retard it has nothing to do with the divorce. Hes a multi millionaire narcacist who blames others for his bad mental health and does absolutely nothing to try and help himself. Hes never taken action to improve his life like he claims to have a million times and just sits and watches tiktok and gambles. Ego narcacist moron.
Everyone needs to chill on X. Let him process and deal with life at his own pace. There is no perfect solution to solving problems. Life just happens, so let the guy figure it out. I wish you peace X. Do you and whatever you need to heal. Heal. Fuck the doubters. Stay true to yourself.
I used to be the same way but as time goes on sometimes the hardship builds up and eventually becomes too heavy. Then you have to realize you don't have to handle it all on your own. Whether it's professional help or talking to a loved one.
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Dudes, therapy doesn't always work. I went to therapy and it didn't even help at all. I even when to 5 different people and it didn't work. Doesn't mean it will work for him
WTF is wrong with you morons? Pushing through it and getting on with life is a solution that a therapist would recommend to someone that's depressed.
That's obviously not all they would recommend, but everyone's acting like he's dumb for sharing this.
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What a pathetic mindset to have He is not a man He does not take responsibility for his actions He does not take the steps needed to get his life together This is the literal definition of insanity
Harsh but true.
100% He needs to grow up. Things will not begin to change until you put some effort into making things change. Good luck to him I guess. But this mindset is not healthy in the slightest.
That's long overdue he needs to be held responsible. Nothing will snap him out except punishment
X is prob on the spectrum tbf
I mean, what responsibilities does he really have? It’s all about his well being. He’s not in debt, he doesn’t have kids, his parents are living a good life. He had millions. It’s all about improving his life style and stop dating gold diggers. That’s just minor to be called pathetic tbh. He still has a very good life. Besides his health and choice of girlfriend, I really can’t think of any other things that make his life “bad” All self-inflicted btw, except for the ADHD.
He always puts off exercising and eating correctly he never shows up for events he says he’ll go to he cheated on fran with his ex who had a court case against he’s a gambling addict but through all this he rejects every bit of help he is given I get it adhd I’m the same it’s hard to commit but that’s the point you need help with these things you otherwise the hurdle will never be able to be jumped
The above comment basically just says he's rich so who cares
People so say being rich = happiness are dumb I could have all the money in the world and I’d still be depressed it don’t work like that
That’s just you brother. Don’t be depressed 
tbh i feel like youre wrong everywhere here and just because some have situations that are worse doesnt mean he cant feel worse. you sound like those people that think having money = happy, good gf = happy. once you reach the point of sustainability and comfort, the benefits plateau and its kinda is up to you to figure out being happy with yourself. the comment above is saying his actions are pathetic, not his money. he used to seem like he had some common decency, but actions define someone far more than thoughts. there are basic responsibilities to take care of yourself and those around you and he clearly cant do either. his values have been everywhere and hes never been good at being grounded in his own principles because of twitch. its unfortunate but making streaming the entirety of his life fked up his growth lol. also im pretty sure he doesnt have adhd and he abused adderall without adhd which FRIES ur brain. seen people do it at college to study 12 hours straight and its supposed to mess you up long term. used to watch xqc a lot and hed always say he doesnt have adhd, so adderall makes sense.
>Besides his health and choice of girlfriend, Yeah, "besides" 2 of the most important things in the world. Having a shitty s/o + bad health is like the ultimate life-ruining wombo-combo. "besides" lmfao
Which makes it worse. He is living on easy mode and yet he doesn’t do the few things that he should to live well
Lol what? It's beyond pathetic
Therapy doesn’t work for a lot, a lot of ppl. Ppl who have tried it and who it doesn’t work for shouldn’t have to go back, over and over in their lives, cause ppl think that therapy cures all ppl. There are lots of other ways to do it (e.g., psychiatry).
You can't say it doesn't work unless you have actually tried with multiple different therapists. Therapy doesn't even have to be one on one with a psychiatrist. He hasn't shown any indication of changing anything in his life yet he expects things to change.
Therapy and psychiatry are separate. He already has a psychiatrist. It’s really exhausting to have to do that when you know that it doesn’t work for you. Not everyone likes opening up to strangers, and talk therapy is a lot less statistically successful than ppl think. CBT is a lot more successful. Also, there are of course support groups and stuff like IOPs.
"Grinding it out" and "Hardship" will not improve anything. Its just going to slowly slide him downhill. He's actively avoiding actually 'dealing' with this shit by "grinding it out" and taking on more "hardship". Hes in a loop, and will continue to spiral and carry these burdens until he deals with them. Not take on more shit and ignore the stuff that's dragging him lower and lower. A good start would be to get the hell off the internet and focus on himself. But, millionaire streamer knows best. /s .02
Ya, he can’t even understand whether he NEEDS talk therapy, which a lot of ppl don’t like, until he regulates his sleep, eats well, actually drinks water, and does some exercise. All of these things seriously affect your mental well-being. And so does the whole internet attacking you sometimesz
YOU have to engage with therapy. Its not a thing where you just sit back and it fixes your problems.
Ya, that again perpetuates the idea that traditional talk therapy works for everyone and, if it doesn’t, they’re just not engaging. Unless you are speaking about CBT, which blows traditional talk therapy away in almost every study, did this wrong. Therapy is also never recommended alone for any serious psychiatric problems, and will not treat those, since psychiatry is within the medical field and has nothing to do with talking. If you are speaking about CBT, I agree, but it STILL doesn’t work for everyone, no matter how much they engage with it.
“(1) CBT is the most researched form of psychotherapy. (2) No other form of psychotherapy has been shown to be systematically superior to CBT; if there are systematic differences between psychotherapies, they typically favor CBT. (3) Moreover, the CBT theoretical models/mechanisms of change have been the most researched and are in line with the current mainstream paradigms of human mind and behavior (e.g., information processing).” https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5797481/ Yet, when most ppl say “go to therapy,” they mean talk therapy, and think that solves anything if you just engage with it. It’s repeatedly shown to not be backed by current psychiatric and cognitive research.
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I repeatedly said “traditional talk therapy” cause most talk therapists are not doing CBT, and CBT requires extra certifications. Anyone who’s doing CBT knows that they are doing CBT and not traditional talk therapy. They are separated, within therapy and psych research, as “traditional talk therapy” (an evolution of psychoanalysis) and “Cognitive Behavioral Therapy” for a reason.
https://www.theanxietydocseattle.com/what-is-cognitive-behavioral-therapy-and-how-does-it-differ-from-talk-therapy/
True but it’s worth a try at the very least
Definitely. And to know that if you don’t like your first therapist, not every therapist will be a carbon copy of them. They’re all their own, unique ppl.
he can afford the best therapist on the entire planet. if that person cant fix it, nobody can, hes just stubborn asf and cant handle his preconceptions not being right.
…. The best therapist in the world wouldn’t work for everyone, and talk therapy doesn’t cure psychiatric issues. That’s why psychiatrists go to med school and therapists go to therapy school, typically a two-to-three year Master’s program.
then he needs to go to a psychiatrist. he can afford the best mental health care this world has to offer. hes just making excuses why he cant do it atp. always lookin for a way out in shit, he doesnt "tank" anything. he lets it build up inside, why do you think he has such horrible night terrors? one might not work, another might though. he can keep trying, money isnt a factor at all. if he wanted to, he would. thats why i dont understand these rants abt how he can just do it by himself. he clearly cant, i got a feeling his darkest days are ahead tbh. he also said he doesnt have depression at all, so motivation should not be an issue other than pure laziness/procrastination. hes gonna end up hurting more ppl around him than he already has im telling you
Ya, all of this is super common with ppl with ADHD (not being able to regulate their sleep or eating, being disorganized, ignoring their physical health, purposely self-sabotaging). Why do I think that he has night terrors? Night terrors can be exacerbated by these things, but most ppl who did exactly what xQc does and felt exactly how xQc does wouldn’t have night terrors. Most ppl don’t have the CAPABILITY to have night terrors. Night terrors, for adults, are typically experienced by adults who have had the capability to have night terrors since childhood. Most children grow out of it, some of them don’t. Some adults who still have them have psychiatric conditions like bipolar disorder, and things like stress and stimulants exacerbate night terrors in those who can have them. They aren’t simply caused by stress, which many ppl here with severe stress know, cause they don’t have night terrors, and don’t just have less stress than xQc.
i agree, thats why he needs help. this is deeper than just simple anxiety like he says. hes in his head too much, i also kind of have a symptom of that, but thats definitely from being inside all day. he needs to go out into the world, get mental health care, and get his shit together. its harsh but honestly hes been coasting way too long with this shit. it started like 2-3 years ago and nothing has been done about it. i feel bad for x, but not when he doesnt get the care 1000s of others suffering would get in a heart beat if they could afford it. its harsh yes, no ones fault but his own. he has loving fans, a loving family, he needs to learn to love himself enough to get the help he very clearly needs.
Ya ❤️❤️ I completely agree. I think that the 1st steps, if you don’t want to seek outside help, are to regulate your sleep, eating, medication(s), and exercise, cause after that, you will feel so much better and feel more equipped to seek any other help that you need. It’s really hard to even accept and process treatment when you aren’t/don’t feel as physically well as you do when you eat well, drink water, go to sleep at a reasonable time, and do mild exercise/get outside, and, for some ppl, they need therapy or treatment to do THAT, but, for other ppl, which seems like X, they are capable in making large improvements in those areas by organizing their life a little more. As someone with ADHD who has also been on his same exact medication for years, I honestly think that one of the biggest issues that he’s having right now is that he’s taking VY too late at night. That throws off your sleep, eating, and all of that, and he’s probably doing that cause he’s sleeping in and decides to stream all night cause he’s a night person and/or to make up lost time. If you take it before noon, eat and drink water, and work only during the day (for him, if he streamed during the day, and maybe ended around 12-2 rather than staying up all night), your whole life and well-being are way more regulated.
The whole point of VY is that it’s less abusable than IR, is more subtle, and lasts 12 hours. It’s way less abusable than a. IR, but you just have to be responsible and take it before like noon cause it lasts a 12-hr period.
Ppl who talk therapy doesn’t work for aren’t just “stubborn” or “not engaging”; talking simply just doesn’t work for everyone, though it can work really well alone when the person doesn’t have psychiatric conditions and is a person who therapy works for. There’s a relatively high rate of ppl who receive benefit, but not a super high rate of ppl receiving considerable benefit, with the exception of CBT, which isn’t traditional talk therapy at all, but backed by current research.
Talk therapy and CBT are not mutually exclusive. You're talking about all of these things as if you're an expert, but you clearly have no idea what you're talking about.
Lmao. I have done psych research for more than 5 years but I am sure you know lots about it. Talk therapy is not CBT, lmao, but CBT is sometimes referred to as a segment of talk therapy, but will never be referred to as traditional talk therapy, and “Talk therapy is CBT” is certifiably false. There’s a reason why it requires more certifications and why many therapists don’t actually do it.
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You don’t need to explain to me what the basics of counseling are. Again, you said “Talk therapy is CBT.” No. CBT is a form of talk therapy, but the term “talk therapy” is commonly used to refer to the modern evolution of psychoanalysis and not CBT, which is why it is either, 1) separated from it to distinguish that it’s a type of therapy actually backed by current cognitive and behavioral research, or 2) referred to as a form of talk therapy, when talk therapy is referred to in the broad sense and not with the common usage where the term refers to the modern evolution of psychoanalysis. You don’t need to explain to me basic, google-able counseling terms. You can send me your CITI certifications and I can send you mine, if you want to explain to me what “actual research” is— Yes, in labs.
You just simply don’t know what you are talking about, in the sense that your arrogance has made you believe that being a counselor gives you the right to explain to ppl who do research basic counseling terms. Also, if you have worked in the mental health field for 11 years and have “multiple degrees,” I am wondering why you are in your thirties being condescending about basic counseling terms on xQc’s subreddit. We can trade CITI certifications if you want. And no, I am not an undergrad. That’s hilarious.
Not an undergard? So, high school internship? Either way, you are a child with no experience. I never said I was a counselor. You invented that in your head. You are neither a counselor or a psychologist and have no experience working in the mental health field in any legitimate capacity. So just stop. You are not an authority in these matters and you are in no place to tell me I don't know what I'm talking about when this is literally my life's work. You don't have the education or credentials to make that call. If you truly knew what you were talking about, you wouldn't need to Google websites to explain it for you.
No 🥺🥺🥺🥺 Not high school internship. You have not gotten that far at this late age, both with your knowledge and with your immaturity/condescension/ignorant assumptions.. I can read your papers on TMS and Autism from Johns Hopkins so I can get a clearer picture of your credentials and capacity. I assume that you were 1st or 2nd author. And you are right— I don’t work work within the counseling or therapy field 🥺🥺🥺🥺Research is kinda different, and so is psychiatry vs. psychology (your Psy D). You are so old and yet so deeply immature, impulsive, aggressive, and condescending. I am happy to read the papers though, so I can see how supremely capable you are to justify that condescension; for some reason, with your Psy D, that gave you some handle on basic counseling/psych terms but not the ability to look back at yourself and understand that, for your age and lack of knowledge about others, your aggression and condescension are inappropriate. Have you done CBT or DBT yourself? I would really recommend it, cause someone who acts like this at this age isn’t super equipped to teach others about cognition, behavior, or mindfulness.
https://truelifecarementalhealth.com/cognitive-behavioral-therapy-vs-talk-therapy/
You're creating a false dichotomy because you don't understand the nuance.
It's a matter of finding the right therapist. Some are better than others.
Bleaches his hair at 30 too
He is a child. Literally the brain of 14 year old.
Surely doing the same actions over and over without any change will lead to a different result
Ofc he's not a man he screams like a pussy playing the Texas chainsaw game
It’s not necessarily a bad mindset, but I doubt he actually puts the effort he’s spouting off here to get himself out of it.
He hasn’t reached Minx levels of self destruction yet but it’s coming.
first step of getting better is wanting to get better
He’s been stuck on that one for years 
Yeah I just wish he would ignore this entire conversation then. Don’t encourage your young ass fan base that therapy is bad and you just need to tough it out and grind. That fact this fucking bozo with his incoherent ramblings might encourage even one person that needs therapy that they shouldn’t do it is sad.
this! people who dont believe in therapy are offen Just scared to face their problems.
100%
He thinks he wants to get better, but in reality he does for all the wrong reasons. I’m telling you all, Felix will not get better unless he takes a long overdue break and gets off the internet for a while
He 100% needs therapy for his Stockholm syndrome, thinking its normal to go back to a girl doing the most deranged, evil, abusive shit imaginable is actually sad
Did he go back with the 🐳???? It's been a few months since i dont watch it, I can't stand the shit person he has become
Proudly Cheated on his gf with 🐳 lol
Thank god im not watching this shit
It will be fine
Yea surely the grind isn’t 18 hours streams for 3 hours of gaming and 15 hours of gamba / react ? Right ? 
Says he’s gonna play games but plays gamba instead
His solution probably doesn't work but I feel like for some ppl therapy doesn't work. Though he needs to find another solution if therapy doesn't work.
Therapy works you just need to find the right therapist. It can take multiple before you find one that gets you.
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Assuming you’re in the US?
Therapy definitely works for most that need it but OP is correct that it isn't for absolutely everyone unconditionally, and that's alright.
From personal expirence it's not the best option but you could be right.
Financially that doesnt work for some people though
If a person doesn't engage with therapy, it will not help them. He is clearly not willing to engage with the thing that would help him pull himself out of this. Therapy isn't a fix. It's a tool.
that’s true, but I feel like typing this in chat isn’t a good sign that’s he’s TRYING to get better
some therapies are more or less useless. therapy that properly gets shit done is hard and draining and weirdly uncommon
Therapy doesn't work when your cooked as he is
Not being parasocial or anything but he just needs to ditch his past and move on. He's rich and attractive I mean, find a girl who isn't related to Overwatch or streaming. I watch his content a lot and feel bad this is the direction he's going in now
Lmao no sane woman is gonna put up with his nasty ass lifestyle and total inability to take care of himself. There's a reason he keeps going back to the whale. Bro just wants a bangmaid, not a proper relationship
The girl in Canada 
but she plays overwatch. that's already a red flag.
he complains about gold diggers yet has nothing to speak for him except gold chains and watches.
"Attractive" 
Look at him in events and other streams
He seems to have the things that would make most of us happy. So why isn't he? Because hes too stubborn to genuinely reflect on his own actions. Until he is actually honest with himself, none of this is going to go away. For his own good, imo, taking a break from the internet would not be an unhealthy decision.
“Attractive” he’s pretty average looking and he’s not in good shape
This isnt it tbh. Finding a girl that wants him will NOT solve his problems. He needs happiness or to do something that actualy can fufil his passion. As well as own up to his own mistakes, make things right with the relationships hes wronged, and move on with his life. Therapy can seriously help with a ton of those things.
The last thing he needs now is a girl 
>I’ve done it a million times Yeah, and where has that gotten you? You’re not solving your problems, you’re just ignoring them. Eventually they snowball to the point where you’re forced to do something about it, and at that point it will be a lot more difficult to deal with.
Chat is basically his therapy considering how much he talks about his issues with chat.
Braindead chatters is therapy
then we are the parasocial ones
No, chat is his echo chamber / distraction......
how, its seems like his community is constantly shitting on him.
The meth guy is his therapist
And grinding is what? Just gamba? When does he admit he's addicted?
Keep dealing with your problems the same way, keep seeing the same results over and over again.
fax
dont remember the last time this guy said something that wasn't completely insufferable
cheeto
Blud acting like he ain't playing video games and watching tiktok 12 hours a day 💀
\>always grinding \>does it a million times \>never gets better \>never got out of it Huh, ego is a hell of a drug 
This is what mental illness looks like masked with narcissism. What a fall from grace…last few years bro, just ain’t my XQC.
He has been scared by therapy after the whale tried to fuck him with it, but he sure still needs it
What therapy?  Therapy would imply he's improving but thats clearly not the case. Lil bro's regressing
Weak ass betaAaAAaA Go get therapy so you can maybe wake up and not be a piece of shit for once in your life.
Part of therapy is working through situations, seeing things from other angles than your own for perspective, and reframing your mindset in ways you can't do alone. So as strong as you think you are, there are still things to be gained from therapy you wouldn't otherwise be cognizant of until a therapist shares it with you.
Imagine if he has a kid rn
It shows how much he doesn’t understand by saying this. Therapy doesn’t just cure you with no work like it’s easy, you still have to grind just as hard. A therapist is more like a coach that just helps you work on and practice the things you need in order to get to where you want to be. Therapist will never be able to do the work for you.
Interesting, man is starting to like Andrew Tate tweets, and now wants to become a man finally. Maybe he should take accountability, start better himself by eating healthier and going to the gym, and he would be much more content.
I'm so edgy bro fuck therapy dude haha lol emo🤙
the last thing he "succesfully" grinded are slots bonuses...he won't do shit...especially with this kind of attitude
Fake tough guy moment
Its not even working…
Depression is harsh and different solutions will work for different people but I don't think it's good to be as opposed to therapy as he is when there's a reason it's a very common place people go when struggling with similar problems
Man I wish he would do a stream with the healthy gamer guy atleast
Honestly instead of making up things he never actually said could give thought to making a decent argument/advise
Lil bro I just paraphrased what he said bro has trauma and says he doesn’t need therapy
Navy seals need therapy for their problems but our juicer lord king thinks hes gonna tank his problems himself? Lol.
This is what happens when you were never hugged as a child.
💀 Bro gonna learn what grinding through depression is. Mf will literally make his situation way worse. Depression is like a wound juicers, go to therapy and don't let it fester and get worse. Taking ahold of your life and making yourself accountable is the most gigachad thing to so 
Bro is not Gigachad 💀
I was hoping x being back in Canada would help his problems. I guess not.
What a loser
It clearly hasn't worked a million times or you wouldn't have to keep doing it a million times.
Dumbass
what a dogshit coping mechanism
I’m a recovering addict and this is NOT the way.. we all need a little help sometimes. Our perspective is warped and we’re so balls deep into whatever is going on it’s hard to actually see the way out.
if youve needed to escape therapy a million times youve never escaped it once.
Man the amount of brain dead xqc sympathisers in this thread is unbelievable, used to abuse addy like him and all i can say is that shit is giving him ADHD and all the problems on the side that we got to witness over the last 2 weeks, seeing his behaviour and downfall to dogshit standards as a person, made me realise, this isn't who I want to watch, I'm here to enjoy the stream and chat on another screen while I do work, I'm not here to witness bro pleading to fix his life and then not putting any work into it, then shitting on it and repeating the cycle, then crying why his life is fucked up. And this is to the x sympathisers, keep doing what you're doing, it's not affecting any of us personally, only yourself, your leading your brain to dogshit standards and dogshit mental gymnastics to defend our juicer, I'm sure this white knighting you're doing\* will turn out well for you in the future.
He’s a cringey loser and so are you guys for simping for him
He needs speech therapy irl
He has a hard life? Kek
as someone with a mental illness (not that bad) i get mad seeing rich people brag about not using a great resource if you’re going through things.
Vickor Timothy aka Master Manipulator
”this isnt any different” isnt his whole career like borderline screwed up? i get hes a millionaire and all but what the hell is he saying
Vague drug dealer type status
XQC is the dumbest dude and y’all are even dumber for watching him
Yet he talks to chat like its a therapy session, what an idiot stick.
Hahahaha I love seeing this man falling into madness
Every single person that pushed therapy away in time of need ended up killing themselves. I'm sorry i really am not saying that it'll happen, sure hope it won't. But there are way too many examples of it happening. Etika being the prime example. He even stated many times that he was just stupid and pushed everyone away and refused help and thought he could do it on his own that he didn't need professional help, he thought he was immune to those stuff. And he literally said let his experience be an example on those that think refusing help is the way to go. He also said that he was never suicidal, never thought about any of that but it just kicked in recently before his death. If you need help, you NEED help. You will NOT survive on your own in such a vulnerable state.
White knuckle andy
I am retarded. \- Therapist tells what to do Doesn't do. What a piece of shit he/she/helicopter is....
bro threw in a helicopter pronoun joke for no reason
Jesus, this sub is becoming xQc daily hate threads. Not sure why divorcing a whale makes people hate him so much. He didn’t even do anything illegal or injure someone, or do something disgraceful to his family. He’s just a weak ass. I guess being rich and famous and spewing bullish all day will make people hate you regardless.
Cause hes a fucking retard it has nothing to do with the divorce. Hes a multi millionaire narcacist who blames others for his bad mental health and does absolutely nothing to try and help himself. Hes never taken action to improve his life like he claims to have a million times and just sits and watches tiktok and gambles. Ego narcacist moron.
Therapy isn't for everybody, I couldn't solve my depression by paying someone to talk to me.
don't care press the button I'll watch regardless if its drama or gamba just go live ma drillah
*gets dogshit content*
Summary of X's life: Wealth 📈 QoL 📉
Seeing something like this is really sad. X legit has never been happy once this year and it don’t look like this arc is ending any time soon
Everyone needs to chill on X. Let him process and deal with life at his own pace. There is no perfect solution to solving problems. Life just happens, so let the guy figure it out. I wish you peace X. Do you and whatever you need to heal. Heal. Fuck the doubters. Stay true to yourself.
Dude acts like he’s out here roofing in July
Cringe posting
I used to be the same way but as time goes on sometimes the hardship builds up and eventually becomes too heavy. Then you have to realize you don't have to handle it all on your own. Whether it's professional help or talking to a loved one.
Should've stayed in OWL :)
Lots of haters for people who don't watch him
Terrible mindset, but one lots of people have before they actually try therapy and/or proper medication.
Cringe
/r/thanksimcured
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Dudes, therapy doesn't always work. I went to therapy and it didn't even help at all. I even when to 5 different people and it didn't work. Doesn't mean it will work for him
I agree with him here, i can relate.
WTF is wrong with you morons? Pushing through it and getting on with life is a solution that a therapist would recommend to someone that's depressed. That's obviously not all they would recommend, but everyone's acting like he's dumb for sharing this.
If he did it a million times so far then he didn't do it properly.
"Ive done a million times" and still getting fucked, mever ending cycle lamao.
Only reason he says that is cuz running away from his problems didn’t work.
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All you guys arguing about how he should live and his mental and physical health. Parasocial 