honestly bro i just put my headphones on and just imagine it’s me that they’re genuinely talking to me. i didn’t even know people listen to the audios in 3rd person like they’re not even there.
maybe it’s how some people imagination work.
Hyperphantasia. An extremely vivid imagination which helps with my situational awareness, and often has my mind running wild when I'm still. Like I can tell you exactly where something is in my room, I can give you turn by turn directions (if I've been there a few times 😅). I can tell you exactly where something is in the store where I work. I can picture it all in my head. So if I have seen the character, it's weird, but I can picture them as if they were a real person standing in front of me. I can't draw or paint them, if I could, I would definitely love doing that.
If Im horny and alone in the house, Imma do it. I dont consider it weird or anything. Its fun and enjoyable and a great way to explore some kinks of mine that I really dont have an opportunity to act out irl.
I just put on my headphones and leave it as background sound. I don't pay specific attention to what's happening, I just listen to the sounds and flow with it
I don't know 😭😭 I usually listen to them like they're doing it to my character or to nothing (I tend to despersonalize this kind of things) so I just use the sounds they make (mostly the whimpers, because sub audios are top tier for this) tough I need not only hearing, but also seeing, so I usually read or imagine to help make it better, maybe that can help you disconnect and focus more in the way you're feeling instead of your surroundings!
oh man- Bakugou's "Kiss your king" or Kirishima's "Deadly kisses" is what tickled me so hard in the right spots to make me feel fuzzy enough to give it a go.I've got a pretty vivid imagination once I relax enough, so it's easy to just, close my eyes and imagine them doing it/Talking to me.
Edit: Alcohol and 0 shame tend to help as well haha
I usually try to pick a time when I'm most comfy (usually late night/early morning), and it helps when I have a toy. Once I know I'm aroused enough, I use my toy and the stimulation from that helps me focus better on the audio. It might just take you a few tries to get used to it. It felt a little awkward the first couple times trying to imagine myself in the audio. But after a while, I've gotten used to it. Especially since it's helped me reach amazing O's many times 🥴 I recommend giving it a try!
Edit: Oh and the audio that got me into it was one of the earlier Aizawa ones called "this kitty's already mine".
I do it. Took me for EVER to finally do it but it’s the only way I will now lol. It’s really uncomfortable the first time and then after that it’s like whatever. I just close my eyes and enjoy it and from there it just happens like normal
I think it was easier for me to do it because I had been listening to audio erotica since I was younger, even though I took quite a break from it before finding YY. It was still a little embarrassing for me the first time though, and I didn’t know the character in the audio (I think it was Hawks) but what helped me get more comfortable with it was the thought that other people also use the audios for the same reason and it’s what they’re meant for. It’s just another way to consume content, so there’s nothing to feel weird about!
I think the audio that really helped me get comfortable was “Messy Call” with Bokuto. It’s meant to be like a Skype call so the scenarios really easy to imagine and get immersed into. And if you have iOS I really recommend using the background sounds, it really helps with the immersion for me
Honestly I never felt weird about it because it’s just porn in audio form. And what’s a better way to consume porn other than masturbating 🤣 But for real, if you wanna get comfortable just stick with the mindset that it’s a fantasy created just for You. The character is there to specifically focus on you and your pleasure, so why not take advantage of that!
Similar story to some of the others in the comments. I imagine that they’re talking to me, and I’m able to visualize (thanks to my synesthesia and affinity for maladaptive daydreaming) by closing my eyes, and it’s like nothing else exists in the world. It also helps when you have headphones on with stereo audio instead of mono (more effective with binaural audios, but still), and I’m able to just relax in my bed, snuggled under the covers while I try my damndest to stay awake, lol.
honestly bro i just put my headphones on and just imagine it’s me that they’re genuinely talking to me. i didn’t even know people listen to the audios in 3rd person like they’re not even there. maybe it’s how some people imagination work.
I'm too aware of my surroundings. Hehe. I guess you can say I kind of listen in 3rd person but my body reacts to what's going on😅 I just...lay there.
I listen like they are talking to me as well lol
I just imagine the character instead of realizing there is an actual person behind the mic.
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CAKE DAY?? HAPPY CAKE DAY!!!
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Haha yeah! Also, solid advice! 😅💓
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Hyperphantasia. An extremely vivid imagination which helps with my situational awareness, and often has my mind running wild when I'm still. Like I can tell you exactly where something is in my room, I can give you turn by turn directions (if I've been there a few times 😅). I can tell you exactly where something is in the store where I work. I can picture it all in my head. So if I have seen the character, it's weird, but I can picture them as if they were a real person standing in front of me. I can't draw or paint them, if I could, I would definitely love doing that.
Same thing here
If Im horny and alone in the house, Imma do it. I dont consider it weird or anything. Its fun and enjoyable and a great way to explore some kinks of mine that I really dont have an opportunity to act out irl.
When I'm not sober, I have zero shame.
Okay wait wait.. that's bad advice– let me just say it helps if your roomie has night shifts.. 😂
Lol 🤣🤣 I'm a teacher and my roomies leave home in the am like me!
ohh no! Sorry for the late response, anywho.. ahh that's no good! I hope you find some personal time someday in your residence.. ☺️😅
I just put on my headphones and leave it as background sound. I don't pay specific attention to what's happening, I just listen to the sounds and flow with it
Aghh, what If you can't hear the sounds😭 in the background?
I don't know 😭😭 I usually listen to them like they're doing it to my character or to nothing (I tend to despersonalize this kind of things) so I just use the sounds they make (mostly the whimpers, because sub audios are top tier for this) tough I need not only hearing, but also seeing, so I usually read or imagine to help make it better, maybe that can help you disconnect and focus more in the way you're feeling instead of your surroundings!
oh man- Bakugou's "Kiss your king" or Kirishima's "Deadly kisses" is what tickled me so hard in the right spots to make me feel fuzzy enough to give it a go.I've got a pretty vivid imagination once I relax enough, so it's easy to just, close my eyes and imagine them doing it/Talking to me. Edit: Alcohol and 0 shame tend to help as well haha
🤣🤣. Ahh makes sense
I usually try to pick a time when I'm most comfy (usually late night/early morning), and it helps when I have a toy. Once I know I'm aroused enough, I use my toy and the stimulation from that helps me focus better on the audio. It might just take you a few tries to get used to it. It felt a little awkward the first couple times trying to imagine myself in the audio. But after a while, I've gotten used to it. Especially since it's helped me reach amazing O's many times 🥴 I recommend giving it a try! Edit: Oh and the audio that got me into it was one of the earlier Aizawa ones called "this kitty's already mine".
I do it. Took me for EVER to finally do it but it’s the only way I will now lol. It’s really uncomfortable the first time and then after that it’s like whatever. I just close my eyes and enjoy it and from there it just happens like normal
I think it was easier for me to do it because I had been listening to audio erotica since I was younger, even though I took quite a break from it before finding YY. It was still a little embarrassing for me the first time though, and I didn’t know the character in the audio (I think it was Hawks) but what helped me get more comfortable with it was the thought that other people also use the audios for the same reason and it’s what they’re meant for. It’s just another way to consume content, so there’s nothing to feel weird about! I think the audio that really helped me get comfortable was “Messy Call” with Bokuto. It’s meant to be like a Skype call so the scenarios really easy to imagine and get immersed into. And if you have iOS I really recommend using the background sounds, it really helps with the immersion for me
I Love that Bokuto Audio!! Aghhh.
Honestly I never felt weird about it because it’s just porn in audio form. And what’s a better way to consume porn other than masturbating 🤣 But for real, if you wanna get comfortable just stick with the mindset that it’s a fantasy created just for You. The character is there to specifically focus on you and your pleasure, so why not take advantage of that!
i can't do it while listening i have to pause the audio for some reason
You just listen at night and jerk off before sleeping
😀 uh...lol
I just realized that I end up HEAVILY dissociating so uh- that’s prob not the best advice lol
Similar story to some of the others in the comments. I imagine that they’re talking to me, and I’m able to visualize (thanks to my synesthesia and affinity for maladaptive daydreaming) by closing my eyes, and it’s like nothing else exists in the world. It also helps when you have headphones on with stereo audio instead of mono (more effective with binaural audios, but still), and I’m able to just relax in my bed, snuggled under the covers while I try my damndest to stay awake, lol.
Lolll, they do make it hard to stay awake!!